
Lets say a lover (one I have been close to and intimate) is being hesitant for whatever reasons, he is afraid, has drawn back but has strong feelings as has been shown,but he seems confused and the affair seems to be at a draw. He might be afraid of his own feelings now that he feels so serious. (I don't know why he would be feeling this way but without going through endless surmises let me assume the above. He feels right....
Would a red lovers candle be the best choice or a red nude Adam's candle? I will soon have both to choose from and I am trying to decide which would be the best choice?
I'd like to intensify the relationship into a sexual and love bloom so I also will have Kiss Me Now Oil, Bewitching Oil,Commanding Oil, Return to Me,(he drew back after he made a giant step forward) I will have Come to Me Sachet Powder and Dixie Love Sachet Powder. Interesting enough, when I ordered I intended to work on my ex. I didn't know this new man and he appeared quite unexpectedly or I would have ordered the Come to Me Oil..

My order should be here shortly and I have started a Honey Jar which has been successful. Since I started the Honey Jar, he has come forward with great intensity and then he retreated.(My candle divination showed all that has happened.) He took a big, bold step forward then a bigger step backwards...I feel that is part of the root work and I am convinced that it is indeed having its effect. (I can't express enough how amazed I am doing root work. I feel an absolutely positive feel with this as opposed to the wiccan ways (I could never get into that work fully...) Plus I couldn't get into the whole concept....I love this work....It is real....earthy.....and Catherine's advise concerning love work is so self respecting ( Thank You for that, Cat)....This work makes you believe in what you are doing....
I have studied what I could concerning both the above candles. Do you have an idea then of what I can do when I receive the candles? I feel I should work with the Lovers candle. I am not sure of the exact ritual. I also have the Adam candle. Maybe both would be good. I followed advice for a proper alter. Can you point me in the right direction?
Thanks very much. I repeat myself when I say that this forum is much like a family table...And I would like to add that the staff has been so helpful when I have called regarding my order. They are most helpful and I commend them very much. (My candle temple lighting (for another issue) went extremely well. I will be ordering a lighted vigil candle as well soon.) Which one do you recommend for this situation also?
Thanks again,