Spells to Attract Friendship, Attract New Lover, Enhance New Relationship

Chagrinedgirl · Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:27 am

Hi all, I've recently started a new romantic relationship, and while it's a bit early for serious love work, I'd like something to help bless it and keep things going positively. Also he's a forest service firefighter, and I'd like something I can work for him to give him a little extra protection on the job.

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:23 am

Starting a new relationship off with some blessings and conjure work is always nice. I suggest that you start a honey jar between the two of your to keep things sweet and loving.
Read about honey jars here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Lucky Mojo offers a honey jar spell kit, I believe too.

Then there are a bevy of products that you can incorporate!
There are the Love Me Spell Kit and spiritual supplies:
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

You can work with two lodestones, one representing him and one representing you. You can bring them together over a 7 day period and then once they have connected, put them in a bowl underneath your bed. Find out more about lodestones here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... oneattract
(The above page is talking about attracting a new love, but it can be tailored to an existing love)

I recommend the following formulas for keeping the love and romance and sexiness alive:
http://www.luckymojo.com/kissmenow.html (for passion)
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html (I LOVE this scent)
http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html (when you need to compel him to be cooperative and pay a bit more attention to you)
http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html (the marriage formula if that is something that you are interested in)

There are so many small tricks that you can use to keep love alive between the two of you. The honey jars and lodestone suggestions are more long-term workings, but you can also dust you mattresses and box springs with any combination of sachet powders taken from the formulas above (use an odd number like 3 or 7), feeding your man your mensturual blood is a time honored technique for ensuring closeness and fidelity, and if you go to Lucky Mojo and search for love spells you will get tons of information.

As far as your question about safety and protection. I would combine Fiery Wall of Protection ingredients with John the Conqueror and Master of the Woods, since he *is* a firefighter this is especially appropriate!
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html
http://herb-magic.com/master-of-the-woods.html

good luck!
Bri

J Simulcik · Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 10:34 am

Bri wrote:As far as your question about safety and protection. I would combine Fiery Wall of Protection ingredients with John the Conqueror and Master of the Woods, since he *is* a firefighter this is especially appropriate!

It's a spiritual prescribed burn! (Deliberately set fires to clear an area of fuel in order to protect structures/areas from wildfires) That's awesome! Also, don't forget St. Florian as the patron of firefighters and the maltese cross as their symbol.

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:09 pm

J Simulcik wrote: Also, don't forget St. Florian as the patron of firefighters and the maltese cross as their symbol.

Hey, I did not know about St. Florian, thanks for sharing that!
Bri

J Simulcik · Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 12:24 pm

Bri wrote: Hey, I did not know about St. Florian, thanks for sharing that!
Bri

Dad was a firefighter!

Chagrinedgirl · Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:52 pm

Thank you both so much! Looking through all the great products and information on the site I wasn't sure which products to go for, especially being a rootwork newb. I think a mojo bag with the roots you suggested would be perfect for protection, and it can't hurt to give even the fiestiest gents a little 'nature' boost

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:57 pm

The mojo bag sounds good, you could add a small lodestone to his bag and create a bag for yourself with the lodestone's match so that the two of you will always be drawn to one another. Tell him the bag is for protection and to wear it on his person always. I would also start a honey jar as J suggested for the two of you, and burn vigil light for closeness, love, and sex.

good luck to you,
Bri

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:46 am

Hi,

I just want to say a big thank you to Ms Cat for the reading this morning. It was very comprehensive and I was indeed very enlightened and empowered after having the reading done. I am in awe of her patience and honesty (she is unlike other any other readers that I know who will tell you certain things in order to please you or wanna take more money outta you)

It really brings tears to my eyes when she told me that in one of the cards, she sees a woman sitting alone in her single bed, crying and feeling trapped and hopeless cos that is exactly me!!! She is really this good and I am so amazed and glad that I called, and will definitely go to her for future reading - Thanks again Ms Cat!!

The cards read that I should do some work to attract a new love into my life and I would like to seek some guidiance with regards to which spells would be most appropriate and 'strong' in this case?

Could anyone also tell me more about the cut and clear spell? Does it cut that person away from one's life or it helps to cut oneself emotionally from that person?

Thank you all for this wonderful forum, it really serves as a very useful tools for those who are seeking spells work but doesnt have a clue about it

Leah Rivera · Unread post by **Leah Rivera** » Sat Mar 07, 2009 8:10 am

The cut and clear spells are here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Enjoy.
Lara

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Sat Mar 07, 2009 6:15 pm

Hi,

Can anyone please advise on the spells for new love please.......

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Sat Mar 07, 2009 7:36 pm

Hi Lara,

Thanks for your kind advise.

May I verify with you that there is this step in the cut and clear spell whereby one needs to be naked throughout while performing the spell, even to discard the spell residue outdoor after it. My question is, it might not be appropriate to do so - at least from where I am coming from - you'll be caught for parading around naked in public lol! Thus discarding the spell with full clothes worn will that affect the spell effect at all?

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:10 pm

nemesis wrote:Hi Lara,

Thanks for your kind advise.

May I verify with you that there is this step in the cut and clear spell whereby one needs to be naked throughout while performing the spell, even to discard the spell residue outdoor after it. My question is, it might not be appropriate to do so - at least from where I am coming from - you'll be caught for parading around naked in public lol! Thus discarding the spell with full clothes worn will that affect the spell effect at all?

It's perfectly fine to do that part of the spell with your clothes on.

Mary

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Mon Mar 09, 2009 5:24 pm

Hihi,

I've been waiting for reply regarding spells to attract new love, for did not receive any so far.....can anyone please advise me so I can arrange to pruchase the necessary from Lucky Mojo? Thanks a million

EcleckticMama · Unread post by **EcleckticMama** » Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:32 pm

Start here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#candlelove

There is a lot on love-drawing in the online book.

Also listen to miss cat on Mona Magic. The link is in February's newsletter, which is linked in the announcements section of the forum. She describes the lovespell she used to draw her husband nagasiva to her.

The lodestone kit includes love drawing information.

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Mar 10, 2009 6:51 am

Hi there,
There are also a few other formulas you you might want to check out for love drawing work:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html (if you are a woman or a gay man)
http://www.luckymojo.com/kissmenow.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

good luck,
Bri

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:00 pm

nemesis wrote:Hihi,

I've been waiting for reply regarding spells to attract new love, for did not receive any so far.....can anyone please advise me so I can arrange to pruchase the necessary from Lucky Mojo? Thanks a million

The Come to Me spell kit or Come to Me bottle spell is great for this. Instead of putting a specific name on the Come To Me petition paper, you can put "perfect partner," "perfect husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/lover/whatever."

Happy hoodooing!

Mary

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:29 pm

Good afternoon,

I would like to know what is the best spell to cast to attract someone who you are attracted to, when you have a picture of them, but don't know their name.

Thanks

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catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:26 pm

When it comes to what is "best," that's like picking a puppy. Everyone has different ideas.

Any of the attraction spells for love can work with a picture. Just write on it, "the man i want" or something of that sort. I once perfomed a successful love-attraction spell for an unknown man with just the words "my future husband" and no picture, written on a small piece of paper. We've been married almost ten years now.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 2:21 pm

catherineyronwode wrote:When it comes to what is "best," that's like picking a puppy. Everyone has different ideas.

Any of the attractrion spells for love can work with a picture. Just write on it, "the man i want" or something of that sort. I once perfomed a successful love-attraction spell for an unknown man with just the wods "my future husband" and no picture, written on a small piece of paper. We've been married almost ten years now.

I love that Catherine! Thank you very much!

catherineyronwode · Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 11:01 pm

White candle Love Spell is here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#candlelove

Lodestone Love Spell is here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... oneattract

Three Candle Love Spell is here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html#3candlelove

Graveyard Doirt Love Spells are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... attraction

Longer list including more love spell pages is here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#red

Good luck!

alley · Unread post by **alley** » Fri May 15, 2009 7:04 pm

Dear Friends: I am new to this spiritual journey and have done my own reaearch and investigation.
My question is how to you obtain a new mate if you do not know his name or face. I am single 56 yr white female. I have taken a break from relationships for the past 2 years after healing from the turmoil of a past fiance that left me hurt, emotionally and spiritually drained and financially depleted. During these last 2 years I have engaged in personal healing and have become stable within myself. I take care of my own matters with responsibility and sound judgement. I exercise, eat right and use personal goals to better myself. I have invested in spell casting (caster and Vodoo priest) for help but with no outcome, only costs and expenses.

I am capable of being alone and being productive; however, being lonely and wanting the companionship of a mate is still one thing I long for. I know what I want in a mate and I have examined my expectations to what would be healthy for both of us involved. I live in a small town and it seems the prospects are slim. I do not want an addict or needy, irresponsible mate.

What can I do to attract love when I do not know where to go or what to put a face or name to.

Your help and comments and suggestions will openly accepted.

Sincerely and thanks for all the replies.

I will take all into serious consideration.

Turnsteel · Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Fri May 15, 2009 7:22 pm

I would go with an Attraction spell. You can buy an Attraction spell kit here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html You could also use a lodestone to draw a lover, or just about anything, but the Attraction spell kit comes with everything you need to cast a spell to draw what you want in a lover or mate. When you cast the spell get good and specific about what you want, a man with money, one who will be attentive, or one that will leave you alone when you want it.

alley · Unread post by **alley** » Mon May 18, 2009 6:38 pm

Thanks for the information. I was able to look up the attraction spell and I will order this to enhance my desires of the appropriate mate.

Thanks for the time to write to me.

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Tue May 19, 2009 9:19 am

alley wrote:Dear Friends: I am new to this spiritual journey and have done my own reaearch and investigation.
My question is how to you obtain a new mate if you do not know his name or face. I am single 56 yr white female. I have taken a break from relationships for the past 2 years after healing from the turmoil of a past fiance that left me hurt, emotionally and spiritually drained and financially depleted. During these last 2 years I have engaged in personal healing and have become stable within myself. I take care of my own matters with responsibility and sound judgement. I exercise, eat right and use personal goals to better myself. I have invested in spell casting (caster and Vodoo priest) for help but with no outcome, only costs and expenses.

I am capable of being alone and being productive; however, being lonely and wanting the companionship of a mate is still one thing I long for. I know what I want in a mate and I have examined my expectations to what would be healthy for both of us involved. I live in a small town and it seems the prospects are slim. I do not want an addict or needy, irresponsible mate.

What can I do to attract love when I do not know where to go or what to put a face or name to.

Your help and comments and suggestions will openly accepted.

Sincerely and thanks for all the replies.

I will take all into serious consideration.

Hi Alley,

What you are requesting is actually quite sensible and is actually a bit easier, due to not having a name.

I have seen great results with the Come to Me spell kit, where you put "future mate" in place of a name. Also Fast Luck with red candles is great for this endeavor too. As HailDiscordia mentioned, the standby of the Attraction Spell kit is wonderful too.

Look at the spell kits mentioned and see which one resonates the best for you.

Good luck!

Mary

alley · Unread post by **alley** » Tue May 19, 2009 12:18 pm

Thanks to the both of you for the insightful view you have provided. I will certaintly obtain all the kits needed as you suggested.

Question: should I do each spell seperately or can they be done in conjuction with one another?

Thanks

Alley

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Tue May 19, 2009 1:03 pm

alley wrote:Thanks to the both of you for the insightful view you have provided. I will certaintly obtain all the kits needed as you suggested.

Question: should I do each spell seperately or can they be done in conjuction with one another?

Thanks

Alley

Well, I would choose one kit. I would read over each kit and see which one hits you. I would do the kit during the waxing, or new moon since you are bringing something to you and before sunrise.

I would do one kit first and if that one does not show progress in the right amount of time, then I would try another one.

Good luck!

Mary

alley · Unread post by **alley** » Tue May 19, 2009 5:56 pm

Thanks again. Well it now time to purchase and get started. Wish me luck.

Alley

Lukianos · Unread post by **Lukianos** » Tue May 19, 2009 7:39 pm

Hi Alley--

alley wrote:Thanks to the both of you for the insightful view you have provided. I will certaintly obtain all the kits needed as you suggested.

Question: should I do each spell seperately or can they be done in conjuction with one another?

I would second Mary's recommendation to choose and work with *one* kit. And FWIW, I tend to think of "Come to Me" as a more specialized variety of Attraction (focused on love, as opposed to the more general love/money/luck of Attraction).

Good Luck!

mimiso · Unread post by **mimiso** » Fri May 22, 2009 12:43 pm

Hello All!

Is there a spell that can be performed for a first date, met a cute intelligent guy over the internet.. i want that person feels those ''fun feelings'' and the sense of intrigue with me. I'm going on an online date, and I want it to feel nice, smooth and not awkward when I meet him personally!

Also any spells to delete shyness and enhance and open communication, humor and thought would be great, too!

I look forward to all suggestions!

Thanks with love,

Ami

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun May 24, 2009 7:54 am

Hi Ami,

I would wear a blend of Attraction, Crown of Success, and a love formula condition oil on my person and have an Attraction vigil light burning while you are on your date either at your house or if that is not feasible, at Missionary Independent Spiritual Church.
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html

good luck,
Bri

amanda 7555 · Unread post by **amanda 7555** » Fri May 29, 2009 7:21 pm

What do you recommend for a woman who wants to find a handsome, financially wealthy, politically powerful, intellectually stimulating sugar daddy? Someone who can introduce me to the right people and opportunities to help me elevate myself financially and socially, while sweeping me off my feet. Any suggestions will be much appreciated. Thanks.

mimiso · Unread post by **mimiso** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:50 am

Thanks Bri...lol I'll try it all and see how it goes.. when ordering these spells from LM, would you say it's enough stuff for or to be used on other situations as well, like i still want to use some of the attraction stuff for work

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 3:52 pm

mimiso wrote:Thanks Bri...lol I'll try it all and see how it goes.. when ordering these spells from LM, would you say it's enough stuff for or to be used on other situations as well, like i still want to use some of the attraction stuff for work

Oh yes, all of the products that I recommended to you are excellent to have on hands for all kinds of situation. Attraction products are especially versatile as they can be paired with other formulas to draw many things to you (lovers, money, etc)

Good luck,
Bri

demiann84 · Unread post by **demiann84** » Thu Jun 11, 2009 6:37 pm

does anyone know of a simple love spell/attraction spell? There is a guy that ive been eyeing, and i just wanted something that would make him notice me. He is a customer that comes innto my store alot, so i see him fairly frequently. any suggestions are appreciated!
Thanks,
demi

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jun 11, 2009 9:23 pm

I would recommend using a come to me candle fixed vigil candle from lucky mojo or an attraction vigil candle fixed. Those would be the simplest, and they come with prayers.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

cabriellenil · Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:44 am

Dear Everyone

I wonder if anyone has tried sprinkling sachet powder, or dripping used bath water from your target's workplace/home to your place, so they'll be drawn to you? Given that it's walking distance between the two places.

Thanks.

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Thu Jul 02, 2009 5:35 am

Both are actually very old tricks. They are done when you are trying to get someone to come to you.

Mary

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:32 pm

What is the best vigil candle to burn to draw a same-sex unknown lover to you?

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Thu Jul 02, 2009 2:43 pm

I would think a pink candle charged with intent would do fine for this purpose. Most of the Wiccans I've met wont even do love/attraction spells with a target in mind, and suggest using pink or red candles for the attraction of a new lover. According to the LM website pink is best for romance and attraction and red for passion. There's also LM Lavender Love Drop oil that could be suitable for this purpose. I wonder if you could use Come follow Me oils as well, depending on the sex you're trying to draw.

Good luck, hope that helped.

L

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:08 pm

maduro01 wrote:What is the best vigil candle to burn to draw a same-sex unknown lover to you?

You can use the Lavender Love Products or the Come to Me products for this.

Mary

Nijoli · Unread post by **Nijoli** » Tue Jul 21, 2009 3:58 pm

I have also found it effective to bury a shoe of theirs (anointed with Return to Me oil or the like) under your doorstep pointed towards your door. If you have access to their shoes, this is was proven winner with me.

cabriellenil · Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Tue Jul 21, 2009 4:00 pm

thanks. but i live in an apartment building with concrete floor =(

rickets · Unread post by **rickets** » Thu Jul 23, 2009 11:53 pm

You can mix they're foot print or dirt from the house they live in and mix it with the powders, sprinkle it around your door or in the concrete area.

elphaba · Unread post by **elphaba** » Sun Aug 02, 2009 10:38 pm

1st off - I'm not trying to find my soulmate or future husband..... so now detailed spells for that.....I'm not specifically looking for that

However, I am single, and have been for a quite a while

, and there aren't many guys crossing my path...at least they're not approaching me or feeling a "more than friends" vibe as one guy put it. I've apporached a few guys but things seem to fizzle or there there's a lack of connection

I'm looking to bring in/attract some POSITIVE attention from the opposite sex and get a few dates out of it....

Suggestions..... I don't have a specific guy in mind or a specific length for the relationship(s) but I'm definitely DONE w/ this dry spell of singleness....(stop laughing Ruby Shoes)......

Z

rickets · Unread post by **rickets** » Sun Aug 02, 2009 11:39 pm

Theirs so much you can do. I don't even know where to start. I'd suggest a loadstone spell for an easy way to attract, the basic loadstone ritual is on the luckymojo site.
Use it to attract someone your interested in, put notes of the qualities you want in a man around it and someone will show up, you can also do "look me over" if you want guys to be interested in your physical appearance. Theirs a lot of traditional conjure rituals that can be done to attract and get love and achieve what you want, look at the past lucky mojo radio broadcasts on the site, as many people have shared attraction and love rituals on those.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 3:05 am

Hey Elphaba,

PM me I know of a few attractions spells for this. Just PM since it would be against lucky mojo rules for me to post them.

Turnsteel · Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:12 am

Get the Attraction spell kit, you can use it to draw just about anything to you.

Miss Bri · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 12:47 pm

As HD said, the Attraction spell kit can be used in numerous ways.
You can also combine LMC's attraction formula with the appropriate formula for your specific desire (so if you need money, do attraction+money drawing/prosperity/wealthy way, if you need love do attraction + a love type formula, success: attraction+ crown of success, etc, etc)

good luck,
Bri

Miss Ida Lundin · Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 11:22 pm

Fast luck and Kiss me now lines also come as spellkits and there are suggestions for spellwork on the pages about these formulas to. Also Look me over is used to get attention from men. So any or all of these three formulas would probably be suitable to combine the attraction spellkit with.

Chesireeyes · Unread post by **Chesireeyes** » Tue Aug 04, 2009 5:31 pm

Hey elphaba,

In addition to all of the magical suggestions mentioned here, don't forget to work on the mundane level. Make sure you do things to make yourself feel better/more attractive, if you don't already, like getting your hair and nails done, shopping for clothes, etc. And put yourself out there! Whether it means going to the gym or becoming a member of an online dating website. You basically want to be in places surrounded with lots of people in order to increase your chances of finding a mate.

Good luck!

keeperoftherubyshoes · Unread post by **keeperoftherubyshoes** » Tue Aug 04, 2009 5:37 pm

Listen to the replies, but I'd get the new job situation settled first- i would be very sad if you found a fantastic guy & then had to work a long distance relationship...
And I wasn't laughing, I was cackling my friend

Candi · Unread post by **Candi** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 8:47 am

Can someone give me some suggestions please?

I have an online profile on a dating website, but I am not getting the attention that I want from the type of men that I am attracted to. How do I get these men to notice me, be attractive to me, and want to talk or get to know me on this website? I have a lot of LM oils like Come to me, Attraction, Follow me, but will these work to attract love online or in person only? Do I need to try something else instead?

Thank you.
Chancie

jwmcclin · Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 9:40 am

I have read on this forum where oils were used in this manner...maybe someone will give you some examples of how they were used...

cabriellenil · Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 9:53 am

i think you can borrow some ideas from this thread on increasing online business here:

spell-to-increase-sale-of-pod-books-t557.html#p2722

use the love oils and candles instead

Turnsteel · Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 9:54 am

Well dressing and burning candles with Attraction to draw you unknown lover is always good, dressing the four corners of your keyboard and screen very very lightly with Attraction oil is also a good idea. When you do work like this be open to who is sent to you, what I mean is you do work to draw your perfect unknown lover to you online, but you might meet him say at the store, or through friends,or at work. To me it seems like the more broad you make the spell the easier it is, that's why it can be such a pain to get someone that one person they have fixated on.

Candi · Unread post by **Candi** » Sun Aug 16, 2009 4:52 pm

Thank you Cabriellenil and HailDiscordia. I usually use the oils when I know that I will be meeting a lot of men at a gathering, but I also want to increase my luck with the men I meet online. Thank you for providing that link.

Tabbylove17 · Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:43 am

I'm looking for any suggestions on candles to burn for my friend. Here is a quick overview.
1. My friend all her life has felt unattractive (mainly because her parents and ex's have put her down).
2. She is 40 and she is dating men that are in their 20's.
3. She isn't really open to the idea of dating closer to or maybe a little over her age (**shrug** I don't know why).

My goal is to bring more self love to herself because I feel that if she loved herself more then she will attract the men that will love her they way she wants to be loved. The other goal is to open her to the possibility of dating men closer to her age if not a little older, so then she could attract more varieties of men. Does that make since; did I explain it ok?

Would I have to get 2 candles or could I take care of both goals with just one?

Thank you.

Turnsteel · Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 4:30 am

Blessing candles for her and Attraction to,well take a guess.

starsinthesky7 · Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:23 am

I would do some healing work on your friend to heal her from the hurt done by her parents and her ex. But let her date men that are not her age, as long as she knows what she likes and what she is getting into that is none of our business. Now what I would do is attract QUALITY men, that have a job, or what not. So do an attraction spell to get that rolling.

Literarylioness · Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 7:43 am

Tabbylove17 wrote:I'm looking for any suggestions on candles to burn for my friend. Here is a quick overview.
1. My friend all her life has felt unattractive (mainly because her parents and ex's have put her down).
2. She is 40 and she is dating men that are in their 20's.
3. She isn't really open to the idea of dating closer to or maybe a little over her age (**shrug** I don't know why).

My goal is to bring more self love to herself because I feel that if she loved herself more then she will attract the men that will love her they way she wants to be loved. The other goal is to open her to the possibility of dating men closer to her age if not a little older, so then she could attract more varieties of men. Does that make since; did I explain it ok?

Would I have to get 2 candles or could I take care of both goals with just one?

Thank you.

I would do a white skull on your friend and a white female figure on her to heal her. You also must make sure she has taken an uncrossing bath, 13 herb, to cleanse her of negativity. She will never bring anything good to her while she feels that way.

You could attract wonderful men for her, but if she is spiritually wounded and unclean, she will not even notice them.

Work on healing and cleaning her, before trying to attract a man to her.

Mary