Hi ConjureMen,
Yes, it makes sense, thank you.
But you mentioned the vinegar jar, which you do somehow different, then what I got from this forum. Based on what you said, what I read from other threads and from
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
I got this idea. Although, maybe any kind of variation would be Ok, depending of who is doing and what kind gift and talent this person has. Since, I have none; I would try to do as much as possible to the”perfect version”.
Here what I got:
1. Cut lemon in 2 halves. Put each halves on the pin or nail backwards to each other, but not allowing these 2 halves to touch each other. So have lemon halves to be at each side of nail.
2. Put 9 pins, 9 nails, 9 needles.
Question: Do I need to put needles also, if not handy?
3. Write their name on 2 pieces on paper 9 times. Black for person to get away. Red for person to stay with you.
4. Write a petition paper
Question: The style should be like that: I want them to fight with each other and separated for a while? Should I emphasize, that I want? Or should I ask: Please, make them fight. Word play is important in Magic, since it based on words. So I am asking somebody, Or I just stating my intent?
5. Put everything in the jar. Fill with vinegar. Add red, black pepper, salt, sulfur.
6. Variation some broken mirror, hair of cat and dog.
7. Throw the bottle in the river, bury at their door step, brake at the crossroad. Maybe put in the dark closet, according some people here. But I want to keep jar nearby and shake every day, like in the Shake up bottle spell.
8. I may use also some Confusion oil, since I already have it.
If possible I would not use candles. I am not good with them anyway. And I do not want to be seeing with them. But if necessary, I will.
Questions: This I am not doing for love. I just want to emotionally hurt this person, who hurt me and some other people. I want to make him weak, since love is most important part of his live. He bought his love, like he bought everything else. His wife is 35 years his junior. I bet she is cheating on him, since sex is one of the most important things for her, according her chart. But this is not my business. I look at their astrological charts, and there no way she has any emotions toward him, except financial. The wife is not a nice person according astrology. But it is again not my business, looks, that they worth each other.
But I do not want them separate or divorce. I do not want this on my consciences.
Anyway, I think she would leave him eventually. But again, I do not care about that either.
So I do not have to use black ink to write their name for them to separate? What ink to use?
People on the forum wrote that after that necessary to wash up with hyssop or sea salt and read Psalm 51. I do not have time to order 13 herbs bath. And I do not know, if I would find hyssop. I want to finish that on waning Moon, which is now.
I want to shake this jar for a while and then release. Let them get back or do whatever they want. My intent not to break them up, just to hurt him and demoralize psychologically for a while. So he would become a human again.
How I could dispose this jar without final intent, which most people have for this spell? After I make him weak, I want him to keep promise he gave to me. He could help me, but now he used a rude excuse not to. I did some work for him for free. I would not mind work, since I love anyway that. But he is the only one, who could help me in my project at that moment. Of cause, he is not only one, but he knows people I need. He has a lot of things of his disposal. And this would not cost him money. Only couple calls to connect me with people I need to talk. For me this extremely important. So I thought after I make him weak, I would use bend over oil and herbs to make him help me and keep his promise.
ConjureMen, since you are so knowledgeable in this craft, would you, please just give me points, if I got it right?