I should clarify, the sexual relationship is DEFINITELY NOT the emotional connection. We have had numerous soul searching conversations and have admitted to each other that we care greatly about the other. The sexual part is just the icing on the cake.

He revealed that he knows a lot more about me than he ever let on in the past.
I actually did try to give him some menstrual blood tricked red velvet cupcakes or strawberry muffins this Tuesday, but he didn't want any sweets. I'm reluctant to send anything food wise through the mail, and there's the chance that I won't be able to hand deliver it to him.
The mug doesn't necessarily have to be a Valentine's gift, it's just something comical between us that is a shared memory/joke. So I thought it to be a good time to send it to him. It could be sent before or after, or anytime.
The history between us goes back 10 years as I said. And for 2 of those years we were involved in a very passionate relationship, but at the time we both had other primary partners. We were just unable to deny the chemistry that was there and always has been there between us.
I've viewing this as our second chance to really fulfill our potential.
luckycat13, yes, I have a honey jar and a picture box going on him, as well as the 4 figure candle spell relating to ending his "other" relationship or relationships.
So, you're saying take some of the honey out of the spell jar and use it? Just making sure ... I thought it was ill-advised to open a spell container after the intention has been set.
Thanks!