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Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 6:41 pm
by theusurper
can i use hotfoot powder to move out my son out of my house. don't make me wrong, this is the problem, he is separated from his wife few months ago and he moved to my house without permission. i talked to him and he asked me for 1 month but is already almost 2, the problem is i think he has somebody else and he doesn't want to get back with her, and for him is more easy stay here,i feel that my privacy is misused. i want to know if this is something dangerous for him.i don't want hurt my son but i need that him move out.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:57 pm
by thelightfantastic
To my knowledge hotfooting someone doesn't hurt someone, it just makes them move. I actually don't think hotfoot would be great in this situation anyway. I would first do some controlling or commanding work to get him to do what you want. Failing that, I suppose you could try something a bit more forceful like hotfoot but I would first look into controlling/commanding spells.

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Posted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:39 pm
by Devi Spring
I was thinking Separation might work here - to get him to peacefully "break up" with his living arrangements.

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Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 8:34 am
by Turnsteel
thelightfantastic

Just wanted to say something here. HotFoot can hurt, it gets them burning to leave. Its not a pleasant experiences and the circumstances that cause the person to move can be dramatic. A powerful HotFoot can if so desired leave a person walking all there days, finding no place to settle, never having a home for long.

If you want to move someone out and you care for this person, or do not want them to hurt more then they must then take a look at Banishing and the like.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 10:59 am
by theusurper
thank you,HD, even i dont want my son living with me, i dont want to hurt him, is my son.i'll try banishing products, thank you

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 4:52 pm
by thelightfantastic
HailDiscordia

I meant it was unharmful from a physical aspect. If someone doesn't want to do something to begin with, more times than not, the result will be dramatic and unpleasant.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 9:29 pm
by ski
I have a brother that has lived with me over 2 yrs now he doesnt bring nothing but negitivity and has a bad attitude. He sleeps on my coach and is always mad about something. I want him to get out but i want him to have a place and a job can anyone help me on this.

Bless Be
Ski

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 9:45 pm
by starsinthesky7
Hot foot him away from you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Help him get a job

Do a road opener and some steady work

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 9:48 pm
by jwmcclin

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Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 9:51 pm
by IBMagnet
Your brother may have emotional/hormonal issues. That is my current dilemma with m sister. she never goes out unless there are urgent necessities. She can get violent and is extremely negative. She doesn't live with me. She lives with my father but her aura and the magnitude of the situation occupies us all. She is mainly the cause of my unhappiness, seing her like that is sad. We tried a series of things but the biggest dilemma is that SHE refuses to seek help. It's a control and manipulation issue.

I read this forum daily for anything other than hotfoot. Maybe that is something you want to look into.

As far as healing, I read somewhere in the forum that it's not safe to do magic on people with mental disorders. So, get a reading to see how best to help your brother and or yourself. The other scenario is to get professional evaluation for him.

It is hard to help people who don't want to help themselves and who aren't sufficiently grateful for all the love and support they are given.

Family is both blessing and curse. In my next life, I wish to be an only child or an orphan. It is just easier to deal with strangers. I would hotfoot a stranger in no time. With a relative, I wouldn't get past the guilt.

good luck

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 11:21 pm
by ConjureMan Ali
Hotfoot may be a bit harsh, but its up to you if you want to burn at his heels like that. If you are mad enough hot foot is what you want.

You might also use a gentler conjure like Banishing products, might use a skull candle to get into his head that he needs to move out, or you may even place a doll baby of his in a jar that you toss into a river to have him walk out of your life.

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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 5:22 am
by ski
WOW Thank you for all this good info. I want him to get out but with him having sucess but i think the hotfoot is a little to harsh because i do want a relationship with him, just with him not in my house. I thank you for all the good insight. LM & Cat & Staff are all so wonderful i will probly need to call the store for some ingredents to get this moving...

Thanks to all...

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 5:38 pm
by Prettykila
I love my sister, but she has lived with me for too long. She moved into my residence during the summer and the initial setup was that she was only staying here for a month while she waited to get the approval on her own house. It is now January. She does not contribute to the income, she has lost two jobs within the time living here *over a six month period* I am only 22 yrs old, I do not make a ton of cash, and cant really support her. She is 32. Is there anything I can do to gently remove her? I have asked her to get another job and to stay with another friend but she says that I am family and I need to take care of her. Uh. Uh. No ma'am. Not to mention that I cannot bring company over because she is always "comfortable" and has the nerve to tell us to be quiet while she watches her tv show! :o :? Can anyone suggest a traditional hoodoo spell? I know of one that involves putting 3 matches beneath the persons bed to get them to move but this spell also gets them in trouble with the law. I wouldnt want to do that to get her out. I cant even be intimate with someone here because she is always around and complains about everything. I recently had company on thursday night and she said she didnt care if my company was God that her sleep was more important! Gah. Any help is appreciated.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 5:48 pm
by Devi Spring
You can use the Seperation line of condition products to get her to move out peacefully. You could make a bottle spell with some of her concerns surrounded with Seperation powder and Controlling herbs, dressed with Seperation and Controlling oils - shake it daily while telling her to move out. Put a tiny amount of those oils on doorknobs or other things that she will touch, or you could use the Seperation bath crystals to add to the rinse cycle of her laundry so that she is constantly dressing herself in it.

You could also use two figure candles - one named for her and dressed in her zodiac oil, and one named for you and dressed in your zodiac oil. Each day move them further apart. You could have a Seperation 7-day vigil candle burning in the back of them, forming a triangle of manifestation. Keep the jar that you made in the middle once there is space between the two figure candles. Work that whole thing every day and you should see some good movement.

There's alot of different things you could try. I'm sure some other workers on here will have some other ideas for you!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 5:51 pm
by jwmcclin
Cedar wood chips are used in such cases (found here) http://herb-magic.com/cedar-wood-chips.html

You may want to search the forum for an ammonia bottle...if I remember correctly was used in a similar situation as you described.

I understand that you want something less coercive.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 10:14 pm
by ConjureMan Ali
I'd create a Commanding and Banishing bottle. Take her personal concern and put it in a bottle with a mix of Banishing products and Commanding products and command her to move out. What you can do is burn a purple candle with Banishing and Compelling Oil (to make her make good on her promise to move, you can also use Essence of Bend Over or Controlling Oil), command the candle to add heat to the bottle, tell her she's feeling the heat and pressure on her and that she needs to leave. A good trick is to waft a bit of the incense of your choice (again work with products mentioned) into the bottle while telling her that feels the pressure building on her. This is a gentle, but firm way of getting out.

Consider also helping her out on the job aspect so that she has the *ability* to move out on her own.

Finally, you can work with her footrack to make her leave gently. If you find a foot track of hers that is entering your house, use a tool to lift the foot track (try to keep it intact) then reverse it so that it is walking away from your house. Sprinkle a bit of Banishing Powder and she'll walk right out of your home. Similarly, you can grab her foottrack and mix it with Banishing/ Separation powder and then sprinkle the mix at each crossroads until you've "walked" her out of town. You can also sprinkle Banishing and Commanding Powder around your house or her room to help infect her feet with your intention.

Also consider washing your front walk way with a mixture of Black Pepper and Salt and you use a broom to sweep her out of your home.

Good luck.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 6:57 pm
by Prettykila
All of these are great. I will bear this a little bit longer to make sure that she gets a job and will implement St Expedite in the spell to make this all go faster. Hopefully one of her friends will open up their arms once they see that she has something to contribute.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:50 pm
by theusurper
i have the same problem but i dont want to do nothing drastic. so, can i put a sock with banishing power and the oil in the bottle and shake everyday saying what i want to him to do?

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 11:06 pm
by ConjureMan Ali
You can certainly use the bottle while using the sock as a personal concern. Make sure the sock is a used one, not washed, toss it in the bottle and shake it up.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:08 pm
by LilCassandra
I'm going to a birthday party followed by an engagement party for two of my partners in a few weeks. They're concerned that one of the people attending will bring someone that no one wants there. They've warned him not to bring her, but he keeps suggesting he will. Other than an outright conflict where we all have to throw the couple out, are their ways to keep her from going?

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:10 pm
by starsinthesky7
I would put this person in a freezer jar, and in the freezer jar I would some barberry, poppy seeds, knot weed and black mustard seeds.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:14 pm
by LilCassandra
The last time we tried a freezer jar on this bitch, it exploded. I don't know if I did it wrong or what. :-/.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:20 pm
by starsinthesky7
Hmm was it a glass jar? I would try a plastic one....or you could make a baby doll with the same ingredients, and send it on its merrily way in a river. I would bind the arms and the legs together,and then I would throw it in the ocean or river.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 8:21 pm
by starsinthesky7
And make sure you include him in the freezer jar as well.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2010 9:53 pm
by ConjureMan Ali
You can mix some Barberry, Salt, and Black Pepper and sprinkle this on this person's door step if you know where they live. If you don't go to the party early and put a line across the entrance and call out that person's name saying that they are unable to cross and come in.

I'd also include these ingredients in a Freezer box to freeze that person out completely.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 1:12 pm
by suzyparker
what to do, what to do? We all know this person. they take and take and take. When they need you, you're number one. when they don't need anything, get the heck lost. What's the approrpriate handling? Cut and Clear and move on with your life? Reversal work? It's someone I've known forever and have to see every day. Way too much drama though and I'm tired of the games.

To the point I would be willing to terminate the friendship, except for the fact we have to see each other daily and that would make things even worse.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 2:01 pm
by jwmcclin
I don't waste time with this type; I just drop them, they get the picture...btw, I wasn't practicing when they were in my life, but now, I would banish them.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 2:06 pm
by Devi Spring
I personally don't keep those people in my life for very long at all. As soon as their true colors are exposed, I discontinue the relationship. I don't need any conjure to help me do that, either! LOL.

However, obviously that's harder when you work together. I've been in situations like that, and I wish I had known about Cut and Clear at the time, I tell you what!

Cut and Clear isn't going to make your relationship worse, it's just going to free you from the emotional ties that you have to that person. It makes it a lot easier to just cool things off and bring it to a strictly civil level, rather than feeling that you *HAVE* to be all BFF with this person when you see them. You could do a Cut and Clear to help you detach from any feelings of obligation to be anything more than workmates with this person, and you can do a variation on a freezer spell using the fridge to cool her off of you. Use your intent to clearly state that this is to chill your relationship out, so that you can both just be civil to each other. Use Separation products to help make the cut between you two friendly and mutual, without any hard-feelings or nastiness. You'll probably just find that they get busy with their own life and leave you out of it.

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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 2:45 pm
by suzyparker
Thanks JJ. I just came home, did a cleansing bath and started a cut & clear candle with a very specific petition. Don't want to even end the friendship, totally - just need to detach my own feelings from him. I cannot let his moods control mine or seek his approval, etc. I deserve more than that. I have been a great friend to him for years, and yet he takes me for granted and that hurts. So my cut & clear is his approval, opinion no longer matters to me. We are friends but I'm emotionally over it

PS - I just got an email from him (nice ) but I am not responding. that's the sort of thing I want to stop. I don't want to be at someone else's capricious whim. I deserve at least a 50/50 friendship. no more 90/10s

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 3:11 pm
by jwmcclin
Those type people show themselves sooner than later; handle it how you feel comfortable. When I was young I didn't practice in the 3 strike rule; but created the 1 strike rule, if you do it once you will do it again...handle your business suzyparker.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 3:19 pm
by suzyparker
Jwm , you are correct.. I like your one strike rule. that tends to be the case and I may embrace that going forward.

there are a lot of takers in the world and I'm all for giving but when I feel someone is taking advantage of me.. nope.. all done, have fun with that. I don't wish you any ill, I don't even want to end the friendship, I'm just not being your BFF when you need/want something and the "help" the rest of the time. I deserve better - we all do.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 8:18 pm
by sweetie
I'm with jwmcclin. I treat everyone as if they deserve my respect until they manage to prove me wrong. People users will always show who they are, sooner or later.

If the person keeps coming around to your house, besides the cut and clear you can also toss some salt out after them when they go to leave (to drive their evil out with them.) Some people are subtle about this, I'm not-- I'll toss it right at their heels as they are stepping over the threshold to leave the house, just a pinch will do. It only takes a few times before they won't bother coming over any more. It also works at the threshold of a gate (but might be a bit more athletic since you'd have to run out the path after them.)

Maybe someone here has an email equivalent?

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Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 9:20 pm
by misslicorice
Hi, everyone! I've lurked on this forum for quite a while. It's fascinating to read. :)
I was wondering what kind of work would be best for this situation. My mother is married to a man whose grown son wants to move back in with them so he can live rent-free, trash their house and have no responsibilities, the way it was when he was a teenager. The son is a hateful, trouble-making person. The police have come to my mother's house more than once to look for him, and I worry for her physical safety. At the very least, he will do her emotional harm with his disrespectful and foul attitude. :evil:
His father, meanwhile, makes endless excuses for him and will give him anything he asks for.
I don't want him to suffer or be driven away from his father completely (which is what I think Hot Foot would do, but correct me if I'm wrong). My main goal is to keep him out of the house. Would Fiery Wall of Protection be the best choice?

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 10:34 pm
by starsinthesky7
I would do some clarity work and wisdom of solomon to help your mother's husband make a smart decision about not letting him move back in. If you want, you can do some compelling work to make him think that this is not a good idea due to he does not pay rent nor does he have respect for their house.

For the son, I would do a freezer jar, and ask that he be frozen from their address to move in. I do not think hot foot would be totally adequate as you do not want him to be driven away from his father. If you wanted you could, do a simple controlling spell to control him from moving in with them.

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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:44 am
by tink999
Hi

Im looking for a spell to make my brother and his wife and their herd (2 little kids 1 on the way she dosent stop!) move into their own property and leave my parents in peace. They have asked nicely that they should make their home and my parents will give them some money after selling the main big house but they wont budge! (the house is under bro's name-long story)

My Brother has always been violent (so us sisters dont speak with him properly since young) and his wife makes no effort talks to my parents like crap and we cant handle that so we just dont go anymore, we also feel uncomfortable going there when they are around and parents feel lonely as noone comes over anymore not even aunts etc. He speaks to my parents as though they ae nothing some dirt on his shoe and his wife just ignores. Her mum comes and stays over for weeks and my parents feel they are living in someones elses house when they spent their whole life hard times working to make ends meet now they dont even have space or peace. Constant baby sitting being treated like shit!

Theyve asked nicely, They have also tried in an angry manner but nothing... Its time for drastic measures! :twisted:
Is there anything to make them move without feeling negative towards my parents? I have LM commanding and compelling oils too.

(I havent done any negative spell work except for freezer spell)

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2010 10:45 am
by starsinthesky7
I would approach all situations with a reading first before doing any kind of work.

In this situation, I would get some peaceful home herb mixture, and put together a honey jar so that this can bring peace to the home. This is important considering that the home is not a happy one.

Then you need to find out through your reading what would be the best way to get them out of the home. I mean you could hot foot them, or do some separation work to help separate them from your parents. In this case, you can also do some bend over work to bend them to your parents well, and have them get out of there.

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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 3:48 am
by tink999
thanks, while i get the oil any idea if freezer jar would help her freeze her and his negativity towards my parent(have read 31 pages of the thread).

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 1:47 pm
by starsinthesky7
Yes you can do a freezer spell if you would like.

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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:21 am
by tink999
Fantastic thanks, so ill get a brown paper square it annoint commanding and compelling oils on the corners and write something like "all negativity verbal and physical be gone towards them" would i put parents names or their names on paper as i dont want anyone freezing me out then fold it and put in jar with water-any herbs? Thanks
Oh
If i froze out my ex would it just make me stop thinking of him or would it just freeze any contact on his behalf or on both
Thanks alot

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 2:57 pm
by stacia
Can anyone please help?! My mother and step father arived on my doorstep one day and decided to just "move in" (without my permission.) I am married, and own my own home. They have no place to go, no jobs, and no future prospects. I don't want to take care of any more family members, (including their 2 dogs). I have a full house without them here. It is putting a strain on my husbands and my relationship. I love my mom, and dont' want her to go away mad, just go away. They have been with me for 2 months now and I just want my house back to myself. I have asked them what their plans are, but they have no answers. Any suggestions? :roll:

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 4:03 pm
by Miss Bri
Hi Stacia,
You might want to consider getting a reading on this situation with one of the fine readers at www.readersandrootworkers.org
It sounds like there are two major components to your situation
1.) Your mother and father have no money/no prospects so you need to encourage them to do money drawing and money stay with me work.
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html

2.) You need to get control of the situation--there are a number of dominating products sold by Lucky Mojo, here are a few of them:
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-do-as-i-say.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-influence.html

But again, because this is a family situation I would recommend that you get a reading and rootwork consultation so that you have a clear idea of what direction to go in and how to work the situation.
Good luck,
Bri

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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:40 pm
by senora63
I already had a reading done. I was told that my love, which is currently "on hold", would not or could not move forward with our own relationship until his adult daughter moves out of the house. She is supposed to move within the year or so. It is just she and her father in the home. They have a very dysfunctional relationship-she doesn't respect him, manipulates him, etc. Theirs is definitely not a healthy relationship but I guess that is all that they know. My question is: What can I do to help her move out sooner? Lighting a candle (what color?) with banishing oil? What other steps can I take? I can not get into their house. What can I do from here? They live a few miles away. Thank you for your guidance.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 6:41 pm
by senora63
No one? Well, I am assuming a black candle but maybe this is unethical because it is a parent/child bond? Or I was thinking possibly using the St. Expedite candle dressed with banishing oil and with my petition. Any one?

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:39 pm
by jwmcclin
Well you are definitely correct, it is a parent/child bond regardless of the situation. Since you care about her father, I would suggest that you work toward soothing the relationship between them because it will make your relationship better. I have had personal experiences with such situations and that bond is strong. Try some healing (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html) for their relationship, I see you have had a reading, did you have one with an AIRR member (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org)? The reading would have revealed exactly what is going on, the reasons why he doesn't want to move forward with your relationship...e.g., sometimes there is a guilt issue.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:58 pm
by senora63
Healing...hmmff...but I want her gone already... it was because of her actions that her father and I are not speaking now. My reading was not with an AIRR member. The issue I was told is because our relationship is "on hold". Not done forever..just on hold so he can get some stuff completed in his life. Anyways, I think I will try a St Expedite candle & oil with my petition...she is going to move out anyways..I just want to help her along..

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:02 am
by starsinthesky7
Perhaps you can do an attraction spell kit, or dress an attraction candle and attract ANOTHER place to live to her. I would get some attraction oil on a green, or white candle.

www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

If you want something less harsh than hot foot you can work a banishing products

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-banishing.html

Or you can work some essence of bend over, and/or controlling products

www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

www.luckymojo.com/controlling.html

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:20 am
by senora63
Excellent advice! I will do a banishing candle on her...maybe an attraction candle to call another place for her to go to also. Two separate candles...green for attraction..and the banishing candle? What color? Red? White?
Thank you for your guidance/advice!!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:45 am
by starsinthesky7
Banishing you can use black or white if that is all you have.

Or you can have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church light them. They do not have a banishing candle, but if you go down to the plain colored candles you can pick a black or white candle to be lit, and state that you want it for banishing along with your petition.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 7:47 pm
by senora63
Thank you. I will burn a white candle with separation oil (what I have on hand) in addition to the green attraction candle so she will find a new place. Thank you!!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:12 pm
by Lucylookingskyward
Hello, All! Hope everyone is doing well.

Without going into too much detail, I have a problem with a friend of mine. We've been friends for a few years now and I genuinely like and care about him as a person, but lately I've noticed that he's been behaving in a very unusual fashion. Lately I've been introducing him to some of my other friends, brought him around to my various haunts, etc and he's gone out of his way to become the center of attention. Not in the usual "I'm new and want everyone to like me" sort of way, but in the "I'm going to be everyone's best friend and make sure you all love me the most" kind of way. Please don't say I'm paranoid, he's already gone out of his way to show me up at various events and in front of various circles of people, and has even gone so far as to try to poach perspective mates from me on the grounds that he rarely goes out with good men, and therefor I "owe" it to him to let him have mine. (Never minding that none of the men I've been dating are gay or bisexual, he just wants the attention.)

Anyway, I've been getting the feeling that he's been evil-eyeing me or worse, and I just want to do something to make him like he used to be: a good friend, not a frenemy. What do you all suggest?

Thanks in advance for your help!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:39 am
by Devi Spring
Honestly - get rid of him. His true colors are showing, and you don't need people like that in your life. My two-cents. :)

Do some Stop Gossip work to make sure he doesn't stir up any trouble, and then use Banishing or Separation to get him out of your life.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 10:55 am
by Mama Micki
I'd also advise Cut and Clear to get over your feelings for him and clear the way for new friends to come into your life.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:13 pm
by path2success
Exactly the question i had in mind about frenemy about a good friend who is a complete opposite personality in professional life. As nice as he can be in personal life, he is exactly opposite in professional life and wants to fight with each and every person. I've tried ignoring it for quite some time but I've started to feel not so nice every time I have a conversation with him. He's sort of bringing negativity in my mind & life too. I feel bad to stop talking to him so I kept using tranquility/healing products on myself since I respected the friendship but now it has started affecting me quite a bit.

Would it be ok to use Seperation products? I feel sad for him as a friend though.I feel like helping him since he's a friend but I'm scared to tell him his behavior with people is not right as he gets obsessive and angry if anyone tries to correct him. He says no one in life has ever tried to correct him.

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:39 pm
by Noele
Hi all,

I have a bit of an unusual situation, and I hope that you can suggest some products/actions to help me with it.

My youngest sister, who is 21, has these "friends" who are, to put it bluntly, huge users [and losers]. My sister is a very nice girl and she CLINGS to these people even though they constantly abuse her for rides, money, food, everything. They also treat her like crap on a daily basis. As a result, little sister has no self-esteem, is always broke, and is gradually turning into a loser herself, which bugs the hell out of me because she's smart and nice and pretty and should NOT be this way. These people are also VERY immature and do things that teenagers would do, such as prank call people and decorate houses with toilet paper--despite being in their 20s. They've narrowly escaped the cops on several occasions.

My other sister and I have tried in vain to point out what these people are doing to her, but little sister refuses to listen to us and cries, saying these are her best friends. Thing is, little sister actually has other friends who are nice and mature and kind, but they all went off to other cities for college and as such aren't really around anymore. Little sister goes to a local university, and the loser friends don't go to school at all, and some of them don't even have jobs. I have no idea why she won't try to keep in closer touch with her nice friends, but she won't...

My question is, what can I do, if anything, to move these people away from her and out of her life? It really bothers me to see my sister constantly being picked on and always depressed and broke because of these so called "friends". They've eroded her self-esteem to the point that she has none anymore. Normally I would figure "well, its none of my business, they're her friends..." but true friends wouldn't be so cruel and abusive to someone. I feel like I need to do something to help her.

Whew. Sorry that was so long. Any help and/or advice is greatly appreciated! Thanks for reading. :D

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:50 pm
by jwmcclin
You could use Cast off Evil for your sister. Please read the entire website here (http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html) because you definitely have a bumpy road ahead. Removing the friends are one thing, but your sister will have to take responsibility for her own actions now and down the road. Good Luck!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:34 pm
by starsinthesky7
I would work with cast off evil products mentioned above, and in the mean time do some clarity, and king solomon wisdom to help her make the wise and clear decision to move on and see these so called friends for what they are. And you may want to follow up with some crucible of courage as well.

www.luckymojo.com/products-clarity.html
www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom
www.luckymojo.com/products-crucible-of-courage.html


Then I would attract some friends to her that are good and share common interests. I would write on the petition a few characteristics you want the friends to have.

www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

And lastly you can work a freezer spell to keep those friends away.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 2:06 pm
by Noele
Thank you both for the suggestions, I have a good bit of info to mull over now!

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:15 pm
by Cali_Girl
I have a family member who has kind of become overwhelming for me.

Actions have been kind, but I know this person heart is black towards me.

I feel this person is only around to use me and potentially harm me. Especially want this person to stay out of my home.

What can I do to get this person away from my home and out of my life??????

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:21 pm
by jwmcclin
This has been discussed at length, read the threads below.

Get rid of new unwanted person living in your home get-rid-of-new-unwanted-person-living-i ... 40s60.html
how can i stop unwanted people at my house how-can-i-stop-unwanted-people-at-my-ho ... 1s330.html

Re: Spells for Friend Relative to Move Out Or Move Stay Away

Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:28 pm
by Cali_Girl
MOVED OUT TODAY!

Thanks once again Lucky Mojo.

She threatened me though, so I'm having M.I.S.C. set FWP lights.

Thank You LM!