Skull Candle Questions and Answers
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Brother Christopher ,
I feel there is confusion on the work, does she want him back, does she want a new guy, does she want to move on? I feel she needs to write her petition, focus her petition to the goal of this work and what she really wants. Reconciliation work is not hard in my opinion, the demands people have for reconciliation are hard. She did state a honey jar which makes me think she wants this person back? I hope she is able to clarify. I will add a book from Lucky Mojo on reconciliation.
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
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I feel there is confusion on the work, does she want him back, does she want a new guy, does she want to move on? I feel she needs to write her petition, focus her petition to the goal of this work and what she really wants. Reconciliation work is not hard in my opinion, the demands people have for reconciliation are hard. She did state a honey jar which makes me think she wants this person back? I hope she is able to clarify. I will add a book from Lucky Mojo on reconciliation.
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
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Hi Brother Christopher and JayDee, thank you for your answers.
Thanks for pointing it out, I do feel I need to focus my work and be clearer with my intentions, and I indeed working to reconcile.
For the time being I cannot acquire new supplies so I'm working with what I have at home, only bought the white skull.
I based off the herbs on the different meanings I could gather on various sites, the usual things I relate them with (for example, coffee: a clear head, going faster, being awake; chamomile: usually taken as an infusion to soothe pain, etc.), but mostly on what I have available at my kitchen at the time.
I think I may add rose and lavender, since the message is definitely very messy.
Thank you for the psalm recommendations, I'll definitely do that.
JayDee, would you mind sharing the husband and side guy spell?
Thanks for pointing it out, I do feel I need to focus my work and be clearer with my intentions, and I indeed working to reconcile.
For the time being I cannot acquire new supplies so I'm working with what I have at home, only bought the white skull.
I based off the herbs on the different meanings I could gather on various sites, the usual things I relate them with (for example, coffee: a clear head, going faster, being awake; chamomile: usually taken as an infusion to soothe pain, etc.), but mostly on what I have available at my kitchen at the time.
I think I may add rose and lavender, since the message is definitely very messy.
Thank you for the psalm recommendations, I'll definitely do that.
JayDee, would you mind sharing the husband and side guy spell?
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cihienahualli,
Start by writing down what it is you want, then eliminate the things that do not fit with the work. Example, If you want to reconcile then focus on how I want John Doe to return to me with love, affection, romance, faithful and honest, etc. I would leave out the punishment or make him pay, that is what happens when people mix the energies and purpose and meddle the work.
The coffee spell calls for using nails and brewing coffee give one to the person and another to your love (Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic, pg 74, 2007.
Here is a link to Lucky Mojo free spells on love: https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
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Start by writing down what it is you want, then eliminate the things that do not fit with the work. Example, If you want to reconcile then focus on how I want John Doe to return to me with love, affection, romance, faithful and honest, etc. I would leave out the punishment or make him pay, that is what happens when people mix the energies and purpose and meddle the work.
The coffee spell calls for using nails and brewing coffee give one to the person and another to your love (Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic, pg 74, 2007.
Here is a link to Lucky Mojo free spells on love: https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
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Hi JayDee,
I appreciate the help, I'll modify my petition to be more specific towards reconciliation. <3
I appreciate the help, I'll modify my petition to be more specific towards reconciliation. <3
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cihienahualli ,
I understand how you feel and what you want, BUT I can tell you from countless experience people muddy the water with drawn out petitions, or a laundry list petition of what they want. Then when the guy comes back ready, they reject him for punishment, which is the opposite of wanting to reconcile! Then they complain "it didnt work", no it worked perfectly , you rejected them and made it worst/harder. Just hoping to give you some guidance on success in your work!
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I understand how you feel and what you want, BUT I can tell you from countless experience people muddy the water with drawn out petitions, or a laundry list petition of what they want. Then when the guy comes back ready, they reject him for punishment, which is the opposite of wanting to reconcile! Then they complain "it didnt work", no it worked perfectly , you rejected them and made it worst/harder. Just hoping to give you some guidance on success in your work!
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Hi! Just updating, I'm on day 3 of my skull candle and my ex just sent me an email. I was feeling hopeless because he was very mad at me, but he's being nice.
I'll keep on working it!
I'll keep on working it!
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cihienahualli ,
Great movement! Try and not focus on the day to day actions, think of this as a long working with an outcome. Sometimes in work we get focused on that moment and doubt ourselves, or feel down, but the work is doing it now and it may take time to see the results. Try not and let the wave of the day effect your determination and work. Keep working and pushing for your goal.
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Great movement! Try and not focus on the day to day actions, think of this as a long working with an outcome. Sometimes in work we get focused on that moment and doubt ourselves, or feel down, but the work is doing it now and it may take time to see the results. Try not and let the wave of the day effect your determination and work. Keep working and pushing for your goal.
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So I fixed a pink skull candle -- I wouldn't say that it was overloaded with herbs or anything, and I had intended it burn it in the 3 days leading up until tonight's supermoon. I know moon phases aren't such a big deal and that I should have meant to burn it for 7 days, I just figured I'd try it out. I have a second skull candle coming to do it more traditionally.
My problems with my ex stem more from his inability to talk about the things in his life that upset him and it drives almost all his relationships away -- friends and family too. We both have admitted that we love each other, he's just not able to be a good partner right now. He has trust/abandonment issues so what he really needs is to let someone in instead of self sabotaging everything and isolating himself. He'll start to let me in and then he gets angry when he starts to get choked up about it -- like trying to hide it with the macho stuff.
So I wrote "cry" under one of the eyes of the skull and "tell me everything" on the mouth because he really does need to tell someone (anyone!) who loves him his whole story or all that grief is just going slowly kill him.
The skull burned totally in 30 mins, which is kind of ominous. Half the lower jaw bone remained. About an hour later he called me in tears about some medical issues about his dad that we knew were coming. But he wouldn't let me come see him. He told me he loved me. Then this morning, as I was lighting a red candle on my honey jar and thinking over some things I was going to say to my doll baby, he called me just to say "Hi".
I know not all of this is great -- but it was really interesting to have such immediate results like that. Anyone have any ideas or suggestions on where to go with my second skull?
Thanks!
My problems with my ex stem more from his inability to talk about the things in his life that upset him and it drives almost all his relationships away -- friends and family too. We both have admitted that we love each other, he's just not able to be a good partner right now. He has trust/abandonment issues so what he really needs is to let someone in instead of self sabotaging everything and isolating himself. He'll start to let me in and then he gets angry when he starts to get choked up about it -- like trying to hide it with the macho stuff.
So I wrote "cry" under one of the eyes of the skull and "tell me everything" on the mouth because he really does need to tell someone (anyone!) who loves him his whole story or all that grief is just going slowly kill him.
The skull burned totally in 30 mins, which is kind of ominous. Half the lower jaw bone remained. About an hour later he called me in tears about some medical issues about his dad that we knew were coming. But he wouldn't let me come see him. He told me he loved me. Then this morning, as I was lighting a red candle on my honey jar and thinking over some things I was going to say to my doll baby, he called me just to say "Hi".
I know not all of this is great -- but it was really interesting to have such immediate results like that. Anyone have any ideas or suggestions on where to go with my second skull?
Thanks!
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Riz18,
I would reinforce the work and repeat it to continue the movement. Adding reconciliation oil, or healing and blessing oil, can be a great blend to help heal him. Keep the honey jar going as well. It is great to see quick and speedy list.
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Blessing: https://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
self heal (all heal): http://www.herbmagic.com/self-heal.html
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I would reinforce the work and repeat it to continue the movement. Adding reconciliation oil, or healing and blessing oil, can be a great blend to help heal him. Keep the honey jar going as well. It is great to see quick and speedy list.
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Blessing: https://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
self heal (all heal): http://www.herbmagic.com/self-heal.html
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Hi Riz18,
Great to see you did such a great working. Deer's Tongue Leaf is used for speech to get him to communicate. He seems that he maybe ashamed of his past, little confidence with Crown of Success. Rose of Crucifixion's is good for depression, anxiety, and Healing would be good for both him and his father.
Rose of Crucifixion - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-rose-of-crucifixion.html
Crown of Success - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-crown-of-success.html
Deer's Tongue - http://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Healing - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-healing.html
Great to see you did such a great working. Deer's Tongue Leaf is used for speech to get him to communicate. He seems that he maybe ashamed of his past, little confidence with Crown of Success. Rose of Crucifixion's is good for depression, anxiety, and Healing would be good for both him and his father.
Rose of Crucifixion - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-rose-of-crucifixion.html
Crown of Success - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-crown-of-success.html
Deer's Tongue - http://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Healing - https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-healing.html
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So I did another skull, and added "follow me boy" oil to it since it was all I had on hand at the time. This one took two days to burn and burned all of the wax completely, leaving just ashes of the petition paper.
However, a very thin layer of clear wax + oil kept burning and made a pretty decent sized flame. The resulting smoke set my fire alarm off and I had to extinguish it quickly before my roommates came looking for the source of the commotion. It wasn't black smoke and it didn't catch anything on fire. I know we can't do candle interpretations on the forum but I'm torn between this being a neutral or a bad sign. If I'd lived alone I would have just let it continue and it would have been fine.
However, a very thin layer of clear wax + oil kept burning and made a pretty decent sized flame. The resulting smoke set my fire alarm off and I had to extinguish it quickly before my roommates came looking for the source of the commotion. It wasn't black smoke and it didn't catch anything on fire. I know we can't do candle interpretations on the forum but I'm torn between this being a neutral or a bad sign. If I'd lived alone I would have just let it continue and it would have been fine.
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Riz18 ,
Fire safety is important with candle work, stuffing a candle with herbs, oils and a petition can result in this incident. After the skull is burned the face down, I put the candle out as it did the mental work needed. A clear burn is a good sign, the oil, petition and herbs, should be aligned to the work, so if you use a Follow Me Boy product then. my petition would reflect following me, the herbs would as well.
JayDee
Fire safety is important with candle work, stuffing a candle with herbs, oils and a petition can result in this incident. After the skull is burned the face down, I put the candle out as it did the mental work needed. A clear burn is a good sign, the oil, petition and herbs, should be aligned to the work, so if you use a Follow Me Boy product then. my petition would reflect following me, the herbs would as well.
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Regarding skull candles on a romantic target,should I talk to it for. a month baptized in his name before I burn it or just burn it right away for 7 days to make him think of me?
One last thing... the part where you have to pull the string to tie the knot once he responds to you calling his name.... that might be tricky. He's not very talkative especially when he wants to sleep lol. If I call his name he'll just look at me with one eye open waiting for whatever question I wanna ask him. He won't respond with "what"... so can I go into the bathroom with the string and then say his name, followed by a question just to get him to reply? And then pull the string? Or it has to only be his name I say?
One last thing... the part where you have to pull the string to tie the knot once he responds to you calling his name.... that might be tricky. He's not very talkative especially when he wants to sleep lol. If I call his name he'll just look at me with one eye open waiting for whatever question I wanna ask him. He won't respond with "what"... so can I go into the bathroom with the string and then say his name, followed by a question just to get him to reply? And then pull the string? Or it has to only be his name I say?
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DaniellaG,
There are many different ways of working a skull candle and all are correct. You can dress and prepare it then speak to it then burn it, you can burn it over several days, or you can burn it in one sitting. With skulls I prefer one day, starting on a Wednesday and speak to it as though you are him "I love jane doe". Puff tobacco into the face as you tell him what to think.
For the string, you suppose to catch him speaking not you so it ties him up. Be sneaky maybe wait till he is asleep than nudge him and say his name and when he responds pull it, then act like I didn't say anything you must be sleeping. Only his name is said. You also do not get off during this as you only want to tie his nature.
It is discussed more in this book, which is great for women work: https://www.luckymojo.com/womenswork.html
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There are many different ways of working a skull candle and all are correct. You can dress and prepare it then speak to it then burn it, you can burn it over several days, or you can burn it in one sitting. With skulls I prefer one day, starting on a Wednesday and speak to it as though you are him "I love jane doe". Puff tobacco into the face as you tell him what to think.
For the string, you suppose to catch him speaking not you so it ties him up. Be sneaky maybe wait till he is asleep than nudge him and say his name and when he responds pull it, then act like I didn't say anything you must be sleeping. Only his name is said. You also do not get off during this as you only want to tie his nature.
It is discussed more in this book, which is great for women work: https://www.luckymojo.com/womenswork.html
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Oh so you don't tell the skull candle " you will think of me and love me " etc? You have to speak as if you ARE them??? Wow I been doing it all wrong all this time I guess LOL
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DaniellaG,
Yes, the candle is an effigy, an image that represents the person, you speak as though you are the person. You are trying to influence his thoughts, imagine if you suddenly though " you will think of me" you would say, who is me and why did I think that? Speak as though you are his thoughts first person. Try and have what you want in a repetitive statement as you do the work. When the candle burns out bury it in the backyard to keep him.
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Yes, the candle is an effigy, an image that represents the person, you speak as though you are the person. You are trying to influence his thoughts, imagine if you suddenly though " you will think of me" you would say, who is me and why did I think that? Speak as though you are his thoughts first person. Try and have what you want in a repetitive statement as you do the work. When the candle burns out bury it in the backyard to keep him.
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thanks so much for that!!
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Hello DaniellaG,
I've moved this conversation to the subject of skull candles, as it was veering off topic in the other thread. Please stick to only one topic per post, to keep each conversation focused for the folks who come here for ideas.
As for how you would word your petition for your skull candle, do be careful to keep it in the present tense. If you want him to love you, state it as if it is happening now. Rather than saying he "will" love you (which is a point in time in the future), petition for his behavior in the here and now - "he loves you," "he thinks of you often," etc. Otherwise you may find him always wanting your desired outcome but not acting on it.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I've moved this conversation to the subject of skull candles, as it was veering off topic in the other thread. Please stick to only one topic per post, to keep each conversation focused for the folks who come here for ideas.
As for how you would word your petition for your skull candle, do be careful to keep it in the present tense. If you want him to love you, state it as if it is happening now. Rather than saying he "will" love you (which is a point in time in the future), petition for his behavior in the here and now - "he loves you," "he thinks of you often," etc. Otherwise you may find him always wanting your desired outcome but not acting on it.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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I would like for my ex gf to reopen contact with me. I have 3 yellow Control candles lit right now and have the 1st of of the 2nd set of yellow Control candles being lit tonight. I have a practitioner that does my work with me.
I had a skull candle done for me by my practitioner, who suggested using 9 nails to put in top of the of a purple skull candle.
The love skull candle my practitioner will use is going to be lit next week. My practitioner has the candle on a bath for 72 hours before it is lit.
I'm new to this. Any advice?
I had a skull candle done for me by my practitioner, who suggested using 9 nails to put in top of the of a purple skull candle.
The love skull candle my practitioner will use is going to be lit next week. My practitioner has the candle on a bath for 72 hours before it is lit.
I'm new to this. Any advice?
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andydtheman --
Without knowing the details, just going by what you have mentioned here, this sounds like a traditional skull candle spell. The use of purple wax marks it as 20th or 21st century in style, but before there was coloured wax, such candles were made and used.
My only question is this: Is your practitioner sending you any products to use yourself, such as return or reconciliation herbs, roots, or spiritual supplies for you to use as teas, baths, floor washes, or in the laundry, or amulets or talismans for you to wear or carry? Many online practitioners do not send this sort of material anymore, and rely only on their own altar work to produce results.
These free web pages from AIRR may answer some questions you din't even know you had:
AIRR: Suggestions For Clients
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/S ... or_Clients
AIRR: Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Q ... ure_Doctor
AIRR: Outcome Times in Reading and Rootwork
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/O ... d_Rootwork
AIRR: Contract: Sample Text for a Contract to be crafted between a Client and a Practitioner
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Contract
AIRR: Don't Get Ripped Off by Fake Psychics or Phony Spell Casters
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Fake_Psychics
AIRR: How to Navigate the AIRR Site
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/H ... _AIRR_Site
Good luck!
Without knowing the details, just going by what you have mentioned here, this sounds like a traditional skull candle spell. The use of purple wax marks it as 20th or 21st century in style, but before there was coloured wax, such candles were made and used.
My only question is this: Is your practitioner sending you any products to use yourself, such as return or reconciliation herbs, roots, or spiritual supplies for you to use as teas, baths, floor washes, or in the laundry, or amulets or talismans for you to wear or carry? Many online practitioners do not send this sort of material anymore, and rely only on their own altar work to produce results.
These free web pages from AIRR may answer some questions you din't even know you had:
AIRR: Suggestions For Clients
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/S ... or_Clients
AIRR: Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Q ... ure_Doctor
AIRR: Outcome Times in Reading and Rootwork
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/O ... d_Rootwork
AIRR: Contract: Sample Text for a Contract to be crafted between a Client and a Practitioner
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Contract
AIRR: Don't Get Ripped Off by Fake Psychics or Phony Spell Casters
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Fake_Psychics
AIRR: How to Navigate the AIRR Site
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/H ... _AIRR_Site
Good luck!
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