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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat Sep 28, 2019 9:28 am

Hello Simcata,

You may need to do more than one spell to break them up. If you're burning candles, add a break-up jar. Do contact work on one or both of them while you're working remotely on breaking down their relationship. Layer your work and you may see better results.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Simcata » Sat Sep 28, 2019 11:16 pm

Thanks Miss Athena. Is a break-up jar like a vinegar jar?

What is contact work?

What I'd really like is for one to find someone else to become obsessed with and lose interest in this person. Preferably the cap woman shes not the one with a long history of overlapping relationships.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Sep 30, 2019 5:53 pm

Simcata,

I'm not Miss Athena but I'd like to point you in the right direction. A vinegar jar is to sour a person's life and a break up jar is for separating two people. They use different ingredients as well. Break up jars can be full of nasty stuff so they fight ruthlessly with one another.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Oct 01, 2019 6:33 pm

Hello Simcata,

To answer your other question, contact work simply means work in which you get your target in contact with your ingredients such as sachet powder or oil (lightly dressed on the palms of your hands, for instance.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by MrsSchaeffer2020 » Fri Nov 01, 2019 2:26 pm

I am doing breakup work. Presently I have:

A vinegar jar I work Tuesdays and Saturdays at the hour(s) of Mars. The petition is for them to fight every time they come into contact, hate and breakup forever.

An AIRR reader is burning a run of BreakUp vigil candles.

Last week I buried a lemon breakup spell from one of the LM books in a graveyard.


I honestly can't think of anything else to do since the vinegar jar is ongoing and the run of vigil candles may be extended (based on necessity).

However, since as above it was stated that a breakup jar is different from a vinegar jar, should I add that to the rotation? All suggestions are welcome. Thank you.
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Unread post by FiachnaCybele » Fri Nov 01, 2019 2:38 pm

Hi MrsSchaeffer2020,

Since you've already done a spell AND are working with an AIRR rootworker who is burning Break Up Vigil Candles for you, I'd suggest checking in with your worker before doing anything further. At this point, you'll want to look for signs and movement to see if your work is going well. How long have you been working your Vinegar Jar, and how long has your rootworker been burning candles?

Sometimes more is just more and things need space to breathe and develop. You can always come at your break up work from a new angle if you're seeing negative signs or not seeing any movement after a few weeks.

Also, if you find yourself obsessing about the work, rather than focusing, you might want to do a cleansing bath and then some protection work. That way, you know you'll be calm, collected, and focused while the work is going on, and have the very best chance for success.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by MrsSchaeffer2020 » Fri Nov 01, 2019 3:34 pm

Hi Fiachna Cybele!

It's all relatively new work. The vinegar jar is about 2-3 weeks old. The AIRR worker lit the first candle on October 22. The lemon breakup was done and buried last week.

I am seeing the unusual name of one of the parties several times a day as well as am hearing breakup songs all the time (on the radio) since beginning the work. Movement I am not sure abut since something significant did occur, but I am not sure what spurred it.

I wouldn't say that I am concerned or obsessed. I am all about doing things correctly the first time so it doesn't have to be done again.

I do a salt bath every first of the month to keep myself clean so if I am feeling subconsciously anxious that I am not aware of, that should end tonight.

Thank you for your brilliant advice as usual.
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Unread post by FiachnaCybele » Sun Nov 03, 2019 12:46 pm

Hi MrsSchaeffer2020,

It sounds like you're getting both great positive signs and some movement, and early on, too! That's also great that you are cleansing regularly.

If you do feel later on like you'd like to come at the work from a different angle, Terra Rising mentioned above that Vinegar Jars usually have a different purpose from Break Up Jars. You can read about Break Up Jars here:

https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

There's also a great thread here about looking for signs/omens and movement, so you can tell whether or not a spell is going to be successful:

signs-omens-movement-completion-of-spel ... t6436.html

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Unread post by MFear » Sun Nov 10, 2019 5:19 pm

Hey. I am working on a love spell for someone and me to be together, but he is with someone else. Is there an easy breakup/divorce spell I can do (without hurting all parties involved), without doing a lot/using a lot of stuff in them? I like using 7 day jar candles and petition/name papers, and looked into using lime, lemons, and honey/vinegar/other jar spells. Anything I can do involving those. Again I don't want to cause harm to anyone involved. Their kids, family, friends, or anything they like. I want them to agree that they need to breakup/divorce and remain friends. I want to be excepted by everyone and everything involved and not be a problem. Thanks

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sun Nov 10, 2019 5:52 pm

Hello MFear,

I would work with Separation products in this case, which help to bring about a more peaceful parting. This can help you foster a less explosive, argumentative break up, which sounds right for your situation.

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I hope this helps. Good luck!
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Unread post by MFear » Mon Nov 11, 2019 1:20 am

Thanks. Do you know any herbs to use or is this something that can only be done by special oils and powders. Also can I use the powder in the candle or do I would it be best to out it on the petition paper when I fold it up to put under the candle. Also if anyone else is involved or trying to, can I add them onto it.

Also is there a way I can stop him or anything around him from knowing I am doing this? Also protecting me and my spells from any harm that can come to them. Something like an all in one thing. I am burning a sage incense and a sage and dragons blood smudge stick, but was wondering if there is anything more I can do, without doing a lot. Thank

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Unread post by FiachnaCybele » Mon Nov 11, 2019 9:27 am

Hi MFear,

If you're looking to simplify things, I really do recommend following Miss Athena's excellent advice, and getting some Separation Oil for a simple candle spell:

https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-separation.html

You can use two candles that you name for either party, dress them with Separation Oil, and slowly move them apart over the course of several days, as you burn the candles down.

As for individual herbs, you can always do the Lemon spell mentioned in this thread, or use red pepper or vinegar, but those are harsher methods which will cause fighting and arguments and a "sour" breakup, which it sounds like you don't want.

A good way to keep your work invisible is to place four bay leaves around your work, one in each corner of your altar, which should keep eyes off you and protect you.

I hope that helps!
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Unread post by MFear » Mon Nov 11, 2019 10:37 am

Thanks. Do I have to use two candles and are they jar candles or other candles. Thanks

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Unread post by FiachnaCybele » Mon Nov 11, 2019 11:36 am

Hi MFear,

That was just one idea. You can use two candles if you wanted to do a moving candle spell, or you can just dress one candle of your choosing with Separation Oil and burn it on top of a petition paper. For more ideas, please read through this thread and see what other folks did for their spells.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Nov 11, 2019 11:37 am

MFear,

Yes, the two candles represent the two people separating. Pillar or chime candles are recommended since you can dress them with Separation oil directly. With jar candles, you would be dressing the glass.

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Unread post by MFear » Mon Nov 11, 2019 12:23 pm

Thanks a lot.

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Unread post by MFear » Mon Nov 11, 2019 6:40 pm

When I put on my petition paper to for them to agree to divorce and remain friends, can I put on it that everyone and everything involved will except me. I am doing this, along with my love spell with him. Would I have to do that or would doing the separation and doing the love spell at the same time, work with each other. On my love spell I do have to remove everything that has come in-between our love. I am thinking or writing a new one, fine tuning it. Will that restart the spell or would it continue it? Thanks

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Nov 11, 2019 8:57 pm

MFear,

When working for your target's separation, you would leave your name and anything about you out of the spell. The focus should be on drawing them apart. The love spell will involve you and the one you desire. You could do a Block Buster spell for you and your target after you start the separation spell. This would help remove some of the obstacles. I'm not sure what you mean when you mention restarting a spell you could work them simultaneously (cleansing spiritually after the separation work). I would recommend the following plan:

1. Separation: Break up the targets using whichever method you have been planning on. Get this work going for the waning moon, decreasing the love in the relationship. Make it just about them and everything else should fall into place.

2. Block Buster to remove any obstacles for your relationship to your target. This could be a bath with Block Buster herb mix and lighting a Block Buster vigil afterwards.

3. Love drawing: After working the separation and completing the Block Buster during the waning moon, I would start your love spell on the waxing moon to draw him to you. Just make sure you cleanse thoroughly after the separation work.

This is how I would work this situation. I take a very systematic approach, planning out the steps and nailing the timing if possible.

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Re: Breaking up Long Term Relationship, Engagement, or Marriage

Unread post by konstanta » Tue Nov 12, 2019 12:32 pm

Hi, could one do a break up spell for a couple, when you have only one party's personal concerns?

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Unread post by FiachnaCybele » Tue Nov 12, 2019 1:02 pm

Hi konstanta,

Are you able to get a Facebook picture, or create a name paper for the other party? If you can get a name and a birthday, that's excellent, and a picture is even better. If you can't get any of that, you can put their name on a paper to represent them, or if their name is unknown, create a name paper for "That evil bitch," or whatever is appropriate to your situation.

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Unread post by konstanta » Wed Nov 13, 2019 1:42 am

Thank you FiachnaCybele!

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