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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by selenitepower » Mon May 14, 2018 2:56 pm

Thank you Sister Jean. I will follow your advise. I read on the forum that sometimes when we make it too specific it can become difficult to bring into existence? I would love to know your view on this because I was quite specific and then I cut it down to true love with a handful of qualities so that I don't cut my chances of bringing this man into my life.

loabeliever

When you did your spell did you make a petition with the qualities you are looking for? Also I read you put the lovers card on your vision board. Isn't the lover card also indicative of choices? Maybe this is why you are getting ex's and past love interests coming through. I am new to spellwork so can't give much tips but this is something that crossed my mind when I read your post.

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Tue May 15, 2018 10:33 am

selenitepower- Hi! thank you for your reply, and omg. I never thought of it that way ...Interesting point. I never really used tarot in the past - so i wanted to try something different but hopefully someone who is more experienced than us can clarify,. I never knew the lovers card represents Indicative choices... Thank you for sharing! I am now thinking if i should revise the layout or remove the lovers tarot. Tonight is a new moon so i already plan to cleanse and revamp my alter to give it that extra boost of love but ya Lets see what the professionals advice. Thank you again Selenitepower ! wishing you all the best in your spellwork:)

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by RevJames » Tue May 15, 2018 12:03 pm

Loabeliever -

I'm a little unclear as to why/how you did a honey jar. Usually honey jars/sweetening works are done when you have a particular person in mind, and from your posts it sounds like your trying to attract someone completely unknown and new.

You want to look for products and works with the key words of "attracting a new/unknown lover" such as Come To Me - http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html - the page states "but they are[/]may also be employed to attract a new or unknown lover, to draw him or her to one "out of the universe," as it were."

Other products w/ works that may be of interest:
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html

Not love specifically but, attracting:
http://www.luckymojo.com/magnet.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

As for the ex's that are still popping up - I would suggest doing another cut and clear working. Another very important aspect of cut and clear work is said on the C&C page in Ms. Cat's personal story (which I highly suggest you read if you haven't! http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html ) - "and we no longer see each other or stay in touch via email or telephone". Don't just sever the energetic ties, as it were, sever all of the ties to these men, don't allow any connection. Be it via social networking, phone, email, etc.

Also on the C&C page is this spell which seems to fit your situation perfectly: "A MAGIC SPELL TO DESTROY YOUR PAST CONNECTION TO A LOVER OR FRIEND AND DRAW A NEW AND BETTER LOVER OR FRIEND TO YOU IN THE NEAR FUTURE (THE CUT A[N]D CLEAR SPELL)" (I would work this on the most recent relationship, to cut and clear any fresh wound and connections)

As for a tarot card that jump out at me:
Knight of Cups - a "knight in shining armor", arrival of someone to "sweep you off your feet" - Knights = Oath = Commitment - Cups = Emotional/Love

I hope one of the many works on these pages helps guide you to your new love and good luck!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by Sister Jean » Wed May 16, 2018 9:36 am

Thanks, RevJames!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Wed May 16, 2018 10:30 am

HI RevJames ,

Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post,Sorry i didnt specify what the honey jar was for-The honey jar is just for myself, so its the center vocal point of my spell work. Its a sweeten jar for all things i want, Its a general honey jar with general petition such as: Let my money be sweet to me, let my lover be sweet as honey to me, let my family be sweet to me, I am sweet and loving to myself.

My petition for love is worded as "My husband", "My true love", "The one god created for me" . I never specified a person. As for the cut and clear work, i have read Miss. Cat's story - and will do it again as you advised, but what i meant by feeling bad for rejecting men that keep popping up inlcuding my exes is not because we are in contact but more because i just feel bad ignoring an acting cold towards people i have no interest in. I blocked all my exes from social media and my phone but ya.

I have attraction, magnet, come to me, and love me bath crystals that i will use. I appreciate the recommendations you made i will take a look at those products as well.

As for the tarot card , thank you for sharing, do you think i should keep or remove the lovers tarot from my vision board? I wonder if thats whats causing all the exes to pop up..

Thank you again!

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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by RevJames » Wed May 16, 2018 11:28 am

Loabeliever -

Ahh I think I understand what your saying about your honey jar - something akin to "A JAR FOR SWEET WISHES" as mentioned on the honey jar page. Thanks for explaining ^_^.

I guess what i'm not understanding is that if you don't have contact with these men from your past - why do you feel bad for rejecting them? You mean you feel bad for the past rejection? Either way I would still work another cut and clear as you still seem to have emotions for these men and you don't seem to want them. I understand feeling bad about it, and especially the "what might'ov been" but like the C&C page says, they obviously didn't serve you, or your highest good/potential. Sometimes doing a work once isn't enough, which is why when you are given a working by a rootworker they sometimes tell you do work it over multiple day, weeks etc. You mention multiple men, perhaps set a schedule where you can work a cut and clear working on each person that seems to be "popping back up" in order form most recently dated, to the one you dated further back in the past. That way by the time you get to the oldest love, you'll probably have forgotten or moved passed those "bad feelings" for the most recent, which is probably the hardest to let go of.

As for the men that come in that you have no interest in but still feel bad for rejecting, You might wanna look into maybe Healing - http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html - or Tranqulity - http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html - products to help sooth that inner turmoil. You may even look into Crucible of Courage - http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html - to help give you the courage to meet these new men without the fear of negative feelings should they not measure up. "Crucible of Courage [...] will set the scene for having a discussion with someone which you have been putting off due to anxiety about the outcome." or in this case, anxiety about the situation of letting them go easily to begin with.

Make sure you use the bath crystals in a beneficial order, like telling a story - "Love me" is one product that is again for a specific person, one you already have in your sights. - http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html - "that is, they are not used to attract a new or unknown lover."

Magnet/Attarction (general drawing, with emphasis on love - to bring you opporunity to meet new men) -> Come to me (darwing, love specific - for when you go to meet these new men, or when you go "out with the girls") -> then Love Me (Love, specific person - for when you meet someone you wanna "lock down")

The same goes with your tarot vision board layout: Knight of Cups (arrival of a man) -> Lovers (having a relationship) -> Maybe 4 of Wands/10 of Cups (Marriage) -> Ace of Cups (Your cup runneth over, love in abundance)

If none of this seems to help in the long run, it might be a good idea to get a consult from someone at AIRR (Maybe Cat since she did your reading and knows your situation) and see what might be best for you to do. http://readersandrootworkers.org/

Hope this cleared things up!
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Re: Spells to Attract Friendship, New Lover, New Relationship

Unread post by loabeliever » Wed May 16, 2018 1:05 pm

RevJames!

Wow., you broke that down really well for me, thank you ! I can now see where i am going wrong or misguiding my spell. The anxiety is probably something thats causing the most hurdle in my progess, i need to tweek a few things for sure. I will first start with cut and clear and do the love spells after without the love me products.

Thank you so much for answering my questions again.:)

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