Why I did it -- I was with a guy who just cut me off without reason and blocked me from the phone but continued to follow me on instagram. Weird. I blocked him from my page but once I had some time to think about possible conjure or walking away I unblocked him so that he could contact me. We are not friends on there but he can see my page.
Everything was going so great and we even booked a trip together then suddenly out of the blue nothing.
I decided to do a honey jar after some soul searching and decided to go with my higher self and what I was lead to put into the conjure. I have always had good results with my work so I did what I was lead to do.
Before I did that I did a penis candle a few days ago and i gave it my intentions. I saw three signs in less than a day :
1- i pulled a book off the shelf that happened to be published in the town he is from.
2 - i saw a message on my time line that said "what if your ex boyfriend contacted you right now and said i love you i want you back" what would you do?
3 - my friend contacted me and his ringtone came on.
Today I went into my messages on insta (before sending him any new ones) and he was reading the old ones (I saw the little eye icon on them

QUESTIONS --- The couple candle is almost finished burning after only being lit 5 hours. I messaged him on insta and said no hard feelings and hope to hear from him. Then suddenly his side of the candle's flame went super high while mine stayed the same. I saw he was reading my message but didnt reply. Then hours later the two wicks twisted together and became one and then the flame shot up. It is still burning high. I think these are positive signs that he will reach out. What do you think? And should I burn another candle after this one goes out or just leave it? (Not trying to skip getting a reading -- just want to know in general).