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Unread post by awdmoon+ » Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:45 am

Thank you Catherine,
Great Information. Yes, I can order everything I need now. About him, He is a nice person and loved me and treated me well. He was in a boring, controlling, nonsexual, no out going, no holiday/vacation, no fun, marriage. from his word, he had a brother sister lived together in a roof life. After he met me , we had almost everything common,compatible. But then he started his boy life that he did not had before. Now he is behaving like a 20 years old boy. Now he is free divorce man. now he can fly freely anywhere. This create problems in our relationship. I don't like this boy life as we are adults. I want to have a family life with him while enjoying our life together with his kids and my kids and his grandson. His ex knows that we travel lots together and he is happy with me. Then she prohibited that i can't go when his grandchild go on vacation with him.only he and grandchild can go , i am not allow to go. same thing happen with the wedding. He doesn't want hurt his ex wife's feelings. Other than he is a very good kind person in his heart. that's something i like him and we had a great relationship. But if he is not mean to be with me, I should let go. But I know he still has feelings for me and he is there for me to help me anytime if i asked. He has good qualities that i like. But I don't want to be his second woman if his ex wife come first. I just want to give another try.
Thank you Catherine, You gave me opportunity to look at this relationship again and think is he the person. However I want to see I can save this relationship if not i will do closure do something to heal my self. But I won't give up with out trying.

Oh I had to go to the court with my nephew, that's why i had o leave mojo bag at home because of checking in that security. But I keep it with me all the time.
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Unread post by ajbloves » Thu Jul 26, 2018 7:42 am

Hello, I am new to this site but I have read through a lot of this thread. I was wondering if it possible to have an ex return after 5 + months? My boyfriend broke up with me; saying while he cares about me very much, that is as far as his feelings were going. It hurt very badly and I was (am) devastated but we did not break up with anger or ugly words. We were very kind to one another. He said he appreciated that he could be 100% himself with me and that he loved our sense of humor together. We got along very well while we were dating too. We were thoughtful of one another and there for each other. We never fought. I told him I loved him but I could not be stay in touch or be friends, as I needed to cut off communication in order to move on. He said he would respect that, although not his preference, and he has. Other than a text wishing me a happy birthday in March, he has not reached out to me. I emailed him once to thank him for a program he had referred me to when we were dating and he replied very politely to my email. That was it.

It's been 5 months, and I have tried to move on, release him, pray and I have recently gone on dates with others BUT I only want him. He's a wonderful person and I just feel in my heart I do not want anyone else.

I do not have anything of his other than a picture.

Is there anything I can do?

Thank you for your suggestions/help.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Thu Jul 26, 2018 9:58 am

Hello ajbloves,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. I'm sorry you are experiencing this hurt and sadness.

In your case, I would suggest getting a reading to find out if you have a chance at drawing this guy back. You can find good readers here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Then go from there.

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Unread post by ajbloves » Thu Jul 26, 2018 10:26 am

Thank you for your reply, Sister Jean. I will definitely look into getting a reading.

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Unread post by awdmoon+ » Thu Jul 26, 2018 11:39 am

Hello,
1. After i done with my mojo bag, I would keep it with my body and should i walk around where my boyfriend live?
2. I have a picture of his penis, Can i do anything with it? ( he e mailed to me few years back while he was drinking with friends, took that pic in the washroom)
3. Can i put catnip water around his building where he live and walk? If it, how i prepare catnip for that?

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Unread post by awdmoon+ » Thu Jul 26, 2018 12:13 pm

Hello,

I read through here. I want to know what is the different of love honey jar and reconciliation honey jar?

I am doing a honey jar for my boyfriend, broke up with me. I did not add load stone in it. I add personal concern and all other herbs and pic petition and burning red candle.

I want to reconcile with my boyfriend. So should i make a another jar as a reconcile with load stone?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Thu Jul 26, 2018 3:35 pm

awdmoon+

A love spell of any kind is to encourage and foster love and make it good.

A reconciliation spell of any kind is one that helps you forgive, overcome arguments and fights, and get back in each others' good graces again.

Because the situations are different, the ingredients in the oils, baths, washes, teas, incenses, and powders are also different for each situation.

A lodestone is to draw someone or something to you. Lodestones are used to attract what is wanted in spells of love, reconciliation, money, and even real estate.

I think you would understand this better if you would read my book "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic.'


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Unread post by thewarning » Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:10 pm

Hello everyone,

I have four questions about the Lucky Mojo Reconciliation Spell Kit. The first two questions are also general conjure questions.

1. When doing work before dawn (as told to do in this spell) can that be anytime before dawn? For example, if dawn is 6:00 am, can the work be done anytime earlier like Midnight, 1:00, etc..? Or should the work be done close to dawn like 5:00 am?

2. When writing/carving full names, should the middle name be used? Are petition papers & candles more powerful, less strong, or no difference when using or not using the middle name?

3. This spell says do each morning. Should all nine days be done before dawn?

4. The instructions say you can put the lodestones under your bed or bury them. I was wondering as another option if they can be used in an oil lamp?


Thank you very much for your time.

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Unread post by Ernie » Tue Jul 31, 2018 5:00 pm

thewarning --

1) Before dawn would be just as the sky lightens, not right after midniht.

2) That is your decision. Some people also add the birthdate.

3) Yes.

4) Yes.

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Unread post by thewarning » Wed Aug 01, 2018 4:24 pm

Thank you

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Unread post by Ca_gurl84 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 12:14 pm

Hello. I'm in a dilemma. I was involved with a guy that now we're barely speaking. He has a lot of female friends, one in particular he speaks to. We had an argument before and he confided in her. Next thing, he totally stop calling and texting. She's from the island and knows about voodoo. I got a reading done and was told a woman gave him menstrual blood either through food or drink. I know that itself is powerful. Not sure if there's anything that can reverse what she did to him to get him back to me. If there's something i can do, I'm lost at what to buy. Please help. How can i get him back and get rid of her. Turn her away from him. I'm not sure who the woman is. So i can't buy a candle because i don't know who's name to write on it. What can i do.

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Unread post by j82 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 1:56 pm

Ca_gurl84,

I would start by reversing work on him to get anything she put on him off, wear fiery wall of protection on you. You can still burn a break up candle when you dont know the other party involved. May want to do a reconciliation spell kit to bring him back to speaking terms and soften him to you along with a honey jar to keep him sweet to you.

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Unread post by Ca_gurl84 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 9:04 am

Thanks. I appreciate the advice but can someone please be specific on what i need to buy.

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Unread post by j82 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 9:33 am

ca_gurl84,

First get a reading by a worker to see exactly what you need for your specific problem. Issue is no two situations are alike, yet everyone wants to come to the site get the stuff without the importance of a reading. The reading is like a doctor diagnosing you with an ailment. Would you take medicine without knowing the cause? Of course not. Secondly I can provide a link of the general items that would be recommended for this type of work along with other resources you may purchase.

TO book a reading: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

Break up to end them: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-break-up.html

Cast off Evil to break her control on him: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-cast-off-evil.html

To protect you and him: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-fiery ... ction.html

To reconcile: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-reconciliation.html

Love me honey jar to sweeten him to you :http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... ve-me.html

Book filled with hoodoo spells to use candles for all causes: http://www.luckymojo.com/artofhoodoocandlemagic.html

Book on uncrossing and breaking influences: http://www.luckymojo.com/deliverance.html

Great book on breaking relationships up of any kid not just love : DESTROYING RELATIONSHIPS
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Book on Reconciliation: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturnan ... pells.html

Book on using honey jars: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyandsugarspells.html

Book by Cat on using herbs in hoodoo filled with spells: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooherbmagic.html

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Unread post by Ca_gurl84 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 12:55 pm

j82 --

I already gotten 2 readings about this.

What i do know is a woman from the island put her blood inside his food or drink.

What i also know is she done something to me because i been feeling physical pain which i know he probably discussed with her.

That's why i wanted to know

1) which kit to buy to reverse what she did to him with her blood

2) what to take to cleanse myself of physical pains she put on me

3) what to do to turn him back to me.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Aug 06, 2018 1:24 pm

Ca_gurl84 --

1) We do not sell a Reversing Kit, but you can read some free reversing spells here and pick out the ingredients you need to do those spells:

http://luckymojo.com/reversing.html

2) I recommend the Uncrossing Spell Kit, or its components. For ideas, see

http://luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

3) I recommend that you start with TWO things -- a Reconciliation Spell Kit and the book "Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells." At $9.00, the book is cheaper than the spell kit and will provide you with many, many spells, some of which are simple and some more elaborate. See:

http://luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

and

http://luckymojo.com/hoodooreturnandrec ... pells.html
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Unread post by kmd3121 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:45 pm

Hello! I am new here to Lucky Mojo but have been following and buying oils, candles, incense for 3 years now.

My recent boyfriend chose to "leave me" after I reacted to my mother being recently diagnosed with breast cancer. He claims to have wanted to tell me his feelings about how I react to trauma (shitty things happening to me in my life) for some time but chose this time to say he didn't want to stick around, even after I apologised profusely.

I started a honey jar and thought it was working.... then I'm not sure if it really has been. I have also been burning red candles, pink candles, red cat candles, and chuparrosa ones as well. I recently bought a road opener candle (to open a new road to a new relationship) and I just bought a block buster one to crush through the obstacles that he is trying to lay in place of us reconciling. I also just bought some dove's blood oil as well.

I am trying my hardest to stay positive and manifest our love back because he does love me.. and loves my mother too..., but I was recently told by him to not contact him anymore until he "heals and feels ready to contact" and that he needs "space and time".

Could I have some tips OR advice for this peculiar situation?

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Unread post by radiantblush » Mon Aug 06, 2018 9:29 pm

Hi all, it has been months since I last wrote a post for advice. Things has been developing till a point that we talk almost every day, and he calls me whenever possible, as if nothing has changed. A skull candle spell that sister Jean did for me, the idea is already starting to form in his head and putting into action. He's still with the girlfriend, and I have no idea if the break up work is starting to work or not.

I'm here to look for advice on laying tricks. Because very soon he's coming to see me and spend 10 days with me. I would seize every opportunity to lay tricks and of course, collect his personal concerns.

So here are my questions: (he works at sea and remote areas, and he has separate luggage for work in the field and time when off, and the only things I can think of that he would always carry with him no matter where are his cameras, laptop and hard drives and all the accessories that go with them)


1) I read here that one trick is to sew my pubic hair into the inner seam of his pants, will it work if I sew it into a camera strap?

2) Has anyone has experience regarding smearing anoint oil onto digital products, such as the laptop, or camera handle where he would touch? Would the oil stay on or will it be invisible? or would it be better to sprinkle sachet powder?

3) I strongly felt that the ex/gf did some work to separate us, I kind of got the sense she sneaked her menstrual blood into his food at some point. I was thinking about using uncrossing bath crystals for a bubble bath to cleanse whatever work she has done on us. But my concern is that, maybe it will also undo the spells I did to separate them? is it better to leave that uncrossing part out?

4) While laying tricks of love products such as follow me boy, stay with me, fire of love into his items before he leaves, is it also possible to lay tricks to separate them? (because right after he's here with me, she will be waiting for him on the other side of the world at the airport to spend time with him). I was thinking maybe on his last day here, I would sneak some dark products into his underpants t shirts and such to heat up the arguments once he's there with her. Would it contradict with the love work i also lay. Can I do both or should I just focus on the love products?

Thank you in advance for your help.

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Unread post by j82 » Tue Aug 07, 2018 9:44 am

radientblush,

1. The idea is to sew into his pants where his penis is to effect that, another trick is to sew it into his hat so you are always on his mind. I dont think a camera bag would have the same results.

2. You can dress with oil but be very light, do not put it on the screen or glass part it will smear. Powders work very well on bags and clothing. You can dress the camera where his hands would hold it with the oil.

3. If you can get him in a bath with you, I would use love me now, fiery love, something of that nature. uncrossing should focus on the spell she put on him if you petition it clearly and with proper intent.

4. I would not mix love me and break up into his stuff at the same time. If you plan to wash his clothing prior to leaving then you can dress them while he is here, and dress them for his break up when he gets home.

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Unread post by luckygal » Tue Aug 07, 2018 1:13 pm

Hello everybody,

I'd like to apologize if I am posting this to the wrong column, but I was searching and searching and couldn't find the answer.
I've been luckymojo fan for many many years and I ordered some oils and herbs in the past and they always worked wonders for me.
this is my situation.
I am going through separation with my husband right now. I have done some work and I see results. Which is great. The things are getting a bit better and he calm down for sure.
This is my dilemma. I am going to see him on Thursday. He will get our son to stay with him for awhile. Do you guys recommend anything to do when I see him. for example, wearing some drawing oils, or do some ritual before I see him. I didn't see him in 2 weeks and I want to remain calm I just need assistance if anything else could be done.

Thank you so much

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Unread post by blessings4u » Tue Aug 07, 2018 8:43 pm

I want to apologize ahead of time if I post incorrectly or in the wrong place. I am just all of the place with sadness and so lost at this point.

I want my husband of 23 years to leave the woman he is with and been living with all these years to come back to me and stay with me.

I have been married to my husband for 23 years. Soon to be 24 in September.

In 1999 the company he worked for moved and he moved to a different state. I stayed here in our home in a different state to take care of my dad that died of cancer, my mom and sibling and his mom and thought he would come back here. He and his boss were sharing a place while the wife of his boss also stayed here. His Boss retired and my husband stayed in the other state. He would come home on the weekends which is a 3 hour drive and would wash and iron his clothes. I was not able to stay with him as I would go visit him and he would come on the weekends to me.

All of a sudden he said a female person was storing her washer and dryer at his in the other state. This was years ago. I thought, "Why not put it in storage?"

We slept together in 2009 and I got pregnant but lost the baby. I have not been intimate with him since.

Then he stopped coming home, except he did come home in 2010, 2011, 2012 for Christmas and only stayed for a few days and returned to the other state. He did not come back in 2013 at all.

He only came back in 2014 when one of his relatives passed away. He was on one couch and I was on the other.

He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. I kept asking to come up to see him and he would not let me, but he could always come here anytime.

He has not been to see any of his family or his sick mother for Christmas or Thanksgiving since 2014. I was trying to take care of her and my family over the holiday and he always said he works all of the time. I have health conditions and I try to take care of everyone.

He does pay the house payment here. I said, "If your name was not on the mortgage I bet you would not pay for it, would you?" He said, "Yes, I would." He said he struggles every month to pay what he pays me but he just bought a house in the other state, and said it is lease to own with the other woman.

I do not know what to think. I appreciate him paying as I have health issues but I am so beyond hurt. He is with someone else. He chose her over me, yet he and Ie speak everyday and always tell each other we love each other.

I found out about her when the credit card that he uses to pay the cell phone did not go through and he said, "Try this zip code." He had moved to a different location and did not tell me.

I asked him, "When were you going to tell me?" He said he just found the place and gave me the address. I said, "I will come up and help you move," and he said his friends would help him. I said, "What friends?" I said, "That place is too big for you." I asked, "Are you with someone else?" He said, "YES."

I found out July 17, 2019 that for years he has been living and having sex with a female he met at work years ago. He just bought a place and moved in with her.

I asked, "How long," and he said he has been with her a long time. I asked if they have sex. He said, "YES." I asked if he loved or or was in love with her. He said he guess He did not know the difference. I asked if he loved me and he said he did as we have a long history together. He loves me and we always tell each otter we love each other.

He said he had been alone for a long time, but all he had to do was drive three hours to see me or let me come up there to see him.

I had known in my heart that he might be with someone else but knowing and actually hearing him say it is totally different. I have no idea how long it has been going on exactly.

I am sick and can't hold anything down and ended up in the ER with an IV. I have asthma and he smoked and it was hard for me to breath the smoke in his house. I asked one day if he still smoked and he said, "No." I asked him if he quit for her as he never quit for me. He said he got sick and had to quit.

I always thought he would be back and that I had to help take care of his loved ones. He has other siblings but I had to be the one to be there for everyone and I did not have three other siblings. His brother moved in with us at the start of our marriage and so I had to deal with his brother staying here and even had his brother walk in on us having sex. We never really got our chance to have a marriage due to all things happening and health issues, etc.

I asked if I had moved would he had still gotten in with this woman and he said he did not know because I did not move.

If I had moved would he have gotten in with her anyway?

Would I have given up my life here and he still would have cheated?

I had to be here to take care of family and loved ones as they had no other help and no way could I leave them. I always took care and helped his family and mom. He said the other woman and her family know about them but yet his own family or my family do not know.

I do not want anyone but him and have been with him since I was 18. I can't wrap my head around all of this and I am just lost and so confused. I love him deeply and he told me he did not believe in divorce when we married. So I trusted him.

I feel like I am in a nightmare and can't wake up.

I asked him, "So now what?" He says he loves me and this why it is so hard. I am like, "When were you ever going to tell me? He said he was going to tell me for years and he is glad it is out in the open now. I asked him, "Who knew,?" and he said the only ones that know his are the woman and her family. His own family does not know either.

He still has his parents and siblings and can't understand how hard it is for me to try to be a good person and try to take care of everyone. He could have moved back here and helped me and we could have had a family together.

I am so lost, confused, and heartbroken, more than you can imagine.

Please tell me what I need to do to remove the other woman and have him return to be with me and move the other woman out of the way.

I want to keep him faithful to me and only me.

I am praying for God to bring him back and make him leave that woman and come back and be faithful to me and be with my family and his family.

Am I wrong?

I am sorry for all my jumping around while writing but I am just so lost, confused.

I appreciate all of you for reading and not sure where to start or what to do.

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Unread post by j82 » Wed Aug 08, 2018 9:28 am

blessings4you,

I am very sorry for your situation and what you are going through. Cheating, break ups, broken homes are hard and do hurt. Always remember to care for yourself and loved ones first, being sick or not caring for yourself will not help you work. As for advise, I strongly suggest a reading with an AIRR reader, based on the complexity of the situation I would suggest an hour reading to get clarity and spell work suggested. Reconcilation work is hard, partly due to time laps between events, hard feelings, and that people are so emotionally involved they act out or make poor decisions during the work. If you can, you may want to pay an AIRR worker to do the work for you. I would suggest a break up spell on them with a come to me and reconcilation kit for you two. Also do a cleansing of the house and yourself before starting the work.

AIRR reader page: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

To break them up: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-break-up.html

bring him to you: http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html

to bring him back in love, works well with come to me: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-reconciliation.html

uncrossing to take off bad conditions: http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

LM book on break up spells: DESTROYING RELATIONSHIPS
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LM book on rec spells to bring a person back: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturnan ... pells.html

Goes well with rec spells to sweeten a person to you book: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyandsugarspells.html

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 08, 2018 6:22 pm

Dear kmd3121 --

What a sad situation! Your lover, mate, or patrner is supposed to stick with you and uphold you when bad news arrives, not tear you down and break off with you because you are undergoing stress or trauma!

Frankly, you are bending over backward to win back a person who pushed you away and said he needs "space" and then told you not to contact him anymore -- all because of how you reacted when you learned that your mother was diagnosed with breast canncer? For real? Naaaaw. Just ... i am sorry, that is too low for words.

He has failed the basic test of a FRIEND or OFFICE CO-WORKER, much less being a lover!

What if you had married him and YOU fell ill? Would he walk out on YOU?

What if, God forbid, you married him and had a child and the CHILD fell ill? Would he walk out on his own CHILD?

You did not ask him to do anything for your mom -- you just wanted his support while you were hurting.

This man is lower than dirt.

Take this as a message from God and the Angels -- walk away from him NOW, before you marry and before, God forbid, you have a child with him.

I recommend Black Walnuts for a bath and a cut and clear spell to get him out of your heart, body, and mind.

I say this wil compassion and sadness for you. He is a dud. He is not a fully-formed human being.
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Unread post by kmd3121 » Wed Aug 08, 2018 6:55 pm

What about all of the work I put into reconciliation? He says he loves me still. Should I not believe that?

Is he not just overwhelmed? I know that the blockbuster spell will work.... I just want to manifest a new relationship. :(

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Re: Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 08, 2018 7:18 pm

kmd3121 --

I hear you, and i deeply sympathize, You say, "He says he loves me still" but that you were "recently told by him to not contact him anymore until he 'heals and feels ready to contact' and that he needs 'space and time.""

That is insane. I am sorry. It makes no sense. If he loves you, why did he forbid you to contact him? He postulates no end date -- just an unknown amount of "space and time." That is total bullshit. If HE was the one who freaked out because you were upset because your mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and if HE can't get HIS emotions under control and be a good, supportive, present, intentional, willing partner -- walk away. If he refused to even let you contact him, he is abusing your love, not loving you.

Some people think that love has to withstand all sorts of tests and has to be like a painful soap opera. It is not that way. He told you to leave him alone. Do exactly what he says. He is not good enough for you. Cut and Clear your emotions from him and then work for a new love. Do not let a man that useless push you around like this.

You ask, "What about all of the work I put into reconciliation?"

I'll tell you what. It was wasted. He is not a man, not a lover, not a friend, not a mate, not a potential husband, not a potential father, and not a potential son-in-law.

You ask, "Is he not just overwhelmed?"

Yes, he is, and a man who is so "overwhelmed" when he sees you are sad because of your mother's difficult medical diagnosis will also be "overwhelmed" when you fall ill and "overwhelmed" if there are financial problems in the family and "overwhelmed" if there is a natural disaster in the region and "overwhelmed" if a pet falls ill and "overwhelmed" if you have a baby and he has to help with the feeding and care and "overwhelmed" if he loses his job and "overwhelmed" if you ask for help around the house.

A man so "overwhelmed" by his girlfriend's mother's breast cancer that he tells the woman, "You must no longer contact me" is useless, and quite possibly mentally ill. RUN, do not walk away from such a man.

As i said before, you got lucky -- you got a message from God and the Angels about this man's unfitness for love and shared responsibilities.

Leave him behind in the "overwhelmed" dust of the road and move on, looking for a man who is a helper, a darling, a strong companion, a hard worker, a fair-sharer of responsibilities, a supporter in times of trouble, and a friend in times of need.
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Re: Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by kmd3121 » Wed Aug 08, 2018 7:30 pm

I had been calling alot and did show up to his house a day after I drunkenly was angry with him. I made a terrible mistake of reacting to my mother's diagnosis and yelled at him over the phone and I regret that deeply. Isn't it fair for him to be frustrated that I pushed him away when dealing with this? He did offer to help me pay rent and get me a flight/bus ticket to see my mother..... but that was before I went off on him.
I am doing my damnest to change those behaviors since I normally only react like that in traumatic situations.

I've texted a lot as well. And he told me to not contact him or show up to his house...or work. I'm sure he's still in therapy too. Which isn't a bad thing.

I'm hurt but still wanting to do the spellwork. And believe that it will work. I've only just started doing it...

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed Aug 08, 2018 8:05 pm

Well, kmd3121 --

You didn't play me fair, did you? You didn't tell me you got drunkenly angry with him after he offered to "help [you] pay rent and get [you] a flight/bus ticket to see [your] mother." You just told me that he refused contact with you. That's one-sided. But the fact that he offered financial help and you got angry-drunk and yelled at him should have been part of the story. And so should the information that you "texted him a lot" and that he asked you not to show up at his house and at his work. And that he's "still in therapy."

Magic is not a band-aid you can slap on alcoholic rage or on cold-hearted refusal of contact.

Magic gives you an edge. It can make you a winner. But you have to be playing fair from in front. Hoodoo is not designed to be a last-ditch attempt to recapture a love that you destroyed or to change a man who thinks you are too cruel and erratic to be around.
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Unread post by kmd3121 » Wed Aug 08, 2018 8:09 pm

Of course, that happened once. I am not saying I am perfect. I am also not an alcoholic Cat. I resorted to one night of anger and fear. Mainly because of my mother's diagnosis and chemo treatments. I do apologise for not sharing those details earlier.

I had not been 100 percent when I was dealing with the news. It just seemed as though everything was falling apart.... my mother's diagnosis and then my relationship and yes, one night of anger made him retreat.
I don't mean to sound rude but I did not use magic, or my gifts as a last-minute band aid. :| I am seeking this journey to mend this relationship and to remain strong for my mother as well.

Thank you for replies and responses, Cat. they are appreciated.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Thu Aug 09, 2018 9:20 am

Hello LuckyGal,

I moved your question over to this thread since it's more on topic with what you're asking.

I'd say a simple thing you could do is to wear a dab of Reconciliation oil behind each ear when you see him, and also see if you can give him a letter that's dusted with Reconciliation sachet powder (lightly, so he doesn't detect it). You could also discreetly put a bit of Reconciliation oil on the handle of his car door if you can. And if you're REALLY lucky, perhaps you could somehow gather a personal concern for use in later magical spells.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Now, you weren't very clear on exactly you wanted to have happen, so I'm not sure if you're trying to draw this man back into your life, but I'm assuming you are, so I wrote my response as such. But if you have further questions, just let us know.

Good luck!
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