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Unread post by Amarsi » Thu Dec 06, 2018 7:48 pm

Hi Dr. Darensbourg,

Sorry I have another question. The parchment paper, am I supposed to burn it or put under the candle? I wanna do it correctly. Thank You

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Unread post by JayDee » Thu Dec 06, 2018 7:53 pm

Amarsi,

I am not Dr. Darensbourg, but I believe he was talking about the paper under the candle which is a typical way to work petition papers and name papers. He gave you fantastic advice in his other post about work, I hope you adhere to it. Cat has a book on name papers that would be great as you learn about the craft: http://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html
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Unread post by VofCups » Fri Dec 07, 2018 4:46 am

I was wondering, what do you do if you have to go away for a day or two while you are still burning your candle? Should I snuff it and take it with me?

It's a reconciliation candle and I've gotten up some nerve and I want to try and see if I can go to him and talk to him!

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Unread post by Amarsi » Fri Dec 07, 2018 6:40 am

Hi,

Back again. I wanted to know if I can use a personal item in the spell I was recomended, I have a shirt long sleeved that belongs to my ex. It still has his scent on it and also has semen on it as well. How can I incorporate this into the spell I will be doing? Me using the shirt with this spell can it make the spell stronger in some way?

The spell is the male figure candle, return to me oil and herbs, petition. Dr Darensbourg recomended. Thank You

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 07, 2018 7:34 am

VofCups,

Howdy. As a personal preference, once a spell has begun I do not like to make any changes to anything unless it is a part of the ritual or spell itself like in a moving candle spell for example. Other workers may work differently.

If it were me, I would get a second candle and whatever you've used to anoint it and perform the spell and do it there if it cannot wait until you are back, providing it can be performed wherever you are going, that is. If not, I don't see the problem with waiting a couple of days.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 07, 2018 7:39 am

Hello again, Amarsi

That's good news. Yes you can use that in a number of ways. I've done work like this all the time. Once, I took a small patch from the underwear of the target for my client and added it to a skull candle to create a magical link. I cut it too big however and it became a fire hazard at the completion of the spell; damn near burned my home down. I would suggest the same idea although only take a VERY small amount of the shirt to load inside the candle. Perhaps just a few threads from where the semen is located. You could also simply wrap it in your petition or name-paper and place underneath your candle although my favorite method is the former.
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Fri Dec 07, 2018 12:36 pm

Hahahaha! Dr Darensbourg, i have made the same mistake -- and once was often enough.

When i work for clients, i do prefer to keep the items in a folded name-paper packet on a metal plate under the candle stand. If the candle does not drip, i may lift it up and pour wax from it onto the name-paper packet, sealing the packet with the wax from the candle. It is very unified that way. Also, if i burn a run of, say, three 4" candles -- white, pink, and red -- on the name, i can drip wax from each candle on the name.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 07, 2018 1:14 pm

Lol. It's definitely not a mistake you make twice!

And I Love the idea of dripping onto the waxes. I have sealing wax and wax stamp I typically use to seal them. It never occurred to me to use the wax from the candle...go figure
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Fri Dec 07, 2018 8:13 pm

Okay so I went and did what you suggested and burnt the candle all last night and into the morning till it completely melted. The petition inside the skull candle with herbs I put there caught as well signaling a successful casting. The question I have is what do I do with all the left over wax?

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 07, 2018 8:25 pm

Nice Samurai Green,

Wrap up all of the remains inside a piece of cloth and bury them in your front yard. If this is not possible due to living at an apartment complex or something of that nature then you can bury it in a potted plant and keep outside your door. Keep the plant alive.
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Unread post by VofCups » Tue Dec 11, 2018 4:18 am

Well my reconciliation candle is complete. It burned down nicely, leaving only a faint trace of wax around the bottom rim, the herbs burnt but the glitter stayed. I asked my candle that he would unblock me and text me.

I think I should have been more specific...kicking myself for not writing more but we're long distance right now so thats what came to mind. Ughhhhh

Well, right after it burnt out he unblocked me and texted me...but oh was he mad!!!

Things have just gone from bad to worse! 😭💔 I don't know what to do now or if he'll ever forgive me. 😭😭😭

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Tue Dec 11, 2018 9:01 am

VofCups,

Magic doesn't work the way it does on Harry Potter, unfortunately. If it did we'd have very few problems. If there was something that you've done to cause this upset then you have to acknowledge it and take ownership for it.

You are dealing with very real emotions and feelings but you are now back in touch with him. This is GREAT NEWS! It may not have been what you wanted to hear but you got the door and his ears opened. Now is not the time to be pessimistic. Now it's time to go to work! (There is a reason hoodoo is called rootWORK.)

You will have to work in phases.

Phase I, establish contact/communication - mission accomplished.

Phase II, change his opinion of you/sweeten him to you. Time to pull out the sugar and honey. But this is only half the work. Work on the material plane, the natural realm, must be done. Saying "I'm sorry"is different than "I understand when I did ______ I hurt you beyond reproach.i cannot change that now but I can do better moving forward. Please forgive me".

You take it from there and think RATIONALLY about where you are with him what you want from him and through what magical means to best attained that goal. There, you shall find your third phase.
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Tue Dec 11, 2018 7:00 pm

Okay so I got to ask, after doing the skull candle spell, break up candle with herbs (which there was some black soot around the mouth of the candle) everything else was clear, and the herbs made a circle around the edge of the candle. I also did a return to me candle, and there was no wax residue left over. There was some white soot a very thin layer on the candle glass. The prayer candles were done on the corresponding days, hours, and moon phase associated with each.

I wanna know; do you think I have done as much as I can do right now, and let things sit and work, or should I continue working on it? I know that there is such thing as too much, and that might cause things to backfire.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Dec 11, 2018 7:35 pm

Hi SamuraiGreen,

You have done a lot of work so sit back and wait to see what results you get. Trust in your success.

The concept of work backfiring is not part of the hoodoo tradition so please put that out of your mind.

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Tue Dec 11, 2018 8:08 pm

SamuraiGreen,

Miss Athena is right on. To her comments I would add that like "backfiring", the concept of there being "too much" also has no place in our tradition. Rather I would challenge you to concern yourself more with what is necessary or efficacious.

I hope that makes sense.
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Unread post by VofCups » Tue Dec 11, 2018 8:11 pm

Dr Darensbourg,

Sadly I'm not sure what my next step could be. He unblocked me just so he could yell at me and then reblocked me. 😭💔 He is extremely mad at me and I am unable to contact him once again.

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Tue Dec 11, 2018 8:26 pm

VofCups

If it was this toxic before you started the spellwork then sweetening should've been the first step if not a reading. Have you had a reading on this? I think it's time to get one.
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Unread post by VofCups » Tue Dec 11, 2018 9:09 pm

Dr Darensbourg,

I have been working a honey jar. It seemed to work in bursts until he blocked me, then it stopped working. :-/ I honestly feel like it got more toxic after doing the honey jar? Though maybe I asked for the wrong thing in my petition, it's a "love me" jar.

I have not had a reading on my spellwork, our situation always seems to get various responses.

Edit: I am not sure why things seemed to get worse, unless someone was working against me, or something.

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Unread post by dazedandconfused » Fri Dec 14, 2018 2:16 pm

Hello

All of a sudden my boyfriend has been acting like I don’t even exist. I’m very confused and I’m new to this so I was wondering what could I do to make him come back to me?

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Unread post by Amarsi » Fri Dec 14, 2018 4:30 pm

Hi,

So things have happened since I last posted so I will be using the Intranquil Spirit kit. I know the risks and I understand what can happen. At this point this is my only option and I feel it is the best thing to do in my situation. I have everything I need as far as I know. Im just wanting to know if anyone has any advice that they think I should know. Thank You

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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Dec 14, 2018 6:19 pm

Amarsi ,

Wear protection oil when doing the work, do the work, then take a spiritual bath to remove anything on you, hyssop is common with Psalms 51. Then wash your house and cleanse the house. Dress the house with items to protect it from the spirit also attaching to you. LM has a very long thread on this spell: intranquility-spell-kit-questions-and-a ... t9620.html
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Unread post by Miss Athena » Fri Dec 14, 2018 9:08 pm

Hi dazedandconfused.

You are in the right thread. Have you read through the pages here? They are full of answers to your very question.

If you would like more clarity on your situation, you should consider a reading. Here are links to reputable readers who can also recommend rootwork based on what they see in their reading.
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
www.hoodoopsychics.com

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by Amarsi » Sat Dec 15, 2018 12:20 pm

Hi,
So I did the Intranquility Spell last night. I dreamt about him, I havent dreamt of him at all since our breakup. Could it have anything to do with the spell or just a coincidence? Im just wondering is all. I dont remember too much of the dream just that he was in it. Thank You

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Unread post by JayDee » Sat Dec 15, 2018 12:34 pm

Amarsi,

Signs can and often are very personal. You may have dreamed of the person because of the strong focus on them with the work, or its a sign. I would keep watching and waiting for signs to the work. Example I dream a lot but often nothing meaningful, but when it is important the dream is just different then my other ones and I wake up knowing its different. Hope that helps! Also if you need more assurance you can get a reading at Airr and ask for more clear signs to the work by praying and asking God.
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Unread post by Amarsi » Sat Dec 15, 2018 7:47 pm

Hello again,
Okay since our breakup Ive been heartbroken yes and Im not so emotional like crying everyday all day like ive done before with my other breakup and the one before. Like im sad as heck but im not like crying every second. I dont know if its the Intranquility spell, that i did last night but all day today im just like crying like a crybaby feeling so sad like lower than sad. Like im trying to force myself to sleep just so i can have some relief. Could this be that Im feeling what hes feeling right now? I just went for drive just for the distraction but i was still crying in the car like off and on. Its intense you know. Opinions please? Thank You

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat Dec 15, 2018 9:04 pm

Hi Amarsi,

I'm sorry you are having a difficult day.

Did you protect yourself while performing this spell? Did you take a hyssop bath after, and cleanse your home (with Chinese Wash)? Did you put up protection after you completed the spell, for you and your home?

It is very important that you look after yourself when doing any kind of negative work.

We have no way of knowing what is happening with you, but if you have done none of these things then you need to cleanse and protect immediately. The Intranquil spirit is very difficult to control, and I often advise that this should not be done by anyone who is not an experienced practitioner.

I hope this helps. Good luck and take care of yourself.
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Unread post by lanadelrey » Wed Dec 19, 2018 5:18 am

He still hasn’t come back... I even did another honey jar with honey instead of sugar like my last one and I let a candle burn all the way down on it and nothing. The reading I did told me he was gonna come back but when? What else can I do?

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Wed Dec 19, 2018 8:49 am

Lanadelrey,

I'm not exactly sure what impressions you have of magic and how it works. How long have you been practicing? If you've been doing this for a while then you know by now that, primarily, it is a craft that takes a lot of patience, practice, and dedication. Secondly, it sometimes takes time for our desires to manifest IF they manifest at all. Magic does not always work and I think you need to come to terms with that.

I understand that you really want this man back but you have got to exercise patience...and a lot of it. There could be things standing in the way of him coming back such as someone else being in the picture or him being completely apathetic down to someone performing magic to get him or even to keep you away from him. Hell, he could, himself be performing magic to keep you away. You never know. Just one month ago you were performing a lemon freezer spell thinking that it somehow would work to your advantage which was a grave mistake. You can't just say "oops" or "sorry" and expect for things to just turn around.

Your reader told you that he would be coming back. The "when" should have been something you asked to your reader; we can't answer that for you here. You may also want to consider hiring a professional rootworker as well. In addition to this, if you have not already, you need to set yourself a time limit in which you will work and vow to cut the work off and even perform a cut and clear if your desires have not manifested by the deadline.
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Unread post by Sugarbaby99 » Wed Dec 19, 2018 12:02 pm

Hi Everyone!

Ok so my ex is coming over this week and I have some of his sweat shirts. I’m going to either wash them with return to me bath or put return to me oil on them and then give them to him. My question is this won’t bring one of his ex’s back to him other then me right?

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Wed Dec 19, 2018 2:17 pm

Hi Sugarbaby99,

The answer to your question is no. You are the magician. You are the one casting and directing your energy and will. As you sprinkle your crystals and anoint the clothing with oil you should be either praying, reciting scripture, or chanting an encantation as you see fit for the return of your lover to YOU, the caster. Fear not. :D
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Thu Dec 20, 2018 11:39 am

Wanted to give a short update. I discovered a potentially good way to break up my ex and her new boyfriend. I sent a random present to her for Christmas without telling her as I wanted to be a surprise. She got it and it was super thrilled because she wasn't expecting it, and it made her feel a bit better over the stress she has been having lately. Though a short time later she told me not to send her any more random gifts as it makes her boyfriend mad and in turn makes her uncomfortable. (because he doesn't like it and comes down on her?)

It sounds like the boyfriend lacks any sort of self confidence and is somewhat controlling. (I picked up the controlling aspect of him a short time after they met). I would like to also point out that this might also be a sign that I have been looking for to see if the breakup spell I cast around November is working.

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Unread post by JayDee » Thu Dec 20, 2018 3:37 pm

SamuraiGreen,

Be careful sending items to the ex and her getting upset with you, seeing you as pushy and then being more distant. I think it is a normal response for a person to not like their current partner from getting gifts from their ex's. His mad because its an ex her uncomfortable because it came from an ex. Hopefully you dressed it with powders or oils to get it in the house. Signs are very personal and often different for people. Here is the forum topic on signs: signs-movement-completion-of-spells-que ... t6436.html
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Unread post by LaleLale00 » Fri Dec 21, 2018 3:43 am

Hi everyone

I wonder IF someone can help Me.
Excuse Me for My english is not so good.
I did a sugar jar and a honey jar for My ex.

The sugar jar has opened a little somehow and the sugar water is coming out little by little. There sems to be pressure in the jar. Now i wonder what does that mean, what to do with IT or how to undo and make another one with better lid?

The honey jar does not feel strong and i couldn't light a candle on top of IT this week becuse i didn't have time and energy to do IT.
IT feels like i didnt have strong and good energy when i did IT and want to do another one, But what to do or undo this one i already Done?

Please help Me .
I have also still have difficult to use this website.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 21, 2018 4:39 am

SamuraiGreen,

Expanding on JayDee's great advice, although a breakup spell may work wonders to get your rival out of the picture, it still doesn't mean that your love interest will be coming back to you. So in addition to breaking them up you need to add something that will draw her back to you suck as a come to me light, a moving candle spell, or even a spiritual bath pouring some of the essence of the bath from her door step leading to yours. If not, your breakup work will be fruitless for you. She in fact may even blame and resent you if this is not done. Good luck, mon ami
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Dec 21, 2018 4:52 am

LaleLale00,

Either your English is not as bad as you think or your translation service is working wonders for you so fret not :-)

I'm no chemist but the fact that you jar is leaking could be a number of factors.
1) There could be too much sugar water - it may be overflowing.
2) Maybe the the chemicals of the water and sugar are reacting to one another and causing the concotion to expand - I've only ever used it for making Kool-Aid or sweet teas.
3) That being said, I've never heard of sugar jars being made using H20. Not saying it can't be done but usually, a sugar jar is made with that. Just sugar. Someone else certainly may add to that and correct me if necessary but in my 16 some odd years of working I've never seen it.
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Fri Dec 21, 2018 6:08 am

She was fine with it till the boyfriend did something about it. Also I did a return to me candle. I haven't doing just breakup spell work. Though it is funny how I have been hearing songs about breaking up and negative feelings towards relationships on the local radio station.

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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Dec 21, 2018 1:41 pm

SamuraiGreen,

In cats book on hoodoo candles she uses a moving candle spell which goes along the concept that Dr Darensbourg was sharing with you, as you move them apart you move you two together. Pg 45 of the text you will find the spell. Its a moving candle spell, as she moves to you, he moves to someone new , you would use 4 figure candles. http://www.luckymojo.com/theartofhoodoocandlemagic.html
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Fri Dec 21, 2018 6:42 pm

@JayDee. Thank you for the advice. It's something akin to what you described in the Hoodoo return and reconciliation spells book. It was working with load stones and figure candles and oils. Is the classic moving spell your talking about have to do with the candles and scissors?

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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Dec 21, 2018 7:00 pm

SamuraiGreen ,

Yes its the classic work, you are adding a 4th to move this person to a new lover. The scissors are added to stop them from ever returning or being hurt. I would do a break up jar on them at the same time and a honey jar for you two. Put the break up in the center behind their candles starting out. Put the honey jar by your candle or where the candles are moving to ( if both moving). Lay attraction powder from her to you, and add a line of break up after the scissors to stop the person from returning. After the work dispose of your two candles together in your yard, his and this new person in running water to send them away. Keep the honey jar and pray over it and light candles over it. The break up jar can continued to be used by burning candles on it and shaking it with curses. When done bury in a graveyard to kill the relationship for good.
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Unread post by WhiteWitch81 » Thu Dec 27, 2018 3:21 pm

I ask the universe for a sign that my spell is working, and saw an ad for some bar that my target frequently plays at. Does this count?

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Thu Dec 27, 2018 3:25 pm

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Unfortunately we don't offer interpretations on the threads. Furthermore, without a proper reading, you are the only one suited to answer that question. Only you know the significance of that bar to your loved one. If you want more information about signs after spell-work, please visit: signs-movement-completion-of-spells-que ... t6436.html
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Unread post by forgiveness » Fri Dec 28, 2018 12:59 pm

Hello,

I come here asking for help with love in a really messed up situation, and I hope you won’t judge too harshly on it knowing that what I did was wrong and I am currently very depressed and ashamed about it.

Basically, I made a fake account on Tinder in January 2017 for fun, I didn’t want anything serious, I just wanted to try Tinder but not with my pictures since I am very insecure. I talked to guys and just joked around, saying stupid stuff for fun, and nothing else. I met this guy and we laughed a lot together, I got a good vibe from him. So, thinking nothing would come out of it, I gave him my number so we could keep talking on Whatsapp.

We kept talking and I tried to keep my distances from him, and I figured he would lose interest after a while because we couldn’t see each other in real life (we live in the same city but I told everyone on Tinder that wanted to meet me in real life that I lived overseas and that I was leaving soon). So I would answer him once a week, and then we started talking more and more, but I figured he just liked me as a friend, because this guy is good looking, had a girlfriend a few months before we met, goes out to the club every weekend, so I thought that soon enough he would meet a new girl in real life and forget about me.

Soon enough we started talking more and more, and he told me in April 2017 that he was thinking about me all the time. After that I learnt that he had actually fallen in love with me around the time we started talking. I didn’t know what to do, and I should have stopped right there, but we had a connection like I never had before and soon I developed feelings for him too. We said « I love you » in May 2017. I’m 24, he’s 26. He told me he had never been in love before, that I was the first girl he was in love with, he wrote me poems every week, he was obviously crazy about me.

Then, in July 2017, he found the model’s instagram I had taken pictures of and I was already so crazy in love with him that I couldn’t bear to tell him it wasn’t me and lose him because I lied. So he didn’t know and thought this girl was me, that her exes were my exes, and he’s very jealous when I actually don’t even have serious exes in real life, and I’m even a virgin.

So fast forward to September 2018, this girl on Instagram posts that she’s in Paris (the city we live in) and I didn’t know what to do. She posted she was at some place and he was like « that place is 500 meters from where I’m at why don’t you see me » and it got worse and worse and every time I would bail on seeing him because I couldn’t because of my lies, he would say « you don’t wanna see me because you don’t love me », which is false, I do love him but I was afraid of telling him the truth and possibly losing him. I lied out of fear. And love. And selfishness too, I know.

He then came back in October, but left me again after one week, only saying « forget me. I know who you are ». I was scared because I was like how could he know? We had a lot of times during our relationship when I couldn’t provide him proof that I was that girl or that it was indeed my account, so he would say « thats not you on Instagram » but I couldn’t tell him the truth and lose what we had because it would destroy me. I asked him hundred of times « would you still love me if I wasn’t that girl? If you found out I lived in Paris? Even after all my lies? » and other variations of that question, and he would always say « yes, I don’t care who you are, I just wanna see you, I would still love you and want to be with you ». So that gave me hope.

Well, this week, he gave my number to a lawyer friend of his to find out the truth and learnt that I did live in Paris and that I wasn’t that girl. I told him to call me. I told him « I’m gonna be totally honest with you now ». I explained everything to him. I sent him pictures of myself and he said I was cute and pretty. But he was so mad. I asked him if he missed me, because we used to talk all the time before September. He said no. I asked him if he still loved me (he had told me in an email two days before that that he was still in love with me) and he said no. He said we would never be together in real life because I lied, despite him telling me hundred of times that he would love me no matter what.

That was two days ago and I am miserable. I just thought he would still wanna be with me. I know I’m a terrible person, and I doubt people on this forum will be willing to help me, but I love him so much and I want him back.

What can I do to help? What can I do to have his forgiveness and make him come back to me? To make him come back and still be with me despite what I did?

Please don’t tell me I’m a horrible person and I deserve it because I know. I’m so heartbroken.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Fri Dec 28, 2018 2:31 pm

Hi forgiveness,

I had to edit your post for length and to break up the solid block of text so it's more readable this way.

I'm so sorry you're in this situation. We don't pass judgement on this forum, so please put that worry out of your mind.

You are posting in the right thread, which is among the most popular ones on the forum as many people like yourself wish to bring back someone from their past. There is a wealth of advice and ideas in this thread, so please do take a few moments to comb through the posts and you will certainly find ideas that will help you.

To give you a start, put this man in a honey jar with both of your photos (your real photo) and a petition for forgiveness and a return to the sweet nature of your relationship. You can find the thread on constructing honey jars here:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

Add some Balm of Gilead to your jar, which is helpful in smoothing over past hurts. This is needed in your situation since, despite his words, he's still feeling wounded.
http://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

That should get you started.

Don't beat yourself up too much. We all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them. You have the means to help turn this around in your favor, from skull candles, to a moving candle spell, to laying tricks for him since you actually do live in the same location. But please read through this thread first and see what kind of work "speaks" to you, then feel free to ask any other questions you may have.

I hope this helps. Good luck, and please keep us posted.
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Unread post by forgiveness » Sun Dec 30, 2018 11:47 am

Thank you... I’m doing a honey jar right now.

1) What else can I do?

2) Is there any way he’ll forgive me and want to be with me in real life?

I feel dumb even asking that because I don’t see how.

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Sun Dec 30, 2018 12:38 pm

Hi Forgiveness,

I know you're hurting right now and feeling desperate but I must reiterate the words of my colleague, Miss Athena
You have the means to help turn this around in your favor, from skull candles, to a moving candle spell, to laying tricks for him since you actually do live in the same location. But please read through this thread first and see what kind of work "speaks" to you, then feel free to ask any other questions you may have.
There's plenty of information on how to perform these spells within the last couple of pages of this very topic alone. Read back a page or two, maybe even three, and take a gander at some of the useful spells that have been given to others that will also suit your needs. I gave one to someone a few weeks ago that should still be within the last few pages.

No matter the backstory, the goal remains the same... Get an Ex-lover/Ex-spouse (or someone with whom we have an intimate relationship) to return, reconcile, and/or reunite.
Don't despair. All hope is not lost. :D
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Unread post by SamuraiGreen » Mon Dec 31, 2018 10:26 pm

So, I have a question and it's something that just popped into my head while looking through 'Destroying Relationships' by Miss Aida. There is a spell in there called 'building the tension seven knob candle spell.' Going down the candle knots from the top 'confusion, restless, inflamed confusion, separation, and break up'. Plus with oils ect. My question is I would like to try the reverse with a red seven knot candle between me and my target. Would that work? Could you help labeling the knobs from top to bottom ending with unification? What would be the oils to use?

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Unread post by JayDee » Tue Jan 01, 2019 12:01 am

SamuraiGreen,

7 knob candle can be carved with 7 different wishes, though many people do use it for the same wish 7 times but not needed. You can do this but use a logical order like 1. Block buster, 2 Road opener, 3 Come to me, 4 Reconciliation, 5 come to me, 6, stay with me, 7 love me. Or a combo like that which works for the outcome you seek. Each goal in my example was tied to an oil LM sells and your specific petition would be made for each knob as you burn them. Pay attention to how each on burns, it may indicate how the work will go at each level.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Wed Jan 02, 2019 3:33 pm

SamuraiGreen,

JayDee has given you some very good advice. Here are the the links to the lists of oils he has suggested purchasing for your convenience with a couple minor changes:

1) Block Buster - http://www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
2) Road Opener - http://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
3) Come To Me - http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
3a) Return To Me (my recommendation) - http://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
4) Reconciliation - http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
5) Dixie Love - http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
6) Stay With Me - http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
7) Love Me - http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
7a) Fire Of Love (my recommendation) -http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html

just a note, I don't believe Jaydee listed come to me twice intentionally (numbers 3 and 5) so I recommended using Dixie Love instead
Good luck to you!
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Unread post by Fotunata » Thu Jan 03, 2019 7:28 pm

hi guys,

I'd like to do sweeten somebody, tomorrow is Friday, can I start it then?

Thank you.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Thu Jan 03, 2019 8:52 pm

Fotunata --

You sure can!
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Unread post by Fotunata » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:49 am

Hi Catherineyronwode,

Thank you so much.

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Unread post by VofCups » Fri Jan 04, 2019 1:22 pm

I started a "return to me" vigil candle on the 2nd at midnight...it's already halfway melted! Is this normal speed or long do these normally last? I thought they were 7-day candles?

Normally after starting a spell I have a dream about him a few days later, I've asked the universe for one but have not had one yet...I hope I do soon. I have seen other synchronicities and tarot readings/pendulums seem to be favorable!

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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:27 pm

VofCups,

My experience is that they tend to burn between 5 and 6 days, longer ones may go into 7 + days.
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Unread post by Miss Athena » Fri Jan 04, 2019 7:34 pm

Hi VofCups,

A fast candle burn can be a positive sign in itself, but if it burns unusually fast compared to your experience with similar candles, it may indicate quick but short-lived results. You may wish to get a reading after you complete the candle spell to better understand what kind of sign this represents. You can find ethical and qualified readers here:
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Do please read this page on candle divination for information on how to read your candle:
http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

And I highly recommend Miss cat's excellent book, "The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic" which is available here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/theartofhoodoocandlemagic.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Fri Jan 04, 2019 9:04 pm

VofCups,

I am totally with Miss Athena here. I too, have experienced this and in my experience, I've gotten what I wanted but it definitely wasn't long-lived. This is not ALWAYS the case however so yes, you definitely would want to get a reading on it if you are concerned about it.
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Unread post by VofCups » Sun Jan 06, 2019 7:46 pm

Thank you so much for the helpful tips! My candle just finished...such a nice clean burn! Though I was worried at the very end for about an hour it split into two flames that kept coming together and going apart again.

All the wax is gone except a very tiny ring at the bottom. No soot so that's good! Smoke went straight up mostly towards the right. A few pops and crackles towards the end.

Finally had my dream, it was interesting...gotta figure out what it means. It was like he was coming back but he didn't want to be romantic, said he couldn't because there was someone else. :(

But I'm feeling positive that he'll return! I've done some self reads and one day it's been positive and one it hasn't, so I'll read out to someone on that site you linked me too for an official read and interpretation. I think most of my reads keep tapping into my worry, I want him to return but I'm so nervous about it! ❤️😭

The candle was started just after midnight on Jan 2nd and finished at 9:25pm on Jan 6th! I'll keep you all updated on the outcome!

For those who have gotten what they wanted, how long did it take for them to return - I know everyones experience is different? I tried a reconciliation candle last month and he texted me that very night a couple of hours later! Though I should have been more specific in my petition I think...I had asked for him to "unblock me and talk to me." Oh he did for about an hour but he was mad.

This time I was more specific with my petition.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Mon Jan 07, 2019 9:20 am

Hello VofCups,

If you wish to read about people's experiences with this type of work, I'd recommend scrolling back up through this (long!) thread and reading some of the other posts. Wishing you the best of luck in your work!

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Mon Jan 07, 2019 10:45 am

VofCups,

As you stated, results and experiences vary from person to person. Somethings happen as instant, in my experience, as 35minutes others have taken MONTHS. That's just something that you can't always gauge. Look to divination for clues or solid answers if you must. Until, my advice is to do as Sister Jean has suggested and read through these pages to read about others' experiences. You'll find as many different answers as you will posts.
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Unread post by LittleWitch2020 » Mon Jan 07, 2019 9:27 pm

Hello

I really looooove this guy. He made me feel alive.

He stopped communication (out of the blue). I think he got back with his son's mother.

I tried and tried to shake these feelings. But I can't! I love him. I've even prayed for God, to take my feelings, for him away.

1) I tried to communicate with him. But, no response. The crazy part: he didn't delete me on messenger. That has me puzzled. If he doesn't want anything to do with me... why leave that door open)?

2) I've dressed a red candle in my "spot". I'm doing the candle this week. I ordered some products from Lucky Mojo (love herb pack and money herb pack). It's gonna be a min before they arrive. I have some rose petals and fast luck oil. I'll do the honey jar when my herbs and other oils from Lucky Mojo arrive. Being that I don't have any DNA I think doing back to back conjure will be good. The honey jar requires hair, I don't have any. Ms. Cat said adding more and more ingredients won't take the place of hair. My question is... Will doing my candle with my "spot" and the fast luck oil, plus the honey jar give me better results?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Jan 07, 2019 10:45 pm

Little Witch2020 --

1) He may be too lazy to delete you, he may want you to suffer by seeing what he's up to, he may have forgotten you entirely, he may have some interest in keeping you on a string. If you really care, get a reading on it.

2) Several responses:

A) What do you mean by your "spot" -- your menstrual blood? If so, yes, it is traditional to dress a candle with that.

B) A personal concern is not the same as DNA. This is not a police drama. For instance, handwriting and a foot track in dirt are personal concerns, with or without DNA. A hair is not "required" It is simply a very strong traditional link. Three hairs is considered stronger -- head, armpit, and pubic. Ten fingernails, one from each finger would be strong as well. So would semen on a string. Fold the personal concern into a little seed packet on which you have written your petition. Any spell of any type made with personal concerns will be stronger than the same spell made with no personal concerns.

C) Not knowing what you mean by your "spot," i cannot answer this. I will say, however, that placing a dressed candle on a honey jar is quite traditional. Please see this "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice" page:

http://luckyojo.com.honeyjar.html
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