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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by BeautifulWitch » Tue Nov 22, 2016 10:31 am

Hello everyone! I'm having a bit of a problem.

My mother is causing my father and I significant stress, and using us both for our money. I am a 21 year old young woman who is trying to save money and move out of my mother's apartment, however her manipulative tactics are constantly setting me back.

She is not a poor mother who works as hard as she can to make ends meet- she is financially irresponsible and overly-entitled. She retired early about a year or two ago, and even though she knew that she would make significantly less money if she dis so she choose to reture anyway, leaving everyone around her to pick up her financial burdens. She spends money that should be spent on things like rent, gas, and other bills and uses it on trivial things for herself, such as dinners out with her friends, clothes/shes for herself, and home furnishings. When she's flat broke and cannot pay the rent, she then pleads my father for money, and even though my parents are seperated, for my sake he gives her the money, thus enabling her further. She makes no plans to pay us back, makes no effort to change her behavior, and becomes dispondent and angry whenever my father and I attempt to talk to her about money. When she's not throwing away her financial responsibilities shes eating MY expensive healthy vegan food, asking me for cigarrette money, and then spending hers on expensive dinners instead of her own food.Because of the severity of these bills, refusal to pay them would leave me without transportation to work and with nowhere to stay, only making my need to save money even more of an imparative.

I've just started a new job about two months ago making 13 dollars an hour, which in and out of itself is great for a young person with few financial obligations, however I am about to begin work to look for a sugar mommy, and with that comes expenses. To make money you have to spend it, and in this sort of work appearance is everything. I need my money to purchase hoodoo supplies, new clothes, shoes, make-up, jewellry, and manicures for taking enticing photographs, money to meet up with potential sugar mommies, and other stray things like subscriptions to various sugar daddy websites. This is my first job in a while, and because of my mothers poor spendig habits I don''t have anything I could wear to a date, much less take alluring photographs in (I am working through the Internet) Most of my clohes and shoes are ragged with holes, too small, stained ect, hence my need for new ones. While I have invested in a few "tools" if you will, her last escapade has set me behind an entire month.

I'm angry and very frustrated with her. I can't stand to look at her, and I hate how manipulative she is. Does anyone have any suggestions? I need to protect my money so that I can work towards my own future, one where I am free from her manipulative tactics. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Nov 22, 2016 8:12 pm

Hello BeautifulWitch,

Your post made me so angry! I'm so sorry your mom is treating you this way.

Well, I have a few ideas for you. Would it possible for you to stay with your father while you save up some money to get your own place and buy the items you need for work?

If that's not an option, I'd suggest having an honest discussion with your dad about how the two of you need to stop enabling her behavior by giving her more money. The cycle will never end if she keeps getting what she wants. Second, you could try doing some skull candle work on your mom to influence her thoughts and actions and bring her under your control. Use a white skull candle, dress it with Influence oil and Commanding oil, and talk to it as it burns, telling her that she is no longer going to act like this.

You can read more about skull candles and ask questions about them here:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

In the meantime, do some Crucible of Courage and Commanding work for yourself, to give yourself a boost and help you have more power in this situation as well as more courage to stand up to her. You are an adult, and she has no right to treat you like this.

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Also, this may sound like a weird idea, but you could try doing some Money Stay With Me work on yourself *and* your mom. For you, for obvious reasons, but also your mom to help her stop burning through her money so fast.

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html

Good luck to you!

P.S. If you're going to be working as a sugar baby, this book would serve you well:

http://www.luckymojo.com/thesportinglife.html
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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by snouvavou » Sat Nov 26, 2016 9:04 am

Any thoughts on promoting harmony between a father and teenage son who are in conflict constantly? I have already done a Peaceful Home honey jar for them a few months ago(which may have been too late).
I am considering doing some work with blood root and Clarity products for the son, as he is very stubborn,disrespectful and manipulative.Maybe Tranquility products for the house?
This has been an ongoing issue for a few years and the son keeps running back to his neglectful biological mother who enables and coddles him no matter how bad his behavior(the parents are no longer in a relationship).
Any feedback is welcome.
This may have gone past the point of no return but it can't hurt to try to mend their relationship. I fear it might not happen until the son gains some maturity,but I would like to "plant the seeds" of peace .

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by BeautifulWitch » Wed Nov 30, 2016 3:25 am

Thank you, Sister Jean! I apologize for the late response- I've been working non-stop the past few weeks

I've considered staying with my father, however he is physically and verbally abusive. He has calmed down in the past few years, however his non stop verbal assults make me grind my teeth! He also lives out of state which would make it hard for me to get to work.

I really appreciate your advice- I will purchase the items you have recommended to me the next time I get paid. That makes three Lucky Mojo orders in two weeks, lol!

And I have indeed purchased The Sporting Life! I purchased it along with a lot of other products, so I expect to read it within the next few weeks.

Thank you again for your advice.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by diamond » Tue Dec 27, 2016 1:18 am

Hi everyone,

I don't know where to start .
I am having problenm with my mother. She is very abusive to me. I have 5 brothers and they are her gods. She will always praise them with other people and make me feel down. They all have kids but she will treat them w with respect my son on the other hand she will shout and say bad stuff to him. But my kid love her. She hates the father of my son. When he comes over she will not talk to him and she will say cruel stuff to my son about his father. He doesn't want the father of my son to sleep at our house . I know I should move but please understand that here in country life ain't easy. Anyway I've been coping with the situation for a while. But on Christmas Eve we got in an argument l and she strangle me I was shock I mean I do everything she as
k of me . Today I told her that if she do that I again I won't hesitate to slap her I know it's wrong she is my mother but I've had enough. She told me that she will curse me now because she is my mother I can't slap her . She is always finding something negative to say to hurt me. I told her I know you don't love me and she told me yes.
Honestly I really don't know . I need to do something to help me out of this situation asap. Something that will give me the strength to not feel anything for her . Cos I feel like when she is not talking to me my life is a nightmare in the house. I want to move bit I can't it's like I am tied to her. I need her to suffer to what she is doing to me.
Anything will help.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Dec 27, 2016 12:46 pm

Hello diamond,

I'm so sorry all this is happening to you :( My heart truly goes out to you.

Here are some ideas I had while reading your post:

If you want to try mending things with your mom, you could put you and her into a sugar jar, and include a pair of Balm of Gilead buds in the jar to soothe raw emotions:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

If you want to skip the honey jar and make her suffer for her wrongdoing, putting her in a mirror box would reflect all her evil back onto her:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Regardless of the path you take with your mom, here are three things you should be doing for YOU:

1. Protect yourself:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

2. Build yourself up and give yourself courage:

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

3. Increase your wealth so you can start saving money to get the heck out of there:

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html

I'd also say that if your mother is attempting to strangle you, that is assault, and you could press charges. That is your call, but it's something to think about. Please take care, and keep up posted!
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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by hulagrl » Thu Mar 23, 2017 3:28 pm

I would like help for my 10yr old grandson. My daughter and husband are in an unhappy marriage. My daughter has become very verbally abusive, even cruel and will go ON and ON about a simple thing like why he needs to rinse his plate or look for his own shoes/books/etc, all the while belittling and shaming.
She behaves this way towards her husband as well and now it has extended even to me. My greatest concern is my grandson who already has suffered from an abusive teacher (physical and verbal) and bullying from other students. He used to be an outgoing, loving, kind child, excited about learning, making friends, etc. I now see him questioning his own worth, second guessing himself in subjects and situations of which he has already mastered and actually being afraid to tell his mom anything. I am devastated that she has become this person. I know she is depressed and has alot of pent up rage, but that is for another time. For now, I want to protect my grandson, and that may mean that some drastic work may need to be done on his mom. I DO NOT wish to cause her great harm or worse. However, this needs to stop. I did not raise her and her sister this way and I know that she truly does not see the toxicity of her behaviors because she thinks that she is right. I am done whining and wringing my hands and was reminded today that I am a witch and need to act like it! LM has helped us in so many ways in the past and I'm hoping for help again. Thank you. Much love and peace, Anita

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Miss Aida » Thu Mar 23, 2017 9:07 pm

Hello, hulagrl ,

Oh, boy, I am so very sorry that this is happening.

Protection spells are here:

www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Please perform more than one of the spells. The more, the better.

And please read all he pages on this thread for ideas on what to do with her

Additionally, a white skull candle with clarity and king Solomon for her surrounded by white candle anointed with tranquility

www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

I hope this helps

You're a good person to care so much about your grandson

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Achingsoul22 » Tue May 02, 2017 4:20 pm

Hello Everyone,
I need some help. My family and I have been living in terror because of my mom. She is a complete narcissist and our family is her audience. She will say mean things and be spiteful if we don't respond to her needs. Sometimes we have to agree with her despite her actions being wrong just to keep the peace. Lately, I have been her victim. In the last week it has been daily accusuations and slander. At this time, my relationship ended and I have to live at home. Rumor has it that she is responsible because she was jealous that I was away from her control. I believe it is true because she always threaten to work magic on anyone who doesn't agree with her outlandish requests. We are all tired of her drama and we deserve to live in happiness. My poor father deserves to have a good wife who will love and respect him. How can we protect ourselves from her daily wrath? She doesn't treat others poorly except our family. She keeps her cool until she returns from work each day to bully her family. We enjoy the few hours of happiness until she walks through the door.She makes things up and will not stop until we admit to it even though we never did or say it. She has a way of trying to set us against each other to keep us from realizing how horrible of a person she is and what she is doing to our family is wrong.

Please share some ideas that will help a family who has suffered verbal abuse for decades. Do we need protections kits or other kits to protect from the emotional abuse.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue May 02, 2017 5:27 pm

Hello Achingsoul22,

I'm so sorry you're mother is treating you this way. :(

I think a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit for you and your family would be a good first step:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-fiery-wa ... ction.html

Next, take her down a notch by putting her in a mirror box, so all her awful words are reflected back onto her for eternity:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

You could also create a doll baby for her and stitch her mouth closed and tie her hands together, so she's bound against abusing you and your family:

general-doll-baby-voodoo-doll-poppet-qu ... t8946.html

Something to keep in mind though that abusive tendencies run deep, deep, deep, and she may always have that side to her. What you and family need to decide is if you want to deal with that for the rest of her life, or move on without her. Take care of yourselves and keep us posted.
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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by hulagrl » Thu May 04, 2017 9:30 am

Thank you Miss Aida for responding to my post of Thu Mar 23, 2017 Regarding my grandson/daughter. I have a skull candle and white candles. I will order the oils recommended and commence with the protection work as well. I have done protection spells in the past and they are quite powerful. I appreciate the addition of the workings for my daughter. Thank you again. Much peace and aloha!

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Unread post by hulagrl » Thu Jun 01, 2017 7:26 am

Greetings Miss Aida; This is regards to my post of March 23rd. I have performed the 7 day spell of protection for my grandson and also the 7 day skull candle spell for my daughter. This is to update on what I've done. Regarding my grandson; I buried the spell remains next to the rosemary plant in my herb garden ( I like the protection representation). I kept back a piece of the petition paper/prayer and a bit of the purple candle representing Archangel Michael. These were placed in a mojo bag along with some fiery wall of protection sachet powder and placed under his photo. I've also place a sigil of A. Michael behind his photo. I will continue to weekly light a candle for him, allowing it to burn down as I say my prayer for him while also anointing his photo with fiery wall of protection oil. As for my daughter, I decided to charge a poppet for her workings. Her spell remains were buried under a chamomile plant next to hyssop (for continued calming and cleansing of negativity). The poppet will continue to be used as I will weekly anoint it with clarity, tranquility, and King Solomon's oil while also burning a candle and saying a prayer. Already my grandson is verbally standing up for himself and is able to see that some of his mother's behaviors aren't healthy/normal. Part of the prayer I've written includes that the effects of such abusive behaviors will be nullified and his spirit, heart, and mind will be protected. As for my daughter, time will tell. I'm sure this will be an ongoing working with modifications as needed. If you've any other suggestions, I'd appreciate it. For now, I'm going with my intuition and current knowledge of herbs and the craft. Thank you again. Blessed be.

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Unread post by Sister Jean » Thu Jun 01, 2017 9:18 am

Hello hulagrl,

This sounds like great work you are doing. Thank you for updating us on your situation, and feel free to let us know if you have more questions.

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Unread post by BabyGirl95 » Tue Jun 13, 2017 7:52 am

I need a spell or candle to get rid of terrible parents. These parents physically, verbally abuse their son and threaten him constantly. He gets punished for things he has nothing to do with, one time he was wrestling tickle match with his younger brother, when the dad started screaming to knock it off, they didn't stop fast enough....dad came running across the room, picked my boyfriend up and through him against the wall and hurt his back bad. Dad is very violent and angry, his mentality is everybody does what he says or else.
Mom inst violent but she doesn't stop it, and acts like everything is wonderful.
The last straw happened a month ago. His parents have a rental house, they told him he could rent it with some friends. He graduated with honors last year from High school, he got hired by our local shipyard and they are going to train him and pay for his degree as well. Well the shipyard kept moving his start date, but now he is set to start this fall. In the meantime he is still at home, working a temp full time job until he starts his other job. So they are treating him like a slave, he has a bedtime curfew, he's almost 21, does all the house work, yard work, fixes all their vehicles and bikes, and now they told him he has to save up 4 figures before he can rent the house, so in the meantime they rented it out to someone else. I don't even want to move in there with him when he supposedly gets the house, he will still be under there influence. He complains to me how much he wishes they were gone from his life forever, but especially wishes something would happen to his dad. Yet he still puts up with it. I want a spell to punish dad and mom, they need to see what they have done to him, feel his physical pain, and if that cant be done, get them out of his life forever. thank You

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Tue Jun 13, 2017 2:46 pm

Hello BabyGirl95,

This is all so terrible. What an awful situation to be stuck in :(

The first thing that came to my mind after reading your post was a mirror box. You could put his parents in a mirror box and bury it in a graveyard, so his parents' evil deeds will be reflected back upon them for eternity.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Have you or anyone ever reported his dad's violence to the police?

Some protection work could help your boyfriend:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

It will probably be hard to "get rid of" the parents, especially if he's living under their roof. Instead, I'd focus on getting your boyfriend out of that house and into a safe living situation as soon as possible, and take him away from them.

Good luck, keep us posted.
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Unread post by BabyGirl95 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:54 pm

Thank You Sister Jean,

Nobody has reported, because nobody but the immediate family knew. That is part of the problem, and my boyfriend is too scared too stand up to his dad, while he lives under there roof, and that's the other problem, since he is determined to get their rental house. To me that just means he will still be under their rule, and I am not comfortable doing that. I wish he would find an apartment or another rental house, anyway to get away from them. I am definitely going to do the mirror box, what oils or herbs would you recommend, because both parents need to realize what they have done...painfully works. can i also put both in the same box? And I will to protection for my boyfriend, is there a way that I can do protection and maybe courage, or something to wake him up and realize whats going on?

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Jun 17, 2017 7:28 pm

Hello, BabyGirl95 ,

Find the mirror box here: www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

There are many protection spells here: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

And Crucible of Courage here: www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

And maybe some clarity spells on him: www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I pray that things work out for him.

You are such a sweetie to care so much

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by lavender » Sun Feb 18, 2018 11:57 am

Hello everyone,
My background is more that of a Wicca (since 28 years ago almost 29) I'm newer to rootwork and Hoodoo. I am always careful with my spellwork because I can't seem to control it as well as I should (my best work is my mojo bags) so I've always stayed with the white magick side. However my family has become unbearable. Just one example I had surgery to remove a malignant ovarian tumor and my mother told me I was making a "drama" out of it. When I asked her for help after my surgery she suddenly went off on me calling me a "b" a liar, a manipulator, a fake etc. Prior to my surgery I had an accident that left me on crutches for 3 years and one day I was crying quietly behind closed doors and she yelled at me to shut the "f" up, that happened twice. She has been abusive to me since childhood. She turned my brother into a monster-nothing is his fault. It's a long story that you've probably all heard before. I decided to do a spell to simply block and return all negative energy back to my mother and brother AND anyone who said or did anything bad to me. Nothing happened to either one but my sister-in-law lost her job. But then several bad things happened to me. I don't even know what to ask? What did I do wrong in my spell? What can I do to send their negativity back? Is it the fact that as a Wicca I asked that beyond it being returned that it do so 3x over? I'm so tired and so tired of fighting to stay strong. Any help appreciated.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Mon Feb 19, 2018 11:23 am

Hello lavender,

I'm so sorry your mother is so abusive, my heart goes out to you. If you want to send her negativity back to her, you could always put her in a mirror box:

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

I'd also suggest some Healing work for yourself:

http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by lavender » Mon Feb 19, 2018 5:26 pm

Thank you Sister Jean, I am thinking after I read everything on the site about the reversal spells that maybe I will drive up north and buy my supplies in person and meet the staff. I’ve wanted to see the store in person since I first found them online some years back ( and that part of the state) . Thank you for your support and kindness.
I’ve had so much to deal with but the abuse on top of it has brought me to the breaking point.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by lavender » Tue Feb 20, 2018 8:23 am

Sister Jean (anyone?)
Is there a place on here that shows me how to protect myself when doing a reversal? I wonder if I didn't do it correctly the last time. Things are getting very bad and I'm scared. Thank you.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:16 am

Hello lavender,

Here are lots of ideas for protection:

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

If your physical well-being is in danger, please consider going to a shelter or calling the police.

Take care of yourself.
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Unread post by lavender » Wed Feb 21, 2018 3:11 pm

Thank you again Sister Jean. I don’t think I’m in physical danger but the mental part has become unbearable. I don’t want to cause hurt but I have to protect myself and returning what is being thrown at me is fair I feel and perhaps it will then stop. Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions and I visited your website. When my finances are better in a few months I am going to contact you. Many blessings and protection

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Sister Jean » Fri Feb 23, 2018 9:21 am

Hello lavender,

Reversing work only reverses back onto the person all the hurt that they have caused, and doesn't heap on new hurts, if that makes you feel better. You deserve to be free of this abuse.

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Re: Spells for Angry Depressed Negative Evil Abusive Parents

Unread post by Raneekah » Thu Mar 21, 2019 6:43 am

Hello, I'm new to this forum but have been a long time lurker and customer of LM. I read other posts in hopes of finding the answer but was unable to do so...
I'm having an issue w/ my ex husband and the father of 2 of my kids. We have shared custody of our 2 kids, but they live with him and his girlfriend and go to school there. The issue is he is abusing them both physically and mentally and is allowing his girlfriend to do so also.

I have done everything imaginable...calling cps, speaking to my lawyer, speaking to a court appointed evaluator but he is able to convince them all that he's a great dad. He drug my 9 year old daughter up the steps by her shirt and the shirt cut into her neck. He threw a water bottle at her face. My 6 year old son already has a huge scar from a 2nd degree burn from boiling water. There's so much more. I'm very concerned for them.

I've done a dume spell and paid someone to burn dume candles for me. I was told that the dume isn't the best thing to do for the father of my kids but I'm so scared for my kids safety. I'm thinking at this point, dume isn't the best option (even though I want him gone) so I want to do something to influence him to just give my kids to me and my husband and get out their lives. He lives with his girlfriend, doesn't work and lives off of her. Without her, he would be homeless with nothing to his name.

I'm going to order a kit thru here but I'm wondering what would be the best route. I'm really looking at the bend over spell but am wondering if that's the best route to go for him. The bend over spell seems to be the strongest one for what I need, but I'm not sure if another spell would be better. Maybe compelling would be better? My goal is for him to just give my kids to me, unharmed, and leave us alone. My target is him mainly, but I would also do a break up spell for him and his girlfriend in addition to the spell for him if anyone here thinks that would be helpful. We do not get along at all so a honey jar would not be appropriate for my situation. I need something to control him and get him out our lives for good.

I'm unable to go to their home but I have pics and can put something inside my kids backpacks that they would touch.

Sorry for the long post but I just want to give a thorough background on the situation. Thank you

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:38 am

Raneekah,

I have moved your post here. It seems like the most appropriate thread for your inquiry. Please be sure to not create new topics. Try and find the one most appropriate to your situation and if it lands in the wrong place we'll put it where it belongs.

First of all I'm so sorry to hear your children are going through this. I empathize with you greatly. Try looking around this forum for more answers and you are sure to come across some useful spells for your predicament.

Firstly I would work with St Michael the Archangel for protection for your children. You can perfom a fiery wall of protection spell in conjunction with this.

As far as he goes, a lot of action could be taken but I don't know if killing the father of your children would be the most appropriate here.

You say that a honey jar would be not be appropriate because the two of you don't get along, but this is the purpose of a sweet jar. It exists to sweeten the relations between people who otherwise may not be too kind to each other so I'd say that it WOULD be appropriate for your cause, but only if done along with other spell work.

As a matter of fact, I always find it most effective to work mildly dominating sweet spells in cases like this because just think if someone you didn't like or get along with came along making demands of you how you'd react. Not very accommodating right? Spirit is going to work on him in a similar manner. Making suggestions and gentle nudges at him if you work to influence him, and trying to force him to do something that will gratify you if you go the domination route. Just think of how that will play in bus psyche. I'm not saying it won't work, for we can't know for certain without a reading, but I'm saying it may be a good idea to try sweetening him first.

Compelling may be a good option. If he has any moral conscience and knows that his treatment of them is flat out wrong then compelling would tug on it to tell him that the best thing to do would be to give the kids over to you.

These are just some things to think about. My suggestion, second to starting protection work on your children immediately, is to get a reading done on the matter. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
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Unread post by Raneekah » Thu Mar 21, 2019 12:39 pm

Thank you so much for your thorough reply, and sorry i put the post in the incorrect spot. There's so much useful info so I guess I overlooked the appropriate thread.

I will definitely start with what you suggested. I am just so worried for their safety, which is why i went straight for dume. He is a nightmare and a danger so I felt that was the best option. I'll be getting a reading shortly then follow up with the fiery wall of protection for my kids.

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Thu Mar 21, 2019 2:27 pm

Raneekah,

I'm glad you're getting on it. You will want to also check out this forum so you can attack this from the legal angle as well. spells-for-child-custody-child-support- ... 2-480.html
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Unread post by MrsSchaeffer2020 » Thu Jun 13, 2019 9:07 pm

I had a reading earlier this week and my AIRR reader told me that my love's mother is a HUGE problem. I knew that, but she pointed out that she is a bigger problem than the ex that I broke him up with and that I don't need to save him, but help him.

His Mom is a horrible, abusive one who doesn't care if she drives him to the edge or over it. He knows and says it. I touched on it in another thread, but this is the internet so I don't want to get into too much detail.

My reader said I need to create a barrier, but I need to do it from the outside. She confirmed that the work I am doing will bring the happiness he and I both seek. But I'll be damned if I know what to do. I went through even worse than this with my own mother so I know how hard it is. Thankfully, they do not live together (he lives with his Dad).

There is no fixing her. She's done enough damage to him. I need to get her gone. I am going to redo the freezer spell and add some alum. My reader mentioned mirroring the mom. Would a mirror box work to keep her away from him?

I am open to anything. If you saw what she did to him, you would be too.


Thank you for any help and/or advice you can give.
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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Jun 14, 2019 10:44 am

MrsSchaeffer2020 ,

Seems you would want to use products like banishing or hotfoot to send her away, vinegar jar to sour her existence. I would also use crucible of courage oil and High John oil to give him strength. You can bind her up in a mirror box to hold her down and also her negativity will return to her. Add barberry to cause her to be stopped from acting, I also think knot weed to hold her down is another great additive.
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Fri Jun 14, 2019 12:39 pm

MrsSchaeffer2020, I say Amen to all that JayDee said. Then take that box to the graveyard. Look for a grave that is sympathetic to your love's situation and to you. Offer the traditional payments and bury the box at the grave where the deceased's right hand would be.

This will be much easier if the mirror box is small. When I'm doing this kind of work, I line an Altoids box with mirror fragments (a glue gun is your friend here). I generally crochet the doll baby with fine thread so it will fit in the little box. You could make a wax doll baby -- that would probably be easier.
There are also (non-magical) online forums where you can find strategy and emotional support. We generally don't link to non-hoodoo websites here, but you can google "justnoMIL," "justnofamily" and "LifeAfterNarcissism."
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Unread post by MrsSchaeffer2020 » Wed Jun 19, 2019 4:23 pm

Thank you both JayDee and Miss Michaele for your ideas and assistance.

I am making a box out of 3" mirror pieces. I hope that is small enough. I will definitely make sure that I keep the Altoids box in mind if I need to do it again.

I did Hot Foot her and do a vinegar jar, but I'll do them over alongside the mirror box.
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Unread post by mastersirius678 » Fri Aug 30, 2019 9:42 pm

So yes, it is time to talk about my mom's situation and get a second opinion from the experts here on what Lucky Mojo product to use.

My mom is this person that always talks about money and uses the topic of money in almost every single conversation I had with her. She also have this HUGE ego of her always being right. This is the only way to describe her right now. My parents are divorced but my mother will always find a reason for my father to give me money. My mother is in the US, and my father is still in Beijing, China. If you know anything at all about the currency exchange rate, you can tell that my father will have a hard time giving me money exchanged from RMB to USD. My mother does not suggest that my father gives me money, nope, she demands my father to give me those money, like commanding it.

Just so you guys know, my father is a Virgo, and my mother is a Scorpio. They are both acting exactly like their respective Sun signs. My father always analyzes the situation, while my mother just want to manipulate and control everything and everyone, no matter if it was me, my father, my twin sisters, my stepfather, or even my stepmother, heck, she just want to yell and control anyone she sees fit.

I asked my father on why is my mother like this and how did he ever fell in love with her back in the day. He told me that my mother was not always like this. Back in their college days, my mother was very generous, and kind, exactly the opposite of what she is today. What changed her was her decision to go study abroad in the US. My father tried to make her stay but she refused. I was only 5 years old at the time, and my father told me that during a time when I needed motherly love the most, my mother abandoned me to pursue her study in the US. During this time period, she would always ask my father for money to pay for tuition, which is how my mother had this mindset of always asking other people for money, it is like money is all she thinks about. I had also heard my mother's side of the story, she told me that she wanted to ditch her crappy library job in China and pursue a career at Yale University's library, and ultimately planned to bring me to the US and let me stay here. This was back in 1999 and almost the beginning of a new century. She finally did bring me to the US in 2003, and basically shoved American education down my throat from 6th grade to senior year in high school, and college, and yea, she is so proud of herself thinking she did everything right. While also divorcing my father and tearing the family apart.

Fast forward to modern day, I recently lost my job, got administratively discharged from the military. But got a new job and I'm starting on Sept 9th (yay!) However, I have no money to pay for the costs of relocating and moving. I told my mother an idea I have, which involves letting my father borrow me some money for about $2000, or at the best of his ability for help. Using airlines, hotels, and rental cars to report to work for the first couple of weeks, while also keep my previous apartment for one month at most to keep all my stuff and slowly move everything to my new job location. Which involves hopping around two cities for a while. My mother was not happy to hear this plan, she basically called me an idiot and all the bad words she could say in Chinese (at this point I questions if she is still my mom), and she didn't even hear me out. Of course after that, she yelled at my father again and basically unloaded her anger on my father. She demands that my father pay me $5000 for my moving costs and she wants to hold onto the money for me (trying to control my money). When my father tried to reason with her and wanted her to give me money also, she will just say that she doesn't have anything to give me, and she will only help me with nothing but giving me empty advice to follow, even if she want anything done, she would order my stepfather to do it.

That is not everything to my problem but the basics are there. Over my almost 16 years of being in the US, I developed this love-hate relationship with my mother, I love her as my mother, and to this day, I still do, but I hate her ego, and the way she always bring up money in every conversation we have. It is like she has this darkness inside her that wasn't there in the past, and she has this grand delusion that she is always right, even when clearly she isn't, and tried to control and manipulate people to do things her way, her "right: way.

So now, I can't bear to see her like this anymore, I want to fix my mother, I want her to be calm with her mind and be more understanding with her ways of thinking, and crush that big ego of hers. I have a few Influence candles, a few Van Van candles, and a Clarity candle, which is what I am thinking of using. I had MISC lit a Peaceful Home candle on my mother before, but I guess that didn't change her attitude too much. The root of the problem is still there.

So, with that being said, I welcome any second opinions on what I could use. I currently have no money to buy more Lucky Mojo products, so I am using what I have on hand.

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Sat Aug 31, 2019 9:49 am

Mastersirius678,

Wow, I can tell that this is really upsetting you and I see why. It's a hard thing to deal with when the love, affection, nurture, and guidance we look for in our mothers isn't apparent or otherwise completely absent; I empathize with you.

That said, I'll say that it's clear to me that your mother is in a great deal of pain herself, suffering from regret of past mistakes and poor decision making. It appears that she is resentful but wishes to place the blame on other people. It isn't right but it certainly is common.

You must realize that she didn't get this way over night and magic won't correct it over night. This could be a long road ahead for you if you wish to take it but it may be worth it in the end. My first advice to you would be to get a reading done on the matter with one of the experienced professionals at AIRR www.independentreadersandrootworkers.org or on Hoodoo Pyschics at http://www.hoodoopsychics.com/. They will help you to determine what is at the heart of the matter and the best way to approach it. If you opt not to do that then here are some things to get you started.

I would continue with the work you are already doing. Along with the skull candle work you are doing, be sure to anoint it with Lucky Mojo "Clarity" oil. I would also use "King Solomon Wisdom" along with "Influence Oil".

The next thing I would suggest is to get a Lucky Mojo Honey jar spell kit. I see where you said you don't have the money to make additional purchases at the moment so depending on what you have you could make one at home using what you have from Lucky Mojo already.

You'd need a jar, honey, and could use the influence and clarity products you have but you always want something that is good for that agape love.

I hope that this helps you.
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Unread post by mastersirius678 » Sat Aug 31, 2019 12:12 pm

Dr. Darensbourg

Thank you for your helpful advice. Yea, my mother is a mess right now but she doesn't want to admit it. Causing a lot of family disharmony.

The only skull candles I have are a couple of red skull candles I brought from an occult shop (they don't carry lucky mojo stuff), but I do have LM's Clarity oil. As I said before, I don't have money for anything at the moment so even a reading from AIRR is out of the question. I do have my own tarot cards so I'll just try to do the reading myself. I'm thinking of burning the vigil candles first, and follow up with the skull candle after I see what the burn results from the vigil candles first.

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Unread post by Dr Darensbourg » Sat Aug 31, 2019 12:16 pm

Mastersirius678,

If you're doing your own reading you may very well want to use the clarity oil on yourself as well to help you see the bigger picture.

Speaking from personal experience, it can be a little tough to decipher things accurately when we are affected by the choices others are making when we read on them.

Best of luck to you.
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Unread post by midas9 » Wed Sep 04, 2019 10:35 am

Hi. I'm 23 about to be 24 years old next week. I have been living with a narcissistic mother for 23 years. I have just realized that I have an emotional attachment to my mother that makes me feel like I'm obligated to take care of her and live the life that she wants me to live. I love my mother dearly. I love her to death. If I had to give my heart for her to live I would. But now I have the desire to move out on my own and live my own life and take care of myself without her constant supervision and controlling ways. I know, I'm way too old to be living with my mother, but I feel like I have to because she makes me feel so guilty when I'm not around her so it makes me feel really bad to leave her. She's completely healthy and has her own life, but we have this sick co-dependent relationship and I'm tired of it. I want to release myself energetically and emotionally so that I can feel free to make my own decisions. I don't want her out of my life completely. I still want to be able to hang out and have fun like we do, but I just want live my life separately from her and not feel bad about it or scared. What rituals do you suggest? Thanks

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Wed Sep 04, 2019 5:37 pm

midas9,

I would like to suggest working with Crucible of Courage oil and either Power oil or sachet powders. You have the will to leave, it sounds like all you need is that extra strength to follow through. It may be hard to move out and create that separation at first but after awhile it gets easier. She might make it difficult to move but stick to your guns. Enforce your boundaries and it usually creates a healthier relationship with family members.

You can dress your self or dress a purple candle with both while working for your independence.

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