Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
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pray to st. anthony to help bring back a lost lover. healing oil is just that or you can use blessing oil both work to help heal a broken heart. reconcilation oil and return to me oil with love me oil is a good mix on candles also to help him cometo you and love you. the kit is a good start ( rec kit) to get him back you write a letter asking for rec along with a mojo with balm of gildead buds which are amazing at getting people to forgive. a honey jar ( u can order) also would help sweeten him to you. dress the candles with the rec return and love me oil add one of the healing oils also.. look on LM website for more info on dressing candles to get more detail on that aspect. if you search the forum their are many convos on rec work which will give you more insight
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i have only practiced hoodoo for a short time, but i have come to see great things come from rootwork, i successfully completed the honey jar spell, now the love of my life wants to return to me. i know that i had troubles i had to fix before we started dating again so i worked on myself then used hoodoo to sweeten my love to me. and its all thanks to all of you who answered my seemingly dumb questions some times, thank you lucky mojo, i am greatfull to have the knowledge i hold now.
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What wonderful news. Keep the good work going on!
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You are welcomed sonny256.
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Dear msg33,
Yes indeed. When working a Reconciliation honey jar, it is especially appropriate to ask for the help of any ancestors who lived lives filled with love, fidelity, and all the rewards of a happy marriage.
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Yes indeed. When working a Reconciliation honey jar, it is especially appropriate to ask for the help of any ancestors who lived lives filled with love, fidelity, and all the rewards of a happy marriage.
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You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.
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It felt like Christmas morning opening my first package form LM...woo-hoo!
I could feel the love and care put into the package. Everyone on the forum and at the shop have been
incredibley helpful and inspiring.
Okay...I ordered a bunch of things. For reconciliation, should I start a honey jar first,
Return to Me Candle or the Reconciliation Kit? Should I space them out or do them all at once?
Also have various saints. Can they be used in conjunction with other workings?
I think doing everything at one time might be overkill...especially for me!
I could feel the love and care put into the package. Everyone on the forum and at the shop have been
incredibley helpful and inspiring.
Okay...I ordered a bunch of things. For reconciliation, should I start a honey jar first,
Return to Me Candle or the Reconciliation Kit? Should I space them out or do them all at once?
Also have various saints. Can they be used in conjunction with other workings?
I think doing everything at one time might be overkill...especially for me!
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I am a novice too, but when i plan a working for a specific end result, i just take time out to think of what makes sense to me based on what i have read in cat's book and HITAP ( online)... also factor in the kind of time yo have available in the days you plan to do your working in ..for me a proper set upa dn one type of spell is about all i can handle before i feel like i ned a break..
also some spells are long acting and some not as much...for instance if i were you i would probably begin with the honey jar because it is long acting so you should get it going, it is also the easist one to get going and can be set up in one day if u have all he personal effects linied up..then i would do either of the other two assuming its for the same person...if u dont have enough time go ahead and light the candle ..how many days long is the recon spell kit for..1 week? maybe more experienced workers can correct me here...
also before u do any of thisit would be a good idea to do a 'spring cleaning' of sorts and give yr place a good scrub down with chinese wash , and smudge with sage...with the intention of getting rid of all negative energy...also take a cleanising bath before beginning, and ideally on a daily basis thru out the conjure work....even a good sea/kosher salt scrub with intention is good....i tend to make a nicee bath scrub with kosher salt/olive oil and any LM oil i want to use for that effect, it feels GREAT
good luck and i will watch this thread iwth interest for other replies
Z
also some spells are long acting and some not as much...for instance if i were you i would probably begin with the honey jar because it is long acting so you should get it going, it is also the easist one to get going and can be set up in one day if u have all he personal effects linied up..then i would do either of the other two assuming its for the same person...if u dont have enough time go ahead and light the candle ..how many days long is the recon spell kit for..1 week? maybe more experienced workers can correct me here...
also before u do any of thisit would be a good idea to do a 'spring cleaning' of sorts and give yr place a good scrub down with chinese wash , and smudge with sage...with the intention of getting rid of all negative energy...also take a cleanising bath before beginning, and ideally on a daily basis thru out the conjure work....even a good sea/kosher salt scrub with intention is good....i tend to make a nicee bath scrub with kosher salt/olive oil and any LM oil i want to use for that effect, it feels GREAT
good luck and i will watch this thread iwth interest for other replies
Z
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I'm with zee about doing a cleansing of your residence first. Even your desk and computer, etc. if you've had arguments online. Cleanse whatever may contain negativity from previous fights. And of course your altar, before you start.
I've never done a honey jar and a spell kit together, but rather a combination of things (like honey jar plus moving lodestone ritual). If I were doing this, I'd do the spell kit first since it's a seven day ritual and I'd want to focus on that. Rather than go off to light a candle on the honey jar before/after I work the ritual for the morning.
Then I'll start the honey jar - I don't think it'd be an overkill since it's long-term work, to keep the atmosphere sweet. There's a great post about Reconciliation Honey Jar where Johannes mentioned working with hyssop: use white candles on the jar, a bit of hyssop in the reconciliation incense and in the powder surrounding the jar, and pray psalm 51 for removal of sin and guilt from both parties so the relationship can be off to a fresh start.
I've never done a honey jar and a spell kit together, but rather a combination of things (like honey jar plus moving lodestone ritual). If I were doing this, I'd do the spell kit first since it's a seven day ritual and I'd want to focus on that. Rather than go off to light a candle on the honey jar before/after I work the ritual for the morning.
Then I'll start the honey jar - I don't think it'd be an overkill since it's long-term work, to keep the atmosphere sweet. There's a great post about Reconciliation Honey Jar where Johannes mentioned working with hyssop: use white candles on the jar, a bit of hyssop in the reconciliation incense and in the powder surrounding the jar, and pray psalm 51 for removal of sin and guilt from both parties so the relationship can be off to a fresh start.
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I'm placing my order today, I understand what fixed means LoL but I'm not exactally sure what the deal is b/t the two b/c the description says that you fill in the unfixed jar so what comes in the fixed one?
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The fixed one comes with the contents that are needed. The unfixed jar comes with nothing. No contents.
"Painted bottle spells that have not been fixed are empty of contents and you may select your own ingredients and fill them to your own specifications."
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbottles.html
"Painted bottle spells that have not been fixed are empty of contents and you may select your own ingredients and fill them to your own specifications."
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbottles.html
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Okay one other question then if ordering the fixed jar can I then add other items? I.E. pictures or just leave it as is?
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Yes, it comes with directions. You are expected to add your own personal concerns.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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KK Thanks starsinthesky7 that's all I needed to know. 
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here is my situation
I recently got into an argument with my significant other. We reconciled but i havent heard from him in a week. So Im confused about our relationship status. I had a reading prior to this saying that we had an amazing connection and that we were both in love and crazy about each other and it was all positive. However now, Im wondering if I screwed that all up? I have a honey jar starting this week, but now Im wondering if reconciliation work is in order as well? We did make up, but Im wondering if it wasnt a real reconciliation and more him just being nice?
I have never not heard from him for this long since we've been together. He usually calls me everyday.
We arent angry with each other anymore, but I feel like the love is fading? I dont know if recon work is really appropriate. Would a honey jar in theory boost this and bring things back to the way we were? or even make us love each other more than we did before?
I recently got into an argument with my significant other. We reconciled but i havent heard from him in a week. So Im confused about our relationship status. I had a reading prior to this saying that we had an amazing connection and that we were both in love and crazy about each other and it was all positive. However now, Im wondering if I screwed that all up? I have a honey jar starting this week, but now Im wondering if reconciliation work is in order as well? We did make up, but Im wondering if it wasnt a real reconciliation and more him just being nice?
I have never not heard from him for this long since we've been together. He usually calls me everyday.
We arent angry with each other anymore, but I feel like the love is fading? I dont know if recon work is really appropriate. Would a honey jar in theory boost this and bring things back to the way we were? or even make us love each other more than we did before?
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I'd recommend you get another reading due to this turn of events. Remember that readings aren't set in stone and something small can change the entire outcome you were told. IMO, it sounds like he might still be a little miffed, but there's really no way to tell without a reading. I would personally hold off on the reconciliation work until you know exactly what's going on as it might be unneeded. A simple talk might fix things.
Doing a honey jar is a good idea if you'd like him to be sweeter towards you, but that alone isn't going to put the spark back into the relationship. If you're looking to boost your relationship, I'd look into using Fire of Love and/or Chuparrosa products in conjunction with the honey jar.
Doing a honey jar is a good idea if you'd like him to be sweeter towards you, but that alone isn't going to put the spark back into the relationship. If you're looking to boost your relationship, I'd look into using Fire of Love and/or Chuparrosa products in conjunction with the honey jar.
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Have you tried to contact him Olivialeigh?
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I would not wait for a reading. A week is too long. Call him, make nice, pray for reconciliation and work for it spiritually as well.
If a reconciliation can be effected, remember that Return to Me is another good line of herb-based supplies that is intended to bring a lover back.
Blessing, and good luck.
If a reconciliation can be effected, remember that Return to Me is another good line of herb-based supplies that is intended to bring a lover back.
Blessing, and good luck.
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Thanks everyone. I will contact him, keep things light and play nice. If he rejects me and refuses to respond, then he rejects me.. I'll just have to do deal with that. I keep waiting for him to contact me first. He always has in the past. I hate swallowing my pride and making the first move. I guess in this case I have to 
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Hi,
My airr reader told me that I need to start a honey jar for my friend that I want to reconcile with. She said not to do any compelling work... only healing. SO, unless it's real obvious I'm not exactly sure what products would be considered compelling. For instance, are road opening products considered compelling?
besides reconciliation products I'm not exactly sure what I should be using in my honey jar.
A LM forum graduate gave me an idea to put candles in a triangle around my honey jar to help increase the power, I love that idea but what can I do with the candles that are non compelling. Maybe one candle can be road opening (assuming this is not compelling) to help open the roads for his return (I was given this idea by the LM forum Grad) BUT I wouldn't know what to do with the other two candles.
Anything non compelling that will help speed this honey jar up. I dont really have time for slow moving honey jars but I have to take my readers advice on doing one... but I am moving soon! I literally have less than two months! He was suppose to move with us. MAYBE FAST LUCK?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My airr reader told me that I need to start a honey jar for my friend that I want to reconcile with. She said not to do any compelling work... only healing. SO, unless it's real obvious I'm not exactly sure what products would be considered compelling. For instance, are road opening products considered compelling?
besides reconciliation products I'm not exactly sure what I should be using in my honey jar.
A LM forum graduate gave me an idea to put candles in a triangle around my honey jar to help increase the power, I love that idea but what can I do with the candles that are non compelling. Maybe one candle can be road opening (assuming this is not compelling) to help open the roads for his return (I was given this idea by the LM forum Grad) BUT I wouldn't know what to do with the other two candles.
Anything non compelling that will help speed this honey jar up. I dont really have time for slow moving honey jars but I have to take my readers advice on doing one... but I am moving soon! I literally have less than two months! He was suppose to move with us. MAYBE FAST LUCK?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Why don't you ask your worker which products would be appropriate? She probably wants you to use something like Reconciliation rather than Compelling, Controlling, Essence of Bendover, etc.
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I don't know the protocol. It was a 15 minute email reading that I got on Saturday? Wouldn't it be inappropriate to ask for more without paying?
I do already know that she said no compelling that's why I was asking what I could use in my honey jar and on the candles
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I do already know that she said no compelling that's why I was asking what I could use in my honey jar and on the candles
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Phonehappy,
Compelling is compelling. Controlling, commanding and, essence of bend over are different degrees of coerciveness. Basically getting someone to do what you want them to do.
Road opener is not coercive. Please look at the description of road opening.
www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
So again, you are having the reconciliaton honey jar in the middle. Since you are trying to initiate contact with your friend you should have a brown candle dressed with tobacco, and/or tobbacco oil along with deer tongue. Another red candle dressed with return to me candle. and an orange candle to open the way to help remove the obstacles to help the reconciliation process.
Compelling is compelling. Controlling, commanding and, essence of bend over are different degrees of coerciveness. Basically getting someone to do what you want them to do.
Road opener is not coercive. Please look at the description of road opening.
www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
So again, you are having the reconciliaton honey jar in the middle. Since you are trying to initiate contact with your friend you should have a brown candle dressed with tobacco, and/or tobbacco oil along with deer tongue. Another red candle dressed with return to me candle. and an orange candle to open the way to help remove the obstacles to help the reconciliation process.
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Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Interesting. I'm not trying to hijack, here, but I'm wondering whether you could substitute a yellow candle dressed with Van Van for the orange candle dressed with Road Opener. Would this yield a similar result? I've got Van Van but haven't got any Road Opener.starsinthesky7 wrote:So again, you are having the reconciliaton honey jar in the middle. Since you are trying to initiate contact with your friend you should have a brown candle dressed with tobacco, and/or tobbacco oil along with deer tongue. Another red candle dressed with return to me candle. and an orange candle to open the way to help remove the obstacles to help the reconciliation process.
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The 3 candles around the reconciliation jar are not set in stone. You can change them accordingly to you work. You could add a van van candle as it helps change bad luck into good luck and it can allow new opportunities to come in.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Thanks!!
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Love the suggestions. I have to ask did you do the reconcilation spell kit as designated? we dont really know what happened but reconcilation, healing oil should help get over the hurt, and if you take the step foward. maybe appologise to them for it. regardless of your work time heals all wounds. speed up a jar, burn a candle on it daily, pray over it daily, smack the side of it daily calling on this persons spirit and stating your petition, use candles dressed in oils and rolled in herbs or powders similar to ur cause.
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I really am still in shock at how well everything has been working for me. I have absolutely no experience in hoodoo or anything even closely related to it and I really just turned to it out of desperation. My boyfriend and I have been off and on for a year and a half. I broke it off with him in March and we talked occasionally. He started dating other people around May and I was completely fine with it and even encouraged it. Several times he tried telling me to come back and he would stop seeing these girls but I wasn't ready. I tried to "date" other people but it never got past a few conversations and those conversations would just make me miss him and our relationship. By the end of August I was ready to come back and appreciate him and our love, but I had waited, too, long. He was ready to get a little more serious with one of the girls he was dating. We met up and talked and I cried and begged and he cried but told me he couldn't trust me anymore. That he still loved me, but I broke his heart and it would never be the same and that he needed to move on. I was devastated and desperate like I mentioned earlier. I was Facebook stalking like a pro and googling how to get your ex back when I started finding different results for spells. One day I came across a red apple spell and decided to go for it. That's how I found LM. I needed oils and candles and I really didn't feel comfortable walking into any of the shops here. I found everything I needed here and within a week I working my first spell. During the week while I was waiting for my supplies he and I talked and he basically told me to leave him alone and not to contact him for a few months so he could give his new relationship the chance it deserved. I was so crushed. I started the spell with a heavy heart. It was supposed to take about a week. On the 6th day he called me and wanted to talk. We had several conversations and he seemed very confused and torn suddenly. I decided at this point to order a honey jar. While I was waiting for the jar he made the decision to end his relationship with the other woman. I assume this change of heart was from the red apple spell. I was very happy but at the same time I noticed a lot of sadness and resentment from him. If I told him I loved him he would tell me that he loved me but it wasn't the same and he didn't know if we could ever get back there. At one point he told me to stop telling him I loved him. Last Wednesday he woke up and decided he needed to get away and went to go visit his family. I was really upset at all the rejection. We talked on the phone and the conversations weren't going so well. On Friday I received my honey jar. I worked it that night and when it was done around 11 pm I went straight to bed. The next morning I woke up and he had texted me just after midnight asking if I was doing ok and that he was just thinking about me and how we had both put each other through so much. The next two days he just became so much more responsive and attentive. Suddenly he was answering all my calls even if he was in the middle of dinner and he would call me back as soon as he finished instead of ignoring my calls and texting me short replies like "busy" and my favorite "k". This morning I'm up early because he called me at 2 am to tell me that he couldn't sleep because he missed me so much. He said he decided he would come home first thing tomorrow morning so he could spend some time with me. I have never been happier to be woken up in my life. Then about ten minutes later he called me back and told me that he loved me. I really can't believe my hopeless situation turned around so quickly. I will be burning my honey jar candles every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday until they're gone!
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That's awesome I love hearing success stories and how they work for people.LM is a special place I've come to adore myself..Be blessed in Magick hun!!!
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Thanks everyone!
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Do you remember which honey jar you ordered? This is new to me. I need help ordering the correct honey jar.
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Lucky Mojo Honey Jars are without a doubt some of the best things i've ever used. They sweeten without coercing which i think makes them so valuable because they allow things to happen almost organically. The few times i've used them have worked wonders for healing broken relationships or starting new ones with healthy attachments (ones that are grown with the relationship, not by force) I highly recommend them to anyone who is looking for strong results with a more subtle approach.
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Hello everyone
I am starting a Reconciliation Honey Jar, for me and the guy I am involved with, we have been off and on for years and we are still sexually involved we are in-love however our ruff past is holding us back from moving forward. He has informed me that he loves me and loves spending time together but he doesn't feel good about being in a relationship with me because of things that have happened in our past.
What I want to know is what other herbs besides the ones that came with the kit can I add to remove bad thoughts about the past/ to make him forget about the bad things that are holding us back from being in a relationship? (Besides a sqare of camphor)
We get alone great but there is some fear about us being together, so what I hope to gain is to put an end to the thoughts/emotions of the negativity of the past and move happily forward with the future with peace, respect and trust
I am starting a Reconciliation Honey Jar, for me and the guy I am involved with, we have been off and on for years and we are still sexually involved we are in-love however our ruff past is holding us back from moving forward. He has informed me that he loves me and loves spending time together but he doesn't feel good about being in a relationship with me because of things that have happened in our past.
What I want to know is what other herbs besides the ones that came with the kit can I add to remove bad thoughts about the past/ to make him forget about the bad things that are holding us back from being in a relationship? (Besides a sqare of camphor)
We get alone great but there is some fear about us being together, so what I hope to gain is to put an end to the thoughts/emotions of the negativity of the past and move happily forward with the future with peace, respect and trust
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You say you have a kit, are you speaking of the Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit? If so then all the herbs needed to help heal past emotional hurts are already in that mixture. You need to just start working that jar regularly as per the instructions and let it do it's thing. Healing can take a little time so keep at it.
Also, I'm curious as to why you would put Camphor into a Reconciliation honey jar? Camphor is not a good thing to ingest, and since you will be eating a little of the honey then I would really encourage you against doing this.
Also, I'm curious as to why you would put Camphor into a Reconciliation honey jar? Camphor is not a good thing to ingest, and since you will be eating a little of the honey then I would really encourage you against doing this.
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good morning,
I have a reconcilation honey jar that i have been burning on Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays with pink candles since the last part of October of 2012, Its for my husband.
we have talked by phone so far and he still has resentments with me however we agreed we still love each other.
I always placed his picture under the bottom of the jar, i did some thing different yesterday, i cut and placed a picture of myself next to his since some of me is in that jar my hair with his the candles have always burned down and only the wicks could be seen yesterday it burned down but you could still see a little of the pink and i burned a white candle this morning i wanted to do this because i got a feeling we both need some peace calm between each other, so question --
can i burn for seven days one pink one white each day?
also it was resistance in the white candle knots which caused it to build up a little and drip down the sides. any suggestions?
thanks
I have a reconcilation honey jar that i have been burning on Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays with pink candles since the last part of October of 2012, Its for my husband.
we have talked by phone so far and he still has resentments with me however we agreed we still love each other.
I always placed his picture under the bottom of the jar, i did some thing different yesterday, i cut and placed a picture of myself next to his since some of me is in that jar my hair with his the candles have always burned down and only the wicks could be seen yesterday it burned down but you could still see a little of the pink and i burned a white candle this morning i wanted to do this because i got a feeling we both need some peace calm between each other, so question --
can i burn for seven days one pink one white each day?
also it was resistance in the white candle knots which caused it to build up a little and drip down the sides. any suggestions?
thanks
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
mistie --
Yes, you can burn white and pink alternating or in series on a Reconciliation Honey Jar kit.
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Yes, you can burn white and pink alternating or in series on a Reconciliation Honey Jar kit.
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi, I just received my second reconciliation honey jar from the Lucky Mojo. but I got the wrong instructions. I believe the herbs are the ones for reconciliation because I remember the first time I order the honey jar. But I receive instructions for a break up.
The first time I got the jar, I follow the instructions but I did not have any of his personal concerns. Now I got the hair, but I am not sure about how to write the name on the paper and I was hoping to follow the instructions. Could you help me with this?
Thanks,
Gabriela
The first time I got the jar, I follow the instructions but I did not have any of his personal concerns. Now I got the hair, but I am not sure about how to write the name on the paper and I was hoping to follow the instructions. Could you help me with this?
Thanks,
Gabriela
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Gabriela10 --
It sounds like a page was missing or one of the pages was wrong. There should be TWO 2-sided sheets in your Honey Jar Spell Kit instructions:
1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) HONEY JAR SPELLS PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Reconciliation Spell (can be adapted for any sweet spell)
Bottle Spells also come with TWO sheets of instructions:
1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) BOTTLE AND JAR SPELLS, PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Break-Up Spell (can be adapted for any bottle spell)
So if you got the wrong instruction sheets -- and it sounds like you did -- please call the shop at 707-887-1521 and ask for Lesie, Aidan, or Robin -- and give them your name, invoice number, or some identification of who you are and what you ordered, and ask them to send you the HONEY JAR INSTRUCTIONS from the "Honey Jars Masters" file folder.
Sorry about that -- and i would do it myself, but i don't know who you are by your screen name and anyway, customer service is their job! LOL!
It sounds like a page was missing or one of the pages was wrong. There should be TWO 2-sided sheets in your Honey Jar Spell Kit instructions:
1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) HONEY JAR SPELLS PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Reconciliation Spell (can be adapted for any sweet spell)
Bottle Spells also come with TWO sheets of instructions:
1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) BOTTLE AND JAR SPELLS, PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Break-Up Spell (can be adapted for any bottle spell)
So if you got the wrong instruction sheets -- and it sounds like you did -- please call the shop at 707-887-1521 and ask for Lesie, Aidan, or Robin -- and give them your name, invoice number, or some identification of who you are and what you ordered, and ask them to send you the HONEY JAR INSTRUCTIONS from the "Honey Jars Masters" file folder.
Sorry about that -- and i would do it myself, but i don't know who you are by your screen name and anyway, customer service is their job! LOL!
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi Cat,
You wrote, "When working a Reconciliation honey jar, it is especially appropriate to ask for the help of any ancestors who lived lives filled with love, fidelity, and all the rewards of a happy marriage."
I noticed this quote pertained to a question I had regarding asking ancestors for help with the reconciliation honey jar. My greatgrandparents were happily married for 57 years. The cemetery they are buried at isn't too far from my home and they are buried next to each other. How can I petition their help in reconciling my relationship?
You wrote, "When working a Reconciliation honey jar, it is especially appropriate to ask for the help of any ancestors who lived lives filled with love, fidelity, and all the rewards of a happy marriage."
I noticed this quote pertained to a question I had regarding asking ancestors for help with the reconciliation honey jar. My greatgrandparents were happily married for 57 years. The cemetery they are buried at isn't too far from my home and they are buried next to each other. How can I petition their help in reconciling my relationship?
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
I recently started a reconciliation bottle spell to go along with a honey jar. I re-opened the bottle to burn another candle and now after reading up in the forum not sure if that was a mistake or not. I read you could open and add more things and also read that the spell is basically dead if bottle is open. Just want to clarify so that if I need to start over I can.
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I'm going to answer this question with a link:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Click on all links.
Don't second guess your work. This is a statement I am writing out of context. Do not for example add "Essence of Bend Over", why-- See the honey jar thread.
Seek help and magical coaching from a Member of AIRR:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Sign up for this week's Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour:
radio-show-pre-call-id-february-17th,-2013-t24251.html
Good luck and Be Blessed!
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http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Click on all links.
Don't second guess your work. This is a statement I am writing out of context. Do not for example add "Essence of Bend Over", why-- See the honey jar thread.
Seek help and magical coaching from a Member of AIRR:
http://readersandrootworkers.org
Sign up for this week's Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour:
radio-show-pre-call-id-february-17th,-2013-t24251.html
Good luck and Be Blessed!
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Work the Lucky Mojo products for you and for those that you hold dearly!
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
I have purchased the reconciliation honey jar from lucky mojo and will be working it to get my ex-boyfriend back. I was wondering if its okay to add come to me oil and healing oil with the reconciliation oil on the pink candles to burn on it? Thank you
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Novagrey21,
A simple way to petition ancestors is to place a photo of them (together, if possible) in a fame on the altar where you are working your reconciliation spell. Talk to them about what you want -- an end to squabbles, hard talk, and impatience, and an increase of sweetness, kindliness, and mutual affection.
A more complex method would be to take coins and flowers to their grave as offerings and collect some of their dirt, and keep it in a bowl on the altar in front of the photo on your altar Stick a small white candle in the bowl of dirt and light it when you ask them for help.
Good luck.
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SugarLoveHoney,
Yes, that mixture is fine.
Good luck.
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A simple way to petition ancestors is to place a photo of them (together, if possible) in a fame on the altar where you are working your reconciliation spell. Talk to them about what you want -- an end to squabbles, hard talk, and impatience, and an increase of sweetness, kindliness, and mutual affection.
A more complex method would be to take coins and flowers to their grave as offerings and collect some of their dirt, and keep it in a bowl on the altar in front of the photo on your altar Stick a small white candle in the bowl of dirt and light it when you ask them for help.
Good luck.
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SugarLoveHoney,
Yes, that mixture is fine.
Good luck.
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Reconciliation and Return Honey Spell
$18.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
I found this idea on another site and while it appeals to me, one thing bugs me. Basically, it calls for making a honey jar in a hollowed out apple like a jack o lantern.
It says...:
The Ritual
Carve the top of the apple (like a jack-o-lantern) so that you'll be able to remove the top and replace it again.
Write the full name and birth date of the person you desire on the piece of cardboard. Take that, along with their photo (optional, for a stronger spell) and place it in the center of the apple.
Put three spoonfuls of honey and sugar inside the center and put the apple lid back on the apple
If you want your lover to be bound to you, wrap the apple in your underwear (a pair you'll never use again)
Then place the apple in an airtight container (Tupperware is fine) and put in the farthest corner of your closet and don't touch it for an entire week.
As the week starts to pass the apple will get mushy. The mushier the apple gets, the mushier your lover's heart will get and the more their desires for you will show.
After a week has passed, check the apple and if you feel it's not mushy enough let it sit for a day or a few more days, than bury it in the ground.
My concern, the apple will naturally mold, would that have a negative effect on the work? Or am I over thinking? Opinions? Thanks!
It says...:
The Ritual
Carve the top of the apple (like a jack-o-lantern) so that you'll be able to remove the top and replace it again.
Write the full name and birth date of the person you desire on the piece of cardboard. Take that, along with their photo (optional, for a stronger spell) and place it in the center of the apple.
Put three spoonfuls of honey and sugar inside the center and put the apple lid back on the apple
If you want your lover to be bound to you, wrap the apple in your underwear (a pair you'll never use again)
Then place the apple in an airtight container (Tupperware is fine) and put in the farthest corner of your closet and don't touch it for an entire week.
As the week starts to pass the apple will get mushy. The mushier the apple gets, the mushier your lover's heart will get and the more their desires for you will show.
After a week has passed, check the apple and if you feel it's not mushy enough let it sit for a day or a few more days, than bury it in the ground.
My concern, the apple will naturally mold, would that have a negative effect on the work? Or am I over thinking? Opinions? Thanks!
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi Jules6186,
Making a honey jar from a hollowed out red onion or red apple is quite traditional in hoodoo although this variation is a bit mixed up from the looks of it (a more experienced worker will no doubt be able to confirm or deny that with more certainty).
Différences insofar as I can see them:
(1) the personal concerns and petition would be made as for any other honey jar.
(2) the wrapping the apple in underwear is trying to combine a honey jar spell with a binding spell - wouldn't quite work it that way. Tying a doll-baby in your underwear when you're not working it - OK. Using it on a honey-jar? Really not sure on that - I certainly wouldn't do it as it makes the whole dang thing pretty unwieldy.
(3) no way on the airtight container. these spells are often done in a coffee tin that candles can be burnt on or in a planting pot, covered with soil and used to plant a house-plant (a fern is great) in. That way as the plant grows, it is fed by the spell beneath.
(4) burial in the ground is a valid form of disposal. the front yard would be traditional as it brings in your desire.
There is also a section on this type of spell in Miss Cat's page on honey jars here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Making a honey jar from a hollowed out red onion or red apple is quite traditional in hoodoo although this variation is a bit mixed up from the looks of it (a more experienced worker will no doubt be able to confirm or deny that with more certainty).
Différences insofar as I can see them:
(1) the personal concerns and petition would be made as for any other honey jar.
(2) the wrapping the apple in underwear is trying to combine a honey jar spell with a binding spell - wouldn't quite work it that way. Tying a doll-baby in your underwear when you're not working it - OK. Using it on a honey-jar? Really not sure on that - I certainly wouldn't do it as it makes the whole dang thing pretty unwieldy.
(3) no way on the airtight container. these spells are often done in a coffee tin that candles can be burnt on or in a planting pot, covered with soil and used to plant a house-plant (a fern is great) in. That way as the plant grows, it is fed by the spell beneath.
(4) burial in the ground is a valid form of disposal. the front yard would be traditional as it brings in your desire.
There is also a section on this type of spell in Miss Cat's page on honey jars here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hey everyone!
I was wondering if anyone could help or give any tips or help to increase the success rate for my honey jar spell to sweeten up my ex to give me another chance, specifically for gay guys in mind. We split up 6 months ago over a very silly argument, and we had been getting on fine until that point.
Recently, my ex and me went to the pub, and he stated he wanted to get back together, but was scared of a repeat of the row after a few drinks. However, he stated he forgot what he said the next day!
This is probably genuine, as he used to forget events all the time when he was drunk when we were dating. I'll leave it up to you to decide whether people say what they really mean when they are drunk!
As that is another debate. My ex is very wary of relationships as his ex before me cheated on him and stole money. So he is hard work.I did consult a psychic (who was about 75% accurate of my past), who said If I just left him alone for 2 months he would come back, but that is hard work too as we live in a small town and have lots of mutual friends.
For the honey jar I used organic honey, I put my petition paper in, with 2 magnets, rose quartz, lavender and roses from the garden, along with some yarrow, catnip and cloves. For effects I used 2 photos, one of us together, and 2 separate pics of us joined with honey to the mouth, and some snips of his shirt and boot soles. The pics were anointed with come to me oil, and the petition was sprinkled with come to me and follow me boy powder from a local witch's shop.
For the candle work, I've been alternating burning a red and pink candle, also anointing with follow me boy and come to me. I have been praying my intent along with psalm 32 ( but this is also debatable, as most religions are vehemently opposed to homosexual relationships, and my ex is aggressively atheist, though I'm open minded to all religions) So far the candles and burning well, they randomly flicker for a few minutes, but then are calm, but don't leave much wax. As well as looking out for any tips ( for example, is it worth petioning a saint or angel to help?) I'll post any results
I was wondering if anyone could help or give any tips or help to increase the success rate for my honey jar spell to sweeten up my ex to give me another chance, specifically for gay guys in mind. We split up 6 months ago over a very silly argument, and we had been getting on fine until that point.
Recently, my ex and me went to the pub, and he stated he wanted to get back together, but was scared of a repeat of the row after a few drinks. However, he stated he forgot what he said the next day!
For the honey jar I used organic honey, I put my petition paper in, with 2 magnets, rose quartz, lavender and roses from the garden, along with some yarrow, catnip and cloves. For effects I used 2 photos, one of us together, and 2 separate pics of us joined with honey to the mouth, and some snips of his shirt and boot soles. The pics were anointed with come to me oil, and the petition was sprinkled with come to me and follow me boy powder from a local witch's shop.
For the candle work, I've been alternating burning a red and pink candle, also anointing with follow me boy and come to me. I have been praying my intent along with psalm 32 ( but this is also debatable, as most religions are vehemently opposed to homosexual relationships, and my ex is aggressively atheist, though I'm open minded to all religions) So far the candles and burning well, they randomly flicker for a few minutes, but then are calm, but don't leave much wax. As well as looking out for any tips ( for example, is it worth petioning a saint or angel to help?) I'll post any results
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi Jamie,
Your honey jar work sounds solid: keep it going. Adding some blue candle burning with Tranquility, Healting and King Solomon Wisdom can give you both a hand to get over past hurt, understand each other better and move forward on a firm foot. You may even want to work a full reconciliation spell kit to get things up to the next level.
With regards to the psychic reading - if you have contact with a target and want reconciliation - leaving them alone is not usually a good plan. Try and maintain communication as you've been doing. Stay and be a supportive friend as you've been doing since this will ultimately build his trust in you.
When it comes to silly arguments, look at what caused the argument, weak points on both sides - and start thinking of an action plan for dealing with similar situations in future. Knowing how you react and being honest about it will allow you to develop the coping methods to deal with those tendencies in future. Crucible of Courage and King Solomon Wisdom Bath crystals combined in equal amounts make great bath-tub soaks you can use the time from to journal about this, think about it, or read books on the subject to help you grow.
Overall you've got some movement happening and you're working in the right direction. Keep it up and keep us updated as things develop.
Blessings and Success.
Your honey jar work sounds solid: keep it going. Adding some blue candle burning with Tranquility, Healting and King Solomon Wisdom can give you both a hand to get over past hurt, understand each other better and move forward on a firm foot. You may even want to work a full reconciliation spell kit to get things up to the next level.
With regards to the psychic reading - if you have contact with a target and want reconciliation - leaving them alone is not usually a good plan. Try and maintain communication as you've been doing. Stay and be a supportive friend as you've been doing since this will ultimately build his trust in you.
When it comes to silly arguments, look at what caused the argument, weak points on both sides - and start thinking of an action plan for dealing with similar situations in future. Knowing how you react and being honest about it will allow you to develop the coping methods to deal with those tendencies in future. Crucible of Courage and King Solomon Wisdom Bath crystals combined in equal amounts make great bath-tub soaks you can use the time from to journal about this, think about it, or read books on the subject to help you grow.
Overall you've got some movement happening and you're working in the right direction. Keep it up and keep us updated as things develop.
Blessings and Success.
Aura Laforest
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi Thanks your tips regarding trying the blue candle, it was a good idea, I'll give it a go!
My ex never initiates contact, except via facebook liking photos and statuses, he never texts. If I arrange an outing for just us two, he used to come, but rarely does now. I feel like i'm just being a pest and obsessive...I keep communication open by inviting him to events from our mutual friends. The psychic's opinion was that, as I'm chasing him he doesn't feel the need to make the effort to contact me and he hasn't been given a chance to miss me. So I just decided to stop texting and leave him alone for a bit.
My ex never initiates contact, except via facebook liking photos and statuses, he never texts. If I arrange an outing for just us two, he used to come, but rarely does now. I feel like i'm just being a pest and obsessive...I keep communication open by inviting him to events from our mutual friends. The psychic's opinion was that, as I'm chasing him he doesn't feel the need to make the effort to contact me and he hasn't been given a chance to miss me. So I just decided to stop texting and leave him alone for a bit.
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
I shared this trick once (when I was using a different account - it got deleted after I didn't post for a long while).
Burn a pink candle dressed with deer's tongue (for communication) on your honey jar. Burn two orange candles dressed with Road opener oil on the sides (for road opening, and drawing attention/speeding things up a little).
Good luck.
Burn a pink candle dressed with deer's tongue (for communication) on your honey jar. Burn two orange candles dressed with Road opener oil on the sides (for road opening, and drawing attention/speeding things up a little).
Good luck.
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
HI Thanks for the tips, I've been doing the jar 3 days and got a couple of signs, a car in front of me registration had hid first name, and a spam email with his surname in the title. Or are they coincedences? Who knows? lol
I guess it'll be for the long haul. The ex is a stubborn mother, he even rebelled and smoked cigarettes against his anti smoking medication when it worked and smoking started to make him feel sick
I guess it'll be for the long haul. The ex is a stubborn mother, he even rebelled and smoked cigarettes against his anti smoking medication when it worked and smoking started to make him feel sick
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
So ive done my first honey jar to reconcile with a guy im dating. Everything was going great with us until he asked me if i had sex with a man that he knew. I did six years ago twice but that was it. I lied to him, then i came clean about it thinking he would respect that i came clean about it. Its been two weeks now he hasnt responded to calls or texts. I got a reading done, and was told i still have him in my hand. So my honey jar has a piece of his hair with mine intertwined with his. In my jar is the name paper with his full name written three times and mine on top of his name at 90°, and red rose petals. I have been burning pink candles on top. I just recently opened the jar and added cinnamon and clove powder to heat things up. I also have a unlaunder shirt and pair of socks of his. Is it okay that i reopened the jar and added to it? Also what can i do with the sock and shirt to bring him back to me?
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Good evening, Yemaya Omlude,
I'm so very sorry that I did not see this post sooner. I can't understand how I had passed it. Please accept my apologies.
First of all, yes, it's OK that you re-opened it and added the herbs. Not to worry.
Hmm, you've got some good articles there: the shirt and socks. Hold onto to the shirt. You can work with the socks to get him to return to you. Just don't use everything at once. You want to keep something in the event that you want to work with it in the future.
In addition to your honey jar, try a return to me spell. There's one listed that requires a sock!!!!
Try spells on this site and keep your honey jar going with the candles (you're doing good work there). www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
It's so upsetting that you were perfectly honest with him and he got mad. At least you showed your true colors: a person of integrity. I hope he sees this fabulous quality in you.
Please let us know your progress. Wishing you health, wealth, and happiness
I'm so very sorry that I did not see this post sooner. I can't understand how I had passed it. Please accept my apologies.
First of all, yes, it's OK that you re-opened it and added the herbs. Not to worry.
Hmm, you've got some good articles there: the shirt and socks. Hold onto to the shirt. You can work with the socks to get him to return to you. Just don't use everything at once. You want to keep something in the event that you want to work with it in the future.
In addition to your honey jar, try a return to me spell. There's one listed that requires a sock!!!!
Try spells on this site and keep your honey jar going with the candles (you're doing good work there). www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
It's so upsetting that you were perfectly honest with him and he got mad. At least you showed your true colors: a person of integrity. I hope he sees this fabulous quality in you.
Please let us know your progress. Wishing you health, wealth, and happiness
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
hi, here is an update on the honey jar so far
after 3 weeks, I contacted the ex, and he was up for meeting the very night I texted, and he has indeed been a bit nicer. We have arranged a couple of future meets, however he used the time to encourage me to date new people and mentioning his potential dates. He still seems pretty angry occasionally. He has tried to get me jealous before this then come on to me, he isn't above playing mind games I'm afraid. At the end of the night he seemed quite sad and tied my shoe laces up for me. Also, I managed to use this opportunity of meeting again to get some of his hair to make the spell stronger.
Candles so far, have been burning very strongly and highly, occasionaly leaving large puddles of wax, particularly blue wax, which subsequent candles mop up. Yesterday, 2 flames appeared on a red candle for a few minutes, before merging into one.
Should, I perservere with this jar, given I have the hair? Or just conclude that the jars result has already been achieved. Some reports have stated a honey jar can take up to a year to kick in? usually when the jar has been set aside and forgotten about?
after 3 weeks, I contacted the ex, and he was up for meeting the very night I texted, and he has indeed been a bit nicer. We have arranged a couple of future meets, however he used the time to encourage me to date new people and mentioning his potential dates. He still seems pretty angry occasionally. He has tried to get me jealous before this then come on to me, he isn't above playing mind games I'm afraid. At the end of the night he seemed quite sad and tied my shoe laces up for me. Also, I managed to use this opportunity of meeting again to get some of his hair to make the spell stronger.
Candles so far, have been burning very strongly and highly, occasionaly leaving large puddles of wax, particularly blue wax, which subsequent candles mop up. Yesterday, 2 flames appeared on a red candle for a few minutes, before merging into one.
Should, I perservere with this jar, given I have the hair? Or just conclude that the jars result has already been achieved. Some reports have stated a honey jar can take up to a year to kick in? usually when the jar has been set aside and forgotten about?
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Good Afternoon,
Well, the 2 flames merging as one is a pretty good sign. I'd continue with the jar.
And I would add that hair to it. But, that's just what I would do.
As far as your question regarding the year, that all depends on each practitioners' point of view. We all have different thought processes on this.
BUT, again, it looks like the jar is working. He tied your shoes. So, it sounds to me that he is starting to come around.
Remember, the results of magic are not instantaneous with a puff of smoke (like the movies). Many times, the results are slow, subtle, and uniform (to the point that you might question whether or not it is the magic.....but it is).
Sounds like your jar is working.
Just wondering, a blue candle??
Well, the 2 flames merging as one is a pretty good sign. I'd continue with the jar.
And I would add that hair to it. But, that's just what I would do.
As far as your question regarding the year, that all depends on each practitioners' point of view. We all have different thought processes on this.
BUT, again, it looks like the jar is working. He tied your shoes. So, it sounds to me that he is starting to come around.
Remember, the results of magic are not instantaneous with a puff of smoke (like the movies). Many times, the results are slow, subtle, and uniform (to the point that you might question whether or not it is the magic.....but it is).
Sounds like your jar is working.
Just wondering, a blue candle??
HRCC Graduate #1631
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
I do burn blue candles for reconciliation on honey jar at times when the target is angry/on edge and needs to be calmed down, too. It's for peace.
HRCC Graduate (#1610G). Tarot reader. Practitioner of Hoodoo and Daoist magic.
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Another honey jar update ...
There has been some movement with my honey jar this week. Again, I contacted the ex and he invited me for a coffee at his flat right away. Four weeks ago, he was barely responding to my texts. This time he was much friendlier, flirtier and warmer than he has been since we split up. He was even hinting I should stay over. He was also more a lot more open than usual.
This new openness lead me to find out one of his female friends has been trying to sabotage our opportunites to reconcile all along. I've only ever met this woman once, and therefore hasn't had any time to form an opinion of me, but has so far told my ex Im not good enough for him, and has gone so far as to tell my ex she won't go to any events with his mutual friends if I'm there. I get on well with his other friends, but as they've known her 20 years, her invite trumps mine.
I don't want to harm this girl ,but are there any tips for getting her to stop her abilty interfering in my love life?! The only reason I can think of that's shes doing this, is that she's jealous of the attention my ex showed me when we were dating. Previously, she had been going on holidays with him. She is single and lonely.
There has been some movement with my honey jar this week. Again, I contacted the ex and he invited me for a coffee at his flat right away. Four weeks ago, he was barely responding to my texts. This time he was much friendlier, flirtier and warmer than he has been since we split up. He was even hinting I should stay over. He was also more a lot more open than usual.
This new openness lead me to find out one of his female friends has been trying to sabotage our opportunites to reconcile all along. I've only ever met this woman once, and therefore hasn't had any time to form an opinion of me, but has so far told my ex Im not good enough for him, and has gone so far as to tell my ex she won't go to any events with his mutual friends if I'm there. I get on well with his other friends, but as they've known her 20 years, her invite trumps mine.
I don't want to harm this girl ,but are there any tips for getting her to stop her abilty interfering in my love life?! The only reason I can think of that's shes doing this, is that she's jealous of the attention my ex showed me when we were dating. Previously, she had been going on holidays with him. She is single and lonely.
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Hi,
For what you want to do, I'd recommend the cast of evil spell kit. http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html
In addition to this, bind her. Any chance she's in-love with him and presenting herself as: "Just a friend"? That's what it sounds like to me. Just saying...
Good luck to you. And keep up the GREAT work you're doing with that honey jar!
For what you want to do, I'd recommend the cast of evil spell kit. http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html
In addition to this, bind her. Any chance she's in-love with him and presenting herself as: "Just a friend"? That's what it sounds like to me. Just saying...
Good luck to you. And keep up the GREAT work you're doing with that honey jar!
HRCC Graduate #1631
Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
yes, I suspect she had a thing for him, and when she realised she couldn't convert him into being straight, settled for a close friendship. I'll grudgingly admit she's quite pretty, so she could easily got a decent straight boyfriend. The ex did invite me to a wedding last month, and it could've been an opportunity to reconnect, but she told the bride, who is her best friend she wasn't coming if I was there. So she is really becoming a bugbear.
Would a cast off evil work in this situation though? As the woman, though being a jealous harpy, is not evil? I did see someone suggest hotfoot powder and a black candle over her photo, but forgot what forum it was in now :O(
Would a cast off evil work in this situation though? As the woman, though being a jealous harpy, is not evil? I did see someone suggest hotfoot powder and a black candle over her photo, but forgot what forum it was in now :O(
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Banishing and separation products could work well on her while you continue the sweetening work with him.
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Re: Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit Questions and Answers
Good Morning, Jamie,
Yes, hotfoot and black candle is also good. However, you said that you just wanted her to, more or less, not be hurt and just back off. So, that's why I had recommended Cast Off Evil because it can change behaviors.
Do what's I your heart. There's many options. See this page (my FAVORITE) http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
If you get more ideas and have questions, please don't hesitate to ask.
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. We're all here to help you
Have a good day
Yes, hotfoot and black candle is also good. However, you said that you just wanted her to, more or less, not be hurt and just back off. So, that's why I had recommended Cast Off Evil because it can change behaviors.
Do what's I your heart. There's many options. See this page (my FAVORITE) http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
If you get more ideas and have questions, please don't hesitate to ask.
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. We're all here to help you
Have a good day
HRCC Graduate #1631



