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by WhateverfireWorks » Thu Nov 16, 2017 3:16 pm
Hi there, I'm fairly new to hoodoo but have been practicing magic in some form or another for many years. Recently I started a honey jar (my second one). I made it for a guy I started seeing about two months ago. I wanted to ensure he stuck around as I've had many difficulties with these issues in the past. The honey jar itself has been put together properly, with a correct petition as well as body fluids and a pubic hair (his). I am also working with St. Martha in this matter.
I've been burning two chime candles a day, annointed with a homemade "Come to Me Oil" (not as good as the real thing, but hopefully it'll hold me over until my first LM order comes in), inscribed with his name and my intent. Today is the fourth day. Since I started it, we haven't been in much contact...he was very distant. Today I asked him if everything was okay, if I had done something to upset him, etc.
He responded saying we slept together too fast and that now it's "weird". He said he just wants to be friends. On my end, I said I was sorry, I made a mistake, and would take things slower if that's what he wanted. These types of things really confuse me when it comes to this work, I'm not sure if I should keep working the honeyjar or call it quits. I like him a lot, but I'm tired of having my heart broken, just waiting for men to get their heads right. I have faith St. Martha will come through, but stopping doubting myself is so hard. I have done several readings of my own, the most recent seemed to say that the situation will change, but I'm not sure how. I am planning on getting a reading through LM for a third party opinion, as well as a few more oils. I currently have "Follow Me Boy", "Love Me", "Attraction Oil", and "Come to Me" on order. Based on the testimonials I've read, using the LM projects can give a huge dose of effectiveness.
I guess I just wonder if anyone else has had this experience, and if it turned out for the better. I'm just unsure of what my next steps should be.