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Unread post by Miss Athena » Mon Sep 14, 2020 11:31 pm

Hello TinaMarie14,

I'm sorry but we have no way of knowing the purpose of such work or even if it were spiritually motivated in the first place. You may wish to get a reading to determine what went on behind it. You can find readers here:
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Unread post by FlowerOfTheStorm » Fri Sep 18, 2020 7:20 am

I’ve been left from the real love of my life 7 YEARS ago. He left me one cold morning without reasons. WITHOUT reasons. I had just received the letter from hospital telling me i’ve got a non-lethal but w/o solution medical condition. I did everything at that time. Begged. Yelled. Went into his house. Waited for him under his office. Sent him and his family presents (we were fiancee). Then rampage, rage, cry and everything. Time has gone by. My physical condition went worse, my beloved guru died, my father got seriously ill. I’ve tried to know other people, everywhere. I’ve been in treatment for depression. Nothing worked. This July he came to me IN DREAMS carried by my beloved ones on the Otherside. But now not only hates me, he stays with another girl since 3 years and they live together since 1 years and half. I’ve never met him again not even casually, even if we live so close. He never ever watched out for me, again. But something happened after my dream.

Tried everything seen online: the “call me in 9 days” bag, the “love me or burn me” ritual and one invented by me where I ordered the spirits to tear apart him from his “new” girlfriend. She doesn’t deserve all this love. I don’t have everything she has. I need it to live for the time I have left on this world.

Last, i’ve tried 20 days ago circa the “Rule my man” enchant and nothing’s working... i’m Speedily getting worse, my body’s falling apart...and my heart it’s so heavy I can’t bear it anymore.
Please, someone help. I’m not enough skilled, as you can see.

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Unread post by Serenaali » Sat Sep 19, 2020 1:38 pm

Many Blessing to Ms Catherine and lucky mojo fantastic team,

Thanks you guys for helping me and thousand like me people who really help in our hard time. really appreciate that.

Ms Catherine after doing spell works and hire AIRR rootworker I seen some improvement between me and my husband. but still he is NOT COMING BACK.

I really need help for BINDING LOVE SPELL. I went through too many topics and search but I didn't found any spell. I did seen Tying mens nature spell. but I cant get my HUSBAND SEMAN. I just had his HAIR and SHIRT. please if you can GUIDE some spell which i can do to bund him with me life time. so he can't leave me again.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat Sep 19, 2020 10:33 pm

Hello FlowerOfTheStorm,

Please do not post the same question multiple times as this is against forum rules. We answer every post and although we try to get to them all quickly, sometimes it takes a little time. Please be patient.

I have moved your post to the topic on reconciliation as this appears to be your goal. Please read through the many posts here and I am sure you will find something that speaks to you. I can't comment on any of the spells you have tried because they do not appear to involve Lucky Mojo products or even hoodoo itself, both of which are the focus on this forum.

I do have to say, however, that after seven years apart, and his long-standing relationship with another woman during this time, your chances of reconciliation are very small. Give yourself a time frame in which to work, and you will have your answer by the end of it (and sometimes that answer is No).

In that event, I would suggest you get a Cut and Clear spell kit to remove all emotional ties to this man so you can get on with your life productively. It feels a waste of time to carry such a big torch for someone who has clearly moved on himself.
https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cut-and-clear.html

I hope this helps. Please look after yourself and good luck to you.
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Unread post by Serenaali » Fri Sep 25, 2020 5:28 pm

Ms. Catherine many blessing to you and your team.

On September 19 I ask question. but still waiting for your reply. I'm posting here again.

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Many Blessing to Ms Catherine and lucky mojo fantastic team,

Thanks you guys for helping me and thousand like me people who really help in our hard time. really appreciate that.

Ms Catherine after doing spell works and hire AIRR rootworker I seen some improvement between me and my husband. but still he is NOT COMING BACK.

I really need help for BINDING LOVE SPELL. I went through too many topics and search but I didn't found any spell. I did seen Tying mens nature spell. but I cant get my HUSBAND SEMAN. I just had his HAIR and SHIRT. please if you can GUIDE some spell which i can do to bund him with me life time. so he can't leave me again.

Thanks

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Mon Sep 28, 2020 11:54 am

Hello Serenaali,

Since you are working with a rootworker, I would ask them what your next steps should be. They know your situation better than we do, and know what work they have already attempted.

In general, you should give yourself a time limit of how long you are willing to work towards your goal before accepting that the lack of a positive outcome is an answer in itself. God answers every prayer, and sometimes that answer is indeed a No. Set a date and if you do not have positive movement or complete manifestation by that time, you should move on.

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by FlowerOfTheStorm » Mon Sep 28, 2020 5:56 pm

What’s a rootworker? Sorry for my ignorance. I’m a newbie.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Sep 29, 2020 7:56 am

Hello FlowerOfTheStorm,

Don't apologize for asking questions and seeking answers! We've all had to start somewhere. I often say the only ignorant question is one that remains unasked.

A rootworker is someone who practices hoodoo, and typically refers to a professional who provides these services to paying clients. You can find a directory of professional rootworkers here:
www.readersandrootworkers.com/

I hope this helps clear up the mystery!
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Unread post by KrystalK » Sun Oct 25, 2020 3:10 pm

Interested in reconciling with an ex, however I got a reading and got a Tower Reversed as our main issue. The suggested advice is for me to open up how i feel lightly so that he can feel comfortable coming back...the problem is he never stays...(abandonment issues, holding on to the past, commitment issues)....we have two small children together as well...

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Unread post by TheApprentice » Fri Nov 06, 2020 8:26 am

Hi, I'm new here. Not sure exactly if I want to post a question if I do it here. Or do I create a new post, or even how to create a new post. I attempted to read this post to find some tips for what to do for my specific situation, but then there are so many different recommdations for the case listed on this post. Thinking I should just post mine. Before I spill the beans about what has happened so far, Where do I post?

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Unread post by Evan Lionhart » Sun Nov 08, 2020 2:09 pm

Hi TheApprentice,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! Since you're new here I would suggest perusing the forum for spell advice on your situation. Generally, on-topics can be answered in the thread, so there's no need to create a new topic as it will just be moved.

Being that it sounds like you might need some help getting started, might I recommend looking into getting a reading to see how to proceed with your spell work? You should also be able to get a general idea of where to start from the links below. Also the search parameters for the forum are pretty detailed, so searching for what you need may bring the best results:

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Good luck and enjoy!
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Unread post by ladythrelkeld » Fri Nov 13, 2020 12:11 pm

It’s been a couple years since I have worked anything. Looking to reconcile with soon to be exhusband. (Divorce is almost final). There is another woman involved. I have started a honey jar for him, a sour jar for their relationship and a freezer spell to freeze her out. I had a reading this morning and was told there is a good chance but it’s going to be difficult and take 2/3 months of continuous work. She also said everything I have started is good but I am lacking some reconciliation work. I didn’t have the supplies for that so I placed an order this morning. I know it’s going to take 3 weeks or so to come in.

So my question is should I wait for the supplies or start something basic now?

I also went ahead and got some block buster, road opener and skull spell supplies. To have on hand just in case. He’s the most stubborn person I have ever met.

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Unread post by Cdsess » Sat Nov 14, 2020 8:21 am

My ex and sons father broke up with me last month but we are still in constant communication and see each other every day. Last week I made him some food with my menstrual blood in it and he ate all of it. I also put my finger nails, blood and vagina juices in his water. My question is how long will the process take to get him back? I spoke and visualized what I wanted to happen as I was adding the blood in.

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:04 am

ladythrelkeld,

I'm glad you had a reading on your situation. All your work so far sounds solid. Do you have physical contact with him? Could you use some of your personal concerns in his food or drink? I would keep working that honey jar. Place some of the honey on your tongue when you know you will talk to him so your words will be sweet. Do you have any of his old shirts to make a doll baby? That is what I would do. Use a rosebud for the heart and baptize it in his name. Talk to it and sleep with it at night.

You can find out more on doll babies here: doll-babies-for-love-and-healing-t29089.html

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:11 am

Cdsess,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I moved your post to this thread on reconciliation. I need to ask that you do not create new topics in the forum. Instead, please use the search bar to find the correct topic for your question. If you still have questions after reading through a thread, use the Quick reply on the bottom of the page.

Good job using the personal concerns. The process varies. It could be 3 days or 3 weeks. I would read through this thread to get some more ideas for spells. You could also get a reading from a professional rootworker and they will be able to give you some specific works you should try. You can find a reader for your situation at AIRR: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

I hope this helps.
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Unread post by ladythrelkeld » Mon Nov 16, 2020 9:52 am

Terra Rising,
The only thing I have is a sweat shirt, but my daughter has been wearing for about a year. Will that do?

He is currently working 2 states away from me so there will be no physical contact until Christmas, she is coming with him so I doubt we will be in a good or drink situation. In the freezer spell I told her not to come.

Also, I think I may have messed up the dresser spell. On my petition I told her to “get way from him”. I did not use his name. Will that create an issue?

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Nov 16, 2020 12:38 pm

ladythrelkeld,

No go on the sweatshirt. It would be your daughter's personal concern now, not his.

Who is "she"? Another woman? If so and she does come on the visit it would be perfect to place some Hot Foot powder in her shoes or dust her purse.

Redo the freezer spell if you think you messed up. All you need to put is her name, birthday if you know it or a picture, and maybe some fancy words like "F#$% off homewrecker" or "Leave! You frosty B$&%h!" But remember, freezer spells are not break up spells. They will freeze them out of a situation but it will not cause fighting between them.

https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

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Unread post by sarbeth » Mon Nov 16, 2020 4:44 pm

Hello!

I apologize if this is the wrong place to post, I wasn’t quite sure. I recently ordered a reconciliation kit (and posted some questions on that as well) but I’ve been thinking about my situation since I placed my order. We haven’t been together for awhile, but we’ve been intimately speaking and seeing each other fairly regularly since we broke up. Last I knew, he still had a picture of us hanging up in his room. The last time we spoke he said he had to delete my number otherwise he knew he’d text me too much. That’s all to say, feelings are still there to some extent. My close friend is a reader, and she did a reading for me the other day. She said he feels sad, depressed, tormented, but won’t make any moves. She then asked where we’d be 5 years in the future and it showed marriage. Obviously this is a good sign. She has read for me in the past, and it’s always the same thing: he’s sad, he’s depressed, he hates how things are with us, and he wants to be together, but he won’t make moves (he’s stubborn!) She’s also said that he can most likely feel my energy, which I admit can be sad and anxious, and that’s part of why he doesn’t make moves. My energy is still there, he can feel it, it’s intense, so he doesn’t move forward. So my question is this: should I continue with the reconciliation kit I ordered? Or should I order a cut and clear instead? Cut my energy off from him in an effort to remove that connection? I don’t think I can do both because it seems like they have conflicting goals. Ultimately, the goal is to reconcile, but I don’t know if the reconciliation work is better or the cut and clear (if that’s even a good idea at all). Thank you so much for your help!

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Tue Nov 17, 2020 6:22 am

sarbeth,

Honestly, I would get a second opinion. Your friend who is a reader is still tied to you and therefore biased. She may not consider her self to be and probably really good at what she does. However when it comes to love, it is best if you get a reading from someone who will look at the situation emotionally unattached to the individuals. If you have a reading done by a reader who is familiar with rootwork, you can then ask about spells and what should be done.
Some questions you may want to consider are: "Will we return to a committed relationship in the next 3 months? What is holding him back/blocking him from loving me? Is there another woman? " This will outline a timeframe, let you know what the problem is and if there are rivals. I recommend going to a member of AIRR: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

Cut and Clear isn't just for spiritual ties. It can cut him away completely if that is what needs to happen. If your relationship is meant to be, then he can return improved. If not, he goes on his way. Mainly it is used when you are ready to be done with something and don't want to keep obsessing over it. Do not do both spells.

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Unread post by TheApprentice » Wed Nov 18, 2020 11:41 pm

Thanks, I decided not to do anything else to reconcile the situation. He effed up pretty bad and he would be too much to clean up and too much to deal with and probably not worth it. Technically he came back and I didn't do any work to make that happen. Started looking into work because something else was going on. I found out who the influence was. It seems to be a so called friend who happens to be female. No other relationships that he seems to have tried seems to work, and i suspect this female put something on him or has some dirt on him. She may also put something against all women that attempt to be with him.

I say that because we were on a date once and he mentioned this friend and some trouble that she had been through. Everything was similar to situations I had been through. A light came on and I realized he'd asked me for advice for this friend numerous times. I'm thinking without me knowing what was going on, something was reversing things back to her that she sent my way. In my case things seemed to work out, but in her case it seemed to dig her a deeper whole.

This year, I've really gotten spiritual clarity, and lots of work done. I feel clear of this mess but before any one enters my womb in the future. I plan to do a spiritual investigation and do anything I need to stay on top of the matter.

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Unread post by sbabyy10 » Mon Nov 30, 2020 2:37 pm

Hi guys!

I feel like I've had a tough time figuring out how to work my situation and that hopefully ya'll can help me narrow it down.
I have been doing some work on my ex

Here's a little background... We met and fell in love in a whirlwind last year in March. This year, we had some problems hit our relationship and broke up because of this. For fear of being judged about personal decisions, I'll just say that we had an unplanned pregnancy. This put a lot of stress on the relationship and was ultimately why we broke it off. Shortly after breaking up (2 months or less), we reconciled because we missed our deep connection. We have not fully committed back into a relationship, but have only been exclusively seeing one another.

However, every few months he gets down, and tells me that he isn't sure we should be talking, that our past and the pain is hurting him, and that its hard for him to imagine us together in the future, and that we would be better off as friends. He also always mentions that he'll always love me, he still has feelings and he cares about me.

I am wondering what spells or paths I can take change this behavior. Im looking for something that will keep us together, heal the past, and open up our future.

I am very passionate about using vigil candles, so anything involving those would be a plus!

I hope you guys can help me :)

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Tue Dec 01, 2020 9:27 am

sbabyy10,

Please don't feel like you'll be judged here. We have all been through some rough spots in our lives and we are working to live the best life we can.

Healing should play a part in your efforts to rekindle this relationship. I would also consider a reading to see if the relationship is able to move foreword. Sometimes the pains of the past lessen with time and others do not. A reading will help you understand if this something he will always bring up or if the two of you can take the next step. You can find professional readers and rootworkers here:

The Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour - Free Readings every Sunday
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Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR) -- pre-paid scheduled readings
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Hoodoo Psychics (1-888-4-HOODOO)
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If you receive an encouraging outcome, I would do a Reconciliation Honey jar to keep him sweet to you. Then I would work with Love Me products.

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Unread post by sbabyy10 » Tue Dec 01, 2020 9:54 am

Thank you so much Terra Rising!
I will get a reading asap.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Tue Dec 29, 2020 6:41 pm

Good luck, sbabyy10!

If you want to hire a reader or a rootworker, start with these two sites and look them over:

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR)
http://readersandrootworkers.org

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Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO (HP)
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AIRR and Hoodoo Psychics have their own Facebook pages and you can follow their feed by going to these page and LIKING them.

AIRR Facebook page:
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HP Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/HoodooPsychics


There are two pages at the AIRR site that are also very helpful if you are looking for a reputable root doctor:

Suggestions For Clients
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... or_Clients

Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ure_Doctor


Also, to avoid scammers, read the HITAP page on

"Readers, Rootworkers, and Black Gypsies"
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and the AIRR page on

"Fake Psychics"
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Unread post by lanadelrey » Mon Jan 04, 2021 1:55 pm

Hello all,

I did something bad and I need your help. My boyfriend feels betrayed by me because of something I did, do you have any spells or jars I could do to make him get over that betrayal and forgive me? I’ve tried communicating with him but he won’t listen. I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to lose him. Please help.

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Unread post by Terra Rising » Mon Jan 11, 2021 7:16 am

lanadelrey,

I believe you asked this question before on this thread a few years ago. Reconciliation is usually suggested for this but if you have already tried it or have been working for over 6 months, I would suggest cutting ties and work on bringing in someone knew or healing your heart. It can be easy to fall into a trap of one more spell, or one more reading. Sometimes there isn't a way to fix things between people. Depending on how long you have been working, you should reflect on how to move forward. If that person is meant to be they will come around but the focus on the past can also keep you from meeting a person who is a match for you. I hope this doesn't come across as harsh because that is not my intent. It's just hard to see people stuck.

I would do a Cut and Clear spell followed by Road Opener work.

Cut and Clear: https://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Road Opener: https://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html

I hope this helps.
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Unread post by lanadelrey » Sat Jan 16, 2021 3:24 pm

Nooo lol you’re talking about my ex that guy was a loser and I hate him I can’t believe I ever wanted him back. He was abusive, cruel, unkind, just the worst. I was blinded by my love for him. This new guy is sweet, but ever since my ex, I have trust issues, and so my new boyfriend feels like I don’t trust him but I do, I just have a hard time opening up since my last boyfriend. He thinks I’m hiding something when I’m not- I just like my privacy, my ex would look through my phone-~ but I can’t reason with him because of distance, covid, etc. I just need some help so he can stop being so paranoid and mad because he won’t talk to me.

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Unread post by GoldenRule » Thu Jan 21, 2021 11:50 am

lanadelrey--
As Terra Rising recommended above, reconciliation work is what's indicated here.
Since you've been in this forum in the past, I'm guessing you already know some things about Hoodoo. *Hopefully* you have obtained some of his personal concerns early on in the relationship, "just in case". If you have a hair from his head, that would be good to use because you want to influence his mind. You want him to warm to you and sweeten to you. If I were to do this work, id use a honey jar with a packet inside containing your written petition and your hair and his hair. You can add some Deers Tongue to the packet to encourage eloquent words. I like to surround my honey jars with three tea lights, as well as burning one on top of the metal lid of the honey jar. Please don't use a plastic lid because you'll melt it. The objective with the candles is to warm the honey as you want him to warm to you. You can find instructions on honey jar spells in many places on this website and forum. I believe there's a thread dedicated to it in this forum. I would locate that and read through many pages of posts so you can get really familiar with this type of working. Many people ask questions here that have already been asked and answered. You can learn so much by reading past discussions on any subject. This forum is a great resource.

Terra Rising also mentioned that your post was very similar to another one you left a few years back. Is this a pattern that you have found yourself in? Of course it is a different man this time, but ask yourself if these situations are similar, and *how*? If there is a pattern here, some advice for you would be to look within yourself and reconcile the role you played in breaking the trust you guys had built.
You say- "I did something bad and I need your help. My boyfriend feels betrayed by me because of something I did."
You admitted you did something bad, and you also say you want to use magic to make him stop being paranoid and listen to you. You also need to listen to him; he is asking you for space here, I'm guessing, to re-evaluate whether or not he wants to continue to be with you, and you don't want to give it to him. You may successfully warm and sweeten him to you, but keep in mind that all of the honey jars in the world aren't going to fix broken trust. He will need to decide if he can live with being in a relationship with someone whom he feels has betrayed him.
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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sat Jan 23, 2021 9:28 am

Hello lanadelrey,

In addition to the advice you've been given here, at a minimum I would do a honey jar for the two of you, to sweeten your relationship and hear each other with kindness rather than bitterness.

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Unread post by fluffy1122 » Wed Jan 27, 2021 7:46 pm

Hi - Can you please help me decide which ones I should purchase aside from a honey jar?

My husband of 14 years decided he wants to divorce me because of our 'sex issues'. The issue is actually his as we just found out he is a sex addict. He dropped out of therapy and decided that blaming me for this instead of working on himself is easier and less shame apparently.

We both love each other very much and have an amazing relationship, outside of this sex thing. He no longer lives with me and I am not certain I can find a hair (I may have him give me one but he will probably think that is weird, but whatever), but we do talk and text every day. There is no other person in his life and if there ever were it would not work out given his huge issues. He needs rehab but is resisting.

I love him very much and only want the best for him. Thoughts on the best items to purchase? Thank you !!!

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Fri Jan 29, 2021 10:23 am

Hello fluffy1122,

I'm sorry you're going through such difficulty in your marriage.

Have you read through the many posts in this topic? You will find lots of advice and ideas that can help you beyond your honey jar (which is a good way to start). If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

You can also consult the posts in the following topic on spells to help prevent divorce:
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I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Unread post by fluffy1122 » Sun Jan 31, 2021 8:25 pm

Yes, I am currently doing a honey jar with both of our hair. Then, I was not sure if I should do a reconciliation spell or a stay with me spell. Since he moved out already, I would guess reconciliation spell? Also, are there any spells to help him come out of denial about the addiction and attend rehab? Some sort of spell to open his eyes or change his mind and realize he needs help? Thank you !!

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Mon Feb 01, 2021 4:40 pm

Hello fluffy1122,

You can stick with Reconciliation for your situation.

As for getting him help with addiction, refer to the spells in the following topic:
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Unread post by fluffy1122 » Wed Feb 03, 2021 6:06 pm

ok, I ordered the reconciliation candle to reconcile our relationship and also the saint dymphma to help with his sex addiction. i also have my honey jar.

is there anything I can do for the reconciliation portion of our relationship before the kit arrives? They said it could take 2 - 3 weeks to arrive via mail and I do not have that long to wait.

I do not have any of his clothing with body fluids unfortunately and since he does not live here I can't really put oils over him or his office or whatever, but anything really powerful I can do in the meantime would be appreciated.

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sun Feb 07, 2021 10:01 am

Hello fluffy1122,

You can always put the two of you in a honey jar while you wait for your supplies to arrive. Try to fold personal concerns into your name papers, with a pinch of herbs in each, to sweeten you to one another. Edible herbs are preferred because as soon as you can approach your ex again, you will want to use the sweetener in cooking.

Read about honey jars here:
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Unread post by fluffy1122 » Sun Feb 07, 2021 10:04 am

Yes I did that already and he has been very sweet. But there are no other 'reconciliation' steps I can do in the meantime?? Thank you!

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Sun Feb 07, 2021 11:37 am

Hello fluffy1122,

You can read through the posts in this thread and see which spells you have the means to complete while you are waiting for your order to arrive.

I'm sorry but we can't advise on any other "homemade" reconciliation spells, as this forum is to assist customers of Lucky Mojo in their use of purchased products.

Good luck with your work!
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Unread post by smol.tiny.bb » Tue Feb 09, 2021 2:30 pm

good afternoon,

my situation is a bit complicated.

my ex and i were together for 4 years. i love him so much. we are each others best friends. he said he wanted to grow old with me and have a family together.

I had asked him for a break because i was overwhelmed with personal issues involving my family. we had 4 deaths in the family last year, i wasn't sleeping all too well the entire month of November. we had celebrated my birthday in November and it was lovely. fast forward to the beginning of December. i was really feeling the effects of depression wanting to come through.

my ex is really caring and worries a lot about me. i know relationships are full of ups and downs and i didn't want to worry him about me slipping into depression again, so i asked him for a 2 week break. so he decided to break things off with me completely. i know i have some of the blame to it by not communicating with him, but i didn't want him to worry about me.

i also know my ex's so called "friend" named Alex was putting things into his mind. he is a bad influence.

i went to have my cards read and she said he's so used to me chasing after him every time we have a fight that he knows i will go after him again. she says he will come around. she wants me to be tough and not chase after him.

1) is there anything i can do to have him chase after me?

2) as for the friend having influence over him, what can i do to cut him out of his life?

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Unread post by Miss Athena » Tue Feb 09, 2021 10:39 pm

Hello smol.tiny.bb,

You are in the right topic area for spell advice to return an ex, so please read through the posts here starting from the beginning. This is our most popular topic on the forum, so you have a lot of advice coming your way.

If you want him to obsess over you, here is where you can find spell ideas:
spells-to-make-someone-think-of-me-desi ... 30302.html

As for the interfering friend, consult the posts in the following topic:
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Unread post by markx » Wed May 26, 2021 11:29 am

Hi Everyone.

My partner recently broke up with me

Years ago I did a honey jar on her seemed to work, I still have it should I work with this jar to get her back? or start a new one, the old one only had a photo in this time I have much stronger personal concerns to use?

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Unread post by JayDee » Wed May 26, 2021 2:16 pm

markx,

You could make a new jar with the personal concern as it has a stronger connection to her. You could also use the old jar and be sure to include Reconciliation products.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Wed May 26, 2021 9:17 pm

markx --

Since honey NEVER GOES BAD and has NO EXPIRATION DATE, i would open the proven jar and add the new personal item, plus some Reconciliation herbs, like Balm of Gilead.

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Unread post by SugarLoveHoney » Mon Jul 05, 2021 12:21 am

Hey everyone I have a question about reconciliation work. Hopefully it’s okay to post this here...I’m just so surprised honestly. Back in 2016 I had an extremely bad falling out with a man..I was devastated and did reconciliation spells, love work everything..there was a few short lived and iffy times of communication after this but nothing lasting or solid. Anyways it’s been 4 and a half years since the falling out and I guess I just slowly moved on In time as a I healed, I gave up hope and I never thought I’d hear from this person again and that it was anlost cause forever...well back in April I got Into a old social media account I was locked out of for half a year and I was magically able to suddenly get into it in April...when I logged in there’s a tab where it shows people’s accounts you can add through having their phone number in your phones contacts and this mans account showed up in mine because I had him in my old phones contacts which this account is was originally created with. So I ended up adding him and he accepted me and I was shook, he’s literally ignored me basically the whole past 5 years lol. I messaged him and we been talking here and there, he’s still hurt from what happened back then but I mean this is HUGE improvement. He even said he’ll think about me and him meeting up again in person, he’s been back and forth on how he feels about that but he’s still in contact with me. I’m just wondering has anyone had this happen to them? Doing work in the past on someone and then years later they are back around? I do plan to get a reading on this but wow I’m just in shock still because our falling out was very ugly.

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Unread post by JayDee » Mon Jul 05, 2021 6:49 am

SugarLoveHoney ,

Work can take a longtime there is no measurement tool to guide us on the length of time. Generally I consider work a fail after a month, this is from a practical standpoint to adapt other jobs. Sometimes in stubborn or work that involves high emotions, you do not know how it is effecting the person. He could have thought of you all along but being stubborn refused to act on it. Two products that I think you should start working with are Reconciliation to help heal those past hurts and Return to me, to actually bring him back. This would be a great combo to burn on a candle on a honey jar, figure candles, and to dress a mojo.

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Unread post by dogsofthebins » Wed Jul 21, 2021 11:55 am

Hi,

I have an ex who I have not spoken to in an entire year and a half. I feel embarrassed and as though something is completely wrong with me ( :roll: ) for still wanting to see him again.

A large component of our relationship failing was my unmedicated bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. I was very hard to be around and impossible to deal with. Right around the time that we broke up, I finally had access to health insurance, received a diagnosis, medication and therapy. The medication made everything better immediately, and I’ve been in therapy for over a year. I’m not remotely the person I was then. I’m healthy, spiritually healed, and have taken action upon everything that I was accountable for changing within myself.

We broke up angry. Divination indicates that he is still feels negatively towards me.

I know generally that the answer is “no”, reconciliation has a high fail rate, especially in cases like these… but I feel like if we were to come back together, things would be great now.

What are your thoughts?

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Unread post by JayDee » Wed Jul 21, 2021 4:24 pm

dogsofthebins,

There are many reasons why magic fails, even reconciliation work, it's hard to say, "because it was reconciliation it failed", well no, I have seen many reconcile over the years with or without magic. What makes it hard is two people, who were mad at one another, had experiences that shaped them, made decisions and left. The person(s) can now be moved on in a new relationship, or God said no this person is not good for you. Other issues I see with reconciliation work is they want the person back, but with conditions, IE- they must apologize, feel pain, be hurt like me. When the person comes back and does not meet that they reject them, and call the work failed.

That being said, given the reading you had, the best option to me is for you to use two items, a Reconciliation honey jar, I would work this first for several weeks to get him sweet to you, then do the Reconciliation Spell Kit. The Spell kit has you do candle work and make a mojo, you also send a letter that is dressed to the person. This is important to the work because it gets him in contact with it.

You can get a reading by an AIRR member to give more details here: http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

A great book for you to consider is on Reconciliation work by Lucky Mojo: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
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