Heal Past Love Pain, Remove Love Blockages, Open the Road to New Love

[NayNay]

I actually just did a vinegar break-up jar just yesterday, so I just need to work on the other 2 spells. But first I will get a reading from one of the recommended workers before doing uncrossing work..I may not even need it!!

Thank you so much!

[sweetconjurings]

Hello,

I’ve been dealing with a man for almost a year. Our interaction has been very chaotic starting with that when I met him, he was in a relationship, which ended shortly after on his partners account. They live together with their two children, however once the girl decide she didn’t want to be with him anymore, she has spent the last year seeing other people and finding other housing once their lease is up.

I like the guy, but I can tell he is feeling really hurt and is clearly going through something. This causes me to keep an emotional distance and not get too attached, but I do like him, with respect.

We have experienced some major situations since knowing each other such as a pregnancy, a couple major arguments that resulted in us putting space between us. Things like that. He wanted me to move in with him, but later told me that we would no longer have a sexual relationship and that we would be roommates. I didn’t like this idea and stopped talking to him.

He’s made it a point to maintain some form of communication as the details of his split with his partner are being worked out. He is unlike any guy I’ve known, and I want things to be better between him and me, including me not feeling like I have to stifle my emotions to avoid getting hurt.

I want to some type of work that will bring us closer and allow him to trust that I won’t hurt him, but I want to avoid any majorly binding work considering when I’ve done love spells on guys in the past, I became to emotionally connected to the person and found it difficult to get over them when it ended. I would always do work on guys, and this time I haven’t and things feel different. I do just want something simple and light that can help us come together and be more harmonious with each other. I hope this makes sense. I was thinking a honey jar? But I wasn’t sure how to execute it or if it would produce similar results to work I’ve done in the past.

[JayDee]

sweetconjurings,

Any spell that has you put your personal concerns in along with the other persons, there is a chance you will also feel the effects of the magic. A love spell, in particular, you are asking the love you have, and the love they have to grow, it very common to feel that. A honey jar would be a great place to start to build trust, sweeten one another to the other, and foster a base for the relationship. I would use reconciliation to get over past hurts, come to me to draw, and healing oil to heal his past hurts. You can also dress figure candles and talk to him, dressed with healing oil and clarity oil, to help him get over his past hurts and to see clearly, more logical. It is very common to use a skull candle in this fashion.

Figure Candles: https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#figural
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Come to me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

JayDee

[LaJaguarina]

Hi everyone. Haven’t been on here in a while.

So, I was in a new relationship and we broke up due to him being emotionally unavailable as he is under a lot of stress in his personal life. Dealing with family issues. Has to take care of family member. Wont get too into detail. But despite that all I really want to still support him and stick with him because I saw us being long term. We broke up and I’m still sad about it. It’s been a few weeks. I had return to me burned at MISC. I just got this report back.

“The wax ring indicates interference with the work caused by unresolved past issues. Something from the past is causing problems. Pray and meditation can help to reveal and heal those issues, as well as clearing away the delays and distractions. Make the effort!”

I’m not asking for anyone to determine the meaning is the report. I just think it helps with my question here.

Is it appropriate to use a blockbuster vigil or road opener vigil to clear away some of the blockage? I feel like someone (a friend) persuaded him to break up because he is going through a lot and not thinking clearly.

I know that blockbuster kind of explodes and breaks thru everything and road opened clears the path and allows smooth sailing? Unsure what to do here... really need some guidance.

[JayDee]

LaJaguarina ,

From the candle report and the delicateness of this situation, I would not use block buster, as it can be explosive, rather use road opener to clear the blocks. I would also use reconciliation to over come past hurts, mixed with return to me and come to me to bring him back. You can do a honey jar to reconcile to make him sweet to you, and use a skull candle with clarity oil, tell him what to think and to have a clear concise mind.

Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return to me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Come to me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Stay with me: https://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

JayDee

[Slither]

Heal past emotional pain from caused from previous job enviroment,should use first cut and away? To disconnect emotionally from there,i cannot erase bad memories from mind and soul.

[JayDee]

Slither ,

Because you have such an emotional connection to this place and the people, it would be a good idea to use the Cut and Clear bath to remove the past hurts and clear them away from you. You can bath in the bath crystals, then dress your body in the oil, burn a candle dressed in this as well, then do the work to help you move on from them. The work to move on from them may be talking to a counselor, throwing anything related to that work away, deleting their numbers from your phone. Repeat the bath and oil as needed until you feel resolved.

Cut And Clear products: https://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

JayDee

[Slither]

Probably will take 2 months and more to take it and use it,the delivery is so slow.The only fast way is to pay a rootworker from AIIR members to do the cut away spell/candle for me.

[JayDee]

Slither,

Absolutely work with an AIRR member and them assist you. It may be helpful to think of the items you want and need from Lucky Mojo, write a list, keep the list for a week and add to it as needed, then order. Try and think of your needs, getting over past hurts Cut and Clear, Healing, Clarity are all good products for that, making new friends Attraction, Come to Me, Magnetic, Lodestones, all can be used to attract friends. This way you have the items on hand when you are ready to use them.

JayDee

[Slither]

I first i lit a Healing candle with petition to help me ease depression,throw away negativity and heal my emotions and feelings.Hope will burn with success.

[JayDee]

Slither,

It is a great start, you should consider also making a Mojo bag that you wear on your body, and taking a spiritual bath in Healing bath crystals to help heal you. In Hoodoo we often do things together, light a candle, take a bath and wear a mojo, these are just 3 examples of things that are common to do together. I like the Lucky Mojo Blessing Spell Kit which comes with everything to bless you, which is part of healing, you can also order the Healing Oil and bath crystals and use them with this work. Recite Psalms 23 daIly as you pray to God for healing and blessing.

Blessing: https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-blessing.html
Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

JayDee

[Slither]

Thanks, I will decide sometime soon to take a read for my situation about career, mental health, friends, relationships, protection etc. My soul and heart are damaged, doing therapy and taking meds but doesn't help me much so far. So i will save money to ask blessing, healing kits to be cast from a member of AIRR for reliable results.

Will burn the blessing candle for support me more, will continue the fiery of wall too.

I will make a list of products as you suggested and then will decide my desires, i really need help, i ordered many stuffs, oils, candles.

Thanx anyway, will keep you updated for my situation.

[Spangles]

Hello!

I have a dear friend turned new girlfriend who has been badly hurt in the past. Without going into too much detail, she was badly hurt to the point where she only trusts two people in this world, her sister and (recently) myself. She's trying to heal, but I think giving her a spiritual boost would help her. Additionally, I would like to help her become more comfortable with intimacy with me. Over the past year or so, I've been focusing on being a safe, secure, trustworthy foundation and I've seen remarkable improvement. I am patient. But I will take all the help I can get to help her.

I was considering doing a mix of Healing, Chuparosa and Fire of Love. Does this sound on the right track?

[JayDee]

Spangles ,

I would start with Healing and Blessing to lift this friend up, to heal past hurts, add Balm of Gilead buds to help her heal, burn a white figure candle dressed with the oils and dusted with Lucky Mojo Healing Sachet Powder, burn it a portion a day for 7 days as you pray for healing and recite Isaiah 57:15 15 For this is what the high and exalted One says— he who lives forever, whose name is holy: “I live in a high and holy place, but also with the one who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite. Then pray to heal and lift up, to remove the hardship on her.
Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Balm of Gilead Buds: http://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html
Self Heal: http://www.herbmagic.com/self-heal.html

If you have access to the laundry, take a cup a brew a Healing bath and pour a cup of this water to the rinse cycle of her laundry and bedding to dress her in healing. You can also sprinkle the Sachet powder and put the oil in her shampoo or conditioner.
https://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoospiritualbaths.html

Love work, I would create a mojo for the purpose of you two being in committed loving relationship, wear this mojo daily and dress it with the Oils you are using.
https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatmojo.html

A honey jar for love and relationship to keep you both sweet and loving to one another.
https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyan ... pells.html

A great book on love work and recently released is by Miss Cat Down home Sex Magic, filled with love and relationships spells of intimacy.
https://www.luckymojo.com/downhomesexmagic.html

JayDee

[Rev Ernest]

Heal those wounds...

https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

[thrivingaries]

Hi I did 2 Road opener vigils to open the road to restore my relationship but I had black soot on both would you recommend doing a blockbuster vigil instead?

[JayDee]

thrivingaries ,

The black soot you are seeing is a symbol of very strong resistance. I would suggest you work to address the underlining issue that needed to be addressed to open the roads between you. two. For example, you can have a Healing and a Reconciliation Candle set to heal the past hurts, and foster forgiveness.

Healing: https://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

JayDee

[Mr Christopher]

Hi thrivingaries,

If the candle entire top is black, that means you need new work. If just the side is black and you used matches to lite it, it could be from relighting it. Wax in the bottom, there are other aspects as play. You can try a reversing candle before doing Blockbuster. That way, any outside influence will be returned to them.

In the candle section, look for BLACK CAT BRAND DOUBLE-ACTION OFFERTORY CANDLES
https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

You take a knife, and cut the tip off the white side, then you widdle the black side into a point. Hold it, so the black side is up. Carve your name or lover's name on white side going up. On the black side carve MY ENEMY but backward like your looking in a mirror YMENE YM. You can dress with oils, herbs, or incense powders. Put in a candleholder, black side up. Light the black side. You can place it on a mirror, or just on a plate. There are double action glass encased candles. Just make sure the black is on top, you would use a Sharpy to write on the glass. Lucky Mojo Curio Company also makes reversing glass encased candles, https://www.luckymojo.com/candle-reversing.html.

You can read about double action candles here post422764.html?hilit=double%20action%20candle#p422764

Miss Cat also has
BOO-GRI-AHCM
The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic by catherine yronwode and Mikhail Strabo


Best of Luck
Christopher

[thrivingaries]

The second road opener candle was lighter than the first then I did 7 african Powers candle for more assistance the first half was black soot second half Was clear so was gona do 2 more. Not sure about the reversing candle because I had a reading 2 months ago and there was no magic or any negativity externally affecting us I think she may need more healing. If I did a blockbuster what would happen ?

[JayDee]

thrivingaries ,

Road Opener and Block Buster are two formulas that are similar in that they open paths but different in the approach. The issue you are seeing in the candle is resistance, or as Christopher No Saint stated it can be a sign of someone working against you, negativity etc. You certainly can light another one, the candle indicates with more work you will eventually be successful. Block Buster would blow things open.

I suggest a Road Opener to open the path to reconciliation and setting a Reconciliation candle to overcome past hurts and foster forgiveness.

You can also schedule a reading with an AIRR member as well: https://www.readersandrootworkers.org/w ... ootworkers

JayDee

[thrivingaries]

The reading said this "Outside influences, such as work or family may be interfering with her life. She need to try to make space for love, even though other commitments seem more pressing or even though she doesn’t feel ready yet. If she doesn’t make it a priority, her love life will suffer or fall away."

This might be causing the black soot...

And okay thanks will get another road opener then instead . Was my petition was wrong for the road opener I put "open the road to restore our relationship". is that Ok? Or

Also the shops in the UK that sell candkes the only Reconciliation candle they have is Adam and eve 7 day candle can I use that? And what wording for petition would you use?

Thanks alot

[JayDee]

thrivingaries,

Yes black soot very well can be outside influences, look at Romeo and Juliette the family influence ruined their love, had they set a candle it would likely have burned black too. When you do magic you need to hit the areas that are causing the problem, this is why reading from a practitioner of magic is helpful, we read the situation and what condition products would address and fix it.

You are addressing one issue, opening the roads to restoring a relationship, you have not drawn her back in or dealt with the outside influences. An example is I may do Road Opening to clear the paths so we can come together, Come to Me to draw the person to me and Stop Gossip to silence their influences.

I cannot speak on the other products you are asking about, this forum is on Lucky Mojo products and I can only speak on the efficacy of them products.

A petition should be clear and to the point " May God open the roads to remove the obstacles in the way of Jane Doe and John Doe love relationship". A reconciliation could be " With Gods grace may the heart of Jane Doe be healed and the love she has for me (or list name) be restored and return her to me in love".

After you set candles, you should be praying and be laser focused on the outcome. Even include other workings that support the cause, for example a honey jar to sweeten her back to you would be a very good addition to the work.

Here are some resources I would recommend:

Paper in My Shoe, book on petition papers: https://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html
The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic, book on candles in hoodoo and how to use them: https://www.luckymojo.com/artofhoodoocandlemagic.html
Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturna ... pells.html

JayDee

[thrivingaries]

ok thanks alot what I will do then is get a reading first before proceeding

[johnnyr860]

Thank you Miss Cat for your help. I appreciate everything you do here. I guess my frustration stems from the fact that my profile shows I have been a member of this form since December 2012. I will be 34 next month. My frustration is that after 10 years, it seems to be a repeat, rinse, and recycle formula that keeps going on.

The story goes that I meet someone and I connect with the person. I do my readings before proceeding. I’m told yes. As I do the spell work, the answer turns into a no at the end. Often times the spell work goes from good to bad. Either the person cheats on me or the person leaves for someone else or they cut all contact with me.

I suspect he may have just blocked my number because the iMessage no longer shows that my messages have been delivered. It just shows the message in a blue bubble whereas before when I sent him a message it would show is delivered and then read once he opened it.

The frustration is that after 10 years here I am still posting as a single person and I didn’t think I would be in the same boat that I was 10 years ago. With 8 billion people in the world I find it hard to believe that there’s not a single person out there for me. But I can’t help but wonder is it possible that the universe is just trying to tell me that I’ve never meant to find true love, and that I just need to accept my fate of being single forever? Is it possible that the universe is destined for certain people to never find true love at all. I will be getting in contact with the lucky mojo shop later today once they open and letting them know that you have requested that I call. I will review the pages here to see how to properly dispose of my work. Not sure what else to do aside from that.

Thank you.

[Mr Christopher]

Hi Johnnyr860,

I get it, it sucks to put yourself out there and try and try and try nothing happens. I also see you put a lot of time and money into these things. I have the following suggestions:

1. Change the question from not does this guy like me, so am I being blocked, cursed, or crossed from love?

2. Do an uncrossing bath, you can do ConjureMan's famous Love Uncrossing Bath, or you can do the famed urinate on a knife, Memphis Uncrossing Bath. Some sort of uncrossing ritual.

3. Do a ritual to find gay friends. Make a shaker jar/mojo with Lodestone grit, red clover, lavender, and catnip. You can add Lavender Love Drops. Pray that it brings you gay friends. Why friends... ?because the best lover is a friend first, and sometimes we are like "ooo another gay in the village we must hook up." Surround yourself with a circle of queer friends and you might find Mr. Perfect.

4. Tell yourself, "I don't need a man to be happy, I can be happy no matter what age I am." Once you stop forcing it, it will happen.

5. While we love you buying readings, candles, and supplies, stop trying to control the future, let it happen.

Here are links to the items mentioned:

13 Herb Uncrossing Bath Mix
http://www.herbmagic.com/13-herb-spirit ... 1-day.html

Memphis Uncrossing Bath
https://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html

You can search for ConjureMan's Love Uncrossing Bath he gives out variations of the
recipe on many radio shows and they will come up with a search of the chat logs..

Lodestone Grit
http://herb-magic.com/lodestone-grit.html

Lavender
http://herb-magic.com/lavender.html

Red Clover
http://herb-magic.com/clover-flower-red.html

Catnip
http://herb-magic.com/catnip.html

Best of luck,
Mr. Christopher

[JayDee]

Johnnyr860,

I am sorry about the relationship issues you are facing. Dating is hard, the internet has made it harder for people to have authentic meetings, and it is easier for people to cheat.

Your message is filled with frustration, which I understand, and because of that, I actually suggest you do a Cut and Clear spell, to cut all the old hurt, cheating, lies, and the pain it has caused you. The spell is designed to remove that while also helping you draw a new better lover.

Cut and Clear:
https://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Uncrossing:
https://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

After you have done this work, I suggest getting a reading to find if someone has worked against you, and what work to do to find love. I personally would write a general description of what you are looking for with the petition stated long-term, faithful, loving relationship. Then do the work such as a moving candle spell, and a mojo to wear as you go out and date.

JayDee