Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

[JayDee]

AJoshua,

I moved your post from the Skull area to the Reconciliation, because I believe it actually fits better here, I also wanted to bring you to a page where you can read 107 pages of post, questions and answers. I also wanted to move it so I can discuss with you some of the pitfalls of the reconciliation work that people fall into.

In this post you state I want him back but would not at first. This is counterintuitive to the work of Reconciliation, when we do work and set parameters, "I want you back but first you must do this", it adds an extra layer to the work, now this must happen to lead to the next thing. Also it does not make sense, if the goal is to go from X to Y, then the clearest path is a straight line, why add more steps. On an emotional level I understand what you are saying, you want him to be ready, you to be ready. On a magical level, what does it matter, why add a stipulation?

My advice to you is similar to the prior post, to sit down and think about what you want, write it out clearly, then do work that matches that. Do not worry about the day to day, the micro level, focus on the macro goal of the overall outcome and desire, then do work that supports thats.

There is a great book on Reconciliation spells I highly suggest for you as well.

BOO-GRI-HRRS
Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells by Deacon Millett
$12.00





You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturnan ... pells.html

[CuriousChris]

Will my reconciliation Spell be more Powerful if I cast my spell on his birthday? Is there a chance that he will feel the effects more deeply?

[JayDee]

CuriousChris,

Working with specific dates, times of the day, seasons can enhance work based on the connection to them. For example setting a candle on a Friday (day of love), in thee hour of Venus (planet of love), during a waxing moon ( to increase love), as the sun rises (to draw things to you) and the hands of the clock are going upward ( to draw things to you). These are all examples of working with a time of day and other astrological movements.

Is working a spell on a person on their birthday making a spell effect them more deeply? I am not sure if it increases it, but it certainly is a good day to set work since it means something to you and the former lover.

JayDee

[Lav1]

I’m wondering what can be done to heal a marriage with no communication for 2 weeks. A lot has happened and mainly awful words spoken to one another. This marriage needs forgiveness but the husband is very hard hearted and stubborn. He has blocked all calls, interference from others, but want healing and restoration, husband needs to acknowledge his wrongdoing.

[JayDee]

Lav1,

That is a very common request in hoodoo, probably one of the most requested, next to cursing. The spells to do that I would suggest are very common and posted on this thread over and over again.

The one issue I have with this is one I often have when I hear a person who requests reconciliation, say "I want him back..BUT."

The "but" is always the issue that holds up the work. It adds another condition to the work before it will manifest, because not only do you want them to communicate, reach out, and come back, but you say you "need" them to acknowledge their wrongdoing. I personally prefer to keep the work direct to the intention and true desire at heart, in this case make them reunite again in love.

Spells that accomplish this include:

A honey jar to sweeten them together: add Deers Tongue Herb for communication, Rose for love, Rosemary for women power, Balm of Gilead buds for reconciliation.

A moving candle spell of the husband and wife: both candles are dressed in Return to Me, Come to Me and Reconciliation oil, move them closer and closer over 7 days as you pray Psalms 23 and 32 over them.

There is a great book produced by Lucky Mojo on this subject:

"Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells" by Deacon Millett:
https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturna ... pells.html

These are the oils, incenses, powders, and bath crystals, with free spells on their pages:

Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Come to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Reconciliation:https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

These Lucky Mojo spell kits comes with every thing you need to do the work as well:

Reconciliation Spell Kit: https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html
Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit: https://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spe ... ation.html

JayDee

[catherineyronwode]

Lav1,

JayDee gave you great advice and links to free spells, a book, and two spell kits -- but the most important thing he said, in my opinion, was when he noted that there is a hurdle that you have imposed in the work. You wrote:

"This marriage needs forgiveness"
BUT
The "husband needs to acknowledge his wrongdoing"

That "BUT" came at the end of your petition, and that, as JayDee noted, is illogical, because what you want is this:

Acknowledgement of wrongdoing
THEN
Forgiveness

Just like JayDee, i can tell you from my experience that when my clients say they want "forgiveness BUT" and then say that they "need" something to be done IN ADDITION to forgiveness, they have the timing backwards. They are thinking, but perhaps not saying is, "What i need must come FIRST, and only THEN will forgiveness be extended."

Having straightened out the time-sequence (apology first, forgiveness later), let's deal with that pesky word "NEEDS." Who needs what?

The marriage "needs" nothing (it has dissolved, for now).

The husband "needs" nothing (he's gone, for now).

So who has a "NEED"? The wife, apparently.

Let us then place the wife and the husband into the equation:

The husband MUST acknowledge his wrongdoing
THEN
The wife will offer forgiveness

So, rather than start in on a Return and Reconcile spell, you now have two choices:

1) Forget the demand for an apology and just work on the return and reconciliation spell.
or
2) Demand the apology as a condition for proceeding with the return and reconciliation spell.

Because demands for apologies are justice spells more than love spells, they have their own thread at the Forum. You can read more about them and participate in discussing such spells here:

Spells to Bring Out Truth, Force a Confession or Admission of Error, Remorse, Apology
spells-to-bring-out-truth-force-a-confe ... t4746.html

I hope this helps

[Lav1]

I guess I’m not wording my question correctly on this forum, for it is always misinterpreted.

“The marriage needs forgiveness but the husband is very hard hearted and stubborn”, meaning they both need to forgive each other, however, the wife is more willing and the husband holds grudges. Basically they both need to forgive themselves and each other.
The other BUT, I’m only implying the wife wants to work it out. She wants healing and restoration for her marriage and I believe the husband does also, however, needs time.
So, with that being said, do all of the above still apply?
Thank you.

[JayDee]

Lav1,

The wording is incredibly important in the question you ask, the petitions you write, and the words you speak as you do the work. Words are intention, and words are power. The success of your work can easily come down to the language.

Reconciliation products are made specifically to foster forgiveness, in the Bible, Balm of Gilead buds were known for healing wounds, it was referenced as having healing properties.

Look at the label of Balm of Gilead Buds to learn about how they heal: https://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

This is absolutely the first place I would start to foster forgiveness, along with a honey jar which sweetens people together.

JayDee

[Pbaby]

So I have been seeing this guy off and on for a while. I met him when I was 18 and he chose me I did not choose him. I took him for a joke.

Life goes on I end up getting arrested and doing some time. And he looked out for me came home and I lost contact for years so I ended up having a baby by someone else. When we were dealing with each other I was very hesitant to open up to let him in because I felt like he had to work for that which she does right. However things happen and he has other friends where he lives at and I had other friends where I stay at.

However fast forward 3 years our relationship really hasn't been able to get anywhere there are a lot of people that are envious of our relationship. I am the plain Jane he is another side. So I did get a reading from your network. And I was told that he basically was looking in a different direction.

And to be honest with you in my heart of hearts I feel that I should not let go so easily. I've tried to let go of put it to the side let it go pray about it. We're still here so what I did was I made an offering to Oshun to help my relationship.

The offering was done earlier that day that night when I drove to go spend time with him we had the best time ever! He opened up and was showing me a totally different side and I did too I was able to relax which we always did but he was more vocal he expressed how he really felt about me. But he does have a friend and I have not put myself in that position to dominate either due to me being in my own head.

And Oshun accepted the offering and she said a good relationship will be coming soon. So that's what I'm waiting on.

I did do a honey bath. Where you get honey and after you bathe in the shower you take the honey from the top of your head all the way down to the soles of your feet you don't miss anything. And then you take rose petals and you shower yourself with them in the shower and while you're doing that you envision that person or if you don't have anyone in mind a person to bring to you like the petals are them showering you with love. And then after you complete that and rinse off you take the rose petals and you don't leave them in your home you bury them outside or take them somewhere. And then you let go.

So, I seen him last Thursday we communicate a little bit on the phone but I really don't press it. Now this Love that I feel for this man is not a crazy deranged love no. The way I feel about him is I cherish his time if I'm with him I treat it as if he's a gift to me I do not possess him and I love them and he verbally expressed that he loves me. However, I want to enhance that relationship. At least get my shot!

I was told there are ppl envious of our relationship. The few that know. But in all reality maybe none of this should even matter.

What's the whole point in praying and magic and all of this is to enhance your life right?

Do you believe there are people out there who are destined to never have good luck who are just destined to be in a pit for the rest of their life and always be the second one?

[JayDee]

Pbaby,

Your post is a bit scattered in that it is addressing a work you did and then asking why we pray.

Doing an offering to Oshun is not Hoodoo, that is Santeria, which is a religion and a magical practice. The work and offering you did is likely taught by a person in that magical/religious field, probably a priest or priestess, and that question should be asked of them to help get clarification.

Hoodoo is a form of folk magic, not a religion. Lucky Mojo does sell Hoodoo spiritual supplies.

Why do we pray? Because God instructs us to pray for all our needs, to lean unto him and ask him for his guidance, because God is the ultimate decider.

People jealous of the relationship, I would freeze them out.
Freezer Spells:https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

I would also work with Stop Gossip to stop the slander and interference.
Stop Gossip Spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-stop-gossip.html

I personally do not believe that "there are people out there who are destined to never have good luck who are just destined to be in a pit for the rest of their life" -- getting people to a good place is why we do the work we do.

A few products I suggest for your specific situation with this man are Reconciliation, Return to Me, and Stay With Me.
Reconciliation: https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Stay With Me : https://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

JayDee

[Pbaby]

Well well to be honest with you sir, the night I had the offering done I went to see him. And we had a wonderful night. But I don't see us growing any closer. The offering was to make our relationship stronger and to come closer. Like I said he lives in one city and I stay 45 minutes away. So sometimes I reach out to him on messenger he'll reach back out. But as far as us like we were before no. Right now to tell you the truth Jay, I would love to put money into it but I just don't have the funds. And it's really hard for me right now. He's financially able but he doesn't know my struggles and I don't want to say anything to him because I'm scared of rejection or maybe he'll say no. Because we're not like we were but we express how we love each other when we are with each other and you can definitely see it. But I do think he is comfortable with the way I relationship is. And I am not. My whole plan was to try to get something to help me move a little long so that when I can expand I can do more. But it seems slow. So maybe I should just pray more that was basically my question. Should I just pray to Ocean. Or try something else, maybe get your church to light a candle in the meantime until resources are available for me to do what I need to do.

[JayDee]

Pbaby,

You can have candles set at the MISC to burn for your cause.

You can also buy some of the Lucky Mojo books or courses to learn about how to do the work, and do it on your own.

In your situation I suggest these books and courses.

Books:
Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells:
https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooreturna ... pells.html
Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells:
https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyan ... pells.html
Bottle Up and Go:
https://www.luckymojo.com/bottleupandgo.html
Down-Home Sex Magic:https://www.luckymojo.com/downhomesexmagic.html

Videos:
Down-home Sex Magic, Miss Cat:
online-class-down-home-sex-magic-hoodoo ... 98014.html
Doll-magic for love or harm, Rev Jon Saint Germain:
online-class-crafting-a-doll-baby-for-l ... 97995.html
Hoodoo Dolls and Effigies, Miss Cat:
online-class-hoodoo-dolls-and-effigies- ... 97985.html

JayDee