Funny story along these lines, my husband had sat down to try and make a list of the qualities he thought were important to him in a serious relationship when he was in his early 20s. He thought long and hard and came up with what he thought was the ideal qualities to look for in a mate:
1) She had to love Scrabble
2) She had to be shorter than him
3) She had to have and enjoy big families
4) She had to speak French (he was learning French at the time)
He thought those things really were the key to a perfect mate. I'm sure you can see that all but one of them are pretty silly. He found a girl that fit all these qualities to a tee, and he rushed into a committed relationship with her. She was manipulative, emasculating, controlling, domineering, unsupportive, focused on money, tried to isolate him away from his friends, and always trying to change him. He stayed with her for several years despite all this, because he kept telling himself that she met all his qualities for a mate, so eventually things would work out. Right??
Wrong. So he eventually decided that those qualities didn't actually have anything to do with a good mate for him. They were pretty cosmetic. However, all her horribleness did serve to show him what WAS important to him in a partner. (Learning from your mistakes is a very important element in personal growth - so learn to be self-aware.) He decided that his next relationship would have to be with a woman that respected him for who he was, supported his artistic endeavors as well as his career ones, was not driven by materialistic things, and got along well with his friends and family. THOSE qualities made much more sense for a long-term partner.
Along came me.
He met all the needs that I had spelled out (pun intended) in the working I did to draw a suitable life-partner. I wanted someone that could appreciate and enjoy my artistic endeavors, I needed someone who was financially stable and able to provide on that front because all of my business pursuits are very risky and unstable, I wanted someone very emotionally stable that I could depend on (I dated many men who were passionate, but just completely undependable and too fickle and wishy-washy), I needed someone to whom loyalty was tantamount, I needed someone that did not want children, who loved and enjoyed animals and pets, etc, etc. And I needed someone who didn't mind supporting me if I needed it, and could weather any emotional storms that I may subject them to, and who loved spending a great deal of time with their partner.
He fit ALL of them. I fit all of his needs.
Get real with yourself and your needs in life and in a partner, and then work for them! Also, have one of the things that you draw be that YOU are the right person for THEM in kind. Very important, that! THAT is the best way to draw a really remarkable partner through conjure. And don't forget to work on your own relationship skills in the meantime, so that when you DO meet the right person, you are at your most capable for being a good partner for them in return.


