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Hi Conjureman
Do you know of a spell to break a love targets resistance by using a black candle and essence of bendoever oils?
Do you know of a spell to break a love targets resistance by using a black candle and essence of bendoever oils?
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Wonderful! You couldn't be in more capable and compassionate hands.
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The original post has two conjurations that you can look at. The latter of the two involves an undressed black candle that can be used to move away or get rid of the resistance of a target. I think that may benefit you.
Bend Over work can be done in more coercive forms of love work.
Bend Over work can be done in more coercive forms of love work.
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Angeldust, i think your attitude is unusual to say the least. To my way of thinking it would be more pleasant and more powerful to induce love with two red candles while driving away resistance with a black candle, as ConjureMan Ali suggested, rather than to work only with Essence of Bend-Over Oil and a black candle to "break" someone's "resistance" to love.
Just a word of advice from someone who has done this sort of thing many times .... We often speak of spells working "by the carrot and the stick" -- luring the stubborn donkey with a tasty carrot, driving the stubborn donkey with a harshly struck stick. This is how ConjureMan Ali's spell is designed -- carrot and stick.
For love work, the easiest conjurations are those involving the enticingly tasty carrot, and if those fail or the person resists you and is stubborn, you can work with both the carrot and the stick -- but trying to work a love spell by the stick alone is not always a successful method, for you may just end up killing the poor old stubborn donkey or driving him away.
Just a word of advice from someone who has done this sort of thing many times .... We often speak of spells working "by the carrot and the stick" -- luring the stubborn donkey with a tasty carrot, driving the stubborn donkey with a harshly struck stick. This is how ConjureMan Ali's spell is designed -- carrot and stick.
For love work, the easiest conjurations are those involving the enticingly tasty carrot, and if those fail or the person resists you and is stubborn, you can work with both the carrot and the stick -- but trying to work a love spell by the stick alone is not always a successful method, for you may just end up killing the poor old stubborn donkey or driving him away.
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Absolutely true. People are stubborn. You hit them with a "stick" and they aren't going to be too thrilled about it. It is why Intranquility Spirit cases don't end the way people wish them too.
I would say 9 out of 10 times the sweet and enticing approach is the most effective. I think people mistake sweet and enticing as weak or slow somehow. Completely untrue.
In the conjure outlined above, you work with with enticing elements that pull the target to closer to you while removing whatever may be holding then back and sending it right out of your lives. Works just fine without any need for anything harsher
Cat knows I don't shy away from coercive or harsher types of love spells, but in reality the cases that really need these are so far and few between.
I would say 9 out of 10 times the sweet and enticing approach is the most effective. I think people mistake sweet and enticing as weak or slow somehow. Completely untrue.
In the conjure outlined above, you work with with enticing elements that pull the target to closer to you while removing whatever may be holding then back and sending it right out of your lives. Works just fine without any need for anything harsher
Cat knows I don't shy away from coercive or harsher types of love spells, but in reality the cases that really need these are so far and few between.
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I see, thankyou very much ConjureMan Ali and Cat your advice has been enlightening, I like the idea of the moving candle spell and removing the resistance via a black candle

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Just to clarify, if I wanted to just the jumbo red candle spell, would I carry the personal concerns around with me afterwards in a mojo bag? Or bury them somewhere?
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Thanks for sharing these great spells, ConjureMan Ali. I have made copies for the Lucky Mojo Free Spells Archive as well, with credit to you, of course. Look here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/red/lov ... pells.html
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http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/red/lov ... pells.html
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Oh cool, Miss cat! Hope everyone enjoys them! 
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I just joined this forum this past weekend. I have really only ever done candle magic, with good results. I don’t do coercive work, generally just healings, success, and protection spells for others. And healing, protection and prosperity for myself.
There is a man that I care deeply for and have a strong connection to. He and I have been estranged however, for over five years. I have been getting reading and am consistently told the feelings are there but his fears and emotional concerns over the time apart, keeps him from reinitiating contact physically. That being said---I am gifted and I can pick up on the man’s stresses, concerns, etc etc etc. And right now, there is a particularly negative female who is harassing him and distressing him. I have had negative experiences with her as well. He is not in a relationship with, nor does he desire a relationship with this female. She had manipulated and seduced him in the past, and they had a brief fling, with physical things happening but not progressing as far as intercourse because he didn’t wish to take it that far. It’s just a hot mess of a tale and LONG story that is too much for this post. Quite frankly she is rather ill in her thinking and she has no problems harassing him, women that he does find interest in, as well as anyone else she feels is “in her way”. So while I do not feel comfortable doing spells for him or on him, without his permission, I feel more strongly about protecting him from this woman and her horrible influence. I have not gotten a reading to determine if she has ever had tricks done in order to get with this man—but I wouldn’t put it past her.
My question is which would be better for this purpose, the fiery wall of protection for him, or the crucible of courage for him to man up and tell her off once and for all. Would both be better? The fiery wall to protect him from her negativity and the courage to stand up to her more harshly than he has in the past. I have tried the nice wiccan ways of white candles and pretty prayers but its just not cutting it with this girl. As far as he and I go—this isn’t about me getting her out of the picture because she essentially is as far as he’s concerned, she just doesn’t take no for an answer, choosing instead to make his life distressful with her aggressive ways. He and I will have our time when the timing is right and we both have our heads on the same page—in the meantime I do love this man and will do anything in my power to protect him—so any advice would be appreciated. I have gotten readings on this but not one from anyone here
There is a man that I care deeply for and have a strong connection to. He and I have been estranged however, for over five years. I have been getting reading and am consistently told the feelings are there but his fears and emotional concerns over the time apart, keeps him from reinitiating contact physically. That being said---I am gifted and I can pick up on the man’s stresses, concerns, etc etc etc. And right now, there is a particularly negative female who is harassing him and distressing him. I have had negative experiences with her as well. He is not in a relationship with, nor does he desire a relationship with this female. She had manipulated and seduced him in the past, and they had a brief fling, with physical things happening but not progressing as far as intercourse because he didn’t wish to take it that far. It’s just a hot mess of a tale and LONG story that is too much for this post. Quite frankly she is rather ill in her thinking and she has no problems harassing him, women that he does find interest in, as well as anyone else she feels is “in her way”. So while I do not feel comfortable doing spells for him or on him, without his permission, I feel more strongly about protecting him from this woman and her horrible influence. I have not gotten a reading to determine if she has ever had tricks done in order to get with this man—but I wouldn’t put it past her.
My question is which would be better for this purpose, the fiery wall of protection for him, or the crucible of courage for him to man up and tell her off once and for all. Would both be better? The fiery wall to protect him from her negativity and the courage to stand up to her more harshly than he has in the past. I have tried the nice wiccan ways of white candles and pretty prayers but its just not cutting it with this girl. As far as he and I go—this isn’t about me getting her out of the picture because she essentially is as far as he’s concerned, she just doesn’t take no for an answer, choosing instead to make his life distressful with her aggressive ways. He and I will have our time when the timing is right and we both have our heads on the same page—in the meantime I do love this man and will do anything in my power to protect him—so any advice would be appreciated. I have gotten readings on this but not one from anyone here
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I think its interesting that you blame the woman. I mean I get that she is a bad influence, and so on BUT there needs to be some level of responsibility on his part as well.
I would get a reading on what magical steps needs to be taken to get him away from this woman. How can you perform tricks on him without a total assessment of the situation? You DONt know if this woman has done tricks on him. If she has then that would be a different plan than what would be if she does not.
In addition, you need to get clear about your real intentions with this man. You say your intentions is about getting her out of the picture but then turn around and say this is not about getting her out of the picture. There needs to be some clarity there as to what you want to do.
In any case, you need to get a consultation and a reading done to see what in fact is going on, and what magical steps you can do. And since you are new at this stuff it would be wise of you to hire someone.
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I would get a reading on what magical steps needs to be taken to get him away from this woman. How can you perform tricks on him without a total assessment of the situation? You DONt know if this woman has done tricks on him. If she has then that would be a different plan than what would be if she does not.
In addition, you need to get clear about your real intentions with this man. You say your intentions is about getting her out of the picture but then turn around and say this is not about getting her out of the picture. There needs to be some clarity there as to what you want to do.
In any case, you need to get a consultation and a reading done to see what in fact is going on, and what magical steps you can do. And since you are new at this stuff it would be wise of you to hire someone.
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As I said, the story is a long one and I didn’t feel it was appropriate to post such long tales on a forum where you are just asking for spellwork advice. I figured the entire story is best suited for a reading. I can tell you one thing and that is that the woman is blamed for a reason. She not only went after him but she went after me. She messed with my reputation, my money (as in job opportunities) and this man. I don’t generally go after people, and I am non-confrontational. However, there are things in life that you don’t mess with when it comes to other people—that is family and loved ones and money. She crossed those lines and then some. Aside from all that I am not here asking for justice, for vengeance or any other spell of that nature. The blame however is well placed.
My intent is clear. Unless I am misunderstanding the intent of these spell kits (fiery wall of protection, and crucible of courage) my intent should be clear by what I am asking about, protection and courage for the man I love. I can’t nor do I wish to control who comes in and out of the mans life. My intent is to protect him from those who would harm him, and to strengthen him via the courage spell. Nothing more, nothing less. If her intent is not to harm him, then neither spell I asked about would be effective on her. I make no bones about my mistrust and dislike of this woman, however I don’t desire to do anything against her spell wise. Hence my not asking about any justice, banishing, or hot foots. Most of the readers here have waiting lists, and that is why I thought I would post here while deciding who to go to and when.
My intent is clear. Unless I am misunderstanding the intent of these spell kits (fiery wall of protection, and crucible of courage) my intent should be clear by what I am asking about, protection and courage for the man I love. I can’t nor do I wish to control who comes in and out of the mans life. My intent is to protect him from those who would harm him, and to strengthen him via the courage spell. Nothing more, nothing less. If her intent is not to harm him, then neither spell I asked about would be effective on her. I make no bones about my mistrust and dislike of this woman, however I don’t desire to do anything against her spell wise. Hence my not asking about any justice, banishing, or hot foots. Most of the readers here have waiting lists, and that is why I thought I would post here while deciding who to go to and when.
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Well if she's hoodooed him Crucible of Courage might not help too much. You want to serious uncross and cleanse him, followed up by strong protection work. The Fiery Wall of Protection can absolutely afford him such protection.
My recommendation is to click the link provided by Starsinthesky7 and set up a reading with a reputable reader to determine the best course of action.
Good luck!
My recommendation is to click the link provided by Starsinthesky7 and set up a reading with a reputable reader to determine the best course of action.
Good luck!
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I ditto what ConjureMan Ali said. If she has him under her magical thumb, then the courage work isn't going to be helpful. You are going to have to uncross him first which you are going to want to get an uncrossing spell kit, in addition to the protection work.
So you can do that in the meantime while you are waiting for your reading.
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
So you can do that in the meantime while you are waiting for your reading.
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
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Dear CM, just clarifying one thing, I push the candle on the 7th day while it is burning, into the bucket of water....Right?Over 7 days move the black candle further and further back on your altar until you can push it off the back edge and into the bucket of dirt or water.
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Thank you both for your insights. I have contacted Miss Bri and she has responded with some suggestions....pretty much in line with what the two of you have suggested. I will move forward with her suggestions 
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You knock over the candle on the very last day.
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I have found the perfect man, he wants to things slow, things are going 2 slow 4 me, I want to know which Spell Kit should I use to make him fall head over hills in love with me, I am planing 2 relocate to another state and I want him to go with me, I really want this MAN!! Please Help!!! 
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The Love Me and Follow Me Boy spellkits are probably exactly what you need in this situation. The Love Me will help deepen your connection, and the Follow Me Boy will make him want to follow you around!
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-follow-me-boy.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html
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I recommend that you get a reading to see what you need to do to get him to actually move with you. I mean he may be scared or not willing to move, and in that case you may need something more forceful than follow me boy or love me. I would get a reading at AIRR www.rootworkers.org
In addition to the products above, you can use fire of love products as well.
www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
In addition to the products above, you can use fire of love products as well.
www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
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Without knowing the inside scoop (which is why starsnthesky7 recommended a reading) mzsexy42; I agree with the advice given: Love Me, Follow Me Boy and Fire of Love fit the bill. Go for it! Also consider starting a Honey Jar (found here http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html)
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I gave the first one a try over the weekend...got a text as soon as the candle went out.
Interesting note: I've been keeping a love drawing candle lit at almost all times to keep heat on the situation per my rootworker's instructions. The flame on these candles has been all over the place for the last several weeks. However, it seems to have settled down quite significantly since I performed this spell...let's see where it goes in the next few weeks....
Interesting note: I've been keeping a love drawing candle lit at almost all times to keep heat on the situation per my rootworker's instructions. The flame on these candles has been all over the place for the last several weeks. However, it seems to have settled down quite significantly since I performed this spell...let's see where it goes in the next few weeks....
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Hi Conjureman Ali, what a great pair of spells! Thank you for sharing!
I would like to clarify my understanding - you move ONLY the black candle, moving it away from the other two?
The only moving candle spells I have done before have involved moving the candle that represents the target of the spell - eg bringing "his" candle to "mine", or moving him away from something undesirable and towards the desired goal, so this was a little unexpected to me. I would have thought you would move the target closer to the petitioner, while also pushing the black candle back.
Sorry to ask, just want to be sure I understood it correctly.
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I would like to clarify my understanding - you move ONLY the black candle, moving it away from the other two?
The only moving candle spells I have done before have involved moving the candle that represents the target of the spell - eg bringing "his" candle to "mine", or moving him away from something undesirable and towards the desired goal, so this was a little unexpected to me. I would have thought you would move the target closer to the petitioner, while also pushing the black candle back.
Sorry to ask, just want to be sure I understood it correctly.
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That is correct. The black candle is moved away from the two candles. You are removing the diseased element that is keeping both of you from a happy relationship. The figure candles are face to face, in front of one another.
However, I see no reason why you can't move the figurine candles closer together while also moving the black candle away.
However, I see no reason why you can't move the figurine candles closer together while also moving the black candle away.
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Sounds wonderful! Thank you so much! 
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Hello Everyone,
I would like some advice on what oils and spells to use in order to ensure that a man commits to having a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Thank you!
I would like some advice on what oils and spells to use in order to ensure that a man commits to having a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Thank you!
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Use Chupparosa or Adam and Eve oils as they have a sincere, honest, and long-term love angle to them. Then back that up with Marriage products, which smell divine!
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I have those oils...what spells or rituals can I do with those oils for marriage? Thanks for responding Devi Spring 
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How you employ those products is entirely up to you. There are various methods from candle spells, to laying out tricks, bottle spells and so on and so forth.
A favorite of mine and one that Miss cat herself used is a moving lodestone spell with a candle. You can find mention of it in the free love spells archives.
A favorite of mine and one that Miss cat herself used is a moving lodestone spell with a candle. You can find mention of it in the free love spells archives.
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Here is the spell that ConjureMan is referencing Lodestone and Candle Love Spell http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... oneattract
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i am wondering could i do anything to make a relationship stronger? is there a spell?
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I would make a honey jar with a pair of matched lodestones, and burn pink candles dressed with Chupparosa on it.
You can read about honey jars here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
And also in the 60-page megathread on honey jars: honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html
You can read about honey jars here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
And also in the 60-page megathread on honey jars: honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html
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Would this also work with a 4" candle?ConjureMan Ali wrote:1) Take a jumbo red candle or a 6 inch and carve it with their name, along with the command "unable to resist me." Dress this with Follow Me Boy/Girl then take Cubeb Berries and push them into the wax of the candle. You might need to use a nail to make small holes then stick the Cubeb Berries in them. Stud the candle with Cubeb Berries, then dust it with some Dill Seeds. Set this on the overturned cup and burn it down while praying for them to be unable to resist you any longer.
Also, what exactly do you mean by "stud the candle"?
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The reason I'd recommend a jumbo candle is because you need the space, a 4" may be too small, but try it out.
Studding the candle literally means taking the Cubeb berries and sticking them into the candle like little studs. You push the Cubeb Berry right into the wax. You might needs to make a hole first. When its done you have a candle with Cubeb Berries sticking out of them all over. For this reason a jumbo candle might be easier to work with or a 6".
When I do it, I often start at the bottom of the candle and work my way up in a spiral. It is time-consuming, but you get this nice spiral of Cubeb Berries. The result is rather aesthetically pleasing. However, I've also stuck them in a more haphazard way and its worked just fine too.
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Studding the candle literally means taking the Cubeb berries and sticking them into the candle like little studs. You push the Cubeb Berry right into the wax. You might needs to make a hole first. When its done you have a candle with Cubeb Berries sticking out of them all over. For this reason a jumbo candle might be easier to work with or a 6".
When I do it, I often start at the bottom of the candle and work my way up in a spiral. It is time-consuming, but you get this nice spiral of Cubeb Berries. The result is rather aesthetically pleasing. However, I've also stuck them in a more haphazard way and its worked just fine too.
Good luck
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I'm sure 4" are just fine but I'll let ConjureMan answer.
Making small holes and sticking the berries in the holes is the act of studding. So "stud the candle" is sticking the cubeb berries (or whatever you want depending on what you want to accomplish) into the candle so that the candle is then sort of decorated with the berries. I think you're getting hung up on the vocab word "stud." People stud an orange with cloves when they are making mulled cider. or children stud a styrofoam ball with pushpins when doing arts and crafts.
Making small holes and sticking the berries in the holes is the act of studding. So "stud the candle" is sticking the cubeb berries (or whatever you want depending on what you want to accomplish) into the candle so that the candle is then sort of decorated with the berries. I think you're getting hung up on the vocab word "stud." People stud an orange with cloves when they are making mulled cider. or children stud a styrofoam ball with pushpins when doing arts and crafts.
Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Love both of these spells! Thank you, CM for sharing them! I'm going to have to try the first one 
Thanks and Praise to Dr. Hernandez, St. Jude and St. Anthony for all you have done, and continue to do on my behalf. My eternal thanks to you for your many blessings!
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
I like to work with stay with me, and fire of love products in addition to the chupparosa for this situation.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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An update from our situation!
I have got Miss Bri to do an Uncrossing/Road Opener Spell, followed by Moving Candle Spell. Yesterday was exactly 3wks from the end of the Moving Candle Spell, and i have seen good movements and signs... Sign i saw included seeing his name on tv.. Movements, last Saturday nite, he called me (btw im da one whos been calling him, he picks up some calls, but when he does, we do talk nicely n lovingly), but yeh about Saturday, we spoke to nicely.. We r in different countries btw.. He started the conversation by saying, i so wanna be intimate with you, i reali want you now, n i mean, i was a lil startled, n i was speechless, i mean like, wow, dat's smthn.. n i said hmm, well u gota give up smthn to get smthn.. n hes like wat u want? i said, a commitment.. n hes like, no i dont wanna commit now.. so i said well, then how do expect me to giv in? n he sat n thought for a while n said, cant we have a casual rship? i said, hmm, wat do u think? he said, think we can, i said, no not reali.. n he asked again, i said, ill think about it.. n i spoke to him all dis in a very flirtatious way, like i was happy to see such movements, but of coz id want the commitment, but i had to play along n giv in a lil bit right, i mean im doing work to draw his love towards me.. we had a wonderful nite talking, flirting etc, all went well.. and dis also happened, 4 days after he received a letter i dressed with fmb, look me over and love me and kiss me now.. i must say i was very impressed by his behaviour..
but today, his sister called me to let me know, dat da women whos been trying to break us up, she wants him to herself, but we dont know he full name also, i onli know her first name, dont even hav a pic etc.. Dat women was living in another state, but recently, 2wks ago, she and her kids n her mother moved into the same city as him.. n his sister said dat she thinks hes been going there etc, coz dat women has manipulated him somehow, and he shows more attention there.. he doesnt even talk to his own mum, no sitting down and talking etc.. his mum is very heartbroken.. n now im realli stressing out.. so much actuali! how do i get her out of our lives?? can i get smthn done without her personal concerns etc? i have requested a reading from Miss Bri, but that's another 2days before i get the reading, but im really stressing out so much right now, i jus need some advice and guidance... btw, i was planning a trip to visit him nxt mth, 27th Jan, and i mean things were going great, progressing, but now this women again comes into the picture, what do i do???? im so lost..
I have got Miss Bri to do an Uncrossing/Road Opener Spell, followed by Moving Candle Spell. Yesterday was exactly 3wks from the end of the Moving Candle Spell, and i have seen good movements and signs... Sign i saw included seeing his name on tv.. Movements, last Saturday nite, he called me (btw im da one whos been calling him, he picks up some calls, but when he does, we do talk nicely n lovingly), but yeh about Saturday, we spoke to nicely.. We r in different countries btw.. He started the conversation by saying, i so wanna be intimate with you, i reali want you now, n i mean, i was a lil startled, n i was speechless, i mean like, wow, dat's smthn.. n i said hmm, well u gota give up smthn to get smthn.. n hes like wat u want? i said, a commitment.. n hes like, no i dont wanna commit now.. so i said well, then how do expect me to giv in? n he sat n thought for a while n said, cant we have a casual rship? i said, hmm, wat do u think? he said, think we can, i said, no not reali.. n he asked again, i said, ill think about it.. n i spoke to him all dis in a very flirtatious way, like i was happy to see such movements, but of coz id want the commitment, but i had to play along n giv in a lil bit right, i mean im doing work to draw his love towards me.. we had a wonderful nite talking, flirting etc, all went well.. and dis also happened, 4 days after he received a letter i dressed with fmb, look me over and love me and kiss me now.. i must say i was very impressed by his behaviour..
but today, his sister called me to let me know, dat da women whos been trying to break us up, she wants him to herself, but we dont know he full name also, i onli know her first name, dont even hav a pic etc.. Dat women was living in another state, but recently, 2wks ago, she and her kids n her mother moved into the same city as him.. n his sister said dat she thinks hes been going there etc, coz dat women has manipulated him somehow, and he shows more attention there.. he doesnt even talk to his own mum, no sitting down and talking etc.. his mum is very heartbroken.. n now im realli stressing out.. so much actuali! how do i get her out of our lives?? can i get smthn done without her personal concerns etc? i have requested a reading from Miss Bri, but that's another 2days before i get the reading, but im really stressing out so much right now, i jus need some advice and guidance... btw, i was planning a trip to visit him nxt mth, 27th Jan, and i mean things were going great, progressing, but now this women again comes into the picture, what do i do???? im so lost..
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
I would calm down, and wait until your reading with Miss Bri. It is only two more days, and that is something you should wait for because she can give you more insight into your situation.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Hi Star,
I am definitely trying my level best to calm down here.. Indulging myself in my dance choreography to take my mind off him and my stress.. Like man, things were going on well... SO y did this hav to happen now??? Im gonna go in just 1 mth! N as much as i jus wana leave n go now, i actually can't, i got a couple of performances right upto Jan 23rd which im tied to n i can't leave.. arrggghh!
N to be honest, i booked the reading for some magical coaching so i can go and lay tricks etc.. Coz i was so impressed with the movement, i thought lets step it up! Wanted to go and strengthen my foundation..
A question, say like now Ive got the uncrossing work done 1mth ago, and also moving candle spell done 3wks ago.. Isit possible for her to do hoodoo/black magic on him? How do i stop him being affected by hoodoo frm other ppl? Oh man, i swear, im abt to go insane here! why why why? and i know im being a lil impatient here, but its def smthn i never expected, neither did his family expect.. and i never even knew he has stop talking to his mum, all influence of that women! i jus want her out of our lives, shes causing us way too much grief.. im just so worried, hoping he wudnt be doing anything stupid eg. court marriage etc! i do not know how da hell on earth shes influencing him so much!
I am definitely trying my level best to calm down here.. Indulging myself in my dance choreography to take my mind off him and my stress.. Like man, things were going on well... SO y did this hav to happen now??? Im gonna go in just 1 mth! N as much as i jus wana leave n go now, i actually can't, i got a couple of performances right upto Jan 23rd which im tied to n i can't leave.. arrggghh!
N to be honest, i booked the reading for some magical coaching so i can go and lay tricks etc.. Coz i was so impressed with the movement, i thought lets step it up! Wanted to go and strengthen my foundation..
A question, say like now Ive got the uncrossing work done 1mth ago, and also moving candle spell done 3wks ago.. Isit possible for her to do hoodoo/black magic on him? How do i stop him being affected by hoodoo frm other ppl? Oh man, i swear, im abt to go insane here! why why why? and i know im being a lil impatient here, but its def smthn i never expected, neither did his family expect.. and i never even knew he has stop talking to his mum, all influence of that women! i jus want her out of our lives, shes causing us way too much grief.. im just so worried, hoping he wudnt be doing anything stupid eg. court marriage etc! i do not know how da hell on earth shes influencing him so much!
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Again, wait until your reading with Miss Bri. She can direct you with what you should do next, and will address if she is doing any kind of magic on your target. Why worry about something that she may not be even capable of? If you are incredibly worried, then put this woman in a mirror box.
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Hi Everyone,
First, thank you for reading my post. I would appreciate all your advice and help.
So here is my situation, my ex and I broke up in March. It was a long distance situation. We don't have too much in common except for our birthday. We have seen each other a few times after that, mostly initiated by me.
I gave up on him and tried dating others for a while. But, it seems that I can't get him out of my mind. So i decided to have a reading done a couple weeks ago, I had a wonderful reading and was told to do a few things: the Honey jar and Cut and Clear and Road Opener.
I was not able to do that, due to a wedding i was attending out of town.
Last Friday when I came home from the wedding, I got a text from him!! He never text unless I text him. We texted back and forth and he invited me to come to see him that weekend.
I had to refuse, as I wanted to do the Honey Jar and all before seeing him. He was very disappointed that I couldn't visit. He also hasn't talk to me since.
Then, I found out he is going to Afghanistan in February
. My heart just sank when i heard that. I really wanted to start us back on track again.
I still want to go see him (on our birthday) and plan on doing that after he comes back visiting his family for the holidays.
Any advice what else I can do to get a commitment from him and also keep him safe? I know he still loves me.
First, thank you for reading my post. I would appreciate all your advice and help.
So here is my situation, my ex and I broke up in March. It was a long distance situation. We don't have too much in common except for our birthday. We have seen each other a few times after that, mostly initiated by me.
I gave up on him and tried dating others for a while. But, it seems that I can't get him out of my mind. So i decided to have a reading done a couple weeks ago, I had a wonderful reading and was told to do a few things: the Honey jar and Cut and Clear and Road Opener.
I was not able to do that, due to a wedding i was attending out of town.
Last Friday when I came home from the wedding, I got a text from him!! He never text unless I text him. We texted back and forth and he invited me to come to see him that weekend.
I had to refuse, as I wanted to do the Honey Jar and all before seeing him. He was very disappointed that I couldn't visit. He also hasn't talk to me since.
Then, I found out he is going to Afghanistan in February
I still want to go see him (on our birthday) and plan on doing that after he comes back visiting his family for the holidays.
Any advice what else I can do to get a commitment from him and also keep him safe? I know he still loves me.
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Orchid, you are going about things in a very unproductive way. Also, i am confused about why your reader told you to do a honey jar and a Road Opener (which make sense together) AND a Cut and Clear, which is to cut off your feelings for the person.
Before you read anything else, read these web pages i have written as part of my free online book "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice":
Honey Jar: http://luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
"This trick will cause the person you name to like you more, to love you more, to favour your petition, to want to help you, to be sympathetic to your cause, or to forgive any wrongs you have committed. It can be used to influence and sweeten a judge in a court case, a loan officer at the bank, a boss from whom you want a raise, a teacher in your school from whom you want a good grade, a lover with whom you want a reconciliation, an in-law who has been back-biting you, or friend who has cut you off because of a foolish quarrel. "
Road Opener: http://luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
"Road Opener is a powerful spiritual aid when trying to clear away remnants of past blockages, set-backs, or slow-downs. It is used to open the door to a better future, both when remedying crossed conditions and when embarking upon new ventures."
Cut and Clear: http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
"If you have trouble letting go of past situations and conditions, if you are dragged down by people who promised things they never delivered yet find it difficult to walk away from them, if you want to move on into better, happier, and more productive relationships, then try a CUT AND CLEAR spell to break your ties to the past and bring about a new, desirable future."
Do you see how Cut and Clear is not really copasetic with the other two? It is to help you to "walk away from" a bad relationship and to get a "better" relationship -- with someone else!
Next, you made a BIG mistake in not going to your lover when he reached out to you and invited you. None of us who work through prayers, magical spells, or spiritual work of any kind would recommend that you place the performance of altar work BEFORE the acceptance of an invitation to see your lover. You do not live in the world of spirit alone, nor does he. Always balance the two worlds and keep one foot in each world.
Now you must make up for the mistake you made.
Good luck.
Before you read anything else, read these web pages i have written as part of my free online book "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice":
Honey Jar: http://luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
"This trick will cause the person you name to like you more, to love you more, to favour your petition, to want to help you, to be sympathetic to your cause, or to forgive any wrongs you have committed. It can be used to influence and sweeten a judge in a court case, a loan officer at the bank, a boss from whom you want a raise, a teacher in your school from whom you want a good grade, a lover with whom you want a reconciliation, an in-law who has been back-biting you, or friend who has cut you off because of a foolish quarrel. "
Road Opener: http://luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
"Road Opener is a powerful spiritual aid when trying to clear away remnants of past blockages, set-backs, or slow-downs. It is used to open the door to a better future, both when remedying crossed conditions and when embarking upon new ventures."
Cut and Clear: http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
"If you have trouble letting go of past situations and conditions, if you are dragged down by people who promised things they never delivered yet find it difficult to walk away from them, if you want to move on into better, happier, and more productive relationships, then try a CUT AND CLEAR spell to break your ties to the past and bring about a new, desirable future."
Do you see how Cut and Clear is not really copasetic with the other two? It is to help you to "walk away from" a bad relationship and to get a "better" relationship -- with someone else!
Next, you made a BIG mistake in not going to your lover when he reached out to you and invited you. None of us who work through prayers, magical spells, or spiritual work of any kind would recommend that you place the performance of altar work BEFORE the acceptance of an invitation to see your lover. You do not live in the world of spirit alone, nor does he. Always balance the two worlds and keep one foot in each world.
Now you must make up for the mistake you made.
Good luck.
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thank you all for your guidance 
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
I was wo0ndering the same thing when I first read the original post. Those seem to be at odds with each other! The Cut & Clear seems very random, prescribed in this case.catherineyronwode wrote:Orchid, you are going about things in a very unproductive way. Also, i am confused about why your reader told you to do a honey jar and a Road Opener (which make sense together) AND a Cut and Clear, which is to cut off your feelings for the person.
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Mirror Box? Please explain more?
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You can read about a mirror box in the links below
mirror-box-spell-questions-and-answers-t8369.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... gmirrorbox
mirror-box-spell-questions-and-answers-t8369.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... gmirrorbox
Thank u St. Martha for everything you have done on my behalf.
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
Thank u St. Elena! I appreciate your great help.
Thank you St. Peter for opening the gates&roads!
Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Utilizing some Deer's Tongue can also help get the "marriage" conversation going. I added some to my working and that same evening my man blurted out a comment about us getting married maybe in the future... and then looked amazed at himself. 
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Thanks Star..
I'm at the brink of losing it, he spoke to me today and was like, i'm in a rship with someone else.. i asked, hasnt it occured to u to tell me in da past 2mths? so why bother calling me, smsing me, keeping the communication going for then? u know i love u so much, but if u think u wana b wid someone else, y lead me on for? yeh nthn is goin on now, true.. but u know dat i do wana be close to u etc.. so y lead me into believeing things will be fine..
he reali broke my heart today..
I'm at the brink of losing it, he spoke to me today and was like, i'm in a rship with someone else.. i asked, hasnt it occured to u to tell me in da past 2mths? so why bother calling me, smsing me, keeping the communication going for then? u know i love u so much, but if u think u wana b wid someone else, y lead me on for? yeh nthn is goin on now, true.. but u know dat i do wana be close to u etc.. so y lead me into believeing things will be fine..
he reali broke my heart today..
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i must say, after a reading with Miss Bri, i felt sooo much better! thanks miss bri.. very usefull insight!
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thanks for your reply, but how do i do this? im new to spellcasting?
is it easy?
holly
is it easy?
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Hi Holly, take a look at the webpage with the honey jar. it is the first link Devi posted. It includes the instructions on how to assemble a honey jar and for what reasons honey jars are used.
All the other recommendations are for making an already existing, romantic relationship stronger. I'm not sure if that is what you are looking for because you just posted under a separate thread about turning a friend into a lover. That requires different products.
Either way, you may want to consider ordering a spell kit because it comes pre-packaged with everything you need. It also includes step by step instructions: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
In the meantimey, You may want to read through this site to start familiarizing yourself with hoodoo: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html
good luck
All the other recommendations are for making an already existing, romantic relationship stronger. I'm not sure if that is what you are looking for because you just posted under a separate thread about turning a friend into a lover. That requires different products.
Either way, you may want to consider ordering a spell kit because it comes pre-packaged with everything you need. It also includes step by step instructions: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html
In the meantimey, You may want to read through this site to start familiarizing yourself with hoodoo: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html
good luck
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Since you are new to spell-casting, i suggest that you first start with an introductory page i have written to help beginners such as yourself:
DOES MAGIC REALLY WORK?:
ARE MAGIC SPELLS REAL?,
IS THERE SUCH A THING AS REAL MAGICK?
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html
In particular, in your case, be sure to read the section titled:
WHICH MAGICK SPELLS ARE THE STRONGEST OR MOST EFFECTIVE?
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html#8
This will help yu understand some of the variations in love spells and will provide helpful links for further study. In particular, your next step would be to read the Free Spells Page on Love Spells, which is here:
Love Spells:
http://luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
That page contains dozens of links to different love spells for all sorts of love situations.
Then, after you have done the small amount of research that reading those pages imposes on you, you will be ready to check out Lucky Mojo's wide and diverse assortment of love spell products, including honey jars, spell kits, mojo bags, nation sacks, and individual spell components such as oils, powders, bath crystals, and incense.
If, after that, you have further questions about our products and how they are used, please fell free to post your questions here.
Good luck!
DOES MAGIC REALLY WORK?:
ARE MAGIC SPELLS REAL?,
IS THERE SUCH A THING AS REAL MAGICK?
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html
In particular, in your case, be sure to read the section titled:
WHICH MAGICK SPELLS ARE THE STRONGEST OR MOST EFFECTIVE?
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html#8
This will help yu understand some of the variations in love spells and will provide helpful links for further study. In particular, your next step would be to read the Free Spells Page on Love Spells, which is here:
Love Spells:
http://luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
That page contains dozens of links to different love spells for all sorts of love situations.
Then, after you have done the small amount of research that reading those pages imposes on you, you will be ready to check out Lucky Mojo's wide and diverse assortment of love spell products, including honey jars, spell kits, mojo bags, nation sacks, and individual spell components such as oils, powders, bath crystals, and incense.
If, after that, you have further questions about our products and how they are used, please fell free to post your questions here.
Good luck!
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If your target is stubborn how many times would you recommend doing this spell?
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angeldust, as you are new to this forum, and your question is an unusual one, i'd like to point you toward the thread here on Signs, Movement, and Completion of Spells. I think that if you read through it from start to finish, you will have all the answers you need, and then some!
signs-movement-completion-of-spells-que ... t6436.html
Good luck!
signs-movement-completion-of-spells-que ... t6436.html
Good luck!
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
Conjureman (or anyone who can help),
Regarding the first spell with the red candle and the Cubeb Berries, it says you should take a name paper, fold a John the Conquerer root in it and then place it under an overturned cup. You then burn the fixed candle on top. Would you mind explaning the effect of using the John Conquerer root here? If I understand the nature of the root correctly, I would have thought it would make your target even stronger and more powerful in his/her will to resist you (esp since it's wrapped in his/her name paper).
Thanks. Understanding the hows and whys goes a long way for me when trying to do a spell myself. Thank you!
Regarding the first spell with the red candle and the Cubeb Berries, it says you should take a name paper, fold a John the Conquerer root in it and then place it under an overturned cup. You then burn the fixed candle on top. Would you mind explaning the effect of using the John Conquerer root here? If I understand the nature of the root correctly, I would have thought it would make your target even stronger and more powerful in his/her will to resist you (esp since it's wrapped in his/her name paper).
Thanks. Understanding the hows and whys goes a long way for me when trying to do a spell myself. Thank you!
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I think because the root is also for commanding power and personal mastery, and that is effectively what you are trying to do with this spell. You are trying to gain mastery and control over the person and commanding them to be unable to resist you. You are also taking this paper and placing under an overturned cup and then burning a red candle over the top of this cup. The name paper links the person you are trying to gain mastery over. Cat's book has a jack ball working that uses High John that men can use to attract a woman. This particular spell isn't a jack ball working but it shows how you can draw someone using it. Of course that is just how I took it when I looked it up lol.
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Re: Spells For True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement, Marriage
trish76 is right on the money. Roots and herbs aren't always as limited as people take them to be. Take Tobacco for example, it can be used in court case work, it can be used for controlling, it can be used for spiritual contact. Those are three rather different areas.
John the Conqueor is a root that brings luck, sexual magnetism, gives you the upper hands, as well as brings a sense of control to the situation. The way I was taught was that, "John the Conqueror can conquer!"
Furthermore it is your intention that drives the work unless you intend that person to be stronger why would they get stronger by you using John the Conqueror? It is like thinking that if I use Five Finger Grass in the name paper/packet for a bank that bank is somehow going to get more money out of me rather than me get the loan.
Make sense?
John the Conqueor is a root that brings luck, sexual magnetism, gives you the upper hands, as well as brings a sense of control to the situation. The way I was taught was that, "John the Conqueror can conquer!"
Furthermore it is your intention that drives the work unless you intend that person to be stronger why would they get stronger by you using John the Conqueror? It is like thinking that if I use Five Finger Grass in the name paper/packet for a bank that bank is somehow going to get more money out of me rather than me get the loan.
Make sense?
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