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Unread post by ConjureMan » Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:31 pm

I would start with a Cut and Clear to heal your heart and draw in a new lover. I'd also add some Look Me Over and Bewitching when you go out. Nothing will quite give a confidence boost than when you are the center of attention for adoring eyes.
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Unread post by believingforthebest » Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:23 pm

Hi everyone,
How do I do a cleansing of my relationship? And how often should I do it? If I doing spell work on us.

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:31 pm

First off cleansing removes negativity from the relationship.

So you will not be undoing your work.

And I wrote about doing a love uncrossing which you can find in this thread

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I think you can do this for 7 solid days. I dont really know the specifics of your situation but if someone is doing work against your relationship then you need to put up some protection.
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Unread post by believingforthebest » Wed Jun 13, 2012 5:48 pm

Thank you Starsinthesky7... Is there anyway I can do it without using that candle?
I have a lot of LM oil and regular candles.
I need something I can do now and lately it's been taking me a Month and a half to recieve my orders from LM, unless you know someone else who sells LM oils

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Unread post by Maitthew » Wed Jul 25, 2012 9:02 am

want to ask how you set lights to help people during the mourning process, to heal them, and to get rid of negative energies.

What are some different ways of doing this? I've read up on it but now I'm just trying to get an idea of how different people go about doing it.

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Unread post by aura » Wed Jul 25, 2012 12:39 pm

Hi Maitthew,

Having the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church (MISC) set a light on behalf of the mourner can work well, particularly if you aren't used to setting lights yourself. The Healing Miracle light is a good choice: http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... racle.html.

If you want to set the light yourself, there's a lot of useful information about doing that in the following forum thread: candles-trim,-carve,-load,-petition,-pr ... t9108.html

In addition, on a mundane level, a grief support group can also be a welcome place for those in crisis. If they are open to such a service, just the gift of giving them the coordinates is great one.

Blessings and best of luck.
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Unread post by duende » Tue Aug 07, 2012 4:33 pm

I am not quite sure where to post this, nor even if I have a specific question, more just wondering about how the hoodoo tradition might address large scale, political or historical suffering, not just death as regards individuals dying in accidents or personally-motivated murders, etc. (I haven't read through every post on here regarding the dead, but many seem to address individual spirits; also I have not exhaustively read through all of the historical pages here about hoodoo, but I have read through a lot of it—I very much want to have a solid context for this work. I try to avoid information in a vacuum.)

Some context for my wondering: the past few years I worked on a project about the Rwandan genocide, which required working in Rwanda. While there I visited all of the genocide sites around the country. Walking into the first site was like being hit in the solar plexus with a heavy board of grief & hurt. A physical sensation of being hit, or having walked straight into a wall of massive pain. Just terrible. I sat for awhile with some of the skulls in one of the crypts we also visited and asked for forgiveness. Then there were the rooms and rooms of bodies that are laid out in an elementary school... Anyway. I fell into a pretty deep & sustained depression while working on this project, made worse by studying war and conflict studies in my political science courses; I had tons of terrible nightmares that were particularly historical/political feeling in nature (for example, israel/palestine violence, attacks on farmers in indonesia-- one of the most frightening nightmares I've ever had, african-american suffering in the US, genocide-themed dreams, latin american political prisoners being executed by firing squad, etc.).

The intensity of the grief I felt while thinking about genocide, wars, and other awful events would shock me, though it all felt right to grieve it in many ways. I would feel utterly powerless to control it; on a number of occasions it didn't even feel like "my" grief, or that it was my feelings attaching to...something else. It's taken me years, and being baptised a Christian, to shake off a lot of the darkness I gathered around me while working on this project, and only in the last year finding my way back into some kind of daily existence where I don't feel physically & paralyzingly aware of how much awfulness is experienced in the world on a regular basis. I don't want to *not* be aware of these things, mind you, but I don't want the feeling of danger & violence lodged in my bones.

Any thoughts on addressing the suffering that happens because of political power abuses, political violence, history, etc.? Is there any difference in the tenor of the energy it leaves behind; does scale matter? Is this even a meaningful question? I have worked on this stuff in therapy, at church, and have good resources I can turn to. It feels right to involve hoodoo, however, & I'm planning some cleansing/healing work with LM products, yet I also want to know what I can do spiritually to make the positive energy I work with not be all about my own well-being/healing, but also that of others who experienced the real suffering. I am thinking working with many of the Saints is a good plan, so many of them associated with helping the powerless and abused. Also I will get a reading done at some point to see if something from my experience in Rwanda has been lingering with me in a way I can render more manageable (with some help). Thoughts/advice very, very appreciated! Also if this is not an appropriate question for these boards, I apologize; also for the length of the post, sigh.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Aug 07, 2012 6:56 pm

Lucky Mojo has a World Peace candle you can light while you pray for an end to violence in the world. In light of recent events, maybe more of us should be working toward this goal.
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Unread post by duende » Fri Aug 10, 2012 9:15 pm

Thank you for your reply, Mama Micki; I appreciate it. I will add a world peace candle to one of my future orders.

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:52 am

Me too.

I have an entire altar dedicated to justice. Dr. Martin Luther King, Bayard Rustin, Frederick Douglass and Santisima Muerte preside there.

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Unread post by kittydarling » Sat Aug 18, 2012 10:39 am

my ex boyfriend has major trust issues. He was kind of abandoned as a child and the one person he connected to died really young.

He and I have been on and off for about 6 mos, and I am frustrated. I want him to be able to trust people, even if it doesn't help me with our relationship in the long run. He runs when things get serious. He belittles himself constantly. he relies on his charm to get people to help him (monetarily etc) so he doesn't have to commit to being responsible in a situation.

I want him to be able to open up and see his life and make positive changes before he pushes everyone away and hurts himself. Right now we are friends with benefits but I am going to end it because it is too painful for me to support him when he isn't faithful (part of his self preservation tactic).

Ideally I would love to get back together with him because I love him, but I mostly just want to help him get well.

Is there a spell i can do to help him deal with his emotional scars?

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Unread post by aura » Sat Aug 18, 2012 11:18 am

Hi kittydarling,

there are a number of spells that can help him on his way to health, but he will also probably need a support or therapy group to ultimately come to terms with his past and move on. Until he decides to get help and change (be it through a church, a community organization, grass-roots group or by seeing a social worker or psychologist), chances are that your spell-work won't make a serious indent into his behaviour.

That said, working in tandem with Crucible of Courage products during the waxing moon and then Cast Off Evil during the waning moon, you may be able to subtly bring around the desire for self-betterment in his life. You can burn purple, white and yellow candles on his name (for the CofC) and black candles on his negative behaviours (for the COE). You can also dust the insoles of his shoes with the powders and perhaps add some of the diluted bath crystals to his body wash or shampoo.

St-Dymphna is good for any emotional scarring, so if you're comfortable working with Saints, you may want to petition her on his behalf. She's very soft and sweet and has a wonderfully healing energy.

Links to those products and persons are below:
http://www.luckymojo.com/saintdymphna.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sat Aug 18, 2012 11:24 am

Definitely read the links aura posted, they each provide and support her post.
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Unread post by believingforthebest » Mon Sep 10, 2012 5:15 am

What are the best and strongest healing products I can use and how do I use them? I have healing oil, healing bath crystals, and reconcile oil... My boyfriend and I have some hurt and our relationship and I want to heal our relationship and bring happiness to relationship.

What can I use?

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Unread post by aura » Mon Sep 10, 2012 6:56 am

Hi believingforthebest,

please try not to think of hoodoo formulas and spells in terms of ''best'' or ''strongest''. Each formula and type of work has its purpose and accomplishes goals differently, that's all. You use the product that is best suited to the access you have to your target and the type of spells you are doing.

The oils you have are used to anoint candles, door handles and personal items that are oil-resistant so that the target will touch them. You can read more in detail on the use of oils here: http://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

Bath crystals are great if you have access to your boyfriend's laundry, body wash and/or shampoo. You would dilute a bit of the bath crystals and add them to any of the above (the laundry while you're washing it - particularly socks and underwear). If you live together, washing the bathroom floor as well as the bedroom floor with a dilute mop solution of the bath crystals can also work well. You can read more in detail on the use of bath crystals here: http://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html

Finally, if you are somewhat new to the work (and even if you aren't it's a good idea), getting a Reconciliatio Spell Kit might be handy: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html. The kit comes with everything you need to work the spell, you'll even have left-overs in case you need to do more work later. Furthermore, it has worked for many people and comes with detailed instructions on what you have to do.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Sep 10, 2012 10:02 am

Aura gave you great advice. Here are some of the products she mentioned, which can be ordered right here in the forum by clicking on the bue Add To Cart buttons:

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Unread post by hoodooboo32 » Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:46 am

Hi Miss Cat.

A question on the Uncrossing bath you recommended:

Should this be done with the "standard" procedures of throwing collected bathwater into a crossroads towards the east at sunrise?
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Unread post by star02 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:32 pm

I have had many readings done. I just recently had my last reading and this person told me that i need to become spiritually connected, and do for myself. The things that keeps getting repeated in my readings is that i need to overcome the past, let go for new beginnings. The past is holding me back. Also i was told to stop spending my money on consultations and also root work, that there is no one who can get me what i want through root work. Yoga was suggested to me and also to see a therapist. I cannot afford a therapist at the moment since i am not working. i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions to me as how i can overcome my past that is blocking me from succeeding in life. I had uncrossing and protection candles lit at MISC about 2 months ago.
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Unread post by Miss Bri » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:43 pm

Hi there,
First off, though you have had many readings done it sounds to me from your description like they have been somewhat uniform in their advice and suggestions-that always helps. As far as letting go of the past, if its relationship issues I am a big fan of LMC's cut and clear formula along with Healing. For other areas healing and in some cases banishing may be appropriate:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html
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Unread post by Doctor Hob » Sat Sep 29, 2012 12:53 am

In addition to Miss Bri's excellent advice, I would suggest posting a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League.

http://crystalsilenceleague.org
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Good call Dr. Hob!
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Unread post by MissMichaele » Sat Sep 29, 2012 7:25 am

And don't stop with a single prayer request! That's a very active website; post a fresh one every couple of weeks to stay on the members' spiritual radar.

I'm a member of the Crystal Silence League myself -- so your prayer will be on my altar, too.

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Unread post by MissMichaele » Sat Sep 29, 2012 7:28 am

hoodooboo32 --

There is no "standard" way to bathe, nor to dispose of bath water. There are traditional ways, and common ways, and well-known ways, but they do not always involve a crossroads. Perhaps if you think of conjure as a collection of beliefs rather than as a series of procedures, you may understand the work more intimately.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sat Sep 29, 2012 8:24 am

You can't get what you want through rootwork? Kind of contradicts everything we do here. I would guess that your readings were non-AIRR, especially with the recommendations that were given.

However, letting go of the past is usually a good idea, especially if it is keeping you from moving forward. I suggest Cut and Clear and Road Opener, along with the following Bible passage:
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland Isaiah 43:18,19 (NIV)
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Unread post by star02 » Sat Sep 29, 2012 11:13 am

The person is an AIRR reader. But these suggestions are good ones and will post another prayer and work with cut and clear, healing and road opener. Thanks so much.

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Unread post by Miss Bri » Sat Sep 29, 2012 5:42 pm

I do want to address something that came up in this thread--and that is the issue of no one being able to get you what you want through rootwork. While there are many angles to approach cases by-there are cases and most of us in AIRR have had them, where a desire, wish, or goal is simply not going to be achieved through magical means. This, actually, is one of the primary reasons that many professional readers and workers insist on a potential client getting a reading prior to ordering root work-because we want to read and make sure that root work will be useful to the specific needs of the individual.
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Sat Oct 06, 2012 6:49 am

Many people don't know what they really want, and a reading can help them clarify what their true desires are. A woman might feel that only a certain man will fulfill her; the only problem is that he is married with three children. Work can be done to cleanse her mind and see the situation as it is, as well as find a more suitable love interest.
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Unread post by ilion » Sun Jan 13, 2013 3:12 am

Hi there,

I am new here and this is my first post.
I apologize if I do not ask the question on the proper place in the forum.

The thing is that recently I've read about the Law of Contagion and learned that this Law (if I understood it right) is referring to the sympathy principle between two people, or between a person and the items (material) which this person once possessed or touched.

I have a problem with a past friendship relationship [which was broken abruptly with great verbal aggressive fight] which I can't get out of my mind, and is somehow "possess" me. I want to be able to move on with my life without continuously getting back to this person in my mind. I know that several psychological issues can be in play here [such as fear, guilt, need, and etc.], but I think there is something more. I am quite well familiarized myself with psychology and psychological states, so if I came here to ask for help, then it is really serious lol

Seriously, is there any advice what I can do about this?

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Sun Jan 13, 2013 6:34 am

You need to do a Cut and Clear spell kit; it will cut the bond between you and your friend.

http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

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Unread post by ilion » Mon Jan 14, 2013 1:30 am

MaryBee wrote:You need to do a Cut and Clear spell kit; it will cut the bond between you and your friend.

http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

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Thanks Mary Bee!

I read the article, very nice! But is there some less ceremonial spell?
I have never done such kind of candle and all other stuff spells.
Can I do this with words only or less tools, only with Spirit?

Sorry if my question sounds stupid.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:49 am

This Forum is to assist customers of Lucky Mojo Curio Company. If you want to pray without using any herbs, oils, etc., that is certainly your right, but that is not what we do here. Lighting a candle is not a "ceremonial" spell; it is actually quite simple, as Lucky Mojo vigil candles come dressed with oils, herbs, and prayer.
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Unread post by Littlestar » Mon Feb 25, 2013 5:07 am

What are the best herbs for healing grief and anger and COOL down the anger? Can Lemon leaf be used to cleanse and clear past anger issues?
Also besides master of the woods to give this person the strength and courage to deal with the healing process and face the issues that need to be dealt with?

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Unread post by SweetLady » Mon Feb 25, 2013 5:28 am

Hello Little Star:

Love your forum name by the way! That is the Indian name of my first neice and she is just my favorite girl!
Anyhoo, to get to your question. Althea is considered a great "soother" also Lavender comes to mind as does self-heal
But as for the strengthening work you are thinking on...I feel that those are kind of "opposing energies" and you should choose only one of them to work on this situation. Do you want to strengthen them so that they are able to overcome, or do you want to ease and soothe their pain so that they can overcome...do you see what I am saying? there is the idea of working "hot and cold" but that is usually for love situations when you are working to bring one person to you as well as send the other away. I am sensing intuitively that for this particular situation you should choose one way that you want to accomplish this goal and then concentrate on that. Hope this helps!
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Mon Feb 25, 2013 10:16 am

There are a variety of herbs designed for health and healing. I have listed a few here for her reading.

Althaea Leaf and Root
Self Heal
Comfrey Root
Lemon Mint
Peony Root

I recommend that you purchase a copy of cat's book Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic that includes 500 herbs, roots, minerals, and rare zoological curios. An excellent read!
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Unread post by KrystalK » Tue Mar 05, 2013 4:28 am

Hi again lol...


Well this is the same guy I have done the Cut & Clear for the wife to move on. (They have been separated and was supposed to start a business together but now I'm hearing that she is spending the start up money on a trip. Wow.)

I had a looong talk with him and he seemed to be down after sharing with me the full details ( I did a Compelling Spell to get him to open up more lol..he's a Scorpio & we know how secretive they can be). ..anywhoo..the wife has claimed the kids and isn't using the money as well as he'd hoped. He currently has no job but he find ways to make money . Sleeps on the floor at a friends house and is currently looking forward to getting to work at the company where his wife works to help increase his finances for him & his kids. (He loves them to death that is all he talks about).


I would very much like to help him which was my intention before getting physically involved and I have stepped back (as a friend) to clearly see the picture

BUT he's very independent and I'm not trying to step on his toes or make him feel like less of a man. I have plans to help nuture him back to health..he's lost to much weight in the past couple of months. He's chugging energy drinks and smoking weed (Cast Off Evil should helps since is not a REALLY bad habit of his ). Burning calories and stressing a lot. I told him he's going through anxiety and he needs to slow down. I have anxiety myself so I know the outcome. He's depressed.

Yesterday he expressed to me that his is broken and feel like he cant give himself to me (he's not mine anyways they aren't divorced) he talks about hanging out with me all the time calls me several times a day and we have looong chats ..upbeat ...always talking about future plans how things would be if he had money and a car. Ugh.

I want to help him find activities to do. Healthy, motivational, possitive activites. We've discussed working out several times but I think he needs to be nurished then bulk up later lol.

He tells me I can come over anytime but since he lives with a guy friend of ours I have to be considerate of the situation of coming to someone else house even though he's paying room and board. I also think that he wants me to come over so that he can see if I'm really serious/interested in him but in reality I'm letting him be him. Not trying to be clingy or pushy at all. He even admits he's all over the place, physically and mentally. He wants to slow down but he doesn't know what it is. I had the same issues last year and I'm just now slowing down lol...it helps with anxiety to keep moving.


We get along great and he and I being business partners would be a possibility he is very much on the same page as me . We have talked about doing a lot of activities together . He wants a job also. But if he's smoking that going to hinder him getting one because of the urine test ...

We both love and is interested in doing music. Something along those lines to keep him occupied and motivated is what he really wants...and I am interested in the same thing. We share the same friends with the same interest but its hard to trust people these days with your time and effort to get anything done but i can tell he's just as passionate about this as I am.

What do you suggest to do to help him calm down or possibly rest for a while he really needs it . He hope in next two months he will move out of the friend's house and have a job.

I am willing to do some Road Opener he has a lot of blockage. I think most of it is insecurity in the long run ...

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Unread post by aura » Tue Mar 05, 2013 9:06 am

Hi KrystalK,

Road Opening will definitely help over the long run, but until he's calmed down a bit, do keep in mind that it's the kind of work that can usher in a whirlwind: it isn't called ''block-buster'' work for nothing. Thus keeping it all tempered with King Solomon Wisdom, Tranquility, Healing and Clarity can help a lot. You probably want to do some of the Healing, Clarity and Tranquility work prior to opening those roads. Baths are particularly helpful in this type of situation. If your friend won't use bath salts that you've repackaged for him, then you could also bathe a doll baby in his name. A good combo to mix up for him could look like this:
-1 part Healing Bath Crystals
-1 part Tranquility Bath Crystals
-1/2 part Clarity Bath Crystals
-1/2 part King Solomon Wisdom Bath Crystals
-1/2 part Nature Bath Crystals (not only sexual vitality is improved, this formula is also helpful for improving physical vigour and health)
-1/8 part Cast Off Evil Bath Crystals
-1/8 part Cut and Clear Bath Crystals
Combine all the crystals, mix well while calling for help for your friend and praying. Package in a nice jar or bottle and give it to him as a ''de-stressing'' bath blend. Tell him to relax at least 20 minutes in the bath while reading a good book - you could even get him a good book on music or music business along with the crystals.

Later on, in conjunction with the Road Opening proper, some John the Conqueror and Crucible of Courage can help bring it the qualities needed to see change through to its end.

Blessings and success in your work with your friend.
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Unread post by magicmurphy » Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:32 pm

Hi All -

If there's a better thread to post this in, please feel free to move it...it felt like this was the right spot...

I'll try to keep this as brief as I can, but it's complicated, and it's pretty clear it's hoodoo help that's needed here... I have a friend who has been awash in and denying her grief since the death of her wife 8 years ago. Her late wife had lived with a chronic illness, and 12 years prior to her wife's death, my friend had to put her into a nursing home for care. The last half of their marriage was daily visits to the nursing home until her death.

My friend has not cleaned her home -- both physically and spiritually -- since committing her wife to the home. That's 20 years of not cleaning her house. It's so filthy no one can enter without getting sick (I can't breathe in her house), and it is affecting her health on all levels too. She has been hoarding, depressed, and while we all know she needs professional help and have encouraged her to get it year after year, she always resists to say she's fine...

...Until two weeks ago, when she broke down in front of me over dinner and said she had no reason to live. I immediately hauled her in to a local spiritual healer and a reader. Helped for a bit, but the pattern is recurring. The sad thing is that her other friends are just throwing up their hands & giving up on her. I can't do that.

I'm thinking -- since we eat together a lot -- of slipping something hoodooed into her food or drink that would give her the courage/healing she needs to finally realize she needs to clean her home and embrace her life again. Everyone always says people have to want to help themselves.. well yeah... but sometimes they need a magical push. :)

I'd be grateful for recommendations for hoodooing her food/beverage to bless, heal, and help empower my friend toward cleaning up her life so she can be happy. If there are other suggestions besides food tricks that folks have, I'd be much obliged, too. (I do have a prayer in to the Crystal Silence League for her.)

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Unread post by Turnsteel » Sun Jun 09, 2013 4:43 am

Hi magicmurphy

Your friend needs to see an actual therapist or at the very least a councilor along side any magical work you might do. You can not magic away 20 years of grief, neglect and mental stress, nor can you hoodoo her into suddenly being able to get over it. Do your work, but if she doesn't see a psychiatric professional, well, you will have at the very least a much harder fight, if you can do it at all.
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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Jun 09, 2013 10:06 am

magicmurphy,

i agree with Turnsteel. There are serotonin-mediated brain-chemistry factors with respect to hoarding and disorderly living that are best addressed through psychiatric medical means in tandem with talk-therapy.

Hoodoo can be supportive and even transformational, but it is not a cure for a medical condition.
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Unread post by magicmurphy » Sun Jun 09, 2013 12:44 pm

Thanks, Turnsteel and Ms Cat, for your responses.

Oh, yes, I and all her friends are fully aware that she needs professional help; we have been working on her to pursue it for years, and she simply won't do it. I simply wondered if a hoodoo kick-start might have been one way to reach her where handing her grief resources and encouraging her to stay in therapy hasn't.

I do respect the perspective and experience of the experts here on the forum, though; if you agree that this issue is not really one hoodoo can or should address, I get it, and won't pursue it. But I will be online soon to order up a candle for MISC to burn for her.

I am grateful for the feedback. :)

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Jun 09, 2013 12:58 pm

magicmurphy,

As long as you are getting her medical help and are working on cleaning up her living situation, i am free to prescribe hoodoo work.

i would employ any of the following spiritual supplies: Van Van / Chinese Wash, Clarity, Tranquility, Healing, and Blessing.

For instance, since there will be a lot of physical cleanup to do, you will need cleaning supplies.

One 4-ounce bottle of Chinese Wash
One 4-ounce bottle of Peace Water
One 4-ounce Rootworker's Special Oil (Clarity, Tranquility, Healing, and Blessing)

Make up scrub water with the Chinese Wash, adding a few drops of the other two.

Use the Peace Water as a room spray.

Add the blended Rootworker's Special Oil to the person's bath products, lotions, and other personal toiletries, and also add it to any cleaning supplies that are used to wipe down wooden furniture.

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Unread post by magicmurphy » Sun Jun 09, 2013 5:01 pm

Much, much obliged, Ms. Cat.

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Unread post by Mezan » Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:09 am

Someone I care about was emotionally abused by someone he was involved with. He was really broken at the time, and thought that what was going on was ok, as is often the case with people who experience this. The person he was seeing was seeing someone else the whole time. She loved that other guy, but he did not love her. Since that guy did not love her, and my friend did, she would just see both of them and took advantage. She lied to my friend time and time again, and he stayed like an idiot because he was in love with her, but if he had loved himself more, he would have left. He knew about the situation with the other guy, but she denied a lot of it and he believed her, or wanted to, I guess.

Manipulation, threats, and all sorts of ugliness happened. She really had him by the balls and didn't care about him one bit, except for what she could get from him. She never gave him his place, and he never took it. Somehow, she made him believe that it was all ok. (Sometimes she would leave after they had had sex, after getting a text to go with the other guy) She had caught him at a vulnerable time, since my friend had just left his (loveless, passionless, staying-for-the-kids) marriage. This went on in some shape or form for like a year and a half. Long story short, my friend is too wounded to fully open his heart to anyone and of course hasn't healed since it was really bad. Pain from unrequited love is one thing, but from that plus moral and emotional abuse is far worse.

I realize my friend was messed up to begin with. He wouldn't have accepted this involvement otherwise. I guess he has low self-esteem.

Just to clarify, he is more than functional and has a very good career. He's a happy, driven, intelligent person. It's not like he's stuck being depressed about this. He hardly even has time to think about it (which is both good and bad). I just know that this really affects him inside. It must. I can't imagine going through what he went through.

What is the best way to heal from the remnants of this? I was thinking about Crucible of Courage, to help him face the situation for what it really was. Power products, for his self-esteem, and Healing. Am I on the right track? Are there any specific tricks or spells that could help with this? Thanks, in advance.
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Unread post by aura » Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:13 am

Hi Mezan,

You're on the right track in the product lines you're looking at. For a man, John the Conqueror is also quite excellent and for his situation generally, Clarity can be good. You can work with a dolly or get the products directly on him by fixing his laundry or smoking your house with the incenses when he comes over. Fix any items he's likely to touch with oils or powders and if he's a bather, you could make him a custom mix of bath crystals re-bottled in a pretty but glass jar that doesn't give any clue as to the contents.

If he's able and willing, the best however would be for him to do a full Cut and Clear spell. Probably on both his past relationship and his ex-marriage since it sounds like there's unfinished business from both sticking around.
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Unread post by Mezan » Mon Sep 30, 2013 5:12 am

Thank you, aura.
The dolly is something that I hadn't thought of. It may be a stronger angle to work from than others I had considered. I guess the more different types of work I do, the better. My lists for upcoming orders keep growing. I doubt he would be willing to do the full Cut and Clear spell, unfortunately. Either way, this gives me lots of ammo for the work. :D

(By the way, I had used a fake name to protect his identity, but thank you for removing it anyway. I had originally wanted to avoid using one, but since there was another male being talked about, I had wanted to avoid confusion)
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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Sep 30, 2013 9:27 am

Mezan, next time just use initials to avoid confusion.

Healing products would be a good choice. Call on the Archangel Zadkiel, the angel of emotional healing.
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Unread post by jpbollma » Thu Dec 05, 2013 9:37 pm

I apologize if I am starting a new thread if there is one about this subject already. I have been purchasing products for several months, however, I have only started posting within the past few weeks. My partner's father recently passed away very young (54) and unexpectedly. He is having a rather hard time with this, naturally. He is having a hard time feeling emotions at this point in time and has been wishing to dream of his father. Now, I am not even sure actual spirit contact is necessary , I feel he just needs comfort. Perhaps contact would make him feel better, but I don't know if I should intervene in such a matter. I have been purchasing supplies from the shop and with the limited means available, here is what I did.

I asked him to lay down and relax focusing on that which he wants to dream about. I lit a Lucky Mojo blue candle, anointed him with Peace Water and "Cast Away Evil" powder because he was feeling negativity towards other family members. After he fell asleep I took the leaf off of a plant from the funeral that he had saved. I anointed it and made the sign of the cross over him as he slept. I read the 23rd Psalm as he slept. While I read this, he continued to sleep deeply, however, jerked around a lot. The second I stopped he stopped. Did I do something wrong? What can I do to help him with the dream he is seeking? Thank you!

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Unread post by Mary Bee » Fri Dec 06, 2013 3:39 am

People twitch in their sleep; it's normal as part of the dreaming process. I'd do a reading to see if your work affected him in that way, but your work sounds solid and compassionate.

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Unread post by greeneyes2 » Sun Dec 08, 2013 11:10 am

I remember reading about doing a bath with Balm of Gilead and Marjoram for Family Tragedy ..
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Unread post by Jennifer B » Wed Dec 11, 2013 9:42 pm

Hi everyone! My mom is dying of cancer, and we are in the process of making arrangements for her burial. When she passes, we are going to keep her body here at our house until it is time for us to transport her body to a natural cemetery where she will be buried in a simple shroud. After she passes, we will need to wash and prepare her body. I would like to use some conjure products in the process, but would like some ideas regarding what to use to help keep the energy clear in our home during the wake and also to help her on her journey. After bathing her (maybe with Florida Water, Vinegar, Hyssop, and Salt? ... or maybe a 9 or 13 day herbal bath?) , I would like to anoint her body with oil and set a light in her room. I would also like to burn incense, both during the wake and during burial.

I am thinking about products such as 7-11 Holy Oil, Abramelin, Spirit Guide, Blessing... I really am not sure about this. When a close friend died who was cremated several years ago, we held the vigil in the funeral home where her family had taken her so we couldn't burn anything. At the crematorium, we anointed her body with Frankincense Oil, and placed Frankincense and Myrrh resin around her body before lighting the retort. That had a very nice energy to it, but I am wondering if perhaps some of the LM products might better fit our purpose here. I really appreciate any ideas that anyone might have to my rather unusual request. Thank you!

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Unread post by aura » Thu Dec 12, 2013 5:58 am

Hi Jennifer B,

Using spiritual products to prepare the body and keep the house cleansed during the process are excellent ideas.

To bathe the body, a Hyssop wash or 13-herb bath are both really nice choices. If you want to go with prepared bath crystals, equal parts of Tranquility, Spirit Guide, Guardian Angel and Van Van can be mixed and diluted to prepare a wash water:
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-tranquility.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-spirit-guide.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-guardian-angel.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-van-van.html

The anointing oils you've suggested are all appropriate. A combination of 7-11 oil and either Jesus the King or Holy Trinity oil would be really nice (or Moses or Abramelin oil in the case of the Jewish Faith):
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-holy-trinity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-jesus-the-king.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-abramelin.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-moses.html

For the incense, Frankincense and Myrrh are both very appropriate resins. You could also compliment those with 7-11 Holy incense and/or any of the incense lines for the anointing oils used.

Finally, sprinkling Peace Water around the house during the wake can help ensure a harmonious atmosphere amongst the living in order to better pay respects to the dead.

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Unread post by Jennifer B » Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:41 am

Thanks, Aura! I really like the idea of using Peace Water in the house.

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My friend lost her baby 6 months into her pregnancy. She almost lost her life also. I want to prepare a mojo hand to provide her with comfort and strength. I would like to place it inside a stuffed animal she can hug or a holy statue (Mother Mary or Guardian). I have experience in making mojo hands but I would love some ideas on what curios and herbs to include. Thank you.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Thu May 22, 2014 10:26 pm

Hello, DreamCatcher,
Try this page for healing and strength herbs: www.luckymojo.com/mojocatherbs.html
I don't know what Religion you are but I like to add religious amulets www.luckymojo.com/mojocatamulets.html
Along with amulets associated with healing.
Feed the bag with healing oil www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
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Unread post by Krystal18 » Thu Jul 03, 2014 9:14 pm

Hello all!

Recently I've felt really out of it. I have ordered many products from LM and had some readings/mojo hands from miss bri before who is absolutely wonderful! She is just so kind and understanding. Any who i had an ex hurt me badly that I really wanted him back and have allowed into my life but I've come to realize it just isn't worth it. I'm not looking for revenge or to hurt him I enjoy his company and friendship but he doesn't seem to value the same things about our "relationship" that I do.

I have ordered a cut and clear to remove my feelings/emotions. I also orders some 9 and 13 herb bath to rid myself of negativity and give me wisdom/strength. Lastly I ordered the healing, blessing, attraction, john the root conqueror, and crown of success oils and blessing incense along with the red mojo bag and Angelica root to help empower myself and move forward with my life.

My question is could I perform the white candle blessing spell and the Angelica root mojo bag on myself?

Also what charms would I put in the mojo bag to help me I was thinking a heart to attract sincere loyal love, saint Michael the archangel card, and I believe it's one more thing to add to the bag.

I just want to make sure I am going in the right direction with everything. This above all is about bettering myself. If he can't appreciate our relationship then the best thing I can do is move forward. Thank you for all your help in advance!

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Unread post by veggiekiller88 » Fri Jul 04, 2014 3:33 am

I just broke up with my boyfriend. Long story short, I just haven't been feeling it for a while now, even though he's crazy about me and a great guy. He's taking it pretty badly, and I was wondering if there is anything I can do to help ease his emotions pain. We live together, unfortunately, and moving out isn't really an option.

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Unread post by Shantilly Lace » Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:23 am

Can you help him with a cut and clear spell?

Maybe that will help him along.

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Jul 05, 2014 8:08 pm

Hello, Krystal18 ,

It's always so sad when the love gets lost. I'm sorry.

I think you have purchased all the appropriate items. And, yes, of course you can make the mojo and perform the spell yourself.

Just be sure that your mojo hand isn't asking for a bunch of different things.

Here is a page on amulets that you can browse and see what feels right to you
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatamulets.html

If you're doing this to enhance female power, you might want to look on this spell page and see what other ingredients are used for empowerment
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html

Here's a page on power:
http://www.luckymojo.com/power.html

And here's a page on how to make a mojo hand:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo.html

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Unread post by Miss Aida » Sat Jul 05, 2014 8:12 pm

Hello, Veggiekiller,
Although this is going to be tough for him because you're still living together, you could indeed try the cut and clear spell.
It may be a little weaker because he's not away from you. But, it could still work.
Here's the link to cut and clear: www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
You could also try to get him to take a walnut bath first: www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html
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