LMHR Hour Chat Log April 26, 2006 Love and Reconciliation Spells - Chat Log

[MissMichaele]

2006-4) April 26: Open Forum Call-In Show on the Topic of Love and Reconciliation Spells
with Eoghan Ballard, Queen Mabulla, Robin York, Dara Anslowar, Cat, Siva, Dr. Kioni.

BEATRICE, Canada: What do you do when client doesn't know own mind or is trapped in repeating pattern? What kind of clarification or uncrossing work?


CAT: we get at least one such call every day! Client often doesn't want to hear that their target is out of reach. Explain kindly: spellwork is easier if you don't have an opponent [perhaps a rival; perhaps the target's own resistance]. Tell client to light white candle, sit down and look into flame, ask yourself: "How long, Lord, should I do this work to get [name] back?" Trust the answer you get. And make sure client tells you the target's name; if they won't, client is being devious, has something to hide.

DARA: "Yes, people can embrace losing propositions w/ great commitment!" Sometimes you can't get through to the client at all. Clients will put pressure on you, but you must be honest about their chances. Cleansing baths really help; 3x/week for 3 weeks if situation has been going on for a long time. At least there will be more clarity after that.

EOGHAN: ask about relationship history: was there a good relationship to begin with? What is the nature of the difficulties that arose? Maybe you only need to get them to look at it with fresh eyes. Rare that clients will take such an open case to you. If there is a basis of attraction between the two, it's not a lost cause.

CAT: I was taught to ask, "Have you had your period since you broke up?" If the answer is NO, *you can often reunite them in a matter of days.* Ask, "Have you been apart longer than you've been together?" "Do you have children together? Have you ever been married?"

QUEEN MABULLA: Also ask, "Are you still in contact w/ each other?" If so, I'll assign work for the client to do at home. You might find out the client has a years-long crush she's never acted on. You probably have to let them try, just to satisfy their craving.

DARA: Love and revenge get mixed up in people's minds; they're desperate to punish the lover for straying.

QUEEN MABULLA: find out about client's other relationships: never had a good one? Work on client.

ROBIN YORK: I have a client who wants to bring a girl to him; I wanted to work on bringing his true love, who may be someone else. If client is wondering "should I be with that person?" I have her do a Cut & Clear; if the target is good for them or a soulmate, it *won't* work. "But once someone has dumped on you, your trust is gone," and there's nothing to work with.

CAT: See the song "96 Tears" by Question Mark and the Mysterions for classic "revenge under the guise of love reconiliation" story.

QUEEN MABULLA: My client is playing hard-to-get with her target -- the magic's working and she's WASTING it!

CAT: Yeah, clients sometimes fight with the target when he comes back.

DARA: Lots of unresolved emotion.

EOGHAN: There's an old joke about worker charging $5 for for love spell and $5,000 to end the affair. I also make sure client knows – and lists – what s/he wants in a lover. Discussion often shows that the target isn't that kind of person. Once that is cleared up, I often hear that client found a perfect lover -- someone else.

QUEEN MABULLA: Make 2 wax dolls w/ love herbs, move them together starting at new moon while reading Song of Solomon (entire book each day).

CAT: I use the Song of Solomon in mojo bags and quote portions of it on the backs of the love candles we sell.

QUEEN MABULLA: I've only done it once; don't have that much patience; but it was the best relationship I've ever had (lasted till he died). It cleanses you of a lot of your stuff.

DARA: Work to draw a new lover is not that hard. Start with cleansing and road opening. Reconciliation is more twisted.

QUEEN MABULLA: On Home Shopping Network, they sell these bamboo sticks made into vases which you spike with perfume and turn every day to scent the house. Fill one with love herbs and pray over it daily (or even more often) while turning it.

LUKIANOS, Baltimore: What about a history of attracting the wrong kind of people? Do you cleanse and uncross, or structure some kind of "filter" into the love spell?

CAT: Both, because there are a number of reasons why this happens; the client may be unclear on what kind of person they want or what kind is good for them; too influenced by melodramatic "bad boy" romance stories; or convinced they don't deserve anyone better, especially if they have been sexually abused. One man I met was depressed, suicidal, could not find the right *man*; I met him through a man who loved him, but whom he did not love. He was a 19-year-old hustler. His problem was "I don't really like gay sex." Felt that being abused by uncle as a kid meant he *must* be gay. Was sure that no woman would ever have him. He's married and has two kids now.

QUEEN MABULLA: Do a good reading! Presenting symptoms/requests are often not the real issue.

CAT: In the example just cited, the true situation came out before any baths, or even divination, was done. Back to setting up a "filter": Vital to start with cleansing. Tell client to ask for spirit guidance to do the work for their own highest good, during cleansing process. Cut and Clear is a remarkably effective filter for those who are hurting from a breakup. If not the full Cut and Clear, with two lists, at any rate, have them write a list of desired qualities.

DARA: Investigate patterns in client's life. Specify that the client wants the opposite of the kinds of wrong men she's been attracting: *not* married, etc.

QUEEN MABULLA: Clients sometimes ask me to break up functional marriages, which I won't do; instead I have them write "good list" and carry it in a mojo bag.

SINDY, Seattle: I'm about to make a mojo bag for a beautiful goddess-warrior woman who has actually blocked love for a long time -– but now she's ready. She's worked hard to unblock herself, but we don't think the process is done. What to do now?

DARA: Do that road-opening *at the crossroads.*

CAT: If it is possibly a generational curse, then definitely go to the crossroads.

QUEEN MABULLA: Work with client's friendly ancestors -- not just client, but worker too.

Amen from CAT ("appeal to ancestors, "That your descendant will have the same joy in family life that *you* had") and DARA.

DR. KIONI: Another thing: Spirit tells me trauma is involved. Issues still unresolved.

ROBIN: I have similar problem myself; I had to ask departed grandmother-in-law who cursed my man.

CAT: Yes, and often it is the person you'd least expect who laid the curse: once it was the client's own mother who cursed daughter *and children* because client had married a man mother did not approve of. Traumas such as sexual abuse can feel like a curse.

QUEEN MABULLA (I thought this was ROBIN --cat): A couple of simple love spells:
1) Take photo of target, wrap w/ red thread, bury in earth.
2) Cut wax into hearts, write your name on one and his on the other, wrap both in velvet face-to-face and carry in pocket.

CAT: Wax love spells are ancient, all the way back to Roman times, and they still work. Make wax heart by molding as it warms up in your hands, say "Your heart is softening to me." Or melt wax figure dressed w/love herbs near fire; "You're dripping for me." This is used by men on women.

DARA: Love *lamps* -- put their name, picture, all kinds of good things in it; easier to add things as you go. You can put more stuff in a lamp than on a candle, which is liable to smother/drown if overloaded.

CAT: Remember that old song, "Turn on your love light, let it shine on me"! Love lights are powerful.

SINDY: I love honey jars. Let's talk about that.

CAT: Honey jars are great, not only for love, though that is classic use. Teach client to do it for herself, especially if client is poor. Sugar is as good as honey. Clients love this because they have the ingredients in the house!

QUEEN MABULLA: Frustration in love can turn people mean, so you might have client do a honey jar on *herself!* -- to keep herself sweet and pleasant to approach.

CAT: Yes, do them on yourself and your lover to keep a current relationship sweet. Siva and i started doing this together when we were having difficulties quarrelling.

SIVA: Yes, we have a honey jar with a pink Bolivian couple candle with our names on it, dressed with Stay With Me, Love Me, Peaceful Home, Fast Luck. Light it Friday mornings. We keep it on the ancestor altar (the "bird alatar"). We hold the candle together while lighting it. We inscribe our names and dress the candle with four oils: Love Me, Stay With Me, Peaceful Home, and Fast Luck

CAT: We changed the Peaceful Home to Shiva-Shakti Oil after a while, when we stopped quarrelling. We generally do this work naked if it isn't too cold. We've kept it going for 4-5 years, but let it sleep if times are peaceful. We exchanged love-mojo bags when we first met. We've tweaked them and remade them over the years. They are on the altar, to out of sight.

EOGHAN: While meditating on love, build heart-shaped cairn of stones at waterfall. Then after a few days return abd move the stones to a new location, where the person you are interested in will walk by. Rearrange them in the heart shape again. I did this years ago, on a farm, and the target walked by and actually ADDED a stone to the design. That turned into a very intense relationship.

QUEEN MABULLA: Coral earrings attract new men -- that's ancient Roman.

CAT: Munachi stones are Aymara and Quechua Indian charms from Peru and Bolivia. They come in X-rated (better) and G-rated. Put your and his hairs through the little hole between their necks; fix hairs in place with wax. Bury them in earth or under the bed.

QUEEN MABULLA: Braid white, pink & red ribbon and wear around waist, fasten with something heart-shaped. While braiding, talk about your ideal relationship. Should meet someone new in 28 days.

CAT: Waist-cord spells are a large family.

DARA: Yes, includes protection spells.

SIVA: Put charms and lucky things in a money belt and wear around your waist. I'm wearing one now.

CAT: You are? I never knew!

DARA: I really like baths for love: milk, honey, and cinnamon or honey and catnip.

CAT: Juniper berries and wine -- there are many good recipes. Now we are getting to the "explicit lyrics" portion of the show. A client asked me if she *had* to do one of Dr. Kioni's love spells naked. I answered, "Why on earth not?" I do all my love work naked.

DR. KIONI jokingly offers "Ph.D. in Freakology."

CAT: Well, sometimes when you tell a client to place a shiva lingam stone into her pussy, masturbate, put it on her altar and dress it daily with cunt juice – and she says "What? I couldn't do that if you paid me!" -- maybe she needs a *cool* sex spell rather than a hot one.

DR. KIONI: A client once told me a penis candle was too big to insert and asked "Is this anatomically correct? Was it cast from *you?*"

(Much laughter and teasing)

CAT: Our LM penis candle is from a life cast -- i don't know his name but i'd recognize him in the dark. Originally used to make a dildo, very popular model back in the seventies. We used to have a three-inch "Peewee" penis candle which we offered because it was low-priced -- but people complained, it was unimpressive to look at, didn't look like the kind of sex that people would want to call to them.

EOGHAN: Ahem! Add cloves to the cinnamon you use in love work, for a little more passion. DON'T add pepper.

CAT: Cloves are for friendship, too. There is a "friendship spell" that uses 9 cloves, probably British. [A clove is shaped like a nail; makes me think of nailing footprints to keep someone close. - MCM]

DARA: Clove and rose smell good together and the combination draws men.

CAT: We haven't mentioned lodestones yet! Do the 7-day lodestone love soekk on your alatar with magnetic sand and candles, and add magnetic Scotty dogs or lodestone grit as riders, then put those in mojo bag.

QUEEN MABULLA: For the women: read _Why Men Love Bitches_ by Sherry Argove. Good stuff about how not to be taken advantage of.

[RedWill0w]

In a message dated 4/26/2006 11:43:38 P.M. Central Standard Time,
redjasper@comcast.net writes:

> QUEEN MABULLA: Clients sometimes ask me to break up functional
> marriages, which I won't do; instead I have them write "good list" and
> carry it in a mojo bag.
>
> QUEEN MABULLA (I thought this was ROBIN --cat): A couple of simple love
> spells: Take photo of target, wrap w/ red thread, bury in earth. Cut wax into
> hearts, write your on one and his on the other, wrap both in velvet and carry in
> pocket. Cut wax into hearts, write your on one and his on the other, wrap both in
> velvet and carry in pocket.
>
> QUEEN MABULLA: Coral earrings attract new men –- that's ancient Roman.
>
> QUEEN MABULLA: For the women: read _Why Men Love Bitches_ by Sherry Argove.
> Good stuff about how not to be taken advantage of.

Just a note,

I'm pretty sure that it was Robin who made all four of the points above, not Queen Mabulla.
Dara

{Thanks for catching those, Dara. I caught the one, but missed the other three. I KNOW it was Robin who recommended _Why Men Love Bitches_ by Sherry Argove because she and i discussed the book again today by phone. Michaele, if you post these radio show rundowns again or keep them anywhere on file, could you please correct your notes and credit panelist ROBIN YORK on those four segments? Thanks. --cat)

[catherineyronwode]

Another spell-filled radio chat log courtesy of Miss Michaele! The audio files are long gone, but Michaele took notes! Thank you, thank you, Miss Michaele!