Prevent Lover Spouse Friend from Relocating, Moving, Travelling

battleship · Unread post by **battleship** » Wed Jun 10, 2009 5:54 pm

My boyfriend gets out of jail (driving with a suspended license) on July 13th. He can't stay with me... we've tried that. He was sleeping in my closet and obviously, my mom found out when he got arrested. She doesn't want him living here because someone in the past stole from her that she let stay with us. Welfare office and homeless shelters are a no go... unless you have a job other than labor ready. His other option is moving to NC, where his sister lives. Our relationship is so great and i don't want to lose him over something as stupid as this... so i was wondering what sort of things i can do that involve hoodoo to help him get back on his feet so that he doesn't have to move away...

TK

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:27 pm

Crown of Success, to well crown him with success lol.
Steady Work to get him a job.

And just as a small side note, do you really want to be with a man that stole from your mother?

battleship · Unread post by **battleship** » Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:34 pm

The man that i am trying to help did not steal from my mother... but someone else did... so now she wont let anybody else stay at our house.

And I was also curious... how often *don't* hoodoo tricks work? I used to practice wicca and all of the love spells i tried would never work the way i wanted... some not at all... the money ones seems to work fine tho, for some reason.

I was wondering about doing a honey jar spell to sweeten my mom to him (we'll call him Albert for confidentiality)... to perhaps change her mind about letting him stay here.

TK

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Jun 10, 2009 6:44 pm

battleship

Well I can't give you a number on how often a spell works, it depends on you,what your asking, and whether or not your meant to have it. That's one of the harder parts for people to get, we as a group have a scene of entitlement that's really rather unfounded,at least to me. The spells you did before may have failed for any number of reasons, and any hoodoo you do could fail for the same ones. All you can do is try, and get a divination lol. As for the honey jar it would probably be a good idea.

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:37 pm

Just throwing some mundane stuff out here, I used to work at the Welfare Dept, and we worked closely with some of the shelters. I've never heard of one refusing someone because they didn't have a job. They do, however, make them leave during the day and look for one. Maybe he doesn't want to go to the homeless shelter because they aren't exactly the Ritz-Carlton, but this isn't really the time for pride if the spell results don't manifest before then. If he hasn't been to the dept and actually applied, he needs to. They do have some, very short term, programs that may help.

battleship · Unread post by **battleship** » Thu Jun 11, 2009 8:31 pm

Chagrinedgirl, I sent you a PM on what you addressed.

If I do a honey jar spell to sweeten my mom to him... can i do another to sweeten the judge to him as well (which was what i originally intended)... at the same time? Or will it weaken the effect?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jun 11, 2009 11:07 pm

you can do two different honey jars one for him and mom one for him and the judge.. there are a tun of court spells on the LM site too. you might want to check em out. good luck

battleship · Unread post by **battleship** » Sat Jun 13, 2009 6:47 pm

Ok.. I know what to put in the honey jar to "sweeten" the judge to him... but what about sweetening my mom to him? What are some herbs that are for compassion and unconditional love. I really don't want to put anything in that has to do with romantic love or passion.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 2:16 pm

I need spell to make him stay here. my bf in few months he gone get retire from the army, but now he want to get a job in Iraq to go overthere and i don't want him to go. He was there with the army and i suffered a lot and now he want to go to work civilian. please give me a good spell to do it. he said if he find a good job in USA he stay. Help please

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 2:31 pm

Well, my first thought was to do a freezer jar to freeze him into place, and you can put some controlling herbs in there. I would actually do a road opener, work with St. Joseph, and do a work steady job spell kit, to help get him a good job so that he will stay in the USA.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 2:33 pm

You want to work with a combination of Steady Work conjure to help employ him here in the US and you want to follow it up with a Stay with Me conjure to keep him close to you.

You can use the kits from LM and word your petition so it speicifically targets finding jobs close by. Follow this up by backing up the work with vigil lights set by LM.

To get him to stay close to him, I'd take his underwear and make a dollie. Then work it over a period of days telling him that he doesn't want to go to Iraq that he wants to stay close to home, that he needs to go out and find a job here. Stuff the doll with a combination of love and controlling herbs to get him to listen to you and desire to stay. Keep that doll under your bed, or in your underwear drawer.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 2:58 pm

thank you guys, i can't believe it, i had a reading with Devi Spring, and she told me about this event. she is amaizing. i can't believe it, i put some deers tongue in my doll baby last night and today he spoke all his plans.i dont think is fair for me to still waiting for him, he went to iraq 3 tours and now he want to go again becuase he said if he work one year he get enought money to move to his country and i dont want to move to that country. so, i'll do whataver i have to do.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 3:09 pm

one more question about the steady job spell, he doesn't believe in hoodo, even he doesn't know that i practice hoodoo. what i do>

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 3:14 pm

He does not have to know you do hoodoo in order for you to give him the opportunity to find a job that will keep him here. That was recommended based on you stating that he said he will state here if he finds a good job in the US. I would recommend getting another reading on what you need to do to keep him here.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Mar 05, 2010 4:28 pm

Even if he doesn't believe in hoodoo you can work various different spells on him. Try tying him down and tying him to you to make sure he doesn't wander far.

As for the job finding spell, the kit was merely one solution. You can work with a large lodestone. Place a picture of him with your petition on the back under a Lodestone in a dish. Sprinkle job finding herbs all around the Lodestone. Then light a green candle anointed with Steady Work, or Attraction to attract the ideal job. Then spinkle some magnetic sand on the Lodestone and pray that as you feed the lodestone so it will feed you and help bring a job that meets your needs. Make sure you are following up your magical work with other actions like posting up his resume. If isn't looking for a job it isn't going to land his lap.

The Lodesone spell is only one method of going about this. There are many more, you can look into the Attraction Kit to bring the job that you desire.

Of course, the doll baby conjure that I mentioned will help work to change his mind about finding a job here..

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 5:06 pm

what kind of spell i can work to tying him to me to make sure he doesn't wander far.

Maxine2 · Unread post by **Maxine2** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 6:06 am

Ok I read this thread and being that I am new to hoodoo spellwork it only answered half my question I wanted to pose on here.

Long story short, like this poster on this thread I want to keep my mom, dad and I from going on a trip to Montreal or anywhere else in Canada. I just don’t want my dad especially to go to Canada his evil abusive family lives up there and my dad chases after family members who don’t like him and invites himself over to their homes (without invitation). It’s a very needy trait my dad has he gravitates to people who can stand him or are arrogant and nasty like him.

I read in this thread link influence-&-change-someoneʼs-mind-spell--t5367.html
above that I can at least change the person’s mind by using essence of bend over powder or oil as one trick I can apply to my situation. But the problem is my dad is stubborn and even if he has no money to go on vacation anywhere he tends to find money from other places. One of his business includes selling cars, he is looking to sell one of our cars to make some vacation spending money happen for him so he can go on this trip.

Is there anyway I can stop that car from being sold hence my dad doesn’t make money and he can’t find other means to find money to go on this trip???

Is there anyway way I can STOP or disrupt this trip from EVER happening in the future (without any harm to anyone; well I would like my wicked dad to endure a little downturn & humility (which he doesn’t have)?

Would jinxing powders or oils work in a situation like this?
Are there any other ingredients I can purchase to make this trip a distant memory and not happen at all?

I’m on a tight budget here but I’m willing to try anything but it has to be done discreetly or my family will hurt me if they saw me trying magickal type practices like this (actually they could disown me but chance I am willing to take for this trip to Canada NOT to happen.)

Thank you to all who answer my question.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 1:15 pm

Commanding/essence of bend over products are what you are looking for. LM sells a essence of bendover kit which for a person on a budget is a great purchase comes with everything you need. Also there is a spell discussed on this forum a lot using a skull candle to influence a person, that would be a good additive to convice dad not to take the trip. Also if he is influenced by their evil as you said, then praying to St. Michael to keep him away from them. personally I would not put crossing powder on the car but thats just me. though if your dad is wicked and you want to punish him then go for it.. perhaps hotfooting the family that you want to keep away or using a vinagar jar to make them fight before the trip would be suitable. as with the powders and stuff that come with the kit you can put it in dads shoes after commanding what you want done, dust items he will touch put some in his hat after telling it what to do IE dont go on the trip.

Maxine2 · Unread post by **Maxine2** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:12 pm

j82 wrote:Commanding/essence of bend over products are what you are looking for. LM sells a essence of bendover kit which for a person on a budget is a great purchase comes with everything you need. Also there is a spell discussed on this forum a lot using a skull candle to influence a person, that would be a good additive to convice dad not to take the trip. Also if he is influenced by their evil as you said, then praying to St. Michael to keep him away from them. personally I would not put crossing powder on the car but thats just me. though if your dad is wicked and you want to punish him then go for it.. perhaps hotfooting the family that you want to keep away or using a vinagar jar to make them fight before the trip would be suitable. as with the powders and stuff that come with the kit you can put it in dads shoes after commanding what you want done, dust items he will touch put some in his hat after telling it what to do IE dont go on the trip.

j82 I already understand that I need commanding & bendover powders and oils...I would like to get the bendnover kit but I can't store these kits or tools around the home I live at. I'm going to stick to ordering powders and oils to anoint his personal effects with and hope he will chnage his tune to NO I am not going to canada. I have this part of the equation down, its just my dad is very stubborn obstinate man who has to have his own way and I want to shut down every financial avenue for him not to be able to go on this trip to canada and not to drag me & my mom along with him.

And I didn't mention anything about crossing powders to apply to the car he is thinking about selling in my post before (that's a bit to harsh for my taste.) I said would sprinkling some jinxing powder to keep the car from selling or keep him from getting any financial funds to even travel to montreal canada be OK? Other than bend over over looking for a trick, powder, or ingredient to stop this trip form ever happening now or in the future???

But I really do appreciate your reply back to me j82. Thank you will definitely consider everything you gave me here.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 7:30 pm

Well the kit is not a big item for starters most come with a candle, insence, oils, powders and a mojo which you keep hidden and wear ( most of LM spell kits there are variations). many people who practice hoodoo keep it secret infact I think its prefered, no one wants the world knowing they are doing work on another. If you cant do the work for one reason or another, and considering you mentioned a small budget, you might want to contact a worker and see if they can do some essence of bendover work for you..some workers do offer a good resonable price for the service. Also LM sets candles I would order the essence of bendover and commanding candle to be burned while you do the work and up to the time of the decision and trip. Use the powders on dad as discussed. I must have confused your question with crossing powder with the car. Well really if you want to mess up his finances then yes you are crossing him, but keep in mind you also live at home so how will this effect you. essence of bendover will make him bend to your will, its a humbeling powder.. commanding forces them to your will, crossing makes harsh conditions to prevent their will. there are more then one way to your cause it really depends on how you want to handle it. the two herbs that stick out that you want in my mind are licorice and calamus. the powders you mentioned i would put a small portion in the 4 corners of the room and one in the center (under a rug) pray to influence dad when laying them.. then have a conversation about not doing the trip. other work honestly I think will involve use of candles and other items you are not willing to work.. yes you can make a doll baby of dad and when he sleeps tell him what to do, as for the car if not jinx work then tackel it from the perspective of keeping the car with the family and keeping dads money at home..good luck

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Apr 04, 2010 7:38 pm

Maxine wrote:And I didn't mention anything about crossing powders to apply to the car he is thinking about selling in my post before (that's a bit to harsh for my taste.) I said would sprinkling some jinxing powder to keep the car from selling or keep him from getting any financial funds to even travel to montreal canada be OK? Other than bend over over looking for a trick, powder, or ingredient to stop this trip form ever happening now or in the future???

I get the feeling that you believe that Jinxing is somehow different then crossing people up,yes? It isn't really. Crossing, as a term, is very much African American, while the term jinx is a bit more commonly heard outside of black community. And tho the formulas are different they are both meant to hurt, damage and curse someone. So just because your think Jinxing Sachet Powder is somehow weaker then Crossing dosent make it true.Its not as bad as Goofer Dust, but its not any nicer then Crossing. Just FYI.

Maxine2 · Unread post by **Maxine2** » Mon Apr 05, 2010 3:48 am

j82 no worries I see wwhat direction you are headed with the LM products you mentioned & I will definitely look into those as well. Definitely gonna have to check out the dressed essence of bend over type candles.

As for the kits, its not that I don't want to get those but everything in a kit has to be used in conjunction for it to work together (i.e I can't burn the incense in or outside of the house again family lives in this house and the minute they feel or smell anything difference I'm as good as in trouble with, them deep trouble.) Candles I can burn for a few hours and even those I would have to snuff out really fast when anyone else in the family drops by the house, privacy to work tricks and stuff is gonna have to take some creative timing on my part that's all.

HailDiscordia, I was told from a friend who studies a boaatload of other types of magicks that crossing powder is a bit more severe than jinxing powder (definitely NOT discounting that jinxing isn't going to bring its own type of discordant type of energy either). But I am looking for a one stop shop type of ingredient I can purchase from LM along with j82's suggesstions that will stop this trip or this outcome of the trip form happening in the first place at all or even in the future should he get the urge to visit his know it all, arrogant pushy family in Canada (and always drags me with him otherwise he tends to throttle e around a bit & scream his head off at me till he gets his way

see that part I didn't want to reveal but just wante dto let you know the type of personality I am dealing with.

Plus I'm wondering if I buy those candles or powders do I need to replenish or re apply them to wherever he is to keep this trip or my dad's decision to stay at a NO we aren't going to Canada? I guess changing the outcome of situation is what I am looking to do....

Thank you so much to both of you for blessing me with utter patience towards my question (really new at this, just want to be smart and safe when I lay thse tricks) I really do appreciate.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Apr 05, 2010 8:46 am

The candles it comes with i beleive you burn in sections for 7 days which means you burn the candle for about 20 minutes. If that helps with planning purposes. Also being you want to influence him id burn it when he is sleeping, this would also help a little with secrecy because you would do it early in the morning or late at night. the 7 day candles if you have LM set them yes id have them relit ask them to send an email report. I would have those reset till the day/time of the trip, to back up your work and will on dad. the powders yes you would reapply on items to keep influencing dad.

BrownButter · Unread post by **BrownButter** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 11:54 am

For many reasons I cannot state here, I do not want him to go to Iraq, and for some obvious reasons too. He doesnt want to go either and is almost near retirement. HE does not want to leave dishonorably. The best bet is for the doctor to deem him unfit or unhealthy to be deployed. He has sleep apnea and panic attack condition, however, there is no guarantee. He told me a number of things can happen that change his circumstance because the deployment is NEXT year. Anything can happen and he may not go.

What can I do to ensure that something does HAPPEN and he gets a call that things have changed and he does not have to go or that the doctor deems him sick?? Besides me throwing him down the steps and breaking his legs to stop him from going, I'd like to do this more spiritually

Thank you!

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:15 pm

There isn't anything that CAN be done spiritually or otherwise to stop it w/o messing up his career. I looked at trying everything to stop my ex from going a couple years ago and especially now it'll be even worse. They're pulling out of Iraq starting this month so it might not be as bad. I feel your pain, it's awful but there really isn't anything that won't screw him up in the long run.

BrownButter · Unread post by **BrownButter** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 4:59 pm

Theres gotta be something. I hear of miracles all the time...I think I need one. It's a YEAR deployment.

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 6:46 pm

1 year is short for a deployment. Is this his first time going? The only way for this to work is for him to get discharged. If he gets sick/injured they'll send him over the moment he's better, and to get a medical discharge well...I don't think you'd want that because that requires something like diabetes or cancer or something potentially terminal. You CAN stop him from going, but it'll cause serious long term problems. You need to weigh your options; he can be gone for a long hard year but protected with magic so he'll come home (no matter what he'll be different and you'll have to work on your marriage when you get home, again hoodoo will help there) or you can stop it and he gets discharged either with or with out honor which, if he's about to retire, is not a great thing because you'll lose every single benefit, or he'll get a medical discharge which will have him keep the medical benefits (I'm not sure about other family members) but would be sick/hurt for life or worse. Trust me, I know your fear, it's not an easy thing to deal with, but it's over faster than you'd think. I really think your best option is protection for him, courage for you both and something to keep your marriage strong while he's gone. I'm really sorry he got orders.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 7:01 pm

I am in a Military town. I understand where Ellis is coming from and somewhat agree, but I offer this:
Yes, there are measures you can take. Saint Jude is a "worker of miracles".

If your husband does go, Saint Michael, The Archangel-- Patron Saint of Police Officers and Soldiers. If it were me, I would be petitioning both. LM has Vigil lights-- they also have LM Saints Oils, which I am going to order along with another list I have been building up again.
I would even and also consider any and all Protection Products-- Search the Forum, Fiery Wall of Protection. I know he signed up to Serve, but there is nothing wrong with you wanting him protected and safe.
Take care, be Blessed, Thanks to your husband and Ellis19's Ex and EVERY MILITARY SOLDIER for Serving Our Country--special thanks to the Families and Friends that love them you and Ellis19, and prayers for the disabled Veterans and for all those who died Serving Our Country.

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 7:29 pm

It's just that usually preventing a soldier from deploying can turn bad in the long run, but if you manage to do this I will be super ecstatic for you and would beg for your secret lol. If you are going to try, I agree with triplethreat and work with St. Jude, I can see how working with him would keep things from going sour in an unexpected way. I do hope it goes well for you.

BrownButter · Unread post by **BrownButter** » Fri Aug 06, 2010 5:52 am

This is all good advice. St. Jude. I will learn more about him. I was thinking St Anthony isn't he a worker of miracles too?

He is a near retirement and has a med condition so the best we can hope for is that they pass him over it would be a blessing! Or since they are doing an Iraqi drawdown this year that they may tell him his orders have been changed (his orders are for next year). We don't mind going anywhere together, and they may even send him someplace else, as long as it is not this.

I will experiment with your suggestions (and any others that may come). The LM vigil lights and a novena is where I'll begin.

Something in me is telling this may work.

@Triplethreat thank you for your kind words and support of military families

BrownButter · Unread post by **BrownButter** » Fri Aug 06, 2010 5:54 am

Eilis19

yes protection is my next option but i have to start with prevention, and yes, a year does go by fast

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sun Sep 05, 2010 10:23 am

he want to buy property in his country. i want to make a freezer spell on that, because i don't want to move to that country.

what can i do? what spell is good for this situation? what kind of herbs, candles, everything i can use to stop this idea?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Sep 05, 2010 5:40 pm

theusurper, you are correct that a freezer spell is a good way to go on this situation. The thing is, it is complex work, and there is no one spell kit or one spell that will handle it all. Depending on your own level of expertise or experience, you may wish to hire a rootworker to help you.

Basically you want is to block (Barberry), shut up (Alum), and sour (Vinegar) everything this country and freeze them. Use pictures of places there and a map of the country -- not the person you love. You will also need to freeze his money (use money he gave you) and even destroy (Destruction) the country itself in a symbolic way. Try not to cause an earthquake there, but, seriously, work some Destruction on the country so that it loses its appeal to him.

See http://luckymojo.com/freezer.html

Then, work on his mind OUTSIDE the freezer, using a doll on him (not in the freezer). Confuse his thoughts (Confusion), reverse his thinking (Reversing) , take control of the situation (Controlling) , and make him do what you want (Essence of Bend-Over).

Get him to love the country you are now with dirt from around the home, Money House Blessing, House Blessing, and Stay at Home. Bury the doll in back of the house, and nail it down in both hands and both feet so he cannot leave.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Mon Sep 06, 2010 3:50 am

Thank you, Miss Cat, can you believe me that last night i was thinking about all that things you are telling me now. I was looking in my mind what i can do the only thing i didn't know what kind of herbs. thank you, thank you. one more thing the money blessing ,house blessing and stay at home are oils or sachet.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 10:34 am

Hiring a professional may be the way to go with this one as Miss cat indicated. There is a good deal of work that might need to be done.

One way you can freeze him from going to the other country is to put in in a jar, line the jar with the map of the country you want him to stay in, put in your herbs and liquids and freeze that along with your petition that he remain in the country shown on the map, unable to move away, or go elsewhere.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 11:31 am

can you recommend the root worker to do this work.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 2:23 pm

theusurper wrote:can you recommend the root worker to do this work.

No.

This forum is to help people chose and use LuckyMojo products, not to help people chose a rootworker. You can ask people in private messages if you want. I suggest you read each workers page at the AIRR and pick the one that seems best to you.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Tue Sep 07, 2010 3:15 pm

theusurper,

go to www.readersandrootworkers.org and pick someone to contact to see if they will work with you.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Wed Sep 15, 2010 9:39 am

What do I do to try influence someone from moving? They plan on doing it in January, so I have a bit of time. I was able to swipe some used underwear and I was thinking about using a dollie... My ex and I just recently started talking again and I want to be able to do what I can to make sure he sticks around to help the reconciliation process move forward.

What would be some good products/methods to use?

Thanks in advance!

mojojake · Unread post by **mojojake** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 12:54 am

I once took someone's socks and buried them outside my door and each morning I went and watered them like a plant and prayed the Lord's prayer.

You could do that, with maybe some stay with me oil or powders maybe?

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 1:38 am

I once had a rootworker suggest that trick to me. The socks must be used/dirty (not laundry fresh) and you need to tie them in a knot. They should be buried in your yard. If there's no yard, in a potted plant.

good luck

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 10:28 am

Damn it. I thought about stealing his socks, but I only got his underwear. Things got weird again last night so I feel like we wont be hanging out again at least for a few weeks so I just will have to do with what I have. Bleh.

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 10:54 am

i think I've read where you can bury the underwear also. although i would probably take a few strings from it to have other personal concerns to work with.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 11:47 am

oh awesome. thanks!

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 11:47 am

oh awesome. thanks!

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 9:57 am

Especially for Miss Cat. Ok he invited me to go to his country this month and i going for 5 days, my question is Miss Cat, do you think is good idea bring some soil from his country to do my spell? At first i told him that i don't want to go but them i thought that is good idea just with that purpose. What you think? I have a reading schedule with you for this month.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Oct 02, 2010 2:18 pm

Personally, I would see that it would be better for you to get something from him. I dont see the connection of getting some dirt from his country. I mean you could use it in spell work some kind of way, and it would be even BETTER if you could get dirt from his shoe, or under his shoe, or a foot track. I would make sure you get some personal concerns.

birdsong · Unread post by **birdsong** » Sat Nov 27, 2010 9:29 pm

Hi there everyone ~ this is my first post!
So I'd like some advice on how to put a stop or postpone someone's travel plans. The thing is - he has already bought the airplane tickets but he's not due to travel for another 2 months so I was hoping that would give me enough time to work some influence on the situation. Basically it's a multi-step love spell and this is only a portion of it.

If you need me to go more into the details, just let me know. I was wondering if a freezer spell would be appropriate or if there are other methods I should employ?

Thanks in advance.
-B

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Dec 01, 2010 3:43 pm

You could do a freezer spell, a Stay with Me spell, a compelling, Essence of Bend Over, or Do as I say spell--there are many options. I would recommend that you get a reading from one of us at: www.readersandrootworkers.org to consult on the spell work and the best direction to take it in.
Blessings,
Bri

birdsong · Unread post by **birdsong** » Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:00 pm

Thank you, Ms. Bri. Unfortunately I cannot afford a reading at the moment but will look into the spells that you've suggested. Thanks!

Issotta · Unread post by **Issotta** » Thu Dec 09, 2010 9:59 am

I wonder if anyone can help with this?

My husband has already been to the middle east with the army national guard and has now decided that he wants to volunteer to go back for another deployment to "take care of the family" financially and also because he is feeling lost about what to do in life.

This is all very admirable but conditions exist that would make it very hard on the family, would seriously harm our marriage and would wreck him as a human being. It took him a year and a half to put himself back together after the last deployment as it is, and this one would be much more dangerous. He doesn't have to go, he just thinks that he should and that he "needs this" , etc.

I have a good job, we don't need the money and I know he is about to make a giant mistake that will hurt him and all of us, including our newborn daughter.

So...I have tried talking (and crying, yelling and carrying on.....), I have tried working with him and a counselor, I have tried everything mundane I could think of and now it's time to step it up.

I was leaning toward something like a Crossing spell, but I need him to feel good about staying home so maybe Crossing isn't the way to go.

What about a Compelling spell, so he feels compelled to stay home and therefore feels good about that decision?

I was thinking about maybe one of the more compelling love spells so he doesn't want to leave me but it's based on positive feelings. Not sure.

Any thoughts?
Thanks!
Jessica in Michigan

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Dec 09, 2010 10:02 am

Geez, i wouldn't choose either of those -- what about a Stay With Me spell or a Stay at Home spell? Those make more sense to me, especially if followed by, or backed up with, some Uncrossing and Clarity work for him.

Stay With Me: http://luckymojo.com/products-stay-with-me.html

Stay at Home: http://luckymojo.com/products-stay-at-home.html

Good luck!

Issotta · Unread post by **Issotta** » Thu Dec 09, 2010 10:14 am

This helps a lot! Don't know why Stay With Me didn't occur to me. I'm agitated enough that I thought I better ask for some expert advice. Thanks!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Dec 09, 2010 12:07 pm

Yeah, i'm all Ms. Sweetness N. Light -- make a honey jar for him and all family members, and get him all tangled up in the family. Family First. Stay with the Family. Love the Family. Be Here. Stay Here. We Love You. Stay Home. That kind of thing. Plus you have a terrible battle now for his soul, due to PTSD.

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 6:48 am

Hi all,

It's been a while since I last posted here, but I'm in desperate need of some guidance now.

My boyfriend will be receiving his final grades in January, and he will soon be deciding where he will be schooling for university. We've been together for close to 3 years, and I'm sure that this has been said very often, but what we have is very rare and precious. Our love has only grown stronger the longer that we've been together.

Although he tells me that he will try his hardest to do his degree here in Singapore, I would say that his mind is at least 70% made up that he will be going overseas for university, and this would mean barely being able to see each other (if only for a few days a year) for at least 4 years.. And I know that keeping our relationship together over such a long period of time without seeing each other in person would not be possible for us.

I know that this is selfish of me, but I really don't want to lose him, and everything that we have built up over these years.

Even if it means only tilting the scales in my favour by 1%, I want to convince him to WANT to stay here, not just for me, but for himself too- at the moment, he believes that universities here are inferior to those overseas, but in actual fact, I'm sure he would be able to excel here as well.

What would be the best course of action to take? A skull candle spell?
I already have a love honey jar, as well as a mojo hand for love, both of which I created a long time ago, and I still work them weekly.

I was thinking of dressing the skull candle with a combination of Stay With Me, Love Me, Compelling, Follow Me Boy and Stay At Home, and hollowing out the bottom to put in herbs, then carving out what I want him to think (e.g "I want to study in Singapore for university", "I don't want to go overseas to study and leave my girlfriend behind" etc.) on the skull itself. I'll place a petition and his personal concerns below the candle. I'll burn some loose tobacco as I work the candle nightly (by speaking to it as though it were him) for 9 days, 15 minutes for the first 8 days and burn it all the way down on the last day.

1. Would the addition of Do As I Say, Essence of Bend Over, I Dominate My Man be a bad idea, or would they more strongly enforce the idea?

2. What colour skull candle would work best in my situation? Red or white?

3. Do I re-dress the candle with herbs or the mixture of oils everytime before lighting it?

4. Is it correct that I'm focusing on "You love me, so I compel and control you to stay"? I intend to use this mixture of herbs:
- Periwinkle leaves
- Magnolia leaves
- Licorice
- Calamus root
- Catnip
- Damiana
- Rose petals (dried, from roses that he's given me)

And deer's tongue to place in the mouth of the skull.

Thanks in advance!

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 6:50 am

Hi Silverdisc,
I would suggest that you work with the stay at home products ans the stay with me products.
There is a stay with me spellkit that you can use, it comes with everything you need as well as instructions. You can combine it with the stay at home products.
http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stay-with-me.html

You do have excellent schools in Singapore and several international schools established in the country also. And there will always be a possibility to go as an exchange student abroad for a shorter time. So if he wants to I think he can find as good education within his own country.
Here are two links describing work with skull candles. You can use them to make him see that possibility.
skull-candles-to-influence-their-thoughts-t4907.html
red-skull-candle-spell-t9432.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:42 am

I agree with the posters suggestions above, and I would even use some essence of bend over as well if you are going the dominate, controlling route.

www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

I think that you have a great way of working the skull candle, but you can get the stay at home, and stay with me products which most likely have those herbs you mentioned as well. I would get the powders or oil to add them to the skull candle.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 12:53 pm

Stay at Home and Stay With Me combined with an influence product like Commanding, or Essence of Bend Over is a great way to go. Combine it on a skull candle and drive those thoughts home.

I'd also add a bit of souring to this work to help cover it from that angle. You might consider putting the university he wishes to go to into a sour jar so that is repelled by the idea of traveling there.

Noele · Unread post by **Noele** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:43 pm

I can't offer any magickal advice, but has he looked into doing a distance-learning program? There are tons of schools in the USA, the UK, Europe, and Australia that offer distance learning degrees, and most of these have no specific residence requirements. I myself did a distance degree undergraduate program at a well known state university here in the USA, which saved me a lot of time and money instead of going away to school.

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Mon Dec 27, 2010 6:09 am

Thanks for the advice, everyone!

Would a red skull candle be more appropriate since I'm working from a "don't leave because you love me" angle?

And would it be necessary to redress the candle with herbs and the oils every day when I burn it?

Noele, I don't think a distance-learning program is recognised here in Singapore? So I think that option would be difficult to carry out..