Spells for Divorce or Separation in Court Case or Mediation

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Mar 30, 2012 6:05 pm

1. I am just letting you know your options.

2. It is customary to light small lights when performing a spiritual cleansing. That is why white candles come with the Uncrossing spell kit. There is no need to set a light for any other reason i can think of here except possibly for Clarity and Money Drawing to get a nest egg in regard to leaving the relationship. The Black Couple candle says it's used for repelling evil -- namely an evil couple in your life, which i don't think you have. So you don't need that.

3. Chinese Wash is extremely useful. Never be without it. It is included in the Uncrossing spell kit.

4. Mixing Jinx Killer Oil with Crown of Success Oil to wear? Not the way i would do things. I would use Jinx Killer on anything i thought had had a jinx laid on or in it (like that blanket, which you no longer have). I might dress my shoes with it (using it in a way that is similar to Fear Not To Walk Over Evil Oil in that regard). Crown of Success is more about planning something and carrying it out.

5. The woman whom you believed crossed you, who is now dead, visited you in a dream. Well that is significant, i would say. I would sleep with some protection, like a glass of water, the 91st Psalm, etc. on the nightstand. Throw the water out in the morning.

Also, pay attention to what ConjureMan Ali said -- a person can run themselves into worse trouble by believing they are cursed when they are no longer under any kind of spiritual attack. You yourself said that the woman was more kindly to you in the years before she died. She may have changed her mind.

blue · Unread post by **blue** » Fri Mar 30, 2012 8:32 pm

Thank you CM Ali and Miss Cat for your responses and recomendations. I hope I did not off you, CM Ali. Alhough your reading was not what I had hoped to hear, in regard to my relationship, It did resonate with me and I feel comfortable with your suggestions and advice. This thing with this woman may not be true, but I cant shake the feeling that it might be..and I realize that I may have conjured her up and caused her to visit me. So, if for nothing else, I will do the uncrossing just so that I can put it to rest. And then move on to the work CM Ali suggested to me.

Thank you Miss Cat for your explanation of the candles and also for your advice with regards to her and the dream. As mentioned before, she has visited me on occasion prior to this, and I have even felt her energy around the house from time to time. It has never bothered me before, but I think maybe she needs to stay where she is.

I know that there is a strong chance that I am not cursed, and I really dont want to appear to be disrespecting any ones gift...but I knew this woman personally, knew what she was into, and what she was capable of. She was never into the "light" side of magick..always the dark...which I think contributed to her demise, And there are just too many coincidences (which I do not believe in). I just have to go with my gut on this one. Miss Cat mentioned that she may have changed her mind..and I was thinking along those same lines. But I think it was much like her "change of mind" while I was pregnant..meaning after she had already tried and figured she had failed.

Anyway, thank you again for all of your help and suggestions. They are much appreciated! I've ordered the products that I think I need..including that black candle which I will now not use. (any idea what I should/can do with it?) I will be sure to update my progress.

Many blessings to all of you

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:46 pm

You didn't offend me. I know my gifts but you should do what you feel is right and will put your mind at ease. Even if it only is to put your own ghosts to rest.

blue · Unread post by **blue** » Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:42 am

I'm so excited!! I finally received half my order!! I have only recieved all of the stuff that I probably DON'T need. The uncrossing oil, chinese and buffalo wash, and uncrossing incense. So my question is, do I need to wait untill the next waning moon to use those products, or can I wash down my house now?? I planned to wash it down and burn the incense. Also do I have to wait till dawn? Does that not matter since I am more than likely doing this just to clear my own mind.

Oh, I also got the black Bride and Groom candle, but I am not going to use it as discussed above. Any idea what I should do with it. There is no harm having in the house right?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:33 am

Yes you can wash your house down now. Timings are great and add energy to the work but if you have something urgent to do then you can do it whenever you like.

Please read this link as to how to perform a floor wash as it will answer your question about if you need to dispose of the water at dawn

http://www.luckymojo.com/baths.html#floorwashes

No there is no harm in having the black candle in the house. And please search the candles section as to how you can use this candle.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Apr 18, 2012 4:18 am

Keep that black candle around, you never know when it will come in handy and Stars gave you a great link for some ideas.
Blessings,
Bri

blue · Unread post by **blue** » Wed Apr 18, 2012 9:42 am

Thank you Miss Bri and Starsinthesky7.

I ended up washing the house down on Monday. My husband was out of the house with a house guest that was staying with us. I figured that was the time to do it since it would have been harder and nearly impossible to do with them both here at dawn. I also burned the candle and I fear I may have made a big NO NO.

I dressed the candle with the uncrossing oil and carved our names into it. I rubbed the oil down the candle and away from my body. My husband had just cut his hair that morning and there was still some of his hair on the floor. I hollowed out the bottom of the candle and put the little hairs in the bottom of it on the mans side, and then I pulled a strand of my own hair and did the same to the woman's side. ( I think I read that somewhere on here).

Anyway, I prayed over the candle, and lit the incense. I recited Psalm 37 and 51 and then went about cleaning the house. I used water, 3 capfulls of chinese wash, 3 cap fulls of buffalo ammonia, and dripped some uncrossing oil into it. I took the incense with me in each room. I left the candle burning in my bathroom, going back every few minutes to check on it. I started on the top floor at the back of my house. I washed down all the walls of each room and the floors. Most of my house is carpeted so I used a spray bottle and sprayed the carpet.

I did the entire house (except the garage...should I have done that?) and by the time I got to the front of the front of the house, I was pretty exhausted. I didnt wash the front step as I probably should have and couldn't figure out which direction was East, so I just threw the water into the front yard.

By the time I was done the woman's side of the candle was completely burned out, but the man's side was still lit in a puddle of wax. I didn't blow it out. I did notice that as it burned his side dripped a lot. The woman's side had one drip mark on her that may have come from the man side, may not have, but it was closes to his side.

I really didn't think there would be harm in using the candle since I had dressed it and made my intentions with it clear.

I read somewhere on here about Miss Cat's 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months. Well...that night we argued, and the next day we argued even harder. And it was about another couple!! Did I bring this on. Did I royally screw up??? HOW can I fix this??

As I stated earlier, I still fully intend to leave this man, but as my finances are not great right now, I am sort of stuck here by default right now.

I may have been wrong about the crossing I believed was done to us, but like I said earlier, I don't believe in coincidences. I strongly believed that something was done. I also have taken into consideration Conjure Man Ali's statement about doubting the uncrossing. I kept that in mind as I did the "work".

I figured if there was no change than I may have been wrong. But for us to argue immediately after for 2 days and for it to involve another couple!!

I fear I may have created this. Did I?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Apr 18, 2012 11:47 am

Using I Dominate my man products - http://www.luckymojo.com/products-i-dom ... y-man.html in conjunction with a Honey Jar might help the situation. A simple but interesting spell is to "put his head in the freezer but warming his heart". A simple strand of hair from the head is used for the freezer work and a hair from his chest is taped behind the stove (make sure it wil not get burned only warm whenever you cook). If he has a hairless then steal a button from one of his used shirt that sit close to his heart.
Good luck!

Rosaleen · Unread post by **Rosaleen** » Mon Apr 23, 2012 8:07 pm

Hi there,
My husband and i are separating (his choice, not mine). This has been a painful proccess, especially since he's not planning to leave the house until July. Having him around makes it more difficult for me to move on from hearbreak and pain. Furthermore, he has hoards of 'stuff' that he plans to keep here, even after he leaves. We have two young children that I will have primary custody of. I would like to 'hotfoot' him in order to expediate the proccess, but since he is still a co-parent (and also close to our children), I need to handle this somewhat delicately. Can you recommend a course of action that will help me expunge the home of his influence (and person) without negating his relationship to the children?
Many Thanks,
Rosaleen

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Apr 23, 2012 8:11 pm

You can use Separation products, which are less harsh than Hotfoot. You should consult an attorney. Your husband sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Make it clear to him that you are not a storage facility. If he goes, so do his things.

You can also do a Cut and Clear to get rid of your emotional ties to him, so he won't upset you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:34 am

I would work some influence or if you want to go more forceful controlling, commanding, or essence of bend over can be used to make him get out. I would use one of those products to force him to take his stuff as well.

www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
www.luckymojo.com/controlling.html
www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

Rosaleen · Unread post by **Rosaleen** » Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:01 pm

Oh, excellent advice, thank you both.
(And excellent assesment of the situation too Mama Miki!)

Thank you for the links, I shall be following up on this!
Is it best to work the Cut and Clear prior to the Seperation? I think following up on these two things with the more controlling works might be best in order to maintain some longer-term control over the situation!

And definately 'yes' to seeking some legal advice (though that certainly doesn't come cheap!)

Thanks again!

Unread post by **blip** » Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:06 pm

A friend of mine plans on leaving her husband in a few months and I wanted to help her make everything go smoothly. The relationship is over but there are kids involved. She may also get resistance from his family as well. I was thinking about separation but maybe cut and clear so both parties can move on.

Also there is another situation where a couple split and the man has seemed to move on but the nastiness from his end hasn't stopped. He's determined to blame her for everything and tries to dig up dirt on her any way he can. I would like to dissolve any negative feelings he has towards her so they can have a peaceful relationship for the kids.

Any advice is welcome.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:42 pm

You can use Separation for both cases. For the first, Cut and Clear so she can cut emotional ties to him. For the second, Stop Gossip so he will stop spreading lies.

Unread post by **blip** » Tue Dec 25, 2012 7:14 am

Thank you very much.

I have a question about timing for the first one. She's waiting on money to be able to move so I don't want to do it too early. Should I wait until she's all set or do it right before she leaves.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 2:11 pm

Do some prosperity work for your friend to bring money to her quicker. Also, blessing work for her kids so they thrive wherever they are. If her inlaws are going to make trouble, try some Influence work on them.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Paty9 · Unread post by **Paty9** » Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:43 pm

I spoke with Miss Cat before on Friday. She advised me to get a new lawyer. I have two potential candidates and would like to know who the best option is.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:45 pm

--Paty9,

This sounds like something you should take up with a reader, if that's the type of guidance you're looking for. We do not offer readings, on the forum.

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:30 am

Good morning,

I am seeking advice on candle work pertaining to my divorce situation. I have hired an attorney to process a flat rate, uncontested divorce for me.

My attorney is planning to present him with all of the paperwork in the next day or so. Over the past couple of days he has gone back and forth between saying that he will sign anything that I want him to sign, and that he is not signing anything because he is not in a hurry to get a divorce.

I need him to sign the paperwork right away and return it to my attorney immediately. I also need him to agree with everything in the settlement agreement (Which primarily pertains only to our children, their support, visitation, etc. All of which is very fair to his position. So really logically speaking there is nothing for him to contest.) Once all of the paperwork has been filed with the court our divorce will be official in 30 days. Additionally child support will not start until the divorce is finalized.

Currently I am not in the position to light candles at the place that I am staying. So I am going to have candles lit for me at the church. This is what I've come out with this far:

For him: Command/EBOver/domination

For myself: Master key/money drawing/steady work

Any suggestions regarding this would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much!

~Nique

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 2:59 pm

I do not know what the laws are in your state, but you may be able to file, then get a decree if he doesn't file an answer. This may take longer, but it may be easier than waiting for him to co-sign your paperwork. Check with your attorney. If you can go this route, use a black skull candle dressed with Confusion oil to make him unable to file an answer.

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:37 pm

Mama Micki, thank you so much for responding! I like your idea of the black skull candle. Yes I can file and then get a decree if he doesn't answer. However it would be more costly to do so.

If he does participate in the uncontested, flat rate divorce, then that is the route that we will go. I am really hoping that he will sign off on the uncontested route due to my restrictions in finances.

Could I use the black skull candle to influence him to sign off on the paperwork without contesting? Also since we have relocated from the Midwest to the South, we are now staying with my mother in her one bedroom apartment, and I am unable to do any elaborate and time consuming candle work (I.e. anything that has tobl burn longer than 15-20 mins max). Is the skull candle something that I can do in short segments on a daily basis?

Thanks so much for your help!

~Nique

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Mar 14, 2013 9:52 pm

If you are using the skull candle to influence him, white might be more appropriate than black. You may burn it in segments if it works better for you.

Paty9 · Unread post by **Paty9** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 7:09 am

This post was directed for the LM Radio Show. Maybe I understood wrong. Where should I put my question to be on the radio show.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 7:50 am

For the March 17 show:

radio-show-pre-call-id-march-17th,-2013-t24550.html

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Mar 15, 2013 11:13 am

simplydevine, you can also have candles burned on other folks' altars. It's a fairly inexpensive way to have a professional work for you.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Mon Mar 18, 2013 12:57 am

Ladies, thank you very much for your advice. As it turns out i am going to have to contact a root worker from LM's sister site, as it appears that i only have privacy on the weekends for 1hr max. Thank you for that suggestion.

~Nique

katcantu · Unread post by **katcantu** » Tue Apr 30, 2013 8:17 am

My fiance signed the separation papers 3 years ago. He has no idea where she lives or how to get ahold of her.

His ex-wife's son just turned 5 and my husband has not seen either of them since shortly after the boy was born (his mother brought over the papers). Her high school love has been in the boy's life since birth. He is the known daddy and he is her fiance.

My husband and his ex agreed to divorce and that he would sign his paternal rights over to her fiance once the two of them got married, but she has been dragging her feet out of laziness it seems. My fiance tried to get ahold of her and her lawyer, but both ignored his calls and he has no idea what is going on.

What kind of work can I do to get this ball rolling and finished? I want her compelled to finish the divorce and petition for the termination so everyone can get out this limbo!

Her laziness is affecting both sides now and without her followthrough nothing can be done now.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Apr 30, 2013 8:30 am

Please clarify your situation. Separation papers? Did you mean her husband? Who is getting a divorce and what relation is that person to you?

Consult with an attorney on this, but usually one person can file and if the other person does not respond the petitioner can get a decree by default after a period of time. Also, if a person's address is unknown, there is a process called "Summons by Publication," where the summons is published in a newspaper for a certain number of days or weeks.

katcantu · Unread post by **katcantu** » Tue Apr 30, 2013 12:43 pm

This is my fiance and his ex. She filed the separation papers he signed, but then nothing else went forward and both she and her attorney started ignoring his calls. It has been 3 years, she also has a son that he is on the birth certificate for that they agreed to terminate his rights and have her soon to be husband adopt legally. I am looking for some way to compel her to get off her butt and finish this because he can't do anything himself now that she has already started it all.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu May 02, 2013 8:43 am

I recommend your fiance consult with an attorney and possibly file for divorce himself. Separation and divorce are two different things, and three years is too long to wait. As I stated previously, most states allow a default order if the other party does not respond.

To get the ex to do her part: Compelling, Court Case, Essence of Bendover.

thatgirl · Unread post by **thatgirl** » Fri May 03, 2013 8:29 am

Yep, as Mama Micki stated a default order for the divorce can be obtained if the other party does not respond. If he doesn't want to hire a lawyer, many states have all the paper work online these days. If he tries to serve her the papers and she doesn't respond then, he should be able to post notice to publication/newspaper. Then his divorce will be granted. It doesn't take very long either.

katcantu · Unread post by **katcantu** » Mon May 06, 2013 9:08 pm

Thank you both. He's doing his part to move it forward and I'm going to do the compelling work to get her moving on her part. I intend to freeze her out after as a precaution, not because of her, but the people she associates with who has caused many problems.

katcantu · Unread post by **katcantu** » Fri May 31, 2013 11:56 am

In terms of a default divorce. what about termination of parental rights? that can't be done as well,can it? he has technically abandoned the child by texas law.

katcantu · Unread post by **katcantu** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 12:10 pm

Just wanted to add, I did the spell a couple weeks back. Well, out of the blue today his ex contacted him through Facebook and they are now setting everything up to be finished. She is still on board to have his rights signed to her fiance once they are married in October, and she is keeping the child support stuff out of court until then so he doesn't have money owed in writing that will carry past the adoption.

Daisylee15 · Unread post by **Daisylee15** » Sat Oct 12, 2013 2:37 pm

So, I'm new here, but have been lurking some. I'll try to keep this brief. My soon to be ex and I have been separated for over two years. The split was amicable (basically after over ten years of marriage he came out as being transgendered, but that's a whole other ball of wax). Long story short, I have held off on the divorce at his request until he is out of the military. Since this time, he ha gone against every financial agreement we have made and has not been paying the debts he agreed to pay one of which has resulted in a lawsuit against me. He is also planning to file bankruptcy after the divorce which will leave me with all of the debt regardless of what the divorce decree sets. So now instead of a simple, no lawyer divorce, I have no choice but to hire legal help. And I make less than half what he makes a month. Basically I need advice on how to get him to do what was agreed upon, be able to find and afford a good lawyer, not get stuck with all of our mutual debt and do it all with as few hard feelings as possible so that we can both just move on. Thanks in advance for any and all advice.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sat Oct 12, 2013 6:16 pm

There will be a lot of hard feelings for a long time. At least until he's happy because to him that's all that matters, his happiness.
He doesn't care if you are happy or not. That is not on his radar.
Stop being Miss Nicey Nice. Sorry to say that but you need to get over the amicable divorce thing. It is not happening with him.
Do some dominating work on this guy. He goes for this type of energy, so do it. Be the Dominator.
Work with St. Martha, she's brilliant at dominating work.
You have to stop being nice, I keep getting this about you. You have to think of this as a war, you are at war with this guy.
He is not on your side, he wants whatever he can get.
You also need a dominating attorney. Not a sweet guy, an alpha male.
For the products go to: http://luckymojo.com/bendover.html
I'd also like to see you protected: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywallofprotection.html

Look over the oils: httP://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

This guy is not playing around, he means business. he is not your friend.
Also look at crucible of courage products.

I would also invest in a reading if I were you: www.readersandrootworkers.org
Get a reading, it will save you money in the long run.
I am so sorry about this, I know how betrayed you must feel. My heart is with you.
You will be alright. Pray. God is with you. Pray to St. Michael, he is a powerhouse.
Blessings to you!

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sat Oct 12, 2013 6:22 pm

http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html

Get Your Prayers Going Here ...Tonight

Daisylee15 · Unread post by **Daisylee15** » Sat Oct 12, 2013 6:24 pm

Wow Susan, thanks so much. You were really spot on in a lot of areas. I will take a look at the links, and thanks again!!

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Sun Oct 13, 2013 8:25 am

You're welcome hun!

And I agree with greeneyes2, get your prayers going with the crystal silence league.
They are amazing people!

If you have any more questions feel free to ask again.

Keep us posted!

I'm going to say a prayer for you too.

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Oct 13, 2013 4:31 pm

Susan Barnes wrote:There will be a lot of hard feelings for a long time. At least until he's happy because to him that's all that matters, his happiness.
He doesn't care if you are happy or not. That is not on his radar.
Stop being Miss Nicey Nice. Sorry to say that but you need to get over the amicable divorce thing. It is not happening with him.
Do some dominating work on this guy. He goes for this type of energy, so do it. Be the Dominator.
Work with St. Martha, she's brilliant at dominating work.
You have to stop being nice, I keep getting this about you. You have to think of this as a war, you are at war with this guy.
He is not on your side, he wants whatever he can get.
You also need a dominating attorney. Not a sweet guy, an alpha male.
For the products go to: http://luckymojo.com/bendover.html
I'd also like to see you protected: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywallofprotection.html

Look over the oils: httP://www.luckymojo.com/oils.html

This guy is not playing around, he means business. he is not your friend.
Also look at crucible of courage products.

I would also invest in a reading if I were you: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
Get a reading, it will save you money in the long run.
I am so sorry about this, I know how betrayed you must feel. My heart is with you.
You will be alright. Pray. God is with you. Pray to St. Michael, he is a powerhouse.
Blessings to you!

I could not have said it better my self!!!
Also Do Not Rule Out a Dominating FEMALE Attorney!! Some I have seen make grown men cry in court!!
She just might have an axe to grind in a situation like this.

Do not forget about Power Oils too with Bend Over perhaps..
Your Husband has created a pure Mess on You .. Reverse It !!

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Oct 13, 2013 4:48 pm

Daisylee15 wrote:So, I'm new here, but have been lurking some. I'll try to keep this brief. My soon to be ex and I have been separated for over two years. The split was amicable (basically after over ten years of marriage he came out as being transgendered, but that's a whole other ball of wax). Long story short, I have held off on the divorce at his request until he is out of the military. Since this time, he ha gone against every financial agreement we have made and has not been paying the debts he agreed to pay one of which has resulted in a lawsuit against me. He is also planning to file bankruptcy after the divorce which will leave me with all of the debt regardless of what the divorce decree sets. So now instead of a simple, no lawyer divorce, I have no choice but to hire legal help. And I make less than half what he makes a month. Basically I need advice on how to get him to do what was agreed upon, be able to find and afford a good lawyer, not get stuck with all of our mutual debt and do it all with as few hard feelings as possible so that we can both just move on. Thanks in advance for any and all advice.

If you really wanted to put a cog in his wheel...
Ever thought about filing Bankruptcy Chp13 1st? He would be left accountable for any and all personal and joint debts..and I feel there might be a few that has not been revealed to you yet..This would really screw up his master plan..for the next 5 yrs..hahaha
If he files and is cleared they can still come after you for any deficiencies regardless if you are divorced or not.. Please consult 2 Attorney's -Family Law specialist for your State along with a Bankruptcy Attorney to find out the legalities. You are entitled to know what rights you have.

In the mean Time ... Get All The MOJO going now.. St Martha..
So he is in the Military... Oh He must not want the embarrassment of certain facts coming out .. FILE... and get the TRO's in place asap..

Nathan · Unread post by **Nathan** » Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:42 pm

Paty9 wrote:I spoke with Miss Cat before on Friday. She advised me to get a new lawyer. I have two potential candidates and would like to know who the best option is.

You must choose the one who have more experience.I am using the services of a law firm in my state and they have experienced lawyer that help me in solving my legal problem quickly.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 24, 2013 6:46 pm

Hello, Patty9
You might want to consult with Hoodoo Psychis or AIRR for a quick reading on them!
http://readersandrootworkers.org www.hoodoopsychics.com
Hope this helps
Good luck to you and wishing you the very best

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 7:54 pm

Hello, Jevaud,
I personally wouldn't do that.
This is something that I would do to get him victorious in domination.
I would, instead, seriously consider the WONDERFUL advice that has been given to you by Mary Bee, Moon Breath, and jwmcclim
Just my thoughts.
Take care

Jevaud · Unread post by **Jevaud** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 10:01 pm

Thanx Miss Aida, yeah I just realized what I posted and I see how that would give him the dominion in the relationship (another dyslexic moment, lol). Instead it should be MY name on the purple candle, to gain more power and dominion in regard to this situation. I'm still planning on going with my original idea of the red figure candle mentioned above. I was looking for things to re-enforce my desire or back it up so to say.

Here is a different way of putting it, what would be some opinions on this idea: Using a purple candle to symbolize the power/ authority issue, put the person's name on it, then anoint it with Banishing Oil from top to bottom while stating verbally (or praying, whichever works for one better) that I hereby banish this person's authority over me in all aspects, including physical, emotional, and mental. Once again this is just me putting ideas together for a better understanding of how Hoodoo works, I present it here for review and greatly appreciate any opinions on this idea.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:24 pm

Hello, Jevaud,
I still am a little hesitant about that one.
What about using a black candle for him and banish his authority over you . And a purple candle for you to gain victory in this arena?

Jevaud · Unread post by **Jevaud** » Tue Oct 29, 2013 10:46 pm

Actually Miss Aida, I like that a lot. I'm still grasping the Hoodoo feel of things, and sometimes I have a bad habit of referring back to other traditions' practices. This actually makes more sense. After all, I can state my verbal intention over the black candle to give it direction in the working, perhaps even holding the candle and seeing the situation I'd wish to banish, channel that into the candle, then anoint the candle and light it while verbally affirming and visualing that dominion shrinking with the candle. Then do as you said with the purple candle.

I think my error in thinking was trying to use the associated color for my undesired situation despite my desire to banish it; when I should actually use the color association with banishing. I will keep this idea in mind in the future, and once again thank you for your aid and advice. The best way to learn is practice and ask questions.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 31, 2013 7:24 pm

Hello, Jevaud,
You're absolutely right! Have to use your imagination and then ask questions.
Sounds like you're on the right track to being a very good root worker!
Congrats and take care (and don't be afraid to ask questions, that's what we are here for)!
Happy Halloween!

Jevaud · Unread post by **Jevaud** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:57 am

Okay, I've got my supplies from LMCC, and I'm about ready to do my work. I've decided to go with the black/ purple candle above. My reason for this is I think it would be best to banish his authority first before I increase my own, as two authority figures can end up bumping heads. Once I do the black with banishing for his authority, and a purple candle for my own authority, I'm going to pick a future date to do the red figure candle with domination oil as back up.

I'm thinking to do this Nov. 23rd, which is on a Saturday, during a waning moon while the moon is in Leo. My reasoning is cause it's his authority and influence I wish to banish, Saturday being good for banishing and separation, Waning for decrease and Leo holds the authority influence. I'm thinking that I might just use the black candle for him since lighting my purple candle under a waning moon-in-Leo might affect my authority in the situation since Moon in Leo at that time is waning.

With that I may add my purple candle to the red image candle work I do at a later date and dress the purple candle with Leo oil. Would there be another oil more appropriate for this?

How does this sound for my work? And would it be alright to use my representative purple candle during this time, or go with my gut and leave it out as the moon is waning in Leo?

P. S.- I'm a double Virgo so I'm very detail oriented, lol hence the meticulousness.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Nov 16, 2013 8:05 pm

Hello, Jevaud,
Wow! A double Virgo!! My rising is Virgo so, I can understand your thoroughness perfectly!
OK, I would do the purple when the moon is waxing because you want to increase your authority. You could mix Leo oil with a domination oil: www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
Otherwise, everything sounds really good!!
Keep us posted!

Jevaud · Unread post by **Jevaud** » Sat Nov 16, 2013 8:52 pm

Thank you Miss Aida, and I sure will keep you all posted. And thank you for confirming my intuition on holding back on the purple candle part of the ritual.

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Jan 19, 2014 10:44 pm

Hi LM Family..

I have had to make a heart-wrenching decision over these past few weeks.. I am taking control of waiting for 2 yrs for my husband to return home after abandonment and adultery.

I have taken a harsh stance by spiritual guidance and Filed Pro Se Divorce on him this past week. He has been served on Fri morning. Needless to say he is angry and upset!! I am interviewing a lawyer to help me thru this, I am praying for Divine Intervention that she has a $$$rate that is manageable for me now and to really turn up the heat on him.

I am sad that it has come to this.. and even more so that I did not find yet the right conjure to bring him home. Perhaps IS is the last stop before cut and clear??

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Jan 20, 2014 9:07 am

Hello Greeneyes,

This is just my personal opinion, that said I would forgo with an Intraquil Spirit (IS). I have never worked that kind of spell but from reading about it it seems to be more trouble than it is worth. Also to be honest what would the IS spell do but bring back a man who felt like he could abandon you and your children. Why bring that mess back to your home. I think you have done right by getting your divorce in order and I would suggest going straight to the cut and clear work. You could also start doing some rootwork to make the judge favor you over him too though it sounds like it would not take much. You also might write a prayer petition on the Crystal Silence League web page to get all those prayers on your side. Hope this is helpful.

Peace~

Nathen

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 21, 2014 8:42 pm

Oh, greeneyes,
I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you. And I know that you have tried many EXCELLENT spells.
Greeneyes, please do me a personal favor and look at this page. www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html
My feeling is that spirit is stopping you because you can do much better. You're a good person and smart as a whip.
We love you. And we are here for you

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Feb 02, 2014 11:05 am

Hello my LM Family,

I have to say that something is going on that I just can not put my finger on. I am a natural intuitive with heavy spiritual guidance that has led me down this path.

My estranged husband is even more peculiar now. It has been over 16 days since he has been served the Divorce Law Suit(Petition). He has not said 1 word about this to me nor has he filed the response with the court or to me. I have double checked with the family court clerk on the 30th and 31st.

As luck would have it , my process server contacted me and said he refused to be served the 1st night and then the next morning at 5:30a the process server waited for him to come out of his mothers house and served him..he was shocked and then tried telling the process server his excuses.

Now I am still in limbo as to what the higher purpose is for all this.. I have Petitioned St Martha and St Rita and Arch Angel Micheal.. I am at a loss for words..as to why he is so resistant to reconciliation,communication and now resisting the Legal Action. He has been gone for 2 years,refused to come home and work it out and now refused to be served until forced, and refusing to respond to the court.

And on top of all this.. now he is wanting to follow the visitation schedule that was court ordered last year.. he has not done so in 1 year.only after being served divorce he wants to play by the rules?

So much confusion going on.. So he abandons everything but does not want to let go? Perhaps he is having a reality check or 2nd thoughts?

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Feb 02, 2014 11:10 am

natstein wrote:Hello Greeneyes,

This is just my personal opinion, that said I would forgo with an Intraquil Spirit (IS). I have never worked that kind of spell but from reading about it it seems to be more trouble than it is worth. Also to be honest what would the IS spell do but bring back a man who felt like he could abandon you and your children. Why bring that mess back to your home. I think you have done right by getting your divorce in order and I would suggest going straight to the cut and clear work. You could also start doing some rootwork to make the judge favor you over him too though it sounds like it would not take much. You also might write a prayer petition on the Crystal Silence League web page to get all those prayers on your side. Hope this is helpful.

Peace~

Nathen

Thanks so much Nathan, CSL was done with in 48 hrs of him being served ...with all the prayers coming in I know I will be blessed with something positive

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Tue Feb 04, 2014 4:47 am

greeneyes2 wrote:Hello my LM Family,

I have to say that something is going on that I just can not put my finger on. I am a natural intuitive with heavy spiritual guidance that has led me down this path.

My estranged husband is even more peculiar now. It has been over 16 days since he has been served the Divorce Law Suit(Petition). He has not said 1 word about this to me nor has he filed the response with the court or to me. I have double checked with the family court clerk on the 30th and 31st.

As luck would have it , my process server contacted me and said he refused to be served the 1st night and then the next morning at 5:30a the process server waited for him to come out of his mothers house and served him..he was shocked and then tried telling the process server his excuses.

Now I am still in limbo as to what the higher purpose is for all this.. I have Petitioned St Martha and St Rita and Arch Angel Micheal.. I am at a loss for words..as to why he is so resistant to reconciliation,communication and now resisting the Legal Action. He has been gone for 2 years,refused to come home and work it out and now refused to be served until forced, and refusing to respond to the court.

And on top of all this.. now he is wanting to follow the visitation schedule that was court ordered last year.. he has not done so in 1 year.only after being served divorce he wants to play by the rules?

So much confusion going on.. So he abandons everything but does not want to let go? Perhaps he is having a reality check or 2nd thoughts?

Anyone have any ideas what direction to go on this situation?
I have been working so hard on stopping the divorce and working on the reconciliation and for him to come home to stay with me..now it is like he is avoiding the legal process and me at the same time

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Tue Feb 04, 2014 8:47 am

greeneyes2, to me the answer is clear, let him go. You have been tormented over this relationship for two years. How much longer are you willing to suffer for this person who doesn't deserve you? Please understand this is totally my personal opinion on the subject. What I would recommend for you is to get a reading from a professional reader. I have a hard time reading for myself when it is a heightened emotional situation. An outside reader can help you get a better idea of what is going on and what your ex is really feeling/up to.

Best of luck!

FB30 · Unread post by **FB30** » Fri Mar 28, 2014 3:42 pm

greetings everyone

i know i asked this question before and i really appreciate the responses i received. i also read the forums but i just had a few more questions. i was told to read up on the cut and clear spells and found out that it is to quite literally "cut and clear" someone/something out of your life. i found that was a little too harsh. i still want to be friends with my current boyfriend as we just have too much of a past together, plus many mutual friends and our cat that lives with him is like my baby. i would be too heartbroken if i wasn't even able to see my cat.

the problem got really bad when we decided to move in with each other a couple of months ago. lately i just do not have the same feelings i once had for him and the relationship is just not working out and he has many many issues that over the past 5 years and multiple promises of "fixing the issues" that it just got to be too much and we need to separate. he's a good person and i don't want to have this ruin him (he has a problem with depression), plus i don't want fights so i know the break up spells won't be the best for this. i want him to still be friendly with me and to be able to heal and get his life in order, maybe even find a new love if that's where his path may lead him. i would like to find a new love as well. i just don't want any hurt and grudges and bad feelings and now i'm rambling :'-( for some reason as i'm writing this, it makes me sound like a bad person because i want to leave someone who has depression and that's the first thing people will look at @shakes head@ and i say that because it's happened in the past to me...

i'm just unhappy......

if anyone would like to read my previous post on the matter i can always PM you and we can talk more about it instead on the forums

i read about the separation spell and i thought that would be good, but i'm still not sure...maybe a reading is in order? i was told to burn the remnants of the previous reconciliation and ammonia jar spells i performed on him when we broke up a couple of years ago.

what was that moving spell with the two figure candles and the separation powder? i can't find it.

any suggestions?

thanks everyone

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Mar 28, 2014 5:21 pm

FB30, surely you can use Separation Spiritual Supplies if you want a "peaceful" breakup. If you are talking about break up work, the moving candle spell is found under Breakup Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html) It is also mentioned in this thread <moving-candle-spells-figural-plain-ques ... t9265.html> in greater detail.