Spells for Protection or a Restraining Order from Abusive or Stalking Ex, Bad Family Member, Former Friend

Kuhrohk · Unread post by **Kuhrohk** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:30 pm

Is it wrong of me to want to route something right back at her? Preferably this? I'm normally very tolerant and passive but this has pissed me off.

I'm getting a reading, just waiting to hear back from my person of choice.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:33 pm

Hi Kuhrohk,

you may want to read about mirror boxes here: http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html (approximately 2/3 of the way down the page)

clarissacain8 · Unread post by **clarissacain8** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:02 pm

The people like this can do something wrong if they don't like anyone. I don't know exactly what it is being said but I have heard so many cases like this. I think this could be very dangerous. And you should be careful. May God take care of you and your family.

Kuhrohk · Unread post by **Kuhrohk** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 8:38 pm

Thank you very much, Clarissa. I could use some extra blessings right now.

Kuhrohk · Unread post by **Kuhrohk** » Tue Sep 18, 2012 7:38 pm

I received my reading back and luckily while she is working against me, it's 'more intent than skill'. I should be able to get rid of it on my own with his help.

Thanks ConjuremanAli!

lm204 · Unread post by **lm204** » Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:55 pm

a bit of an update:

i haven't done the cut and clear yet as i haven't received my LM order yet, but i did start a honey jar to sweeten up my co-workers in the aftermath of the breakup. the results have been...sweet! several of my grumpier collegues have become friendlier and i feel loved when i walk in the office. it''s getting better the longer i work the jar.

my ex has backed off considerably as of late, and i am no longer as afraid of his intensity. i can't wait to do the cut and clear and completely sever our connection (from my end).

thanks for all your suggestions!

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:40 am

Congratulations on the success of your work lm204 and thank you for the update

Keep it up!

NeverBend · Unread post by **NeverBend** » Thu Sep 20, 2012 5:47 pm

Nothing to add, but I can relate. I'm going through a similar situation with an ex...thankfully, I don't work with him and he lives in another town. But he still contacts me. I can also feel him and yes, it's a very yucky and creepy feeling to be violated by someone you wish to have nothing to do with. Then when I do readings, I can see he is obsessing on me at that moment. There have a been a few times, while busy and minding my own business, I have felt his strong foul presence, only to get a phone call minutes or hours later. I've done cord cutting rituals, only for him to immediately replant the cords or contact me the very next day. And my first plan of action with a freezer spell didn't work for me. *sigh*

On a mundane level, I would suggest to stop talking to him all together. When he speaks to you, ignore him and go on about your business...unless it's work related. With people who do not take "NO" for answer, any attention verbal or otherwise, that you give them just feeds into their delusions and selfish ambitions. He's not listening to you and hears only what he wants to hear. Plus he's selfish. He doesn't care about your "NO", he wants what he wants. My ex knows my life is good and that I'm enjoying being alone...but he still wants to come in and disrupt my peace, while being a emotional, physical and financial burden on me. Doesn't care about my happiness at all, only his. He thinks I want him (some strong cognitive dissonance going on here) and he will NOT let go. He's an alcoholic, clingy, manipulative, a deadbeat (lied about filling out job applications, thought he could watch Youtube videos all day while I worked...LOL) and shows clear signs of being potentially abusive. We NEVER got along because he would never give me any space or peace. We got together on two separate occasions, and both times I broke up within four days because he was THAT clingy and THAT much of a loser. No matter how many times I told him to "LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME BREATH!" Or later, "GO FIND A JOB!" He didn't get it then and doesn't get it now. But he thinks he can come back in my life and mess up the good thing I got going, coupled with the fact he has ZERO redeeming qualities? Yeah, right...

People like this are like children, any attention, good or bad, is good attention to them. It gives them a reason to persist. That's why I will NOT answer when my ex calls, no matter how badly as I want to cuss him out and tell him how much of a sorry, creepy loser I think he is. I did that once and it did not work. If after three months of "No Contact" I answered the phone and gave him a good piece of my mind...it will backfire and he will think, "SCORE! I got her to talk to me and it only took 100 phone calls. She will be mine!" So frustrating... So until you do the rituals, give him no attention. No eye contact, no talking...nada. He's not listening to you anyway, why waste your energy and breath talking to a brick wall?

Good luck and congrats on the improved relations with your coworkers. I hope everything works out for you. I will be following similar spells in this thread to get rid of my ex...once and for all.

lm204 · Unread post by **lm204** » Sat Sep 22, 2012 2:43 pm

yeah, he's been much better about not contacting me over the past three weeks. it took me threatening to go to HR...

lm204 · Unread post by **lm204** » Fri Oct 05, 2012 12:56 pm

i got my LM order last night!

I did the cut and clear this afternoon. I performed it was a real determination to cut the bonds with my ex, so i hope it works! i'll check back in soon with an update.

i'm going to sprinkle peace water around our workplace now.

lm

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 4:01 am

My ex boyfriend with whom I have my first child is stalking me! He has a court order to pay child support and has no visitation set up for my daughter; he hasn't even seen her since she was 4 months old. He constantly calls commanding things of me, he threatens harm to my other children and legal harm to me. He also is infuriated because I was awarded his income taxes due to non payment of support. He was at my daughters bus stop this morning looking at me; I am terrified he could harm us in some way. I have no legal feet to stand upon to help me. I have tried reversing spells, fiery wall of protection spells and now I'm thinking of goofer dust and black magic. Help I don't want this. Is there any other way other than literally cursing him and getting bad karma to protect us?

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 5:51 am

he is blocked from email, phone and facebook he is after me personally he hates me for the child support but I beleive his negativity is causing the evil eye and susto in my children I've been praying to st. micheal and using chamomile and brick dust as protective charms, I also did a lemon clove spell and buried it in our front yard for protection, I can't get a restraining order since he hasn't physically tried to harm me just harrases me. I don' t trust the readers around here, they are all fakes, I did a reading with my cat though by continually calling her into my room and observing which paw comes first as a yes no sign, and it seems he has unknowingly given us the evil eye.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 5:55 am

You do not have to talk to him nor put up with his threats or demands. Get some Power products, either the oil and a purple candle, or the vigil candle to build up your personal power and self-esteem.

Lucky Mojo sells eye amulets that protect against the evil eye.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatamulets.html

You have every right to child support. Raising a child is expensive, and you are doing it alone.

Get a reading to see if you should be doing any other type of work. The readers at AIRR are ethical and will tell what you need to know:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 1:22 pm

My sister has recently separated from her husband after he laid his hands on her. They are currently attending counseling sessions but as his behavior is not changing she has been taking proactive steps toward cutting ties.
My concern is that he has threatened to harm her physically and to take her child from her. Being that he has already laid his hand on her I believe that it is only a matter of time until he takes it to the next level, especially since she is cutting him off financially (he refuses to get a job). She supports the family and takes care of their child.
I'm also very concerned for the safety of my parents as my sister has moved in with them in the interim allowing her husband limited visitation. Additionally, he owns many firearms and hunts frequently.

I am wondering in a volatile situation where the abuser is unstable, how can I help protect my sister, niece, and family from him possibly harming them?
I thought Fiery Wall of Protection and a petition to St. Michael would help, and additionally a better security system, which I've suggested to my father in light of the situation. My sister is taking steps to leave this man for good, but I am still very concerned for her safety.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 1:33 pm

Document any threats. She might need to get a restraining order. Tell her to close any joint bank accounts and cancel any joint credit cards. She should start the divorce paperwork ASAP and consider filing a temporary child support petition. Court Case supplies will help.

Working with Archangel Michael and using Fiery Wall of Protection are good ideas. You might consider the FOP kit, which includes a St. Michael prayer card.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 1:50 pm

Please don't start new threads on the same topic. I merged your posts and deleted the last one.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 10:37 pm

Thanks Mama Micki, looks like that post was an accident and was a duplicate. Must have hit send twice.

Thank you again for the tips.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 9:49 pm

Also, do regular work with King Solomon Wisdom products -- you can use them along with, or mix them right into, your Court Case and Fiery Wall supplies. This will keep your mind sharp and allow you to make wise decisions.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

You might also consider:

Stop Gossip spells and supplies, to keep him from talking trash
http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Making a Doll Baby (or ordering one from Lucky Mojo)
making-a-doll-baby-t6143.html
Doll-Baby, Voodoo Doll, Poppet Questions and Answers
doll-baby,-voodoo-doll,-poppet-question ... t8946.html
Spell-Casting Against Bullies and Physical Stalkers
spell-casting-against-bullies-and-physi ... t8070.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

jen-noelle · Unread post by **jen-noelle** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 10:16 am

Hi,
My 16 year old daughter has been in relationship with a 17 year old boy she's known for about a year and a half. It has always been a very negative situation for her. He's attractive, extremely intelligent (all honors classes), and very charming but he's also verbally abusive and extremely selfish. One moment he is sweet and doting on her, the next he is calling her horrible names and abusing her. She is not the same person she once was, happy and very outgoing. She's tried to end it on several occasions but he manages to persuade her to stay with him and as always she does. She does confide in me regularly but never takes my advice. This boy has a hold on her that she cannot break away from by herself no matter what and it's beginning to become unbearable for me to see her go through this daily. I just want her to have clarity and the will power to end this abusive relationship once and for all. I feel that my aim here should be more towards helping her than anything i could do towards him. All suggestions greatly appreciated. What should I do?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 10:31 am

Start with Cast Off Evil. Light a vigil candle or a white candle dressed with Cast Off Evil oil. You can use a figural or skull candle if you wish. Sprinkle some Cast Off Evil powder on her bed and underwear. Put a few drops of oil in her shampoo or body wash.

Use Separation, rather than Breakup, to separate them without a lot of drama. You can also use Hotfoot if he is coming around your house.

Your daughter needs to develop a sense of herself and develop her self-esteem. Power, King Solomon Wisdom, and Clarity supplies can help.

jen-noelle · Unread post by **jen-noelle** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 10:53 am

Yes.. This is exactly what I'm looking for. Thank you so much for your quick response and help.

Eternally Grateful,
Jen-Noelle

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 12:02 pm

Happy to help. I have four daughters; two are adults and two are teens, so I can totally relate.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:57 pm

Great recommendation Mama Micki. I am adding the links to the specific spells discussed.

Cast Off Evil Spiritual Supplies
HotFoot Spiritual Supplies
Separation Spiritual Supplies
Break-Up Spiritual Supplies

KrystalK · Unread post by **KrystalK** » Fri Feb 15, 2013 2:40 pm

long story short I just recently broke up with someone that I am soon to do a Cut & Clear on .

He's still stalking after the TPO ..I did not see him myself but several people reported that they have still seen him lurking around the complex where I live and where the TPO is in effect for. He was stalking around on Vday near my house as well. He has a habbit of this...

the issue isn't only the stalking this time...I have another ex who is in the area now and the one I just broke up with (we will call him "Stalker Ex") used to try to manipulate him ..but they are becoming problematic as they both want me back...so they play littles games and make up stories with each other lol... I have even comfronted them of doing so . Have even warned the other ex that "stalker ex" accused me of wanting him back and "cheating" when actually he was in jail at the time lol..drama drama drama.

I just ran into non-stalker ex and he said that he also seen stalker ex last night as well as a friend of mine who know I have a TPO on him... of all days he chose Valentines Day to stalk lol.go figure...

Is there anything to do that will shut these two up or make them rivals . They really are already manipulating each other I just want them to keep my name out of their mouths. Even non-stalker ex when I don't want him makes up little stories about he's heard a rumor about me from "so & so" lol..mhmmm sure heard that before everytime I say I'm not re-interested in rekindling the flame...but manipultive things like this is what has stalker ex acting so strange & accusing me of cheating it started with a little talk with them from before and he never let it go even after I told him he was being manipulated by my ex just to leave me . He never let it go though and even started to add little exaggerations to the story everytime he brought it up . People are so full of drama in this neighborhood..I am so ready to move :/

oh and I just wanted to add that I actually had somewhat of a date with a nice guy friend... one of the guys Stalker- Ex had been accusing me of cheating with . This is our first time being able to connect and really get to know each other ever last night.NOTING SEXUAL. Come to find out this guy had been approached by stalker ex has given his number and everything a month ago ... Creepy. We laughed about it but this is getting to close for comfort. He happened to mention it to me after I showed him a picture of Stalker Ex and told him what had been going on and why I dont really wanna get serious with anyone.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Feb 15, 2013 5:29 pm

This is a mess.
Why are you waiting on the Cut and Clear? Do it!!!

You also have a legal oreder in place to protect you.
I'm not trying to be ugly or mean-- But I do not understand the contact.

Please stay safe God Bless you,

Tammie Lee

KrystalK · Unread post by **KrystalK** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 2:58 am

No I don't take it with being mean at all. It's honestly the truth. And I don't see it getting any clearer and with me living in this complex and him still "testing" the TPO its only going to get worse.

Thing is I'm hearing that he is in the area AFTER they have seen him. I told them to please let me know when he is actually in the area to help my situation. People only protect themselves these days so they will possibly not say anything to me know that he is and some still don't know. But it is very well known that we both dated.

The men in the neighborhood are sneaky and backstabbing as well. I have had several guys to approach me in the area knowing that we date. And I'm pretty sure the females in the area have approached him . This is a complex of 190 units (public housing). There is always a "catch" or men lurking in the area to get a woman. Mostly to use her. That is why I am sooo ready to move. I am trying to change my life.

There is so much talk, manipulation, and gossiping and its mainly people that keep up things just to break people up, see someone else get in trouble, etc, etc. Manipulation.

I am known for being very faithful to my boyfriend, but he sees other wise because of course those who want me for themselves play games.Or like for instance with the ex who puts little fibs in to set up manipulation and insecurity and run with it but with a guy like this it is dangerous and that is what has happened. It has even happened with some one of his friends approaching me and this is why he is sooo upset and I had to get the TPO. And he still to this day from my knowledge has not talked to this friend, however, I have and I let him know what was going on .

I think it will catch up with them in the long run and he will realize it but I was just looking for something to give it a quicker boost. Living in the same area with all this drama is a mess. I don't have the funds to move out . Hoping sometime soon that will happen... and that things don't get too outta hand before someone gets hurt.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 8:24 am

As Tammie says, Cut and Clear ASAP. You need to focus also on money and job work to get out of there. Cleanse yourself and your home first. Road Opener might help too.

Adrianna · Unread post by **Adrianna** » Mon Apr 08, 2013 12:08 pm

Hello,

I need help. From one day to another my ex turned against us all (his daughters and me) and became real close to his family (sisters and cousin). I never seen this coming. This was very weird, as before that, he hated his family. His family does not like us at all.

I need to learn how to clean and protect my children, myself and my house with herbs or other stuff to take away any bad my ex's family has done to us. I need to protect our selves before I lose everything.

A) I have tried egg cleaning on my daughters and my self. This has helped. But I just used the plain eggs and prayed. Is there something else I should also use?

B) I have also burned plain sage in my house. Is there some I should also add to the sage?

C) Is there something I should just do different altogether?

D) Once we are cleansed, how do we protect ourselves from future attacks?

Thanks,
Adrianna

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Wed Apr 10, 2013 7:29 am

Hi Adrianna,

It does sound weird that your ex hated his family and has suddenly turned against you and sided with them. You mention his family doesn't like the daughters involved or you. If it were me I'd get a reading on the situation and go from there. You can also do the things listed below:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org or http://www.hoodoopsychics.com
It feels a little like his family is doing some work on him to turn him away. To know for sure get a reading.

Also, I would cleanse the home with chinese wash. http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
And cleanse yourself and daughters with 13 herb 13 day spiritual bath. http://www.herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html
I like to nail down property for protection. http://www.luckymojo.com/railroadspike.html
To check out what spell you need go to: http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html

Read Catherine Yronwode's book, "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic" which is sold at Lucky Mojo in the shop or in the online store.

Fiery Wall of Protection are all good products as well.

If you want him to come back or to be nice to you and your daughters, try a sweetening spell, like a honey jar spell or a sugar jar spell. I personally like the sugar jar spells because they tend to work quicker. There is a lot of excellent information about Honey jar & Sweetening spells in the thread here on the Lucky Mojo forum.

My favorite prayer for protection is in the bible, Ephesians: chap 6 "...put on the full armour of God..." This is works especially well for children and for you to say along with them because kids love acting out putting on the full armour. Heck, I'm not a kid but I like going through the motions of imagining putting on the full Armour of God.

Bright Blessings!

Adrianna · Unread post by **Adrianna** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 11:15 am

Thank You, very much. I will try the honey jar ASAP.

Adrianna

Jadetatsu · Unread post by **Jadetatsu** » Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:09 pm

Split up with boyfriend.
He moved back to Ohio - August 2012. Right after he left, I discovered paperwork he left behind that he was a convicted child molester. No he did not harm nor touch neither my adult daughters nor granddaughter. Yes I know I was dumb

He attempted to put a love spell on me and I block it. Then he tried to put a hex on me; I reverse that.
He moved back to L. A., CA and he is looking for me, daughters, granddaughter, and grandson. I have a protection candle on us. What spell could I use to send him back to Ohio?

Thanks,
Jadetatsu

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jun 13, 2013 5:19 pm

Well first and formost id get a reading on this as its a difficult situation and they can help you with detail. In general of course I would use fiery wall of protection on you and the kids, id also pray to st Michael to protect you with his mighty swoard. As for him id use hotfoot products to send him running

Jadetatsu · Unread post by **Jadetatsu** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 11:37 am

Have another question ...

Split up with boyfriend. He moved back to Ohio. Started a spell on me. I reverse the spell. I discovered, after he moved back to Ohio, that he was a convicted child molester. No he did not harm nor touch my adult daughters nor grand children. Yes I know I was dumb

Now he moved back to Los Angeles, CA. He is looking for me, both daughters, granddaughter, and grandson. I don't want him near us.

I have a St Michael protection candle on us. What spell could I use to prevent him from looking for us? Seeing us?

Thanks

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 11:41 am

Get a restraining order. Do not allow him to contact you; block phone calls, email, etc. and do not respond to written communication. If he shows up at the door call the police. Actually, LA is a big city; unless someone lets him know where you live, it would like looking for a needle in a haystack.

You can get some Fiery Wall of Protection supplies to keep him away.

IcarusSaved · Unread post by **IcarusSaved** » Wed Jul 24, 2013 8:36 pm

My good friend has left her abusive husband. Their daughter is 13 and has decided to live with him. He is a pervert and we are worried that he might hurt her.

Of course, my friend has contacted authorities about this, but they can't really do anything until something bad happens.

I want this girl to be protected and her mother asked if there was anything I could do. Any suggestions? We don't have any legit rootworkers in our area, so I'm kinda her only option

.

Unread post by **Power** » Thu Jul 25, 2013 6:06 am

Ugh, that's very disconcerting.

Ask Archangel Michael to look after her.
http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html

You could do a fiery wall of protection spell.
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

If he is violent, you can do a honey jar/sugar jar to sweeten him
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Try some peaceful home products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

And Tranquility Products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Unread post by **Power** » Thu Jul 25, 2013 6:34 am

You could also do a skull candle spell on him, to influence his mind and make him think thoughts of not hurting her or anyone for that matter.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jul 25, 2013 7:26 am

Hi IcarusSaved,

The Fiery Wall of Protection work suggested by starry moonlit night is an excellent plan. Depending on how much experience you yourself have in rootwork, you may also want to get one of the AIRR rootworkers on the case given the possible severity of such a situation. They can do the work even if they aren't in your area. The ones who do protection work can be found here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... afe_Travel

PinkPanther · Unread post by **PinkPanther** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:48 am

I am just wondering. what are the effects of burning a person's name or business card?

I wanted this man out of my life and it could have been something I just did for myself, but I felt his ex/girlfriend (because he says she is an ex). when I broke contact, as i was advised, he got evil.

his girlfriend (or ex as he says) has used work to come between us.

first I lost my job and it was a job that he had great praise over. I have other side jobs but this one was very important.

The next day, everything that went wrong was transportation related. his vehicle's transmission went out, then when it was fixed he had a random drug test, first in 5 years, that slowed him from getting his car for the weekend. he made arrangements and then he needed a water pump. my car got engine signals too.

I don't want anything bad for him but kind of to get rid of him. our relationship has had an effect on my work. I just wondered what burning a person's name or business card could have done.

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 8:51 am

Dear Pink Panther,

I would want him out of my life too. Ugh! They both sound horrid.

Did you do anything beside burning his or her business card? Because just burning the card doesn't do much in and of itself.

A cut and clear would help get him out of your life.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 12:32 pm

It sounds like you need Uncrossing work done as well, followed with protection to keep this ex and possible him from working on you again.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:50 pm

I'd save that business card or picture instead, and burn Banishing or Crossing candles or oils on it.

Mary Bee

majodere · Unread post by **majodere** » Sun Feb 09, 2014 2:22 pm

Hi! Im very new to this forum and also very new to conjouring, i have only done mild spells before and they have all been for healing and luck.
But for a while now one of my friends have been confiding in me about his family and troubles in general, his whole upbringing has been a struggle as his parents have both neglected and physically abused him.

For a while it started to look up, he got new friends and found a new love after a mutual break up with his last girlfriend, but the whole thing was apparently a cruel joke to make fun of him.
His parents also decided to put him into religious theraphy as he is trans and his parents refuse to acknowledge this fact and that he needs help. Theyve also started taking his income and confiscated his car so he has no way of getting out.
Hes been suicidal for years now and has tried to kill himself many times, even when he downed two bottles of sleeping pills his parents refused to take him to the hospital.
I am too far away to actively help him and it pains me that all i can seem to do is lend a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen.

Im fearing for his life as hes blatantly stopped eating and i dont think hell last much longer. I want so badly for his parents to get out of his life ive never before wished for someone to die but i cant stand by watching this.

To clear things up i dont actually want to curse to kill, i see no point in ending a life but i cant help but wish excrutiating pain upon them.
Does anyone know of any spells or curses that might help? Im really starting to become desperate.
Thank you for reading.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 10, 2014 9:48 pm

Hello, majodere ,
Your poor friend. I feel so bad...
I have moved your post to the category of abuse (although it says: "abusive Ex", it's still applicable)
And since you don't want to curse the parents (you sound uncomfortable doing this), this subforum has many protection spells for your friend that you can perform. There are a few pages here with idea. Take a look and see if anything appeals to you. If not, please let us know.
Have you considered seeking help from a government agency to help him? Or (I forgot the initials for the organization) an organization that defends his particular rights (based on his gender preference)? I know there's a lot of them out there.
Additionally, you didn't mention the age. If this is someone under 18, you might also want to consider contacting social services.
Nevertheless, you're a good friend for caring and wanting to help
Wishing you the very best

Unread post by **Miss Phoenix** » Tue Feb 11, 2014 9:36 am

majodere, I want to second Miss Aida's advice. I am guessing that this is a younger person, since they seem to sound trapped by their parents. There are lots of agencies that can help trans youth get help. Your friend needs to reach out to one of these sources, PFLAGG and It Gets Better are good places to start. What is important is for your friend to know that they are not alone. There are other people out there who have gone through (or are going through) the exact same thing. This hurts my heart and I pray that they find the support that they need.

I would suggest some Crucible of Courage work for your friend to help them make changes and find the support that they need. http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Best of luck to both of you!

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue Feb 11, 2014 11:18 am

Hello Majodere,

I am so sorry your friend has to go through this kind of hardship, I am thankful he has you to at least talk to. That alone can be a lot of help. I second everything Miss Aida and Miss Phoenix said. You might also put a prayer up on the Crystal Silence League page for him too (http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/) I personally would be more than willing to set a light on this person's behalf.

Peace~

Nathen

AdherentOfVenus · Unread post by **AdherentOfVenus** » Fri Feb 28, 2014 5:23 pm

I've had a horrible string of bad luck recently, ending today with our apartment spontaneously catching fire. It wasn't electrical or anything typical; the Keurig coffee maker actually just went up in flames and took a whole cabinet with it! The men on scene declared that they'd never seen anything like it, and that that was quite odd. The house was filled with thick black smoke and though we were able to put it out before the firemen even arrived, I could not find my cats and was very worried for their wellbeing. Other than that, I've lost a significant amount of income and am now at risk to lose more. Things are rocky with the roommate we depend upon to pay our rent, and our food stamps were denied this month. Went to renew the tags on our vehicle a few days ago and found out we had to take it through emissions; long story short, car wouldn't pass, had to pay $150 to get it waived plus parts trying to fix it, and also received a several hundred dollar ticket in the meantime while just a block away from where we were taking it to get it fixed. Now we have to go to court to fight it two days before my birthday, which is in two weeks time.

The only other information I can think to give is that right before the fire occurred, I had petitioned St. Expedite asking him to help us break ties with our roommate in an easy, drama-free way and then find a new roommate who would pay us the $500 we desperately need instead of the $400 we're getting. I wouldn't even risk it right now because of our financial situation, and being deep in a sudden debt, but he is very difficult to live with (ruining appliances, peeing all over the bathroom floor) and there's a tense, unsettling kind of energy often in the apartment. It's sad, but I feel like a guest in my own home - always tip-toeing around him. We were going to give him his notice tomorrow, but now I just don't know...

Keeping in mind that I have no money to pay for any kind of product, what would you suggest I do? I'm really terrified right now. I've been trying to stay positive this whole time, but after today I just don't know what to think. The worst part is, we weren't even supposed to be home when the fire happened. My in-laws were going out of town for a concert and we were supposed to stay the day and night to watch their pets. But strangely, the singer got sick and the whole thing was cancelled a few days ago. If we hadn't been here, I hate to think what might have happened to our animals. Please, please help me. I'm desperate for a solution to this sudden string of ill events.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Feb 28, 2014 5:30 pm

Dear AdherentOfVenus,

First of all, put up a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League:

Upload Your Prayer to the Crystal Silence League
http://crystalsilenceleague.org/public/prayer_type.php

Then, sign up for a free reading on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour:

Radio Show Pre-Call ID: March 2nd, 2014
radio-show-pre-call-id-march-2nd,-2014-t27419.html

When you sign up, don't forget to mention that I suggested you apply to the AIRR Pro Bono Fund --

The AIRR Pro Bono Fund
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Pro_Bono_Fund

An AIRR member must apply to the Fund on your behalf. I'm the Chairwoman of that Fund, and I always consider indigent radio show callers as applicants, if the readers agree.

May all your paths lead to blessings,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **natstein** » Sat Mar 01, 2014 11:05 am

Hello AdherentOfVenus,

Definitely Definitely follow Miss Michaele's Advice! The only real reason I am commenting is to point out that you do have some luck on your side as teh radio show is tomorrow so you may be able to get that advice and possibly get the pro-bono stuff happening quickly, and it is a blessing you were home to put out that fire. That tells me something is working on your behalf despite all this bad luck and you can build on that.

Peace~

Nathen

arilover16 · Unread post by **arilover16** » Sun Apr 27, 2014 10:51 pm

Greetings to all

Sorry if this sounds harsh.

Not too long ago i recently helped my aunt out by guiding her to lucky mojo shop and forum to help her son's court case because the root worker she would usually go to wasn't working for her. Now i have a strong hunch that she's gone rogue. My mom constantly expresses to me "you shouldn't have told her about this" I feel sooo guilty. Alright, im going to get the setting in place.

After i showed my aunt what to get for her son she ordered her a court case kit, 4 weeks later her son hasn't gotten any jail time (What I'm thinking: She see's what she can do with lucky mojo's items) Then she makes up a will for my grandmother and like 2 months later my grandmother gets sick out of the blue and passes. My aunt has gotten most of my grandmothers belongings. At the funeral and now she has expressed no feelings about her mother passing, she didn't cry or nothing, she was as stone cold as a rock.(What I'm thinking: She D.U.M.E-ed my grandmother to make her pass so she could get her money and belongings). My grandmother did not have a will in addition, she divorced my granddad back in 1979, and never remarried, but the two of them resided in the same home a couple of years later. My grandmother was approached by my aunt on several occasions to complete the will that she made for her, and she did not complete it. She was totally against my aunt coming to her in this manner, and it offended her. She continually said in her final months (we as her family did not know it was her final months), that she thought someone was making her sick. My aunt is the oldest of four children between my grandmother and my granddad.
Now She has made a will for my grandfather and its so unusual because my grandfather is so stubborn that he wouldn't even entertain the thought of having a will. To add to that, the will that my aunt has made doesn't include his other two children (out of wedlock-not by my grandmother) and he usually wouldn't go for that and plus she has made herself the primary beneficiary and made the other children in addition to grandchildren secondary beneficiaries who will have whatever she decides to give to them shared equally. (What I'm thinking: She coersed my grandfather into signing the will and soon she will make my grandfather pass)

So basically i want to know what can i do to either stop her from doing spell work or protect my family from her.

I'm sorry if this sounds mean but please no one tell me i don't know this is what she is doing for sure or I'm just paranoid, I know what is going on in my family and i know this over bearing power that she has now (how she imposes her will upon others) comes from the power of lucky mojo. It is much more going on than what i just listed but those are the 2 most major issues that im worried about.

I don't want her to do anything to harm anyone in my family. Im seriously worried.

Thanks for your time

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 9:44 am

arilover16, my heart goes out to your and your family. Who would imagine that a beloved relative in trouble could turn so mean!

You will find many ideas for work in these forums:

Ask Us for Conjure Help with Liars, Thieves, Fraud, Swindlers
ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-liars,-thi ... s-f53.html
Ask Us for Conjure Help with Protection from Enemies, Stalkers, Rootwork
ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-protection ... k-f42.html
Ask Us for Conjure Help with Parents, Children, Relatives, In-Laws, Friends
ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-parents,-c ... s-f49.html

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

arilover16 · Unread post by **arilover16** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 10:34 am

Thank you for your reply.

I will search in the links you provided me.
Thanks so much.

Sarafina · Unread post by **Sarafina** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:16 pm

I would have gotten a private reading with an Airr member since she could be reading this...

Shannon · Unread post by **Shannon** » Sun May 11, 2014 5:02 am

I suppose my situation is fairly indirect, and I'm working from heart level, as this affects my Godmother and her son, and his impending marriage to a woman whom I refer to as "poison woman". I'm feeling protective over my aunt(my Godmother), so this is where it is coming from.

*Back Story*
My cousin (my Godmother's son) was married to a woman who cheated on him, they are now divorced, which is fine, and for the sake of their children THEY are amicable (my family is pretty chill, the ex-wife isn't a a bad person, and we realize that what happened, happened between them), however he jumped straight into a relationship with another woman without healing his pain; which seemed OK at first, because this new woman seemed really positive (albeit, a little strange), but as soon as she got the engagement ring on her finger she's been manipulative and turning my cousin against his mother, and rather than bringing a new found peace and stability to his life, is bringing out more anger and blame.

My godmother and godfather have always been active in the lives of their grandchildren, and could come over and help out as much as possible, but since my cousin has become engaged to this woman she's been - the way I see it - she has been poison. She has emailed my Godmother and threatened her with being able to see her grandchildren or her son, citing the reason that my aunt is still friendly with the mother of the grandchildren - which there has never not been a reason to be friendly with this woman, as what happened between her and my cousin happened between them and that is how they have kept it - private, for their kids - however this new woman is making problems where before, everything was polite, and dealt with between my cousin and his now ex-wife.

To rewind a little, when I found out my cousin got engaged to this woman, I was happy for them, (That said,prior to that I was suspicious as, them coming together, happened pretty rapidly after my cousins separation, but it wasn't my business, so whatever )but when they got engaged, I sent this woman a quick message, introducing myself, and congratulating them, she had since added me to Facebook. However, when she sent this threatening note to my aunt saying "we don't want another situation like Joe, do we?" (My other cousin has become estranged from from my other aunt because of his wife and her family...the men in my family...I tell you...) to my Godmother. This woman deleted myself and my Godmother off of Facebook (which on my behalf, I don't really care about, but for my Godmother, it seems a bit odd). My godmother told my mom, who then told me (obviously...haha) but, my Godmother didn't want a fuss made because she just wants to be able to see her grandkids as much as possible. To respect my Godmother, I don't want to do anything obvious, but I also don't want anything done to negatively impact my Godmother or her relationship with her grandbabies.

I feel like this woman isn't above doing anything magickally, but I don't know her very well and I don't know what she's about...but one morning I woke up thinking she might be a little intimidated by me, and my relationship to my Godmother.

I was hoping to have a little insight into what is going on, and what I can do protectively for my Godmother, both offensive and defensively.

Astrologically, I'm a Scorpio, and I live half-way across the globe from my family, so I feel somewhat of a loss as to being able to do anything besides saying hello, and just being a friendly voice, while I know my Aunt and Uncle are pretty uneasy and unhappy about this situation.

Thanks so much for reading this

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun May 11, 2014 7:42 am

Hello,

This sounds like a bit of a mess.

For "insight into what is going on, i suggest you get a good reader, such as one from AIRR.

This post has been added to the thread on long-distance protection, since you titled it as such and posted it in this area of the Forum. You may find some suggestions already in this thread. If you have questions about how to perform such a spell, please, just ask!

It seems that you also want to break up this couple, but that is a separate and different job of work, and has no connection to the protection of your Godmother, so i suggest that you also look in on that subject-area of the Forum where you can read what has been posted there before. You may find a type of curse work that is useful. I personally would suggest a lemon or vinegar spell with hot red pepper. There is

boadiccearose · Unread post by **boadiccearose** » Wed May 28, 2014 7:53 am

I accidently broke a very large mirror in 1994 and had the worst years of my entire life. I didn't know if there was anything I could do to counteract any bad luck, so I did protection but it didn't work.

I had 3 kids and divorced my ex who, I found out, has a mental health problem. He is an alcoholic with serious control issues, and was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

Now he and his girlfriend are being very abusive to my youngest in their control of him. They hijacked all of the passwords to my son's facebook, text account, and all of his email accounts (he kept getting more as they found his passwords). They "monitor" them for his own good. My son has no privacy, nor do I, as they read all his messages. My son is 15.... almost 16.

I accidently stepped on my daughters toy hand mirror and broke it yesterday. How can I avoid another set of horrible years?? I don't want to go through anything like I did before. Please help. I certainly don't want a man like him in my life ever again.

Please help!!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jun 01, 2014 8:29 pm

Hello, boadiccearose,
I am so very sorry to hear this.
Now, this may or may not be Hoodoo tradition but I was taught that if you break a mirror, throw Holy Water on it. Then, wait 7 hours before cleaning it up.
For now, use the uncrossing kit. It works wonders.
www.luckymojo.com/spell-uncrossing.html
MOST IMPORTANTLY, PLEASE report this abusive behavior to Social Service.
I pray that all works out well for you and the children
Take care

Shannon · Unread post by **Shannon** » Mon Jul 21, 2014 7:02 pm

Thanks catherineyronwode!

I'll for sure check out AIRR!

I would more like my cousin to come to the conclusion that this woman is toxic on his own, rather than me or anyone else meddle in the situation. I just wish he thought to heal himself rather than look to find a band-aide solution. That said, if this woman does anything to further harm or dent the relationship between my Godmother/her grandkids/ and my cousin...I may reconsider

Thank you for your suggestions!

catherineyronwode wrote:Hello,

This sounds like a bit of a mess.

For "insight into what is going on, i suggest you get a good reader, such as one from AIRR.

This post has been added to the thread on long-distance protection, since you titled it as such and posted it in this area of the Forum. You may find some suggestions already in this thread. If you have questions about how to perform such a spell, please, just ask!

It seems that you also want to break up this couple, but that is a separate and different job of work, and has no connection to the protection of your Godmother, so i suggest that you also look in on that subject-area of the Forum where you can read what has been posted there before. You may find a type of curse work that is useful. I personally would suggest a lemon or vinegar spell with hot red pepper. There is

Kalina · Unread post by **Kalina** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 9:24 am

So long story incredibly short.

I am doing work for a friend.
Basically his now ex has been doing some pretty horrid and illegal things to animals and has threatened to ruin his military career if he tells the authorities.
She has almost succeeded once.

Now I have a petition with her name, birthday, and picture with the words "locked up" surrounding her name and birthday under a candle rubbed with black arts, fast luck and court case oils.

My question is how exactly could I go about protecting my friend from this girl ruining his military career?
I have a crap ton of LM oils.
Maybe some Fiery Wall of Protection?
Or maybe something to protect him from her slander and words?
Could I possibly freeze her and comments out?

Heheh I have no idea.

But my friend is incredibly fearful of this girl and what she might do so any help is appreciated!

Unread post by **natstein** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 11:31 am

Hello Kalina,

I moved your post into he protection from abusive ex thread as there are a lot of ideas in here that might work for your friends situation.

A note about your work against his ex, I would personally would not add the Fast Luck products to enemy work. I kind of understand your logic in terms of wanting to speed up your work but the roots and herbs in Fast Luck are all very positive and Helpful types of curios and would run counter to the work you are trying to do. I think maybe some Revenge oil might be good to add to your candle for this work
(you can find it on this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html)

Now for protecting your friend definitely use your Fiery Wall of Protection (http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywallofprotection.html). If you happen to have the kit I would follow the instructions on it or just follow the instructions form the link above. I have used teh kit in the past and it worked really well for me! Then to keep her words from hurting him work with the Stop Gossip products (http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html). You can add it to the candles you are already working on the ex.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen