Amiable Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation Remain Friends

[Terra Rising]

Yvonnerogers61,

I'm a little confused about your situation and need some clarifications before we are able to recommend any products.

1. He is in your house but has a separate apartment of his own?
2. Do you need his financial support after the divorce?

My first impression would be to Hot Foot him right out of the house! But if you need him to support you financially after the divorce, Hot Foot would be the wrong choice and a peaceful divorce would be desired. Have you read through this thread to get some ideas on how you would like to work to make the divorce easier?

[LostandConfused10269]

Hey all...I have a question, and if I'm in the wrong spot, please let me know!

My husband and I have been married 2 years, and together for a little over 3. I have recently found out some disturbing information about his infidelity (at least online and assumed that it hasn't been in person...yet) and I cannot handle it anymore. This has been going on even before we were married, and when confronted about it a couple of times, it was blown off like it was no big deal. He's had more than a few inappropriate conversations with women...and men about hooking up, and all sorts of stuff.

I'd like him to realize that our relationship is not meant to be, and to move on, but without breaking all ties. (We have a 10 year old daughter who thinks the world of him (His step daughter, my biological daughter). I'd like to remain friends.

Is there such a way to make him not want to be with me anymore?

[Terra Rising]

LostandConfused10269,

This is a tough situation and I am sorry you are going through this. I would first start with Clarity for the both of you. He obviously needs some clarity figuring out what he is doing being married and continuing this behavior and for you to decide the best way to approach this without hurting your daughter. I would suggest two Clarity vigil candles, for for the each of you with the petition underneath or burned at the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church.

I would like you to read this thread to get ideas: mutual-break-up-easy-divorce-peaceful-s ... 11198.html
Please let us know if you have any questions after reading the thread. I would probably start with Separation products. It will separate you but can leave a friendship intact which is ideal with children. A prayer ideas and products can be found here: https://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

One final note and I am going to beat Miss Cat to it, please change your user name. The name is sending a message to God/Universe that you would almost like to be lost and confused! Think of attraction magic. Like attracts like, I would change it to something like "Lucky_n_Love" or "HappyMamaBear". Something that will attract what you want.

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[LostandConfused10269]

How do I change my username?

[catherineyronwode]

Dear LostandConfused10269 -- welcome to the Lucky Mojo Forum

Requests for username changes can be made here:

Update Change Profile - Username - Password - Email - Gender
update-change-profile-username-password ... 15891.html

Please become familiar with the structure of the forum and post in the sub-forums and topic threads set aside for each form of discussion.

For instance, you posted in a thread about breaking up long-time marriages, but that is about an outsider to the marriage undertaking the work, so i have moved your post here, because this thread deals precisely with situations just like yours:

Mutual Break-Up Easy Divorce Peaceful Separation
mutual-break-up-easy-divorce-peaceful-s ... 11198.html

There are eight pages of questions and replies in this thread, so please take time to read them and see what has previously been discussed -- and if you have further questions, just ask.

Best of luck to you.

[Roxy123]

Hello Everyone!

I recently performed a cut and clear on my husband. I’m miserable in our marriage. We have children and he has almost nothing to do with them and very little to do with me. He comes and goes as he pleases while I’m the one that takes care of responsibilities at home. He lives his life like a bachelor and flirts with everyone he comes into contact with and this just isn’t how I wanted my life to go and the children deserve better. He’s controlling but certainly not physically abusive so I want a peaceful separation/divorce.

I feel like he’s not going to have anything to do with the kids in the end which is sad but I still didn’t think hot footing was the best course of action although now I’m not sure. I’ve tried to leave but he insists he loves me and wants me there, and I’m very empathetic so I’m having a hard time standing my ground. I’ve talked to him about how I feel and it’s like he doesn’t hear what I’m saying at all. He shows signs of narcissism so I think I’m his ego boost.

I’ve seen a traditional therapist and I’ve gotten better with boundaries but it’s still hard for me. Ideally I’d like him to leave so I can keep the kids in the house and keep their routine normal but I’m prepared to leave with them if I need to.

After the cut and clear he’s been a lot nicer to me. That’s the opposite effect that I was hoping for! I honestly feel like he senses something and he’s just holding on because his life is easier with me there. Does it sometimes take a few times with the cut and clear if one person is really holding on?

He’s never going to change - he’s always done just enough to keep me holding on so that I’ll keep taking care of things for him but I want out!

Any advice is much appreciated!!

[Miss Athena]

Hello Roxy123,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. We're glad you're here, although saddened to hear that your relationship is so unhappy for you.

I'm not sure why you chose Cut & Clear to help your husband agree to a divorce. Cut & Clear is used to cleanse yourself of your emotional ties to someone, not to end their emotional ties to you.

Since you want a peaceful parting, I suggest working with Separation products, as they help bring about a gentler ending to a relationship vs. Break Up products. You can state in your petition that he leaves your marriage and home. You can find Separation products here:
https://www.luckymojo.com/products-separation.html

I understand you do not want to use Hot Foot on him, but consider using Banishing instead. Like Separation, it is a less harsh formula than Hot Foot but can still help to bring about your desired result of him leaving your home. You can find Banishing products here:
https://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

I hope this helps and I wish you the very best of luck!

[Roxy123]

Miss Athena,

Thank you so much for your reply! I guess I was confused on what cut and clear does but that explains why I’m not seeing the results I’m looking for. Should I use both Separation and Banishing? Or should I pick one?

[Terra Rising]

Roxy123,

You could use both. Separation for the peaceful divorce and Banishing to make him leave the home. You will find free spells using the products on the links Miss Athena gave above. You will also find a ton of spells on this thread so give it a good read through from the beginning. Many have been in the same situation. Start planning so he doesn't get the upper hand when he does decide to leave. A good lawyer will be able to help with this and ensure you get a fair deal.

[Roxy123]

Oh perfect! I’ll do both. Thank you both very much for the help!

[Uwinston10]

I see a lot of spells of reconciliation. I need the opposite of that. I broke up with my boyfriend but he will not leave my house and I would feel bad putting him out with nowhere to go. I need him to leave ASAP but I want it to be his idea.

[Miss Athena]

Hello Uwinston10,

You are in the right thread for spell advice for your situation. Read through the many posts here for ideas and if you then still have questions, feel free to ask us here.

You can also work spells to find him a new home. You can read more on those spells here:
spells-to-find-rental-property-apartmen ... 19832.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[sundoot]

This is for my spouse and we have been married for many years. I'm mentally drained and just want the guy gone. He is a narcissistic, selfish, jekyll/hyde piece of work. He hasn't physically harmed the kids or I but because of his anger issue and words it's very hurtful which is abuse I feel. I always thought that god knew what was going on and someday he'll get his. I have done a few things--lemon in freezer, candles dressed in hot foot with his hair and even an ammonia jar to reverse his behavior--over a couple months span. He did get a nail in his tire and also I had a dream that his brother died after I did the spell which I thought was odd. Should I try the sour jar and leave it in the garage so that he can pass it everyday as I have no idea where to put it? I'm just ready for this jerk to either be in physical pain like he has put me thru emotionally/mentally or just be totally gone--my intentions are real. Thank-you.

[Miss Athena]

Hello sundoot,

I'm sorry you're going through all of this. I have moved your post to the topic on spells to put an end to your own relationship, so you might want to read through the posts here for advice and ideas.

If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here and we can answer you.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[WhiteEagle]

This was the closest thread I could find to what I have going on what’s the best suggestion for a peaceful separation?
Things with My bf are bad the alcoholic / obsession add some danger , looking to split peacefully some how.... he lives with me in NY & is original from CT covid hindrances not making a split easier, he’s also afraid of going bad to CT due to a warrant from when we had a domestic altercation there and he skipped the court date...
I also need to keep anything I do hidden

[Miss Athena]

Hello WhiteEagle,

I'm sorry to hear you are going through such difficulty.

I've moved your post to the correct topic on spells for peaceful separation, as this is the focus of your question. Read through the many posts here and you will find advice and ideas that can help you. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps, and I wish you the very best of luck!

[CuriouslilThing]

Hey everyone! It’s been awhile since I’ve posted something. I think this is the best section for my question but if I’m wrong, I apologize.. I was wondering if you think this would work but here’s the background first:

My brother & his crazy wife... It’s a toxic marriage and 8 months ago my brother finally said that he wants a divorce. She went crazy & went so far as to claiming she would kill herself if he left her. He’s been living with me the past few months but last week said that they had spoken about dating again since they are officially divorced. She is poison to him. He becomes an empty shell & pulls away from his family. He complains that she has no hobbies and always wants to be at his side he got so tired of it that he stopped going out with friends or gaming because she would be right there. She’s gone so far as to come over and make sure he was here. We went on Family vacation & had a “girls day” and the boys were hanging out. She found out the boys went to the beach & faked that she was sick! We went back home and she was suddenly feeling better and once again, attached to his hip!

I need her gone. I want her out of his life. She is not good for my brother. Hell, he even admitted to me that he felt obligated to marry her because they’ve been together so long. She suddenly wants to have a baby when last summer she was against it because of what it would do to her body & I KNOW the only reason she wants to get pregnant is because she knows she can control him if there is a baby involved.

I was thinking.. The moving spell, I have break up oil so I would use the oil on both candles but can I move his towards a pink or red candle for an “unknown lover” anointed with love me oil?

Would a vinegar jar with both their names be alright too as added measure? Some glass, rusty nails, lemon juice, vinegar, and whatever else you suggest with a petition saying something like souring their relationship? Would that harm my brother in any way?

Thanks for letting me rant! Any help is much appreciated have a great day!!

[Miss Athena]

Hello CuriouslilThing,

If you want them to both come to an agreement to break up, you are in the right topic. Please read through the posts here for spell ideas that you can work towards that goal.

If you want detailed spell advice from a professional, you would need to book a magical coaching session with a member of AIRR. You can find them here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[Caster86]

Hello there so I made a big error in judgment and could really use some advise on how to correct the mess I've made.

So back story I am a member of the LGBT+ community and met my current partner of 2 years in the workplace and immediately was smitten. I foolishly ignored the rumors and warning of coworkers about this guy and started a relationship. Everything seemed fine at first then the lies and cheating started. So I got the bright idea that I will do some works on him so I did the honey jar spell and a remain faithful spell and it seemed to work for a time. But soon he went right back to his old ways and i stopped working spells on him.

After some time it became obvious that he was a hard-core narcissist he has become controlling, manipulative, verbally and emotionally abusive. I attempted to break things off and it did not go well he threatened to kill himself and from there after he got me to come back he began to make threats to my life and the lives of my friends and family.

We live together so it's been pretty scary being under the same roof as someone like this and so I started hot footing him and a few banishing candles but no luck so far. I can't help but think the love spells I did are blocking the banishing spells. Any advice or suggestions I could do to influence him to get out of my house peacefully? Possibly undoing the love spells I did in the past?

[Terra Rising]

Caster86,

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. First off, if this relationship is abusive and he is threatening you, you need to report it ASAP. Spells will only get you so far. Contact a shelter and form a plan to escape.

Second, unstable individuals can be difficult to work on. Hot Foot in this type of relationship could fire up his temper (it contains hot pepper) and make it worse. I would lay off any work that is "hot" and work toward freezing him out. You can read about freezer spells here: https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html. They aren't really break up spells but you can freeze his emotions toward you and he will possibly move on.

Finally, I moved your post to this thread on peaceful breakups. Please do not create new posts in the forum. Instead, search for the subject and find the correct thread. Please give this thread a good read for more ideas on how to separate. There are 12 pages of advice and spell work. If you have any questions afterwards, please post them here.

Good luck and stay safe!

[Stillwater]

I have some complicated situations going on and really, I want to know what would resolve much without the arguing, and the massive and horrid fights .

So what I need is really for her to fall out of love with me (after a 30 year good marriage) and leave, with us splitting as friends.

If anyone has any real help or ideas in this genre of spells, please let me know.

I do realize I am opening myself up to critique. I understand. I've thought through this and all its scenarios and this would be the best route, if it is at all possible.

Thanks ahead,

Stillwater

[JayDee]

Stillwater ,

The product that you are interested in is called Separation, it causes a break up without the harsh fighting. A moving candle can be utilized to move you both apart.

Separation: https://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
Break up product line, illustrates the moving candle spell, substitute with Separation: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
Destroying Relationships has a section on peaceful break ups: https://www.luckymojo.com/destroyingrelationships.html
The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic, outlines the moving candle spell: https://www.luckymojo.com/theartofhoodo ... magic.html

JayDee

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, ''

As you can see you are not the first person to ask about spells for a peaceful, financially equitable, and mutually agreed upon divorce. In fact, yours isthe 681st post on this topic. So don't worry about being the sucbject of criticism here!

In my opinion, the spiritual supplies most allied with your plan are as follows:

Clarity Spiritual Supplies:
http://luckymoj.com/clarity.html

Separation Spiritual Supplies:
http://luckymoj.com/separation.html

Peaceful Home Spiritual Supplies:
http://luckymoj.com/peacefulhome.html

Others may have additional suggestions.

These products come in the form of oils, sachet powders, incense, bath crystals, and vigil light candles. They may be blended or applied individually, for instance to a triangle of candles.

You did not say whether you are familiar with the use of such goods or have ever cast spells before, so i will not give a specific spell here. I suggest that you read about the products on their respective web pages, given above, and then come back and ask for a spell to be designed for you if you cannot work one out yourself

Also, i recommend that you skim back through this thread, starting on page 1 (of 12) and do some research among the forum members and team moderators who have worked with other clients and customers before on similar issues.

Good luck!

[HoldMeOpenTheDoor]

Hello- just made my introduction. This is my first question to the forum.
My sweetheart and I broke up 5 months ago. They moved on very quickly, a reading from Deacon Millet suggests they had already connected with this new person before we split. Honestly, the relationship was very deep and loving but fraught with incompatibility- especially that this person prefers polyamory and I do not.
I kept my distance most of this time, but we are seeing each other out socially a lot recently because we are close personal friends with all the same people. It’s been very difficult for me to see them so happy when I am still truly broken-hearted. And it’s impacting my other relationships because, as people do, they are all being a lot more friendly to my ex, who is happy, and their new date than to me, who is struggling.
The reason why I put this question under this topic is that what I think I need is to clear my feelings away so that I can maintain my presence in my community. I feel a lot of frustration towards my ex, but through my prayers and personal work, I understand that our relationship brought up a T O N of unhealed trauma for me and it’s hard to separate our breakup from that and about half a dozen other really hard changes that happened at the same time as the breakup.
I also was a collaborator with my ex and would very much like to resume our work together at some point, if possible. I understand deep down that our relationship is over but my heart still wants the good times back. I am not insistent that we be friends- but please help me with suggestions to help me let go and feel peaceful about seeing them. I can’t avoid it anymore without missing out on every social event.
We fell in love after I made a hummingbird spell for an unspecified person. As hummingbird can be worked for known persons, I ended up falling in love with a friend and now it feels like a social disaster for me.
Deacon Millet suggested Road Opener work to me. Would it be a good approach to cut and clear, then open the road to a new friendship with them?
I also just got some of my hummingbird items back from their house, where we had been tending that altar together. I should have known this was all going south when they stopped participating in that. I did not do any love magic towards this person directly at any point, we actually discussed that and decided mutually not to do that. We did a lot of love magic together, for the relationship, and shared a spiritual connection.
At this point, I feel afraid to cut and clear, but Deacon Millet advised that this is not a reconciliation case, atleast not right now.
Please advise, and thanks for your compassion.

[JayDee]

HoldMeOpenTheDoor,

I am very sorry about your situation, an ending relationship can be very hard, more so if friends are involved. Deacon Millet gave you wonderful advice and I would take his recommendations seriously. Cut and clear is not a reconciliation spell, it is actually what you are asking for, " how to get over the feelings and to maintain a friendship". Cut and Clear will remove the past hurts, it will cut the emotional ties, and open you up to drawing in the positive attributes of that person in a new lover. Another highly suggested bath is a Black Walnut bath which also clears emotional hardships. Road Opener after a Cut and Clear is a great second step, as the Cut and Clear removes the connections and the Road Opener opens the paths to a love or friendships. I would suggest an Attraction mojo write out what you want to draw to you and carry this with you after doing the Cut and Clear and Road Opener.

Cut and Clear: https://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
Road Opener: https://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
Black Walnut: https://www.herbmagic.com/walnut-whole.html
Attraction Mojo: https://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-1x-attraction.html

JayDee

[HoldMeOpenTheDoor]

Thanks, Jaydee.
I have read the black walnut and cut & clear pages you linked in your reply, and “you’re dead to me” is really not the sentiment here (re: black walnut) nor is never seeing this person or saying their name again.
The cut & clear lemon spell has similar wording “hope I never see (name) no more. So even though the cut & clear products have a slightly different description, I just don’t get the clear (so to speak) sense that this is what I’m after. If possible, could you share or direct me to a story about using cut & clear or walnuts to just remove longing and emotional hurt about failed love and disengage from sharing my personal energy in a way that is outside my control anymore, allowing me to have a new vision for my future. Someone want to talk about cut and clear actually helping them have a new and better kind of relationship to the same person? Otherwise I’ll be out not only a soulmate but our shared community and work.
Thanks in advance for clarifying.
And yes, Deacon Millet did excellent work- but at the time of our reading I was not as distraught, so cut and clear or anything like it never came up.
With respect.

[JayDee]

HoldMeOpenTheDoor ,

Both products gave you an example of use, as with all products they can be used in many manners. The petition you create is the outcome you will achieve, if the desire is to get over past hurts and longing for their love, then that is what you ask in the petition. The desire from the product will vary depending on the person. Some people need the person out of their life for good, others who have children may need to cut the feelings but maintain a positive relationship. If you read the Cut and Clear page you will see a spell, which is the same as the spell kit, that uses a mojo, bath, candles to remove the bad/hurt and then to draw in the positive. The Cut is the emotional ties, the clear is removing these from your life, assuming you no longer want to feel emotional hurt over him so you cut and remove those feelings.

Lemon grass- product used to cut through hardships, hard feelings: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-lemon-gra ... ntial.html
Block Buster- to break though emotional, physical, mental blocks: https://www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
Road Opener- to remove blocked conditions and open the paths in life: https://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
Tranquility- to bring peace to the mind and a sense of calmness: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html
Clarity- to see an issue clearly or help others see clearly, goes well with tranquility: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

I can give you a personal story, several years ago after a nasty break up with an ex who cheated on me, we went back and forth for several months, despite them sleeping around and dating others. We hung out in the same communities, bars, friends. I used the Lucky Mojo Cut and Clear Spell kit to get over those feelings that were preventing me from letting go and moving on with my life. We are still friends, well over 13 years.

Petition is very important in work, it is what directs the spirit to produce the desired outcome, along with the spirits of the natural items you are working with.

JayDee

[HoldMeOpenTheDoor]

Thanks for your thorough and thoughtful reply, JayDee!
Saw a nice rainbow right after I read it, heading out to harvest some lemongrass while I think about how to go about the work now that I understand better. Personal stories of results definitely help.