Spells to Keep the Family Together or Return Family Members

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 7:38 pm

Elihue, I was referring to professional rootworkers, like the gifted and ethical folks at AIRR --

www.readersandrootworkers.org

Now, regarding your son's self-defense against healing forces -- because change is scary, I know -- you might dress those candles with Tranquility, Blessing, Healing, or St. Dymphna oils or powders, or a blend of some or all of them. Add a few pieces of bay leaf, too; they bring wisdom, favor -- and invisibility.

I don't know of any traditional offering of payment to St. Dymphna, like St. Expedite's pound cake or "Thank you St. Jude" notices in classified ads. I'm sure she would accedpt a donation to a mental health charity in her name.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 10:28 pm

Elihue, you may want to look at the Cast Off Evil products as well. The evil in this case would be a spirit of anger. I know different things work better for different people, but I can say that a Cast Off Evil Vigil Candle for my child, worked wonders several years ago. Also, prayer is very powerful. Get lots of people praying for your boy. Best wishes.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Apr 29, 2014 9:57 pm

Hello, Elihue,
MoonBreath is right.
Get free prayers from the Crystal Silence League: http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html
Take care

Elihue · Unread post by **Elihue** » Wed Apr 30, 2014 12:51 am

Thank you all so much...I intend to take all your advice and work toward the good in this situation. Thanks for your caring help and advice.
Elihue

Bree Chetwood · Unread post by **Bree Chetwood** » Wed May 28, 2014 9:21 pm

I need help to reconcile with my oldest daughter. She and I have been at odds for about four years. She has moved to another state so I have no access to personal concerns. This will be a difficult work, I have tried many things (sweetener spells, peaceful home, oil over troubled waters) and we are not any closer to resolving our issues. She was a difficult child, born during a fierce storm, Scorpio ascendant and Scorpio moon. She is a mean as a snake and will not bend. I know that she does want things to be better, as she as said so to her sister. But whenever I attempt dialogue, she is just mean and nasty. I need help as to how best to get her to open her mind, and calm her nasty and vengeful disposition. Yes, this is important to me as I am her mother and wish for a better situation. But this is a really mean Scorpionic woman. She simply cannot resist hurting others with her words and actions. Sadly so. Help!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jun 01, 2014 9:43 pm

Hello, Bree Chetwood,
I am so very sorry.
Have you tried the Cast off Evil Spell kit? I've seen it work for a lot of similar situations: www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html
And I would highly recommend that you obtain a reading on tis. And either receive magical coaching and/or assistance in spell work.
Maybe the readers can find out what else is going on that forces her to behave this way. Maybe factors that you are unaware of?
http://readersandrootworkers.org
or
www.hoodoopsychics.com
ALSO...I would have the Crystal silence League Pray for tis situation (it's free). They have worked wonders for thousands of people. www.crystalsilenceleague.org
I'm wishing you the very best on this.

plex wendy · Unread post by **plex wendy** » Sat Dec 27, 2014 2:38 am

we are from North Africa, but my kids and i have been born and grew up in Europe (France and UK). i have a house back home by the sea, and some family (mother , brothers..) and we used to spend few weeks on holliday each year, but now my older son doesn't want to go anymore and decided that he dislike this country, i want him to come with me and enjoy himself as usual, i want him to keep the bond with his home country, he doesn't have to live there!! do you have any suggestion????

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Dec 28, 2014 10:41 pm

Hello, desiree,

I have moved your post to a subforum that has many spell ideas for you.

Although your children are not estranged from you, they are from the roots.

Please take a look at the 2 pages here for spell ideas. After reading them, if you have any more question, please do not hesitate to ask

Wishing you the best

Take care

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Sat Sep 03, 2016 6:47 pm

Hi, I am new to this site and new to rootwork in general. This question is about my ex relocating. Being that we have children together, I would like him to stay at the Army base here where we live but he has orders to go elsewhere in a few months. What type of work could I do to keep him here without getting hurt? Thanks so much for your help and if I posted in the wrong area, I apologize in advance.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Sep 04, 2016 8:30 pm

Hi StillLearning,

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance, and assuming you wish to do so, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

This is a tough situation, since the decision to deploy to a new location is not your ex's to make, but the decision of his higher officers. In this case, you can work with Stay At Home products, to help keep him where he is. I would surround a photo of the current base and his picture with candles dressed in Stay At Home oil, as well as ring the entire work with a circle of Stay At Home sachet powder. Burn those candles down, take any wax remains and bury them in your back yard. You can find those products here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

Additionally, if you know the name of his CO or whoever is calling the shots on his deployment, work Influence products on him/her to help affect the right decision. You can do a skull candle on that person, or else dress a candle in Influence oil and burn it on top of a photo of that person and the current army base. Take any wax remains and throw them at a crossroads.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-influence.html

For any of these works, I would add St Expedite to the process, as it sounds like time is of the essence. St Expedite can add speed to any results, so petition him for help in your situation.

http://www.luckymojo.com/saintexpedite.html

I hope this helps. Good luck!

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Fri Oct 14, 2016 9:04 am

Thank you so much for your reply! It absolutely does help. I didn't know I had a new message. Also, we are pm on better terms than before as of now. My next question would be is there any work that can be done to influence him to come on a family trip with me next month with the lids?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 15, 2016 7:37 pm

Hello, StillLearning,

Could you please explain what you mean by you didn't know that you had a new message? What does this mean?

I don't have the time to look for all of your posts so, if you could just "recap" about the message portion as I don't understand

Here is an influence skull candle spell that is excellent: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

I hope this helps

take care

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Sat Oct 15, 2016 8:16 pm

I'm sorry. I was trying to say I didn't know there was a response to my question. I'm about to check out the link that you sent. It's a full moon tomorrow so I wonder if I should wait until the next phase to start the work as I only have about a month to work with. Again thanks for your patience.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 15, 2016 8:54 pm

Hello, StillLearning

OK. Thanks for the clarification!

Some rootworkers work with the moon phases and others don't.

So, that is entirely up to you.

Wishing you the very best with this

Take care

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Sat Oct 15, 2016 9:41 pm

Thank you! I will update you on my progress and outcome. I will remain positive that I will be successful in my work. I will let you all know what I did exactly so that it may help someone.

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Sun Oct 16, 2016 12:01 pm

So today I started the process of clearing away all negative things. I set up my altar with stones, my bible as well as a black candle and white candle each in separate holders. Well, the white candle's flame was alot larger than the black and also burned a little quicker than the black one. Is there any significance to this?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Oct 16, 2016 7:32 pm

Hello, StillLearning

I am sorry but we do not do any type of candle interpretation on the forum.

INSTEAD, Please check this webpage that Miss cat wrote

www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

Also, in the future, please post questions in the correct subforum and thread

Wishing you the best

take care

StillLearning · Unread post by **StillLearning** » Tue Oct 18, 2016 8:06 pm

Will do. Thank you!

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Fri Feb 10, 2017 3:08 pm

Hello everyone,
I am hoping am posting this in the right forum.
Forgive and redirect me if am not.
I need help with a new situation am facing.
My "husband" who visits my kids and I every 2 years, want our daughter to pay him a visit back in Africa. This worries me, since he called me about this, I have not had a good sleep.
My worry is security, with kidnapping and things happening around the world, and our daughter truly does not want to go and has been begging me to PLEASE not let this happen. She is 12 and I don't want her to go either. And mostly other than the financial support we ( him, kids and I ) has no kind of relationship with him, his visit this past Xmas was super awkward. What can I do, will like to start before summer holiday. At least I have time now.
Thank you for the advice and time reading this.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Feb 11, 2017 11:01 am

Hello neonwaosy,

I'm sorry this situation is causing you so much stress. What is your custody arrangement like? Can he really just waltz in and demand that your daughter visit him on another continent? If he doesn't have the legal standing to do that, have you tried flat-out refusing his request and telling him your daughter doesn't wish to go? Do you have a mediator or a lawyer you could ask about this?

Magically, you could do a skull candle spell on your husband by dressing a white skull candle with Influence and Commanding oils and burn it while he sleeps. As you burn it (you can burn it in sections over several days), speak to the candle like you're speaking to him, and tell him that he has no power over the children and has no power to make demands, and that he will leave you alone, or whatever you want to say.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

You can also burn a Stay At Home vigil candle, either at home or on the MISC altar, and include with it a petition paper on which you've written your daughter's name and a petition that she will not be parted from you against her will. Stay At Home is often used to keep a lover at home, but it can be used in other situations too:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

Good luck to you.

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Sat Feb 11, 2017 2:04 pm

Sister Jean,
I thank you for the advice and instructions.
The thing is, we are not divorced...........yet, and he won't let me go either, knowing that there is no relationship between us anymore except the kids. And where am from, the men call the shots. I have done things that will actually make the next man run from me but he won't.
With that being said, I will sure follow your instructions. Please what are appropriate herbs to use, I do have the influence and commanding oil.
Thank you again.
Blessings.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Feb 11, 2017 10:35 pm

Hello, neonwaosy ,

Have you tried any spells to make him fall in love with another woman? Or is he allowed to be married to more than one woman?

anyway, here is a list of herbs and you can easily find the condition and the corresponding herbs:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

I pray that things work out for you

Take care

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Sun Feb 12, 2017 5:34 pm

Ms Aida,
Thank you. I actually never thought about it. Just don't want to loose the financial support part. Knowing he is not here,there is nothing binding him to fulfill that obligation. He can choose not to support us any more. But it's actually a good idea .....mmmmmhhh I like.
Thank you

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Sun Feb 12, 2017 6:54 pm

Ms Aida, please what are the spells/herbs. Just opened the link but there are a lot. Could you please help point a few that are more appropriate?
Thank you

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 13, 2017 9:46 pm

Hello, neonwaosy ,

Try the link again.

I had the link wrong and just fixed it

Sorry about that

It's very easy to read now

Take care

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Tue Feb 14, 2017 12:17 pm

Ms Aida,
Thank you. The link has all herbs listed, but I was asking which ones to help make him fall in love with another woman.
Thank you again

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Feb 15, 2017 9:14 pm

Hello, neonwaosy

You may just want to buy this:

www.herb-magic.com/love-herbs-mixture.html

Take care

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Thu Feb 16, 2017 6:09 pm

Sorry for the inconvenience Ms Aida, and thank you once more

Triva · Unread post by **Triva** » Tue Feb 21, 2017 5:42 am

I have a 26 year old son who is living on the Street because he hate his step father but I'm needing him to come home so he has a roof over his head can anyone help me with a spell to get him back home and off the Street

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Feb 21, 2017 9:13 pm

Hello, Triva,

Welcome to the forum

I am so sorry that your son is on the streets. Yu must be your of your mind with worry.

I have merged your thread to the correct thread (and ask that you please do not start new topics). Thee are 2 pages of spell ideas here.

Also, I did not see anybody recommended Return to Me. This spell is not only for lovers but, to return someone you love to you.

So, in addition to the advice on thee 2 pages, consider this also

www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

I pray that he returns hoe to you safely

Wishing you the very best

Take care

JoKerr4311 · Unread post by **JoKerr4311** » Wed Apr 10, 2019 4:06 am

Good Morning,

I am new to this forum and conjure in general. I have been studying, picked up a couple of books, and have been enjoying the journey thus far. I have an issue that might be arising and would like to know if the works in this thread work in my case.

I have a 7 year old son who lives with his mother not to far away. We are on good terms for the most part and I have always been a part of my son's life. We have never gone to court for custody but have lived by our own arrangements for the last six years. I also keep records of all my child support payments in case we ever had to go to court.

Recently, I've had the suspicion that my son's mother and her fiance are planning on moving to California (we live in the NY area). Her fiance has work out there and frequently travels for business. They all went recently taking their other two kids but leaving my son here. She has been avoiding any answers when I casually ask her why they all went to Cali. I suspect they went to look at houses.

I will be speaking to an attorney to see what legal recourse I might have if she surprises me with the news that they are moving but I wanted to find a working that would make sure my son stays here. Whether that means that they all stay here or, if they move, that my son stays here with me. I am not trying to cross them unless they turn nasty about it but if they decide to move, I won't be a part of that decision. What can I do to ensure my son stays here with me?

Thanks in advance for your help.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Apr 10, 2019 6:41 pm

Hello JoKerr4311,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are happy to have you here.

I'm sorry you are facing this potential situation. You are in the correct topic and if you scroll up a bit, you will find spell advice I gave another poster using Stay At Home products. That advice would also work in your situation. You can read through the other posts here for more advice and ideas.

I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck!

Prettygirl19931 · Unread post by **Prettygirl19931** » Fri Oct 11, 2019 8:54 pm

I have a daughter that I want to come back home . Her grandma use deception to get my baby. She initially told me that she wanted to take care my daughter until I got myself together. So I signed some temporary papers so she can take of her. She then says she wants to adopt my daughter. My rights weren't terminated or anything. But she adopted my baby anyways. When I want to talk to my baby on the phone its always ill call you when I get home or I'll call you when i get in the car and she never does. She told people that I'm a unfit mom and I neglect my daughter. That's not true I be wanting to take my daughter with me everywhere but she says no. She says I neglect my child by leaving my daughter for three days with her and check up on her a couple times. I never neglected my child or was unfit mother. I always have always took care of my daughter.She knew if she said I was a unfit neglectful mother she could get my baby. I need some help what should I do.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Oct 12, 2019 3:56 pm

Hello Prettygirl19931,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. I'm sorry to hear you're going through such difficulty.

If your daughter is an adult, you can read through the posts in this topic for advice and ideas to heal your estrangement.

If your daughter is still a child and you want to regain custody of her, you can read through the posts in the following topic for spell advice:
spells-for-child-custody-child-support- ... 21932.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Mainme · Unread post by **Mainme** » Thu Nov 28, 2019 3:58 pm

My 23 year old Adult Daughter has turned her entire life upside down and my husband and I do not fully understand why. She broke up with her Boyfriend of 3 years, dropped out of Law School without telling us, started a full time job and wants to live with a guy she met 3 months ago, who we know nothing about and who moved here a year ago.

She went from a fun loving, school loving, very affectionate and sharing her day daughter to a very secretive, borderline disrespectful and complete opposite person. This all started or came about when she met her new boyfriend and we don’t know where this all came from. It’s so strange.

She now wants to move out and pay a ridiculous amount for rent with her boyfriend. He refuses to get to know us and this is just not how things are done here.

It really feels like someone has cast a jealousy spell on her or this new boyfriend has placed a love spell on her. My husband and I are so worried. We need to keep her in the house and break up this relationship or at least have it go slow. To be fare, I don’t know enough of this new guy to say anything bad but I do know that something is happening to my daughter. She moves like she is in a trance. Please Please Please help us.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Fri Nov 29, 2019 11:33 am

Mainme,

I would highly recommend working with Cast Off Evil products. It is for bad habits but also bad people and their influence. If she is still living at home for the moment, you could launder her bedding with a few sprinkles of the bath salts. Place a drop of the oil in her shoes before she goes out to meet up with the new boyfriend. It is used to cast off all evil influences. You may also want to work with Clarity oil as well and blend the two so she can see the situation clearly. A Cast Off Evil vigil candle burnt at the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church is also a good option and it will come with a brief burn report.

If is a very fine line you will have to walk, holding back some pressure that could driver her farther away and at the same time, helping her realize this boyfriend is no good or at least keeping her from school. You may also want to consider working with a professional rootworker.

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kez82 · Unread post by **kez82** » Sun Aug 16, 2020 2:27 am

Hi
Looking for a spell for my daughter who run away to my brother and sister in law 3 yrs ago and I don't know what's holding her back to come back home? if it's her or the sister in law.
i like to do a spell for her to return home please,
what do i need and how long would i see results
Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Aug 16, 2020 3:15 pm

Hello kez82,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. We're glad you have found us.

I have to ask that you not create random new topics like this. Please search the forum for a place to post, as you will find we have nearly every topic already covered. Also please do not post the same question in multiple topic areas as this is against forum rules and creates more work for the moderators.

I have moved your post to the topic on returning estranged children to your home. Whether or not your daughter is an adult, you can use the spell ideas in this topic to your advantage. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

StarStruck · Unread post by **StarStruck** » Tue Sep 15, 2020 8:40 am

I hope this fits in this topic. I have an out of state parent that I would like to get to move closer to me. He is recently divorced from my stepmother and is not near any friends or family at his current location. He says he is happy to stay where he is, but he has a lot of land (that requires a lot of work and manual labor to maintain) and he is getting to the age where that won’t be feasible for much longer. Any suggestions to help influence him to move closer to me? There is a grandbaby on the way, and I would like for him to be able to be here as it grows up.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Sep 19, 2020 9:43 pm

Hello StarStruck,

You can adapt the spells listed in this topic and rather than petition for one to not move away, you can petition your parent to move closer to you. It requires a bit of reverse engineering but it's doable.

You can also search through the posts in the sub-thread on influencing someone's opinion to do your bidding. You can find that topic here:
influence-and-change-someone-s-mind-or- ... 19744.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Mom04 · Unread post by **Mom04** » Tue Sep 22, 2020 7:45 pm

I have a child that was on the road to success in the arts. She suffered a heartbreak and became isolated with low self esteem. I spoke with my reader about this and she advised me to allow her to visit her father out of town because she would gain self confidence and this would be good for her low self esteem. She was right about the self confidence boost, however, I had no clue my child would turn on me in the process because she met another boy who her father adores in order to stay at her dad’s near the boy. This boy suffers from depression and is over the top emotional. I want him out of her mind. Her father has used this relationship to try and gain custody of her by her own choice. I grabbed her for what she thought was going to be a weekend visit, and as a result, all her belongings were left behind at dad’s.

Now she has no clothes and no desire to continue in the arts all because she wants to get back to her dad’s house to get to her clothes and the boy.

What spiritual work can I do to make the boy go away, her father to be compelled to give us her belongs, and get her passion back for the arts? I desperately need help. It took us years for her to get into a school that many children dream of getting in and now her father has convinced her she doesn’t want to do this because he doesn’t want to pay for it if she live with him. And all she can think about is the boy or losing him. I need her head back into the arts for her future sakes.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Sep 28, 2020 10:50 am

Hello Mom04,

I'm sorry to hear you are going through this.

You have asked several questions in your post, so I will direct you to the appropriate areas of the forum for assistance.

To help get rid of this boy, you can read through the posts in the following topic on driving away a bad person from a loved one:
drive-bad-person-away-from-lover-spouse ... 11513.html

To help influence your ex into returning her belongings to you, please read through this topic on spells to overcome resistance or change someone's mind:
spells-to-control-or-regain-control-ove ... 18093.html

To help your daughter return to her study of the arts, read through the following posts on helping children succeed in school and in life:
spell-casting-to-help-a-child-to-succee ... 21540.html

Finally, the topic you are posting in here is a good one for you to read, as you can find ideas to help you keep her in your home.

I hope this helps. Good luck to you and your daughter.

Mom04 · Unread post by **Mom04** » Tue Sep 29, 2020 4:53 am

Thank you so much. I will read though all this now. Thank you.

OJF1959 · Unread post by **OJF1959** » Mon Nov 16, 2020 4:23 pm

Hello,
Would this be the right forum to ask a question about bringing my son and grandson back home because his wife has created such a rift and we have not seen, heard or talked to him in 5 years and we miss him alot, appreciate your help and advise thanks

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Nov 16, 2020 5:06 pm

Hello OJF1959,

I have moved your post to the correct topic on spells to return estranged adult children, so read through the posts here and you will find advice and ideas than can help you. You can ask any additional questions you have here.

Good luck.

missraven46 · Unread post by **missraven46** » Thu Dec 31, 2020 1:31 pm

Hello,

my son is 18 & currently lives with his dad. We have been estranged for the past 3 months & have not been getting along for at least 3 years, He left my house back last September & we did not reconcile until about 3 weeks ago. His dad is a narcissist and a very negative influence on him.

During our separation, I did a honey jar & prayed over it for several months, and it worked, so when it did, I disposed of the contents.
I would like my child to come back home to live with me & stay, but he is reluctant.

I was wondering if there would be a spell I could do, with natural ingredients like herbs and spices, that would --

1) Alienate my son from his dad. I do not have access to any of his dad's personal concerns, only a picture.

2) Attract my son back to me, so we can mend our very stained relationship. I have pictures, hair, personal items such as a pair of sunglasses with his energy on it, clothes, bed sheets, shoes, toothbrush.

Thanks.

tonytony · Unread post by **tonytony** » Thu Nov 11, 2021 10:55 pm

Hello everyone

I have a question regarding how to tackle a certain issue. Nine months ago my wife and I separated after 20 years. We have 4 children together. I had a verbal fight with my teenage daughter about her association with older people in their mid late 20’s. She threatened to run away and I said I would go obviously looking for her.

Next thing I know social services shows up and takes her and essentially made my wife go with them to be with the kids in their care or both lose them.

I actually found out from a mutual friend that my sister in law openly said that she and her parents had always tried to separate us. They are members of a very large and well known religious organization that disfellowships members, and are especially against those who are not members, like myself. They had kicked my wife out over 22 years ago because she was with me. Her family is several generations born.

Back in January/February this past year just before this happened, I felt a very dark presence behind me which startled me. I knew something was coming, but I would only know till March what that was.

I feel that all roads seem closed to me and a curse/prayers were used against me. I’d like to reconcile with my wife and my daughter and we could be a family again, but it’s like they put barriers between us.

Also, I’d certainly like to curse those who worked against me. I’ve done two workings against her father, but when I do, something happens during rituals like things falling over, or alarms go off randomly to distract the ritual.

Any recommendations on how to proceed with reconciliation, and stopping my in-laws from further interruptions and meddling?

Thank you

Unread post by **deaconmillett** » Mon Nov 15, 2021 10:47 am

Proceed with Reconciliation while doing a Fiery Wall of Protection spell on yourself (or yourself and family).

My heart aches at your situation.

I would put off cursing work until you first get the results you're looking for. Revenge is a dish best served cold...

When ready, this cursing thread is here to help: https://forum.luckymojo.com/spells-for- ... 27270.html

tonytony · Unread post by **tonytony** » Mon Nov 15, 2021 8:21 pm

Thank you deaconmillett. You’re right about serving revenge cold!

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Sun May 26, 2024 3:00 am

My (over 18) son and I moved in with his father a few months ago in what was supposed to be a temporary situation due to a personal issue. Things have been good most of the time. But due to mistakes, misunderstandings and some stressful medical issues, we've hit a rough patch.

I won't go into what occurred, but our son is fed up with his father and as of right now, he doesn't want anything to do with him after we move out. The way he behaves during the next few months will determine if he has a relationship with him or not. I need to fix things between our son and his father before it reaches a point of no return.

Things are also currently fractured between his father and I after he blew up on me last night (he's never been like this before - he took something unrelated out on me). My readings said we will get together in a new relationship, but that it might not be until we move out (crazy, I know). However due to the personal issue, we have literally no choice but to be here for the next 2-3 months.

I need all past hurts to be resolved between our son and his father as well as his father and me, STAT. I have a honey jar currently for his father and I, but the thoughts on opening them to add things differ. I will probably make a new one, but should I put all three of us in it? Or do two new ones, one for our son and his father and the second for this father and me? I am going to order some balm of gilead and add some cubeb berries and deer's tongue to assist things.

I saw Reconciliation oil was mentioned here. What color candle (besides white) should I use?

Thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun May 26, 2024 4:39 pm

MrsSchaeffer2020,

The reconciliation color candle is often pink, white can be substituted. Red is less likely due to red also being able to represent anger. Other colors can be used depending on the work and purpose, such as a light blue candle with Tranquility oil and Reconciliation oil, or Peaceful Home.

I personally would do a honey jar on the whole family in one jar rather than 3 different ones.

JayDee

MrsSchaeffer · Unread post by **MrsSchaeffer** » Sun May 26, 2024 7:57 pm

Hi JayDee. Thank you for the response.

I am putting the present honey jar aside until things are better. I wasn't sure if the new honey jar should have all three of us in it or not.

I presently light Tranquility and/or Peaceful Home on a tealight every night before he comes home. It's done well. Until I read this thread, I would have never thought to use Reconciliation oil (which I have on hand) in this case, so I appreciate that you mentioned it. I have pink tealights, so I will use those on top.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue May 28, 2024 12:59 pm

MrsSchaeffer2020 ,

Yes, put everyone into the one "whole family" honey jar.