Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

Unread post by **Wendy Rose** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 4:46 am

Well. that's the problem. She's smothering the whole situation. I think they should not be more together then they already are. Her attention has to go another way and she has to take some form of distance without any following nasty situations. She has to learn that she is not a deciding factor in this young family so I cant's put them in a jar together. But thanks for the idea

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 7:44 am

When parents interfere with a marriage, I like to suggest Adam and Eve products, along with this Bible verse:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:24

Unread post by **Wendy Rose** » Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:12 am

Ah, the text says it all, thanks. I will do the work on my brother in law, thanks

Precise2 · Unread post by **Precise2** » Mon Aug 27, 2012 1:15 pm

I Need my husband to see his brother for who he really is. I want to separate my husband from a guy friend that he constantly get into verbal fights almost physical. His brother encourages this behavior because his brother or his friend has nothing to lose. My husband brother lies to him constantly and always taking anything he can from him. He uses him to social party with but never returns the favor. He uses him for clothes, food, money and just to burn his gas. It been going on for so long I want my husband to finally see him for who he is. His Mother, Lil Brother, and the brother im speaking of uses him for alcohol, marijuana, and cigarettes. They ala are on fix to no income so they know his paydays, off days down to a science. This has been going on for so long i'm tired of it! It has to stop! They call him on his off days just to party and get drunk. It don't matter what day of the week it is. After their done they don't call until has some money again. They never call him or buy him nothing! We go out there on his off days at least a couple of days during the week.

What can I do to separate him from his brother and this one friend that don't respect him, our marriage, and our family. What can I do to stop him from constantly going out to his family house that just sit and wait on a once month check, or when he get paid so he can get them high and drunk! This is a big part of a reason we gets into because he don't see his family is just uses him. But the people that just want to be around him for him he don't want to be around them just the losers! So please help! Its alot more to the story but not getting into that at this moment!

So I need to Separate him from his brother and I want him to see his family( mother, Lil brother & Lil sister) for who they really are. I want to break him up from this one friend ASAP.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Aug 27, 2012 4:07 pm

You're not going to break blood ties between family members, or not very easily. That's a family bond and very hard to break or damage. I would suggest doing some Clarity and King Solomon's Wisdom work on your husband so he can see the situation clearly and have good judgement.

As for his family, I'd suggest doing sweetening work on them; if they're sweeter to you, they will treat both you and your husband better. Put their names or pictures in a jar with powdered sugar, Licorice, Calamus, Poppy Seed (all of which will dominate and control them) and shake it up daily and light purple candles on it to command them to respect you and your marriage.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Aug 27, 2012 4:54 pm

Clarity (http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-clarity.html)
King Solomon (http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-king-solomon-wisdom.html)

Precise2 · Unread post by **Precise2** » Tue Aug 28, 2012 4:45 am

Thanks I just want my husband to see them for who they are and what they are doing to him.

honeybadger · Unread post by **honeybadger** » Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:31 pm

Hi all!

I've been having a lot of fun, and getting quite an education going through the forums - so thanks to all for that! I have a question about how to gain perspective on a family issue. This situation goes back years. My sister has been in a state of chaos for most of her adult life. I blame some of it on a bad marriage, but since she's got divorced in 2006, her life has continued to be full of drama (some strange and some self-made).

It has been one thing after another - lost jobs, home foreclosed, bad relationships, etc. The one constant is that she is horrible with money. I have never seen someone so bad with money. Anytime she has money, it seems to pour through her hands until its gone. She will not set a budget, and continually lets bills go unpaid. The hardest thing is that she has two children in the middle of this cycle of drama. The other thing that is extremely frustrating is that she doesn't seem to learn. I know she's not a bad person, but her intentions never seem to match the reality of the situation. It almost seems like willful blindness.

My question/problem is this: My parents, who are not in great health, are thinking of buying a much bigger home so she can move with them and they can help her long-term. I'm torn over this. I know it would be great for the kids. They love my parents and would greatly benefit from their grandparent's influence. I do wonder how good this will be for her. Right now, everyone involved is giving this some much needed thought.

I meditated over this long and hard last night. I made a dream pillow out with mugwort and asked for guidance to come to me last night in dreams. I tossed and turned, but when I fell asleep I dreamt that I had gotten beaten up badly and my right side was covered in bruises. That doesn't seem like a good sign. I have no idea how to help my sister. This seems to be part of her personality, or something counseling would help. My mother is open to hoodoo and root work. Is there anything I can offer her as far as advice or spellwork? Also, if anyone has advice on what I could do for my sister, I would be willing to do it. Nothing else seems to have worked thus far.

Thanks again for the advice. I can't wait until I'm experienced enough to give advice!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:41 am

First, you can do protection work for your parents (who are open to Hoodoo) or they can do it. There are so many protetion products that Lucky Mojo sells and they are EXCELLENT (I can PERSONALLY vouch for that and not just saying it). Parents should also have regular house cleansings done when she moves in (LOVE the Chinese wash). There's so many things that you can do for your parents or that they can do. I really want to say to you that Fiery Wall of Protection incense (burned daily) and the oils for your parents. So, basically, your parents need PREVENTATIVE work. Your Sister's children ought to be protected also. As far as your sister is concerned (and you being beaten up in your sleep), maybe she has a bad spirit around her that doesn't want you involved? Maybe someone was tellnig you to mind your own business? Maybe one of the kids has a spirit around it that's doing all this stuff? Very hard to say but I HIGHLY suggest that you get a reading on this before any serious work is done for her. In the meantime, I would light white candles for her and pray for her (and her children) UNTIL you get a reading to find out SPECIFICALLY what is going on, how this happened, and SPECIFICALLY what to do for her. This is like asking a Doctor what to do for a rash when the Doctor hasn't had any details. A reading will give you COMPLETE details. Hope this helps...

waterlily · Unread post by **waterlily** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 11:41 am

This lady desperately needs help. Maybe some of you here can help her out.

She says, "My husband's sister does magic against me. She has a daughter who doesn't like me because I married her uncle. They used to get money from him; now everything has to go through me. They moved across the street from us and now my whole family, mom, dad and brother, we are all fighting and are destroying our family. My father kicked my mom out of the home and threatened that he was going to kill her. My mom moved in with me. I want to send back what my sister-in-law and her family have done to my family. I am not seeing what I do with my money as of late. I work but almost always something comes up that demands the use of that money therefore I cannot save money. Please help me, I am desperate and afraid of my sister-in-law's magic."

I already told her to call the police on her father and make sure that she and her mother are safe at all times, magic or no magic.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 11:44 am

Your friend can start with a 13-herb bath to cleanse herself, then a Fiery Wall of Protection. Peaceful Home will help too.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sat Sep 29, 2012 6:20 pm

In cases like this your friend could definitely use a reading and a working relationship with a spiritual advisor like those of us at AIRR. Mama Micki gave good pointers and I would add Money Stay with Me to the mix as it will help her hold on to what she makes:
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html
Blessings,
Bri

waterlily · Unread post by **waterlily** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 10:21 am

Thanks for the help.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Tue Oct 30, 2012 8:01 am

I have a friend whose brother is dying of cancer, or he has a tumour that has returned for the third time after surgery - either way the poor man is terminally ill. I think this has been going on for at least a year.

His wife won't allow his brothers, mother and family visit him or help take care of him. She will shoo them away when they come to the door to visit and from what I understand will speak to the dying man in a manner that depresses him further.

Friend says that brother will perk up and become cheerful when he has the opportunity to spend time with his brothers. I feel bad for the family, they should be allowed to be there for the ill brother.

Do you have a suggestion that might help the family spend the time he needs with them?

I thought a reversing jar would be helpful. 'So-and-so does not allow so-and-so's family to help or spend time with him' would be the petition.

Thank you for your help.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Oct 30, 2012 9:29 am

dead / niquerivers--

I would work BOTH sides of this case.

1) Put the offending in-law in a mirror box:

http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.htm ... gmirrorbox

2) AT THE SAME TIME make a sugar jar spell for the situation because this person is connected and cannot be dissected:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html#inlaws

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MissKittylovesNanny --

A reversing jar? No, i think that sounds wrong. In the case of dead/niquerivers (above), the offending in-law was actually throwing roots! That's when i would recommend a mirror box.

In your case, the unpleasantness has not overstepped the bounds of SOCIAL discourtesy, therefore i would do everything from a POSITIVE side -- a sugar box spell to sweeten the in-laws.

See this link:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html#inlaws

and look for this picture:

Good luck!

Mommiof4 · Unread post by **Mommiof4** » Thu Nov 01, 2012 1:27 pm

I have recently had a reading by CM Ali. He is not the first one to tell me that I'm better off doing a cut and clear spell and getting a divorce. My husband has always fought and argued with my mother and cause such a horrible lack of harmony in our home. Can anything be done to shut this man up? To keep him from fighting with my mother and literally STFU? He has issues that no one but he can fix and he has no interest in fixing himself, only in complaining about how others treat him badly. Fails to see how he treats everyone else and then wonders why people treat him the way they do. I've had enough of his hurting me and my mother. Honest to goodness he needs to have his mouth sewn shut.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Nov 01, 2012 5:28 pm

Mommiof4, your first words was advice from a respected reader and rootworker. Are you considering this step first?

Mommiof4 · Unread post by **Mommiof4** » Thu Nov 01, 2012 5:57 pm

Oh yes!!! Ordering cut and clear tomorrow. I'm scared but I know it will all work out in the end.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu Nov 01, 2012 7:08 pm

It can be a challenging time though do know that you can put in a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League. Also, Crucible of Courage Products may be considered to help increase your courage as well. Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Nov 02, 2012 11:26 am

My colleagues gave you some great ideas, Mommiof4. And you came up with another one when you said "His mouth needs to be sewn shut!" That could be done on a doll baby.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Mommiof4 · Unread post by **Mommiof4** » Wed Nov 07, 2012 12:40 pm

Miss Michaele you're my girl lol. I've considered sewing that doll babies mouth shut too. And making a little Alum paste on top of that too.

Papa Newt, I haven't been on crystal silence to post prayers in a bit. Just been praying for others. I will post a prayer and give thanks

I'm thinking I would also like to treat myself to a love uncrossing spell too.

Morwyn Kettlegrey · Unread post by **Morwyn Kettlegrey** » Mon Nov 26, 2012 9:00 pm

My mother in law is a good person and very well meaning but she has many habits and personality traits that make her impossible to deal with. I dread every incessant phone call from her. She treats everyone as though they were irresponsible children and at times goes beyond what is acceptable.

For example recently my husbands grandmother wanted to give us some money so gave it to her to give to us, but his mother told us that she hadn't yet received it. Turns out my husbands grandmother gave it to her weeks ago but when we talked to his grandmother she said his mother told her she wanted to hold it until we needed it. What made this so horrible is right before talking to his grandmother she had blatantly lied to my face.

Additionally, she calls on nearly a daily basis to see how we are and then remind us of everything that isn't going right in our lives or we aren't doing right or what could possibly go wrong further. It's so stressful to us both. Is there any work I could do to perhaps put a clamp on all her verbal negativity?

koettingqueen · Unread post by **koettingqueen** » Mon Nov 26, 2012 9:49 pm

I assume you're looking for something more than a honey jar?

Morwyn Kettlegrey · Unread post by **Morwyn Kettlegrey** » Mon Nov 26, 2012 10:00 pm

Yes ideally I want more then a honey jar to do this.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Nov 26, 2012 10:27 pm

Stop Gossip supplies would be a good start. You could use a vigil candle, or a blue or white plain or figural candle to calm down her mouth. Some use black, but you may consider that too harsh.

You might also consider a Healing candle. She sounds like she may have some type of psychological disorder, although there are many people who love to put people down to make themselves feel better.

SmokeyQuartz · Unread post by **SmokeyQuartz** » Tue Nov 27, 2012 3:13 pm

In brief, my mother in law has never liked me since I got with her son in 2000.
She has been emotionally abusive to me and her son, has been incredibly cruel and judgmental. She does not even like her granddaughter and in the past mistreated her whenever she went to her home to visit. My daughter (9) refuses to go to her grandmother's home because she fears her.
Despite all of my efforts to bring this family closer, his mother will not change. This has created some stress in our marriage which we are now addressing and trying to change.

Last summer I tried putting her in the sugar bowl. There was no affect. Then I tried working a honey jar, but my resentments and anger toward her are spoiling it.

This has gone on so long, I have come to the decision that I want her out of my life. My husband and I need to feel protected from her negativity and the times she lashes out at us.

I don't want to sweeten her, I just don't want this abuser in my life. Is there anything I can do to 1. protect myself from her 2. send her out of my life

I don't want anything bad to happen to her, I just want this woman to leave us be

Thank you

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Nov 27, 2012 4:10 pm

Cut and Clear her to cut emotional ties and keep her from affecting you. If she is verbally abusive, block her phone calls, email, text messages, etc. Don't let her in the house. Return her letters. Do not let her ruin your lives.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Nov 28, 2012 10:24 pm

Make a doll baby of her. Blindfold her, stop her ears, and stop her mouth. (If you use clay, you can even make the doll so the mouth, eyes and ears are open, and fill them all with Stop Gossip Powder.) Now say, for instance, "Henrietta Oglethorpe, your judgmental eye, your abusive tongue, and your jealous ears are no longer open against us. You are banished from our lives forevermore." You can put her in a mirror box, if you like, before you mail her off to Paris or someplace suitably distant.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

TWL142 · Unread post by **TWL142** » Sun Dec 02, 2012 1:43 am

My husband moved abroad to work last year and started having an affair with a co-worker soon after. He withdrew from my physically and emotionally and, despite me wanting to reconcile, two months ago, decided to leave me for the other woman.

My husband's family say they are disappointed we have separated but are not willing to challenge my husband or actively encourage him to return to our marriage. I would like to try to increase my in-laws support for our marriage and get them to positively influence and encourage my husband to end his affair and to return to his marriage. My husband isn't particularly close to his family but his mother's opinion does matter a lot to him and, one of his final comments to me was that he thought his mother would like his new mistress. I want to ensure his mother does NOT like her and would not accept her as part of the family.

My husband is very private and only confides in one close friend. This friend has never really liked me and, when my husband first started having his affair and was struggling to know what to do, his friend told him not to tell me the truth. I would also like to somehow sweeten his friend towards me and get his friend to start supporting our marriage and advise my husband that he should leave his mistress and return to his marriage.

Would a honey jar be suitable? I have a photo of all of my husband's family but I live in a different country from them and do not have any personal concerns. I do have some emails I've received from his mother though? Also, would I be able to create a single honey jar for my husband's family and his friend, or would it be better to have two separate ones? I also only have a photo of my husband's friend and a copy of an email he sent to my husband a few years ago.

Would anything else apart from a honey jar help? There is a time pressure here as I believe my husband's mistress is desperately trying to get pregnant. My husband would not leave her if she managed to get pregnant.

Unread post by **preppieroots** » Sun Dec 02, 2012 11:18 am

You really need to try to get some personal concerns from your in laws, as well as the girl friend. A vinegar jar would help to sour the feelings between the girlfriend and the in laws, as well as one for the husband's friend and the GF. (you could probably put them all in the same vinegar jar) Do you have any kind of birthday cards or similar from any of your in laws? Their handwriting is at least somewhat of a link to them. But pictures will have to do if that's all you have. Do you have anything of the girlfriend, a photo, a date of birth?

Yes, I would do a honey jar for you and the in laws and husband's friend. A honey jar for you and your husband is in order too.

TWL142 · Unread post by **TWL142** » Sun Dec 02, 2012 4:10 pm

Preppieroots, thank-you for your reply.

Getting personal concerns from my in-laws and his girl friend will be very difficult. It's somewhat of a complicated situation but my in-laws and my husband's friend live in North America, my husband and his girl friend live in Russia and I have recently moved to SE Asia. I left virtually all of my personal things behind including all the cards, gifts my in-laws have given me.

I have some photos of the girlfriend I got from FB, her date and place of birth and her original name (she changed her name a few years ago). The only thing I have of hers that she touched is a small metal love heart she gave my husband. I do have a few personal concerns of my husband's including his toothbrush, a couple of hairs and a clean pair of socks. I don't have the original copies, but I do also have scanned copies of some of the love poems and cards he gave me.

I know these questions may be answered already in another thread but what herbs/spices should I put in the honey jar for my in-laws and my husband's friend? What types of things would go in the vinegar jars? Would it be a good idea to do a vinegar jar to help sour the feelings between my husband's girlfriend and him too or just one to sour the relationship between his girlfriend and his family/friends? Living in SE Asia my access to many herbs/spices is somewhat limited but I should hopefully be able to source some main or key ones.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Dec 03, 2012 5:57 am

You can order honey jars from Lucky Mojo for your conditions with your husband and your inlaws:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

For you and your husband I'd recommend the Reconciliation honey jar kit. For you and your in-laws I'd recommend the Peaceful Home jar. It's good to sweeten up relatives. Each kit comes with all the herbs and oils you need for the spell and directions.

As for the vinegar jar between your hubby's girlfriend and your husband and inlaws (yes you can put them all in one jar; you may also wish to use Break Up spell on your husband and girlfriend seperately as you work the vinegar jar), traditional ingredients are the vinegar, Red Pepper, Black Pepper, Black Cat and Black Dog hair ( so they'll fight like cats and dogs) and Sulphur.

Good luck and make sure you cleanse yourself spiritually after working with the vinegar jar; you don't want that bad energy on you,
Mary Bee

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:25 am

Thank you miss cat!

In observance of the holiday season and because I don't know this lady, and she sounds like the type to just shrug and say "oh, this is from so and so" and pitch it in the garbage. I was thinking of whipping up some fudge, because it seems to me everyone likes fudge. Is this container ok? When I am finished, I'm putting the fudge in it!

/Users/donwessel/Pictures/iPhoto Library/Modified/2012/2012-12-04/IMG_1809.jpg

If all goes well, I may even send my inlaws one too.

Thank you.
Sincerely,
MissKittylovesNanny

So I wasn't successful with uploading a picture... It looks like a fancy candy jar with a lid that is all glass.

TWL142 · Unread post by **TWL142** » Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:45 pm

Mary Bee, thank-you for your reply. I'd like to place an order but, as I live overseas, it will take a while for the products to reach me. Should I wait until I have everything together or is it ok to start the honey and vinegar jars with what I have on hand and add the other things once they arrive?

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:36 am

I like this spell. I am using this. I spoke to miss cat about it in a reading last month. She told me to put a snake shed in the box to keep the intended down. Don't wish any harm, however I want this person to stop thinking of me and stop speaking of me as he has some very, very potent intention that deeply disturbs my life whether I am in contact with him or not. As far as I am aware, he is not a magic person, but anyone he turns his evil to tend to suffer.

Would you suggest tossing the box into the river directly following placing him inside the box or should I hang on to it for a little while? A graveyard is a bit too harsh I think, which is why he's getting a snake shed. Plus the ground is frozen where I live. I feel a strong intuition that I shouldn't be throwing it in the river right away.

I have read about mirror boxes on the Queen of Pentacles site and Dr. E's site.

Thank you kindly,
MissKittylovesNanny

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:10 am

Just an update, I wasn't able to deploy this trick after all using the tricked sugar. Friend's brother passed away just before Christmas. From the sounds of it, he was a great individual. Would have liked to help, but glad he is at peace. Thanks for your help.

MissKittylovesNanny

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 1:06 pm

MissKittylovesNanny wrote:I like this spell. I am using this.

Thank you

I spoke to miss cat about it in a reading last month. She told me to put a snake shed in the box to keep the intended down. Don't wish any harm, however I want this person to stop thinking of me and stop speaking of me ... Would you suggest tossing the box into the river directly following placing him inside the box or should I hang on to it for a little while?

Dispose of it at once. The only reason to hang onto it would be to continue punishing it once you had the lid shut.

A graveyard is a bit too harsh I think, which is why he's getting a snake shed.

I love the snake shed. You could mail him to Paris. As I said here,

MissMichaele wrote:Some folks prefer to mail their mirror boxes to Paris, France as a more roundabout way of sending them to their grave. (I believe it's based on the old saying, "When a Creole dies, he goes to Paris" -- rather than to heaven.)

MissKittylovesNanny wrote:I feel a strong intuition that I shouldn't be throwing it in the river right away.

Or at all. I vote for Paris.

You can get Google Earth to show you a map of Paris post offices complete with addresses and local zip codes. There are even web pages which tell you exactly how to mail a package to Paris from another country. I like to address my mirror boxes with the target's name, c/o General Delivery. General Delivery is for when you know the addressee will be in town soon, but you don't know where, so he or she can go to the post office and pick it up.

Of course, she won't, because she doesn't even know about it.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Fri Jan 11, 2013 10:05 am

Thank your for clarifying Miss Michaele,

Paris it is and I have done the research to make sure my dolly has all his papers and correct fare to make it out of the country!

This is so clever!

MissKittylovesNanny

aspirant4 · Unread post by **aspirant4** » Sun Feb 03, 2013 12:34 pm

Are there any spells for in-laws to hate and rid rid of daughter in law?

Though they are in another country I can get them to touch the magic powder or any ritualistic dust by may be sprinkling some powder on a letter and posting it to them.
Will that method work?

Thanks.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Feb 03, 2013 2:38 pm

That could be very effective, especially if they aren't protected against tricks like that. Include a little ground bay leaf -- that's good for keeping your work "under the radar."

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

aspirant4 · Unread post by **aspirant4** » Sun Feb 03, 2013 2:41 pm

Dear MM.
Which spell or what spell kit should I use for this purpose? Please advice.
I was only saying I can get them to touch the spell dust, if need be.. but I do not really know which spell or spell work needs to be done to make the in-laws to get rid of daughter-in-law.

Thanks.

aspirant4 · Unread post by **aspirant4** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 9:11 am

Can anybody advise about which spell to use.
Do you suggest I take a class or magical coaching for this or just do it myself following instructions on the forum?
Thanks in anticipation.

parfait1 · Unread post by **parfait1** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 9:38 am

I have been working a honey jar on my on again off again boyfriend for about 3 months now and it just started going well. However for the last six years his mother has proven a problem. She has never liked me and as soon as things are going well she creates problems. I have not seen her or spoken to her in four years and my boyfriend might get upset if I try to speak to her. He avoids dealing with the issue betwen her and I and he is her only child. They also work together so she has a lot of control. I worked a honey jar but only had a photo no personal items. I didn't know if there were any oils I could annoite the candle with on my jar and honestly I'd love to run into her so we could actually speak. Any advice would be wonderful

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Feb 07, 2013 8:43 am

I"d use Influence sachet powder mixed with a little ground bay leaf, as Miss Michaele suggested.

http://luckymojo.com/influence.html

Pray as you dust the letter that your inlaws will be influence to hate and turn against this woman.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Mon Feb 11, 2013 9:18 pm

Whats your honey jar for?

Why do you want to speak to her?

parfait1 · Unread post by **parfait1** » Tue Feb 12, 2013 9:16 am

The honey jar was to sweeten her to me and I would like to run into her so we can discuss these issues and hopefully reslove them or agree to be civil. It is important for
This to happen because this issue holds my relationship at a stand still and my boyfriend is an avoider so his solution is to just not deal with it. But that just creates issues between us that makes
Us very back and forth

2sweetgirls · Unread post by **2sweetgirls** » Tue Feb 19, 2013 6:16 pm

Hello,

I need help protecting myself, children, home, and husband from my MIL. She is known to visit people to manipulate actions of others to get her way regardless of who she hurts. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. Some years she is perfect, some we do not talk to her, and others she is up to no good. My husband and I make good money (enough for all bills, plus extra play money) and every month we are in the red or barely making it. I look at our spending and it just doesnt add up some months. Of course every purchase is accounted for so there is no fraud going on but it feels like our money is water. We feel "off" balance at times. My husband says he never feels comfortable in her home (like he cant even sit down), we will have legal issues some months, MIL is caught up with husband's EX even though husband has custody of kids and EX doesnt lift a finger for the kids emotionaly or financially, my husband and 3 of his siblings do not talk, we only talk to one of them and now it feels as if a wedge is being driven between us and the sibling.

I recently did (2.5 weeks ago) a Reversal Candle, smudged my home & myself/husband/kids, put salt on the front and back doors, and lit a candle called Happy Home (after the 1st candle and smudging). When burning the Reversal Candle, at the bottom (reddish/orange color) there was a sweet beautiful smell, very calming. When I went back to the shop and informed the lady of the smell she was stunned because she didnt know of any herbs in the candle that would make the smell, and because no other person who had lit the candle ever mentioned the sweet smell. Since then my husband says when he leaves the house he feels very nervous.

I know my MIL has something on us. I can actually feel it at times. I just want it to stop. I dont want to hurt her or cause her misfortune. HAVOC is the only way I can discribe her. In October 2012 we had legal issues with the kids and MIL was there. The night before I had a dream where my character was being questioned, no one elses, and I saw from the witness stand my MIL, BIL, sitting to the left and just behind them almost trying to hide herself was my MIL's SIL (she deals with magick). I honestly felt like this lady was trying to control the out come in favor of my MIL and make me look bad. It felt like a personal assault.

PLEASE.HELP.ME.HELP.MY.FAMILY

whistler2 · Unread post by **whistler2** » Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:24 pm

Off the top of my head, I suggest doing some uncrossing work, as well as fiery wall of protection and perhaps petitioning St. Micheal for some help. Also add the salt to your windows.

You could make her into a doll-baby and bind her in a mirror box.

For the sibling you wish to keep close, you could always trick a "gift" with stay with me and/or peaceful home products.

Get a reading as well.

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Tue Feb 19, 2013 10:37 pm

Seems like your dream showed you WHO was the source of your Mother-in-Law's power to disrupt things. Now you can counter their attacks.

2sweetgirls · Unread post by **2sweetgirls** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:43 am

whistler wrote:Off the top of my head, I suggest doing some uncrossing work, as well as fiery wall of protection and perhaps petitioning St. Micheal for some help. Also add the salt to your windows.

You could make her into a doll-baby and bind her in a mirror box.

For the sibling you wish to keep close, you could always trick a "gift" with stay with me and/or peaceful home products.

Get a reading as well.

Last night and this morning I was thinking of the mirror box (seeing myself putting the mirrors together to form a box). I read a little bit about it last night while I was searching for protection herbs.

My husband and I have had several readings, none in the past 6 months, but the ladies who read for us all told us to be careful and not to give out pictures of our daughter to her. One of the ladies knows MIL and told us to be very careful around her, because MIL had asked lady to put a spell to keep her now husband. *This lady rubbed us down with a lemon, said a prayer, and then took the lemon to her stove (open flame) and "roasted" the lemon... low and behold their were initials of people who she said wished us harm. The initials were as plan as day. I'll def. get a reading this week.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Mon Apr 15, 2013 8:27 pm

Hello all,

Sorry if this is a repetitive question.

I'm looking for a spell to make my boyfriend's mom sweet to me and me to she. She's a wonderful person but very controlling and wants to be the one choosing his fate. He is a good boy and wants her approval which has caused us problems.

I had a reading done by a wonderful member of AIRR and I basically need to make myself sweet to her and have her like me, favor me etc.
I really do like her and have nothing against her so I just need some suggestions PLEASE.

I'm starting a honey jar asap but I'm not sure what to put in it. I have Ms. Yronwode's book on different herbs but not sure which ones to put in the honey jar. Any other work or spells that you can tell me would help.

Any help or suggestions is appreciated.
Many thanks <3

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Apr 16, 2013 12:25 am

You can buy a honey jar from Lucky Mojo with everything you need, except personal concerns and a petition. Peaceful Home or Influence would be good choices.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue Apr 16, 2013 4:32 am

thank you Mama Micki!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Apr 17, 2013 10:08 am

Mama Micki wrote:You can buy a honey jar from Lucky Mojo with everything you need, except personal concerns and a petition. Peaceful Home or Influence would be good choices.

Caulbearer, you could even combine the two into one kit by buying a bottle of Influence oil and using it alongside the oil in the Peaceful Home Honey Jar kit.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 2:32 pm

Thank you miss Michaele : )

I've ordered it and in the meanwhile I've begun the peaceful home honey jar.
I have to give it my all now cause two different readings have told me that our happiness and relationship depends on her liking me... sigh~

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 7:18 pm

Sometimes that's a mother's prerogative. I believe miss cat said it best in one of her discussions. Get along with his mother.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:13 pm

jwmcclin

You're absolutely right and I agree. I'm gonna give it my best because I actually do like her. We are so much alike except the colour of our skin. I just need to break through her wall.
PLEASE y'all pray for me <3

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Apr 24, 2013 6:38 am

You might try burning a candle to St. Martin de Porres, the saint of racial harmony, along with his other patronages. You can either use a vigil candle or a white candle dressed with the oil.

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Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:14 am

I agree with what everyone has suggested.
As a mother of a handsome, brilliant, can do no wrong son ( do you see how most moms think of their sons ? ) I can tell you from experience that there has been one girl who stood out from the crowd

Her secret? She made a point to talk to me in a respectful manner and she complimented me on the way I've decorated the home. When my son has her and some friends over, she helps me clean up after them. She's not a submissive type, he wouldn't like that but she's nice to his mama and polite to all other family members. She's industrious; works and goes to college. Oh, and she brings little treats to my dog.
He used to bring another girl over but when I tried to talk to her she had an offish attitude, when she came over for get togethers she never helped clean up, she didn't have much ambition and my dog didn't like her. My dog usually goes up to most people but he wouldn't even go up to greet her. I dropped little remarks about her to my son and soon after he stopped dating her.
So, from experience as the mother of a son and like Miss Cat has said before; be nice to his mama.
Be nice to his mama's dog too.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:26 am

Thank you so much mama Micki. I will try this for sure!

Thanks miss Olivia for the wonderful tips. Very sweet of you