Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Thu Apr 25, 2013 7:53 am

I hope it all works out Caulbearer, my mother-in-law was a pill when my husband first took me to meet her. She was not happy about me being from a different faith and made many comments in front of everyone in the family that I was the first person in the history of their family to have not been brought up in their religion. Took a lot of biting my tongue, being "sweet" and finally figuring out she's very set in her ways with most people not just me. I did learn that when I wasn't as polite as I should have been at times that I'd be "punished" by not getting invited to showers or things of that nature. So I learned being nice to the mama works better than fighting back with the mama. I've had a honey jar working on the situation for awhile now and helps flow better.
This topic has been a good learning experience for me because now I'll be sure to be nicer to the girls my son brings home. Thank-you Caulbearer!
If I were his mama I'd like you.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Thu Apr 25, 2013 5:04 pm

haha you're so sweet Miss Olivia

i really am nice to her. we have the same birthday and i HONESTLY like her but i'm not black, i'm brown. so it'll take alotta work to sweeten our relationship and i'm giving it my BEST. i'm gonna start the St. Martin asap... I love him so much and i wanna be with him. he's my little sweetie pie but he's holding back cause of her. all his siblings love me and we all get along...
PLEASE be nice to anyone who loves your sons cause honestly they will love you too, i promise!

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue May 14, 2013 9:59 am

Hi all,

So my boyfriend's mom caused us some serious problems. I had a reading done my an AIRR member, Dr. Raven, and with all the great advice I got I began working on bettering my relationship with her and also I set up a honey jar and IT HAS BEEN WORKING! She really likes me and she's becoming more an more nice to me.
Although things are sweet and smooth I still need to make him strong and give him an extra push to speak to his mom about us... Trust me he needs encouragement.

Are the LuckyMojo King Solomon or Crucible of Courage oils good choices? Should I do another honey jar for him with Yellow candles on top and anoint it with these oils?
Any comments or threads would be appreciated

Many thanks!

SilverDaniels · Unread post by **SilverDaniels** » Tue May 14, 2013 11:44 am

That's WONDERFUL Caulbearer!!

I love hearing all the success stories everyone shares on here.
Crucible of Courage most definitely sounds like a good choice to me if you want to give him encouragement. King Solomon brings about the clarity of mind in order to make wise decisions, which sounds suitable to me as well. I'm also feeling that those two formulas combined with Influence would create an amazing effect for the results you want. Go get 'em GURL!!

Happy Conjuring!! ^_^

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Wed May 15, 2013 1:14 am

SilverDaniels

OK great! I will add the influence oil as well.
Not sure if this means anything, but I will take your name as a positive sign, since you seem like a wonderful person and my beloved's name is Daniel

Thank you for the suggestion.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu May 16, 2013 1:39 pm

Caulbearer

Are you using it on your boyfriend's mother's honey jar, too? Every little bit helps

Miss Michaele

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Thu May 16, 2013 4:34 pm

hi MissMichaele,

yes I am as per your suggestion before. after you told me to combine it with peaceful home I did and honestly she has been really nicer to me. I've been showing her alot of positive attention too and she likes that.
as always, thank you for your suggestion

ashliew · Unread post by **ashliew** » Wed May 29, 2013 12:19 pm

Yes I still live at home.

My Dad is a parent that hasn't really been there like he was supposed to. Coming and going when he wants to. I'm grown now so it doesn't bother me as much anymore. The real problem is that every time he comes home is brings chaos. My parents aren't together. Their relationship is not my business but they argue so much at random hours of the night that I don't even get much sleep sometimes because they are arguing early in the morning. Whatever issues they have my Mom is obviously emotionally upset and it indirectly causes problems for me.

My father doesn't live her doesn't financially support or take care of the son he has now here with my Mom but when he comes over he tries to regulate shit and take things over. He is emotionally/verbally abusive as well. He's pissed because my Mom and he didn't work out or whatever. I don't know really and don't care much either. He is a very paranoid and unhappy person and brings this energy to the home. Basically hurts the situation more than he helps. Now that he is here he is making an effort to take care of his son and everything but he is still emotionally abusive towards us can step over boundaries. I get along with him better than my mom but I basically want to get him to have more of a peaceful attitude towards us and to stay here as long as possible otherwise I would be the one stuck taking care of his son.

I really can't take care of him because I have my own health issues too !

With my Mom she's overbearing. Yes I live in her house but sometimes it's worse than others. She gets worse when she is stressed out and she tries to micromanage me on a daily basis. I don't need to be treated this way but she doesn't respect me as an adult yet and just doesn't get it. I try to respect her as much as I can but she is disrespected me more than I can handle. She tried to force me to watch her son for basically 10 hours days while she was at work. My brother is Autistic and she knows full well I can't handle the stress. I have tried everything to reason with her but she feels this is what I am supposed to do. I was watching him so much at one point I was so stressed I had a breakdown. She wants me to take care of her responsibility to make sure that her life runs smoothly but she refuses a lot of the time to let me take care of my own needs.

When I wasn't sick and damn near emotionally crippled I have tried to seek employment but she has blocked me from obtaining it. In 2012 in took me about a year to find a job and when I finally get the job she says I can't take it because I have to stay home and put my brother on the bus ! She refused to try to change her work schedule or get a babysitter or whatever she needed to do. She is financially and spiritually blocking me from success. I need a car and she said that she was going to let me drive her old car but then she turns around and gives it away to my uncle and now I don't have shit !

Any other job I tried to get she tries to micromanage the schedule too much or refuses to give me a few dollars to take the bus so I basically wouldn't be able to make any money at all. I mean its minimum wage (most likely) for crying out loud. Yes I have tried going to school but its the same scenario. Would take me 15 years to get a 2 year degree dealing with her. Plus when I was taking care of my brother that was 40 hour weeks - a full time job already. She lied and said she was going to give me money but never did. When she does give me money - its not really giving as she will give me something then be like all the sudden you need to use that to pay for this or that ! Then why did you give it to me then?

I am basically mentally disabled and have tried to work from home as well but that's also impossible as she doesn't respect my space. I have had phone interviews and she just so happens to start fucking with me. Or if I happen to get any money at all - literally talking $20 here she wants it ! Mind you my mom has a good job and makes her own money but refuses to try to learn how to manage it.

This is really long but I needed to give an idea of what I have been through. I obviously don't have to much money atm but have access to candles and herbs. If you can't tell by this long message I am really upset.

Please don't tell me if should move out if you don't have any realistic advice on that. I am basically trapped without income and if you read all the way through she is blocking me from that. I really don't know what to do.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed May 29, 2013 12:28 pm

How old are you? Have you applied for public assistance and/or Social Security? Also, please go to your profile and indicate your gender.
I would suggest Power products, Money Drawing, and Money Stay with Me to help you avoid being walked on and to build up some savings. If you get money, hide it in a safe place or put it in the bank.
Your father should be paying child support, which could go toward child care for your brother. You can do a Pay Me spell on behalf of your mother.

ashliew · Unread post by **ashliew** » Wed May 29, 2013 7:34 pm

Thank you. I will change my profile as soon as I can. I am going to pm you because I have some personal things to say that don't need to be out in public here.

lynxpointe · Unread post by **lynxpointe** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 7:03 am

I have been married for 26 years and My Husband James family hates me for no reason. Thye are insulting,mean,rude to me and my children. Always causing trouble,we even moved three hours away,and the trouble and lies and animosity still goes on. I am sad,depressed and fear these people. They have tried to break up my marriage. Whenever I am in their company,they only speak to their brother,my husband,there are twelve borthers and sisters,all hating me and my children. My Husband never defends me or sticks up for me. They always give me the evil eye. We are having financial problems,I had head trauma and could never work again. I was a Nurse. I know they send bad and negative vibes to me when I am in their presence. I feel the coldness and negativity ,as soon as I arrive. I only go there when I have to. I attend family weddings, and family functions. Not one of them talk to me. My husband has 5 sisters,all against me. I am a nervous wreck and very sad. I never ,ever did anything to any of them. I am a peace loving person,I love animals and they hate animals,they insult me because I have two cats and two dogs. They call me crazy. I feel they are sending bad wishes to me. We are losing our home to foreclosure,everything was really good. I used to buy a Lottery ticket and always won something,now I can't win a penny. We have no furniture,no cash. We had everything,but all bad started happening to me and my children. Please help me get this hex,jinx,curse off me for Poverty and I pray and wish my Husband James would defend me and finally stick up for me. help me,please advise me what to do....Blessed be.so mote it be...

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 7:21 am

Start with an Uncrossing kit and cleanse yourself and your house. You can also work with Adam and Eve products to get your husband to realize that his first loyalty is to you, his wife. I would also suggest limiting your time with his family, at least for now.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 7:28 am

Good Morning, Lynxpointe,
What a TERRIBLE way for you to live! My heart goes out to you.
My marriage was VERY similar. VERY similar. And I can tell you, there was a ring-leader.
The difference between us is that I knew the reason and ALWAYS had known the reason. But, in your situation, you don't.
So, in my case, I knew to put love spells on my husband (who is now deceased), to sweeten the ring leader (who was against me), and to bind the other big trouble makers.
You poor thing, you've been in this situation for a very long time. These people have probably drained you of a lot of your energies (including your psychic energies). This will cause the victim confusion, a sense of surrender (which further empowers them), and general hopelessness/helplessness.
You really need somebody who can read the entire situation and who can fight for you (until you gain some energy and ground here). You need an advocate!
I strongly suggest, in your situation, that you seek out the help of the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR). www.readersandrootworkers.org
I just HATE what you're going through and my heart goes out to you. PLEASE take care of yourself

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 7:33 am

You can also try the Peaceful Home honey jar. It can be used for all relatives, not just those who live with you.

lynxpointe · Unread post by **lynxpointe** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 8:26 am

Thank you Miss Aida,Thank you Mama Micki....You have touched my broken heart and soul... I cry out in sadness to you all. I wish I could buy the supplies,but right now I can't ,as I have no cash. I am living in extreme poverty. Suddenly,a few years ago. We started losing everything. Cars were repossesed,home going into foreclosure,no furniture,sometimes no food. When My Husband gets paid, I will order the supplies you advised. I am hurting emotionally from all of their abuse to me. My husband left me several times because of them,he went to their homes to stay! Me and my children had no income. After he came back,we moved three hours away. I had a terrible accident at work,head trauma, I lost my ability to calculate math and because of this, I lost my Job as a Nurse,I have no income, and can't work. I am trying to get my real estate license,if I can remember things. After the accident, I lost my short trem memory. My 87 year old Mother lives with us,she had Breast cancer,I take care of her. I don't drink alcohol and My husband's family all drink. They like to party,and that is their prerogative. I do not like bars , I don't want my children in bars. They all seem to live in bars. This is one of the reasons They hate me, I refuse to go to the bars, I have no hatred towards them. I wish no malice against them. I just can't take anymore. Part of the problem is my husband James,he allows the vindictiveness and insults and does not defend me. I will order the honey jar and the uncrossing supplies,as soon as I can. I have to wait to get money. I am a good soul, I always shared with others,I love life and nature and animals. I always help those less fortunate. I have even stopped to help the homeless so many times. I love peace and tranquility. I want my self esteem back and to be uncrossed and have Prosperity again. I never argues with them. I take the abuse and my husband allows them to insult me. he seems to rather them first than me his wife and our two children. Thier parents are both deceased. They passed years ago. They never gave me a chance.I will take your advice and stay away from them. I need to find peace and happiness again and for the door to open to Prosperity. I can't live in squalor anymore. I know they cursed me and my family, because my son left college and is married and not working.Matt had scolarships to college for academic success. I am just so bewildered. I know God gifted me with some Psychic ability; because I sense the hatred and hostility towards me.Help me find Peace,love and Prosperity again.Thank you, Blessed be....so mote it be....Blessings...Cheryl Ann

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 1:43 pm

Stop worrying about what they think. Distance yourself from them, and start doing some cleansing and money work for yourself. Have you applied for SSI or SSDI? It may not be a lot of money, but anything helps. If you can't afford spell kits, start with oils. They can be worn on your body, put in a bath, and used to dress candles.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Aug 25, 2013 9:22 pm

Lynxpointe, I can think of two ways you can get help right away at no cost to you.

First of all, sign up for a free reading on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour. Miss Cat, Conjureman Ali and a guest reader from AIRR will read for you and prescribe rootwork. You don't have to worry about remembering things because the show is recorded and uploaded to the archives within an hour after it ends.

Sign up for next week's show:
radio-show-pre-call-id-september-1st-2013-t25999.html
Listen to archived shows:
www.blogtalkradio.com/luckymojohoodoorootworkhour

Next -- and this may well be recommended during your reading on the Rootwork Hour -- contact the AIRR/MISC Pro Bono Fund -- one of the few charities that supplies free spiritual supplies to those in need.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... _Bono_Fund

You can't apply to the Pro Bono Fund yourself, but Miss Cat, Conjureman Ali and the guest reader can sponsor you.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele
Chairwoman
AIRR Pro Bono Fund

cancankant · Unread post by **cancankant** » Sat Oct 12, 2013 7:21 pm

My mother in law had hip replacement surgery about 3 months ago. My husband is her only child, and her other relatives, though they live in the area, do not help very much. She sometimes uses a volunteer service that provides rides to the doctor and other places in the community, but this is not very often. She's in her early 60s, but in my opinion, she acts older than that. She wasn't ever very active even in her younger years, and so she pretty much lays around the house, getting bored and figuring out things for other people to do for her.

She is still healing from the operation, as there were complications and she had to have a couple of extra surgeries. She seems to get around well enough with a cane, but constantly demands help for things that we believe she could do herself. She also refuses to do things the "easy way" (i.e. the way that requires fewer trips and less work for my husband and other people). For example, she won't order groceries or get her prescriptions mailed to her. She has 5 cats and "can't" scoop her litter boxes (although she find a way to feed the cats), so he's been cleaning them nearly every day for 3 months with no end in sight! That, along with the grocery store trips and other chores on the weekends, is starting to strain our marriage. We just don't have fun anymore. It's become all about her. He resents her so much, and I'm afraid he's going to blow up at her one day.

What can I do to get her to stop being so demanding and start doing more things for herself? Also, if there's something I can do to get her siblings to help more, that would work, too. It's their opinion that my husband should be saddled with all the work. Her recovery has been pretty slow going, so I'm expecting this to go on for a while, and she's not in great health, so it may rear its ugly head sooner or later. I feel for her and while I don't think she's a bad person, I think she's manipulative and likes getting her own way. I'm starting to dislike her myself, and that's unfortunate, since we always got along in the past.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Oct 13, 2013 7:58 pm

Good Evening Cancankant,
Unfortunately, this is common behavior of mothers with an only child. These people can run their children raged.
Sounds like she's lonely and scared. And, being in pain (along with immobility) can make bad behavior even more exaggerated.
Is there any way that you could hire a Nurse's Aide to come in a couple of hours each day? You could hire one privately so that you're not paying outrageous agency fees.
Does she have any type of health care insurance? If so, have the Physician write for Home Health Care. They'll help her out for awhile.
Also, you can call social services and see about someone coming in to help her to be more self-sufficient.
Yes, she'll be upset In the beginning but will love the attention after about a week
You can also call your church and ask for help with her.
So, there's lots of resources for her.
Additionally, just saying: "No" to some of the chores that she is capable of doing might get her to do it herself. Just be careful with her abilities to do certain things.
I would also suggest some influence spells on the siblings to get them to help out. www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Cast Off Evil gets rid of bad habits. You could try that on your mother in-law www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
And, maybe some healing (also include in your prayers emotional (as well as physical healing) products for her. www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
I hope this helps.
Wishing you and your husband the very best
Take care

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Mon Oct 14, 2013 5:39 am

I would also try a Compelling candle on your husband's siblings.

http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html

Compelling products are the least drastic of the compel-command-control-dominate line, which would be what you want to use on relatives that you do have a good relationship with, but want to give a little nudge. There is more discussion of these four lines elsewhere on the forum.

I would purchase a Compelling vigil candle and Compelling oil, dress the candle with the oil, write a petition paper stating your ultimate goal (not "i want" or "they will/this will happen" because that sets up a cycle of wanting but not receiving), but as a final outcome desired, such as "My husband's siblings take active roles in their mother's care." Dress that as well with Compelling oil. Read in HITAP and this forum about how to work a vigil candle.

I would do a separate Healing type vigil candle of your choice with a similar dressing and dressed petition paper. I would in that case use a combination of Compelling oil ( to compel your MIL to take more role in her own life) over a healing candle. Work these candles side by side but as separate petitions and spells, since a single targeted directed spell is better than a generic or cover-all work.

Good luck to you!

Mary Thomson
HRCC #1398G

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Oct 14, 2013 1:55 pm

Although it's a good idea to do compelling, I don't know if I would do any spells on the mother-in-law right now.
She's not physically well.
I'd focus on her healing first. Then, when you know that she's back to being somewhat healthy, start other root work on her.
That's what I would do...

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 6:41 pm

1) What can I use to stop my estranged in-laws and my husband's friends or co-workers from interfering negatively with our Reconciliation? Basically any one that is keeping him from returning home to me and our daughter by not encouraging this needs to be silenced and speak only of reconciliation .

2) My husband is living with my mother-in-law (his mother) ... and is always around his brothers.. hence the exact reason for them interfering with our family reconciling. It has been seen and confirmed that my MIL wants my husband to stay with her forever. Can I put them at odds with each other so that way he is stopped being harnessed by them all -- so that If he gets away from his mommy's house and is at odds with them, then he turns his focus to me?

3) I know there needs to be some Healing or Peaceful home work done for the two of us and I will do that if something is suggested. But I want my Husband to Return to OUR home and family 1st.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 7:27 pm

I recommend Adam and Eve products with this Bible passage:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:24

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 10:13 pm

Thank You Mama ..I totally agree with the passage..

I did not know If I should do any thing else ..I have done some Adam & Eve work

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 4:45 am

I'd put the most interferring of the family and friends into a freeze spell. Freeze them up and they won't bother you.

Take the more amenable relatives and put them in a honey jar with some rose buds (for sweetness), deers tongue ( to speak well of you) and periwinkle (to encourage peace).

Good luck,
Mary Bee

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:36 am

MaryBee wrote:I'd put the most interferring of the family and friends into a freeze spell. Freeze them up and they won't bother you.

Take the more amenable relatives and put them in a honey jar with some rose buds (for sweetness), deers tongue ( to speak well of you) and periwinkle (to encourage peace).

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Should I just write out their names or
all backstabbers and two faced persons in X's everyday life and say/command "keep your all your negative words and influence about X reconciling with x to yourself" and freeze them in a foil packet with commanding and bend over oil?

greeneyes2 · Unread post by **greeneyes2** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:45 am

To be honest .. I have never been so hurt by their actions to me and my daughter.. Yes they have betrayed us in so many ways.

A part of me wants to put them all in a war water jar.. probably wrong ..but it is justified for what they have done to me now for almost 2 yrs.
They have done nothing to help the situation at all.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 12:18 pm

greeneyes:

Your idea for the foil packet sounds good. Sometimes it''s best to write something like what you said, "all my enemies known and unknown" rather than people's names. God knows your enemies better than you do, sometimes.

Mary

glm · Unread post by **glm** » Tue Oct 29, 2013 6:51 am

My mother in law's relationship with my husband is toxic, she gives him the role of friend, husband, and father.....not son....she would love to see us break up and is constantly manipulating him to get her way to the point that my husband puts her needs above those of our baby and I, he thinks about her all day, wants to pay her bills (she doesn't need $), fixes everything for her, she has a husband by the way and another son, but all the emotional burden is placed on us. I need to drive her away from our lives before our family breaks apart. We constantly fight over things related to her and he is obsessed with pleasing her, his guilt towards her comes from other lives.

Please help, how do I start? I have tried many things and nothing has worked.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Oct 29, 2013 9:51 am

[quote="glm"]his guilt towards her comes from other lives. Please help, how do I start? I have tried many things and nothing has worked./quote]

Stop worrying about "past lives" and concentrate on this one. Your husband's first concern should be you, not his mother. Get some Adam and Eve products and pray this Bible verse:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife, and they will be one flesh. Genesis 2:24

glm · Unread post by **glm** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:29 am

Which products should I use to get my mother in law to move away from our lives? She lives 5 min away and has a sick relationship with my husband who feels guilty and sorry for her for no reason, she is well. He puts her needs above those of our son and mines. He solves her every little problem, and even gives her valentines day cards. His relationship with her its pretty unhealthy causing him to be disrespetful and mean to me as a result. She would like to see him single and be the mother of my son. Crazy!!!! So, please help me move her away before she wrecks my home.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:36 am

Hi glm,

The milder solution would be a combination of Banishing and Separation products. If you want to go harsher than that, there's Hot Foot.

I'd also try and do some Uncrossing and Clarity work on your husband to get him to see what's going on, and sweetening work for the two of you so that the relationship stays strong even if there is some friction during the work to get her gone.

glm · Unread post by **glm** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:41 am

Thank you so much, I will do all that ASAP!

glm · Unread post by **glm** » Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:34 am

Thank you mama micki, I will do as you suggest!!

Unread post by **Susan Barnes** » Mon Nov 04, 2013 2:36 pm

Dear glm,

Please listen to Mama Micki,

She really rocks it. And she knows her stuff.

Do what she says.

Keep us updated!

Hugs,

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Thu May 08, 2014 1:50 am

Hi,

Everything is running pretty nicely in my life thanks to help from Lucky Mojo and the rootworkers, but one thing I can't seem to manage is my Mum

I am 27 and embarressingly, still living at home. I returned from university last year and knew it was a case of sinking or swimming financially, so had to move back in with my Mum. Since returning, the atmosphere has been horrible. We just clash so badly. We have had some terrible fights, so now it has come to the point where she has said I need to move out. This isn't viable though, as I have just saved up for a new car and then need to save some more for a new place.

We do not have a good Mother and Daughter relationship, and it's something I have always longed for. With me having been ill with depression certainly doesn't help, and there is a lot of resentment more so at having had to move to a smaller house from the family home, when my Dad left her for another woman.

Is a honey jar worth doing, or something else? Would a Cut & Clear work for the resentment about my Dad and us having had to leave and sell the family home? I am guessing Bend Over would be far too strong in these circumstances?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 09, 2014 9:34 pm

Hello, Nony65 ,
That's always so sad when Mother and Daughter don't get along.
You're right: Bend over is too harsh
I like your honey jar idea and I like your idea about Cut and Clear.
additionally, for the 2 of you, try Peace Water in the house www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
And, of course, Peaceful Home www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Wishing you the best on this. I know it's hard.
Take care

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Mon May 12, 2014 7:17 am

Hello All,

I love Lucky Mojo...many have helped me greatly in the past and i thank you. I hope I am posting to the correct board as I have a situation with my in-laws.

My husband is from Egypt, he is Muslim, I am Christian. His immediate family Lives in Egypt and are always putting me down, blaming me for things and trying to convert me!...for example..his father's death last year in June..I was blamed because travel plans were delayed due to work and health issues...i'm sorry to say but I really do not like them (mother and sister in law). I have tried being nice, but you know when people are just never satisfied no matter how much you try to please them? It's very draining... and my husband most of the time takes their side... this causes so many issues between me and him, because he talks with them everyday... they make him feel guilty because he chose to live his life here and not there!

Our arguing has gotten to the point of almost divorce, and we have 2 young kids(2 and 5). I am determined to work on these issues but need some help. I have done workings in the past to keep me and my husband in harmony...

Is there anything I can do to stop them, lessen their influence on my husband?

(I would like to note that although hot footing has worked well for me in the past, for this situation I don't feel hotfooting would be right since they are already thousands of miles away.)

Any suggestionsm please? Thank you much.

Sarafina · Unread post by **Sarafina** » Mon May 12, 2014 10:16 am

how about a honeyjar with all of your pics placed in it so all of you can be happy together as a family

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Mon May 12, 2014 10:46 am

Hello Sarafina,

Yes I have tried the honey jar for all of us...it seemed to work but they are constantly putting pressure on him to move there or at least spend half the year which in turn makes him feel guilty and frustrated because he wants to please them, but has established a good life here, happy with his work and family. A vacation for one month there doesn't seem to be enough for them...
Thank you for your suggestion
Blessings.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 13, 2014 9:21 pm

Hello, Mysticmama4 ,
I have just merged your post into a thread that has many spell suggestions.
Please take a look at all the posts and see if anything will help you.
After reading them, if you still have questions, please don't hesitate to ask us
I pray that things get better for you

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Fri May 16, 2014 3:44 pm

Thank you Miss Aida! I have read the posts similar to mine and I thank you...found some great advice. Just one more question...I like the clay doll mirror box idea, but since my MIL is already overseas does it make sense to mail it overseas somewhere? If I make the clay doll, what should I do with it afterwards if not mail it?. For my marriAge, I will work with peaceful home and Adam and Eve products....I really like that bible passage suggestion. Thanks again for the merge.
Blessings.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 16, 2014 8:11 pm

Hello, Mysticmama4 ,
There are a lot of countries overseas!
Or, mail it to a state here that is farthest away from both you and her.
Lots of options!!
Have fun with your spell. I have a smile on my face because I have a feeling that you are going to do an excellent job with it!
Take care

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Sat May 17, 2014 12:47 pm

Thanks again Miss Aida

Love this forum!
Blessings.

Cupcake · Unread post by **Cupcake** » Tue Jun 10, 2014 7:26 pm

Hi I haven't posted in a while but I have been on the boards reading. Miss cat if you could please tell Robin hello and I pray she gets well. I applied for a job there and she emailed me a few times about the position. She is so sweet. I didn't know she left due to medical reasons .

Well I have a couple of questions about my brother and his girlfriend. My brother has always had this jealousy towards me and my younger brother.More so me than my younger brother. I saw two psychics and they said he is arrogant and has low self-esteem that's why he's mean to me. I have tried to talk to him several times but he ignores me. His girlfriend is just Like him. They are very negative people so I stay away from them. Some of my family knows but they won't say anything. Now his girlfriend doesn't want their children around me saying I'm negative. Neither one of them asked me anything. His girlfriend thinks I questioned my niece but she came to me saying her mom is mean to her a few times. My mom knows this as well but she won't say anything. Its like she's under a spell. My step dad won't go around their house because of my brother's girlfriend attitude. I didn't know what to say so I kept quiet. The word got out so the result is she doesn't want them around me. Mind you we are all grown and my brother hardly talks to me and his gf has been off and on for three years talking to me. I really think something is wrong with them. They are very mean people. Thanks for reading. Can anyone help? I just want to see my niece and nephew. It really hurts.

Cupcake · Unread post by **Cupcake** » Tue Jun 10, 2014 7:39 pm

Also I have been angry much more than usual. I haven't seen them since last December. Six months. They won't come to my moms house since I am there

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jun 11, 2014 9:06 pm

Hello, Cupcake ,
Robin is much better now! Much better (thank God).
But it was sad to see her leave. She was a staple at Lucky Mojo and the hardest worker I had ever met in my life!
I am so sorry about this whole situation.
You might want to try both Clarity oil (to get some insight no what is really going on) www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
And some tranquility or your anger (and I don't blame you for feeling this way). www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html
I am thinking, for the ones who are so hateful, to either start with a honey jar (to sweeten them to you) or else go right to cast off evil spell (it would be up to you). Or you might want to try the honey jar as a first choice and then go to the later. www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
Wishing you the VERY best on this

Cupcake · Unread post by **Cupcake** » Thu Jul 10, 2014 9:45 am

Thank you Miss Aida for your response. I will look into what you said. I will get the tranquility. I'm glad Ms. Robin is doing better. Thank you again.for your great advice. I always feel better when I visit the forum.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Sun Aug 03, 2014 3:25 am

My mother has always been a critical person (or at least for as long as I can remember.) When I was a child I can remember her and my dad having arguments and him being upset with her for her constant criticism. She's not really a bad person. She thinks her criticisms are helpful. Often they come with a smile and are treated as a little bit of a joke. The problem is that they hurt. I still remember her telling me as a teenager that my arms were too skinny for a certain dress and that my butt was too big for a swimsuit I wanted. (I haven't been a teenager for almost 20 years.)

More recently she's taken to making "helpful" comments about my art work. (She has no artistic ability.) I just utterly ruined a painting I was working on because I listened to something she said about it. I'm a pretty decent artist (I was good enough to go to art school, but ended up doing something else instead.) However, since I haven't worked seriously on my art for a long time I am relearning a lot of things and I am not a very confident person in general. I don't have a lot of work space, so my paintings are visible to anyone who comes into my apartment.

I also have a 13 year old son and lately my mother has taken to making "helpful:" comments about his eating habits and weight. (He does have a sweet tooth, but he also eats his veggies.) He is mostly a thin boy, except that he has a bit of a tummy. (At his age both of my brothers were rather chubby, but by high school they grew out of this.) My son is very sensitive and my mother's comments hurt his feelings. He has started saying to me that he is "fat." He is not. I don't want my mom damaging his self esteem the way she did mine. I have tried to talk to her about this, but her behavior has not changed.

I'd like to be able to protect both myself and my son from her criticisms. I think we both tend to take them too much to heart (even though I should know better and I tell my son not to listen when my mother says those things.) I don't know if there is a magical way to get her to stop being so critical or if there might be a way that the criticism would just roll off and not affect us.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Aug 04, 2014 8:15 pm

Hello, Xewn ,
I am merging your post to the appropriate subforum with lots of spell ideas for you.
Wishing you the best

zafer · Unread post by **zafer** » Sun Aug 31, 2014 4:31 am

Hi everyone.

I am a bit new to all of this, but after years of being a very passive person, I decided to fight back and claim my life.

To make a long story short, I have been married for 9 years. Years of absolute domination from my mother in law and husband's siblings. Result: no children yet (looong overdue), no money at all in my hands, no real place in the family. My husband behaves awfully around his family, complaining to his mommy about me all the time, never stands up for me in the slightest of things. I don't want to start with what I feel lately, let's just say I am fed up.
But I have no job, no money, nothing. Everything my husband should be saving for our home (time, money, care), goes to his family. I am not even allowed to speak my mind for my own home. Also, he is being bullied emotionally and feels like he owes them, while in fact HE is the one who helps and wastes his life (and mine...) so that they can be comfortable and lazy!

I need to take charge and from what I've seen hoodoo aggrees with me a lot. I live in the south of Europe and we have our own tricks here, but somehow they've never inspired me.

I want a good job (that's a tough one), but mostly to make my husband care about our home. He has cared enough for others. I mean, every day we grow more apart, I can feel it lately.

What course of action would you suggest? It would have to be strong, because whatever they do to him is already under his skin.
Thank you so much!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Aug 31, 2014 8:48 pm

Hello, zafer,

I am so sorry that your are living like this. It sounds so awful for you.

Not knowing what your legal rights are. have you even talked to an attorney to see if you have any legal rights? Wouldn't you be concerned that if you got a job, that the family would take your money away from you also (through your husband)?

I've moved your post to a subforum that can give you some spell ideas on what to do. So, please take a look at other suggestions.

I would also like to add to this that your husband seems to be the biggest problem here. No respect for you. Even without his parents' influence, it would seem that this attitude will continue whether you are living there or alone with him.

I suggest that you see an attorney.

I also suggest that you perform an influence skull candle spell on him: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

You might want to have some candles set for you also at MISC http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... -mojo.html

And consider a honey jar.

Please read through these pages and then , if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask.

Take care

zafer · Unread post by **zafer** » Sun Aug 31, 2014 10:33 pm

Miss Aida, thank you for the advice. From what I see quite a few women sadly have in laws problems.
I don't want to break up the marriage, I just want to get my husband out of their influence, because every single bad behaviour from his part is caused and fed by their involvement and demands. So, no attorney for now. You are right though: he is the one who allows all of this. It is his job, not mine to put them in their place, however I'll have to do it for him. If he likes so much to be dominated, maybe he'll find my domination sweeter.

I do have my own home but in this crisis a job seems like a dream. I do have rights, of course, I just don't want to risk a breakup before I try something "underground" so to speak.

Off to do my studying! Again, thank you!

Splitpea2 · Unread post by **Splitpea2** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 9:28 pm

My boyfriend and I broke up and he moved with his sister I don't beleive she hates me but I have only met her twice and I don't think she liked it much that her brother moved out of state to be with me.. Anyway back to my problem my ex left back and is now with someone new but I don't beleive serious,he always takes his sisters opinion very seriously so I wanted to know if there is anything that I can do to her so that she can take my side and tell him that he was wrong for what he did to me...

Unread post by **natstein** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 12:00 pm

Hello Splitpea2,

I merged your post into a thread about sweetening up family members. I thought the ideas in this thread would work well for your situation. You might look into the Influence honey jar spell kit. You can read about Influence products on this page (http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html) and there are links at the bottom to order the supplies. The kits are excellent because of the step by step directions. I hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Sep 12, 2014 1:23 pm

I agree with natstein -- the Influence Honey Jar spell kit is great for all kinds of sweet and gentle work with in-laws, samily members, and friends:

SPL-HON-INFL
Influence Another's Mind for Any Good Purpose Honey Spell
$25.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

Sweetening spells may be considered adjectival, that is, they are used for sweetening reconciliation, sweetening reunion, sweetening a judge or jury, sweetening a probation or parole officer, sweetening sex, sweetening marriage, sweetening a boss, sweetening co-workers, sweetening a workplace, sweetening friendships, sweetening a loan officer, sweetening a landlord, sweetening a pet, sweetening in-laws, sweetening an ex, sweetening a spiritual entity, etc.

For more information and practical magical tips on how to use sweetening spells for both proxy work (as in a honey or sugar jar) and in direct contact work (as in touching, dressing, feeding, bathing, or drinking) please refer to this book:

BOO-GRI-HHSS
Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells by Deacon Millett
$12.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

Good luck!

starlight1 · Unread post by **starlight1** » Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:13 pm

My children grandmother (not my mom) keeps interfering in our parenting relationship their dad and I have. when we talk we have an understanding and long as he do what's needed we're peaceful. he lives with her and most times she'll pick up the babies bc he most times be at work. so I have to communicate to her what I say to him also.

she tries to get him to put himself on child support, she gets mad when our child comes up there with something new on I bought, she get mad if I make the rules about how long our baby stays or what I want done (he's okay w/ our parenting arrangements ).

seems like she wants my kids as hers or something and try to put me in a bad light, also she didn't want us together either.

he tries to hide everything to avoid drama and he knows my temper is quick about my children but talk to him enough and he'll tell everything lol, so that's how I know. she has influence some of his actions enough and try to be sneaky with it.

it's gotten to the point where I'm fed up with her and I'm trying to avoid her to avoid cursing her out or putting my hands on her.

What can I do to help to get her to mind her business?

What can I do to help her put her mother in a home (where she'll be better taking care of) and move to the next state where her husband lives for his "job" ?

And what can I do to get her out of their father ear and don't worry about how we're parenting our babies!.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Feb 21, 2015 7:42 pm

Hello, starlight1,

Wow, this is a complicated situation. I'm so sorry.

You might want to try Bend Over spells on both of them to bend over to your will: www.luckymojo.com/bendover.html

And also put you and her in a honey jar to sweeten her a little bit to you (which will make the Bend Over more effective).

Unfortunately, I don't understand your second question. It seems to be out of context. HER mother?? Not understanding that or moving to another state. Sorry.

Please explain these questions

Thanks

starlight1 · Unread post by **starlight1** » Sat Feb 21, 2015 10:32 pm

My childrens grandmother mother stays with her instead of a nursing home.. everybody says and knows it's best that she goes to a nh to be better taken care of but she use her mother as a pun and excuse to be lazy and not do anything in life..

My kids grandmothers husband doesnt stay in the same household as her, he moved to the next state for his job after his wife refused to let his mom move in with them before she died and all of a sudden moved her own mother in..he only comes to her house every other weekend to see her and church..I was asking what would work to get the grandmother to put her mother in a home and move in with her husband where he lives in the next state?? I want her away from us now it's too much dealing with so many manipulative people and her basically helped ruin my relationship with him and now my situation with my children

starlight1 · Unread post by **starlight1** » Sat Feb 21, 2015 10:57 pm

As for the bend over suggestion is bend over better or commanding for my situation?

Also for the petition because I want to word it correctly is something simple as do as I say and want will work enough or going into detail a little more better is best?