Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Feb 22, 2015 10:34 pm

Hello, starlight1 ,

You may want to use a white Skull candle on her to either influence her: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Or Command her to do so: www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

You could try commanding instead of bend over. It's up to you.

And you need to go into more detail: "Jane Doe will move to another state" <---just an example

Take care and good luck!

beaujolais · Unread post by **beaujolais** » Fri May 29, 2015 10:42 am

Hello, everyone. I'm a longtime reader, first-time poster. Just looking for help in finding the right products for dealing with an overbearing, over-the-top mother-in-law. To be clear, I do care about this person so I'm looking to do any harm. But her constant interference has me at my wits' end.

She is someone who used to be very independent, was travelling, living her life, etc. But then she had a grandchild (my child) and now she seems to want to control our lives, have us sitting up under her for every holiday and constantly wanting to take my child to her house so that she can be the fun-fairy while I barely get to have any quality time with him. When she is with my child she is so over-the-top sweety-sweet and cooing over him. When we join her somewhere, she laser focuses on him and greets him like a long-lost lover. I'm not exaggerating. You would really have to see it to believe it. It's really more than I can stand and so many times I've been on the verge of saying, "ugh! stop it already!" As you might imagine, talking to my husband about it does no good whatsoever. He just thinks she's really excited to have a grandchild. Sorry, but she's had years to get used to it. She had her chance to be a parent. She used to have a boyfriend to take up more of her time, but she bored him to death too. She's not at all an old lady but she likes to sit around the house.

Unfortunately, children are simple and can be bought off in some ways. When he was a baby, he didn't even like her and would cry when she would try to hold him. But she now uses her larger house and money to woo him and it works. She secretly made a room at her house specifically for her "only grandchild". (Not that she has to tell me what she's doing with her house, but why keep it a secret when it involves my child/someone I'm responsible for?) Needless to say, all the toys and sweets and videogames and everything in the world. He gets to do anything he wants all the time. I'm sure it seems like a wonderland to a child who normally lives in a small townhouse and has to do homework and chores. He cries when it's time to come back home and she thinks it's so funny. Their family has a history of kids falling out with their parents and ending up living with the over-indulging grandparents and if feels to me like this is what she's angling for - maybe even unconsciously.

As I said she is mostly an OK person, but now that she has retired she seems to have set her sights on getting us to do everything her way. I want us to have a more active life and being locked into spending every holiday and birthday and special occasion in her living room is killing me. (Quick example: July 4th, I want to go and see the fireworks. She will want us on her sofa eating oven-que.) I want us to get out more. We do invite her sometimes, but because she doesn't work she will usually try to get us to come over to her house before my husband and I can even think of what to do. Add to this the fact that as a working mom, the only quality time I get with my son is on the weekend. Of course, she does her best to try to co-op our family time just about every weekend. I need her to find other things to do. Or for her daughter to have a child or something. I would like to do something that keeps me from having to constantly fend her off. The normal means of communication are not working. She is just completely determined to take over more of our lives. I work very hard and I really need to feel like in my spare time I'm living MY OWN LIFE, not just getting dragged along in someone else's. Would banishing, compelling or commanding help? Any help or advice is appreciated. I am so distressed and completely at the end of my rope with her.

beaujolais · Unread post by **beaujolais** » Sat May 30, 2015 11:04 am

Anyone?

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Sat May 30, 2015 12:24 pm

Hi beaujolais,

I would do some Stop Gossip work since you don't want to harm her or remove her from your life. You can purchase a Stop Gossip Spell Kit with full instructions:

www.luckymojo.com/spell-stop-gossip.html

Blessings!

beaujolais · Unread post by **beaujolais** » Sat May 30, 2015 12:25 pm

Thank you, Ms Melanie!

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Sat May 30, 2015 3:56 pm

Hi beaujolais,

You are welcome!

Blessings

oceanblue · Unread post by **oceanblue** » Fri Sep 04, 2015 10:27 am

Hi,

It's taken me a very long time working a honey jar on my in laws, who have made my life hell. Last night I burnt a small candle with reconciliation oil as usual on complete burn I was shocked to see the results as if someone had flattened the candle and drawn two eyes and a smile on the candle remains in black. I know no one has tampered with my work because I was the only one in the house.
Now i don't feel like burning anymore on the jar because I don't want to loose the image

It still remains to be seen if my in laws reunite with me but I really wanted to share this with everyone and to have faith in your work.

Thank you luckymojo, you've put a spring in my step. God bless you all for keeping this site updated.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Sep 06, 2015 7:56 pm

That is a most impressive positive sign, oceanblue! May it manifest just as impressively in your daily life.

Miss Michaele

oceanblue · Unread post by **oceanblue** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 5:23 am

Thank you MissMichaele.

I haven't seen any movement yet. Would you suggest I keep up the honey jar (although the smiley face is great to walk past and feel YES!... Finally a break through)

Or would you stop the honey jar?

There's four people in one honey jar. Of which one person has fallen out with all the others in the jar about a separate issue and has started to become close to me.

I'm aware there's one person in my jar- eldest sister is very destructive. I've been told by the above person I'd need to get into a boxing ring to win this person over. Unfortunately that's not my makeup, I'm spiritually at a better place now than bowing down to her commands.
Non the less, she tents to interfere and bully people emotionally to act on her order. What can you suggest I can do to either get her to stop interfering and live her own life or to get her to soften to me?
This is just to give the honey jar work a little unff of backup just in case.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 9:06 pm

Hello, oceanblue ,

Don't stop the honey jar!!!!

If this is working and you are getting good results, PLEASE keep it going.

That jar will probably eventually work on her to soften her to you

Take care and congrats on our work!

oceanblue · Unread post by **oceanblue** » Fri Sep 11, 2015 11:20 pm

Miss Aida
thank you for responding. I'll keep up the work

Snowflake Obsidian · Unread post by **Snowflake Obsidian** » Fri Dec 18, 2015 6:18 pm

I'm hoping to find a solution to my problem here.

Long story short: I've been married to my husband for eight years and we should have been out of here years ago. He's racked up his debt to $14k, won't tell me how it got to that number, and would rather spend extra money on comic books and collectibles rather than paying down debt.

His father is a narcissistic control freak who blames everyone else and can never see fault in himself. He belittles and demoralizes everyone in his family but treats strangers like gold.

His mother is a hoarder who can't get over the deaths of her parents and her dog. She cradles the dog's urn and kisses it for hours. She performs rituals where she kisses pictures of said dog. She refuses to throw anything away, including Easter eggs.

Here's what I'm hoping to accomplish:

For my husband: get him to tone down or stop his collecting habits. Put more money towards his debt and find a better paying job.

For the FIL: learn humility and empathy. Learn that his words have consequences and he might one day end up alone with no one to support him.

For the MIL: let go of the past and realize that grieving publicly will not get her the sympathy she craves. Start getting rid of the stuff she no longer needs.

Any tips on how to get started, or which services to consider? Thanks in advance. This is a toxic home and I've come close to running away several times (and I would have if I could support myself, or didn't mind going back to my own toxic parents).

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Dec 18, 2015 10:20 pm

Hi Snowflake Obsidian,

I am sorry you are going through so much difficulty. There are some things you can do to help your situation.

For your husband, work a white skull candle dressed with Influence and Cast Off Evil oil, and talk to it as you would to him to get him to get rid of his bad habits and find steady work. Burn it in increments over 7-9 days, preferably while he is sleeping. You can read about skull candles in the thread on the subject right here on the forum.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

For your in-laws, I strongly encourage they get professional help from a licensed mental health practitioner. They have psychological issues that should be addressed by a trained therapist and I truly hope you are able to steer them in that direction.

There are some things you can do to improve the spiritual energy in your house as it relates to them.

For your father in law, put him in a honey jar to help improve his relationship with the rest of you in the household. There is a thread here for how to perform those spells, so you can find ideas easily.

For your mother in law, you could work Healing and Tranquility products on her. Use the bath crystals in the rinse cycle when laundering any of her clothing, and put a tiny drop of diluted bath crystals in her shampoo bottle. Consider other ways to bring her in contact with those products and that should help.

http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Snowflake Obsidian · Unread post by **Snowflake Obsidian** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 8:35 am

Hello, Miss Athena. Thanks for your reply and suggestions.

Ah, if only the mere suggestion of seeking professional help weren't such a stigma. I've known for years that the two of them needed it, but she only sought it after the death of her dog. After a year, we've seen no improvements, and her depression and hoarding have only gotten worse. My husband and I can only think of two reasons: she's undermining the professional help and lying to her therapist, or her therapist is using her to get easy money.

As for the FIL, well, he'll deny that he has any issues. He's the kind of person who will gladly explain why you're wrong/stupid/immoral and overlook any wrongdoings or mistakes he's made. His ego is unbreakable. He'd have to be ordered by some authority to seek counseling. I've wanted to work some dark energy on him for years (such as something to take away his speech), but I've always hesitated, fearing that it might backfire. I do my best to practice responsible spellwork, and that includes not giving in to impulses.

Although I don't think he deserves it, maybe the honey jar will be beneficial. Anything at this point.

Thank you again!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 12:44 pm

Snowflake Obsidian, I would say that -- in a situation where so much has gone wrong for so many years -- you really need everybody's personal concerns at this point.

I would recommend King Solomon Wisdom for your mother-in-law and husband, along with Miss Athena's excellent suggestions.

You and your husband could benefit from Money Stay With Me work. Peaceful Home is also beneficial; among other things, it enables you to talk honestly and lovingly about thorny subjects that need attention.

I would also recommend a little sugar on your husband's skull candle, so the prospect of paying down debt becomes attractive to him. A little Sampson Snake Root, too, to bring him self-respect as he does so.

Growing up with such parents, there's probably a strong element of self-care to his hobbies, but there may also be more to it than that. My own parents were antique collectors -- furniture, clothing, china and crystal, and even cars. It was far beyond "retail therapy;" it was also surrounding themselves with art. I believe all collectors, even of toys and comics and other ephemera, feel this way. I'm in no position to disagree. It can be a source of joy and wonder in good times, and consolation in bad times.

For your father-in-law I have no sympathy. If sweetening him would make your own life pleasanter, it's worth a try. But you might put some poppy seeds and licorice root in that honey jar.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

MissJ · Unread post by **MissJ** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 7:14 pm

My step daughter is lying on me

I have been taking care of my two step daughters for the last six years and had them come from a foreign country because their mother died of cancer. It was really rough at first for all three of us. They had issues. I put them in therapy and they each have been committed to a mental hospital briefly. Their dad wanted to send them back to their maternal grandmother many times but I stopped him. He was basically a McDonalds dad and didn't really know them.

The youngest has been telling her family members that I am abusing her. She is 15 and surrounded by teachers, therapists and in school therapists but she wants to stir trouble. I am not abusing anyone. Her dad left and didn't take them with him. He stopped giving me money and I have been supporting us for weeks. He came back and her older sister told me she has been texting their older cousin saying she is living in fear. I need her to shut up and stop telling lies. I have been through so much with them and this constant need for sympathy to the point that you start lying on people drives my crazy. What can I do to make her shut up? if she could admit her lies that would be even better

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Dec 22, 2015 7:20 pm

Hi MissJ,

Sorry to hear you are going through this after being such a kind stepmother to these children.

You can work with Stop Gossip to silence her lies about you. I would suggest getting the spell kit, as it has everything you need plus full instructions.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stop-gossip.html

I would also work with Peaceful Home to keep things calm and peaceful.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stop-gossip.html

Finally, put her in a honey jar to sweeten her to you and hopefully overcome whatever is driving her toxic lies about you. You can do a search on the forum using the little search bar at the top of the page for the thread on honey jars to get advice on how to construct one.

Good luck.

MissJ · Unread post by **MissJ** » Sat Dec 26, 2015 1:43 am

Thanks Ms. Athena for the suggestions,

my husband told me he was taking her with him over the road for a couple of days and lo and behold she is now in another state with his relatives. I told him she can stay there. I love her but have to do whats is best for the rest of the children and myself. I am so confused as a couple of weeks ago she came to me and said she was so thankful for me being in her life and asked me why did I put up with her and her antics for all these years and I just replyed because I love you.

Then to go and stir the pot. Fustrating

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Sat Dec 26, 2015 5:09 am

Hello everyone. I have a situation with my exgf. We broke up and I got a reading done and was told that she is ultimately who I end up with. Was also told we have a strong connection to each other. (Sounds awesome right?) well I've always been naturally intuitive and have been able to read situations subconsciously (idk what else to call it) but I've always known her mom and her grandmother didn't like me much. So with that back story I am currently working a honey jar (going to redo it) and work it daily during the day and at night I want to work a white skull candle for my ex.

Now my question here is I name the skull after her but can I write on the skull things about me I want her to remember? Say remember "nocturnalworker's" laugh or the way "nocturnalworker" looked at me? And so on on the petition paper or on the skull? Not sure what oil to dress it with nor herbs to use I was also thinking of lighting 4 pink candles around the skulls as a boost of happy loving thoughts

Now could I place the skull over my new honey jar?

Last part.

Thinking of doing two white skulls and then a red skull with more push to contacting me. Then progressing to thoughts of love and when I do the red skull I want 4 red candles around it.

But what about her family? Should I work white skulls for each of them? If so what herbs and oils?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 26, 2015 10:06 pm

Hi nocturnalworker,

I have moved your post to the thread on in-laws, as you are asking for help with the family of your target (although technically not your in-laws but the situation is similar).

You can put them all in a honey jar to sweeten their relationship with you.

You could also work separate skull candles on them to embed more positive thoughts about you in their heads. I would dress these with Influence oil and write the thoughts you want them to have right on the skull.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

Your plans for skull candles on your love interest sound fine.

Good luck.

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Sun Dec 27, 2015 11:27 am

Miss Athena. Someone told me I should just burn a red skull for my ex and her family. But to write softer petitions on it like I said before about simple things. And to use white candles the first few skulls and then move to pink and then move to red.

Now they also said to burn the skull over the jar ESP the skull I've named after my ex and then place both and work then both over a mirror. What's the point of the mirror?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Dec 28, 2015 2:13 pm

Hello, nocturnalworker,

No, don't do that.

I see where they are going with this but it is not standard practice

Take care

nocturnalworker · Unread post by **nocturnalworker** » Mon Dec 28, 2015 3:20 pm

What would the mirror do?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Dec 28, 2015 3:27 pm

Hello, nocturnalworker,

Check out this page:

www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Take care

Tired from MIL FIL · Unread post by **Tired from MIL FIL** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 1:49 pm

Hi Everyone . I do have very serious problem . I am married for 10 years but we were separated from 8 years because of my husband and his family. Now we r together from 2 years again.we are living separate from my MIL and FIL but now they wanna move with us. My husband is mama's boy. For my husband his parents are always right and he can do anything to keep their parents happy. My in laws doesn't like me and they are always keep saying bad words to me and parents .my in-laws always suggesting my husband to not trust on me and my parents
My husband doesn't like my parents but my parents love him more than their son. My husband told me strictly that my parents can't come to our house. One time he didn't let my parents to enter our house.
I just want my in laws keep stay away from us and my husband become a good son -in- law.so I can see my parents and siblings.i didn't see my parents from 2 years.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:21 pm

Hello, Tired from MIL FIL ,

Welcome to the forum.

Wow, you have such a TERRIBLE situation on your hands. I am so sorry.

You may want to try hotfoot and banishing on your in-laws to get them away and keep them away:

www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

I would also HIGHLY recommend a Stop Gossip spell on those in-laws to shut them up! Here is a page with lots of spells:

www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

And many people use sweetening spells. So, try putting your parents and husband in a sweetening jar to sweeten them all to each other:

www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

I hope that things work out for you. And that you keep those TERRIBLE people away from your life

take care

Tired from MIL FIL · Unread post by **Tired from MIL FIL** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:28 pm

Thanks. I will try these spells

Tired from MIL FIL · Unread post by **Tired from MIL FIL** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 11:06 pm

Hi as I told you in early spell that I m getting problems because of mil and FIL .today my husband beats me badly because he said that I didn't talk to his parents nicely.he beated me badly .can you give me any suggestions.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 11:48 pm

Hello, Tired from MIL FIL ,

I am so so sorry.

PLEASE call a shelter for abused women IMMEDIATELY and get out of that house. Get into a shelter now. PLEASE

You have got to get out of this environment right now.

PLEASE get away from all of them. And get help from professionals who can help you to handle this situation.

No person is worth enduring this type of abuse. Nobody.

If you need medical attention, go to the emergency room. Tell the nurses also to call the hospital's social worker and bring that person in to help you there.

PLEASE.

Innocence · Unread post by **Innocence** » Wed Feb 10, 2016 4:54 pm

My ex's father and sisters have always liked me. I started a honey jar on them months ago just in case. I will have to move out soon and I want a spell to make the father miss me so he would mention to my ex how he wished I was still living there. Which product would help achieve this? Would Restless work? But that product seems to be more for enemy work right?

mizjoannlee · Unread post by **mizjoannlee** » Wed Feb 10, 2016 5:08 pm

Innocence,

I think Restless is a bit harsh for what you want.

I recommend a red skull candle with Influence oil. Write his name on it and slather it with oil. Every night late, late at night for seven nights when he would be sleeping, talk to the candle and tell it you want him to mention to your ex how much he misses you and wishes you were still living there. On the seventh night, light the candle and bury the wax in your yard.

I think this should work.

Innocence · Unread post by **Innocence** » Wed Feb 10, 2016 5:13 pm

Miss JoAnn Lee,

Thank you! I thought about using a skull candle too but wasn't sure which color to use.

mmachix · Unread post by **mmachix** » Thu Feb 11, 2016 3:34 pm

Someone I know just got canned at a job they really liked. I took a white candle, inscribed a petition that the owner would call that person back into work,I only had the owners first name, and I annoited it with Influence and Good Luck oil. I burned Influnece incense and read psalm 23 and said a short prayer. Am I on the right track?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Feb 11, 2016 8:58 pm

Hi mmachix,

You are a lovely friend to want to help like that.

I think you are on the right track using Influence products. You might want to consider using a skull candle for this, and embed those thoughts into the owner's head. If you only know their first name and the name of the company, you could add that they want to call (Your Friend's Name) back to the office. Add as much specificity as you can.

You could also use Steady Work products on a candle for your friend and petition that he/she be called back to work in that office.

http://www.luckymojo.com/steadywork.html

I hope this helps your friend.

Good luck.

Cortana · Unread post by **Cortana** » Thu Mar 17, 2016 3:02 am

I need some conjure advice on how to get my husband's Mother and Two Older Sisters to stop being so controlling over him, to accept him for who he is, and respect his feelings. I love them dearly and they have been so kind and generous toward us, it's just we're starting to notice a pattern in their behavior and how deeply controlling they're trying to be. I just wish they'd back off a little and give him some space, let him be an adult. There is a vast age difference between my husband and his older sisters, he is a youngest and throughout his life he'd lived in a bit of a sheltered affluent life. They have seemed to not given him much independence, which led him into depression, low-self esteem, and using(he's in recovery now) because he's always felt so controlled by his family. They have taken care of us when we've needed them, so I don't want to push them away. I'd just like them to stop trying to control him, they (the SIL's) do get very argumentative with him which stresses him out even more and puts an strain on our relationship. Even his attempts to try and get a word in edgewise, to assert his independence, show his emotions in regards to how they treat him, or even over the smallest disagreement and the sisters gang up on him, his mom joins so it's that "3 against 1 so we're right you're wrong" attitude. I wish it would stop.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 17, 2016 8:51 pm

Hello, Cortana ,

That's a shame.

I would perform a Skull candle on him with Master products, Crucible of Courage, and Do as I say. Tell him that he is in charge and he's the boss.

Then, I would perform another spell using 2 skull candles: One representing him and one representing the harshest person. Again you would repeat his skull candle spell just like the first time. But, on hers, you would put influence products. Have them face-to-face and tell her that he is the boss and she needs to respect that.

www.luckymojo.com/master.html

www.luckymojo.com/doasisay.html

www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

www.luckymojo.com/mojoctcandles.html

I hope this will help

Take care

Cortana · Unread post by **Cortana** » Sat Mar 19, 2016 9:17 am

I should have mentioned I'm on an extremely tight budget too.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Mar 19, 2016 7:45 pm

Hello, Cortana,

It doesn't change my suggestions

Sorry

Mayasol · Unread post by **Mayasol** » Thu Apr 07, 2016 6:31 pm

I've ordered balm of gilead and am going to do a honey pot on the troublesome mother of my boyfriend. I am going to her house tomorrow. What could I take to initiate peace and have her stop discouraging our relationship? I have peaceful home water, commanding, controlling, come to me, follow me boy, but that's it... any suggestions?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 07, 2016 10:36 pm

Hello, Mayasol,

Peaceful Home is nice!

Good luck!

Mayasol · Unread post by **Mayasol** » Sun Apr 10, 2016 12:22 pm

Miss Aida,

I did what you advised. I burned a blue candle with peace water and burned it while baking cookies for my boyfriend's mother. I put my concern in it and prayed the whole time for love and peace between us. I brought them over Friday night, and a woman who would not even respond to a simple yes or no text was writing me to thank me for the cookies and wishing me a beautiful day!!! Thank you for your help!!

Love

foxesstone · Unread post by **foxesstone** » Mon Apr 11, 2016 1:07 pm

How do I make my sister in law who absolutely hates me and competes with me do a 360?

I mean, I'm never going to get rid of her, and I wish she'd realize that and stop acting like the queen bee but she doesn't.

What can I do to make her love me and instead of seeing me as someone to compete with as a family member to love?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Apr 11, 2016 8:20 pm

Hello, Mayasol,

Congrats!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Apr 11, 2016 8:22 pm

Hello, foxesstone ,

Put her in an influence honey jar: www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spell-kit-influence.html

And, please read the 4 pages on this thread for more ideas!

Take care

pbg98pbg · Unread post by **pbg98pbg** » Wed May 18, 2016 3:27 pm

The story is lengthy. I'm embarrassed to be out here, to my self really .

My mother-in-law seems to take her son (my husband) for her husband and was jealous of me living in the house.

I know she thinks I used magic for us to get married, but I did not. We got married for 3 main reasons. He was more eager than me. I was terrified. Getting married doesn't mean the relationship will work out.

She took my husband from me. We were doing good. Then she started telling him "not to come inside me" and a whole bunch of other stuff. If he starts saying he misses me and is coming to see me (due to a spell) she may feel that she has to "react" towards me again. If I use magic to put us back together and she is in his life, she may do worse regarding me. My goal is to make my husband and her stop talking. Either I have to do that, or to make her think the world of me so she will love the fact that we are together.

Anyway...

Is there someone or something that can help me to get my mother-in-law out of the way?

Can I get rid of her and be sure she wont hold conversations with him about me once I do the come back to me spell?

Can I make her think the world of me so that she will be happy for us to be together if we reconcile?

Can I just get rid of her and let the universe handle the how, but be sure she will talk to him about me?

If there are any spell casters, or conjure doctors out there I would really appreciate if you have some advice or a work phone number that I can have. I will accept her gone in any fashion.

Sorry if I broke a rule, sorry if my question is stupid. Forgive me. Just want some advice. I am open to any and all onions and suggestions. professional or otherwise.

There is a lot more to the story but the keyboard is so stiff it is hurting my fingers and wrist.

Now I am in a foreign country without my husband and step son. Please help.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 18, 2016 7:56 pm

Hello, pbg98pbg,

I usually give spell work advice BUT because this is so complicated and you're not sure what to do, I suggest that you contact a reader and rootworker to help you with this matter.

This issue requires a reading first and foremost. Then, the rootworker can perform spells for you (on your behalf) and/or have you also perform spells.

Find readers here: http://readersandrootworkers.org

Wishing you the very best

take care

kimmygirl · Unread post by **kimmygirl** » Mon Jun 27, 2016 4:39 pm

Hello
I need some help in dealing with my husbands extended family,because of them we moved way across on the east coast and now they are at it again. my .husbands health is at stake,please ,is there a candle spell that I can have the church burn for me to be done with these people, I dont want my husband back in the hospital again. And this time not come out alive. Please,please.
Thank you for all the responses

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Jun 27, 2016 8:34 pm

Hi kimmygirl,

I am sorry you are going through all of this.

I have merged your post with the appropriate thread. In the future, please do not start new topics like this when they already exist on the forum.

Please read through the posts in this thread, as others here have gone through what you are going through and have been given good advice here. If you still have questions after reading, you can ask them here.

I wish you the best of luck.

kimmygirl · Unread post by **kimmygirl** » Thu Jun 30, 2016 11:45 am

Oh I'm so sorry. Thank you .

Miss_A · Unread post by **Miss_A** » Sun Oct 02, 2016 11:03 am

Hey everyone, I am new to this site.

I am looking for some help/advice, me and my sons father have been broken up due to his crazy mother who does " 21 division" she always caused us to fight and the main reason why we are not together anymore, she want me to be out of the picture for good. I had done a cleansing bath because I was told she had put a spirit on me that discredits me as a person and as a mother I am not sure if it worked or not since I am very new to this all. I know he is angry with me and I would like to know what I can do to bring him back to me so we can be together happily as a family with out his mother interfering I do know he talks to other females most likely messes around with some.. which saint would help me in this situation ? any advice is helpful, thanks in advance !

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Oct 02, 2016 7:00 pm

Hi Miss_A,

I have moved your post to the correct thread on troublesome family members, as this is the more appropriate location for your situation.

I am sorry you are having so many difficulties with this woman.

21 Divisiones is a Dominican spiritual practice and we cannot speak to that here, as this is a forum for the practice of hoodoo. However, you can employ several hoodoo spells to get her to back off.

You should put her in a mirror box, to return her evil back to her. Do a little search of the forum for mirror boxes and you will find great advice on how to construct one for her.

You have done a cleansing bath, which is great, but you have not talked about doing a cleansing of your home. Use Chinese Wash for this, and it can clear away any spiritual gunk that is lingering in your home.
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html

You should follow that up with protection, to keep any more spiritual messes from hitting you. Here are a couple of pages for spells and talismans that can keep you protected:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html

Once you have set yourself up to clean away her mess and protect yourself from future attacks, you can work on bringing him back to you. Search the forum for Reconciliation advice and you will find a lot of very useful information.

If you do wish to appeal to a particular saint, Saint Martha the Dominator has been very helpful in subduing misbehaving men. Her thread is here:
saint-martha-spiritual-supplies-questions-and-answers-t5462.html

And products to work with her are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-saint-martha.html

Please read through this thread as well for more helpful advice on dealing with problem family members.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Cortana · Unread post by **Cortana** » Tue Nov 01, 2016 4:33 pm

Why hasn't there been an "I dominate my MIL" or I dominate my in-laws" line of products made? It seems like such a timeless issue.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Nov 01, 2016 7:11 pm

Hello, Cortana ,

Because the Domination products will cover these areas

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

take care

gg18 · Unread post by **gg18** » Wed May 24, 2017 5:40 pm

Hello!

I am needing advice on which products/spells to buy to sweeten my ex-boyfriends family.

My boyfriend and I recently split and his family has been behind the whole reason of him not coming back. They keep feeding him shit and by the looks of it, I don't think they've genuinely accepted me from the start. His family and I were civil while him and I were together, but since the split, they don't even want to hear my name. Him and I have a beautiful 10 month old baby and would love to be in good terms with his family. Especially considering the babys 1st birthday is coming up.

Sidenote: I am already working on a honey jar on my ex boyfriend and seems to be working slowly, but surely.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu May 25, 2017 11:31 am

Hello gg18,

That great that you've started a honey jar, that was going to be my first suggestion. Burn light blue candles on top dressed with Peaceful Home oil. It also sounds though that backing up this work with some Stop Gossip spells could benefit you as well:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

One other idea would be to sprinkle Peace Water around, if you can get to a space where his family members walk around (like a living room):

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Good luck!

gg18 · Unread post by **gg18** » Sun May 28, 2017 12:54 pm

Hi Sister Jean,

Thank you for your quick response.

I started a honey jar for my ex-boyfriend, but not his parents. What herbs can I purchase to make a honey for them?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun May 28, 2017 9:18 pm

Hello, gg18,

Here you go!!

www.herb-magic.com/love-herbs-mixture.html

Take care

fleurfairy · Unread post by **fleurfairy** » Tue Jun 13, 2017 7:34 am

I didn't see this problem in the thread, so I thought I would ask. I need helping dealing with my mother-in-law. She's actually very nice to me and always has been, so I feel lucky compared to some other posters on here that have nightmare in-laws! My main problem with her though is that she is incredibly overbearing and nosy - constant questions about our personal lives. My husband and I are in the process of buying a house and she mentioned to me that she was going to contact the realtor of the seller so that she could go see the house. Completely inappropriate things like that. I guess it doesn't help that I'm a very private person and don't like to let people in to my own thoughts and feelings. My husband usually tells her to back off, but I don't want him to constantly have to take up for me against her nosiness and smothering. Is there a spell that could keep her at a safe distance? I was thinking Fiery Wall of Protection....but maybe there's something better?

Corvus · Unread post by **Corvus** » Wed Jul 12, 2017 6:07 am

Hello everyone
I believe this thread is the most appropriate one under which to post with my questions. Like all of the problems addressed here on the forum, mine is complex. I wish to decrease the amount of control my MIL has on my wife. Some time back, we moved to the state where my in laws live. Before, I had no idea quite how enmeshed my MIL was in the lives of her kids. She is a gossip, medldler, and truly passive aggressive. Rules via quilt. My first thought is Inluence products and sweetener work for my wife. I like an equal and loving relationship and have no interest in dominating her. The MIL, on the other hand, needs to back off. I was thinking stop gossip blended with something else. I welcome your thoughts and recommendations.
Thanks
Corvus

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 12, 2017 7:57 pm

Hello, Corvus ,

Your ideas for your wife are great!

If you are asking abut blending oils, you may want to blend it with a domination type oil

Here is a webpage that lists the oils such as: Do AS I Say,, Commanding, etc

Then, you can choose what you think is appropriate for this situation

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

Wishing you the best

take care