Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
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I hope I am placing this in the right form as I am new to this. I would like to get back with my ex but his mother is always in our business. She is the main cause Along with me to have this relationship go south and end. He still have majority of his things in my house at this time. I would like to see if I can get a break up spell between him and his mother and also get him back even if I have to get real voodoo dolls. Can someone help me please we been together for 2 1/2 years and was engaged until a week ago.
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Hello, Beautifuldiaries05 ,
Oh y God. I am so sorry. So very sorry. You must be devastated
If this were me, I wouldn't try a break up spell between mother and child. What was mean to be between the 2 of them was meant to be
Instead, I would think about just souring their relationship with a vinegar jar.
Then, I would make a honey jar for you and her.
And return to me for you
www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
I wish you the best success with your spells
Oh y God. I am so sorry. So very sorry. You must be devastated
If this were me, I wouldn't try a break up spell between mother and child. What was mean to be between the 2 of them was meant to be
Instead, I would think about just souring their relationship with a vinegar jar.
Then, I would make a honey jar for you and her.
And return to me for you
www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
I wish you the best success with your spells
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I've been having trouble with inlaws forever. They've treated me poorly in the past, and my partner is in denial of their "true selves". What spell can I cast to show their true colors to him, and everyone else.
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Hello RockaBilly1981,
I'm sorry you're having trouble with your in-laws. I think a helpful move would be to work a skull candle on your partner to help him see these people for who they really are. Get a white skull candle and dress it with Influence and Clarity oils. Then carve SEE FAMILY CLEARLY on it, and load it with your partner's personal concerns. Light it while your partner is sleeping, and tell it to think how and what you want them to think. Leave the candle burning with a picture of your in-laws right in front of it, so it's "looking" at them:
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
In the meantime, put all these jerks into a mirror box so their bad deeds are reflected back onto them:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html
Be well.
I'm sorry you're having trouble with your in-laws. I think a helpful move would be to work a skull candle on your partner to help him see these people for who they really are. Get a white skull candle and dress it with Influence and Clarity oils. Then carve SEE FAMILY CLEARLY on it, and load it with your partner's personal concerns. Light it while your partner is sleeping, and tell it to think how and what you want them to think. Leave the candle burning with a picture of your in-laws right in front of it, so it's "looking" at them:
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
In the meantime, put all these jerks into a mirror box so their bad deeds are reflected back onto them:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html
Be well.
Thank you saints and spirits!
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Hello everyone I have posted about this situation before but I wanted to post again because I wanted to get some information on what I should do. My brother has been dating this girl for years they are now married. I think he was forced to do it. but she is Satan herself! If she can't control a situation, she will do anything to make it go her way. she is very nasty she has been nasty to a lot of my family members and also controlling towards my brother. Her own father wants nothing to do with her.. she has not let me see my niece and nephews for over 3 years because she's very spiteful. I've never done anything to her but been nice to her. I also think she has a spell going on with my parents and my other brother because they still go over there.
She has threatened me several times.
I have been nothing but nice to this girl and I am sick of her. I want her to go away and my brother is under her command because when she's mad at me he'll get mad at me and he won't talk to me either. I have done nothing to neither one of these people. I even talked to a psychic about them amd the lady stated that she is very bitter and I remind her of what she doesn't have. And that my brother just follows her. She said if I make a friend of her, it will stop. Nope. I tried to be her friend for years and I'm not going to keep being disrespected. I want to do something so she can see how she's acted towards me like a mirror spell. or I want all the negativity she sent me to bounce over to her she has threatened my cousin's. I don't like her and I want her to go away. What can I do to make her leave me and my family alone. Now the part with my niece and nephews I have cried and I mean for years and I'm done crying. my nephew acts funny towards me he doesn't call me, he doesn't even speak because of things she's said to him I want to make her go away and leave my family alone.
Any suggestions would be great. Thank you
She has threatened me several times.
I have been nothing but nice to this girl and I am sick of her. I want her to go away and my brother is under her command because when she's mad at me he'll get mad at me and he won't talk to me either. I have done nothing to neither one of these people. I even talked to a psychic about them amd the lady stated that she is very bitter and I remind her of what she doesn't have. And that my brother just follows her. She said if I make a friend of her, it will stop. Nope. I tried to be her friend for years and I'm not going to keep being disrespected. I want to do something so she can see how she's acted towards me like a mirror spell. or I want all the negativity she sent me to bounce over to her she has threatened my cousin's. I don't like her and I want her to go away. What can I do to make her leave me and my family alone. Now the part with my niece and nephews I have cried and I mean for years and I'm done crying. my nephew acts funny towards me he doesn't call me, he doesn't even speak because of things she's said to him I want to make her go away and leave my family alone.
Any suggestions would be great. Thank you
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Hello, Cupcakes and dreams ,
I have read your other post and I have a few questions:
#1-Are you talking about the same person as you were before?
#2-What kind of threats did she make to you and your cousin?
Take care
I have read your other post and I have a few questions:
#1-Are you talking about the same person as you were before?
#2-What kind of threats did she make to you and your cousin?
Take care
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Hi Miss Aida how are you. Yes it's the same person. I apologize for posting about the same thing. She has made threats to fight me and my cousin. Saying that she will see me when she gets back in town. Just a mean person
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My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago me and his mother had a close relationship and now she is mad with me and doesn’t want me in the house and wants him to not be with me because of the fight we had in her house she said I was disrespecting her house but she completely took his side which is fine that’s her son anyway but how can I make her not be mad anymore and have these bad impressions of me because now it’s affecting my boyfriend getting back with me I just want her to like me again and Stop thinking bad things about me we had a good relationship I even tried to call her and she ended up hanging up on me
is there any specific saint I can work with on this ? I don’t have any photos or personal concerns of hers so I don’t know how difficult this is gonna .

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Hello Miss_A,
I'm sorry you're dealing with these troubles with her. A great place to start would be a honey jar:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Hope that helps!
I'm sorry you're dealing with these troubles with her. A great place to start would be a honey jar:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Hope that helps!
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Hi all, just posting for any suggestions. This situation is still going on. Thank you for any ideas.
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Hello Cupcakes and dreams,
I'm sorry this is still going on. You actually posted a great suggestion in one of your earlier posts, and that is to put this horrible person in a mirror box, to reverse back onto her all the hurt she has caused you:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html
Follow that up with some Hot Foot work, to get her to go away:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
As for your brother being under her command, try out this spell that I posted in a post just above yours:
posting.php?mode=reply&f=49&t=2363#pr376175
Good luck to you.
I'm sorry this is still going on. You actually posted a great suggestion in one of your earlier posts, and that is to put this horrible person in a mirror box, to reverse back onto her all the hurt she has caused you:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html
Follow that up with some Hot Foot work, to get her to go away:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
As for your brother being under her command, try out this spell that I posted in a post just above yours:
posting.php?mode=reply&f=49&t=2363#pr376175
Good luck to you.
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Hi,
My boyfriend's mother is a nasty woman. She is selfish, unkind, and honestly, not all there. Recent events have lead me to see how truly toxic she is - she turned on me, started talking badly about me, called up my boyfriend and yelled at him about me. She calls him multiple times a day to badger him about one thing or another, and if he dares to tell her he can't talk, she gets furious and calls again later to yell at him some more. She recently refused to help me in a very bad situation, and even refused to see her baby grandson. She then told everyone who would hear that she wouldn't allow me to treat her badly. She also has decided I am a gold digger. I did absolutely nothing to her!!
My boyfriend and I are in a place where our relationship may not survive, but as we have a child together, a clean break will not be possible. Since I will not be able to remove her from my life completely, I need some ideas on what work I can do to keep her nastiness as far away from me and my kids as possible. I'm not sure if I should do a honey jar, freezer spell, vinegar bottle? Something else entirely?
Thank you!
xoxo
My boyfriend's mother is a nasty woman. She is selfish, unkind, and honestly, not all there. Recent events have lead me to see how truly toxic she is - she turned on me, started talking badly about me, called up my boyfriend and yelled at him about me. She calls him multiple times a day to badger him about one thing or another, and if he dares to tell her he can't talk, she gets furious and calls again later to yell at him some more. She recently refused to help me in a very bad situation, and even refused to see her baby grandson. She then told everyone who would hear that she wouldn't allow me to treat her badly. She also has decided I am a gold digger. I did absolutely nothing to her!!
My boyfriend and I are in a place where our relationship may not survive, but as we have a child together, a clean break will not be possible. Since I will not be able to remove her from my life completely, I need some ideas on what work I can do to keep her nastiness as far away from me and my kids as possible. I'm not sure if I should do a honey jar, freezer spell, vinegar bottle? Something else entirely?
Thank you!
xoxo
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Hello, CheekyZauberin,
It is so difficult to work against family bonds.
So, my suggestion is to work around it
First, your honey jar idea is excellent!
You might also use sop gossip products to shut her up!
www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Now, I am going to give you a link for court case because there's a beef tongue spell that I ADORE to shut someone up. Make sure that you use a lot of alum inside the tongue to SHUT HER UP !!!
www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html
Sprinkle peace water around the house too (OR put it in a spray bottle and spray it around the house)
www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
I hope this helps. If they don't, you might have to get a little more aggressive but, for now, these suggestions have historically helped others in a situation like yours
Take care
It is so difficult to work against family bonds.
So, my suggestion is to work around it
First, your honey jar idea is excellent!
You might also use sop gossip products to shut her up!
www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Now, I am going to give you a link for court case because there's a beef tongue spell that I ADORE to shut someone up. Make sure that you use a lot of alum inside the tongue to SHUT HER UP !!!
www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html
Sprinkle peace water around the house too (OR put it in a spray bottle and spray it around the house)
www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
I hope this helps. If they don't, you might have to get a little more aggressive but, for now, these suggestions have historically helped others in a situation like yours
Take care
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Thank you so much, Miss Aida!


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Hello all,
I have a major problem with my mother in law. She visits every 6 months
To keep her greencard active...stays in our home for a month and a half and
Creates chaos. Sge is from the Middle East where the concept is that the wife should be a servant so to say, she wants me to act as her maid. She basically tries to take over, snarls at the food I make complains
How I take care of my kids, finds fault with everything I do. The first time she came almost 2 years ago we
Had a big blowout I stood up to her, worked hot foot products on her and she ended up leaving early.
The next time she came I tried to get along with her. I tried real hard
Because I figured being messy is just her nature. It went smoothly because she more or less watched her boundaries and I let her do what she wanted and I didn't complain.
But this visit now she's back to her evil ways. I was very kind to her. Made what she likes, catered to her, made an effort to get along with her for the sake of my kids and husband.
Yet she still complains about me! Recently she thought my husband was sleeping and
Was talkIng on the phone telling someone information about me, my kids, husband and
my household...what goes on. He woke up and there was an explosive argument.
I recorded the conversations and had it translated as they were conversing in Arabic. He was very angry about what she did trying to get members of the family to find him a new wife back home...he flipped out on her...but would not tell me what happened. I pretended I didn't know the whole story but
I let him know that I picked up on certain words and knew she was talking ill of me. She got mad that I found out and started telling him I'm no good to him or her and that he needs to find "a good Muslim girl"
He said no he doesn't want it but also tried to turn it around on me saying I told the kids to be loud and annoy her...I told him to stop trying to put the blame on me and That I refuse to be disrespected in my home. I read on this board about creating a honey jar for everyone but that really isn't an option so feel she is way to evil to the point I feel physically sick when she comes...it is very strange I always get health problems when she visits. What else can I do? Cast off evil? Reversing products? I have petitioned St. Michael for protection of me and my kids against any evil thoughts she may project out.
I would appreciate any advice you can give me, thanks.
I have a major problem with my mother in law. She visits every 6 months
To keep her greencard active...stays in our home for a month and a half and
Creates chaos. Sge is from the Middle East where the concept is that the wife should be a servant so to say, she wants me to act as her maid. She basically tries to take over, snarls at the food I make complains
How I take care of my kids, finds fault with everything I do. The first time she came almost 2 years ago we
Had a big blowout I stood up to her, worked hot foot products on her and she ended up leaving early.
The next time she came I tried to get along with her. I tried real hard
Because I figured being messy is just her nature. It went smoothly because she more or less watched her boundaries and I let her do what she wanted and I didn't complain.
But this visit now she's back to her evil ways. I was very kind to her. Made what she likes, catered to her, made an effort to get along with her for the sake of my kids and husband.
Yet she still complains about me! Recently she thought my husband was sleeping and
Was talkIng on the phone telling someone information about me, my kids, husband and
my household...what goes on. He woke up and there was an explosive argument.
I recorded the conversations and had it translated as they were conversing in Arabic. He was very angry about what she did trying to get members of the family to find him a new wife back home...he flipped out on her...but would not tell me what happened. I pretended I didn't know the whole story but
I let him know that I picked up on certain words and knew she was talking ill of me. She got mad that I found out and started telling him I'm no good to him or her and that he needs to find "a good Muslim girl"
He said no he doesn't want it but also tried to turn it around on me saying I told the kids to be loud and annoy her...I told him to stop trying to put the blame on me and That I refuse to be disrespected in my home. I read on this board about creating a honey jar for everyone but that really isn't an option so feel she is way to evil to the point I feel physically sick when she comes...it is very strange I always get health problems when she visits. What else can I do? Cast off evil? Reversing products? I have petitioned St. Michael for protection of me and my kids against any evil thoughts she may project out.
I would appreciate any advice you can give me, thanks.
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Hello, MysticMama4,
Oh my Gosh, how terrible for you. This looks like a nightmare. I m so sorry
You may want to try everything that I had recommended in a post above
spells-to-end-trouble-overcome-in-law-f ... ml#p380361
Also, keep up with the spells that have worked for you in the past.
Again, I a so very sorry for your endless nightmares
Take care of yourself
Oh my Gosh, how terrible for you. This looks like a nightmare. I m so sorry
You may want to try everything that I had recommended in a post above
spells-to-end-trouble-overcome-in-law-f ... ml#p380361
Also, keep up with the spells that have worked for you in the past.
Again, I a so very sorry for your endless nightmares
Take care of yourself
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Thank you so much Miss Aida,
I will look at your linked post.
I am very grateful to you and for all the LM info that is available to read and study.
Thanks again.
I will look at your linked post.
I am very grateful to you and for all the LM info that is available to read and study.
Thanks again.
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Thank you so much Sister Jean.
I have hot foot powder and I've put her name in a bottle along with it. I just need to throw it in running water. Is that right?
I was just concerned that if I do it, I'm sure the children will leave with her. Right now she wants to leave out of spite because she was reported to section 8 by me. She has been using them as a crutch for over 15 years and my brother works to the bone and she uses him and doesn't want to work. She even tried to kick him out because she thought he had something to do with it.
I admit I wanted to tell the truth about her lying ways so I reported her. I know that's wrong but I didn't want to hurt her. I just wanted to get her back for her evil ways. I even texted her from an unknown number saying how nasty she is and how she has broken up our family with her negativity.
Since she doesn't know who did it, she came to my house and banged on my door and went to my cousin's house first causing drama.
I heard that she's going to get the police involved because shes angry at the fact she doesn't know who it is. And shes getting them to investigate the unknown number i texted from. She's going around lying saying the person has threatened her which is not true at all.
I'm wondering what to do next because I don't want to get in trouble because she's lying and will do anything to get her way. She also has my mom wrapped around her finger with this situation. This girl is evil.
Is law keep away a suggestion?
Thank you.
I have hot foot powder and I've put her name in a bottle along with it. I just need to throw it in running water. Is that right?
I was just concerned that if I do it, I'm sure the children will leave with her. Right now she wants to leave out of spite because she was reported to section 8 by me. She has been using them as a crutch for over 15 years and my brother works to the bone and she uses him and doesn't want to work. She even tried to kick him out because she thought he had something to do with it.
I admit I wanted to tell the truth about her lying ways so I reported her. I know that's wrong but I didn't want to hurt her. I just wanted to get her back for her evil ways. I even texted her from an unknown number saying how nasty she is and how she has broken up our family with her negativity.
Since she doesn't know who did it, she came to my house and banged on my door and went to my cousin's house first causing drama.
I heard that she's going to get the police involved because shes angry at the fact she doesn't know who it is. And shes getting them to investigate the unknown number i texted from. She's going around lying saying the person has threatened her which is not true at all.
I'm wondering what to do next because I don't want to get in trouble because she's lying and will do anything to get her way. She also has my mom wrapped around her finger with this situation. This girl is evil.
Is law keep away a suggestion?
Thank you.
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Hello Cupcakes and dreams,
Yes that's right. But she may very well leave with her children, and I can't tell you whether that will happen or not. Have you gotten a reading on this situation? It sounds very complicated:
http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
Take care.
Yes that's right. But she may very well leave with her children, and I can't tell you whether that will happen or not. Have you gotten a reading on this situation? It sounds very complicated:
http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
Take care.
Thank you saints and spirits!
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Hi Sister Jean, I havent gotten a reading on it yet. Thank you for the link. I want to get a reading on it though.
Peace
Peace
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Hello everyone, I come with heavy heart.
I'm supposed to get married in a few months and everything had been going as good as it could get in terms of wedding planning and both families coming together (minus my future mother-in-law trying to dictate what I should wear, how I'm not allowed to have bridesmaids, among other things that I just silently compromised) until last week my fiancé's mother completely blew up at my parents out of nowhere and has been nothing but straight up vengeful for no reason while she used to be subtle about it.
She made her intentions very clear on not wanting her son to get married. She's gone completely psychotic since and spewing lies and hateful things to brainwash her son into calling off the wedding. There is nothing but love and peace until she starts creating some kind of drama. At the moment she has blocked all communications with my family and between me and my fiancé. I know she is giving him ultimatums and emotionally blackmailing him.
I am just in complete shock how a person is capable of being so terrible as to not see how much her son wants to settle down and start a family of his own. She has severe ego and controlling issues and has threatened my parents and I to bend to her wishes or else she will get worse. She is allowed to spoil her son-in-laws, but my mother is to not get close to her son and shower him with anything.
I started my first ever honey jar a few days ago to sweeten my fiancé and his parents towards me and for them to accept me as a daughter-in-law. I been lighting a white candle every day. I haven't done much hoodoo aside from using various of oils. I am wanting to do something more strong and effective alongside in making sure nothing comes between letting our marriage happen, even if it's binding.
I fear doing anything too complicated as I don't want to make a mistake. I just don't know what to do anymore... the only issue is his mother. So I am asking:
1, What other spells and things can I do to make sure we absolutely get married while I'm being forced to be kept at a distant from them?
2. Is there anything else I can do to bring his mother to my control or sweeten her like crazy so there is peace?
3. Also I been using a box of matches to light my candles but they seem dangerous as the fire flares up big and always burns the tips of my fingers when I go to light the sticks, would it be okay if I use a candlelighter to light my candles?
I'm supposed to get married in a few months and everything had been going as good as it could get in terms of wedding planning and both families coming together (minus my future mother-in-law trying to dictate what I should wear, how I'm not allowed to have bridesmaids, among other things that I just silently compromised) until last week my fiancé's mother completely blew up at my parents out of nowhere and has been nothing but straight up vengeful for no reason while she used to be subtle about it.
She made her intentions very clear on not wanting her son to get married. She's gone completely psychotic since and spewing lies and hateful things to brainwash her son into calling off the wedding. There is nothing but love and peace until she starts creating some kind of drama. At the moment she has blocked all communications with my family and between me and my fiancé. I know she is giving him ultimatums and emotionally blackmailing him.
I am just in complete shock how a person is capable of being so terrible as to not see how much her son wants to settle down and start a family of his own. She has severe ego and controlling issues and has threatened my parents and I to bend to her wishes or else she will get worse. She is allowed to spoil her son-in-laws, but my mother is to not get close to her son and shower him with anything.
I started my first ever honey jar a few days ago to sweeten my fiancé and his parents towards me and for them to accept me as a daughter-in-law. I been lighting a white candle every day. I haven't done much hoodoo aside from using various of oils. I am wanting to do something more strong and effective alongside in making sure nothing comes between letting our marriage happen, even if it's binding.
I fear doing anything too complicated as I don't want to make a mistake. I just don't know what to do anymore... the only issue is his mother. So I am asking:
1, What other spells and things can I do to make sure we absolutely get married while I'm being forced to be kept at a distant from them?
2. Is there anything else I can do to bring his mother to my control or sweeten her like crazy so there is peace?
3. Also I been using a box of matches to light my candles but they seem dangerous as the fire flares up big and always burns the tips of my fingers when I go to light the sticks, would it be okay if I use a candlelighter to light my candles?
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Hello Azure,
I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all of this, it sounds very hard. I think the work you are doing with the honey jar is perfect. I would make sure to light white or blue candles on top of that jar, dressed with Peaceful Home oil:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
You mentioned you just started this honey jar a few days ago; I would give it more time to work. Sweetening is a great way to go in this situation, so don't give up on the honey jar.
Try spraying the home with Peaceful Home -- shake up the bottle as you pray for the two sides of the family to come together in harmony, and then pritz the corners of the rooms. It works especially well in the bathroom, as a nice, clean, and friendly scent.
Another idea would be to do a skull candle on this person, to get in her head and COMMAND her to stop being so controlling and terrible. For more information on how to perform skull candle spells, check out this thread:
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
For more ideas, scroll up and read through the other posts in this thread; I'm sure you'll find them helpful!
And yes, you can absolutely use a lighter if the matches aren't working for you.
Good luck to you.
I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all of this, it sounds very hard. I think the work you are doing with the honey jar is perfect. I would make sure to light white or blue candles on top of that jar, dressed with Peaceful Home oil:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
You mentioned you just started this honey jar a few days ago; I would give it more time to work. Sweetening is a great way to go in this situation, so don't give up on the honey jar.
Try spraying the home with Peaceful Home -- shake up the bottle as you pray for the two sides of the family to come together in harmony, and then pritz the corners of the rooms. It works especially well in the bathroom, as a nice, clean, and friendly scent.
Another idea would be to do a skull candle on this person, to get in her head and COMMAND her to stop being so controlling and terrible. For more information on how to perform skull candle spells, check out this thread:
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
For more ideas, scroll up and read through the other posts in this thread; I'm sure you'll find them helpful!
And yes, you can absolutely use a lighter if the matches aren't working for you.
Good luck to you.
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Thank you for getting back to me Sister Jean.
I have a lot of white candles but it's also okay to use a different color candle like blue on the same honey jar sometimes?
I like the peaceful home spray suggestion, thank you.
I also appreciate the skull candle idea, I just ordered some.
I have a lot of white candles but it's also okay to use a different color candle like blue on the same honey jar sometimes?
I like the peaceful home spray suggestion, thank you.
I also appreciate the skull candle idea, I just ordered some.
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Azure,
You can change the color of the candles to burn on a jar. A light blue candle with a home petition and dressed with a happy home oil to calm issues in the family. Sister Jean gave great advice on work to do!
You can change the color of the candles to burn on a jar. A light blue candle with a home petition and dressed with a happy home oil to calm issues in the family. Sister Jean gave great advice on work to do!
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I am a grandmother and a mother of 4 children, which I raised alone from the time they were 2, 5 & 7 yr. old twins. Only 1 of my sons is married. His wife hates our family. She has fought with every one of his siblings except for a son that was in the military, so not around. I have 2 teen-aged grandchildren. None of us has ever been invited to an important occasion or a holiday with the grandchildren, niece & nephew. I can count on 1 hand the times that I have seen them, and not on holidays. I have never done anything mean to her No one has ever done anything to her for her to act this way to us. Recently, I was sick & I asked my son who is a nurse, for advice on what the best thing to do to help with the physical problem. Daughter-in-law, got angry & told me that I was causing "drama." Then I saw a pic of my granddaughter singing on facebook & posted that she was so talented and reminded me of my children who were musicians & singers at her age. Daughter-in-law wrote an extremely hateful and horrible response saying that they were her children, too. Not even sure why she sent that reply to a complement. She was so evil & vindictive in her reply, that I said that she can't talk to me like that and I blocked her on facebook. I think she has been waiting for an excuse to cause trouble. Of course, she took me off my grandchildren's and my husband's facebook, which was the only contact that I (or any of our side of the family) had with them. So, now she has what she wants, her husbands family out of the picture entirely. I don't see a honey jar spell, because I don't want to sweeten her up, things have gone way beyond that. I need my son to see the nastiness she does to our family and take the blinders off when it comes to her. It is not good that his children don't know anything about his side of the family. Not even sure what to ask for here, just thing the whole thing is so wrong. Thank you for your help, signed, Clover Craft
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Hello, Clover Craft.
I hope you are in good spirits! From what you are telling me, there is something more to this issue than meets the eye. Do a clarity spell on yourself. Then get a reading from AIRR or Hoodoo Psychics. Here are the links you need:
Clarity products http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
AIRR http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers
Hoodoo Psychics http://www.hoodoopsychics.com
Good luck!
I hope you are in good spirits! From what you are telling me, there is something more to this issue than meets the eye. Do a clarity spell on yourself. Then get a reading from AIRR or Hoodoo Psychics. Here are the links you need:
Clarity products http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
AIRR http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers
Hoodoo Psychics http://www.hoodoopsychics.com
Good luck!
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Hello Clover Craft,
I'm so sorry to hear you are having such difficulty with your daughter-in-law. It is a shame she is behaving in this way.
If you want to help your son gain clarity on her true nature, read through the posts in the following thread for advice and ideas:
spells-to-open-someone-s-eyes-and-bring ... t6916.html
In that thread, Miss cat posted a wonderful black and white skull candle spell that I have regularly used for this goal with great effect. I am re-posting it here for easy access:
I would recommend you get two skull candles, one white and one black and place them face-to-face. Name and inscribe the black one for her and the white one for him.
Dress his candle with Clarity Oil.
Put a smear of fresh dog-poo in the eyes and moth of her candle and dress it with Confusion Oil and dust it with Cayenne Pepper powder.
Wash your hands with Van Van oil in warm water.
Light her candle and pray that all the evil that she does is seen as a beacon-light and that she becomes confused in speech and reveals her evil intentions inadvertently.
Light his candle and pray that he clearly sees her for what she is.
If you do not feel comfortable performing this spell yourself, you can hire a professional rootworker from AIRR who can do it for you. Find them here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I'm so sorry to hear you are having such difficulty with your daughter-in-law. It is a shame she is behaving in this way.
If you want to help your son gain clarity on her true nature, read through the posts in the following thread for advice and ideas:
spells-to-open-someone-s-eyes-and-bring ... t6916.html
In that thread, Miss cat posted a wonderful black and white skull candle spell that I have regularly used for this goal with great effect. I am re-posting it here for easy access:
I would recommend you get two skull candles, one white and one black and place them face-to-face. Name and inscribe the black one for her and the white one for him.
Dress his candle with Clarity Oil.
Put a smear of fresh dog-poo in the eyes and moth of her candle and dress it with Confusion Oil and dust it with Cayenne Pepper powder.
Wash your hands with Van Van oil in warm water.
Light her candle and pray that all the evil that she does is seen as a beacon-light and that she becomes confused in speech and reveals her evil intentions inadvertently.
Light his candle and pray that he clearly sees her for what she is.
If you do not feel comfortable performing this spell yourself, you can hire a professional rootworker from AIRR who can do it for you. Find them here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
hello everyone. I was wondering if I could get some help from you all. You helped me with a tenant I had and thought you guys could help with this.
My ex sis in law is trying to move about 2 hours away and take my niece from my brother. One of my nephews already lives with my brother since she kicked him out at 17 and my other nephew is old enough to decide where he wants to go. Unfortunately my niece is 12. She has mentioned to me she doesn't want to live with her mother since her mother only wants her for the child support payment, she loves being in school here with her friends and because we are here as well.
Any suggestions on how to change the SIL's mind and have her keep my niece with us where she belongs? I'm afraid that if my niece moves in with her and her new man, she's going to do something awful to herself or her mother will ignore her like she does now or God forbid, that man may touch her.
thank you
My ex sis in law is trying to move about 2 hours away and take my niece from my brother. One of my nephews already lives with my brother since she kicked him out at 17 and my other nephew is old enough to decide where he wants to go. Unfortunately my niece is 12. She has mentioned to me she doesn't want to live with her mother since her mother only wants her for the child support payment, she loves being in school here with her friends and because we are here as well.
Any suggestions on how to change the SIL's mind and have her keep my niece with us where she belongs? I'm afraid that if my niece moves in with her and her new man, she's going to do something awful to herself or her mother will ignore her like she does now or God forbid, that man may touch her.
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grneyedbrujita,
What an awful situation and it breaks my heart. First off, I would use a skull candle for your ex SIL. This could be anointed with Commanding or Do As I Say oil. Load the candle with her personal concerns along with licorice and poppy seeds to confuse and control her. I would talk to the candle at night when you know she is sleeping and tell her to stay. Convince her there is no better place for her. That she will not receive any help and she will be miserable if she leaves. You can read more about working with skull candles here: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
Her means to get up and move will depend on money. I would consider jinxing her funds and making it so she cannot afford to leave without your brother's help.
More on the mundane level; get personal concerns from your niece so you can protect her. Hair and worn clothing will help, pictures and drawings she made will be valuable and can be worked with. You can bless a charm with Protection oil and give it to her as a gift. Let her know she can talk to you any time and you are always there for her. She will need to be able to feel like if any problems come up, she can count on you to help.
Lastly, get a lawyer! There are laws on how far they can move and if it is in the child's best interests. Even if she has sole custody, chances are that he will have joint legal and that means he has a say in what school she goes to and where she lives. Yes, it is expensive but consider the alternative.
Protecting a child: spells-to-protect-guide-help-innocent-c ... 12541.html
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What an awful situation and it breaks my heart. First off, I would use a skull candle for your ex SIL. This could be anointed with Commanding or Do As I Say oil. Load the candle with her personal concerns along with licorice and poppy seeds to confuse and control her. I would talk to the candle at night when you know she is sleeping and tell her to stay. Convince her there is no better place for her. That she will not receive any help and she will be miserable if she leaves. You can read more about working with skull candles here: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
Her means to get up and move will depend on money. I would consider jinxing her funds and making it so she cannot afford to leave without your brother's help.
More on the mundane level; get personal concerns from your niece so you can protect her. Hair and worn clothing will help, pictures and drawings she made will be valuable and can be worked with. You can bless a charm with Protection oil and give it to her as a gift. Let her know she can talk to you any time and you are always there for her. She will need to be able to feel like if any problems come up, she can count on you to help.
Lastly, get a lawyer! There are laws on how far they can move and if it is in the child's best interests. Even if she has sole custody, chances are that he will have joint legal and that means he has a say in what school she goes to and where she lives. Yes, it is expensive but consider the alternative.
Protecting a child: spells-to-protect-guide-help-innocent-c ... 12541.html
Protection Spells and charms: https://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
I wish you the best and send you my prayers.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
thanks Terra. I will get my niece to get some items from her mom. I appreciate the help. Will keep you updated,
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New here, need help.
I don’t want to ruin the relationship between my BF and his dad but I just need some space. I have no problem with his dad (we have an Ok relationship) but he won’t make any decisions without his approval and if he’s not with us at our place telling us what we should or shouldn’t do, they’re on the phone with each other. I know that his dad means no harm but I’m just tired of my BF putting him before me. I would like to do a quick spell that doesn’t require an altar.
I don’t want to ruin the relationship between my BF and his dad but I just need some space. I have no problem with his dad (we have an Ok relationship) but he won’t make any decisions without his approval and if he’s not with us at our place telling us what we should or shouldn’t do, they’re on the phone with each other. I know that his dad means no harm but I’m just tired of my BF putting him before me. I would like to do a quick spell that doesn’t require an altar.
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Sc0rpi0n,
Most spells in hoodoo do not require an altar. Many are based on contact with the person/target. It is very difficult to work against family relationships and it can take some time but I have some suggestions.
1) It sounds like your BF could use a boost of confidence in order to make decisions on his own and to stand up for the two of you. I recommend Crucible of Courage or Power products.
Power- https://www.luckymojo.com/power.html
Crucible of Courage - https://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
2) You could use Influence on the father to help him realize he isn't running the show anymore. This could be as simple as dabbing some oil on his shoes or jacket while stating your command.
Influence - https://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Please read the product pages for spells and how to use them. If you have questions afterwards, let us know.
Good Luck!
Most spells in hoodoo do not require an altar. Many are based on contact with the person/target. It is very difficult to work against family relationships and it can take some time but I have some suggestions.
1) It sounds like your BF could use a boost of confidence in order to make decisions on his own and to stand up for the two of you. I recommend Crucible of Courage or Power products.
Power- https://www.luckymojo.com/power.html
Crucible of Courage - https://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
2) You could use Influence on the father to help him realize he isn't running the show anymore. This could be as simple as dabbing some oil on his shoes or jacket while stating your command.
Influence - https://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Please read the product pages for spells and how to use them. If you have questions afterwards, let us know.
Good Luck!
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Hi - hope you can help me
I have been married now for almost 28 yrs - my marriage has never been normal or happy with endless arguments and disharmony. From the day we met my husbands family specifically his sister ( who is very jealous of me , don’t know why, I never knew her) and father tried to come between us. Our love and devotion to each other is very strong. His father mellowed and was ok for a long time. When my husbands sister left her husband and 2 boys having affairs here and there my father in law fell apart. He did not want to have anything to do with her and she was not welcomed in the family. The next 14 years were the best years of my life not only with my husband but also with my father in law. We got along very well and they showed me love that they never did before.
When my sister in law’s first son was getting married ( which by the way both sons do not have anything to do with her anymore) she worked her way back to the point now, where she has brain washed her father to believing all her lies. For the past 7 years she has moved in on my husband too, trying to manipulate him and has a very conniving and sneaky way to make him believe her. She has succeeded to draw him so close to her by being very nice to him to gain his confidence and trust.
All this now has gained her the ability to get her father to make her POA as she was removed when she left her family. She has taken over her parents accounts and convinced him to make her 2nd authority with my husband on everything. she has taken advantage of their old age and their need for help.
She has been inviting my husband over for dinner meeting him for coffee behind my back and he’s not telling me, asking him to go over with my son and deliberately drawing them away from me. I have been checking his phone and saw all the meetings and her trying to put ideas in his head about me - to the point where we are fighting so much that he wants to move out.
I warned my husband this day would come 7yrs ago if he allows her back in his life, and he said at the time are we that stupid to let this happen and now we have reached that point and he can’t see it. I cannot understand how she has such a strong and manipulative hold over him. I love my husband and I know he does too and I don’t want us to reach the point of parting.
But unfortunately I have seen on his phone where she is saying to him to place a password on our business emails to shut me out. I desperately need to get rid of her out of my husbands and my life forever, I need for him to see her for what she really is and to not want to have anything to do with her anymore. My marriage will not be saved if she is not out of our lives.
Regards
Oriana
I have been married now for almost 28 yrs - my marriage has never been normal or happy with endless arguments and disharmony. From the day we met my husbands family specifically his sister ( who is very jealous of me , don’t know why, I never knew her) and father tried to come between us. Our love and devotion to each other is very strong. His father mellowed and was ok for a long time. When my husbands sister left her husband and 2 boys having affairs here and there my father in law fell apart. He did not want to have anything to do with her and she was not welcomed in the family. The next 14 years were the best years of my life not only with my husband but also with my father in law. We got along very well and they showed me love that they never did before.
When my sister in law’s first son was getting married ( which by the way both sons do not have anything to do with her anymore) she worked her way back to the point now, where she has brain washed her father to believing all her lies. For the past 7 years she has moved in on my husband too, trying to manipulate him and has a very conniving and sneaky way to make him believe her. She has succeeded to draw him so close to her by being very nice to him to gain his confidence and trust.
All this now has gained her the ability to get her father to make her POA as she was removed when she left her family. She has taken over her parents accounts and convinced him to make her 2nd authority with my husband on everything. she has taken advantage of their old age and their need for help.
She has been inviting my husband over for dinner meeting him for coffee behind my back and he’s not telling me, asking him to go over with my son and deliberately drawing them away from me. I have been checking his phone and saw all the meetings and her trying to put ideas in his head about me - to the point where we are fighting so much that he wants to move out.
I warned my husband this day would come 7yrs ago if he allows her back in his life, and he said at the time are we that stupid to let this happen and now we have reached that point and he can’t see it. I cannot understand how she has such a strong and manipulative hold over him. I love my husband and I know he does too and I don’t want us to reach the point of parting.
But unfortunately I have seen on his phone where she is saying to him to place a password on our business emails to shut me out. I desperately need to get rid of her out of my husbands and my life forever, I need for him to see her for what she really is and to not want to have anything to do with her anymore. My marriage will not be saved if she is not out of our lives.
Regards
Oriana
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Hello Geoneo,
I am sorry you are going through such difficulty. You are in the correct topic area of the forum for advice and ideas to help you. Please read through the many posts in this topic, as your situation is quite common here. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I am sorry you are going through such difficulty. You are in the correct topic area of the forum for advice and ideas to help you. Please read through the many posts in this topic, as your situation is quite common here. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hello,
My son walked away from our lives since he marries this woman who is much older than him, she has played a good game with his head and he has bo respect for his family anymore and dies not care if we ar dead or alive. Age got pregnant by mistake and was not happy about it, thelithke boy is so cute but does not know who his grand parents, my son and I were thick as thieves abs she saw that, yet I never interfered in his marriage, she is lazy as hell and this biy is working 3 jobs to support her .. I want my grandson abs son back so we can be a family and that he stands up to her .. I suffered enough and dont need this pain ..please advice thanks OJF
My son walked away from our lives since he marries this woman who is much older than him, she has played a good game with his head and he has bo respect for his family anymore and dies not care if we ar dead or alive. Age got pregnant by mistake and was not happy about it, thelithke boy is so cute but does not know who his grand parents, my son and I were thick as thieves abs she saw that, yet I never interfered in his marriage, she is lazy as hell and this biy is working 3 jobs to support her .. I want my grandson abs son back so we can be a family and that he stands up to her .. I suffered enough and dont need this pain ..please advice thanks OJF
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Hello OJF1959,
I'm sorry to hear this. There are many posts in this topic with advice and ideas that can help you, so please read them starting from the beginning. If you then have more questions, ask us here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I'm sorry to hear this. There are many posts in this topic with advice and ideas that can help you, so please read them starting from the beginning. If you then have more questions, ask us here.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hi Athena it’s Geoneo,
Thank you so much for replying to my pain. I am very depressed and sad as it looks like my husband may be moving out, he hasn’t left yet but his sister is really pushing for him to leave me and my son. Is there anything I can do right now before he leaves to bring him closer to me and shut his sister out please, I need him to feel he can’t live without me, I know he loves me but you have no idea how conniving his sister is- she knows how to win him over at his lowest point.
I would be very great full - I live in Australia
Thank you
Geoneo
Thank you so much for replying to my pain. I am very depressed and sad as it looks like my husband may be moving out, he hasn’t left yet but his sister is really pushing for him to leave me and my son. Is there anything I can do right now before he leaves to bring him closer to me and shut his sister out please, I need him to feel he can’t live without me, I know he loves me but you have no idea how conniving his sister is- she knows how to win him over at his lowest point.
I would be very great full - I live in Australia
Thank you
Geoneo
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Hello Ms Athena,
Thank you for the response I dont see anything that is close to what my situation is, everything is about MIL or inlaws and I need to get my child back from this evil woman... your guidance is appreciated OJF
Thank you for the response I dont see anything that is close to what my situation is, everything is about MIL or inlaws and I need to get my child back from this evil woman... your guidance is appreciated OJF
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OJF1959,
Did you see the recommendations on page 1 for a mirror box spell given by starsinthesky7? On page 2 there is work given for Compelling that would be useful in your situation. Or how about the suggestions for using Influence products on a skull candle page 3? There are many suggestions for breakup work if that is your goal to get your daughter back. Yes, these spells were given for different situations but you can still use them.
If you wish to get a completely tailored, step by step guide, that is a paid service from a professional that falls under a rootwork consultation. Many members at AIRR offer this service. They craft a spell individualized to your situation and walk you through it.
We encourage members of the forum to research as much as possible and find a spell they are comfortable working on their own. We are happy to answer any questions on techniques and products. But the idea is for us to offer assistance and at the same time, not keep repeating the same spells given before. We encourage learning this tradition based on research and discovery. I hope this doesn't come across harsh. Please read this thread and dig in to the spells suggested.
Good Luck.
Did you see the recommendations on page 1 for a mirror box spell given by starsinthesky7? On page 2 there is work given for Compelling that would be useful in your situation. Or how about the suggestions for using Influence products on a skull candle page 3? There are many suggestions for breakup work if that is your goal to get your daughter back. Yes, these spells were given for different situations but you can still use them.
If you wish to get a completely tailored, step by step guide, that is a paid service from a professional that falls under a rootwork consultation. Many members at AIRR offer this service. They craft a spell individualized to your situation and walk you through it.
We encourage members of the forum to research as much as possible and find a spell they are comfortable working on their own. We are happy to answer any questions on techniques and products. But the idea is for us to offer assistance and at the same time, not keep repeating the same spells given before. We encourage learning this tradition based on research and discovery. I hope this doesn't come across harsh. Please read this thread and dig in to the spells suggested.
Good Luck.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
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I’ve had issues with my husbands family since I can remember his mother pretends to like me and his brother,sister and dad. we are going to be moving near them. I don’t like that his mother is constantly calling him every second and it’s not only her it’s his whole family brother, sister and father as well and I want to stop that what can I do? I want to live a relax life with them not being to much involve with us. And another thing I don’t like when she’s near my son her always tends to cry when she holds him she always grabs her thumb and does a sign of a cross on his forehead but I don’t think it’s good intentions because he always cry’s after she does that and gets really sick I am catholic but that’s not the correct way to do that. Can someone help me I am moving soon and I want her to leave my small family alone and I want to protect my child from her mostly. They bother him for everything including favors drive me here and there and he will drop everything and go do it and sometimes we are doing our own family things. Please help
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Loveney45,
I'm sorry to hear about your family troubles but you found the right thread for assistance. I would start by reading it starting on page one. This issue has come up several times with mother in-laws and you will find many suggestions to get you started. One thing to note is you have to go about it gently. Separating a son from his mother will only lead to misery so don't use drastic measures. A balance can be found with a little work. If you have any questions after researching this thread, please feel free to post them here.
I would recommend using Rosemary in your work. It is your home and your family. Rosemary will assist you in becoming the queen of your domain. The best part is you can use the herb in cooking, the oil for dressing candles or in a bath. https://www.luckymojo.com/products-rosemary.html
You will want to put up some protection for your child and you will find recommendations here for that as well.
Protecting a child: spells-to-protect-guide-help-innocent-c ... 12541.html
Protection Spells and charms: https://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
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I'm sorry to hear about your family troubles but you found the right thread for assistance. I would start by reading it starting on page one. This issue has come up several times with mother in-laws and you will find many suggestions to get you started. One thing to note is you have to go about it gently. Separating a son from his mother will only lead to misery so don't use drastic measures. A balance can be found with a little work. If you have any questions after researching this thread, please feel free to post them here.
I would recommend using Rosemary in your work. It is your home and your family. Rosemary will assist you in becoming the queen of your domain. The best part is you can use the herb in cooking, the oil for dressing candles or in a bath. https://www.luckymojo.com/products-rosemary.html
You will want to put up some protection for your child and you will find recommendations here for that as well.
Protecting a child: spells-to-protect-guide-help-innocent-c ... 12541.html
Protection Spells and charms: https://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
OIL-HOO-PROT
Protection Oil
$10.00


You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Thank you and I’ve went back to the first page and I saw a couple of post talking about putting the name of their mother in law in a jar with honey. My question is should I do that as well ? And I have a couple of questions for the rosemary how do I have to use it is for me or for my husband? And my last question for the baby what can I do because I went over the post but didn’t find anything about protection and the protection and charms one I’m a little confused of what I have to do, I’m sorry but I really appreciate you’re help I’m just confused a little.
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Loveney45,
Yes, you could put her in the honey jar. It would help sweeten her to you if her being rude/mean to you is a problem. If it's not then leave the honey jar out of your work. The rosemary is for you to become in control of the household. Maybe this link will better explain it: http://www.herbmagic.com/rosemary.html You can use it in your cooking especially when making meals for the whole family, mother in law included. You use it to influence others.
The protection charms can be placed in your home or hung in the child's bed room. The evil eye charm is very commonly used when it comes to children. People praise the children and sometimes cast the evil eye at them. This belief is found in the Mediterranean but has since caught on to many parts of the world. I have a blue evil eye disk hanging in the living room for protection. It's pretty and I just tell people I picked it up in Turkey. If that isn't something your interested in, I believe St Nicolas is the patron saint for children so a picture of him could be hung in the child's bedroom. (I'm not Catholic so I could be wrong) The point is, there are a ton of protection charms. I would read up on a few different ones on that list and pick on that you feel comfortable with for the child.
The Protection oil I linked in the last post can be used to anoint the top of the child's head. Just a tiny dab is all it takes. Or a drop in a bath. As you do this, say a prayer for protection.
I hope this clarifies things a bit.
Yes, you could put her in the honey jar. It would help sweeten her to you if her being rude/mean to you is a problem. If it's not then leave the honey jar out of your work. The rosemary is for you to become in control of the household. Maybe this link will better explain it: http://www.herbmagic.com/rosemary.html You can use it in your cooking especially when making meals for the whole family, mother in law included. You use it to influence others.
The protection charms can be placed in your home or hung in the child's bed room. The evil eye charm is very commonly used when it comes to children. People praise the children and sometimes cast the evil eye at them. This belief is found in the Mediterranean but has since caught on to many parts of the world. I have a blue evil eye disk hanging in the living room for protection. It's pretty and I just tell people I picked it up in Turkey. If that isn't something your interested in, I believe St Nicolas is the patron saint for children so a picture of him could be hung in the child's bedroom. (I'm not Catholic so I could be wrong) The point is, there are a ton of protection charms. I would read up on a few different ones on that list and pick on that you feel comfortable with for the child.
The Protection oil I linked in the last post can be used to anoint the top of the child's head. Just a tiny dab is all it takes. Or a drop in a bath. As you do this, say a prayer for protection.
I hope this clarifies things a bit.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Hi quick question. My ex and I, were having issues due to her family, there was a misunderstanding that had her family and I at odds, I stopped speaking to them because I was hurt they were creating a situation and we got along pretty well. Ultimately it caused issues in our relationship and it ended, my ex moved back home, she wanted to work things out but she’s worried about what her family will think or say. She’s very close to them. I don’t want to do any work to separate them, I love their family bond. But I feel that’s the one thing from keeping us from reconciliation. Sometimes it’s super annoying how much she cares about what they think, she’s the angel of the family though. I have been working on a reconciliation honey jar for her and I and I recently purchased the peaceful home honey jar kit for her family I put them all inside of one honey jar, I’m not sure how it’s working but I was wondering if I can do anything to add to the honey jar I was thinking maybe a stop gossiping candle? Not sure if that’s right because I don’t know if they’re necessarily gossiping but they’re most likely telling her not to come back. She told me she was in love with me but said what would she tell her parents, we were supposed to hang out but she went on a family vacation with them for a week and when she came back she decided that we should just cut contact. A cousin that she’s close to is going through a divorce so I’m not sure if the Cousin is also advising her to not come back so they can both be in the same boat. It just sucks because we all were a family at one point. I miss the whole dynamic but there’s a lot to fix. I did get a reading and basically it was saying that there is a blockage right now between me and my ex and then when it got to the family, the reader said that there was a much more positive aspect but not sure what will happen. Which I was confused by. Not sure how it’s more positive when it comes to them. Things were going so well u til that family vacation. I’m heartbroken because it was so positive and she was so in love before she left, I’m lost.
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Moonchild720,
If you went to a reader at AIRR, I would take their advice. Only they would be able to clear up any confusion you have with the reading and answer your questions. I would keep working the Reconciliation honey jar along with the Peaceful Home jar. I would stick your name in the Peaceful Home jar since you wish to be apart of the family again or at least have them stop being against you. I don't believe a Stop Gossip candle would be appropriate in this situation. If you would like to do a candle, I suggest a Block Buster candle burned for blockages that are in the way of your reconciliation with her. Wait 3 weeks and then burn a Clarity vigil for her to figure out what she wants for herself. When you complete the candle burn wait 3 more weeks, while working the jars. If she still has cut ties from you then that is your answer. It's important to set a time limit for this work. Some get strung along by if's and maybe's given by others when they could be doing work to draw in new love. Better love. A lover who is right for them.
Blockbuster: https://www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
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If you went to a reader at AIRR, I would take their advice. Only they would be able to clear up any confusion you have with the reading and answer your questions. I would keep working the Reconciliation honey jar along with the Peaceful Home jar. I would stick your name in the Peaceful Home jar since you wish to be apart of the family again or at least have them stop being against you. I don't believe a Stop Gossip candle would be appropriate in this situation. If you would like to do a candle, I suggest a Block Buster candle burned for blockages that are in the way of your reconciliation with her. Wait 3 weeks and then burn a Clarity vigil for her to figure out what she wants for herself. When you complete the candle burn wait 3 more weeks, while working the jars. If she still has cut ties from you then that is your answer. It's important to set a time limit for this work. Some get strung along by if's and maybe's given by others when they could be doing work to draw in new love. Better love. A lover who is right for them.
Blockbuster: https://www.luckymojo.com/blockbuster.html
Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
I hope this helps.
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Hi hope I can get an idea on how to handle the current situation.
I looked to see if there were any cases where the MIL is financially manipulating her son so any guidance would be helpful. My MIL for the last 7 years of our relationship has been using different ways to manipulate my husband to give her money. From what he has told me it seems to have been going on for years since he started working.
When he offers ideas on changing her situation (she lives in a bad area and was working in a job that wasn’t paying her on time or well. She argues, deflects, ignores, changes the subject or sets his brother against him- by crying when she gets off the phone and telling his brother that he is getting rid of her and is ashamed of her. (His older brother is almost 40 still lives at home with her and is not working due to anxiety issues- he refuses to work and gets defensive when my husband tries to help). He also has a stepfather that relies on lying to receive his disability check and helps but between the 3 of them they are not doing much to change their problems.
This leads to the issue that has popped up last year. MIL has been asking every month for money for food and groceries since she does not have her checks coming in on time. The amounts are always a couple hundred and she always asks last in the day while my husband is at work. This leads to him running to the bank late at night then driving down to give it to her.
It caused major issues last Fall in our relationship as he was trying to find ways to give her money when at that time he was looking for work and he was so desperate to help her. All was quiet for a while and my husband was trying to help with his brother working but it didn’t work out. Two days ago MIL started asking late and last minute again for money. I voiced my concern and my husband agreed but he is overwhelmed and tired and stressed saying he has tried everything to help them get out of this problem but they do not want to help themselves and his fear is going to bed knowing that day his mother did not eat. But I am here knowing in my gut there is something else going on. She is very sweet to me and my family and I notice she is not always nice to my husband despite asking him for money.
I followed my mother's advice and tried a freezer spell then candle spell but I feel this is much stronger and deeper or maybe I am not working on the actual problem or angle so any insight can help.
Thank you!
I looked to see if there were any cases where the MIL is financially manipulating her son so any guidance would be helpful. My MIL for the last 7 years of our relationship has been using different ways to manipulate my husband to give her money. From what he has told me it seems to have been going on for years since he started working.
When he offers ideas on changing her situation (she lives in a bad area and was working in a job that wasn’t paying her on time or well. She argues, deflects, ignores, changes the subject or sets his brother against him- by crying when she gets off the phone and telling his brother that he is getting rid of her and is ashamed of her. (His older brother is almost 40 still lives at home with her and is not working due to anxiety issues- he refuses to work and gets defensive when my husband tries to help). He also has a stepfather that relies on lying to receive his disability check and helps but between the 3 of them they are not doing much to change their problems.
This leads to the issue that has popped up last year. MIL has been asking every month for money for food and groceries since she does not have her checks coming in on time. The amounts are always a couple hundred and she always asks last in the day while my husband is at work. This leads to him running to the bank late at night then driving down to give it to her.
It caused major issues last Fall in our relationship as he was trying to find ways to give her money when at that time he was looking for work and he was so desperate to help her. All was quiet for a while and my husband was trying to help with his brother working but it didn’t work out. Two days ago MIL started asking late and last minute again for money. I voiced my concern and my husband agreed but he is overwhelmed and tired and stressed saying he has tried everything to help them get out of this problem but they do not want to help themselves and his fear is going to bed knowing that day his mother did not eat. But I am here knowing in my gut there is something else going on. She is very sweet to me and my family and I notice she is not always nice to my husband despite asking him for money.
I followed my mother's advice and tried a freezer spell then candle spell but I feel this is much stronger and deeper or maybe I am not working on the actual problem or angle so any insight can help.
Thank you!
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Hello Meku424,
I'm sorry you are going through so much difficulty with your mother in law.
The spells in this topic can be worked on your situation, and you can adapt your petition to put an end to her financial dependence on your husband. You may also want to get a reading from a member of AIRR to better understand what is behind her behavior, as you suggest the problem may run deeper than what it looks like on the surface. You can find readers in the following link, who can then also prescribe a course of action based on the results of their divination:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I'm sorry you are going through so much difficulty with your mother in law.
The spells in this topic can be worked on your situation, and you can adapt your petition to put an end to her financial dependence on your husband. You may also want to get a reading from a member of AIRR to better understand what is behind her behavior, as you suggest the problem may run deeper than what it looks like on the surface. You can find readers in the following link, who can then also prescribe a course of action based on the results of their divination:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Hello all!
I was wondering if you could tell me what I can do to help my friend. I suggested a honey jar to sweeten her MIL to her, but I fear she might need a little bit more than that. Well she doesn’t really talk to her. Her mil mostly just asks her and her husband to give her gifts for her or her grandkids. She also asks when them are going to visit her and when they’re going to have children. She gives them a lot of empty promises and for the most part she don’t trust her to do anything for them. She tried to have weekly conversations with her but those were so miserable and she expected her to put in all the work. She said really wants her mil to respect her. Any help would be appreciated! Thank y’all for your time and patience as always
I was wondering if you could tell me what I can do to help my friend. I suggested a honey jar to sweeten her MIL to her, but I fear she might need a little bit more than that. Well she doesn’t really talk to her. Her mil mostly just asks her and her husband to give her gifts for her or her grandkids. She also asks when them are going to visit her and when they’re going to have children. She gives them a lot of empty promises and for the most part she don’t trust her to do anything for them. She tried to have weekly conversations with her but those were so miserable and she expected her to put in all the work. She said really wants her mil to respect her. Any help would be appreciated! Thank y’all for your time and patience as always

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Ochun_Sweetness,
I would do the honey jar and stick with that for now. Family dynamics are different for everyone and it sounds like your friend may need to adjust her expectations for the relationship with her MIL until they can find some where to meet in the middle. As an outsider reading about the MIL actions, it seems like the MIL's requests are pretty common depending on the culture. I for one, never really talk to my MIL or have any expectations for her to do anything for me. I prefer it that way. No hard feelings or anything, that's just the way it has always been. I know others who are very close. There are pros and cons with each type of relationship really.
Do the honey jar and see what happens.
Best of luck!
I would do the honey jar and stick with that for now. Family dynamics are different for everyone and it sounds like your friend may need to adjust her expectations for the relationship with her MIL until they can find some where to meet in the middle. As an outsider reading about the MIL actions, it seems like the MIL's requests are pretty common depending on the culture. I for one, never really talk to my MIL or have any expectations for her to do anything for me. I prefer it that way. No hard feelings or anything, that's just the way it has always been. I know others who are very close. There are pros and cons with each type of relationship really.
Do the honey jar and see what happens.
Best of luck!
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So I've spent almost a year thinking through my situation and also researching in a few Facebook groups and this forum. I'm not even sure if this is the right thread as it could fit into a lot of different categories. I tried to keep it short but I couldn't, sorry
So, my mom is a narcissist and might also have bipolar and/or borderline personality disorder (her sister, who is a nurse practitioner, admitted this to me a few years ago). While my siblings and I didn't become narcissists ourselves, my brother and sister both chose somewhat dysfunctional partners. I'll talk more about my immediate family in another thread.
More importantly, my sister passed away, leaving her husband, my BIL, to care for their kids. While he's a decent person in general, his dad is even more of a narcissist than my mom. Both of my BIL's parents are very conservative and truly have some scary and hateful ideas about the world. Unfortunately, this has also shaped my BIL's world view. When my sister was alive, she was quick to straighten him out and to also bring a positive and loving energy to the house.
Long story short, he eventually met someone and remarried. When he first told me about her, she sounded great but I didn't meet her for a while. I did go to a psychic just to connect with my sister, and the psychic warned me about this woman. It was actually very jarring because I felt positive about this new woman despite still not knowing her.
When I finally met her, I was again very surprised. My sister was very down to earth and kind and this woman is very nice but it feels very insincere, like a mask she puts on. Her parents are also extremely racist, which was upsetting but I tried and still try to assume that is not the case with her. There are a lot of signs that something is up with her but it's hard to say exactly what, and I assume it's a combination of her religious views and potentially my mom poisoning the well. I also get the sense that she is a narcissist. Here are the signs:
- She met my BIL at her husband's wake. They got engaged within less than a year of her husband's death and married within a year a half
- She is very much about appearances and needs everything to be perfect (as explained by one of her children)
- They moved into a giant house but when you walk in, all of the kids are in their own rooms or playing video games in separate areas of the house
- The energy of the house is extremely cold. Neither mom and dad seem to make time to help the kids with their homework
- The family goes on fancy trips and eat out all of the time but they don't have deep conversations with each other
- She shames my very young niece when she does something like spills something on her shirt
- She belittles my sister's kids when they don't understand something (they are all pretty young - who the f*ck belittles a little kid?)
- She and my BIL live in a huge house but told the kids that they aren't allowed to move home after college
- The kids are also being told that they need to get jobs right away (though she no longer works????)
I can assume that some of this parenting is "tough love" though the idea that kids that lost a parent really need such a life lesson is pretty callous. This woman clearly does not like me or my partner, and we sort of understand because we are very much about equality and human rights which I guess is the devil's work in some people's eyes. However, my sister would be very upset by this development. She did not like her husband's father and now it's his sort of conservative thinking that is getting drilled into her children's head.
What is most alarming is that, unlike my sister who would have never stood for this kind of parenting, my BIL's wife encourages a lot of my BIL's worst qualities (materialistic, selfish, judgemental). He can also be an emotional bully and I don't see him standing up to her if she becomes more aggressive with her bullying. At the very least, I would have hoped he would honor my sister by being more gentle and sincere with his kids. My BIL seems relatively apathetic to me though he makes sure to include my mentally ill parents in family events, so I can't talk to him about any of this. It hurts a lot that we've known each other for probably over 25 years and he's been so quick to discard me. I spent a lot of time caring for my sister and helping out with the kids over the years and I thought it would have meant something to him.
They are still in the honeymoon phase, and I am very worried about when they move past that and when the five kids are all teenagers. I've heard that you can't bind a narcissist, and I don't want to do something that will indirectly harm the kids. I'm upset and I know my sister would be very upset. The main thing is that I know exactly how childhood trauma impacts a person for life. I will continue to do protection work on my sister's kids and try to sweeten my relationship with my BIL and with his wife but what else can I do?
p.s. I should also add that I feel some seriously toxic energy from her. I can sort of feel energies sometimes, and only sometimes but I definitely feel a bad vibe from her. Maybe it's only directed at me but, whew, it isn't good!


So, my mom is a narcissist and might also have bipolar and/or borderline personality disorder (her sister, who is a nurse practitioner, admitted this to me a few years ago). While my siblings and I didn't become narcissists ourselves, my brother and sister both chose somewhat dysfunctional partners. I'll talk more about my immediate family in another thread.
More importantly, my sister passed away, leaving her husband, my BIL, to care for their kids. While he's a decent person in general, his dad is even more of a narcissist than my mom. Both of my BIL's parents are very conservative and truly have some scary and hateful ideas about the world. Unfortunately, this has also shaped my BIL's world view. When my sister was alive, she was quick to straighten him out and to also bring a positive and loving energy to the house.
Long story short, he eventually met someone and remarried. When he first told me about her, she sounded great but I didn't meet her for a while. I did go to a psychic just to connect with my sister, and the psychic warned me about this woman. It was actually very jarring because I felt positive about this new woman despite still not knowing her.
When I finally met her, I was again very surprised. My sister was very down to earth and kind and this woman is very nice but it feels very insincere, like a mask she puts on. Her parents are also extremely racist, which was upsetting but I tried and still try to assume that is not the case with her. There are a lot of signs that something is up with her but it's hard to say exactly what, and I assume it's a combination of her religious views and potentially my mom poisoning the well. I also get the sense that she is a narcissist. Here are the signs:
- She met my BIL at her husband's wake. They got engaged within less than a year of her husband's death and married within a year a half
- She is very much about appearances and needs everything to be perfect (as explained by one of her children)
- They moved into a giant house but when you walk in, all of the kids are in their own rooms or playing video games in separate areas of the house
- The energy of the house is extremely cold. Neither mom and dad seem to make time to help the kids with their homework
- The family goes on fancy trips and eat out all of the time but they don't have deep conversations with each other
- She shames my very young niece when she does something like spills something on her shirt
- She belittles my sister's kids when they don't understand something (they are all pretty young - who the f*ck belittles a little kid?)
- She and my BIL live in a huge house but told the kids that they aren't allowed to move home after college
- The kids are also being told that they need to get jobs right away (though she no longer works????)
I can assume that some of this parenting is "tough love" though the idea that kids that lost a parent really need such a life lesson is pretty callous. This woman clearly does not like me or my partner, and we sort of understand because we are very much about equality and human rights which I guess is the devil's work in some people's eyes. However, my sister would be very upset by this development. She did not like her husband's father and now it's his sort of conservative thinking that is getting drilled into her children's head.
What is most alarming is that, unlike my sister who would have never stood for this kind of parenting, my BIL's wife encourages a lot of my BIL's worst qualities (materialistic, selfish, judgemental). He can also be an emotional bully and I don't see him standing up to her if she becomes more aggressive with her bullying. At the very least, I would have hoped he would honor my sister by being more gentle and sincere with his kids. My BIL seems relatively apathetic to me though he makes sure to include my mentally ill parents in family events, so I can't talk to him about any of this. It hurts a lot that we've known each other for probably over 25 years and he's been so quick to discard me. I spent a lot of time caring for my sister and helping out with the kids over the years and I thought it would have meant something to him.
They are still in the honeymoon phase, and I am very worried about when they move past that and when the five kids are all teenagers. I've heard that you can't bind a narcissist, and I don't want to do something that will indirectly harm the kids. I'm upset and I know my sister would be very upset. The main thing is that I know exactly how childhood trauma impacts a person for life. I will continue to do protection work on my sister's kids and try to sweeten my relationship with my BIL and with his wife but what else can I do?
p.s. I should also add that I feel some seriously toxic energy from her. I can sort of feel energies sometimes, and only sometimes but I definitely feel a bad vibe from her. Maybe it's only directed at me but, whew, it isn't good!
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
LaoLe,
Wow, yeah that is a backstory. While some of the examples given are concerning, others are not. My kids play in separate rooms all the time and we don't always have deep conversations with each other. My house is cold because I'm from MI and like dressing in layers lol. My point is, this sounds more like a difference of parenting styles from what you are used to with your sister and your BIL's new wife. Since they are newly married, it could take some time to adjust. Especially if she doesn't already have kids of her own. I would think it would be tough going from 0 to 5 kids. My suggestion is to work with her instead of against her. If you work to against her you could possibility sever the already strained ties you have with the family. If you help her with the kids, she could learn from you and see you as an ally instead of just her husband's SIL.
I see you called into the radio show and I hope you were able to complete the protection spell for the kids. I would keep working protection for them and dressing gifts for them. I would also be the steady, positive force in their lives. I would also recommend Influence products. This could be used on a regular white candle lit for her or a while skull candle. Inscribe it with her name/birthday and load it with her hair if you can get it. Inscribe it with commands or traits. "Loving mother" "kindness" or other phrases. Also, don't forget to place some Protection oil on yourself before visiting them.
Influence products: https://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Best of luck!
Wow, yeah that is a backstory. While some of the examples given are concerning, others are not. My kids play in separate rooms all the time and we don't always have deep conversations with each other. My house is cold because I'm from MI and like dressing in layers lol. My point is, this sounds more like a difference of parenting styles from what you are used to with your sister and your BIL's new wife. Since they are newly married, it could take some time to adjust. Especially if she doesn't already have kids of her own. I would think it would be tough going from 0 to 5 kids. My suggestion is to work with her instead of against her. If you work to against her you could possibility sever the already strained ties you have with the family. If you help her with the kids, she could learn from you and see you as an ally instead of just her husband's SIL.
I see you called into the radio show and I hope you were able to complete the protection spell for the kids. I would keep working protection for them and dressing gifts for them. I would also be the steady, positive force in their lives. I would also recommend Influence products. This could be used on a regular white candle lit for her or a while skull candle. Inscribe it with her name/birthday and load it with her hair if you can get it. Inscribe it with commands or traits. "Loving mother" "kindness" or other phrases. Also, don't forget to place some Protection oil on yourself before visiting them.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Just to clarify, she was already a mother to two and became a stepmother to three, so she already has experience.
And the house is cold energetically rather than literally or physically.
Also, when I spoke about the lack of deep, emotional conversations, I meant all of the time. I know exactly what that's like because I grew up in a house like that. I spent most of my time at friend's houses because they were much more loving. The kids don't talk a lot about their deceased parent with their surviving parent, and then don't talk in general - on an everyday, regular basis. I thought that the two sets of kids would come together but they actually interact very little. Anyway, I'm not fully convinced that it's simply a matter of parenting styles. I will work on further protection work for the kids and myself for now.
And the house is cold energetically rather than literally or physically.
Also, when I spoke about the lack of deep, emotional conversations, I meant all of the time. I know exactly what that's like because I grew up in a house like that. I spent most of my time at friend's houses because they were much more loving. The kids don't talk a lot about their deceased parent with their surviving parent, and then don't talk in general - on an everyday, regular basis. I thought that the two sets of kids would come together but they actually interact very little. Anyway, I'm not fully convinced that it's simply a matter of parenting styles. I will work on further protection work for the kids and myself for now.
Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Hi everyone,
I'm hoping to get some advice on how to proceed with a complex, multi-part situation (shock and awe, right?). My spouse and I are looking seriously at a cross country move that would likely benefit both of our careers and get us into a more pleasant climate. Her current job situation is getting unpleasant and her new offer is with a company she knows and loves.
The dilemma is that her close family lives in our current state. My family lives in our target state.
My MIL holds a great deal of influence over my beloved. A good deal of guilt, passive aggression, alleged spiritual insight (she's a straight up muggle) and shame are the heavy hitters in her arsenal. The MIL is a gossip. She and my BIL tend to make up stories/narratives and believe their own fantasies.
My concern is them convincing my spouse of their nonsense and guilting her into moving contrary to her own conscience and vision (not a muggle). My BIL chimes in and interferes from time to time too. His game is pretending to be a prophet (double muggle). He once "prophesied" me out of their father's will.
My current work has been of the Peaceful Home variety. Some gentle sweetening work between us. Our relationship is going well and we are of the same mind that the move is our best option.
My limitations are that I can't really set up long burning candle jobs at home. I use one-off chime candles, Psalms, oils, powders, etc.
I'm looking forward to reading your thoughts. Please let me know if you require additional information or clarification.
TY,
Robert
I'm hoping to get some advice on how to proceed with a complex, multi-part situation (shock and awe, right?). My spouse and I are looking seriously at a cross country move that would likely benefit both of our careers and get us into a more pleasant climate. Her current job situation is getting unpleasant and her new offer is with a company she knows and loves.
The dilemma is that her close family lives in our current state. My family lives in our target state.
My MIL holds a great deal of influence over my beloved. A good deal of guilt, passive aggression, alleged spiritual insight (she's a straight up muggle) and shame are the heavy hitters in her arsenal. The MIL is a gossip. She and my BIL tend to make up stories/narratives and believe their own fantasies.
My concern is them convincing my spouse of their nonsense and guilting her into moving contrary to her own conscience and vision (not a muggle). My BIL chimes in and interferes from time to time too. His game is pretending to be a prophet (double muggle). He once "prophesied" me out of their father's will.
My current work has been of the Peaceful Home variety. Some gentle sweetening work between us. Our relationship is going well and we are of the same mind that the move is our best option.
My limitations are that I can't really set up long burning candle jobs at home. I use one-off chime candles, Psalms, oils, powders, etc.
I'm looking forward to reading your thoughts. Please let me know if you require additional information or clarification.
TY,
Robert
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Hello Robertus,
I'm sorry you're going through such difficulty with your in-laws.
This thread is full of advice and ideas that you can adapt to your situation, so I would read through the posts here starting with the first page. Chances are you will find something that will speak to you.
You could also consider putting your in-laws in a freezer spell to stop their momentum in interfering with your plans. You can read more about how to construct a freezer spell here:
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I'm sorry you're going through such difficulty with your in-laws.
This thread is full of advice and ideas that you can adapt to your situation, so I would read through the posts here starting with the first page. Chances are you will find something that will speak to you.
You could also consider putting your in-laws in a freezer spell to stop their momentum in interfering with your plans. You can read more about how to construct a freezer spell here:
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Miss Athena,
Thank you for the reply. I have been digging through and finding many good ideas. The freezer work is something I have done in other situations, but entirely overlooked here. This is exactly what I hoping for: someone checking my blind spots.
Thank you for the reply. I have been digging through and finding many good ideas. The freezer work is something I have done in other situations, but entirely overlooked here. This is exactly what I hoping for: someone checking my blind spots.

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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
I agree with Athena -- a freezer spell seems like a great idea. This book contains more than 100 spells for bottling, freezing, and containing people and situations. There are 6 pages of freezer sells among them!
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
DEDICATION 4
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 4
WHO WROTE THESE SPELLS? 4
WHAT IS CONTAINER MAGIC? 5
... What You Will Need 6
CONTAINER SPELLS 10
NATURAL CONTAINERS 12
... Egg Spells 12
... Animal Organs, Bones, Shells, and Horns 14
... Fruits and Vegetables 15
... Potted Plants, Hollow Trees, and Holes in the Ground 19
PAPER, CLOTH, LEAD, AND LEATHER 22
... Packet and Package Spells 22
... Mojo Hands and Troll Bundles 25
... Doll-Babies and Loaded Statuary 29
... Wax Dolls in Various Liquids 30
... Stuffed Dolls for Love and Marriage 31
... Stuffed Dolls for Pain and Suffering 32
... oaded Statuary as Dolls 33
BOTTLE SPELLS 34
... Bottle Spell Basics 34
... Shaking Bottle Spells 35
... Perfume Bottle Spells 36
... Vinegar Bottle Spells 37
... Bottle Spells for Various Conditions 39
... Breaking the Bottle 49
JAR SPELLS 51
... Jar Spell Basics 51
... Sugar and Honey Jar Spells 53
... Vinegar Jar Spells 61
... Ammonia Jar Spells 62
... Rotten Jar Spells 63
BOX, CAN, AND TIN SPELLS 64
... Matchbox and Cigar Box Spells 64
... Coffin Box Spells 65
... Sugar Box Spells 67
... Mirror Box Spells 69
FIRE AND LIGHT SPELLS 73
... Loaded Oil Lamps 75
... Loaded Candles 76
ICE BOX AND FREEZER SPELLS 78
... Ice Box and Freezer Spell Basics 78
... Frozen Spells 80
SPIRIT HOUSES 84
... Enshrining Benevolent Spirits 84
... Black Hawk Buckets 85
... The Scandinavian Spiritus 86
... Religious Bottles 87
SPIRIT TRAPS 88
... Confining Evil SPirits 88
... Witch Bottles 88
... Bottle Trees 90
... Jewish and Arabic Inscribed Bowls 91
BRINGING IT TO A CLOSE 93
BIBLIOGRAPHY 96
First Edition 2020
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Bottle Up and Go! by cat yronwode and Lara Rivera
$12.00


You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.
Here's what's inside:
TABLE OF CONTENTS
DEDICATION 4
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 4
WHO WROTE THESE SPELLS? 4
WHAT IS CONTAINER MAGIC? 5
... What You Will Need 6
CONTAINER SPELLS 10
NATURAL CONTAINERS 12
... Egg Spells 12
... Animal Organs, Bones, Shells, and Horns 14
... Fruits and Vegetables 15
... Potted Plants, Hollow Trees, and Holes in the Ground 19
PAPER, CLOTH, LEAD, AND LEATHER 22
... Packet and Package Spells 22
... Mojo Hands and Troll Bundles 25
... Doll-Babies and Loaded Statuary 29
... Wax Dolls in Various Liquids 30
... Stuffed Dolls for Love and Marriage 31
... Stuffed Dolls for Pain and Suffering 32
... oaded Statuary as Dolls 33
BOTTLE SPELLS 34
... Bottle Spell Basics 34
... Shaking Bottle Spells 35
... Perfume Bottle Spells 36
... Vinegar Bottle Spells 37
... Bottle Spells for Various Conditions 39
... Breaking the Bottle 49
JAR SPELLS 51
... Jar Spell Basics 51
... Sugar and Honey Jar Spells 53
... Vinegar Jar Spells 61
... Ammonia Jar Spells 62
... Rotten Jar Spells 63
BOX, CAN, AND TIN SPELLS 64
... Matchbox and Cigar Box Spells 64
... Coffin Box Spells 65
... Sugar Box Spells 67
... Mirror Box Spells 69
FIRE AND LIGHT SPELLS 73
... Loaded Oil Lamps 75
... Loaded Candles 76
ICE BOX AND FREEZER SPELLS 78
... Ice Box and Freezer Spell Basics 78
... Frozen Spells 80
SPIRIT HOUSES 84
... Enshrining Benevolent Spirits 84
... Black Hawk Buckets 85
... The Scandinavian Spiritus 86
... Religious Bottles 87
SPIRIT TRAPS 88
... Confining Evil SPirits 88
... Witch Bottles 88
... Bottle Trees 90
... Jewish and Arabic Inscribed Bowls 91
BRINGING IT TO A CLOSE 93
BIBLIOGRAPHY 96
First Edition 2020
96 pages, paperback.
Published by
Lucky Mojo
6632 Covey Road
Forestville, California 95436
www.luckymojo.com
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Thank you. That work is on my wishlist, but not in my most recent order. I only have about a third of the LM library so far. The matchbox spells section has my curiosity piqued.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
There is a special package of Lucky Mojo books where you can get them for $7.00 each instead of 9.00 each, thorough the shop. It's called a Baker's Dozen.
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Re: Spells to End Trouble With In-Law Family MIL FIL SIL BIL
Robertus,
Here is a link to the baker dozen coastwitch mentioned, well worth it with a great price.
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Here is a link to the baker dozen coastwitch mentioned, well worth it with a great price.
JayDee
Hoodoo Books Baker's Dozen (13 Books)
Use in Magic:
Now, you can get your pick of a "Baker's Dozen" -- 13 books on practical magic -- for an amazing discount price! You will receive 1,248 illustrated pages of hoodoo history, magic spells for love and money, practical information on how to tell fortunes, traditional conjure tricks and tips for protection and uncrossing, and answers to hundreds of questions about spell-casting in this big, beautiful discount array; and best of all, YOU get to choose which titles you want!
Spell Methods:
Lucky Mojo Books are filled with authentic and easy to follow instructions for practical spells of magic and fortune-telling. Enhance your success in spells of love, luck, happiness, and wealth by learning time-tested folkloric traditions of hoodoo, rootwork, psychic reading, spiritual sorcery, and herbalism.
Product Details:
Order any 12 of our 96-page hoodoo, conjure, rootwork, and divination books which regularly sell for $12.00 each (a total of $144.00) -- and pay only $9.50 each for a total of only $114.00 (a savings of $30.00), PLUS, we will include one extra book FOR FREE!
Select TWELVE TITLES:
• The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic by catherine yronwode and Mikhail Strabo
• The Art of Making Mojos by catherine yronwode
• Bones, Shells, and Curios by Michele Jackson
• Bottle Up and Go! by catherine yronwode and Lara Rivera
• Cash Box Conjure by Miss Phoenix LeFae
• Crystal Magic by Jon Saint Germain
• Cursing and Crossing by Miss Aida
• A Deck of Spells by Professor C. D. Porterfield
• Deliverance! by Khi Armand
• Destroying Relationships by Miss Aida
• Down-Home Sex Magic by catherine yronwode
• The Fortune Teller's Guide to Success by Valentina Burton
• Genuine Black and White Magic of Marie Laveau, by Zora Neale Hurston et al, edited by Cat Yronwode
• The Guiding Lught to Power and Success by Mikhail Strabo and catherine yronwode
• Hoodoo Dolls and Effigies by Catherine Yronwode
• Hoodoo Bible Magic by Miss Michaele and Professor C. D. Porterfield
• Hoodoo Food! by The Ladies Auxiliary of MISC
• Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells by Deacon Millett
• Hoodoo Return and Reconciliation Spells by Deacon Millett
• Hoodoo Shrines and Altars by Miss Phoenix LeFae
• Hoodoo Spiritual Baths by Aura Laforest
• How to Use Amulets, Charms, and Talismans by catherine yronwode and Gregory Lee White
• Legends of Incense, Herb, and Oil Magic by Lewis de Claremont, edited by Cat Yronwode
• Lithomancy by Rev. Dr. Jon Saint Germain
• North Asian Magic by David Borji Shi
• Paper In My Shoe by catherine yronwode
• Secrets of the Crystal Silence League by Claude Alexander Conlin,
edited, annotated, restored, and revised by catherine yronwode and Deacon Millett
• The Secret of Numbers Revealed by catherine yronwode, Dr. Roy Page Walton,
Lewis de Claremont, Godfrey Spencer, and Frank Householder
• The Sporting Life by Professor C. D. Porterfield
• The Stranger in the Cup by Gregory Lee White and catherine yronwode
• Terrors of the Evil Eye Exposed by Henri Gamache, catherine yronwode, and Jeremy Weiss
• This Amazing Book by Sunrae Products Company, edited by catherine yronwode
• Throwing the Bones by catherine yronwode
• Vulvamancy by Dr. Jeremy Weiss
• Women's Work by Aura Laforest
Select One BONUS:BOOK
• Trolldom Preview by Johannes Gardback or
• The Gospel of Satan by Troll Towelhead
NOTE: Please indicate your twelve chosen titles and one chosen bonus in the message field when you place your order. If you do not make a selection of 12 books plus one free bonus book, we will choose for you.
Format: Thirteen 96-page books (1,248 pages), trade paperbacks, illustrated
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Publication dates: 2012-2018
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Tagged: Spells and Magic, Specials, Spirituality, Herbalism, Divination
BOO-SPE-9612
Hoodoo Books Baker's Dozen (13 Books)
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