Spells to Influence, Overcome Resistance, and Change Someone's Mind

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, Pinkunicorn77 --

Because Commaning, Compelling, and Controlling are so similar, we make ONE Command - Compel - Control candle. This is to overpower and control people

"Commanding, Controlling, and Domination are the names of a series of hoodoo spiritual supplies designed to give you the power to lead, govern, and enforce your will on others. They can be used alone or added to other products for use in domination-style love spells, around the work-place, or anywhere that you want to be in command."
--- Catherine Yrowode

Command - Compel - Control Glass-Encased Vigil Candle, Fixed

Use in Magic:
People in positions of power speak of an old formula for ruling which they call Commanding; they claim that it has enabled them to lead, dominate, rule, and otherwise direct those around them; also known as Commanding Power,t is said to give the power to bring another under your command.

Spell Methods:
Dress and fix vigil light candles with oils plus optional herbs or dusting sachets, and pray for your desires, add a written petition, photo, or seal; burn in a fire-safe place.

Product Details:
Purple wax, 8" tall glass-encased Vigil Candle, fixed with oils, herbs, and prayer.

CAN-GLS-COMM
Command - Compel - Control Glass-Encased Vigil Candle, Fixed
$13.00





You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

We do not make a Do As I Say Candle (although we do make the Oil)

We make an Influence candle. This is to get into people's minds and change them

"We are often asked to explain the difference between Influence and other, similar-sounding formulas, such as Commanding, Compelling, Controlling, Domination, Do As I Say, and Essence of Bend Over. Well, each of those others has its own fine points, but what sets Influence apart is its subtlety."
--- Catherine Yronwode

Influence Glass-Encased Vigil Candle, Fixed

Use in Magic:
Need to help your friend see the light? Wish your boyfriend would spend more time with you? Need your mother to stop nagging you? Certain herbs and roots are known to influence another's mind, giving you the edge you need to do good work for them and you. Use Influence to affect the thoughts or actions of others.

Spell Methods:
Dress and fix vigil light candles with oils plus optional herbs or dusting sachets, and pray for your desires, add a written petition, photo, or seal; burn in a fire-safe place.

Product Details:
Yellow wax, 8" tall glass-encased Vigil Candle, fixed with oils, herbs, and prayer.

CAN-GLS-INFL
Influence Glass-Encased Vigil Candle, Fixed
$13.00





You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

[elowen]

I'm hoping that people can offer me some advice based on my current situation, I would appreciate it:

My parents and I have some differences in my career plan, I am currently staying at home and supporting myself with my savings, I want to take my time to find a job that suits me or try to start a career of my own (as my current savings can support me to live until next year), but my parents can't accept that I am staying at home, although they also support me to start my career, but they demand that I have to go to work, and Meanwhile they keep on going to find me jobs.

So we had a lot of arguments and if they didn't get their way they would use emotional violence on me, I couldn't leave my parents' house to go back to my own and continue my plans because my parents threatened to disown me if I did, and I didn't want to worsen my precarious family relationship.

The good thing though is that they also support me in achieving my career, that's the only thing we agree on, but I'm still working on that.

I had just finished my last job, and my parents couldn’t wait to ask their friends to find me a new job. and they're forcing me to go for sure, I'm well aware that if I don't go, it'll cause our relationship to collapse (after all, this kind of strife has been going on for a year or two now, and we're all very tired of it), so I'm making a concession, and I'm agreeing to promise them that if I take the job, and I go and if I find out that the job isn't right for me, I'll stay there and work for 1-2 months, this During that time we try to find something else, something that suits me, and even if I don't see something suitable at the end of the day, I'll leave at the agreed time.

Yesterday I went to work for the new company, and I found that as I expected, this job is not suitable for me at all and it makes me suffer, my stomach aches because of the anxiety brought by work as if there is a fire burning, after work, I lie down on the bed and fall into sleep, to relieve the mental exhaustion and anxiety, when I think of this kind of days still have one or two months, I'm very despairing.

I've done a lot of rituals over the past year to ease my situation and my relationship with my parents, some of them worked, many of them didn't, so I thought it was time to ask someone else for their opinion.

So I would like to ask if anyone can give me any advice based on my situation, I would appreciate it:

1. how to relieve my mental exhaustion and anxiety while working for a new company

2. how to ease the conflict between me and my parents, so that my parents can understand me, treat me gently, not force me to do things I don't want to do, not hurt each other, and have harmony in the family without quarrelling.

3. I intend to be a soothsayer and also try to provide remote candle service, currently trying to open such a business, but my country doesn't allow me to advertise these on the internet, so it's very hard for me to find clients, currently stuck in such a predicament, I'd like to know how to break such a predicament, recruit clients, and attract money while avoiding legal problems (in my country. Such business is a grey area)

4. Besides the above, I am also looking for a job that suits me, if I can find one, it will ease the relationship between me and my parents, and I can work and try to develop my career at the same time, but so far nothing is happening, how can I solve this situation?

Would love to see any advice anyone has on my current situation, thank you very much：）

Elowen

[catherineyronwode]

Hello, elowen,

Since you don't say much about what kind of a job will suit you, i will reply in general terms.

1. To relieve mental exhaustion and anxiety at a job, two things may help. Make a honey or sugar jar with the names of the co-workers and boss in it, and pray over it, tasting of the sweetness with every name you add. This is to cause them to be sweeter and kinder to you. To change your own mind about the job for the better, prepare a talisman for heightened energy and a bright outlook, and wear it to the job.

2. To ease the conflict between you and your parents and influence them to be kind to you, get Peace Water, shake it up, and call Psalms 133 over it, then sprinkle or spritz it lightly around the house.

3. If you intend to be a soothsayer and also provide remote candle services in a country where such advertisements are forbidden, then, rather than struggling to overcome governmental an societal resistance, i suggest you find and apprentice yourself to an older local soothsayer for a few years to build a reputation. Older people may need heavy loads, such as cases of candles, lifted, may teach you the folklore of your native country, and maybe will pass clients along to you as they grow older.

4. To find a new job that suits you, work by collecting the printed logos of the companies that interest you and placing them under Steady Work candles, calling upon God, spirits, angels, or famous deceased workers in that occupation to assist you in finding employment. To change your own mind for the better, prepare a talisman for heightened energy and a bright outlook, and wear it to the new job.

Good luck.

[elowen]

Thank you so much catherine, your answer helped me a lot!

[lorelanerb]

I want to change someone’s mind. I’ve thought about two approaches on a skull candle and need advice:
1. Confusion and domination products to tell them things like “doing X is a bad idea, it will bring destruction to your life, don’t do X ” Basically to bring doubt and fear about this to their mind so they DON’T do the thing I don’t want them to do.
2. Straight up domination: essence of bend over, controlling, etc, with the command “you will NOT do X”

Is it okay for me to design the spell such that I combine both elements of the above? Like combining the confusion and domination products, keeping the command “you will not do X” and when I speak to the skull also telling it confusing thought about it and cause mistrust and doubt about their initial decision. Is it best to do these two separately ? Or pick one?

Please let me know if I’m making things more complicated or overthinking.

Thanks!

[JayDee]

lorelanerb ,

Confusion work is the opposite of what you want to do; you do not confuse them to make them realize something is bad or wrong. This would only make it worse. What happens to a confused person? They go back and forth, change their mind.

The second one.

Pick one.

JayDee

[lorelanerb]

Thanks for your answer JayDee! Just to clarify, what the person has decided is not necessarily “bad” or “wrong” so they wouldn’t be “realizing” something true. But I do want them to think those things. In this case, you’d still advise with approach #2 and avoid confusion products ?

[JayDee]

lorelanerb,

Yes confusing products are not going to make anyone realize anything. You are over thinking the petition, what is the desire? To make them realize something, to think a certain way to act a certain way, that is commanding, do as I say, influence products.

JayDee

[crystalangel]

Hello...
The case is as follows: I want to change someone's mind of having a chikd with his current relationship that is almost over
I want your help to that spell
Since he is the man that I want Iam thinking if a white skull candle dressed with influence oil, deer tongue to his mouth to tell her clearly that he changed his mind...a tiny petition that I will put into the skull's forehead with the statement "I don't want a child with her name and I will tell
I will leave the remains at the center of crossroads???
Any other herbs or oils that I could use for that case!??

[JayDee]

crystalangel ,

Prior to having him tell her he does not want the kid, you need to first convince him he does not want it! I think you are putting the horse before the carriage.

1. Break them up first, Break Up jar to end and have them be filled with discord and fighting.
Break Up: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

2. Tell him what to do and think, using Commanding or Do As I Say, on a skull candle and speak to it like it is his thoughts over and over.
Commanding: https://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
Do As I Say: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-do-as-i-say.html

3. Come to me and Love me work such as a honey jar or a moving candle spell.
Come to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
Love Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

JayDee

[crystalangel]

Thanks JayDee

I have already started the break up work and I will continue.

Also I have done love work and I will make a love baby doll...and a red skull candle for him.

I have some other questions about red skull but I will ask to the proper thread for that