Spells to Keep the Family Together or Return Family Members

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:42 pm

He has prime custody due to financial reasons only...and because he told me at the very beginning that if I didn't sign the papers the way he wanted he'd get people to sign depositions against me and I'd never see my son again. I don't know what do to about him mundanely or magically, he went to Iraq and lost his freaking mind, only he has the Army behind him (thanks to his lies about me to his commanders) and I've got bupkis. He's also EXCRUCIATINGLY wishy-washy so there's always a 60% chance what he says one day won't even be on his radar the next. I don't exactly want to take our son away from him, but I do wonder if trying legally and magically to get some reason to get if not sole custody but main custody. My fiance has expressed interest in adopting him if he needed to. I will admit to having issues myself, but I was still the only parent for 2 and a half years, and I've never hauled out and hit anyone in anger. I am afraid of him, but maybe I shouldn't be because he had been bluffing/lying before. That and my fiance could snap him in half. I have some EofBO, I think I'll add more to my next order and use some on him and maybe petition St Martha on top of that and have LM light a vigil on it. Now I know where my birthday money is going, right. Do you think a honey jar to just get him to not fly into a rage and discuss things like an adult would be a good start? I am still going to try and find a lawyer, though.

hoodoohottie · Unread post by **hoodoohottie** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 4:23 pm

Hello everyone,
I have a family member that I would like to come down and visit us. All of our family lives in the same area and we all don't get to see him often and miss him. We talk to him often and he tells us he misses us and loves us and he is going to make more of an effort to visit. He lives in another state and I was wondering what could I use to get him to come visit us Asap. I know he works alot but even seeing him for a couple of days would mean alot to us. Any suggestions??

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 6:36 am

You could try some Road Opening work to help open his ways to you, along with an Attraction kit to start drawing him to you. The combination would likely be a really nice one for your purposes!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 10:21 pm

Mix some Tobacco with Attraction incense and call out their name as you light. Pray over it that this person comes to you and visits, then toss some of the ashes on your front lawn.

You might try dressing a letter with a pinch of the mixture to send to them. For this use the powder.

sandi613 · Unread post by **sandi613** » Mon May 23, 2011 3:20 pm

I need help we havent spoken to our son in over 2 years. She hates us and he does what she wants he follows her lead. I sent several emails and he finally responded to one of them and his response was angry and he said leave his wife out of this but I never mentioned his wife in emails, only love and how much we miss him. He has 2 boys who we haven't seen either. I think his wife changed the email before forwarding it to him. She is very controlling and only wants him to visit her family, he hasn't spoken to his sister, either grandparents or aunts and uncles. He has completely aliented everyone in the family. What kind of info can you give me to help get him back into our family as we miss him so much.

Thank you for your help

Sandi

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue May 24, 2011 1:26 am

1. Get a reading first.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

2. I would get a reconciliation sweet jar going for everyone, and then heed the advice of the rootworker in the reading

www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Unread post by **curiocrow** » Tue May 24, 2011 10:24 pm

I might suggest working with Blood Root in this case. It helps with the ties between blood related relatives. I'm dealing with a sibling in which they are somewhat troublesome and disrespectful. I'm using the root. Just a thought. Hope things work out for you.

barat · Unread post by **barat** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 4:44 pm

My 18 yr old daughter is pregnant and my husband which is her stepfather dont want to take her back in, in our house. Can somebody help me ? Is there something I can do to influence my husband to accept her back? I dont want my daughter on the streets.
Thank you..

drjumba · Unread post by **drjumba** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 1:57 am

There are many root work to get someone agree with you on something. please contact the admin will refer you to one best remedy that will get your husband to stop this attitude towards your daughtor.

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 4:45 am

Hi barat,

Prayers and good will to you during this rough time. If you haven't already, sign up for prayers from the Crystal Silence League: http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

You may also want to start a peaceful home honey jar with everyone in the family in it as well as an Influence for a Good purpose honey jar on your husband specifically to help him come around: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

If your husband is particularly resistant, consider getting an AIRR member to help you with work: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

Blessings and best of luck.

barat · Unread post by **barat** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 5:38 am

Hi Dr. Jumba what do you mean contact the admin? I should contact lucky mojo? Do you work at the office? What time should I call you?
I appreciate all the answers here

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Feb 26, 2012 6:37 am

Dr Jumba is not associated with Lucky Mojo. I think he meant call the shop, but that will not be necessary. There are plenty of things you can do on your own. As Aura stated, the Peaceful Home and Influence honey jars would be a good place to start. If you work with saints, you can petition the Holy Family.

I would also suggest a reading at: www.readersandrootworkers.org

You can also sign up for a reading at the Lucky Mojo Radio Hour. It is every Sunday at 3pm Pacific Time.

drjumba · Unread post by **drjumba** » Sat Mar 03, 2012 11:20 pm

barat

Hello friend am sory you got me wrong,i dont work at lucky mojo, all i ment that you contact an administrator at lucky mojo. He or She would surgest a way of help to your situation of which they have like i can see now.

its just that i love being around cause in this way of sharing we learn many new things about different cultures.

blanksean · Unread post by **blanksean** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 2:39 pm

i need help and am not sure where to post. i have been in an amazing relationship for 3 years. recently her little brother took ill. and i had to send her home. about that time my father got sick i needed her so i went to be with her. but her parents kept us apart then i caused out first fight ever.
i said things i didnt mean i hurt her and she left me. though we both want to get back together. she has blocked me out of her heart and hardly speaks to me. when she does she tells me she wants this to workout. but she cant seems to show me how to get closer to her. i think a road opening something or other would help in combonation with a honey jar. but i dont know what to do. please my father has gotten even more ill and i need help i need ehr to get through this. please.

theusurper · Unread post by **theusurper** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 8:59 am

This is the situation, my son he moved to another country looking for better life, that happened 3 years ago and he is up and down. RIght now , no job, no car, no place to stay and as a mother i'm desesparated, i want him to come back home where we can help him, he is scared to come back because he own child support but his wife want to help him with that situation, she is very nice lady and she said she doesn't want her girls daddy in jail, they are separated but they have a good relationship, when he was working he was sending the support and give something extra for his daughters. How can i bring him back home? What can i do?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:28 am

I would suggest Influence products.

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

They can be used to influence your son's mind to a good purpose; that is, to influence him to come home. You can get the sachet powders and dust them lightly over any letters or cards you send him, and pray that when he touches them he'll be compelled to come home.

You can also have a vigil light set at the Missionary Independent Spiritualist Church altar with your son's name, picture and your prayer that he return home:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

lbcamera · Unread post by **lbcamera** » Fri Oct 26, 2012 12:04 am

I was wondering what I can do to get family and friends to visit my mother more often at her home? She lives in Florida and I live in NY.
She refuses to relocate yet always complains how lonely she gets when early evening rolls around. Is there any way I can accomplish this long distance.

I know it's a long shot but I figured I would ask.

Thank you for any suggestions you may have

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Oct 27, 2012 8:29 pm

You could work Attraction conjure for your mother.

d1angel · Unread post by **d1angel** » Sat Dec 15, 2012 4:39 pm

I have 2 boys who were taken by their father years ago (it's a long convoluted tale, but I fought him for all I was worth and still couldn't prevail). Anyway, now that they are grown, I'd like to reconcile with them. He's not hoodooing them, but he does have them convinced that I am the Wicked Witch of the West.

I'm considering a honey jar to start sweetening them toward me, but I'm just at a loss....

I am starting to seriously consider a revenge spell against him because of all he's done against me, but honestly, as long as I have my kids speaking to me again, that's what I really want.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Dec 15, 2012 5:21 pm

You could start by writing a letter dusted with Reconciliation powder. A honey jar is a good idea also. Maybe they would consider seeing you for a holiday dinner or lunch.

d1angel · Unread post by **d1angel** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 6:02 pm

I'll start there, for sure. Would I work this like a reconciliation between lovers (without the sexual component, of course)? I hope I'm not asking stupid questions - I read a lot on the forum before I post anything.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 8:10 pm

Reconciliation is not "sexual" per se -- it can be used to mend sexual break-ups, but basically it is to bring people back together who have had misunderstandings, arguments, other non-accidental separations.

d1angel · Unread post by **d1angel** » Sun Dec 16, 2012 8:33 pm

That's what I thought. Thank you.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Dec 17, 2012 5:12 am

And when you do meet up with your sons (phrase that in the positive, like you've already accomplished it), bathe before hand in Reconciliation bath crystals and wash your clothes with pinch of the crystals in the rinse cycle. That way, your whole body will be dressed for reconciliation.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 11:14 am

Beyond the bath, dress your hands with a drop of Reconciliation oil and make sure to shake hands with them, touch their shoulder -- or their hair, if you can do so in a natural way.

You might mix in some Influence products with the Reconciliation, too.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:52 pm

Post a prayer at the Crystal Silence League (http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html)

d1angel · Unread post by **d1angel** » Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:08 pm

Thank you, all. I'm certain that *eventually* they will want to talk to me, but I'd like to gently move that along.

Making notes for my next order....

Mamaki · Unread post by **Mamaki** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:24 pm

I'm wondering how to help my boyfriend with spellwork. His grandson's parents are going through a very difficult time/ divorce and the best place for the grandson would be with him until everything is settled and custody established. The boy is in Nebraska while we live in California. What kind of spell can I use to bring his grandson here where he will be loved, happy, safe and very well cared for. I was thinking of something to sweeten the father's view of the boy staying with us? BUT, I don't have any of his personal concerns. I only have the boy's personal concerns from some items that were left here the last time they visited. His mother ran off with some other guy so, I just wish the grandson can feel safe and loved with us even though his mother is gone and his father decides what to do.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Dec 30, 2012 9:34 pm

Mamaki

Did he grow up in the house where you and your boyfriend are now living? Use something from the room that was his bedroom: fibers from the carpet, a paint chip, etc. If you're not living in his childhood home, well, a picture might do.

Put some sugar and Tranquility Oil on an Influence candle and set it by a picture of the baby's father. Light another candle -- a Tranquility candle with Safe Travel Oil on it -- for the baby, and another (Peaceful Home or Money House Blessing) for your boyfriend and you.

Put a little Protection Oil on each candle, too.

Start with the baby's candle and his father's candle touching. Over a period of seven days, move the baby's candle so it's touching your candle.

If the boy's father is a straight-up Golden Rule man who is just going through a bad time, and you have no objection to letting him raise the boy when things are better -- tie his candle and the boy's candle together with a blue or pink ribbon long enough to reach all the way to your candle.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Mamaki · Unread post by **Mamaki** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:11 am

Perfect!!! The last addition with tying the ribbon is also a great thing to do in this case!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:21 pm

Glad you like it, Mamaki! Please let us know how it all works out.

Miss Michaele

ceramicat · Unread post by **ceramicat** » Sat Jan 19, 2013 11:21 pm

My son is 29, and he's too trusting.

A friend talked him into moving from Los Angeles to Des Moines, IA with the promise of a job, and an eventual promotion. The guy paid for his bus ticket right after Thanksgiving, and after all this time he's still not getting paid. My son was suppose to be hired on with him and work as an assistant.

Today my son told me that his friend wasn't aware he expected to be paid, and he must have misunderstood the job offer. My son didn't misunderstand! The friend of his isn't stupid, he just plays dumb.

We told him not to trust the guy, because he's proven untrustworthy in the past, and he's dangerous (I won't go into it) but my son said we are just too suspicious, and went anyway. And we told him to get everything in writing with a signature of what was expected and what his salary would be. He didn't do that.

He needs to come back home where his rent is taken care of, and where he has medical insurance for his disabilities. I know he needs to grow up and eventually move out, but that was not the way. He's being taken advantage of, working 12 hour days and getting nothing out of it. I am so worried about him. The kid is freezing out there without winter clothing, we can't afford to buy him new clothes or snow boots since were on Social Security of $800.00 a month.

But that friendship needs to end since that friend isn't a friend, he's just using my son as his personal slave. He's always taken advantage of his friendship by playing dumb, and we even let him stay here which he took advantage of. If that guy gets in the door you practically have to have the police escort him out. Help!

I have Compelling, Controlling, Money Drawing, and Uncrossing oils, but none of those seemed appropriate for this.

cat ninja heroe · Unread post by **cat ninja heroe** » Sun Jan 20, 2013 7:29 am

Hi ceramicat,
I am a beginner in hoodoo no expert of course, but I thought I could get the ball rolling on your question. I've been thinking about your question because my son also has friends who are doing him no good. I am planning to use Cast Off Evil and Clarity, and maybe Rue, to protect him and help him to see what's right.

whistler2 · Unread post by **whistler2** » Sun Jan 20, 2013 11:25 am

I would suggest a white skull candle fixed with clarity and king solomon's wisdom as well as cast off evil. This can empower him to take the steps he needs on his own.

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

Once home, I say work with some crown of success to help him move ahead in life and find his own way

Good Luck!

ceramicat · Unread post by **ceramicat** » Sun Jan 20, 2013 3:01 pm

Thank you! Yes, he does need to be empowered, and needs to find his own way.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jan 21, 2013 9:16 am

Another idea is Return to Me. Most love products can be used for non-romantic and family relationships as well.

TAMMM · Unread post by **TAMMM** » Fri Jul 26, 2013 5:45 pm

Hello,

I am new to this site in search for some help.

I am not trying to bind someone from doing harm to me but binding him from doing harm to himself. There are so many binding spells on the net and

1) I don't know if they will work and

2) they are to bind an enemy and this is not the case.

I need to help my son, he needs help fast, he is not headed on the right path.

I am trying to find out more about the binding spell because I don't want to do the binding spell to bind an enemy, I need to do the binding spell to help my son from harming himself. He is not headed in the right path and I need to help him, he is my only son.

A year ago I got jinx I know who did it and it affected me and my relashionship with my son, it caused him to move out abruptly (took everything), he got very ill and stop visiting and talking to me, because I know this is happening due to the jinx.

I am not mad at him but I am still so devastated. I am depressed, physically ill and my life is turned upside down.

I cry every night because I do not know what I can do to break this curse and get my son to come stay and visit me again, I tried everything last year to try to get my son back but nothing worked.

To me the main thing is that I want him to be well and he is harming himself and I am wondering if the binding spell will help or is it only to bind enemies? If that's not the right one which one is the best one and how do I do it?

please help.

1) Can you make a binding spell for one person for different reasons or each wish requires a separate (binding) spell?

2) Will a binding spell be the right one for what I want to do, or should it be a different spell?

Sorry for all the questions. Just don't know what else to do at this point.

Thank you all for reading my post. I appreciate it.

Desperate Mom

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Jul 26, 2013 6:58 pm

Cast Off Evil is especially formulated for situations in which people are harming themselves with bad behavior or bad companions. I like to mix it with King Solomon Wisdom, too.

Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

To draw him home, try a spell of love, peace, and sweetness using some article of his clothe, a photo, or other personal concerns.

See earlier posts in this thread for further ideas.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

TAMMM · Unread post by **TAMMM** » Fri Aug 02, 2013 8:51 pm

A year ago someone did evil spell-work on me which affected my only son. I know who did it and I tried to go to several people to help me get it removed, spent so much money and get a lot of promises and nothing worked. In fact, I think things got worst.

The curse caused my son to move out abruptly, unexpectedly, he got ill (and still is), got very depressed and suicidal, he started using drugs and not call or visit me, even though he is living 5 minutes away from me.

Today marks the year of him moving out and I have been sick to my stomach all day. Things are the same, nothing has changed. I am still broken from what happened. To this day if you asked him, why you moved out, he will tell you, "I don't know, I just had to leave". I have been cursed before so I know how it feels like. Every time people ask me about him, I have to lie because no one knows what I have been going through.

Before all of this we had a close relationship and now he doesn't call me or visit me, unless I call him first (I am typing with tears rolling down my face) is as if I don't exist to him.

He moved in with the worst role model; his father. His father lets him use the drugs, in fact, his father has my son living in the basement with the person supplying the drugs. His father makes him work at all hours of the night and does not pay him, but pays my son's friends, this job has cause my son lots of pain physically. His father is not teaching him how to be a responsible or independent young man, all of the things I tried teaching him.

I want him to have self-worth, right now he doesn't love himself.

I need help, I need to know what I can do to:

For my Son:
Remove this curse from my son
Stop using drugs
Give him peace of mind; tranquility
Stop the depression
Get my son out of that house for good (not break up his relationship with his father) but not have him live there anymore
Have him come stay over during his school breaks
Be nicer and loving to me
Open his eyes to what his father is doing to him physically and mentally
Stop working for free for his father
Get him healthy and happy again
Stop suffering from this stomach pain that is killing him
Get him to focus on school
Stop hanging with those bad influences
Sleep at night (not after 3AM everyday)

For Me:
Remove this curse from me
Give me peace of mind
Make me healthy
Stop the depression
Stop my hair from falling out

I know this is a lot to ask for but I really need to help my son but I am not going to be able to help him if I can't help myself. I need to be strong so I can help my only son.

My biggest biggest concern is that I will never be free of this curse and I will live miserable for the rest of my life without my son.

Thank you for reading and comments and suggestions from the bottom of my heart.

Lost

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Aug 12, 2013 7:21 am

Hello, Tamm
You poor thing. I am so very sorry that this is happening to you. It's just terrible and my heart goes out to you.
You've been given some excellent advice (see the posts above).
Just would like to say that I hope you have contacted a social worker, authorities, and perhaps a mental health counselor to get you through all of this emotionally. I consider myself a very stable person but don't think that I could ever go through all that you're going through without some sound positive reinforcement and a sounding board.
Take Care and Bless You. I hope that things work out for you.

rico69 · Unread post by **rico69** » Tue Sep 24, 2013 12:08 pm

What spells and ways can I bring my daughter home after I do a break up spell? I want her to come back home and stay home and never leave again?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 24, 2013 12:16 pm

Hello, Rico69,
I'm so sorry that you don't have your daughter right now.
May I ask that you be more specific about what happened? I am a little confused about the break up and your daughter.
We will need more details in order to give you magical coaching
Thank you!
Take care

rico69 · Unread post by **rico69** » Tue Sep 24, 2013 3:06 pm

She left the house to live with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is bad news. So I will do brake up spells but I don't know what to do to bring her back home and for her to stay home.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Tue Sep 24, 2013 3:08 pm

May I ask how old your daughter is?

rico69 · Unread post by **rico69** » Wed Sep 25, 2013 4:06 am

She is 17

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Sep 25, 2013 1:23 pm

Try Stay at Home and Cast Off Evil. However, it is unrealistic to expect your daughter to "never" leave home, just that she eventually moves out under better circumstances, such as going to college, getting a job and an apartment, etc.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Wed Sep 25, 2013 4:22 pm

Mama Micki is has given some excellent products to consider. Here are the links to each:

Stay at Home
http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

Cast Off Evil
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-cast-off-evil.html

Mama Micki also brings up another important matter to consider, and it was the reason to my inquiry about your daughter's age. It is really something to consider. Work to help her get out of the current situation, however, the next work to do is to help her find a more positive opportunity to open for her.

Best of luck.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Sep 25, 2013 6:25 pm

Rico69, I don't see why you couldn't adapt the three-candle Break Up spell:

Break Up spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

You'll see that the three-candle spell in the photo on that page is also a "come to me" spell, with the man coming back home to his righteous partner.

You can change this back into "come home, babygirl" with these alterations:

Get clothed figural candles, not naked ones: two blue ladies and one black gentleman. Name the ladies for yourself and your daughter and the gentleman for Mr. Bad News.

Lady (Clothed Woman) Figural Candles
http://www.luckymojo.com/ladycandle.html
Gentleman (Clothed Man) Figural Candles
http://www.luckymojo.com/gentlemancandle.html

If you have already decided on a different breakup spell, you can work a "come home" spell with the two lady candles, some Peaceful Home and Influence products and maybe two little lodestone grits named for each of you.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Thu Oct 10, 2013 2:17 pm

This sounds good! Do you recommend any Bible verse ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:37 pm

Good Evening PsychicVeronica77,
Here's an array of Psalms. http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... _of_Psalms
Beautiful prayers for any occasion.
The AIRR members provided the world with this wonderful website. And I am forever grateful to them for this.
Enjoy and take care

StaticSea · Unread post by **StaticSea** » Fri Feb 07, 2014 10:37 pm

My ex husband failed to return our 17 yr old daughter to me in December. I have seen her once (from the courtroom) and spoke to her twice since then. He and his wife applied for custody and was denied and ordered to return her to me. He refused and she's refusing to come home. There is a bench warrant out for his arrest because he failed to do as the court ordered. She's missed a week and a half of school, her step mother calling the school and telling them she's too upset to come to school because of the warrant. I place her father and his current wife in a two sided compact because the slander was getting deep. It's calmed down since then BUT my daughter supposedly moved in with "friends" (She called and spoke 30 seconds informing me she's moved out of her father's house and with friends and she will contact me on her terms.) I am burning an astrological candle (her sign) that has been anointed with rosemary and clarity oil so she will see the truth of the matter and not their lies.

What else can I do?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Feb 08, 2014 7:08 am

StaticSea, my heart goes out to you on this one. Your daughter being 17, is she considered an adult in your state?

Unread post by **natstein** » Sat Feb 08, 2014 9:31 am

Hello staticSea,

This sounds like an awful and complicated situation. I personally would start with talking to your attorney and if you also want to back things up with rootwork I would suggest getting a reading/consultation from an ethical reader to determine how best to approach this situation.

please keep us posted and I hope things turn out for the best !

Peace~

Nathen

P. S. you can also post a prayer to the Crystal Silence League http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

StaticSea · Unread post by **StaticSea** » Sun Feb 09, 2014 1:33 am

The laws in my state are "gray" regarding 17 yr. olds. They can leave home and they can stop going to school. The law only requires children to go to school until 16 yrs. They can be charged as adults if they commit crimes. (Which I don't understand that part; I'm legally responsible for her until she's 18. I have to provide a bed, clothing and food for her until the age of 18).

Yes, the crystal silence league has been praying for us since it all happened. I get the emails when someone prays.
Yes, I have gotten advice from an ethical reader. And I took the advice.
Yes I have spoken to attorney. And the judge ruled in my favor BUT...like I stated earlier it's only succeeded in her moving in with friends, not return home.

Unread post by **natstein** » Sun Feb 09, 2014 8:22 am

Hello StaticSea,

Since you have done all the other things you might try some clarity products on a skull candle on her behalf. You could also order the influence honey jar kit and maybe work it on her as well. Here is the page on the influence products so you can look them over (http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html),
For the other bit I would get a white skull candle. Name it after your daughter, anoint it with the Clarity oil and speak a prayer that she see's the truth of her situation and is able to make the best decision. Burn a section of it every day for seven days and repeat your prayers. Other more experienced rootworkers here may have more advice to offer you too. I hope this all turns out for the best for you and your daughter.

Peace~

Nathen

Tenacious Tatianna · Unread post by **Tenacious Tatianna** » Tue Feb 25, 2014 9:55 am

GOAL: Reconciliation with daughter after 10 years of silence. Peace in family.

Background information

PAS: Parental Alienation Syndrome is when one parent alienates another parent, usually during a divorce.

PE: Parental Estrangement is when an adult child completely cuts off the other parent.

The situation:

I was a good wife & mother. My family was my life. I always worked inside & outside of the home. My X left me for someone who had money $$$. He is now married to a doctor.

My X did not want my daughter until I filed for support. He got the notice & a few days later I came home from work & all of her belongings including furniture was gone. This happened 20 years ago.

I have not talked to my daughter alone since 2004, she was 24. She wrote me a letter & apologized for everything.

My entire family including me were not invited to her wedding. All of our plans first for the wedding then later to get together was interfered with by my X. It was horrible. Up to the wedding there was always contact. Now, complete silence.

I have only met my daughter's husband once. We got along fine. NOW He thinks he is ‘protecting’ her based on the lies that were told to him.

These lies have affected every aspect of my life. Personal, Social & professional.

Because of this situation, the lies & manipulation to not only my daughter but also my X’s family, friends & whomever he came in contact with, I became very depressed & sick. Lost my job & my home.

I am currently on full disability after working over 35 years, I have severe back issues (surgery) & fibromyalgia. I never mention my daughter to my doctors. I lost everything over this, even my self respect. I live alone & I stopped dating 8 years ago because the situation with my daughter always came up.

The last time I saw her was 2008. My X should have been at work. The other parent and/or now also her husband mysteriously appear whenever I make an effort to see her, even if the effort is a spur of the moment action.

My daughter, married, moved to California (3000 miles away) in 2008. She had a baby in January 2014. She refuses all contact. She has cut off my entire family. I don’t even know why, at this point, she is so mad at me.

I even contacted the X’s wife, ‘the doctor’, to please meet with me & help me reconcile with my only child. I mailed her info on PAS & PE. No response.

I would like to reconcile with my daughter, sweeten her husband & everyone else towards me. I want her to be able to feel comfortable having a relationship with both of her parents.

I what her to feel whole & cutting the X & his family out completely would not be in her best interest.

I want to be vindicated. I actually don't want my X to suffer because of what he did to me. Him suffering would only make my daughter closer to him, so I have to wait on Karma for him to get what is due.

My attempts at magical remediation so far:

I have been told by several readers that ‘someone has done this to me.’

Over the years, I have also wasted money I did not have to have ‘professionals’ help me.

I did a honey jar spell years ago, it did not work. I didn’t know you were suppose to light a candle 3X’s a week until it worked.

All my efforts to ‘clear & banish’ have failed.

Not sure which spell to cast.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Feb 25, 2014 10:41 pm

Hello, phillyburbs1956 ,
Oh, my. What a terrible thing to happen to you. You heart and soul must feel shattered.
I would first suggest some professional counseling. You really do have to talk to somebody about this. It may even help your health problems.
And, they may have ideas and/or resources to allow you to initiate a rapport. But, DEFINITELY professional intervention is needed here.
Start a new honey jar (they are slow to act) ad start a sugar jar also. Make sure that you light the candles according to the situation
You might want to perform a clarity spell on her www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
Or even an influence skull candle spell: www.luckymojo.com/nfluence.html
To make her realize that she needs to see you (and remember that you were not a bad person).
I would then follow this up with return to me spells: www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
Last, but most importantly, you may also want to consider some healing products for yourself because of all the emotional anxiety and your health problems (which may have been a result of your perpetual stress over this situation www.luckymojo.comhealing.html
Also consider asking for prayers from the Crystal Silence League (it's free). They are very helpful http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html
We are wishing you the very best.
Please keep us posted

Elihue · Unread post by **Elihue** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:22 am

I need feedback and introspection. Direction/Instruction.

Back Story:

My youngest son (age 19) has suffered great pain from his father leaving and imploding the family. He gave up all his dreams and went to work in Alaska, plunging him into darkness, danger and bad company. One of his last communiques to me said, "I am so unhappy if it weren't for Brittny (his new bride) and Jaxx (his dog) I would kill myself." His bride was very different in beliefs and family culture than he was raised with, and she encouraged him to drop all communications and ties with his family to escape the pain they brought him. Then she left him, wounding him further. He has not spoken to me in 2 years. I have heard grievous stories about him. Although he has pursued a dream of his - law enforcement - he is angry and at times abusive to anyone who loves him. I fear evil rides him, having gained entrance through the pain.

Current: I cannot help my son in the material world, but i can intervene for him spiritually.

I have just finished a 9 day St. Faustina novena, coupled with a 9 day uncrossing candle ritual, asking for my son to have purification, grace, healing and the strength to overcome evil.

As the final candles burned down, the candle holders all split and broke, one after another. I felt this was a sign the spirit work had made a successful connection/conclusion, but I remember a court spell I did a long time ago when the head of a statue in the room split off and the head rolled across the floor.

1) Are these good or bad signs? Or neither good nor bad, only a sign of spiritual activity?

2) What action should I take now - other than cleansing the altar (naturally) and thanking my sweet deities?

3) If there is something I should be aware of, I would like to know, and am deferring to persons of greater experience than I on this forum.

I look forward to your answers and perceptions on this matter.

Elihue

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 9:15 am

Candle holders breaking or splitting are generally not a good sign for positive work. Strong cleansing work may be required before you can have any success with healing or blessing work.

With such an unhappy family history, I think a professional reading would give you better guidance than we can on this forum.

But I will say that St. Dymphna is a patron of mental disorders and mental healing. In Geel, Belgium, there is an ancient tradition of housing the mentally ill in foster families -- those under treatment are live with the people in their homes and interact with the larger community; they are not shut away. The tradition, and the necessary cultural changes, are attributed to St. Dymphna, who is said to have moved to Geel in the 7th century.

I mention this because I have a soft spot for St. Dymphna, and because your son needs to find healing where he is now.

May all your paths lead to blessings,

Miss Michaele

Elihue · Unread post by **Elihue** » Mon Apr 28, 2014 7:04 pm

Thank you for that response. I do not expect one novena to heal this situation, and I have done strong protective work for myself before entering into this work. I also do a Banishing Ritual before every divine imploration.

Who do you feel I should get a professional consultation from?

I have dedicated this entire year to slow, sincere spiritual intervention for my son, and the candle splitting may simply indicate more work is needed. He is very psychic, may feel me reaching to him and thrust back. The suggestion of St. Dymphia is very spot on, and I appreciate it. Are there special things I need to work with St. Dymphia? Although I know of her, I have never invoked her help.

Please continue to correspond with me.
Elihue