Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Broken · Unread post by **Broken** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 7:14 am

Thanks, Bri

So then, should I look at an alternative solution than reconciliation? (what WOULD be an alternative?). He didn't cheat... he just didn't really want a committed relationship, didn't have much time and the time he did have he wanted to do too many things with it. I was not a priority. I am hoping that if we get back together, I can do some things to change that. He wanted to see me when he wanted (we did see each other a couple of times a week), etc. I think that the age difference was the major thing for him.. not for him personally, but for him future-wise (I am established whereas he is technically starting out). I am sorry for all the questions... I just want to do the "right" thing.. I know things now I did not know before.... so I want a second chance. First I know I need him and that intern girl to break up (although he told me that they are not dating). Or can I do it all simultaneously? (breakup spell, honey jar, etc).
Thanks again for all your help... I am feeling hopeful for the first time in almost 3 months!!!

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:49 am

Well, since there is an age difference does he want children or do you? I have seen many couples go back and forth over this issue. Maybe he is looking further down the road than you are.

You have already stated his career comes first, so that is an underlying issue. Can you stand being low on the totem pole of his life? Conjure will not change his basic nature, if he is ambitious, that is who he is. Are you willing to take a back seat to his career? There are many people who put their careers above their personal relationships and that is part of who they are. Are you willing to accept that? You say "yes" now, but will you be able to say that when he keeps canceling dates with you for his work? I have seen that happen. You state that you are "established" and he is just starting, so that is already an issue in priorities.

Why do you not believe him when he says he is broken-up with the intern? If he has broken-up with her, that is one less spell for you to do. It sounds like you will have to do a Reconcilliation Spell from what you have posted, since there are other factors involved. Here is the link to the spell kits: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

Good luck!

Mary

Broken · Unread post by **Broken** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 9:14 am

I don't believe him because someone I know is friends with her and they are indeed still dating. She is worrying about going back to college in the Fall (in another state) and what the distance will do to their relationship. He told her not to "worry about us", that he be there for her. I think he just told me that to keep the door open... or just to avoid conflict. I am sure he is looking further down the road than I am, but I am still brokenhearted and want a second chance. I can't help it

Please don't judge my lack of... judgement at this time.. lol. I know I am thinking with my heart; I am doing this as a last resort. Are the honey jar, come to me and love me spell kits not considered reconciliation spells? Cause that is what I just ordered, based on your previous recommendation. : )

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:42 am

Hi Broken,

The honey jar and spell kits that you mention are appropriate for this kind of work, but since you have given us a little bit more history to work with I am going to suggest that you also take a series of cleansing baths and that you light a King Solomon vigil light for clarity and wisdom in dealing with this situation. You can find the information on those things here:
King Solomon Vigil Light:
http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-king-so ... isdom.html
Ritual Baths:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html
9 Herb Bath
http://herb-magic.com/9herb-bath-one.html

You have used language that leads me to believe that you are conflicted about what you want and worried that it is not going to work out for the underlying reasons you have mentioned. Do some cleansing on yourself, light a candle for yourself, pray and ask for guidance. Have you had a reading? If not, go get one from a reputable reader to better assess your situation. Once you have done those things you will feel more clear and more confident in whatever decision you come to--take care of yourself and then address the work that needs to be done for the two of you.

good luck,
Bri

Broken · Unread post by **Broken** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:01 pm

Bri, you are so correct that I am conflicted. I WANT him back, although it may not be the best thing for me in long run. I am hoping that if he DOES come back, if I do things different, put less pressure on him, perhaps the relationship will have a better chance at succeeding. Do the spells won't work if he truly doesn't want to have a relationship with me, even if he has feelings, because of the free will "law"? I would have thought he would have been back by now on his own. Also, can you recommend a reputable reader?

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:19 pm

Cat does readings, as do a few others. This is the link: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatconsultations.html

As has been stated in previous posts, no magic will change a person's personality. As I stated before, a honey jar would be good to work on him. You can petition you will be better with him.

As far as the "free will law," some relationships no matter how much work are put into them will never come to fruition due to circumstances. Magic is to nudge things in the right direction and that is what you are attempting to do.

Hope that helps,

Mary

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:51 pm

Dear Broken,

I like to note that using the screen name "Broken" does not augur well for your success.

Like other screen names i have seen over the years -- Hurting, LostLove, HeartSick, DisappointedinLove, and so forth -- this negative self-naming ties and binds you and your spiritual energy to a self-wounding prayer in which you are consciously drawing the conditions of victimhood and failure to yourself and your magical workings.

I personally will not perform readings, set lights, or undertake spiritual jobs for people who self-identify as miserably uncurable or depressively negative in their screen names or email handles.

Think how different you would feel -- and how differently i would perceive you -- if you had named yourself Hopeful or Strong4Love or HeartofGold.

These books will help you -- they are filled with spells, tips, and techniques for just this kind of work!

Broken · Unread post by **Broken** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:53 pm

Cat,

Understood... I used a screen name to describe how my heart feels. Not knowing the connections between these things, I just went with the feeling. My email handle is not negative, though.

Having said that, would you suggest I do nothing, in light of my screen name?

PS - yes, I guess I would feel differently about the future if I had named myself "hopeful"!

Unread post by **nagasiva** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:09 pm

Just a quick forum support heads up, you can change your displayed (and log in) name under your forum profile. Just click on the User Control Panel link up above just below the add banner, click on the Profile tab, then click on the Edit Account Settings link on the left of the panel. The first option there is your Username, and you will need to enter your password at the bottem to confirm that you really do want to change your username (and you will need to choose one that has not already been chosen by someone else).

Broken · Unread post by **Broken** » Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:16 pm

Thanks, Art - will do asap!

Hopeful1 · Unread post by **Hopeful1** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:51 pm

Moonchild, how long ago did the breakup happen?

moonchild2 · Unread post by **moonchild2** » Tue Mar 24, 2009 9:57 pm

A few weeks ago, but I wanted to let everyone know that I followed through with a few of their suggestions when I met up with him and now we are sorting things out :]

Hopeful1 · Unread post by **Hopeful1** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:12 am

Good for you! I asked because I read that the longer the time btwn breakups, the harder to get reconciliation/love spellls to work.
My breakup was 3 months ago... so I am HOPEFUL that although he only likes me, not love me, whatever work I do at this "late" stage will still work.
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Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 10:05 am

moonchild wrote:A few weeks ago, but I wanted to let everyone know that I followed through with a few of their suggestions when I met up with him and now we are sorting things out :]

I hope it all works out for you!

Mary

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Mar 25, 2009 10:11 am

hopeful1 wrote:Good for you! I asked because I read that the longer the time btwn breakups, the harder to get reconciliation/love spellls to work.
My breakup was 3 months ago... so I am HOPEFUL that although he only likes me, not love me, whatever work I do at this "late" stage will still work.

As has been previously stated, reconciliation work is just harder by its very nature. Most workers caution against doing reconciliation after a long period due to so many outside factors. Usually one of the parties finds someone else (break-up work) or the feelings just cool down tremendously.

Here is a good link about this type of work: http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Mary

crazy_chihuahua_lady · Unread post by **crazy_chihuahua_lady** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:34 pm

I'm kinda in the same boat on the reconciliation work. My ex dumped me last Monday on what he likes to call "good terms". He claims he doesnt want to be back with me because I broke his trust on something that wasnt too serious. To him its the fact I lied, not the severity of it...which it honestly was mild but his defense "I told you to never lie to me. If you said you loved me hair and then lied about it...that would be the same thing."

I hired a rootworker to mend things through and I believe the work started yesterday. I would like to do my own work and have been practicing wicca for about 10 years and studied Hoodoo for about 3; so I know I have the confidence in myself but really not sure on reconciliation work (I'm more used to protection, friendship, and prosperity work...not too much confident in the love section). I heard something though that if a woman has her period, then the man moved on. Well I just got my period yesterday....hoping that doesnt affect it since its been a week and a day since we split.

My ex and I still share an apartment and he still constantly texts and calls me when I'm at work/school. We usually hug for a long time (corny I know

) and he says we can stay friends but never ever nothing more. This is to my advantage for bringing him back in spells right? I know he still loves me but feels betrayed by the lie. I cant seem how to get through to him to forgive me for the one mistake.

long story short...WHAT TYPE OF SPELL WOULD WORK BEST FOR ME?! Do you think a honey jar or return to me? Am I too late already since its been a week? Any suggestions?

crazy_chihuahua_lady · Unread post by **crazy_chihuahua_lady** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:59 pm

I asked a few questions through the spell kit section because I wasnt sure which one to purchase. But I saw that Bri said something about putting some of your lady hairs in a mans hat band. What is that supposed to do? Have them think of you more or is it more of a controlling/domination thing like menstrual blood? Is the more the better lol?

Are there any more little tips or things one can do like the ones mentioned above? I still live with my ex and will stay there till the middle of may (well hopefully longer because I want to be back with him as a lover) so its not like a meet up..its like one everyday, so I'd be willing to do any thing that will help affect him thinking of me. Thanks.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 5:27 am

crazy_chihuahua_lady wrote:I asked a few questions through the spell kit section because I wasnt sure which one to purchase. But I saw that Bri said something about putting some of your lady hairs in a mans hat band. What is that supposed to do? Have them think of you more or is it more of a controlling/domination thing like menstrual blood? Is the more the better lol?

Are there any more little tips or things one can do like the ones mentioned above? I still live with my ex and will stay there till the middle of may (well hopefully longer because I want to be back with him as a lover) so its not like a meet up..its like one everyday, so I'd be willing to do any thing that will help affect him thinking of me. Thanks.

Hi there,
When your hairs are in his hat, you are on his mind!

There are many, many things that you can do to get together physically with a person, but since the person in question is your ex, this falls into the category of reconciliation work. I suggest you go through this thread and others like it and see what folks have already suggested. And to get you started, you should check out these pages:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html#red

Good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 7:01 am

Honey jars are never a bad idea, and Reconciliation work is what you want. That the two of you have remained in the same apartment is indeed to your advantage. Just keep working on him and see how it goes. Apologizing is a given.

Good luck!

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 7:13 am

crazy_chihuahua_lady wrote:long story short...WHAT TYPE OF SPELL WOULD WORK BEST FOR ME?! Do you think a honey jar or return to me? Am I too late already since its been a week? Any suggestions?

It sounds like you need a honey jar since it is more of a misunderstanding than anything else. If you have a rootworker, he or she should be advising you though.

Mary

crazy_chihuahua_lady · Unread post by **crazy_chihuahua_lady** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 10:32 am

Thanks Bri! I actually placed them in one hat (he's got a collection of like 10 sitting together) and thats the one he just happened to start wearing.

Thanks for the links.

crazy_chihuahua_lady · Unread post by **crazy_chihuahua_lady** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 10:34 am

Thank you both for your insite. It means a lot. I did purchase quite a bit of reconciliation candles and such. I suppose I should start the honey jar and if needed start reconciliation work after my supplies have been recieved. BTW, I'm very excited that there is the online purchase option. Made ordering so much more easier than in the past!

dws_2 · Unread post by **dws_2** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:58 pm

I am new at this and I have heard of giving menstrual period to your man but what does it exactly do on men? and how mauch is appropriate?

DWS

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 8:20 pm

dws wrote:I am new at this and I have heard of giving menstrual period to your man but what does it exactly do on men? and how mauch is appropriate?

DWS

This question will also be answered by the female domination page, here it is again:
http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

take care,
Bri

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sat Apr 04, 2009 6:54 am

HI,
I need help with my husband I've been wanting to give up so many time but he is my heart and we are married. I have purchased many products form LM and will continue to do so as long as I have the need. My husband and I have been separated for 6 yrs now. I moved to try and save our marriage but he would not come. He is a very strong minded, controlling man....but I do see him trying do better.

We still can't come to an agreement for him to come be with me. He says he wants too but he is not guaranteed that he is going to find a job here. Now he works in the restaurant business so I see no problem with him finding a job. Also he wants to have is own business picking up pallets(skids) for money. He has purchased a truck to do so, which he can do anywhere.

I moved closer to him but refuse to move to the state that we lived in which is where I was born and raised. I can say that when we did good together we were really good...when it was bad it was really bad. I don't know if I just need something to get him here and keep him here and faithful or to dominate and control him.

Every time we talk on the phone if were not arguing he is telling me he loves me an misses me and wants to have sex with me. He asks me if I miss him, but I don't trust him and he doesn't trust me. I've been with people and so has he. Now I guess I also need you to tell me something as far as him getting a job as well since he says that is one of the issues that is keeping him from coming to me.

Please help
Mzcee

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Apr 04, 2009 12:21 pm

Well, this sounds like a great area for female domination. Also, this is one case where I would recommend the Intranquility spell kit. Sounds like your husband is on the stubborn side and you need him to get to your side. Here is the link to spell kits http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html and here is the info on female domination: http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

Good luck!

Mary

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sat Apr 04, 2009 3:08 pm

Hi Mary,
I think I will go with the female domination products. Like the follow me boy products and compelling. I'm pretty sure I don't want to cause him and pain or anything like that for him to come here. Also should I do a steady work candle for some of the places that he worked at in his state that he can get a job at the same place or similar here where I live? Now the candles should I do them on fri? Not sure how much money I'm going to have so should I purchase the compelling 1st or the follow me boy? Now the follow me boy I'm going to bathe in the crystals, light the candle, light the incense, I want o get a figural penis candle or should it be a married couple in red or pink, to dress with the follow me boy oil. Now the sachet powder how should I use that being that he isn't here for me to dress myself unless i go visit which he wants me to do but I'm trying to get him here to visit.
or should I dress the petition or the candles with the sachet powder. I really don't mean to be asking so many question but I know I don't have the concentration to do a full blown spell with so much on my mind...that is why I like the vigil candles love them.

Thanks,
Mzcee

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sat Apr 04, 2009 3:20 pm

Hi mzcee,

You should also look into Stay with Me spells and products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

take care,
Bri

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 5:18 am

Hi Bri,
I had a stay with me vigil candle burned on LM alter. The candle reading was very good. I purchased some stay with me sachet powder but I still haven't got a chance to use it for him or on him. I can't get him to come too the state that I reside in. I guess I can write him a letter and mail it to him but I know that isn't enough. Is this something that I am going to have to do ongoing? How ofter will I have to burn a candle or lay something down?

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 5:48 am

mzcee wrote:Hi Bri,
I had a stay with me vigil candle burned on LM alter. The candle reading was very good. I purchased some stay with me sachet powder but I still haven't got a chance to use it for him or on him. I can't get him to come too the state that I reside in. I guess I can write him a letter and mail it to him but I know that isn't enough. Is this something that I am going to have to do ongoing? How ofter will I have to burn a candle or lay something down?

If you have had good signs from Stay With Me spell work but your husband is not yet in your state then I would say that you do need to continue doing the work and you need to be working all of the angles that you can. Missionary Independent Spiritual Church often will light vigil lights in "runs" so that as soon as one light burns out another light gets lit. This is a great, affordable, way to keep doing ongoing work. I would be mailing him stuff dressed in Return To Me and Stay with Me sachet powders all the time.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html

I would start a honey jar loaded with the appropriate roots, herbs, curios, and personal concerns from each of you and I would work that jar until he returned. You can add some heat to the work with command/compel products, but I don't like working the dominating edge too much in a love relationship because assuming that you get your way and he returns, the two of you may be on such unequal footing that it causes more strife than its worth. For more on the roots, herbs, and minerals that are appropriate for this kind of work, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooherbmagic.html

good luck,
Bri

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 8:59 am

Hi Bri,
I don't like the idea of the female domination either but being that he is so stubborn and head strong and controlling I figured I had to step my game up since nothing is working to get him here. Also maybe he might need a taste of his own medicine. Just to get him here and stay I'm a very soft spoken, mild manner easy going person...so I wouldn't be degrading him disrespecting him or anything if I did a little domination right. Yea he says he love me and misses me and he is coming here but it means nothing if he is not here. Now I'm liking the honey jar spell but I have nothing of his but his picture for the honey jar. Is that going to be good enough??

Mzcee

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 9:35 am

mzcee wrote:Hi Bri,
I don't like the idea of the female domination either but being that he is so stubborn and head strong and controlling I figured I had to step my game up since nothing is working to get him here. Also maybe he might need a taste of his own medicine. Just to get him here and stay I'm a very soft spoken, mild manner easy going person...so I wouldn't be degrading him disrespecting him or anything if I did a little domination right. Yea he says he love me and misses me and he is coming here but it means nothing if he is not here. Now I'm liking the honey jar spell but I have nothing of his but his picture for the honey jar. Is that going to be good enough??

Mzcee

Honey jars are great, but they are not going to be of much use in this situation. That is why I suggested the domination spells. The "sweet" way does not seem to be working for you. I would do the controlling and the stay with me at the same time. You have the upper hand, because you are married to him.

It is really up to you if you want this guy badly enough, because domination takes work and if he is like this, he may take continuing work. It could be a battle of your will over his. Now I know of a few women and men who have relationships like this and it seems to work for them, but they are dominating people by nature. It is natural for them to dominate their mates.

It sounds like you have a power struggle with your husband and he has the more dominant nature, so you must decide if you want to bow to his will, or make him bow to yours.

Good luck!

Mary

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 10:00 am

Hi Mary,
So controlling and stay with me is what you feel will work for me. Ok I have so much deciding to do. My husband is very dominating....I'm working on trying to be dominating with him as well. I think that he need to bow to me....since I had the stay with me vigil candle burned I need to do the controlling vigil candle.

Thanks,
Mzcee

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:34 pm

mzcee wrote:Hi Mary,
So controlling and stay with me is what you feel will work for me. Ok I have so much deciding to do. My husband is very dominating....I'm working on trying to be dominating with him as well. I think that he need to bow to me....since I had the stay with me vigil candle burned I need to do the controlling vigil candle.

Thanks,
Mzcee

Stay with me is great, but he is not physically with you. You need to work on getting him to your side, which takes controlling and compelling work.

I would do an Essence of Bendover vigil candle on him. That can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html

Good luck!

Mary

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 5:04 pm

mzcee wrote:Hi Bri,
I don't like the idea of the female domination either but being that he is so stubborn and head strong and controlling I figured I had to step my game up since nothing is working to get him here. Also maybe he might need a taste of his own medicine. Just to get him here and stay I'm a very soft spoken, mild manner easy going person...so I wouldn't be degrading him disrespecting him or anything if I did a little domination right. Yea he says he love me and misses me and he is coming here but it means nothing if he is not here. Now I'm liking the honey jar spell but I have nothing of his but his picture for the honey jar. Is that going to be good enough??

Mzcee

Hi Mczee,

Since you are apparently getting two different sets of advice from two different workers, let me clarify my standpoint and maybe that will help you decide how you want to work this. I think that female domination tricks are very useful and I think that they are appropriate to your case, especially since you have indicated that your husband is the more controlling/powerful person in the relationship. I would not recommend that you only work at this situation from a domination perspective. I would suggest that you also do the sweetening Return to Me and Stay with Me work as well at the same time that you are working the dominating aspect of the spell. I suggest this for three reasons:

1.) You are self-described as a sweet tempered, mild person who does not like the idea of domination work. Now what this tells me is that you may be a really great domination worker or it may not be where you naturally thrive, but no matter what, it is not going to feel right to you if you are only working that angle of the situation, especially at the beginning.
2.) Getting that dominant edge is great and may get you what you want, but getting him to stay put and be sweet is something all together different. Return to Me and Stay with Me work and a honey jar cannot possibly hurt the situation as you have described it. And again, they may help you get more comfortable with dominating work.
3.) Your Stay with Me vigil burned clear, indicating that this approach is not a bad one for you to take.

Most importantly though, you as the person who will be doing this work must decide what approach(es) are appropriate to your situation. You know yourself and you know your man, you've gotten a lot of information and advice. Sleep on it, pray on it, decide on your course of action and perform the work with all of your might!

good luck,
Bri

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Mon Apr 06, 2009 5:36 am

Ok Bri I will and thanks much

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Mon Apr 06, 2009 7:55 am

Hi Mary,
So what do you suggest that I make my intent to be for the candle? I ask for him to come to where I am and be generous and kind ay all times and good to me and be happy that he is here with me and were together in the same place.

Mzcee

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Apr 06, 2009 4:59 pm

mzcee wrote:Hi Mary,
So what do you suggest that I make my intent to be for the candle? I ask for him to come to where I am and be generous and kind ay all times and good to me and be happy that he is here with me and were together in the same place.

Mzcee

I would petition to have him come live with you and "bend to your will." You already know you will be "sweet" to him, because that is your nature. Now this is my view from what you are asking, you must be bold and state what you want. Such as "I want (your husband) to be physically by my side in this amount of time." I would give him a time frame of when you want him to come live with you.

I just keep reading two messages from you. One message is "Í'm a sweet person, but I am afraid of dominating" and the other message is "I want my husband to live with me." Mixed signals send out confused work and you must be strong in your decision on how you will proceed.

You can be sweet and firm at the same time.

Mary

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Mon Apr 06, 2009 5:54 pm

Hi Mary.
LOL yes your right I can be nice and firm and I should be. Yes I'm a little confused....because i am a nice person and I do want him to come live with me. He is my husband and he say....he loves me so than he should be with me.....now I must say that I am getting angry at him because most times I just feel he is playing games, sometimes I don't, maybe someone is playing with his head. You know every time I go to my state where he lives as soon as we cross the state line it feels like something jumps on me. My daughter felt the same way. I don't have alot of money right now and I am struggling I think I need a reading to see if that is such with him. But I can't afford it, so I'm pretty much going on what I know. I purchased the Essence of bend over vigil candle today, they said it will get lit tomorrow of Fri when the candle lady comes in.

Mzcee

lilith1892 · Unread post by **lilith1892** » Wed Apr 08, 2009 10:53 am

I am descended from a Santaria line of witches but feel very closely connected to Hoodoo and Celtic workings. I wanted to get some suggestions on creating a spell because it involves a lot of aspects and I'd rather do an "all inclusive" spell than several individual spells. First, I was thinking of the most powerful "honey" spell to sweeten ones disposition towards you? I am in need of forgiveness from a former lover. In addition to forgiveness, I am wanting a powerful return lover spell and I would like to use a poppet for the first time (this includes breaking up any current romantic attachments he has towards anyone). I do not have access to his clothes, hair, or any personal items. All I have at my disposal is the engagement ring he gave me and his picture. I know this might sound strange, but we took a camping trip together before things turned sour between us. I felt a really bad negative energy in those woods and feel that something attached to me. I also want to include something to cleanse myself of all negativity and or dark attachments. And if I can do all of these things while charging some type of necklace to wear that would be ideal. I am planning on running into him in early May. Any suggestions???

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Wed Apr 08, 2009 3:54 pm

Hi Lilith,

So first off I think I should tell you that doing an "all inclusive" spell combining elements of Conjure, Santeria, and Celtic magic does not really make sense to me. Each of those systems is a coherent, stand-alone tradition of magic. Since this forum is dedicated to Conjure I cannot comment on how one would incorporate elements from the other systems that you mention, and I would not try to.

Fortunately though, every condition that you mention does have a variety of Conjure products that go with it.

For honey jar spells see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

For reconciliation and return to me love work see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/incense-return-to-me.html

Since you feel like you encountered some negative energy together when camping, I would do a thorough uncrossing on yourself, on him, and on your homespace:
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

You can use the 13 herb bath:
http://herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html

If you can't bathe him physically and you can't sneak some of the products into his personal hygiene products then you can bathe the doll baby.

I would also lay down protective work:
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Again, this is a strictly traditional Conjure approach to your situation.

I hope it helps.

Bri

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Apr 08, 2009 3:59 pm

lilith1892,

I guess you know this is not a Santeria or Celtic site.

Bri has given you all the important links.

Mary

Unread post by **HeatherNijoli** » Sun Apr 12, 2009 6:36 pm

UPDATE:

I dressed a blue glass encased vigil candle with RETURN TO ME and RECONCILIATION oils as well as placed some Balm of Giliead buds crushed into the candle. He began burning it at his home Wednesday but it went out. He relit it and it is burning now with a very small flame. Although he has been coming around over the 6 weeks since our breakup, I don't feel like he is "returning to me" as a life partner. Although I would love for him to do so, I can't wait forever. I will let this candle burn at his home and then soon I need to consider cut and clean work.

tormented_heart · Unread post by **tormented_heart** » Mon Apr 13, 2009 1:47 am

Hi everyone! I am really in need of help on how will i work on to return my ex-boyfriend back to me. We broke up 3 months now and from the first week of our break up, I spent so much of asking root workers to help me for him to come back. We've been together for almost two years and broke up last January. The reason of the break up was he was falling out of love and there was no cheating. He keeps on saying that he still loves me but its just that it's already fading. A month after the break up, I found out that he was dating another girl (which I thought she was the real reason of our break up, its just that I was to blind to see.) and a week after they were already in a relationship. But I heard from him that he wasn't so serious about this girl and does not love her. After the break up, we still do see each other every week because we have the same friends plus I live with my friend's apartment. So every now and then we still see each other and hang out with friends every weekend at my apartment. There are times he would do sweet things that would really freak me out and think about it all night. But I make sure that he wouldn't think that I'm still stuck with him. His parents still contacts me but my family hated him so much after our break up. Okay.. My situation is very complicated and I did a lot of love spells for him to return to me. I definitely want him to come back to my life because I really love him so much. Please, I need your advice on what to do. Thanks for spending your time!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Apr 13, 2009 8:58 am

First of all, just because someone does sweet things for you doesnt mean that they want you back. You could be seeing it as a sweet thing because you are looking for a reason to bring him back. Besides you two are "friends" so he could just be nice, or if the relationship with this other girl doesnt work out, then he would come back to you. Also, do you just want him back because he is with someone else and because he broke up with you? I mean that is for you to decide, but when asking for advice (especially on this forum) I think you are going to hear some things you would not like to hear.

I would probably do a break up spell first to make sure that he is broken up with the other girl before I even proceed with doing any reconciliation work with you and him. I say this because you do not want him coming back to you if he is not broken up with her first. If you do not care about, then go ahead and do some reconciliation work. You mentioned you have done "many" love spells already on your own. Well, I have been in your situation in wanting someone back. And I can say that if you are not in the right frame of mind when doing a spell or if you are obsessing in how it is going to work then it probably wont work. Its like watching a pot of water boil. Right frame of mind does have an effect because if you are a sobbing mess, or crying all the time about wanting your lover back then its going to work against the spell. Obsessing over the target is even worse because if you are stalking them, calling them, and all of the above while you are working a love spell...you are working against yourself. Besides who wants someone back that is calling them and hanging up or looking desperate. Gather yourself together, and really think about the ways in which you have worked against yourself in the past.

Like I said, I would do a break up spell, then work with St Martha, or the Intranquil spirit to help get him back. In this situation, I would lean more towards saint martha to dominate him, and bring him back. You could also dress two pink figure candles with reconciliation herbs, oils, and sachet powders and move them closer over 7 days. Or you could get a reconciliation candle made, and say the prayer. Make sure you are working with the correct moon cycle (waxing in this case) and day of week (monday or friday). I would probably even do a skull candle or a poppet doll and take to it at night.

You mentioned your situation is complicated. Well, I would say do not expect ONE spell to work. Some situations cause for more than one spell, and hitting the individual at all different levels (mental,physical emotional), and takes some form of DISCIPLINE from you. Also you might want to get some divination done from someone you trust, because you need to address the reason why he left in the first place, and address any reasons you played a part in him breaking up with you. This is important because this might be holding up the reason why he wont come back, or the spells that you are doing are just not addressing the problem.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Apr 13, 2009 11:43 am

tormented_heart,

Please read the threads, because this question has already been dealt with many times over. Just do a search for "reconciliation" and you will come across advice for this situation.

Just by what you have written, it sounds like the work you have done is not working. What do the rootworkers you have worked with say? I would do a cut and clear with a black walnut bath and move on. These can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

You can find love and money again, but not time.

Mary

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Apr 27, 2009 1:41 am

Did you use a lot of herbs and oil? Sometimes if the wick is overwhelmed it will burn low. Perhaps, you need to do another spell such as two pink candles dressed with these herbs and oils and move them towards each other. With reconcilation work, sometimes it takes more rituals and effort than one candle. Plus if he is burning the candle, you dont know what conditions he is burning the candle under.

Unread post by **HeatherNijoli** » Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:11 am

I ordered (and have recieved) two RETURN TO ME candles from LMCC. I removed the label from one and gave it to him to burn at his home, while he believes it is for protection. The other is burning at my home.

I hope these help. I also just did a nine day Reconciliation kit, although there is not much to reconcile. We didn't fight or disagree about anything - he just LEFT.

I also have an appt with Dr Kioni tomorrow to see where I need to be focused right now. I have faith that the right thing will happen.

jiaxin0203 · Unread post by **jiaxin0203** » Sat May 02, 2009 2:50 am

Hi all,

I'm jx from singapore.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in end of Jan this year due to studies. He said it would be the best for both of us not to be in a relationship now as we have to prepare for a major national exam in nov which determines whether we will get into the university. I don't think that he is not using this as an excuse because he treated me with real love even though I was demanding and possessive when we were together. Well, at first we were still talking like good friends but thing got worse after mid Feb, he started to be cold to me and do not want me to accompany him when I looked for him in school. I couldn't stand it anymore so I stopped looking for him and I thought he would come and look for me, however he did not. We have not been talking for the past 2 months, even though we see each other in school everyday. Well, I took the initiative to talk to him few days ago but he was still quite cold to me and we didn't talk much. From what I know about him, and my instinct also tell me that maybe he still likes me but there are something stopping him from continuing this relationship, and somehow I know that he still kept the cards that I gave him in his wallet, so I am not sure if there is still hope for us. I've tried a few spellcasters online to ask them to cast a love spell for me to bring him back since March and April, however, I don't see any sign of improvement in our situation. Not any obvious changes but maybe some small changes, but those can't really prove anything, since we are still not really talking to each other.
I've been living in misery since this problem happened, loss of weight, couldn't sleep well and have been crying almost everyday. The worst is it affected my studies very badly. I do not want to get cheated by spellcasters that are unreal anymore, so I'm here to seek help.

Is there anyone who know of any real spell casters who can cast efficient love spell that can solve my problem? Or is there other spells that I can do?

I looked through the list of LMCC, but I can't seem to find any spell that can solve my problem and I think it's difficult for me to cast my own spell.

Please help!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat May 02, 2009 4:43 am

Here are some reputable rootworkers from lucky mojo
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatconsultations.html

Lucky mojo can set a candle for you if you call the number.

I recommend you get some divination is done because you have no idea where he stands right now, and read through the forum. This topic has been touched on A LOT.I would recommend doing a honey jar for this. This has also been talked about on the forum.

Also, you mentioned that you were demanding and possessive. I think you might want to work on that to help get rid of those bad characteristics. There is no point in bringing him back if you are going to continue the same behaviors as before.

jiaxin0203 · Unread post by **jiaxin0203** » Sat May 02, 2009 6:32 am

Thanks for the reply.
What do you mean by call a number? Hmmm, I do not live in US, so I don't know if I can actually make a call to LMCC. How does the lighting of the candles help in solving my problems?

I'm new to the forum, so I'm not sure where to find all the topics on this.
I hope you can give me some of the links if you don't mind.
I thought of purchasing the spell kits but I'm not very sure which one will be able to solve my probelm and I have difficulties performing it as some of them are pretty complicated.

How should I go about doing the honey jar?
Hmm, I have read some threads that saying honey jar require his hair. There is no way that I can get his hair now, since we don't really talk to each other. It would be weird for me to ask him for his hair.
The most I can get is the straw that he used after drinking(after he threw it away I think.) I'm not sure if that is good enough. I have his photograph though.

Sorry that I'm really new to this. Hope that you guys can give me some guidance.
Yes, I've been reflecting on what I had done wrong last time and I changed. I regret for what I've done and I will never treat him like this if he comes back to me.

Thanks alot again(:

mabel · Unread post by **mabel** » Sat May 02, 2009 7:05 am

You can always give LM a call even if you dont live in the US. The number is on their site - u just need to make some effort to find it - and get a calling card to call them.

Do the honeyjar first - once you've mastered that, then proceed with the other more complex ones with the kit.

Do you have any letters/cards given by him with his signature on it? Use that if you have and cut out the top of the straw where his lips has touched and put that into the honeyjar.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat May 02, 2009 7:27 am

Hello

jiaxin0203 wrote:How does the lighting of the candles help in solving my problems?

Candle services are a big part of hoodoo. Lucky Mojo will fix and pray over a candle dressed with herbs and oils appropriate to your situation. You can either buy it and burn it yourself or they will burn it on their alters and send you a report on how the candle burned and what to expect from it. A list of the different candles Lucky Mojo can burn for you may be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

jiaxin0203 wrote:I'm new to the forum, so I'm not sure where to find all the topics on this.

Their is a search bar at the top of the page.

jiaxin0203 wrote:I thought of purchasing the spell kits but I'm not very sure which one will be able to solve my probelm and I have difficulties performing it as some of them are pretty complicated

All the spell kits come with complete easy to understand instructions so preforming them won't be a big deal if you commit yourself to the job. As for which one to use Reconciliation is used to help couples comeback together.

jiaxin0203 wrote:How should I go about doing the honey jar?
Hmm, I have read some threads that saying honey jar require his hair. There is no way that I can get his hair now, since we don't really talk to each other. It would be weird for me to ask him for his hair.
The most I can get is the straw that he used after drinking(after he threw it away I think.) I'm not sure if that is good enough. I have his photograph though.

You can perches a honey jar kit complete with honey, candle, herbs, and anointing oil, all you need to do is add the personal concerns of who ever your working on. The kits can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar. If its utterly impossible for you to get something of his, a hair, a finger nail, even a bit of his hand writing you can still do a honey jar but something personal of his really helps. His photo could work, write his full name on the back of it nine times before you put it in the honey jar or burn candles on it. Good Luck.

jiaxin0203 · Unread post by **jiaxin0203** » Sat May 02, 2009 9:01 am

Thanks mabel & Haildiscordia!
I was hesitated in doing the honey jar because it's just impossible for me to get his hair. If photo could work I'll just try with his photo.

I only have one and only card that is given by him and honestly I do not bear to use it. I can try to find other way to get paper work with his handwriting on it, since we are studying in the same school, even though it's hard enough. It's pretty difficult for me to get the RIGHT straw that he used too. Imagine I pick up the cup n straw from the dustbin after he threw it away, but what if I picked the wrong one?
So if photograph is good enough, probably I will go ahead with it.

Let say in the end I use his photograph, do I still have to put my own hair or I have to put my own photograph? Same goes for straw or handwriting.

Is the power of honey jar stronger than bottle spell? I mean will I get to see result relatively faster?
I am thinking of ordering the candle service while I do the honey jar myself...hope that it can help.
And for those who have made honey jar before and gotten result, roughly how long does it take to see sign of result?

I'm living in Singapore, may I know roughly how long does it take to receive the shippment of the items? And how much is the shippment fees?

mabel · Unread post by **mabel** » Sat May 02, 2009 4:46 pm

Yes, you will need his stuff as well as yours. I would suggest doing the honeyjar as it has worked excellently for me.

I understand from your writing that you seem to be still in school? I would advise you to be more prudent in what you'll be spending though. Shipment is all depending on where you are in the queue as LM has a very long list of customers waiting. Shouldnt take more than a month and shipping cost should be around $50 depending on the shipping method you choose and the weight of your parcel.

lovebird · Unread post by **lovebird** » Sat May 09, 2009 5:58 am

Hi,
Well I had the essences of bend of over vigil candle burned and it didn't work. Well atleast not yet..the reading said it might take awhile. Anyways my husband contacted me and asked me to divorce him lol this was after the candle was lit. I'm was ok with him asking me that being that I filed before and than he so called wanted to get back together.
So I did file again so waiting on the card from the certified mail so I can send to the court house and get my divorce granted. Now I had a attraction candle lit before and besides me praying and asking in spacifics what I wanted in a man which was a whole list of quilities that I wanted in the next man that would come to me.I got prayed over it was crazy because while they were praying over me it was like my blood was getting hot I could feel the heat from my feet and in my arms and legs. So they told me that all my blessing were going to come to me now and I was finally able to sleep at night because I couldn't because and ex had supposely had his grandmother put roots on me because I broke up with im about 2 yrs ago.
Well to make a long story short that man I asked for well we meant lol he is all that I asked and it's crazy and he loves me and I love him and it just feel natural and right and not forces by any means...I feel at peace now. When he 1st put his arms around me I felt his soul and I knew that is where I belonged. He feels the same.
I guess my husband was not the good man that I asked for lol. Well I guess this is a funny love story but I'm so happy I guess all it takes is to believe and some prayer and LM candles.
Now my love is getting deployed and I want him to be protected and safe and come back to me safe and sound. I need prayer and candles tell me what to do next.

Mzcee

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Mon May 18, 2009 7:29 am

Is it possible to reconcile after a year?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon May 18, 2009 8:00 am

Well, it sounds like you have a long hard fight ahead of you, reconciliation after a month can be tough, let alone a year.

As fore your questions

1) yes, others can pick up that someone is working a spell on him, they could even see that it is you.
2) Photos and handwriting are a start, and its not like a honey jar will hurt anything so give it a shot.
3)Attraction or a lodestone spell might work.

I would also suggest setting a time limit for this work, a year or more, and after times up you Cut and Clear and move on with your life.

Also give the LuckyMojo Hoodoo Rootwork hour archives a listen, their are a few episodes dealing with this kind of work.

Astariell · Unread post by **Astariell** » Mon May 18, 2009 8:46 am

Hi, Path2success,

Although I am not expert in hoodoo work, and am learning more everyday, one thing it will teach you and that is what is practical and what is not.....as HailDiscordia has said, you will have a long road......and who knows? You might get your man......

I will tell you that I too once loved someone for a long time.....added up it was almost 7 years....I dated others and also had a relationship with another....during that time I was still in love with this man and I thought him my soulmate.....I tried everything and the bottomline was that I learned to accept that this relationship was going nowhere.....and that he didn't want me......though we had a special friendship and still do, I accepted he just doesn't love me in the way I loved him.....he had shown me much love before but life gives you the answers here.....I finally accepted the facts and realized that I could love again.....and when in love, we tend to think they feel as we do....but they are thinking and feeling otherwise sometimes......so, although I feel your pain and suffering, try to accept this......and free yourself to love again......It will happen although you feel that he is the only man in the world.....I know from experience that you will love again.....It happened to me!!

I can think of many ways of hoodoo to help you but will leave that to the experts then myself...I just wanted to say that what is so great with rootwork is that you know that if there is hope, and all is real, that the chances of success are great.....but if not, then you know you did everything and that this in itself puts you in control....so you can let go....and give yourself and that new special someone a chance to love again....

path2success · Unread post by **path2success** » Mon May 18, 2009 9:42 am

Thank you HailDiscordia & Astariell for the answers & the advice! I know it's a long way but i have come so far so I want to try everything. He is worth it. Also I have done candle spells this past year and the wax remains from every candle formed a letter of his name & all saint petition candles burned clean. So now I have clear wax formations of his name. In this way I recd many signs of our reunion. But now in addition to him being married his family & his wifes family are also there to be overcome.

You said in hoodoo we get to know if the work will be successful or not? Is it based on a reading or on burning a vigil candle eg a break up or return to me candle?

I'm so sad that I discovered LM now. Had I done this 2-3 years before we would have been happily married by now. I've been scammed by so many online spellcasters

I just wish the other girl to get someone nice and my sweetie to return to me.