Hello all, I have a quick question regarding my
honey jar. I currently have a
jar going for my relationship with my bf, just to keep things sweet and help us continue to grow closer and build a life together. Things are great with us and I truly believe the
jar is working as my man has gotten a lot closer to me and will even be spending the holidays doing a “trial run” of living full time with me and my kids. My ultimate goal is to have him move in with us permanently and I feel like it’s going to happen very soon

. So I dress the candles with follow me boy, stay with me, and marriage oil, with my petition as a committed cohabitation and not full marriage, although I’d be fine with that too lol, and I burn them on the
jar every MWF.
My question is this... my man knows that I practice and is good with it, he’s actually had me do health and success spells for him before. The
honey jar is out in the open, he calls it our “love
jar” although he doesn’t know the details or my petitions or anything, and he’s never seen me dress the candles with oils. I’m careful with things he can’t see, like my hidden nation sack and such but the
jar is just out on my altar. The other day I was burning a candle and then we had to go out so I snuffed it to finish later. When we got back, he was like “uh oh, our love
jar candle isn’t done”and he walked over and re-lit the candle himself. Is it okay that he did this? Might be a dumb question but I’m not sure if it’s okay for him to touch the candles and
jar. Everything feels the same with the
jar but it’s been on my mind. Any reassurance is appreciated!