Spells to Attract New Friend, New Lover, New Relationship, Marriage Prospect

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 5:23 pm

Well said JWmcclin!
TL!

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 10:45 pm

I, for one, through reading Hoodoo in Theory and Practice and the advise of those on this forum who are well seasoned and experienced concerning these matters have stopped viewing my menstrual cycle as an annoyance or a burden, but as power and a priceless tool to tilt a few things in my favor. Thank you all for the knowledge!!

eagerspirit81 · Unread post by **eagerspirit81** » Sun Feb 17, 2013 4:44 am

Thank you guys for your responses. I will wait as I have been waiting this long already. Thanks again for acknowleging my concern and taking the time out to answer.

Witchyone · Unread post by **Witchyone** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 1:04 pm

Hello All,

I'm not sure if this has been asked already...and if it has, I apologize for the double post....simply move this thread to it's proper placement. but I wanted to know if there was a such thing as being able to "create" one's mate/

I understand that when we are seeking a new love (no one in particular), we might focus on the characteristics and the qualities we hope to attract in a new lover. But is it possible to "add" or request certain qualities? For example, if I wanted to attract a new lover, one thing I may add is that "he resembles Duane Johnson (The Rock), has the humor of Kevin Hart, the financial resources of......"etc.

Or perhaps one could "add" or request certain features, such as broad shoulders, an athletic build, etc....

Is this even possible? If so, how would one go about it? I'm trying to gain a better handle on my love spells and work.

A reading I've had with Conjure Man Ali last year (who is AWESOME, by the way) told me that one area of work that I am successful in is with love work...but I'm wondering if this is only for others, and not myself because I can never seem to get it to manifest for myself, or manifest what I've been looking for in love...not when I started out pagan, and not now that I am root-working (if this is appropriate to say).

BTW - Conjure Man NEVER spoke of any blocks or curses or hexes or jinxes on me, so I know that this isn't the problem with my love spells or love work for myself.

So this is why I was wondering if the idea to "create" a mate was a possibility...as maybe this can be another way to do love work and finally have it manifest when otherwise, it just simply will not.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 1:46 pm

If it helps you visualize, using real life examples of characteristics you desire could work. However, I would encourage you to concentrate more on character and personality than looks. Also, just because a guy has money doesn't mean he is willing to share. A generous man of more modest means is better than a stingy rich man.

You can work with Attraction and Cleo May to attract a generous man.

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 1:47 pm

Hello Witchyone,

The art of manifestation is something very useful. In the Hoodoo Tradition, from what I have been taught, the more detail and intention you put into your spellwork the better. I have seen a lot of petitions for new love with details the way you were describing.

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Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Feb 21, 2013 2:47 pm

So after 3 years of workinq on a man I tried to Turn From Friend-To-Lover, I finally set my time limit and it looks as if no rootwork will work to turn my best friend and roommate into my soul mate. So I failed and acknowledqe the fact that I failed. So, tears and tissues in the qarbaqe, healinq my heart && lettinq qo is done. I'll be purchasinq a Cut N Clear Kit soon. Besides that-

All tears aside, I am ready to move on to a better lookinq Gay quy, but I have all these issues with approachinq and meetinq new people && tryinq to find the qualities of a lover. I've been doinq rootwork for 3 years now. So I know what I'm doinq per-se, but I would like to know:

1. Usinq Come To Me && Lavender Love Drops toqether- is there a way I can petition a lover to actually...COME TO ME, approach me, talk to me? Because i'm horrible in social settinqs, speed dates, etc. I want a quy to ACTUALLY approach me like a man would to a female like chivalry-like. I just want masculine qay quys to approach me and walk up to me.

2. I have qualities written down. But i'm unsure of which Unique Spell Kit to purchase as well. I have 9 qualities in a NEW lover, & I want the universe to hear my plea. I'm unsure to qo with a Come To Me Kit or Lavender Love Drops kit?

You quys are my 2nd Family, so any helpful advice is needed. So I can move on from my dumba-- of a roommate & move on to someone hotter, sexier & worth my heart & love.

-TBanks

Witchyone · Unread post by **Witchyone** » Thu Feb 21, 2013 9:19 pm

Ah, a good point made about the possibility that this man may have the financial resources but may not be willing to share...great point made, Mama Micki.

Apollo, its great to know that you have seen work done, just the way I've described. Now I have more incentive to really be creative...within realistic reasoning, of course.

I actually like the fact that you both have verified that this could be accomplished with focus....thank you both so much for your responses. I've already got the oil on hand...the candle or spell kit are the things that I can get a hold of.

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Fri Feb 22, 2013 1:56 pm

Witchyone wrote:Ah, a good point made about the possibility that this man may have the financial resources but may not be willing to share...great point made, Mama Micki.

Apollo, its great to know that you have seen work done, just the way I've described. Now I have more incentive to really be creative...within realistic reasoning, of course.

I actually like the fact that you both have verified that this could be accomplished with focus....thank you both so much for your responses. I've already got the oil on hand...the candle or spell kit are the things that I can get a hold of.

We are here to help. Glad to know you are feeling good about your goals.

Keep us up-to-date!

jamkaret · Unread post by **jamkaret** » Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:51 am

Based on a wonderful reading by ConjureMan Ali, I did a very simple Come To
Me fixed candle burn. (Ooo, side note, it was my first ever geomantic reading which thrilled me to no end! So cool!) The burn ended up beautiful and clean, though I almost jacked it up.

I'd decided that I was gonna work the candle, and got a little over excited (and overbaring, lol) towards the end, because at one point I got this sense of total annoyance and zomg leave me alone, and poof the candle snuffed out. I may have actually said "eeep". Well, I instantly apologized profusely and told the spirits that I really, really do trust them, but that I was excited and tend to get handsy when excited. I then promised to let them be for the rest of the time to do their work in peace. I continued on this same vein as I relit, and at first there was a sense of grumpiness that smoothed out after a bit, and it seemed as if I was forgiven. Anyway, I kept my promise and a couple days later ended with a gorgwous burn. \o/

note to self: TRUST THE SPIRITS! lol

As back up, I mixed the remaining herbs in sand from the dog beach I go with the beastling (happiest place on earth!) along with some CTM and Sun oils. Then sprinkled it from the road up to my door. I burned the petition and added it to the CTM oil to make a mini bottle spell. Also, I wear the oil with intention.

This was to attact an unknown mate, so movement and signs are likely vague; all I know is that my labido has shot up and I'm more aware in social situations which I totally count as positive.

Anyhow, so fun, but I think I'm likely better suited for shakey bottles and mojo work, than long run candles considering I am incapable of not getting handsy. Lol, guess I work with my hands for a reason!!!

miss__understood · Unread post by **miss__understood** » Sun Feb 24, 2013 10:11 pm

I wasn't sure if I should post this in the love group or in laws/family/friends group but anyway.....Does anyone have any root working spells and advice to cool off a man's romantic and sexual interest? I want to be "just friends" with him. We've hung out twice and we were sexual the second time (no intercourse though). I want him to call and text me less, stop asking to date me, stop calling me sweetie, stop trying to hold my hand etc. You get the picture.

Thanks everyone!

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Feb 25, 2013 4:23 am

miss__understood wrote:I wasn't sure if I should post this in the love group or in laws/family/friends group but anyway.....Does anyone have any root working spells and advice to cool off a man's romantic and sexual interest? I want to be "just friends" with him. We've hung out twice and we were sexual the second time (no intercourse though). I want him to call and text me less, stop asking to date me, stop calling me sweetie, stop trying to hold my hand etc. You get the picture.

Thanks everyone!

Well, the first thing I would recommend is telling him this. Be nice about it but be very clear that you value his friendship, but do not want him as a sexual partner. Don't want to lead anyone on after all.

After that I would suggest burning a series of blue candles. I would work a blue gentleman candle on him, that is a figure candle of a dressed man,not a nude Adam candle. Dress the candle with Tranquility and Blessing oil and carve his name into the head of the candle. Write out a name paper with his name and your name, but write the names side by side, rather than crossing each other. Around the names write a phrase like "True Trusting Friendship" or Chaste True Friends" Fold that up around a pinch of Saltpeter and place that under an over turned saucer. Set the candle on top and burn it down over seven days, starting on a Sunday. If you work by the moon you'd do this while the moon wanes.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Feb 25, 2013 1:16 pm

Turnsteel, I like that spell

miss__understood, you could reinforce your work by doing a "draw new love" sort of spell on the man -- I'm thinking of a moving candle spell with one male and one female candle. You set them apart and draw them closer together over a period of seven days, until they meet on the last day. (Name the male for him, of course, and the female "Some Other Woman/His True Love".)

Or you could start them right next to each other, and lean them together so they're kissing! (You might have to stick the mouths together with a spot of cheese wax or beeswax or something.) Then let them burn down like that over the rest of the seven days.

You might also want to do some protection work for yourself; some men don't take rejection well. Some even think "the world owes them a hot chick."

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

miss__understood · Unread post by **miss__understood** » Mon Feb 25, 2013 5:42 pm

thank you turnsteel and miss michaele. i've already asked him to back off but i'm going to try and communicate my needs again and see how it goes. if he still doesn't back off, i thought i'd do a penis candle spell with some sort of cooling magikal oil. thoughts on what type of oil? thanks!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:49 am

miss__understood wrote:thank you turnsteel and miss michaele. i've already asked him to back off but i'm going to try and communicate my needs again and see how it goes. if he still doesn't back off, i thought i'd do a penis candle spell with some sort of cooling magikal oil. thoughts on what type of oil? thanks!

A black penis candle, definitely -- dressed with Cut and Clear Oil and Couch Grass. Then wrapped around and around with blue, white or black thread (depending how angry you are, or how obnoxious he is!).

But don't burn it. Put it in a black bag, in a box, in the FREEZER.

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miss__understood · Unread post by **miss__understood** » Tue Feb 26, 2013 4:54 pm

MissMichaele wrote:
A black penis candle, definitely -- dressed with Cut and Clear Oil and Couch Grass. Then wrapped around and around with blue, white or black thread (depending how angry you are, or how obnoxious he is!).

But don't burn it. Put it in a black bag, in a box, in the FREEZER.

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Good luck,

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perfect spell, thanks!

Mismaude · Unread post by **Mismaude** » Tue Mar 12, 2013 5:20 am

I've been with this guy twice now and want to see him again. Now, I could ofcourse just contact him and tell him this, but I'm too proud and want him to make a move first.
I thought to do honeyjar (I have his hair, both pubic and from his head) but he has also left his work ID card here with his full name and photo on. Can I use this as an additional item and put it in the honeyjar, along with the petitonpaper, hairs and lodestones. Will it achieve any greater effect or will the hairs and petition alone be enough?
Also, after dressing the candle with my vaginal fluids and follow me boy oil + compelling oil, I'm thinking to stick cubeb berries into the candle aswell, along with carving his name in the candle 9 times in a spiral as in a nation sack spell. Is this unecessary overkill?

This is my first honeyjar so any guidance will be much appreciated.
Thanks.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Mar 12, 2013 6:39 am

Anything he has touched is a personal concern and can be used.

The four inch candle that is used with a honey jar is small; burn it on the honey jar after dressing it in the oil. Stick the cubeb berries and do the carving on a six inch or nine inch (jumbo) candle, and burn it separately.

Mismaude · Unread post by **Mismaude** » Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:00 pm

Thank you

Mismaude · Unread post by **Mismaude** » Mon Mar 18, 2013 5:36 pm

ok, since my last entry to this topic I've done some more reading and thought about this situation. I'm now having second thoughts about doing a honey jar on the guy I want to work on. I don't think it will fit the nature of the work, as I'm not interested in a romantic relationship from him, only raw passionate sex.
We've hardly had a conversation other than the mandatory introduction, heavy flirt, and dirty sex

We just seem to find eachother irresistible on some sort of primate level (his scent alone makes me hit the roof).
I have very limited information regarding his personal life, if he's in a relationship or not!? -I don't know?? He's a friend of a friend so I don't have any daily contact with him, i.e. I don't think a honey jar will be able to influence him much when there is no actual contact between us. Am I right or wrong on this? Secondly, he's a man and I think he will be far more receptive towards sexual influence, rather than trying to influence him romantically. There is no foundation to base any romance between us anyway at this stage.
However, I am pretty likely to cross paths with him in about a months time or so, as I will be working closely with his best friend. Also, he's left his watch and work ID here which I assume he would want back at some point. until then, I will use them as personal concerns.

AND NOW TO THE POINT!! Will a skull candle be more suitable for work of this nature rather than a honey jar? Masturbate with the candle, thinking of us having sex obviously so my fluids will be all over it, then dress the candle with appropriate oils, hollow out a pocket in the bottom of the candle and load it with his hair and some herbs and minerals ect. ect. Then talk to him through the candle, get my image in his head, draw him to me, and get him to contact me. AM I ON THE RIGHT TRACK HERE?? Or is this too heavy or aggressive a method of work for a beginner?

I would just like to add that I am in no way obessing over this guy! This is not a life or death matter to me and I'm not emotional about it in any way. I just think that this would be a suitable subject to start off with, being a passionate interest but with no heavy emotions involved.

Thanks

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Tue Mar 19, 2013 12:53 pm

Mismaude wrote: AND NOW TO THE POINT!! Will a skull candle be more suitable for work of this nature rather than a honey jar? Masturbate with the candle, thinking of us having sex obviously so my fluids will be all over it, then dress the candle with appropriate oils, hollow out a pocket in the bottom of the candle and load it with his hair and some herbs and minerals ect. ect. Then talk to him through the candle, get my image in his head, draw him to me, and get him to contact me. AM I ON THE RIGHT TRACK HERE?? Or is this too heavy or aggressive a method of work for a beginner?

Sounds like a great spell to me. I think you are on the right track. Perhaps adding a photo of yourself dressed with Follow Me Boy or Fire of Love oil, and putting that folded up into the base of the candle as well.

Best of Luck to You!

Mismaude · Unread post by **Mismaude** » Tue Mar 19, 2013 3:57 pm

uh, that's a good idea. I like it

Thanks!
So, if I put my own photo dressed with Follow Me Boy inside the candle, will that cause confusion if I then also put his photo and hair inside it too, along with mine?
-or should his photo go under a fireproof plate underneath the candle, along with the petition, his work ID and his watch?
I did think to even carve my name into the forehead of the candle and give that area some extra oil as an option...maybe even a splash of controlling powder...

Do you know which day of the week is best to start such work? Should I to pay attention to moon phases? -and any specific prayer?

The herbs and roots I have collected for this are these: cubeb berries, hibiscus flowers, damania, licorice root, catnip, and poppy seeds. Is there anything I need to remove or add other than lodestones?
I also have Adam and Eve's root and High John the Conquerer, but unsure which of these to add if any at all?

Thank you.

starfairy · Unread post by **starfairy** » Fri Apr 05, 2013 6:00 pm

Hi Guys, Starfairy here

What kind of love spell would you do to attract a financially wealthy husband? any suggestions? I am open to anything. thanks

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Apr 07, 2013 4:04 am

Hi starfairy,

There are a number of excellent tricks in this thread for you already.

You could also work the red candle and lodestone spell but instead of working with a red male figural candle, work with a green one and load it with pyrite grit, skullcap and catnip and writing your petition on a 2$ bill and anointing it with Cleo May and Come To Me oil. The spell in question can be found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... oneattract

ericstudy · Unread post by **ericstudy** » Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:15 pm

How can attract the right woman ?????
when i walk into the store all eye are me but not in good way but a negative way???
Women do not notice me at all????
but security notice me but i am just simply shopping

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Apr 26, 2013 8:20 pm

ericstudy --

The fact that you are being watched by security guards is a different problem than attracting a woman.

Attracting women at random while out shopping is not the easiest way to attract the. Most women meet men through school, church, jobs, relatives, and friends. The reason is that women are (rightly) afraid of getting involved with strange, unknown men. They prefer to be introduced in a safe, neutral zone.Meeting women in bars and at clubs is possible, but they may be drunk or stoned and not have their own best interests at heart.

The best way to attract a woman is to be doing something that women like -- working hard, earning a living, caring for younger siblings, volunteering to help people or animals, fixing broken things.

Wear some Attraction Oil or Look Me Over Oil (or both), dress in nice clothes, stand without slouching, and smile.

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Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Apr 26, 2013 10:09 pm

In addition to Miss Cat's excellent advice, get involved in activities you enjoy that women also would be likely to attend, such as church, classes, and volunteer work. Socialize and be friendly.

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sun May 05, 2013 11:54 am

Hello forumers! So I have heard about this love spell and I was wondering if anyone may know about its origins. I'm not sure if its necessarily from the hoodoo roots, but I do know that there is some form of it used in Santeria.

So the spell, and I'm speaking of the bits of it that I know of, involves a piece of paper, white cloth, and perfume. Apparently, one writes the target's name on the paper and wraps it in the cloth, then spraying the bundle with her own perfume. I think the ritual is done for three Fridays in a row, but there is something about paying dues to the cementary (I've heard a certain amount of change) because the person performing the spell is getting help from the spirit world?

As you can see, I'm a little confused by what the spell entails, but I was interested in knowing more about it because I saw there are different forms of it in different followings of magic (Wicca, Santeria, etc) and thought that was particularly interesting. Also, apparently the spell is very simple but also very powerful, sometimes leading to obsession (which of course depends on the situation).

If anyone knows about this spell, I would greatly appreciate your input. Perhaps there is a form of it in hoodoo.

As always, thanks forumers!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue May 07, 2013 9:06 am

I can't vouch for this spell's Santeria origins, but --

I'd rather do this spell with hair or sexual fluids or both; failing that, a photograph (even snagged from a Facebook page) or a signature. Personal concerns, baby! Use yours and your target's.

It is simple -- bare-bones simple -- but the old spells are often that way, and often just as powerful as an altar full of candles and psalms and incense. So much depends on the worker's skill and desire.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat May 11, 2013 11:07 am

I agree with MissMichaele.

nutter · Unread post by **nutter** » Sat Jun 08, 2013 2:53 pm

I've been digging through the online book and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions to draw new love. Not anyone specific, but I have a few characteristics or personality traits I'd like to see in my next relationship. For example, I've always been really into guys who work on muscle cars and I'd like to attract someone like that. Any suggestions? I was leaning towards the white candle spell but I wanted to pick some brains!

nutter · Unread post by **nutter** » Thu Jun 20, 2013 3:34 pm

Any ideas on how to attract a certain type of guy?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Jun 21, 2013 10:36 am

Write down what you want and dress a pink or red candle with Attraction and/or Come to Me oil. You might also use pictures, such as a muscle car or a guy working on one.

ibelieve1 · Unread post by **ibelieve1** » Sat Jun 22, 2013 10:02 pm

I was wondering how you go about doing the love drawing for someone else. For instance my son's father and his wife are getting a divorce, and she will not let him be. The kids keep telling me their dad has not been this happy in years. So how would I draw a lover to her so she will have her attention on someone else and leave them be?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Jun 22, 2013 10:07 pm

You can certainly do work on her behalf to draw a lover to her. Use a pink or red figural candle dressed with Attraction and/or Come to Me oil and write your petition "(name) draws the perfect lover to her.)" However, having a new man will not guarantee that she will leave your son's father alone.

branden · Unread post by **branden** » Sun Jun 30, 2013 2:54 am

The first time I saw him I had to do a double take. After that wore off I was able to interact with him. I found him to very sweet and friendly. At some point he got really snarky with me and I found myself turned on.lol Anywho a few awkward interactions later.

I then decided to burn a candle with his name.I combine followmeboy,lookmeover,special20 and some rose oil. I then decide to post a missed connections on CL. A few crazy response later he responsed knew who I was and gaved me his number. I became very apprehensive and I began avoiding the inevitable.

I think I was fine wondering what if. I didn't expect it to happen. I finally summon some courage to hang out with him.(liquid courage) We decided on going to the movies. At this point I dab some lookmeover behind my ears. Half way through the movies he moved the armrest. I was a bit afraid. LOL

He began rubbing my leg and it was electric. So much so I had to push his hands away. I ofcourse didn't sleep with him nor did he ask.Since then we talk/text. It's always random when he calls or text me. It'll be a few days sometimes I wonder then he calls/text me.

He's told me that he doesn't have time to 'date' anyone. He tells me that the only thing he cares about is 'money'. The last time we spoke he revealed some damning details to me. He said "I don't think you know what you've gotten yourself into". My response was "Dude we're just hanging out". He told me I'm of three people whom he revealed this to.

We've only hung out once mind you. I have no clue what to think.I would like to add that I haven't revealed a lot about myself to him. I have a hard time trusting people. I also don't want to be a distraction.I thought I had a 'type ' before I met him. I also think I'm not his 'type' type. If that makes any sense.

I almost feel like I shouldn't put all my eggs in one basket.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Jun 30, 2013 6:45 am

Have you decided if you want to proceed in getting this man or are you not going to put all of your eggs in one basket?

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Sun Jun 30, 2013 9:48 am

I agree with Joseph. You need to decide if you want to have fling with this man or hold out for a more committed relationship. You are using products which induce a glamour about you, so you should not be surprised your target is responding to you. Obviously, their glamour, and your ability is strong enough to lure in a man who loves money most of all and hasn't taken time to date anyone in particular. He is also being honest with you, up front, not to expect a relationship with him.

You could:

1. Have a wild fling that leads to no relationship, then move on to a more suitable person
2. Have a fling that leaves him wanting more ... yet wondering why ( he doesn't know you've worked on him and that you wear magical products ).

You could probably string the encounters out longer than this man usually involves himself by burning candles, wearing products, and using other traditional means to keep yourself in his mind. You would probably need to continue to work on him to keep him coming around as he has told you it is not in his nature.

However, you seem to be seeing "red flags" with this person. If you sense danger, you should listen to those feelings. It may be best to not get too close to this person. What do you really know about him anyway? You need to consider these things carefully. If you feel strong uneasiness concerning him, you may need to get a reading before going any further to attract this man. Please be careful.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jun 30, 2013 11:38 am

Maybe the other posters see something in your writing that I don't. I am not reading any type of connection between you two, just friendly hanging out. So I ask the same question, what are your intentions. You said the guy (said he) is only interested in money, so what... Putting all your eggs in one basket...does that mean you want a relationship with him?

branden · Unread post by **branden** » Sun Jun 30, 2013 12:38 pm

Joseph Magnuson wrote:Have you decided if you want to proceed in getting this man or are you not going to put all of your eggs in one basket?

Is it possible to do both?

branden · Unread post by **branden** » Mon Jul 01, 2013 2:05 am

jwmcclin wrote:Maybe the other posters see something in your writing that I don't. I am not reading any type of connection between you two, just friendly hanging out. So I ask the same question, what are your intentions. You said the guy (said he) is only interested in money, so what... Putting all your eggs in one basket...does that mean you want a relationship with him?

I can't say if I do or don't I don't know him well enough to consider. He has asked me something along the lines if we dated how long I thought it would last. To which I responded I didn't know him well enough. I would like to hang out with him a bit more. I would like to see what happens.If he fell for me that would be a bonus.I hope I don't sound naive or indecisive.

branden · Unread post by **branden** » Mon Jul 01, 2013 2:13 am

MoonBreath wrote: However, you seem to be seeing "red flags" with this person. If you sense danger, you should listen to those feelings. It may be best to not get too close to this person. What do you really know about him anyway? You need to consider these things carefully. If you feel strong uneasiness concerning him, you may need to get a reading before going any further to attract this man. Please be careful.

I appreciate your advice and concerns. I'm considering getting a reading.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Jul 22, 2013 9:23 am

So here is my situation (if it even is one):

About 2 months ago I performed some Come To Me work for a new unknown suitor. I then had a dream about being in a relationship with a man whom Ive never met, and his face was burned into my head.

The next day I was on fb and this same man popped up on my friends page randomly. The exact same guy I had the dream about. I thought maybe Id met him in passing but I never have. Now he keeps popping up EVERYWHERE online. Pictures, friends of friends, even on an online site, everywhere except in reality. I haven’t met this person but he seems to be all over the place.

The thing is I don’t even know how Id meet this person, but Id like to.

So far no one else has really come my way (no one appropriate at least).

I've tried online dating to help speed up the Come To Me work and give it a new outlet for manifestation and that did not work AT ALL. I wound up shutting it down.

So my questions are:

1. Do I wait to meet the unknown person that the Come To Me work is intended for?

2. Does Come To Me ever just open your eyes to someone?

3. Obviously its foolish to start throwing out love spells on people you don’t know, but what about spells for encouragement for a chance meeting with this guy?

4. Would encouragement for a chance meeting with this guy essentially be counteracting the Come To Me work, if it's not intended for this guy?

I'm just wondering what everyone else's take is on this. I'm actually having a reading with Miss Cat in 2 days so I am going to address this as well.

Thanks!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jul 22, 2013 9:32 am

Olivialeigh,

1. Wait? No, i would be looking everywhere, not waiting, but i would consider the FB guy a prospect (if you can meet him). I was once told to try to date 9 guys for every love spell that was broadcasting on all wavlengths. You never know.

2. Yes. This is fairly common.

3. Here my practical Taurus nature says any spell to encourage a chance encounter -- for instance a white candle love spell -- must be accompanied by activity in the mundane world. Who are your mutual FB friends? Can you ask them about hm? Is he single? Where does he live? Does he post on their FB pages, or they on his, and, if so, can they link your name (as a favour to you) in a post that offers him the chance to click your name and see who you are (this is called a breadcrumb trail).

4. No, a white candle love spell would not "counteract" a Come To Me spell.

Talk to you soon.

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Jul 22, 2013 9:57 am

Thank you Cat!
I am working on putting the word out there to figure out his status. Hes actually a mutual friend of my best friend (who loves these kind of things and setting people up), so Im looking to her to help me on that front. I think a lot of my curiosity was how to really determine who is and is NOT a possible option for the come to me work and how much work on my end is needed to help things come to fruition , or if Im just going overboard.

Either way I will speak to you soon !

Thanks again for clarifying (definitely looking forward maybe doing some work with lodestones to help a chance meeting with him).

branden · Unread post by **branden** » Wed Jul 24, 2013 5:38 am

I figure I'd update this thread:
I let him contact me all the times since he's supossedly so busy. He still continues to call or text me. He'll ask me if i miss seeing him etc. My responses are more chilled and casual.I finally had a reading done and it was shown that there was a cultural difference preventing whatever from happening. I was told I could do a road opener,cutandclear,cometome spell. I originally asked him about this difference to which he clearly wasn't upfront about.

lucky7clover · Unread post by **lucky7clover** » Sun Aug 04, 2013 4:13 pm

I had bought a skull candle with some particular herbs like Queen Elizabeth Root, Rose, Lavender, etc to stuff into the skull and burn it for 7 days. However, a friend of mine gave me a reading today and confirmed that the person this was intended for was hiding something from me and basically had no serious intentions with me.

So here's my question:

1) Can i use the skull candle as a more general love working or is it mainly intended for a specific target?

2) I also have a white crucifixion candle; can i use that for love?

3) Any general ideas for a love work for a serious relationship that can lead to having a family, in which i can use the herbs, candles, and other supplies i already purchased?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Aug 04, 2013 4:20 pm

lucky7clover --

1) A skull candle is generally used on a particular person -- you are getting inside the person's head, so to speak.

2) This candle is used for blessings and for protection, but it is not notably a love candle.

3) I would use the Lavender and Rose to prepare a love bath. There are many kinds of such baths -- for instance, a plain "bath tea," a milk and honey bath with herbs, or a you can also make a sugar scrub. If the Queen Elizabeth Root is in powder form (you did not specifiy whole or powder) you can add it to the bath; if it is a whoe root, dress it with your personal fluids and carry it on your person in a lucky mojo bag for new love.

lucky7clover · Unread post by **lucky7clover** » Sun Aug 04, 2013 4:37 pm

Thank you, Cat. I have the queen eliz root powder, rose, lavender, damiana and sassparilla. I was using sassparilla as a substitute for Spikenard, since they are in the same family of plants. I was thinking maybe i could do a mojo bag and annoint it with Follow me boy oil (which i also have), lodestone and magnetic sand. But i found a small canning jar, perfect for a honey jar as well!! So could i do a honey jar and write the word "soulmate" or "lover" instead of a specific name?

Loveydovey · Unread post by **Loveydovey** » Mon Aug 05, 2013 12:25 am

Hi All,

I have finally gotten my order safely arrived in my mailbox, after a month long wait

I have just started dating someone from my office , nothing too serious dated like 6 times the last 2months behaving more like FWB but I still waiting for Conjureman to come back with my reading. Oh I have also paid for a Adam and Eve virgil candle to be burnt at their church so far I not heard from them regards the result of the candle. I really hope my guy will express his love for me and stay commited with me with a long term relationship, perhaps get married and have some kids (^^)

Anyway I have purchased follow me boy, come to me , chupprosa oil but upon receiving these items, the same day my guy had flew back to Geneva for his month long summer holiday...and will only be back mid September...sob sob.. So I tried putting on follow me oil on the night when I was out with my girlfriend at the pub, nothing happened..LOL...the following day I dabbed some behind my ears while going out shopping with my mom and nothing happened again (--") I am just wondering what did i do wrong, am I supposed to say something when I m putting on the oil but sorry I really not sure what to say ..hopefullly someone can enlighten me here.

Yesterday I tried to getting ready dressing my candle with come to me , follow me oil and chupparosa oil .By the way I diy my own Honey Jar (1.5mth old Honey Jar) not sure have I done wrong, so far nothing fantastic has happened , i wrote my petition on a red paper (thinking Red is passion) instead of brown/white paper and I have put in magnets instead of loadstones , will this still work? LOL...Gonna burn my candle this Fri..

Is there a ritual or affirmation or anything that I should say when applying those oil?

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Aug 05, 2013 4:37 am

Hi bebefleur,

Well, if your attitude currently is ''sob sob'' and you're pining for someone returning in September, it'll probably take a lot more than a dab of oïl to get you exuding the ''on the prowl: come and get me'' look and feel. Conjure oils (or powders or spells for that matter) don't work if you don't also take mundane actions to get the results you want. Did you eye anyone? Strike up a conversation? Ask someone to dance? Buy someone a drink? Those are all actions that show people you're interested - no actions to support your magical intentions reduces by far the chances of you getting a positive outcome.

When you apply oils, you should be stating your intention. It isn't a ritual or affirmation, but a statement of intent (or petition) either out loud or in your head. For example, when you apply the Follow Me Boy you could say something like ''I will have attention from those men around me I find interesting when I am out at the pub tonight. They will talk to me and engage in conversation when we make sustained eye contact.''

I'm also observing lots of expressions like ''tried'' and ''will this still work'' and ''what did I do wrong''. These all indicate doubt with regards to your work and probably with regards to magic in general. This certainly doesn't help you get results. When you do your work, are sure of its success (have 100% faith that it will be done if it is justified in the eyes of God) and then go out and live your daily life to the fullest in the knowledge of and informed by that success; it's very different from second guessing every small bit of Conjure that you try. If you're a beginner, you could really benefit from a magical coaching session since that will give you the firm foundation to help you with the ''how'' of the work so that you can feel confident in your casting.

Blessings,
Aura

Loveydovey · Unread post by **Loveydovey** » Mon Aug 05, 2013 9:44 pm

Hi Aura,

I am really very new to these and a newbie, but anyway thanks for the advise

MoonSunStar · Unread post by **MoonSunStar** » Wed Aug 07, 2013 10:57 am

Hi all,
I want to do a love spell for my sister, to attract a new partner or love to her. She's breaking up with her current partner and she's in misery. She wants to find herself a new man, a new love that deserves her.
Any suggestions on what spell I could do to help my sister please? How should I engrave on the candles if it's for another person?
Have a nice evening all!

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 5:10 am

Hi MoonSunStar,

You're already dealing with your mother's Healing and your own Relationship issues: perhaps it would be better advised to hold off on additional spell-work until you get some movement in what's already on the go. Too much at once, particularly for a beginner, isn't necessarily the best alternative. Save your energy and spend it where it counts. Look at the work you want to do and establish what is the priority: then work on that from multiple angles if you want to do more than one spell at a time. This keeps your intentions focused in the same place and improves the likelihood of your getting positive results.

MoonSunStar · Unread post by **MoonSunStar** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 5:22 am

Hi Aura,
I know but I feel that there's so much to do...I'm on breaking point right now...Having to deal with my own relationship and having to support my sister (without letting her know about my current problems.) And I'm worried about my mother too...I'm exhausted

I want to do as much as I can to make things better...

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 8:24 am

There is a lot going on, and as you said you are on your breaking point right now. Would stretching yourself even further do more good or more harm?

As you read this, take a deep breath -- a really deep breath -- and hold it for three seconds then let it out as well as the stresses you've been carrying. Do two or three more deep breaths. As you breath now allow yourself to clearly see that which is important for you to be doing work for, and know what can worked on next.

MoonSunStar · Unread post by **MoonSunStar** » Fri Aug 09, 2013 8:25 am

Papa, thank you...
Perhaps it would be best if I work on my personal problems and emotional issues before I can help others wholeheartedly...I've been reading spellworks every night now. I've always been quite spiritual before and this is like opening a new path for me...Hopefully it will help me heal so that I eventually can help my loved ones too. It will take quite a long time for my LM supplies tö arrive to me. Can you suggest any simple faithful/love spell that I can work on my bf with before the items arrive to my country? Thanks! Have a nice weekend!

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Aug 10, 2013 4:48 am

Hi MoonSunStar,

a large variety of spells for fidelity are available for you to read and use via the following forum thread existant on the subject:spells-to-keep-mate-faithful-and-to-tie ... 35dbc96aea

there is also a forum thread devoted to long distance relationships that may help as well: spells-for-long-distance-romance-and-lo ... 35dbc96aea

Wren · Unread post by **Wren** » Tue Aug 13, 2013 3:03 pm

Hello, everyone. I've been reading several threads trying to find some help with my problem, but there is just so much information that my head is spinning! Here is my situation in a nutshell: I was married for 16 years to what I thought was the perfect man for me, but then he admitted one day that he was actually gay and had only married me in an attempt to make himself 'normal'. We've been divorced 11 years now, and I have been alone since then. At first I didn't want to even think about remarriage, but after LOTS of counseling and therapy, I've gotten my life put back together and I realize that I do want to remarry and share life with someone else. Preferably a man who is straight this time, though. My ex and I never had children, so I have never seen nor spoken to him since 2002. The problem I'm finding now is that the vast majority of men my age (48) are only interested in 20 year olds, and the only men who ARE interested are well into their 70s, even 80s! The men that I have dated never call back after the first date. I've been told that I am a very kind, generous and loving person, and that I am attractive. Yet here I am, still solo. If I'm fated to be alone for the rest of my life, then that's my fate and I know there isn't anything I can do about it. But is that really my fate? And if not, then what can I do to find my Mr Right, sooner rather than later, while I'm still young and frisky enough to enjoy a new man, if you get my meaning...

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Aug 14, 2013 4:36 am

Hi Wren,

If you've done some simple spell work and have consistently gotten little or no results, you may want to consider getting a reading from one of the AIRR readers who does love work to see that there isn't something else getting in the way: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Although it can be a challenge to wade the dating waters, there are men your age out there that will be interested in dating women their own age. Look at where you're finding potential mates and see if perhaps the locations or sites could be better suited to your purpose.

On the Conjure-front, the red-candle and lodestone spell to attract an unknown lover is a good choice. You can read more about that here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.htm ... oneattract

Blessings and Success to You.