Spells for Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Intersex Love

[JayDee]

The Mango Witch,

Lavender Love Drops is a product that is used to increase romantic love and a long-lasting relationship. Q, on the other hand, stands for "queer" and traditionally has been used as a sex oil to get laid. It can be mixed to increase passion and sex, or to get a quick hook-up.

You can learn more about oil blends on this page: https://www.luckymojo.com/oilblends.html

JayDee

[The Mango Witch]

Hi JayDee,

I'm curious about people's experiences with mixing both formulas specifically. I remember you talking about Q as a DL sex/passion oil and Lavender Love as a soulmate type.

I also read about people using Q to "queer up" other love forumlas.

[catherineyronwode]

Hi, The Mango Witch --

I'm not JayDee, but i will reply to part of what you mentioned -- "using Q to 'queer up' other love formulas."

In past times, most queer people "adapted" rather than expecting a special formula for queer love, For instance, there were perfumes associated with gay men, such as Sweet Violets, Lavender, and Pansies, and herbs such as Unicorn Root, and the fragrance of Banana Oil. During the early 1960s, i was taught by a gay practitioner to use Follow Me Girl for a "straight looking guy" to attract what he called a "nelly queen." I use these old fashioned terms deliberately, so that you will understand how it was back then, when gay people were forced to adapt to heteronormative social roles rather than living authentic personal lives, and there was a large vocabulary of coded language in place to disguise or hide queerness.

Q was devised in New York City in the late 1960s by Herman Slater and Eddie Buczynski, around the time of the Stonewall riot and as gay political awareness was coming into play. This was before the AIDS crisis, when same-sex marriage was not permitted, so it was definitely a DL formula, and even the name, based on the James Bond movies, was in code.

Lavender Love was introduced in the 1990s by Deacon Millett as the push for legalizing same-sex marriage was forming on the political horizon. It was designed for both gay and lesbian love and commitment. The pink triangle on the label was a reminder of the terrible past, when queer people were thus badged by the Nazis, and a winged heart was displayed as a symbol of true love's liberation from that past.

During the 2000s, some gay and lesbian root doctors have devised their own ranges of specifically queer love formulas, but the use of Q Oil as a "queerness additive" is still as effective as it ever was, and folks blend it with everything from from Kiss Me Now and Fire of Love to Stay With Me and Peaceful Home.

[The Mango Witch]

Thank you, Miss Cat!

This background information really helps a lot.

[johnnyr860]

Hello all I hope you are all well.

So basically I did a reading through a reader at AIRR and they confirmed that the guy I like likes me too. I have been doing candle work with Lavender Love Drops and Road Opener oils on him. Also I wear a doll baby that I made using a picture of him with two pieces of clear tape and I dress the doll baby with Lavender Love Drops oil.

Lately he has been distant. In the reading it was confirmed that he is going through some things in his personal life but it is nothing to do with me so this is a slow growing process.

I show candles for the most part with no wax, no smoke, nothing left. But every once here and there I get wax left over but not much.

Basically I wanted to see if there is anything else I can add to the candles aside from the Road Opener and Lavender Love Drops that could make the candle work stronger? Or should I just stick to what I have going right now?

[The Mango Witch]

Hi johnnyr860,

While I'm not one of the AIRR readers, I do think the solution to the issue lies in the problem itself. Gently ask him what's going on and if he opens up to you, help him work through it. If the spells are giving you good portents, it's likely that there's practical and physical work to be done. If all goes well, this may bring the two of you to deeper emotional intimacy and move your relationship to the next level.

If he doesn't open up to you, offer him support without prying and that you'll be there if he needs someone to listen. Either way, approach his distance gently and ask him if he's alright.

[johnnyr860]

Thank you mango witch for your reply. The reason I asked about adding other things to the mix is because I haven’t heard from him in a week now. It’s not like him to ignore me for more than a day. Yet I know he’s been online.

I would love to show my support and help him through whatever he is going through and to just let him know I’m here for him but if he isn’t replying to my texts and leaves them unread and it’s been a week then I’m not sure what else I can do? Or maybe he’ll get back to me when he is ready? I also don’t want to come off desperate or clingy by sending too many texts.

That’s why I asked about maybe adding more oils to the lavender love drops and road opener. Also I did a lavender love drops glass candle recently from lucky mojo and there was no wax left and the glass was clear as day so I feel good. No smoke coming from any of my candles and no wax left. Do you think I just need to give it more time or should I add more oils to my mix?