Reconciliation Vigil Candle Questions and Answers

[catherineyronwode]

Steadypath,

There is no one answer to your question, but i have some practical knowledge of spell-casting for myself and for clients, so i will speak from experience rather than from theory.

When undertaking reconciliation work it is important to set a time-frame or time-limit on your efforts. Before beginning the work, get a reading, or consult your own guides, on how long you should work.
* You can pick a specific date, such as a birthday or holiday.
* You can pick an amount of elapsed time, such as a month or a-year-and-a-day.
* You can also frame your time in terms of asking a question of the loved three times, and writing down the replies, and seeing how (or if) the change over the allotted time-span.

If you have been getting positive results (more contact, more time together, more sexuality, more loving words), but you are not achieving completion (no monogamy, no engagement, no marriage, no divorce from the ex-spouse, no agreement to have children), then start to consider that your work has reached a plateau.
* Are you comfortable with this plateau?
* Can you start up again by setting (and keeping to) a new time-frame, or is this simply the end of the road for you?

I hope these approaches give you something to think about.

Good luck in the New Year.