Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

thebrands · Unread post by **thebrands** » Mon Nov 28, 2011 6:52 pm

thank you so much for your help!

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:39 am

Hi everyone.

I'm waiting for a deliver of LM products. I've been advised by my Rootworker to use a Cast off Evil and Cut and Clear candles (its to do with getting my ex partners daughter to like me, she hates me at the moment, as I'm trying to get her dad to want me back - I know that I can use a yellow canlde for the Cut and Clear work until my 'proper' candle arrives but I don't know what colour candle to use for the Cast off Evil - can someone advise me please.

Also the only oils I have at the moment are Compelling, Fast Luck, Love Me, Lodestone and Intranquility would any of these be suitable for dressing the candles? If not can I use olive oil and add herbs?

I hope someone can help me - fast.

Thanks.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Dec 03, 2011 7:10 am

Cast Off Evil you would use a black candle; you could carve all the things you want to "cast out" of your life onto the candle (such as "hatred towards me", "disrespect", etc). You could dress it with plain olive oil that you pray over with your intent.

You could also, after that black candle burns, burn a purple candle dressed with some Compelling oil, that will "compel" the daughter to respect and like you.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Dec 03, 2011 5:28 pm

Here is a link on Lucky Mojo that discusses color symbolism in candle magic (http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html#colour)

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Dec 05, 2011 2:25 am

It depends on how the spell you are going to use is designed.

If you are representing yourself or anyone that should be rid of evil with that candle I would use a white or a yellow candle. The Cast Of Evil Products contains repelling ingredients, not absorbing so the candle colour should be one that strengthens the radiation of Casting Off rather than absorbing evil for later disposal.

Among the oils you mention I would use the "Love Me" and the "Loadstone". "Fast Luck" can be used if you are going to see him in order to rebond by having sex. Why you should consider using "Intranquility" when wanting a person to like you more is beyond me. It can bring people to your door step by force and despair, but it will not make them like you more.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Mon Dec 05, 2011 12:59 pm

Hello everyone

Thanks for your helpful advice.

Dr Johannes, the Cast off Evil was suggested to me by my rootworker with regard to the daughter of my ex partner who I'm trying to be reconciled with. His daughter hates me because she thinks I told lies to her father about her.

Anna

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Tue Dec 06, 2011 2:26 am

I understand, Anna, but the principle is still the same not matter if you are working on him to remove the evil influence, on yourself to wash away the association from you or on her directly to drive off hate and a bad tounge.
Cast Off Evil does not absorb evil, it cast it off. So the candle color should be symbolized accordingly. Yellow usually repels evil and attract good. You are looking for that repelling, so a yellow candle could be a good choice for a Cast Off Evil spell.
Best of luck to you.

babygirl · Unread post by **babygirl** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 5:47 pm

Ok this is very complicated.

My mom and my stepdad want nothing to do with my husband. It has been very hard to go thru this with children. Christmas is coming and I want all of us to be together for Christmas.

When I say they want nothing to do with my husband, I mean she does not want to hear his name or she flips out. She wants me to divorce him, she tells me if I am going to stay with him she will be done with me and the kids. I don't think she could be completely done with us, but she will not accept us being together. She never has.

He has tried to work things out with her, but she is very stubborn. So what I need to do is make some cookies or something and send them to her. She lives 10 hours away from us, so I can't do anything else except bake something and have them eat it. So I need to know what I need to put in these cookies so that I can force her to accept my husband and we will not have a problem when they come for Christmas.

I don't have much time, so I need to get these cookies baked and sent to them so they can eat them and be ok with my husband before they leave to come here for Christmas. I vision how I would like things to be, and hopefully very soon it will all be real!

Any help would be appreciated. Thanks again!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 6:22 pm

Hi babygirl:

You could put your mom and stepdad's names in a sugar bowl, cover the papers with sugar, and pray that they will grow sweet to your husband. Then after a few days of praying over this sugar once a day, use some of that sugar to make baked goods to send to your parents. Menstrual blood use in food is more to get a man to be hooked to you romantically.

One thing I noticed: in one set of posts you're working on tying your husband's nature. Here, you mention that your mother hates the very *mention* of your husband's name. I'm curious to know if your mother knows or suspects that your husband has been stepping out on you, or has a wandering eye? That may be the source of her anger. It's just something to think about.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

babygirl · Unread post by **babygirl** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 6:34 pm

No, that's not it. I chose to tie his nature because of some things that have gone on over the past two weeks. He may not even be with anyone else. He says he's not, I want to make sure he's not. My mom and step dad don't like him because of things he has said to them in the past. Nothing ignorant, but they are just so stubborn it's ridiculous. They hold a grudge and just don't want to let it go. Our marriage is suffering because of the way they feel about him, and I refuse to choose between the two of them. I just want them to get along, I know they can because my husband and my mother are so much alike. I just wish they would let the past in the past and give him a chance to show them that he is not the piece of crap they make him out to be. Is there a good prayer I can use to pray over the sugar? How powerful is this sugar bowl going to be? I need some seriously strong stuff here to make them give in just a little. When I say they are stubborn, I mean extremely stubborn, and grudge is their middle names. They refuse to accept him no matter what we have done, and I am willing to make them eat anything just to get them to accept that we are together, and he will be here no matter what. So I need a really good prayer to go with this sugar, or something else to put in these cookies. You are great, thanks for the fast reply. I also messaged you about a question nobody else could answer and I need your advice on that. Thanks again!!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:28 pm

I would recommend a Peaceful Home honey jar and burning an Adam and Eve candle (or a white or pink candle dressed with Adam and Eve oil). You do not need to "choose" between your parents and your husband; however, he should come first.
A man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

vtfgx28 · Unread post by **vtfgx28** » Thu Dec 08, 2011 8:41 pm

I'm very lucky in that my parents and step-parents all get along reasonably well. That said, we are 2 years away from our wedding and my step-mom is already driving my mom crazy. She keeps talking to people about 'her daughter's wedding' and acting like she is the mother of the bride. She's a nice person, but she married my dad when I was in college and I never lived with them, so she's more like an aunt than a mother to me. We don't want to hurt her feelings and we want to include her in some things, but I don't want my mom to have to share her mother-of-the-bride spotlight. Since the wedding is so far away, it's mostly just been little comments and such so far, but we know there will be bigger issues when we get to things like seating for the ceremony and names in the program.
Would it be better to talk about everything now, before any problems arise, or would it be better to wait for an actual issue to manifest? It's possible that things will just work themselves out and we won't have any problems, but I don't want to ignore things too long and have her be shocked or offended closer to the wedding.
Thoughts?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 09, 2011 7:28 am

Make a Peaceful Home honey jar and add some sage and solomon seal root and lavendar to help with wisdom and clarity and harmonious cooperation between everyone. Give that a few weeks to take hold, and then just make casual mentions of how you're going to include your actual mother. Gage your step-mother's reaction. She may very well know that your mom will be getting the rightful Mother-of-the-Bride place, and just be being loving and supportive by making the comments she's been making.

Also, try to make at least one special thing for your step-mother in the wedding. That way she won't feel totally shafted, and will know you're making a place for her - even if it's not as big as your mother's role (as it shouldn't be). And let your mom know that you will not be compromising her role in the wedding.

It's sad how stressful all the family politics can make weddings - I feel for you.

BLESSING1014 · Unread post by **BLESSING1014** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 10:27 am

Hi All,

I have a pretty good relationship with my step son & in-laws but they are a large family & i want to get them all to favor me & really like me.

1) I was thinking a honey jar

2) I have a group photo of them & some individual photos as well. can i put more than one photo in same jar, or would it be better to take the group photo & face it to mine with honey & basil between?

3) I was think of adding peaceful home products.

4) maybe add a little compelling ???? (not sure)

however, i would like to hear input from others!

Thx LM friends!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:20 pm

BLESSING1014

1) A honey or sugar jar would be good. I think you might want to try the sugar version and use the sugar to cook food products which you can serve them to eat.

2) Of course you can put more than one photo in the honey jar. Please read the thread.

honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html

3) Peaceful Home herbs can go in the packets you place into the sugar or honey jar, but you would also want to use these products -- and or Peace Water -- around the home if there is any threat of stress. See these links:

http://luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

http://luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

4) DO NOT USE COMPELLING PRODUCTS IN A HONEY JAR. That is so wrong.

Like, "Here, honey, i love you, smooch-smooch, have a cookie, NOW DO WHAT I SAY, BITCH!

Oh, yes, that is really psycho.

BLESSING1014 · Unread post by **BLESSING1014** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 5:20 pm

lol! Thanks Ms. Cat i totally get it !!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:55 pm

Yeah, what Miss Cat said

It's unfortunate that "compelling" is sometimes used to mean "fascinating" or "irresistible." Compelling products are not that kind of formula at all. For irresistible-ness you need things like Attraction to draw people to you, like -- what are those things called -- LODESTONES!

Yes, put one of those in there!

Since this is Peaceful Home type work, you'd only need the one lodestone, not a matched pair.

Oh, and cloves, Balm of Gilead buds, and rose petals.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

BLESSING1014 · Unread post by **BLESSING1014** » Sun Jan 15, 2012 10:17 am

exactly, MissMichaele, Compelling, influence, i can you cant & Master!
I have these oils but have not used them much b/c im not exactly sure i would be using them correctly.
Im still need some clarity. I am reading a lot but ther is so much to read !

I have a few more things to order so that I can hopefully sign up for Ms. Cats course & better understand things!

Thanks!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jan 15, 2012 11:59 pm

BLESSING1014 wrote: exactly, MissMichaele, Compelling, influence, i can you cant & Master!

INFLUENCE would be PERFECT for that honey jar!

I have a few more things to order so that I can hopefully sign up for Ms. Cats course & better understand things!

Utter coolness! It'll change your life. I look forward to seeing you in the students' Yahoo group!

Miss Michaele

oceanblue · Unread post by **oceanblue** » Tue Feb 14, 2012 2:04 pm

Hi,

Please can you advice me as I'm a little confused. I would like to reconcile with my female best friend who is like a sister to me.

Her boyfriend tried to hit on me. Because I wouldn't sleep with him, he fed into my friends' head that I told him I had feelings for him and that I was jealous of her relationship with him.

My friend has never confronted me but believed his lies and withdrew from me but yet we were inseparable, just like birth-sisters.

I really want to reconcile with my friend however the Lucky Mojo Reconciliation spell kit contains a candle of a bride and groom. What would I use as a substitute for 2 girls?

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Feb 14, 2012 3:26 pm

A honey jar with Reconciliation products can be used to rekindle a friendship.

Also Lucky Mojo sells a "two brides" candle that can either be used for lesbian love or for sisterly love and friendship.It costs a little more than the bride-and-groom candle, but they will substitute it in your spell kit if you pay the extra cost.

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Wed Feb 22, 2012 6:36 pm

Help! My "husband" (may end up divorcing him!) favors his 2 previous children over ours.

I can give so many examples! His kids have slipped lately and spoke about many things he has done with them! This breaks my heart! For example, he has taken them to the movies, and to fun events, and to visit his family. He has done NONE of this with our kids (4 and 2).

For the past 9 months he claimed to "work" every weekend. Come to find out, he was picking up his kids and doing these nice things! It breaks my heart because my kids with him didn't get any of these nice things!

I confronted him on it and he told me that I "have problems" and gave excuses for his actions. He told me it was because he has a truck and cannot fit all the kids in and because he's "not working".

Okay - so I told him, that's fine but it should have been an every other weekend thing! Every weekend he took his kids off for fun, the following weekend he should have loaded up my kids to do the same. No response -- he just told me I "have problems".

And he hasnt been working, but found a way to make enough money to take his other kids places. Why not mine?

On his off weekends, he is "working" side jobs for cash. Why can he take a day off every other weekend for his other kids but not mine?

And when my kids try to cuddle, he doesnt! But when his other kids come over, he cuddles with them like they're the love of his life!

I've since kicked him out.

He calls his other kids like 5 times a day but he doesnt even call my kids every day!

I'm really considering divorcing him because this is only the tip of his favoritism and I cannot take anymore!

I need to find a way to open his eyes on how unfair he is to my kids and quit making excuses for his favoritism!

This is heartbreaking and its making me hate him! He diverts the attention away from his wrongs by twisting it like I have "issues" for getting upset over things.

Help!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:40 am

You can work a Peaceful Home or Influence Mind honey jar on him; adding his name, and the names of your two children with him into the jar, or a picture of all 3 of them together and happy. Petition that he will honor his responsibilities to your kids. Add some Blood Root, as that encourages the respect of blood ties.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

Blood root is here: http://www.herb-magic.com/blood-root.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 8:05 am

Some men just aren't as interested in babies, toddlers, and young children as we women are. The other two are probably older and can carry on a conversation on a more adult level and are able to do more "fun" things. Also, if you two are having problems, it may be his way of avoiding the issue.

Put some Attraction oil or powder on the children asking that he will drawn to them as a father and want to spend time with them.

misslady123 · Unread post by **misslady123** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 2:20 pm

Thank you both, I will try these suggestions. And I do agree that younger children may be less attractive for a father to spend time with but I have been in his life for 7 years and he would tote his others around EVERYWHERE since they were two! I've thought about it so much, and I know it is an excuse if he would say that.

kolikosmama · Unread post by **kolikosmama** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 4:32 am

hi every body, i'm new on this, but my question is, my life and my family is just fallen apart, i've been trying to re-unite my family, but every time i take the initiative it bounces back, i almost lost my life last year giving birth, i lost the baby in the proceess,since 2008 i've been trying to get my driver's license, every time i go i fail, i have another driving test next week, and i need help passing it if i fail again i can't go to work, i need the license very desperately, i need an amulet or special something, i've try praying but it get worse, this my last resort

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 5:50 am

I'm so sorry about the tragedies you've had in your life. The first thing I would suggest is getting a reading from a qualified rootworker to see what work is best for your situation:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

In the meantime, you should do some serious cleansing/uncrossing and healing work. Try the Uncrossing spell kit, which has all the materials you need in it to cleanse yourself and your house:

http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

For the drivers test, try working with Crown of Success and King Solomon's Wisdom products, as they will give you success and the wisdom to pass tests.

http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

kolikosmama · Unread post by **kolikosmama** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:58 am

hi MaryBee thanks alot for your suggestion, the thing is that i live outside the USA, buying those items and importing to Germany is another thing, i don't know if i can get such things here in Germany, i would greatly appreciate it. Thanks

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 2:38 pm

Johannes is a Lucky Mojo reseller and he lives in Sweden - that might work for you if importing from the US is too difficult.

ChokatLily · Unread post by **ChokatLily** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:27 am

I have spent my adolescence moving in and out of my parents home; drawn in by the urge to lend a helping hand both in finance and watching over a younger brother, who is dear to me and many years younger, and repelled by the lack of my personal space,and having to to tidy up after their uncleanliness, and just witnessing the chaos and irresponsibility rampant in that place. I also had to get out because as a sensitive person, the energy was just not good in that place, and i found it very difficult to discern where i should draw the line at how much i should do. So I have moved out again and i promised myself that its final and i have promised myself to help them financially while i am living on my own,but that is not enough for me.

I want to ensure financial abundance for my mom and dad ( they are not well to do in the first place)
My dad is not good with the drink either and it makes my mom and my younger brother very upset infact whenever he would come home after drinking it would be me who would have to somehow comfort/shield the sight from my brother. I want to help my parents also be alittle more health conscious because their diets are putting them under risk.Lastly, i want to help to help all my family members complete all he tasks they need done, improve their energy.

Is their some sort of container spell that could do all of the above?
I think i have had very good luck with a honey jar on my partner which i started a year ago and is still very strong ( then again i have added a poppet too ) both i have not touched for many months yet i think they have helped me.Its not that i am not willing to put in the necessary work, but i feel i have so much on my plate that it would be ideal to have a crown of success honey jar for the family that could remedy financial and over all health and emotional well being of my family.

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 9:18 am

Hi ChokatLily,

it sounds like you have a really full plate. Your devotion to your brother and mother is touching: do make sure, as witnessed by moving out, that you do take the time to nurture and care for yourself through all this. Keep in mind that your work may well help things on the family front, but that they also need to take responsibility for their own actions and decisions.

Rather than try and fit all of what you want to do into one bottle, and since you have had success with honey jars, why don't you get a Peaceful Home honey jar going for them with all their respective personal concerns. You could then burn a blue candle with Peaceful home oil on it Mondays, a green candle with Money Drawing oil on it Wednesdays/Thursdays and a White candle with Healing oil on it Sundays. That way you work the candles around the ultimate goal which is to keep the family happy and united. It may well help with the chaos and nasty energy in the place as well.

If you want to address some of those issues specifically, consider getting MISC to burn Cast Off Evil candles on your father to help rid him of the drinking problems (keep in mind, medical support and/or a 12 step program like AA are usually necessary to over-come a long-ingrained habit with drink - it really is quite a demon). Also suggest to your brother and mother support groups like Al-Anon and Alateen which help friends and families of alcoholics. Also getting a Blessing or a Crown of Success mojo for your brother also may help - it would be a helping hand and a piece of your intention he can keep with him even when you aren't there.

Blessings and strength to you.

ChokatLily · Unread post by **ChokatLily** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:18 pm

Thank you so much for your feedback Aura, I did not think about rotating different coloured candles on the peaceful home honey jar, but that already makes things alot easier.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:12 pm

Excellent advice aura. Good luck ChokatLily, you might post a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:39 pm

aura, what a wonderful, simple spell! I'd just like to suggest that ChokatLily add Cast Off Evil and King Solomon Wisdom to that honey jar.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 4:41 am

I have been estranged from my father for years, and the last time we hung out was also after years of no contact. I plan to call him to invite him to my college graduation, are there any spells to make him likely to respond? We have had no falling out, just contact fades

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 4:57 am

Reconciliation is not just for lovers. It can also be used to repair family and friend relationships.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 5:44 am

Reconciliation Spiritual Spells http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Also post a prayer request at Crystal Silence League (http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html)

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 6:10 am

If you phone him for the invite, I would also dress a personal handwritten note with powders. You could also smoke it with incense.
I also recommend King Solomon Wisdom Products and Clarity for his thinking.
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

For you: Crucible of Courage, Deers Tongue and Crown of Success for what you are trying to achieve.
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
You may be wondering why these? This is exactly what I would do if I were in your shoes. I have also been there right where you are. "Hey Dad, it's great to see you, how have you been for the last fifteen years"? Actually it did not go that bad, but I was nervous.

No matter what happens--at the graduation or in the future, you have accomplished a lot, you have much to be proud of and thankful for, especially for the family that has been there for you all these years.

Good luck to you and congrats!

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 6:44 am

As a parent, I have a difficult time imagining not being close with my daughters. I wish you the best in this, and will be send whatever bright thoughts I can. If you want to ask others to do the same, consider posting a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League:

http://crystalsilenceleague.org

Along with whatever work you do, this could certainly help.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:29 am

You might also add things like Influence and King Solomon Wisdom to your reconciliation work. Since you want to establish an ongoing relationship, it's probably worth putting him in a honey jar.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 12:49 pm

My advice was adding to the great advice given by Mama Micki and jwmcclin's. In other words, in this case reconciliation products, as well as prayers and requests to the Chrystal Silence League ,were very good recommendations. I agree 110 %.

I do not speak of my personal life much at all on the Forum unless I feel that it is absolutely necessary by way of a comparison.

I am very glad this thread was posted, and maybe I'll even take some of my own advice along with the advice of my fellow conjure practitioners! Again great thread, great advice by all, and good luck Mezan!

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Wed May 16, 2012 7:15 pm

My husband's step dad kicked us out today, us including my 4 y/o son. He stole our money and is refusing to let us get our things.

I was able to get my meds, my laptop, my box of oils/sachets/other small things and 1 sat of clothing for my son plus our tooth brushes. I'm going to get a police escort to go there and get our things, but we have no money and no where to go. We're staying with his sister for a few days but beyond that, I don't know. I even had to leave my 12 y/o cat that I raised from a kitten and I'm terrified she's not safe. I..I honestly don't know what to do, I have all my oils but no candles and no herbs.

I'm going to talk to state assistance tomorrow but...I don't even know. I'm going to try reaching out to the Virgin Mary but I have no candles to offer her. I'm scared. Plain and simple. I am terrified.

I just got my son back in Feb, I spent all my savings and my family's savings to get him back and then promptly lost my job due to illness. I will not lose him again.

This move was going to save us $1000 a month in rent alone and we just get thrown out on the street because the agreed upon amount of money wasn't good enough.
I just...help?

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Wed May 16, 2012 9:25 pm

First, let me say how sorry I am to hear of your troubles. Having a daughter of age with your son, I know the sick dread you're feeling for his safety, and your dear cat, too.

I will certainly keep you in my prayers. If you have not already, post a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League:

http://crystalsilenceleague.org/public/prayer_type.php

This will give others the chance to pray for you, as well. Missionary Independent Spiritual Church offers some services that may be of assistance to you. They will set a small emergency light on their altars for immediate need. You can find the contact information for that service here:

http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers also offers goods and services through their pro bono fund to those in need. I know you said you have a few supplies, but you should check it out, to see how they can help you:

http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Pro_Bono_Fund

Keep your chin up, and good luck. There are people out here who care.

Ad astra per aspera

Unread post by **Odessa** » Thu May 17, 2012 11:57 am

On the mundane level and having been through this with an ex abusive husband, Miss Liz, you can call the police and have them escort you to retrieve your belongings and cat. That is your property and you do have a right to that. I had to do it myself when I and my children left a life of abuse. He took our things and wouldn't let us have them when we left. Check with the local police to see if they will help you go get your families things as I don't know how the laws may go in other places.

Very sorry to hear that you have to go through this. I have been in the same boat. Thankfully, a family friend took us in for a year while I got my life back in order.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu May 17, 2012 2:19 pm

Great advice by all above. Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers.
I hope that someone in the community was able to help you today.
Take care.

GoodLuckNatalie · Unread post by **GoodLuckNatalie** » Thu May 17, 2012 8:15 pm

one thing that occurs to me is that many Catholic and at least a few Episcopal churches I've visited have a place for you to light a candle. As a non-Catholic, I'm not sure of the protocol, but I would guess you could light a candle to the Virgin Mary there.

Also, I second the recommendation for the Crystal Silence League. It's helped me and many others.

I hope you can retrieve your cat especially, since you and your family have made it out okay. Best of luck.

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Fri May 18, 2012 4:44 pm

I put up my request at the Crystal Silence League and prayed my heart out to both St. Martha and the Virgin.

Last night my husband was able to get his step dad to calm down, set some ground rules and we're ok again.

I was also able to get state cash assistance (after I burned a money draw candle and attraction incense) which also includes retroactive insurance (I had $50,000 in hospital bills my previous insurer decided not to cover from a work related illness that cost me my job) that covers mental health (which my previous insurer did not), over $500 in food stamps, and an automatic state shake down for child support from my ex even though he's in prison, which is a story for another day.

Thank you so much for your support and prayers, they worked so fast and LM money draw and attraction worked crazy well.

If there was ever a "omg this stuff works!" testimonial, this is it.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri May 18, 2012 5:38 pm

I glad things worked out for you. You are in our prayers.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri May 18, 2012 8:13 pm

Miss_Liz, so glad to hear that the tide is turning in your favour. Please keep posting at the Crystal Silence League and we will keep you in our prayers.

http://crystalsilenceleague.org

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Wed Jul 04, 2012 11:20 am

My boyfriend is locked up, and I was raising his children as my own when he was home. A family member has them now and has given me nothing but excuses as to why I can't see them. They were all really dumb ones, such as we are shopping that day, for example. (Seriously??) Anyway, I never had problems with this person before, and the kids' mother signed her rights away, so I know that couldn't be the source of the problem. I'm the only mother they know, and they are my only children. Stepchildren to be exact, but I never saw it that way. These children are little (not even in school yet), so I know they couldn't possibly be refusing to see me. My boyfriend has spoken to this relative on three-way with me and told them to let me see them, too, so I know the friction isn't coming from there, either.

Anyway, out my love for them, I sent money for them every week. Whenever this relative said they needed something for them, I paid for it without question. Of course, I did ask to at least visit them, and went from asking to have them for a weekend, to one day, then a few hours... the last time I asked, I offered to bring the whole family dinner so they could supervise the visit and nothing would look amiss to the kids. The relative has known me for years, and they know I would leave as quietly as I came. Still nothing. I've tried talking to this relative about what might be wrong, but that was dismissed as "nothing."

I am not expecting this relative to let me just have them, but I do want to see them. What can I do to sweeten this relative so they could let me spend time with the children? I don't know what will happen with my boyfriend's situation, but regardless of how that pans out, I want to be a part of the children's lives. They have bonded to me as I have bonded with them, and it hurts to just think of how abandoned they must be feeling now that they don't have either parent.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 3:33 am

Hi Psycic Mimi,

LM has a peaceful home honey jar that also works on relatives. Before taking out the big guns, perhapas just doing that honey jar can help ease things into a better space. The nice thing about the kit is that it already has all the herbs and materials you need: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar ''Peaceful Home & Family, CALM DOWN RELATIVES''. Make sure you pick up a dozen extra candles to keep the work going as it can take a little while before you see the effects.

Also send a prayer request into the Crystal Silence League which is a free and powerful way to get lots of people praying for and along with you: http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

Many Blessings and May you soon see your brood

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 8:16 am

I feel your pain and you will be in my prayers-- along with other mothers who are not able to be with their children. I'm going through something similar and the pain is unbelievable. I'm so sorry that you all are being treated this way.

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 8:59 am

Thank you for your suggestions and support. I'm placing an order, so I'll make sure to get what I need and try to work this situation out.

Tallahsheena · Unread post by **Tallahsheena** » Fri Jul 13, 2012 11:13 am

**This could also be filed under Business/Money, but at the heart of the matter is family discord.**

My mother started her own small business 35 years ago, and my older sister has been manager for the last 20+ years. My father and I work there as well, and we have 1 non-related employee. Non-relation is leaving us in the End of Summer/Early Fall (still no set date) and my sister has been making noises that she won't be far behind. However, she has been very reluctant to TEACH my dad and me how to run the books and computer software for the business. "I'll show you later" is her favorite phrase, but later never comes. She is terrified that we'll screw everything up and ruin the place, but she shows no signs of helping us learn. She started her own cottage industry that is faring well, better in fact than the family business, even to the point where she has thousands of FB followers, while Fam Biz has less than 60 (petty, i know, but it's very clear where her energy is directed).
My sister has never been a "cuddly" person, she very much a Crab (Cancer) or possibly a snapping turtle. If we try to do things another way or offer suggestions or anything to her about work, she either snaps at us, gets angry or defensive, and in one memorable occasion, packed up all her items from her side business that we had on display and cleared out 1/3 of our stock. TWO WEEKS BEFORE CHRISTMAS. People thought we were going out of business.
She and Non-Related Employee are very close and when it's just them working, nothing seems to get done except gossip. When there's 3 or more of us on staff, things get done, but the only one of us who works there full-time is Dad. He had a heart attack 2 years ago and the stress of this transition has driven his blood pressure up to scary levels, and yet nothing has been done or said to my sister for fear that she will lash out at him.

My mother is afraid to say anything, as she left the business in Sister's care and only has power as owner, not executive decisions. My father is completely stuck as he can't do anything without angering someone and his stress levels are far higher than they should be for his health. Non-Relation hasn't given a set date for her leaving yet, but once she's gone, I will be working there to fill in the gap and take over her duties.
I want to learn as much about running the place as I can, but my sister is afraid to teach me anything and won't listen to the suggestions I've made.

What can I do? I know Road-opening work can help, but I want to see if I can also work to improve the communication between my family members (we are notoriously bad at that) and get my sister to not be such a bitch. Please help!

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 10:52 am

Hi Tallahsheena,

you've got a very complex family dynamic at work and although you can and should definitely get the work started, you may also want to get a reading on the situation and request the help of a Professional Rootworker. AIRR has a line-up of reputable, reliable and ethical workers you can look through here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

To help your sister come around, some Peaceful Home work may be advised. A honey jar would work well and although they can be a little long to get going, they are long-lasting in their effects. If that doesn't work, then the compelling/Bend Over work would be called for.

For your honey jar, LM does have them ready to go with all the herbs you need here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar, the one best suited to the situation perhaps being the: Peaceful Home & Family, CALM DOWN RELATIVES. If you're going to craft your own, make sure that you get blood root in their since it tightens family ties and helps with the respect aspect that seems to be lacking in your sister's attitude: http://www.luckymojo.com/bloodroot.html. Five finger grass would also be a good addition since it helps getting favours: http://www.herb-magic.com/five-finger-grass.html as would Blue Flag which helps with money, particularly for women: http://www.herb-magic.com/blue-flag-root.html.

Do also spritz your place of work with Peace Water to keep tempers mellow and everyone getting along: http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html, the stuff works wonders!

Finally, please make sure that your father is getting the medical care he needs for his blood pressure, since that alone is a stressor that can have major consequences within your family unit.

Blessings and best of luck to you and your Mom and Dad.

Ed Des Sar · Unread post by **Ed Des Sar** » Mon Aug 06, 2012 2:56 pm

Hello everyone,
I would appreciate it if you could help me with getting my "mother" to realize that she has 4 children, not one. My mother has 4 children but she is only there for one of us. She is very loving, supportive and a perfect mother to one of my sisters. However, as far as the rest of us are concerned it's like we do not exist. She gives us no support, and she does not care about us or her grandchildren. I know it sounds odd, but she is actually worse than I am stating. We all all are adult children by the way, but she has been this way since we were children. When we try to bring this problem to her attention she gets upset and refuses to discuss it. I do not have a relationship with her, and I am fine with it but for some reason my other siblings are still there for her, and even though they are adults they desperately want her love and attention. My question is "Is there something that they can do to have her care for them and her grandchildren and finally recognize that she has more than one child?"

P.S. The child that she favors was born when she was married but the rest of us were born out of wedlock, maybe this has something to do with it.

Thanking you all in advance for all your help and support.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Aug 06, 2012 9:08 pm

1. I would get a reading to see why she treats the children born out of wedlock this way. Perhaps she feels guilty or someone made her feel guilty so on. As a result I would get a reading to really get down to the reason why she is feeling this way.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

2. You could start by doing some clarity and king solomon wisdom to begin to open up her eyes and mentally.
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom
3. Perhaps you could do a love me honey jar and add some blood root to strengthen the blood ties between you your siblings and your mother
http://www.herb-magic.com/blood-root.html.
www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

believingforthebest · Unread post by **believingforthebest** » Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:09 pm

What oils can I wear to get my boyfriend's family and friends to like me and have good feels about our relationship... I also need something powerful to use on his sister because she doesnt like me.

There is no way I can get any personal items from his family or friends, what can I use instead?

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Sun Sep 09, 2012 9:24 pm

I'd start by posting a prayer request with the Crystal Silence League - this is a powerful way to gather people who will pray on your behalf and it is free (yay!): http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/

Use the peaceful home products ( http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html ). There is a peaceful home - calm down relatives honey jar kit that comes with everything ( http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar ). Make sure to get extra candles so that you can keep the honey jar work going. You don't want to scramble to find a particular candle at the last minute when you could already have had them ready to go.

While you are waiting for your order, keep trying to get personal concerns. Start by looking through social networking sites and pick through the photo albums there.

Find an occasion or excuse to be in the neighborhood if not in their home, and excuse yourself to use the bathroom. Even in the cleanest bathroom there is usually something you can use, be it hair from a hairbrush, used clothing… whatever. Just get it!

Another idea is to have them over. There are lots of football fans in this world and this is football season. A little gathering to watch the game could be an opportunity for you to be the ever so helpful girlfriend who cleans up behind them... little appetizers can be eaten with toothpicks... smokers leave behind cigarette butts... If not football, there has to be some excuse you can draw up to have them come to you.

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Mon Sep 10, 2012 8:56 am

I second what psychic Mimi has said above

The Crystal Silence League is a great resource to turn to, you'll be amazed at the things that can happen with collective prayer

Beyond a honey jar, which was suggested above, I would recommend wearing peace water. It is something that can be spritzed on before having an encounter with the family.