Menstrual Blood Magic Questions and Answers

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun Aug 23, 2009 8:37 pm

golda wrote:This is a very good advice. Thanks for sharing this. I have a question, will a salt bath do sufficient cleansing?

Salt is good for "upkeep," which means you have already thoroughly cleansed yourself first, but something much stronger must be used for the initial cleansing. I like the 13 herb bath.

Mary

mabel · Unread post by **mabel** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:29 am

Hi Mary,

Is it necessary to do the cleansing bath right before you know u r gonna sleep with the guy? My concern is say i did the bath but he did not sleep with me, but maybe a few nights later, will that work? Its kinda hard to know when he'll wanna sleep with me so I wonder as long as we did the bath, and even when we sleep together a few nights later, will he still be cleansed for me?

And i might not have access to his home to wash down his house with the chinese wash, thus does this matter?

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:35 am

mabel wrote:Hi Mary,

Is it necessary to do the cleansing bath right before you know u r gonna sleep with the guy? My concern is say i did the bath but he did not sleep with me, but maybe a few nights later, will that work? Its kinda hard to know when he'll wanna sleep with me so I wonder as long as we did the bath, and even when we sleep together a few nights later, will he still be cleansed for me?

And i might not have access to his home to wash down his house with the chinese wash, thus does this matter?

Nothing is "necessary." This is what I do before I become intimate with a man. I like to cover my bases and start on good ground. The bath is for him, not you. You would be giving him the bath before you became intimate with him, since you have already slept with him, it does not matter. The same for the Chinese Wash.

You can clean him up, but you are already intimate with him and this is best before having sex with a guy.

Mary

MrsGemini · Unread post by **MrsGemini** » Fri Aug 28, 2009 2:33 pm

my hubby and i have been together for many years and lately he hasnt been himself he even looks different sort of glassy eyed and acts different. he all of a sudden needs space and i just had his child. i found out hes sleeping with a woman who is into something called santa maria what am i to do to get my hubby back.

mrs gemini

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 1:31 am

My friend is doing a binding spell for herself and her boyfriend. She needs to use a red rope, thread; something to bind the 2 candles together, but the problem is that she doesn't know what to use because she is fearful that what ever she uses to tie the candles together will burn and not keep the candles together. So would you say that it's a good idea to use a polyester type rope? What would you suggest?

Thank you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:10 am

She can do a binding spell by using herbs such as knot weed aka ladies thumb accompanied by some stay with me powder, and/or some calamus root, and some other lover controlling herbs/oils. In this case, i would probably use some wire to bind them together so that it does not burn, but it doesnt matter because when it burns its not going to hold them together so I would just tied the remains together. Also, she can put some menstrual blood into his food or drink that will bind them together as well.

anyuta · Unread post by **anyuta** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:19 pm

Hi all!
I need help or an advice to help my brother out.
My brother is seeing an older married woman for over a year now. He is in his twenties, and the lady is almost 40.
She is not divorced, with two children of almost my brothers age. Her son is 20 years old, and her daughter 13. As far as I know, her husband is a truck driver, so very often is out of town for weeks. I don't know how they've met each other, but the situation has gotten out off hands.
To make long story short, I just tell that everyone in my family is against this relationship, and this is like a tragedy for my parents. Before this woman, my brother used to be a very happy, full of life person. He had a lot of friends, great humor, very easy going. Now he is the most miserable person, hardly smiles, always depressed, always fights with my parents, has hardly have any friend left. He has changed a lot in his behavior. No one understands what is going on with him. The conversations and the arguments, that this woman is not a match for him have been going on for a year now. It gets on everybody's nerves. My mom went to different psychic readers, they all said that there is a spell on him, and most likely, the lady used her mens blood. They tried to pray over his clothes or whatever, but nothing works.
Can anyone , please, help me with an advice how to break the spell? How will that effect on my brother. Would it harm his mental conditions, because that's what I've heard, that if different sides cast spells on someone, the person might not be able to handle it, and they end up being mentally ill.
Thank you

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 1:43 pm

Bear in mind that a woman feeding a man her stuff will not make him depressed angry or anti social it will tie that man to her, that's all.

A spiritual bath would be how I would go. A Thirteen herb bath to be specific. No i don't think that taking off whatever work this woman may or may not have done to this man will hurt him.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatbaths.html#herbbaths
Then if they are still together you may want to look into Break Up spells and remember once this man is cleansed he will need protection as well.

anyuta · Unread post by **anyuta** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 3:33 pm

Thank you so much HailDiscordia! I am very new to all these, I joined the website couple of months ago, and I've been an observer until now.
He probably will never go for spiritual bath. He considers these kind of things absurd. What kind of protection will he need?
Again, thank you for your tips.

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun Aug 30, 2009 3:40 pm

In that case, you might want to hire a professional worker to do a spiritual cleansing at a distance for him.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

then you'd also get advice on what protection and break-up work to proceed.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:42 am

HI Mrs. Gemini,

I am going to take a guess that your hubby is sleeping with a woman who is into Santaria, not Santa Maria. Santa Maria is Saint Mary. Santaria is a system of magic derived from Mexican, African, Cuban, and in some cases Carribean sources and as such is not an appropriate topic for this forum which is dedicated to Hoodoo, a system of magic derived from African Americans, Native Americans, and Anglo Americans originally in the Southern region of the USA.

Now as to your question. The first thing i would do is a get a reading by a reputable reader. You can find a list of readers here: www.readersandrootworkers.org
They will be able to better assess your situation and suggest what kind of rootwork would be appropriate to your case. One thing you will definitely want to do is clean and uncross the man, because the condition you are describing sounds to me like he is being compelled to be with this other woman. Again, I would suggest that you get a reading to verify that.

Good luck,
Bri

mzchoc · Unread post by **mzchoc** » Mon Aug 31, 2009 3:13 pm

Hi I was get wondering I did this last night I put some in a carton of juice it was not full .it had about three glass ofjuice left in it .And he drink it three time .Once last night and twice today .So how long does it take to work .Or do I need too do it two more time. please let me know. I used a lot of blood about 10 drops i think

FLIGHTY1 · Unread post by **FLIGHTY1** » Wed Sep 02, 2009 1:33 pm

HELLOOOOO!!!! IM NEW TO THIS SITE BUT HAVE LOTS OF EXPERIENCE I ALSO PREFORMED ON MY NOW HUSBAND I HAVE CHEATED ON HIM EVERYTHING STILL WONT GO AWAY. ALSO DID IT ON MY BOYFRIEND WE BROKE HE BEGGED ME BACK I WENT FOR IT BECAUSE HE WENT DOWN TOWN ON ME IN FRONT OF MY HOUSE COULD NOT REFUSE HIM BUT HE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN STILL TRYING TO GET BACK WITH ME DONT WANT NOTHING BUT TH X. HE AND MY HUSBAND BOTH TRIED NTO KILL ME DUE TO THERE OBSESSION NOT WORTH IT AT ALL I AMM ALL SCATED UP FROM THIS.

ItsAConvolutedJoke · Unread post by **ItsAConvolutedJoke** » Wed Sep 02, 2009 1:46 pm

FLIGHTY1 wrote:HELLOOOOO!!!! IM NEW TO THIS SITE BUT HAVE LOTS OF EXPERIENCE I ALSO PREFORMED ON MY NOW HUSBAND I HAVE CHEATED ON HIM EVERYTHING STILL WONT GO AWAY. ALSO DID IT ON MY BOYFRIEND WE BROKE HE BEGGED ME BACK I WENT FOR IT BECAUSE HE WENT DOWN TOWN ON ME IN FRONT OF MY HOUSE COULD NOT REFUSE HIM BUT HE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN STILL TRYING TO GET BACK WITH ME DONT WANT NOTHING BUT TH X. HE AND MY HUSBAND BOTH TRIED NTO KILL ME DUE TO THERE OBSESSION NOT WORTH IT AT ALL I AMM ALL SCATED UP FROM THIS.

Um, are you asking a question? I can't tell.

Anyway they are acting that way probably because they were predisposed to being obsessive and violent, you feeding them your stuff didn't turn them into bad people,they already were.

Also, go edit your post, typing in all CAPS means yelling and you will get no help yelling at people.

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Fri Sep 04, 2009 11:32 am

i just started feeding my man my menses. the first day was with fresh blood, and worked like a charm. he wanted to make love while i was still on my period, for the first time in 5 years! so i froze some of it and have continued to add it to different foods with no further effect. could it be that the freshness has something to do with it?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Sep 04, 2009 6:40 pm

Freshness is best, but i have gotten good results with dried and with frozen. Actually, better results with dried than with frozen, to tell the truth.

And, remember, women with no periods due to PCOS, women who are pregnant, women who have had a hysterectomy, post-menopausal women, and transwomen can substitute a drop of urine or sexual fluids as a traditional equivalent to menstrual blood.

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Fri Sep 11, 2009 6:04 am

These two pages are useful

"Hoodoo in Theory and Practice"
BODY FLUIDS IN HOODOO: MENSTRUAL BLOOD, SEMEN, and URINE by catherine yronwode
https://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html

"Hoodoo in Theory and Practice"
I DOMINATE MY MAN: HOODOO SPELLS OF FEMALE DOMINATION by Catherine Yronwode
http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Sep 11, 2009 7:54 am

There is already a thread about menstrual blood so no need to start a new one. I suggest going and reading that thread to understand what is going to happen.

In the future, please do a forum search chances are your questions have already been answered in previous threads.

sunseer88 · Unread post by **sunseer88** » Sun Sep 13, 2009 8:56 am

So if we are dong a cleansing on the guy are we literally cleansing the guy, meaining does the guy have to take the 13 herb bath? I have some uncrossing bath water in a spray bottle. if I spray that around his home, car and his business area. along with lighting the white candle could that be an effective cleansing. Also I've already been giving him things with my menstrual blood in it regularly and I have been getting a response. is it okay to keep "feeding" him while doing the cleansing? Thanks.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 1:22 am

HI people

can somone answer this thred please TY

Well i would love to use Menstrual Blood but the problem is my Male to female Transexual, and i dont have any

so what would i use instead? I do orgasm and produce and kinda watery liquid like 2 drops, would i use that with urnine, and would it have the same effect?

And how me originnally being born a male have the effect of feeding another genetic male my juice work,, im alittle confused and envious of all u menstruating women-- he he

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:13 am

I have the greatest of respect for you and what you have gone through. I have huge admiration for people like you who have gone through so much change, and it will affect your magical abilities in a positive manner. My suggestion to you would be yes, use your sexual fluids. I'd mix it with blood rather than urine though - you feel in your blood and bones that you're a woman, so that would reinforce the feminane nature of what you're trying to attempt. Also, it will be bloody and from 'down there'. That will increase it's sympathetic resemblance to menstrual blood, making it more likely to work. There isn't a lot of traditional material available for people in your situation, so you'll need to improvise and go with your best instincts. Put your power and intent into it, and it'll work for you.

bellasr34 · Unread post by **bellasr34** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:04 am

if you want to keep a man to stay with you can you use frozen menstrual blood if he isn't around when you have it, but then you can use if he is.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 8:55 am

Do a forum search as this question has been asked at least three times.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:39 am

Hi NotDorianGray

Well i have been through allot yes, first the torment of Society growing up, then freinds and family leaving my side. Lifes been a whirlwind, all i want now is to get some mutual respect from the guy i love, hes so distance and constantly compareing me, at first he was heads over heels, but eventually its kinda faded away, hes fishing elsewhere and i kno it, but i feel what u have wrote , im going to masturbate and collect my fluids, i might also have a shave down there and with the tiny cuts in and around my vagina ill collect my blood and keep it in a bottle in the fridge fresh for him to be fed.. ill let u kno the results xxx

Thank u love Bubba

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:37 pm

Just remember you're a woman, and you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Best of luck with your work.

NessaNessa · Unread post by **NessaNessa** » Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:34 pm

Ive always wondered about this.

It's common for some men, not all of course, to ingest menstrual blood during oral sex (some don't mind going there during that time) and I've always wondered why it doesn't seem to have an effect on them. I mean were talking about feeding it to men to get them hooked/obsessed/bewitched or whatever you'd like to call it so I'm curious as to why it works when you intentionally feed it to them as opposed to them simply ingesting it by accident..or intentionally through sexual contact. Is it the energy..the thought, the intent behind when you're feeding it to them that magnifies the possible effect? Many men still lie, cheat, treat their women like garbage and aren't at all bound to their woman or enthralled I'd guess you say despite having consumed her blood numerous times. Maybe I'm not saying it right, I'm not sure but I hope you can understand what I'm getting at. Is it the spell/work you're putting into that makes the blood do the trick or does the blood just by itself have some sort of compelling, controlling property because I've read and heard for years that women have done this and it's worked, that they've done nothing more than feed their mate blood with no spellwork involved, no incantations, candles or anything else.

NotDorianGray · Unread post by **NotDorianGray** » Tue Sep 15, 2009 4:54 am

The weight of tradition and the power inherent in any sexual/vaginal fluid lend inherent power to the intention. For example, the tradition and the fluids are like an unlit fire. The intention is like the match that lights it. it only takes a tiny spark, because many hands have been adding wood to that fire for many years. No magic will work without intent or willpower being utilised in some way, but in this instance little is required due to the nature and age of the spells involving ingestion of menstrual blood.

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 8:54 pm

I know there were already many topics on this but most of it were people posting positive results etc. I like to know in what cases when menstration blood doesnt work on target?

Unread post by **spencey** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 8:56 pm

Here is a good question and if I have overlooked the answer please forgive me and let me know. If a man is feed menstruation blood, how does one break the spell or essentially get it out of his system?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:06 pm

spencey wrote:Here is a good question and if I have overlooked the answer please forgive me and let me know. If a man is feed menstruation blood, how does one break the spell or essentially get it out of his system?

This has been answered, in this thread I think, but in short you would have the man take a cleaning bath, the Thirteen Herb bath would be best.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun Sep 20, 2009 6:03 am

I'm not sure that I understand your question.
Are you asking if there are cases where feeding a man your menstrual blood does not work?
Certainly there are. Situations where the man is in love with someone else, or just does not have any romantic feelings towards the lady in question will not be radically changed by feeding menstrual blood.

take care,
Bri

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:03 pm

nemesis wrote:I know there were already many topics on this but most of it were people posting positive results etc. I like to know in what cases when menstration blood doesnt work on target?

I have replied to this a few times. You might want to do a thread search on this.

In my experience, menstrual blood does not work when there is not a strong physical attraction to the female. I think there are biological reasons for that. Do some googling about human attraction and you will see some interesting information about this.

If a woman has been steadily feeding her blood to a guy with no results, then he is not too physically into her. That is what I have seen. When the guy is very physically attracted to a woman, all it takes is a bit of the menstrual blood and the guy will be hooked.

That is what I have seen and experienced.

Mary

FLIGHTY1 · Unread post by **FLIGHTY1** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 10:29 am

What if the person has been tricked

and I was told that if you force something on a person if won't last because of that free will thing and it is easy to break it off with the person, and that him taking your menstrual is more of a lust thing than anything your sexual desire enhances. I had someone do it with his own free will to keep me at that time, use of everyone working against us with this science (hoodoo,voodoo,obeah) if you will

and things we have done to people and each other we have broken up but still find away to sneak around each other at night or go to outing together, but he still takes a chance and bringing me in the house where his old ex now his new friend can find us together but he is very scared at the same time because since she found out that he is talking to me again she just shows up usually I have just left and he can't perform for her right away if at all. So thats been my experience with it.

nemesis · Unread post by **nemesis** » Wed Sep 23, 2009 3:31 pm

Thanks all for your insight and advice. So does that mean that the guy will be hooked for life or should one keep feeding him to keep it working? Does that also mean that the guy will only be physically hooked and nothing else like maybe fall even deeper in love?

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Fri Sep 25, 2009 10:57 am

Good question, nemesis.. that's something I was wondering myself! hopefully someone here has the answer

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sat Sep 26, 2009 1:08 pm

nemesis wrote:Thanks all for your insight and advice. So does that mean that the guy will be hooked for life or should one keep feeding him to keep it working? Does that also mean that the guy will only be physically hooked and nothing else like maybe fall even deeper in love?

Again, thread search on this PLEASE!

These questions have been asked at nausium.

Will some men be hooked for life? Maybe, unless someone comes along and cleans him up. Will the guy only be "physically" into the woman? Is the guy shallow, then yes. I suggest some research into evolutionary biology about this subject. There are many physical/biological reasons for why men respond the way they do in this area.

Most women who do this continuouslyfeed the target their menstruation blood. Again, so much depends on the man.

Mary

blackforrest · Unread post by **blackforrest** » Wed Sep 30, 2009 4:00 am

starsinthesky7 : i think your comments and suggestions are truely awesome.

I dont care how this topic started whether it was righ or wrong but the title said it, stopping cheating, and you gave some amazing suggestions.

Kelpie · Unread post by **Kelpie** » Thu Oct 01, 2009 10:10 am

Hi,

I'm planning on working the Hoodooing A Man's Nature Spell. Before I start, I would like to clarify a few points. Hope someone is able to enlighten me.

My partner is a morning person. He springs out of bed aft sex and goes to shower. He never sleeps aft sex. Can I tie the knots while he is in the shower and call out to him to respond while he is showering to tighten the knots?

Also, I don't think I can call out to him nine times while he is in the shower without appearing suspicious. Can I work on the remainder of the knots throughout the day when I am by his side?

If I may do that, do I have to keep it moist?

And if yes to that too, I ought to be able to continue the knotting by re-wetting the string by adding water to it as suggested on Cat's article right? (The answer is simple: Traditional old spells that originated long before artificial refrigeration was developed simply call for drying the fluid on a piece of cloth or a string. Soaking the cloth or string in liquid will re-activate the fluid.)

Thanks so much for your replies. I am pretty new to this and hope to get it right.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Oct 01, 2009 1:05 pm

Kelpie wrote: My partner is a morning person. He springs out of bed aft sex and goes to shower. He never sleeps aft sex. Can I tie the knots while he is in the shower and call out to him to respond while he is showering to tighten the knots?

Yes you can.

Kelpie wrote:Also, I don't think I can call out to him nine times while he is in the shower without appearing suspicious. Can I work on the remainder of the knots throughout the day when I am by his side?

As I was taught you do the nine knots on nine different days, each time using fresh semen. You do not have to do it nine days in a row, or all on one day.

Hope that helps

Kelpie · Unread post by **Kelpie** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 1:40 am

Thanks HailDiscordia! That was helpful!

Quite unfortunately, my partner and I live in 2 different countries, 3 hours apart and I see him only once a month. Hence, I'll still try and finish the job in the 3 days I see him, rewetting the string each time before I call out and tighten the knot.

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:48 am

I use a mooncup which collects my menstrual blood, so I tipped it into a bowl and dried it with heat, then ground it up into powder while mentally repeating what I desire it to do..

I figured that it would be more convenient and hygienic than keeping it in a freezer or fridge, since if it's still liquid it could decompose and smell more pungent then it already is

It also has the added benefit of looking like pepper or seasoning, so it's easy to sprinkle some over a plate of pasta or even mixed into a bag of potato chips, which is what I did, hahaha

So would this still be as effective as dried or "reactivated" (adding water to dried fluids) menstrual blood?

Thank you very much in advance for your answers, I'm learning SO MUCH from this wonderful forum!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 8:01 am

I had not heard of a

mooncup

prior to your posting...its advertised as being more hygienic. I do not see any reason why your method wouldn't work, it is still your menses and if you have read other forums here, you have probably come across

dried semen

being used in spells.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 8:13 am

Blood is blood is blood. Dried blood is fine.

take care,
Bri

silver_disc · Unread post by **silver_disc** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 8:45 am

Thank you very much, Bri and jwmcclin for your help!

Oh, and by the way, a mooncup is a menstrual cup that is used in the place of a pad or tampon, which collects the menstruum rather than absorbing it.

Just a little shoutout to any menstruating women reading this to recommend the Mooncup, (hopefully I'm not breaking any forum posting rules- if I am, go ahead and delete this post!) because it makes it incredibly easy to "harvest" more blood for use in spellwork, without too much fuss

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:10 pm

Ok, so I got reeeeally lucky and sneaked menstrual blood on my target's drink yesterday. I was able to swish a tampon - and even squeeze it! on his berry drink. I sent it to him via a mutual friend who did not say it was from me, and I know he drank it. Question: will it still have the intended effect if we are not speaking to each other and are not spending any time together? Reading the menstrual blood threads. it seems this is for people who still ARE with their targets and just want to keep them, as opposed to bringing them back, so I wonder if he will still be affected even though he doesn't see me but in passing sometimes. He is very physically attracted to me.

If this has been answered somewhere, my apologies - I looked but did not find anything that answered this question. There seem to be so many caveats to this...

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:57 pm

I would imagine as long as the physical attraction is there, it should (at the very least) have some positive effect on the target. I'm not sure how it works on bringing the target back though.

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Fri Oct 02, 2009 6:27 pm

That's what I am hoping too (for positive effect). I just thought that since it makes men "obsessed", as has been described here, then that in itself may make him want to talk to me again, yet when I went thru all the posts i found people either don't specify, or they are still involved with the target.
Hmmmm.....

Dee_2 · Unread post by **Dee_2** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 6:19 pm

Hi Dani

I think it will still work...if it's going to, it will regardless of whether you are talking...unless the target is very strong willed about NOT having contact with you. I have used MB in honey jars...and oh baby...they worked well

MB is pretty powerful stuff.

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 6:45 pm

Thanks! In your experience, do you know if it takes effect quickly, or if it takes time to see results?

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:36 pm

In my experience, MB can make the target more responsive/eager if you have some interaction. If the target and you are separated - and he is angry at you, or has a coldness in his stomach towards you - the red won't 'drive' him to call you or come back to you. Obsession doesn't necessarily mean initiative or reunion, so you might want to contact him to see if it's taken effect. (Effects of MB should be quite immediate)

If you want to encourage contact, I recommend using deer's tongue leaves on a pink candle dressed with attraction/reconciliation oil, alone or on a honey jar. If you use a 7 day candle, glue the target's photo on the glass. Work every night. Talk to the target's spirit gently, as if you're speaking from his perspective.

Dani2 · Unread post by **Dani2** » Mon Oct 05, 2009 9:34 am

Thanks, Cabriellenil, I will try that!

Ms. D · Unread post by **Ms. D** » Wed Oct 07, 2009 4:29 pm

Oh wow, thanks for the tip.
This is actually perfect for someone like me that HAS to "harvest" when possible since they are few and far between....great tip.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Thu Oct 08, 2009 6:18 pm

...a married man who is EXTREMELY sexually attracted to you (and have had sexual relations with) and who is not too happy at home? I would be honoured if any of the moderators would also add their comments. Thanks!

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Thu Oct 08, 2009 6:24 pm

I would imagine that it would have the same effect on a single guy if the attraction is there. I highly doubt it's going to make him up and leave his wife though. If he's already cheated on his wife and still hasn't left her, something is keeping him there and that would have to be addressed.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Thu Oct 08, 2009 6:57 pm

thelightfantastic wrote:I would imagine that it would have the same effect on a single guy if the attraction is there. I highly doubt it's going to make him up and leave his wife though.

That is why I'm asking this question. I wonder how much of an effect the blood would have on someone in his situation. He is not happy with his wife, he has been cheating on her for 2 years now. I think he stays because he feels sorry for her and because of their children. He is madly attracted to me and I think he loves me, but I'm not sure. He HAS told me that his life would be 'sh**ty' without me and that he wants me in it forever. Anyways, our story is a long one and complicated one, but one that has to be resolved one way or the other. I'm thinking of getting a reading done. Any suggestions?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 08, 2009 7:59 pm

...the purpose of the menses is to bind a man to you not to make him leave anyone...that is a different intent...

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 12:56 am

Like jwmcclin said, feeding your menstrual blood to a man is a binding sort of thing. It would be fairly pointless to bind him to you while he's married to someone else as that's not addressing the root of your problem. As for the reading, yeah, they're pretty much always a good idea if you're unsure about a situation. You can try a reader listed at the AIRR.

Macbaby · Unread post by **Macbaby** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 6:01 am

How do I address the root of my problem? What should I do? Is there anything I CAN do? He's stuck because of his 'responsibilities'.

egyptianqueen · Unread post by **egyptianqueen** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:08 am

take my advice, if he is cheating on his wife. he will cheat on you, Good luck

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:53 am

egyptianqueen wrote:take my advice, if he is cheating on his wife. he will cheat on you, Good luck

I agree wholeheartedly! Do you want to be in his wife's place a few years down the line? Rarely, do men leave their wives.

I would do a cut & clear and forget him.

Mary