Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

Allsgood · Unread post by **Allsgood** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 6:42 pm

Man, that seems so hard. I literally don't want anything to do with him. He's manipulative, abusive , selfish, degrading and hurtful. He curses at my father like he is a homeless man on the street asking for change ( he even knocked a homeless guy out who asked him for change) I am not making this up. I did a favor for him which was pick up his kids from school and brought thme home and he cursed me out!

Either way Cat, your suggestions are Honey Jar, Peace water and candles, love and money work for my boyfriend and boss fix and crown of success and money stay with me? Wow, how will I keep up with all of that. Anyway, my boyfriend is working and was the only one working since I had our baby up until now. He was supposed to be "up for a promotion" & we had our fingers crossed and he came home with Employee of the month plaque. I am hoping thats not the end of the road. What can I do specifically to increase his finances? As well as some work to keep him with me (loving me and faithful... we've been going through some turmoil over the past weeks)

Next, what would you recommend I get for my own job success? I did have my eye on Crown of Success but I literally just started the job 3 weeks ago. It's a company that I want to stay with if there is growth and an increase in pay in the near future.

I will look into a bulk order and get on the Honey Jar and peaceful home supplies but I really would like to include something to increase our (boyfriend and I) finances so that we can move as well as pay off our debt as well as keep his eyes only on me. p.s. this is a random thought I just wanted to share.

I looked into "money stay with me products" and I cringed because I just love to shop. lol I guess I have to change my mindset huh? I'm probably hoping to get more money so that I can move and GO SHOPPING....

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 7:46 pm

It sounds like you have a good deal of work you want to do, and that can get overwhelming for anyone. I would recommend that you consider hiring a rootworker to work on your behalf to keep the load on yourself down to a minimum.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Sep 12, 2010 11:13 pm

Hiring a rootworker can definatley help if you feel overwhelmed with performing such work for yourself. Burning candles at MISC is also a wonderful alternative.

I am fully with Miss cat. At this point in time using magick in an aggressive manner may only worsen your situation and you have your baby and family situation to consider. Work on sweetening people and keeping the peace.

Money Drawing, Money Stay with Me, Steady Work, and Crown of Success are all means by which you can find a good paying job, keep the money you earn, and excell at your profession.

Good luck.

Allsgood · Unread post by **Allsgood** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:59 pm

I really wish I could. But EXTREMELY broke now to spend that type of money.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:05 pm

Start simple. A $20.00 honey jar spell kit contains everything you need, including honey, a candle, a candle holder, oil, and herbs. You can add an extra dozen candles for $4.50 is you want to live large.

Next month order a bottle of Peace Water ($5.25), a packet of Money Stay With Me Sachet Powder to sprinkle on your cash ($5.50), and a bottle of Crown of Success Oil for you and your boyfriend ($7.50). That's a total of $18.50. If you could not afford that extra dozen candles last month, add them in this month.

Just take it slow and easy.

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 7:20 am

Hello everyone! I have a difficult situation that I would like some advice about, sorry it's so long...

My daughter and my husband (not her bio father) have known each other since she was 2. They were as close as if they were blood related and he treated her as if she was his own child. About 5 years ago, my daughter started giving us some trouble. She wanted to date a boy of an inappropriate age, didn't think she had to listen to us about anything, etc. Fairly typical teenage idiocy. But, this situation was aggrivated by her bio father and his wife. They encouraged her to see the boy we said no to, even helping her see him on their visitation weekends. They told her that she didn't have to listen to our rules, that grades didn't matter, that we were just controlling and horrible. They even tried to take me to court to gain custody of her. The things they did just tore our family apart. And they were relentless about it. I felt like I was the only one holding my little family together, the only one that had faith that we could get through this. My husband was about ready to pull out of this family, this is not what he had signed up for.

Then, I had a dream. I was sitting on the front porch of a beautifully restored Victorian house. My dream house. It was about 70 degrees outside and all around the house, prairie grasses were waving in the wind. It was my dream house and perfect environment. Up the path, and then the stairs, walks a Native American man. He is very tall and very thin. He is wrapped in a blanket and is wearing a buckskin loincloth and a beaded chest plate. He comes up to me with a very big smile and warmly asks me if I would like to know what my animal totem is. I say "yes". He tells me "a puma". I say, "like the cat"? And he laughs and says "yes". Then I wake up. I've never had such a vivid dream in my life. I did some research online about Native American animal totems, and saw a lot of depth and meaning in this particular animal for me at this time. The animal knows when to pounce, when to lay in wait, and is a very protective mother...a very good mother. I took this as a sign to take this matter to the next level. Stop being the victim and punching bag (which is exactly how I was feeling). I had been listening to the Lucky Mojo podcast and had a few ideas on things I wanted to try.

I made a honey-picture with my husband, my daughter, and my picture. I buried it at our front door. I ordered the Peaceful Home candle, said the 23rd Psalm every time I lit it, and when it was done, buried that at the front door too. Then, there were some cracks in the ice. My daughter started coming around and slowly going back to the wonderful kid she used to be. My husband took a while and finally was able to tolerate her, and eventually we got back to somewhat normal. She was less close to her dad and his wife and felt so bad that she was sucked into their negativity. This is over a span of about 3 years. In that time I had 2 baby boys...back to back. For the last 2 years things have been better, a little touch-and-go, but still better.

Until recently. My daughter has turned 18, and the negativity between her and my husband has escalated again. It has gotten ugly and frankly, out of left field. He has gotten to the point where he can't stand her and has given me an ultimatum...it's either him or her. One of them has to go. This is breaking my heart. I'm not sure why things have to be so difficult, why small things get completely blown out of proportion on both their sides. My husband is wonderful, he really is...and my daughter is young, with a lot to learn, but has massive amounts of potential. I want things to be back to the way they were, all those years ago. I burnt another Peaceful Home candle about 6 months ago, but I haven't seen too much of a shift. I think I need something stronger to heal this up. I also need something that will be fast-acting...before it's just too late for anything. I don't want to lose my family. And, I need to do things in a sneaky way.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:14 am

I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. Situations that are ongoing and complex such as this often require a good deal more work than a simple candle burning, so you are going to need to take more action then just burning dressed vigils. I would suggest a Peaceful Home honey jar that you work several times daily until you start getting some movement, and if you are comfortable with Catholic practices petitioning the Holy Family for your needs. You may also wish to work some Stop Gossip-type work on your husband and his wife to get them to stop running their mouths in a way that is causing problems for you and your family. I would also work some protection work for your daughter since she is in the middle of this awful situation.

However, since you wish a swift shift in things, and because this situation has been long-standing, I would recommend that you actually begin with a reading and rootwork consultation with an AIRR worker. This way you will be sure to get to the root of the issue and be recommended works that are ideally suited to your case and needs. You can find the AIRR workers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 10:10 am

Thanks for the response! You know, I was thinking about scheduling something with a rootworker. I'm going to do that shortly. And, my background is Catholic so I really love the suggestion of petitioning the help of the Holy Family.

Brida · Unread post by **Brida** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 12:39 pm

Conjure Man, and Devi are right. A honey jar is very much in order here. You may want to make one for his ex-wife as well.

It is proven that when a couple have children (no matter what age they be), they will ALWAYS be in each other's lives because they share a bond that is for a lifetime. That is the bond of parenting. Neither one of them can cut ties with each other completely; unless they also choose to cut ties with their children. Being a parent does not cease to exist when a child reaches 18, or moves out. The role of a parent continues for the rest of the child's life. Regardless of whether the parents are co-inhabitating or not.

There will be college graduations, weddings, family gatherings, etc. events that will require the presence of both parents in order for the child to feel "whole" in milestones in thier lives. So, it is best that everyone be sweet to everyone.

I did my Masters Thesis on children of divorce. We defined children as individuals; despite their age group. You mentioned that the kids were 18 and 21. Because they are older does not make it easier for them to understand or accept the reality of what is going on. In most circumstances it is much more painful, as the child does not understand why it has worked for two decades, and now all of a sudden; WHAM...cutting of ties. They need time to lick their wounds, and when they get brave enough to reach out to their father; make sure the dad recieves them with an open heart, and lots of patience.

When people's wounds are fresh, they tend to blame others for their misery. In this case, it could be you that they choose to blame or even their father. Mothers are the last individuals that children see at fault for break ups. Unless, they caught mom cheating on dad or something horrible like that. I would steer clear of all conversations with the children and his wife right now. If the two of the break up; let it be their doing; and don't allow yourself to be pinpointed as one of the reasons for the break up. This is just to cover yourself for the future.

Lots of honey jars, lots of patience, and lots of prayers are in order here.

Good luck!

barat · Unread post by **barat** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 1:49 pm

to Devi thanks for the advice.
Many blessings to you

mabsan5x5 · Unread post by **mabsan5x5** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 11:15 am

Ok, so my family is broken, is the best way to explain it. My brother and I are both grown, and no longer live in our parents’ home, which is fine. But for whatever reason, my family – though loving – is emotionally separated. I’m close with my parents, but my brother especially seems completely detached from the family. And there is absolutely no reason. And within the relationships between the four of us, there are angers and frustration and just…I don’t know. There’s just a separation and no one wants to talk about it and its killing all of us a little. So I need a spell or charm or something that will soothe all of us emotionally and will help bring us back together. I know that fixing this will take more than a spell, but I need a jumpstart to it, something that will open us all up to each other and help heal this family. We are all that we have, and there is no reason why we can’t be a family again.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 11:36 am

You should try starting with a Reconcilation honey jar that you put everyone together in, and burn pink candles dressed with Reconciliation. This will help soothe and heal the past wounds, and foster new loving emotions towards each other. When you start getting some progress, then you may wish to switch to a Peaceful Home honey jar that will help solidify the new tender emotions and keep everything peaceful and content.

If you wish more detailed advice tailored to your exact situation, then you may wish to consider a reading with one of the AIRR workers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:11 pm

I agree with the honey jar recommendation. I think that you should put in some blood root as well to help strengthen the family bond as well.

newbutstrong · Unread post by **newbutstrong** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 1:26 pm

i need to regain someone's trust. does anyone know of a good spell for this?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:28 pm

Well, you don't say who the person is, or how you lost their trust in the first place, so I can't be really specific, but I'll try.

First, put them in a honey jar.

Second, apologize for whatever you did and do you're damnedest to make-up for it.

mabsan5x5 · Unread post by **mabsan5x5** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:56 am

Ok so, my brother has a girlfriend. She is not a good girlfriend. She is not good to my family. She causes a lot of pain. BUT it is who my brother has chosen, who he believes he cannot live without (we've actually had a brush with that, so I know for a fact this is true), and she is pregnant with his child.

What I want is NOT to break them up. That would a terrible thing to do to him.

What I want is not to care. I get so ANGRY whenever I have to speak with and interact with her because of what she has done to us all that it makes it hard to function like a human being sometimes. SO what I want is to be ambivalent about her, accept that this is what it is, and not obsess about it.

Is there such a spell or charm or something that will allow me to move past this? Because I think I'm developing an ulcer everytime I speak with her.

I'm going to be using a reconciliation honey jar on my immediate family soon for other issues, btw, so I want to make sure it's not something that will cross or affect that.

Thanks!

magickalpisces · Unread post by **magickalpisces** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 12:31 pm

Can I ask what she does to cause pain to your family? Perhaps if we can get her to stop that behavior it could be a better solution. IMO.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 12:34 pm

I suggest you work a Cut and Clear type spell. Cut and Clear is often used to get over a passed love affair but it will work wonderfully for a situation like this as well.

A simple Cut and Clear spell.

You need.

One White Candle
One bottle of Cut and Clear oil
One Packet of Cut and Clear bath crystals

Get up before dawn on a Saturday and draw a bath. Dissolve half of the bath crystals into the water. Dress the candle with the oil, stroking away from you, and put it on top of an over turned plate. Under that plate you have your petition paper. Carve your name into the candle and light it. Now while the candle burns take your bath. Pour the bath water over your head and stroke your body downwards as you pray to be released from caring about this woman. When you're down collect some of the water from the bath to be disposed of at the crossroads.

Good luck.

mabsan5x5 · Unread post by **mabsan5x5** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:24 pm

The Cut and Clear sounds like it might do the trick! If not, I will definitely be contacting a strong practitioner for assistance due to how strongly this is affecting my life and well-being. Thank you so much!

pinkrose · Unread post by **pinkrose** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 6:08 pm

hello I' new to this forum i read so much about mrs cat and allyour nice people .but i need help for my son as he is buying a house with his girl friend and now she want to end it but she want to live in the house my son is so in love with her and he want her back,right at this time monment they still liveing together I think i't her mum & sister how want to break them up my son what can I ddo to help him
thank you pinkrose

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 7:07 pm

Start off with a reading to find out if there is any external influence pushing your son's girlfriend to break up with him. From there you can plan on reconciliation work with a rootworker.

You can find talented readers and rootworkers at www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Oct 04, 2010 8:05 pm

Welcome to the forum pinkrose, sorry to hear this issue with your son but follow ConjureMan Ali's advice about the reading and you will get clarity on the situation and ask for coaching on what to do after your reading. Good Luck in your findings and resolution.

pinkrose · Unread post by **pinkrose** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 1:07 am

hello i have send of for a reconcilation spell kit from mrs Cat. How I've love to meet her.anyway I'll new to this, is there any thing i can do while i wait thank pinkrose

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 4:57 am

It's been said before, but I think scheduling a reading while you wait would be a great option!

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

pinkrose · Unread post by **pinkrose** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:10 am

hi all thank you for all the replies

If i wanted to schedul a reading would i need to have my son here to take the reading.

Thanks

Pinkrose

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:19 am

No. And you don't need to be local to a reader to have a reading and consultation, either. They can do it over the phone or some will do it over email.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:21 am

If he would like to get the reading then that probably would help to get more in depth information to his situation.

It wouldn't necessarily be needed though. You could get the reading and this would still be of great help to you and your son.

jennamc · Unread post by **jennamc** » Sun Oct 31, 2010 2:14 pm

I've been living at home with my parents and brother for about a year now while I've been facing serious financial problems. We've never been a close family, but within the last two months, I have noticed a lot of serious problems. My mother is addicted to pain medications, which leaves her out of commission half the time and cranky from withdrawal the other half. She's never had to be responsible for anyone but herself.

My brother returned from his girlfriend's house in Nebraska three months ago and since then he has started selling drugs. This has resulted in the police searching our entire house after one of his friends was found to have two assault rifles and a bunch of drugs in a car in front of our house. We were warned that if the police had to come out to our house again, it will be seized.

My father loves me and works very hard, but he is morbidly obese. At over 500 lbs, he will die soon. I beg him to please either lose weight or change his will so that someone responsible will be able to deal with the financial mess he will leave behind. If my mom is the sole beneficiary, the money will be spent on housing her and my brother, cigs, and drugs.

And nothing that I have is respected. My money is stolen no matter where I hide it. I have made many purchases from LM and my "housemates" feel it their responsibility to take what they feel I can't be trusted with.

The easiest solution is, of course, leaving the house, but I cannot yet financially manage it. I have too many bills to catch up on and I simply do not make enough money. I've been living in this mess of a situation off and on for over a decade and my primary concern is getting out before everyone drags me down with them.

A $2 an hour raise is absurd and impossible to ask for, so what can I do to manage the situation while I'm still stuck here? I'm already working fulltime, but as I am a fulltime student I do not really have the time to work a second job as well. How can I urge my family to listen to logic for once? How can I keep my brother from stealing my things? I've tried to use the Hot Foot spell kit, but he stole that entire shipment from my front porch (along with about $80 worth of other kits and supplies.) Is there at least some way I can protect my property from being taken so that anything I may order isn't in danger of disappearing?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Oct 31, 2010 3:34 pm

Get a PO Box so at least you can order items without their being stolen. Do you have your own room? Get a lock for the door. See if you can rent a room somewhere or share a house or apartment with friends. Keep your money in the bank, on your person, or under your pillow when you are asleep. Get a cashbox with a lock.

It's time to get tough. Compelling (milder) or Essence of Bendover (much tougher) may be the answer to get everyone in line. If my brother was stealing from me and selling drugs and making my life hell, I'd totally rat him out and get him put in jail.

Do some Money Drawing, Wealthy Way, and Steady Work. Don't be so quick to dismiss the possiblity of a better job or a raise.

Have an honest and loving discussion with your dad with a honey jar going and ask him to draw up a will with you as the executor, or at least with a substantial inheritance. Tell him you are concerned and take him to a doctor about his weight and a lawyer about his will.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:07 pm

Welcome to the forum jennamc. Mama Micki gave excellent advice on your situation and I agree. Listed below are the links to the suggested items. Each of these items come in a Spellkit except Wealthy Way and Compelling...the Spellkits include instructions.

Compelling (http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html)
Essence of Bendover (http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html)
Money Drawing (http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html)
Wealthy Way (http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-wealthy-way.html)
Steady Work (http://www.luckymojo.com/steadywork.html)

Also read cat's information on Cast off evil found here http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

hoodoohottie · Unread post by **hoodoohottie** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:37 pm

Hi, Today my grandma found my mojo bag that I was activating along with a lit candle and she now thinks I am a devil worshiper and she is going to tell the whole family what she found. Now I am humiliated because I feel that everybody will look at me like some kind of freak because my family looks at practicing magick as evil and they just don't understand. They are ignorant when it comes to hoodoo and she accused me of practicing witchcraft (which I wasn't it was hoodoo) and she said she would keep her Bible close to her because she believes in God. I told her I did too but now she is acting weird with me like I am an evil person. What should I do? She will soon spread this to the whole family causing embarrassment to me. Any advice?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 7:05 pm

Well, hoodoo wise, I would do a freezer jar on her really quickly to get her to freeze her mouth shut. On the other hand, my mom was the same way, and she doesnt say much about it anymore. But perhaps you can educate them on what hoodoo is. I would have that ready, and let know that it is not witchcraft or anything of that nature.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 7:32 pm

I second starsnthesky7; also in the meantime, vb052010, educate yourself and read more about Hoodoo and be prepared to respond to her questions. http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html.
Furthermore, scroll down to the middle of this page and read, "What Hoodoo is Not: Voodoo, Santeria, etc." http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoohistory.html

This will give you a heads up, just in case she inquires further.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:06 pm

How old are you? Is Grandma living with you? If you are an adult, you have a right to your own life. If you aren't, you'll have to be sneakier. Do a Stop Gossip spell to keep Grandma quiet. I wouldn't explain anything to anyone; most folks are set in their ways. If any member of your family says anything, just laugh it off. "Me, a devil worshiper? How silly!" A lot of people light candles for different reasons and carry items in a bag, for luck or whatever.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:42 pm

Stop Gossip may help you out in this instance as Mama Micki indicated. Try sprinkling some of the powder where she'll walk.

I am respectful of the fact that you want to keep your work a secret, but also don't live your life in such a way that you are terrified what others may think of you.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:00 am

You have received lots of good advice already, but since your grandmother is a Christian I would play on that. The next time she mentions keeping her Bible close to her I would immediately say "me too, grandma, I keep my bible right on my altar, in fact what you thought was me worshipping the devil, was actually praying--but thanks for having faith in me!" That (along with a stop gossip spell or freezer spell may well shut her up and keep her quiet. I would also, at the same time do a peaceful home honey jar to create peace and tranquility not just with your grandmother, but within the entire family.
Blessings,
Bri

polot1987 · Unread post by **polot1987** » Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:01 pm

Hello everyone,
I recently got married and my dad stopped talking to me for no reason.I need a solution on what work to do on him for us to have our relationship back.
Thank you

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:21 pm

Well I am sorry to hear about this. BUT you need to find out the reason for him to stop talking to you all of a sudden. This will help you be more effective in your work and target the problem.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

In the meantime, I would prepare a honey jar, and include a picture of you and your father facing towards each other. Along with some rose petals, lavender, blood root, peaceful home herbal mix, and some reconciliation powder. I would burn a pink candle on top of it.

But I would get the reading first to see if anything else needs to be addressed.

polot1987 · Unread post by **polot1987** » Tue Nov 30, 2010 5:59 pm

I will do the reading first.Thank you so much.

cougar · Unread post by **cougar** » Tue Feb 22, 2011 8:31 pm

Hi everyone

I have a 15 year old daughter that has a HUGE gruge against our 16-year old female cousin because of what she said about my daughter last year. Not wanting to get into detail here, we have resolved the issue, but my daughter still will not forgive her. My daughter says our cousin tries to talk to her, but she keeps saying to her GO AWAY, YOU"RE ANNOYING, I HATE YOU you know typical teenage drama, but it's beginning to affect the rest of the family, and I didn't think it would last this long and got worse.This has hapened before, but (gradually) they became friends again up until that fallout last year. Basically I would like for them to get along like they used to be while they was growing up! It's a terrible shame it has gone to this, what can i do to get these girls to like/love each other again??

Thanks for any help!

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Tue Feb 22, 2011 9:53 pm

It's understandable why your daughter wants nothing to do with her cousin since this has happened at least twice, and often what the adults feel is a resolution is a Band-Aid on a festering wound. Note I'm not saying this to blame you, just remembering my teen years and the cousin that was always talking 'stuff.' My first step would be Stop Gossip work on the cousin http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html, and to start a honey jar for the two. I would add, however, that you might want to set your sights a bit lower: instead of love and friendship go for civility and an end to open warfare, especially if what was said was particularly nasty.

Tristan · Unread post by **Tristan** » Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:25 pm

I really love the Peaceful Home product line and am currently using them with great success. It’s a real sanity saver. I would certainly look into the Peaceful Home Honey Jar spell kit:

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

In addition to the herb mix that comes with the kit, which I understand includes Balm of Gilead buds, I would add two whole dried cloves and a bit of Blood Root:

http://www.herb-magic.com/cloves-whole.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/blood-root.html

The honey jar works to sweeten them to each other again, and the herbs help to heal the hurtful exchanges and restore friendship and good family bonds. You could also look into Reconciliation work. As the following link will show, Reconciliation products include Balm of Gilead buds.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

Of course, if you didn’t want to use a honey jar, or if you were looking for something else to back it up, you could try either of these product lines as dressed and fixed vigil candles:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#vigil

cougar · Unread post by **cougar** » Wed Feb 23, 2011 8:18 pm

Hey Guys

Yes, I remember the teenage years, now I know what my mom and my aunt went through with us

These are GREAT advice, I'm going to go with the Honey Jar, that sounds perfect. And yeah, if I can at least get them to act civily towards each other, that'll be a great start. Thank you sooo much Changrinedgirl and Tristan

Messager In NYC · Unread post by **Messager In NYC** » Wed Mar 30, 2011 2:50 am

what can i do to make this person a nice person to deal with . we have so many problems togetter and all hell breacks out when see dos not get here way . she dos not listen . and fights with me and people around us. she is always so angry . and what ever i do something for here there is a big problem or a fight , this person is my Mother and we live togetter. need to sweeter her up, i know that she is hurting from problems in her life that she will not let go of . please see what help u can give me with dealing with her . good

blessings to all of u

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Mar 30, 2011 8:58 am

It's common for mothers to fight with their daughters as they grow up and make their own decisions, making choices that worry or frighten the older generation. I'm NOT saying you're necessarily making bad choices, but each generation is born into a somewhat different world where standards are changing, and it's not easy for most people to rework the lessons learned in youth.

Start with cleansing work, and then sweetening work which includes King Solomon Wisdom as well as formulas like Peaceful Home, Peace Water, and Blessing.

And now your entire family is in the habit of fighting, so Cast Off Evil might be called for, too.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Peace Water
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
Peaceful Home spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
Blessing spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

In the meantime, go into the kitchen and stir the sugar bowl clockwise while praying for peace between you and your mother.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Mar 30, 2011 10:35 am

I would go with some healing for the problems that she cannot let go of along with some cleansing.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html
http://herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html

In addition you are going to want to do a peaceful home spell kit and/or a peaceful home honey jar. I would go with a peaceful home sweet jar along with cleaning the home with some chinese wash of the negativity.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html

Messager In NYC · Unread post by **Messager In NYC** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 3:01 am

thank u so much for this this is a big help for me . and yes i do se what u r talking about with generation . but Mom has some Mental problem's that she will not take meds for . so that is a big problem of it slef Mom is A big Angry problem all of her life, and now that she is older it is way out of control, but i will look in to what you have told me to do . I really thank u for you help with this matter . Good Blessings to u alway Ken

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:09 pm

If she actually has mental problems that could be helped with medication, there are two other elements you could add to your Peaceful Home work.

Work with Dr. José Gregorio Hernandez:
http://www.luckymojo.com/drhernandez.html
Work with St. Dymphna:
http://www.luckymojo.com/saintdymphna.html

I can also think of one sensible reason for her refusing medication: side effects. Even if they do clear her mind, the medications may make her feel bad enough that returning to sanity is just not worth the trouble. Working with Dr. Hernandez and St. Dymphna will also address these issues.

If this is not a problem, you might want to drop a little Bend Over or Commanding into your work.

Commanding spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html
Compelling spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Mar 31, 2011 2:02 pm

Since this is your mother who has the mental condition I'd recommend Compelling products over Essence of Bend Over. The latter product is a bit harsh and can sometimes have a degrading element to it. Traditionally it was used to make your "boss" literally bend over backwards for you. Since your mother needs just a little push, compelling may be the way to go.

Messager In NYC · Unread post by **Messager In NYC** » Fri Apr 01, 2011 2:45 am

trhank u ConjureMan ill need to look it to Essence of bend Over . can u tell me more about this . and what i would have to do ken

fresh_pots · Unread post by **fresh_pots** » Tue Apr 26, 2011 8:08 am

HI everyone.

I want to make a long story short here, but I've been dealing with a family member who has made my life a living hell for since I can remember. He has given me endless broken promises, told me to do things that I have followed only to be betrayed by him, and now it's gotten so bad that it is endangering me of being homeless...I can't ask for help from anyone else in my family because he has caused me to be the black sheep by telling lies about me. I need help quick, or I may be out on the street. This family member knows how hard I work everyday and the state of health I'm in yet he doesn't care. He's helped me in the past but there was always strings attached...I just want him to change his ways...
Any help is appreciated.
Thanks

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:39 pm

Hi fresh_pots:
Without knowing too much about your situation, if you're about to be "out on the streets" because of this person's behavior, I say the heck with making him change his ways. You need to focus on taking care of yourself first. I would do some Fiery Wall of Protection work on yourself, to protect yourself from this man hurting you anymore. Ask St. Michael the Archangel to keep him and his lies away from you and anyone close to you.
If your money has been endangered by this guy, then kick him off of any checking or savings accounts or credit cards he may have access to. I'd also work on the Money Stay With Me line of products; they are awesome to make money stay in your wallet instead of going to the bill collectors!

Once you're safe and no longer in danger of being homeless, you should consider doing some Cut and Clear work on this man, to clear away his influence on your life and cut away your emotional ties to him.

Products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneystaywithme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

beebee22 · Unread post by **beebee22** » Sun May 01, 2011 1:38 pm

Hi folks,

I need a spell to make my mother see things from other peoples perspectives and to have empathy.

My mother has always treated me very badly and favored my sister over me.

It's a long story but when I was having my first child in August of last year my mother disowned me for no real reason, this was mainly due to my sister who wants my mum to herself, and in the end I confronted her to try to improve our relationship and it ended up me nearly loosing my baby. I have so much pain which I am still working through, I have tried so much to forgive her but she has never said sorry, the problem with her is that everyone in the family has fallen out with her, she has no empathy and cannot see anything from other peoples perspective only her own. When I asked her why she never came to see her grandson or me, even when I nearly died giving birth, she just started at how upset she was, did not even think about my feelings.

During this time I wrote her a letter to her which I never sent - I would love her to read it but if I gave it her we would end up in another argument. I also have a pair of old glasses which are hers.

Any ideas on spells?

She will never say sorry to anyone and is selfish...Any ideas on spells to make her realise what she is like?

Unread post by **cabriellenil** » Sun May 01, 2011 3:00 pm

I'd suggest that you get a reading on this to see what are the real reasons for your mother's behavior, if it's possible to change the dynamic, and what it is exactly that you want from her, how to achieve that at magical and mundane levels.

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... ootworkers

My mother also disowned me out of the blue after many years of estrangement. And during those periods when we were actually in touch, she'd never, ever address my feelings or what I'd been through in life, and just focus on herself anyway. If I had known hoodoo back then, I'd have done a cut and clear. That said, I have a friend who has rather serious issues with her parents and she got an excellent reading on why, how, what to do, etc. regarding the situation. It could be spellwork plus some changes in your everyday exchanges as well.

mabsan5x5 · Unread post by **mabsan5x5** » Thu May 12, 2011 7:49 am

I want to use a peacful home spell and spell bottle on my family, the problem is that the family does not live in the same house, so when one of the spells calls for burrying coins and wax remains around the house, will it still work to do this? I figure if I do it at my parents house, as they are at the top of the food chain (so to speak) that that will be okay? Does it matter that we are all under the same roof?

Thanks!

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Thu May 12, 2011 8:58 am

I worked this spell - and all the members of the family are in different places so

I added in my intentions/prayers - where ever in the world we may be, keep us united in a loving way..etc. etc.

I seperated the spell remains - one part is buried in my Mom's garden the other, I buried in a house plant I gave my future mother-in-law

I also work a Peaceful Home Honey Jar in support of this work, under my altar cloth I have pictures/cards representing my family, MWF I place the jar on top of the photos and pray my intention - for peace, healing, harmony.

Hope that helps!
Good Luck!

mabsan5x5 · Unread post by **mabsan5x5** » Thu May 12, 2011 9:26 am

The houseplant idea is a fantastic idea, that way everyone gets a piece!

The honey jar spell confuses me, because I'm supposed to cross the names of the person the spell is for with the person who needs to be "sweet" on that person, but when there's several people involved, how do I do this?

Thanks so much for your input! It really helps.

JCPA72 · Unread post by **JCPA72** » Thu May 12, 2011 11:12 am

Well - for the Honey Jar - I didn't use the general instructions (I had a reading and the rootworker advised me what to do)

I wrote a letter to God (it's usually how I do all my petitions, since it feels most right to me - but that's me

)

Because the jar actually has a dual goal - a) help my Hunny repair his relationship with his Mom b) bring the -in this case 3 families (mine/his/his mom) - together, forgive the past, move on and be more loving, compassionate with each other - work together in Harmony and Peace, etc. The letter turned out to be longer than I intended but 've seen some really good movement (especially with him and his mom - no more fighting!)so I think it's turning out rather well. Even the children seem to be bickering less - I've blessed her house with Peace Water a few times as well.

One of the things I love most about Hoodoo is the emphasis on intent and prayer and it's adaptability. I am sure I've made a LOT of mistakes over the past year but for the most part I've seen good results - even when I didn't follow all the "right" steps. Don't get too caught up in the step 1, step 2 etc. Focus on your intention and somehow it comes together.

I also started an herb container garden - mainly for me, my hunny and his children plus my parents - since that's the goal (to unite the two families peacefully and lovingly)
In the container I placed personal concerns of everyone, mainly hair (took me a few months to get them all collected lol ) and my petition.
I am growing, basil, lavendar and rosemary. I also mixed in a little Angelica Root Powder with the dirt (since the men in the family are VERY stubborn!) to help the women be strong!
It's growing really nicely

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Mon May 16, 2011 12:42 am

Firstly, hello everyone! I am back and with good news!

About 3 years ago i made a 'perfect man' list, and made a little homemade spell out of it. THIS was a extremely weird list, mostly because i was young and unaware of magick, i wrote things like halloween birthday, green eyes, mature, and nail biter (along with other things....LOL) BUT it never worked until....I met this man a month ago! We are dating and its PERFECT. He is exactly what i wanted! WELL worth the wait.

It's only been a month but we are in love, things moved SO SO SO fast. But we both enjoy it. Now heres the problem...

Firstly, he is a single dad with sole care for his two children, and he has tattoo, both are things that i do not mind...but my mother! YIKES! She won't even give him a chance, she can be pretty closed off but i can see marrying this man, and i don't want tension between them!! What can i do to make her more understanding and nicer to him? We are looking into moving in together....So what can i do!?

Also....any other advice/tips to make our new home in order would be nice!

Thank you in advance!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon May 16, 2011 7:49 am

A Peaceful Home honey jar would be appropriate in your case to sweeten up everyone, including your BF, his kids, and your mom. However, do not let your mom dictate who you will spend your life with. You are an adult (I presume) and can make your own decisions. If you feel this man is right for you, follow your heart.

A lot of people, including me, have tattoos these days, and I respect your man for taking responsiblity for his kids. A lot of guys won't even pay child support.