Spells to Tone Down or Reduce Love to Simple Friendship

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Spells to Tone Down or Reduce Love to Simple Friendship

Post by AoD » Sun Jul 15, 2012 2:41 pm

Hey all,

I have a situation here where I recently met up with an old co-worker I hadn't seen in a while (we're not really good friends, he's on my facebook and he only started talking to me a few weeks ago when he broke up with his ex).

Problem is, even though I did not flirt with him at all, he seems to think he has a chance with me and comes on too strong, but I am absolutely not interested. Now, I could simply hotfoot him away since he's not a close friend or anything, BUT he is a valuable contact in an engineering firm where I am trying to get hired...and he's putting in a good word for me. So, I don't want things to turn sour between us cause I still need his help to get the job (I'm unemployed and I really need it).

He's not a bad person so I wouldn't mind being friends with him, especially if we end up working together again, but the whole "him wanting me and thinking I want to date him" creeps me out. What would you recommend to just tone down his feelings and expectations so he just wants to be friends? Thanks!

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Re: Spells to Tone Down or Reduce Love to Simple Friendship

Post by ProfessorAmes » Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:51 pm

Saltpeter has always been associated with decreasing libido. Women would feed it to their men who were too frisky, too often. I wouldn't recommend putting it in food.

You could do a little spell by taking his photo (print it off of Facebook) and writing out a little petition on it such as Friends only, no romance. Sprinkle it with some salt peter, fold it up and then let it sit in your refrigerator to "cool him down." I wouldn't put him in the freezer, but the fridge should be enough to cool his fire.

The saltpeter is also used in unjinxing and protection.

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Post by starsinthesky7 » Mon Jul 16, 2012 11:15 pm

I would do a cut and clear vigil light. Or you can do this. I would Get a white candle for friendship and dress it with cloves, lavender, and balm of gilead. Write a petition for your friendship to be strengthened. Then get black candle dress it with banishing and ask that romantic feelings be removed. Each day you can remove the black candle away from the white one. You can even get some scissors, and face the open blade towards the black candle. You could add the salt peter candle on the black candle too.
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Post by AoD » Wed Jul 18, 2012 9:02 am

Oh, I love the idea of saltpeter and the black and white candle spell :) That will suit my purpose perfectly. Thank you so much for the brilliant advice, I will give those a try!

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Post by catherineyronwode » Thu Oct 31, 2019 8:07 pm

Running across this thread while browsing the forum, i thought i would post a variant idea, also using Saltpeter:

Make and carry a small mojo containing

Saltpeter: To reduce libido
Cloves: To foster friendship
Self-Heal: To soothe any hurt feelings
Seneca Snake Root: To protect against false frienship
Bay Leaf: To clear the mind

Sew or wrap it up tight. Dress it with a Clarity Oil.
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Post by Keira28 » Wed Apr 01, 2020 5:39 am

Hi, I have just done an ammonia jar. I have a male suitor, but I really like him as a friend. So I did this jar writing: "John Doe has a romantic interest for me". I already told him that I'm not interested, but I would be happy to have him in my life as a friend. Maybe there is a spell more indicated for this? Thank you.

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Post by Miss Athena » Thu Apr 02, 2020 1:25 am

Hello Keira28,

You could certainly do that with your ammonia jar.

I have moved your post to the topic on toning down love into friendship, so you can scroll through the posts here for more advice and ideas.

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Post by Keira28 » Fri Apr 17, 2020 1:45 am

Thank you Miss Athena! Here there are very useful ideas!

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Re: Spells to Tone Down or Reduce Love to Simple Friendship

Post by TaliaB5 » Fri Feb 05, 2021 10:18 am

First time poster here...I need some help.

I’m in a relationship that started about five years ago. We have covered a lot of ground being romantically involved, friends and coworkers over the years.

Well, through a process of situations that I won’t bore you with we have found ourselves back in a romantic relationship. But, I need this to end.

He and his son live with me but still have their own place. His son and my daughter are great friends so I’d prefer to keep an open friendship or line of communication between my man friend and I. I just need the romantic relationship to end and for him to go back to his house.

You’d think this would be easy but it’s not. So now I turn to magick and your help.

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Post by Miss Athena » Sun Feb 07, 2021 10:32 am

Hello Talia85,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're happy to have you here.

I've moved your post to the topic on toning down a relationship to friendship vs. romance, as this seems to be the focus of your question. There are some good suggestions here, so do read through the posts here and I think you'll find something to help you.

If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.
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