Relationship problems

[lioness2]

Hi,

I am new to this i need help on finding out why my longterm relationship is at a stand still. I have been with this guy for a long time and still we are having a lot of problems. He act is if we have no kind of relationship and he doesnt really care about how i feel or my feelings. I need help!! Because i keep blaming myself for these actions can someone help.

[jwmcclin]

You can ask a reader to look into the situation, there is a list here with http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

They are very knowledgeable and trustworthy and that is what you want.

[burzel]

firstly you should never blame yourself. may i ask what types of problems you have? is it just his lack of visible emotion or are there any arguments? i mean if he turns to stone after a fight, then i don't think it's so bad, but just his type of character. are you both able to communicate properly? how does he feels about the situation?