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General Love Spells Questions and Answers
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Musclequeen378, you haven’t mentioned what your goal is. Is it reconciliation with your ex? Well that narrows down your search. Now, just find a thread about reconciliation, such as this one, and read it. Yes, all of it.
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Hello musclequeen378,
Please read through the posts in the following links on how to work sneaky tricks, including ones to cause love in those who touch them:
working-sneaky-tricks-tricking-gifts-qu ... 14790.html
trick-an-object-or-gift-to-cause-love-i ... 19350.html
If you have the love oils, anoint yourself in them in preparation for when he is around you. Dress candles and lightly dust with your crushed love herbs and burn them when he is with you. These are just some obvious ideas that don't require much imagination to figure out. I'm sure you will come up with other ideas, too.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
Please read through the posts in the following links on how to work sneaky tricks, including ones to cause love in those who touch them:
working-sneaky-tricks-tricking-gifts-qu ... 14790.html
trick-an-object-or-gift-to-cause-love-i ... 19350.html
If you have the love oils, anoint yourself in them in preparation for when he is around you. Dress candles and lightly dust with your crushed love herbs and burn them when he is with you. These are just some obvious ideas that don't require much imagination to figure out. I'm sure you will come up with other ideas, too.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hello Everyone,
I dont know where to post my question so please forgive me. I was advice to do a cup of sugar with a key spell to sweeten my love one. I have been doing so for 3 weeks now, but I realize I have been doing something wrong. I was turning the key clockwise instead of counter clockwise. I am worried that I might be doing the opposite of my desire. What can I do? should I restart? Could it be possible that because of my mistake I can cause the opposite of my desire? Please help Thank you.
I dont know where to post my question so please forgive me. I was advice to do a cup of sugar with a key spell to sweeten my love one. I have been doing so for 3 weeks now, but I realize I have been doing something wrong. I was turning the key clockwise instead of counter clockwise. I am worried that I might be doing the opposite of my desire. What can I do? should I restart? Could it be possible that because of my mistake I can cause the opposite of my desire? Please help Thank you.
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Hi salemduskull,
Please take a look at this page. IF I CAST SPELLS INCORRECTLY WILL THEY "BACKFIRE" ON ME?
And here is the accompanying forum thread Can Spells Back-Fire, Blow Back, Reverse On Me, or Harm Me?
And for further information here is a wonderful thread on honey and sugar jars. general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html
Please take a look at this page. IF I CAST SPELLS INCORRECTLY WILL THEY "BACKFIRE" ON ME?
And here is the accompanying forum thread Can Spells Back-Fire, Blow Back, Reverse On Me, or Harm Me?
And for further information here is a wonderful thread on honey and sugar jars. general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html
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Hello salemduskull,
You can restart your spell and work your key in the correct direction. Consider it a useful experience in the need to read through and understand a spell in its entirety before starting it. That practice will serve you well for your future work.
Good luck.
You can restart your spell and work your key in the correct direction. Consider it a useful experience in the need to read through and understand a spell in its entirety before starting it. That practice will serve you well for your future work.
Good luck.
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Hi everyone, I'll try to keep this short. I have a now current ex who I've been through the wringer with for about 5 years now, back and forth. He's slightly narcissistic, gets distracted by other women and has a hard time valuing our relationship even though he admits I understand him better than anyone and he easily sees a life with me. He cheated once, issues built, we got very toxic and agreed to split for time and health, which is fine.
The PROBLEM is that he says he currently doesn't love me enough to want a relationship OR to plan on trying again, and he isn't actively planning on waiting for us, coming back or committing. ATP we're both tired and angry, but there's also a lot of good worth saving and I'm still deeply in love. His reasons for leaving vary..."I'm not ready and don't want you waiting...I have commitment issues...I have to not feel stuck here" etc and blah blah.
I started a honey jar 2 years ago, its brought him back and forth reliably but he's VERY strong willed-- I'm depressed/anxious so at crucial times I'm not-- and also someone who is proud and sticks to decisions even if they're wrong. This and other things have hurt me a lot over and over, and I also think that might be affecting the intent of my jar as well. I think it might be too gentle a spell and overworked to do much anymore but there's a lot of personal concerns in there from him that I can't access fresh anymore, hair and the like. We moved back with parents after corona hit and I probably wont see him anytime soon.
Also, I live in a distinctly non-conjuring household with little privacy or money to purchase ready made materials from LM or anywhere, working on a little secret altar with bare min kitchen spices and like 3 candles lol. I'm trying to get a job and move out, but in the time that might take I'm terrified he'll find/sleep with other women or just decide he doesn't want me permanently.
LONG story later. Should I let the situation cool until I'm in a better position, or is that too risky? Should I throw out or rework my honey jar? He's hurt me a lot and I was leaning towards trying the Intranquility spirit once I left home, but would sweeter and more reconciliation spells work better? I worked a freezer spell before to keep rivals away before but it didn't work completely, he still slept with someone and that's VERY important to me to stop. We last spoke about 2 days ago. I admit I've bothered him a lot through texts since we broke up and mine was the last response.
I want to reconcile, with him feeling real romantic love and affection for me. I also wouldn't mind him experiencing a bit of my pain and torment so he comes back and then doesn't want to leave again. Finally, I'd like to keep his pants zipped up as tight as possible, as quickly as possible.
Sorry for the length or if this doesn't fit here. I'm relatively young and untrained and haven't had a lot of contact with professionals or real rootworkers in my area yet, so LM is really the best rootwork advice I've found.
The PROBLEM is that he says he currently doesn't love me enough to want a relationship OR to plan on trying again, and he isn't actively planning on waiting for us, coming back or committing. ATP we're both tired and angry, but there's also a lot of good worth saving and I'm still deeply in love. His reasons for leaving vary..."I'm not ready and don't want you waiting...I have commitment issues...I have to not feel stuck here" etc and blah blah.
I started a honey jar 2 years ago, its brought him back and forth reliably but he's VERY strong willed-- I'm depressed/anxious so at crucial times I'm not-- and also someone who is proud and sticks to decisions even if they're wrong. This and other things have hurt me a lot over and over, and I also think that might be affecting the intent of my jar as well. I think it might be too gentle a spell and overworked to do much anymore but there's a lot of personal concerns in there from him that I can't access fresh anymore, hair and the like. We moved back with parents after corona hit and I probably wont see him anytime soon.
Also, I live in a distinctly non-conjuring household with little privacy or money to purchase ready made materials from LM or anywhere, working on a little secret altar with bare min kitchen spices and like 3 candles lol. I'm trying to get a job and move out, but in the time that might take I'm terrified he'll find/sleep with other women or just decide he doesn't want me permanently.
LONG story later. Should I let the situation cool until I'm in a better position, or is that too risky? Should I throw out or rework my honey jar? He's hurt me a lot and I was leaning towards trying the Intranquility spirit once I left home, but would sweeter and more reconciliation spells work better? I worked a freezer spell before to keep rivals away before but it didn't work completely, he still slept with someone and that's VERY important to me to stop. We last spoke about 2 days ago. I admit I've bothered him a lot through texts since we broke up and mine was the last response.
I want to reconcile, with him feeling real romantic love and affection for me. I also wouldn't mind him experiencing a bit of my pain and torment so he comes back and then doesn't want to leave again. Finally, I'd like to keep his pants zipped up as tight as possible, as quickly as possible.
Sorry for the length or if this doesn't fit here. I'm relatively young and untrained and haven't had a lot of contact with professionals or real rootworkers in my area yet, so LM is really the best rootwork advice I've found.
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Hello Ninaarana,
You've got a few complications in your situation that may keep you from achieving your desires. You first have to find clarity on what it is you want or even if this relationship is truly worth saving. You can do this with a reading, or doing some prayer work for yourself. I usually advise clients, to light a white candles, recite Psalm 32:8 "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you." Then go to bed. Upon waking you should have a clearer understanding of what to do.
If you decide to proceed, you need to be clear in your purpose. It seems the issue is this person does not share your feelings. An intranquility spell will not help that. The honey jar may. I would recommend maybe crafting a doll baby and working his mind and heart through that. The combination of sweetness and influence could bring him around.
If you are hesitant about this work or can't do it yourself then consider working with a professional, or having lights set with Missionary Independent Spiritual Church.
http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... vices.html
Good luck!
You've got a few complications in your situation that may keep you from achieving your desires. You first have to find clarity on what it is you want or even if this relationship is truly worth saving. You can do this with a reading, or doing some prayer work for yourself. I usually advise clients, to light a white candles, recite Psalm 32:8 "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you." Then go to bed. Upon waking you should have a clearer understanding of what to do.
If you decide to proceed, you need to be clear in your purpose. It seems the issue is this person does not share your feelings. An intranquility spell will not help that. The honey jar may. I would recommend maybe crafting a doll baby and working his mind and heart through that. The combination of sweetness and influence could bring him around.
If you are hesitant about this work or can't do it yourself then consider working with a professional, or having lights set with Missionary Independent Spiritual Church.
http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... vices.html
Good luck!
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
I have a similar question or topic I am madly in love with this one girl and things were going good I might’ve messed it up will know I did mess it up and I have been calling upon Santa Muerte for only a couple months and at first it was working and now it’s not I don’t want to try different spells for an unknown lover I want this woman what can I do
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Hello Waldo1426,
You can read through the many posts in this thread as well as the posts in the other threads for reconciliation. I'm sure you will encounter at least one spell idea that speaks to you. Perform it as instructed and have faith in a positive outcome.
Good luck.
You can read through the many posts in this thread as well as the posts in the other threads for reconciliation. I'm sure you will encounter at least one spell idea that speaks to you. Perform it as instructed and have faith in a positive outcome.
Good luck.
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What is the better spell for can reactivated contact with person i cant talking about 3 month? 
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Pombagira777,
Every situation is different and depends on the circumstances and you may start off with a reading to see if such a thing is possible in the first place.
A good old-timey hoodoo working:
Take a photo of the person you want to establish contact with place it in a picture frame with Rose Petals, Deer's Tongue, and Licorice Root. Set this up on an altar with a pink candle you've dressed with Return to Me Oil and a small incense burner and charcoal. Light the candle and charcoal and burn some Tobacco while you speak to the person's photo through the smoke telling them to contact you.
Repeat over the 3 days. On the final day bury the ash and candle remains in the front yard of your intended.
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-return-to-me.html
Rose: http://www.herbmagic.com/rose-petals.html
Dear's Tongue: http://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Licorice: http://www.herbmagic.com/licorice-root.html
Tobacco: http://www.herbmagic.com/tobacco.html
Good luck!
Every situation is different and depends on the circumstances and you may start off with a reading to see if such a thing is possible in the first place.
A good old-timey hoodoo working:
Take a photo of the person you want to establish contact with place it in a picture frame with Rose Petals, Deer's Tongue, and Licorice Root. Set this up on an altar with a pink candle you've dressed with Return to Me Oil and a small incense burner and charcoal. Light the candle and charcoal and burn some Tobacco while you speak to the person's photo through the smoke telling them to contact you.
Repeat over the 3 days. On the final day bury the ash and candle remains in the front yard of your intended.
Return to Me: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-return-to-me.html
Rose: http://www.herbmagic.com/rose-petals.html
Dear's Tongue: http://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
Licorice: http://www.herbmagic.com/licorice-root.html
Tobacco: http://www.herbmagic.com/tobacco.html
Good luck!
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Not sure which thread is correct for this question. My boyfriend decided we should just be friends out of the blue about a month ago and texted it to me . he hasnt taken any of my calls since but randomly will text "good morning" (very rare) i Had one rootworker doing work to help our relationship before we broke up and since then had a second rootworker help me with reconciliation but never mentioned it to the first. The first worker still tells me he is working on bringing us back together but i see no results yet Will two different workers trying to reconcile us affect each other's work negatively
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Hello LedLove,
Your two rootworkers need to know about each other and specifically the work that each is doing, to avoid conflicting spells.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
Your two rootworkers need to know about each other and specifically the work that each is doing, to avoid conflicting spells.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hello, I am new on this forum and hope to post this topic in the right place.
I really need your help. I made too many spells (love, domination, honey and ammonia jars, sweetening spells, separation spells) on the same person, the same target, my man.
Now I think all this backfired me because my lover left me and even if he says he still loves me and likes me, he doesn't want to come back with me.
No spells now seem to work on him.
I think I blocked him. I learnt the lesson. Please help me. All I want is only to come back with him and make our love flourish again.
What should I do? Obstacle remover or blockbuster spell? Or cleansing? And then another sweetening spell?
Please help me
I really need your help. I made too many spells (love, domination, honey and ammonia jars, sweetening spells, separation spells) on the same person, the same target, my man.
Now I think all this backfired me because my lover left me and even if he says he still loves me and likes me, he doesn't want to come back with me.
No spells now seem to work on him.
I think I blocked him. I learnt the lesson. Please help me. All I want is only to come back with him and make our love flourish again.
What should I do? Obstacle remover or blockbuster spell? Or cleansing? And then another sweetening spell?
Please help me
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Hi Annika,
Sorry you're having a hard time. It definitely sounds like way too many spells might have been done.
I would start with a very good cleansing of yourself & target. If this were my work, I'd properly dispose of the previous workings as well. Only then would I follow up with a fresh spell such as a honey jar or lodestone spell.
Good luck : )
Sorry you're having a hard time. It definitely sounds like way too many spells might have been done.
I would start with a very good cleansing of yourself & target. If this were my work, I'd properly dispose of the previous workings as well. Only then would I follow up with a fresh spell such as a honey jar or lodestone spell.
Good luck : )
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I was wondering if someone could tell me a proper way to word a petition for a sweetening jar to attract new love? I wasnt sure if I should ask this in general love spells or in the honey jar message board
I have no target I want to attract a new love to me
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I have no target I want to attract a new love to meThank you as always!
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Hello Luckylady123,
I would state your petition along the lines of attracting "my ideal partner" and you can also list some of the mandatory qualities you would want them to have. Let Spirit decide what form that person takes, since you don't have your eye on anyone specific.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I would state your petition along the lines of attracting "my ideal partner" and you can also list some of the mandatory qualities you would want them to have. Let Spirit decide what form that person takes, since you don't have your eye on anyone specific.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hi Luckylady123,
I like the list approach. I usually ask my clients to write down what they are looking for in a partner; what characteristics should they have ideally. I ask them to work on the list over a course of 3 days, narrowing down, revising, until they capture the essence of their perfect partner. This can then be used as the powerful core of a love attraction spell.
You can learn more about petition papers and their use from cat's book Paper in My Shoe: https://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html
I like the list approach. I usually ask my clients to write down what they are looking for in a partner; what characteristics should they have ideally. I ask them to work on the list over a course of 3 days, narrowing down, revising, until they capture the essence of their perfect partner. This can then be used as the powerful core of a love attraction spell.
You can learn more about petition papers and their use from cat's book Paper in My Shoe: https://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html
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Hello there! I’m new here (and not English language-native), I hope i’m writing in the right thread.
I did 2 hoodoo spells about life that unfortunately didn’t work at all. Where
I read them there was no suggestions about how to get rid of the ritual(s) remains in every case (success or not).
I have been told I have to “destroy” these two, even if they failed, before trying anything else (the target remains the same).
What shall I do?
I did 2 hoodoo spells about life that unfortunately didn’t work at all. Where
I have been told I have to “destroy” these two, even if they failed, before trying anything else (the target remains the same).
What shall I do?
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FlowerOfTheStorm --
Welcome to the Lucky Mojo Forum.
You do not have to "destroy" spells that did not work, but you should dispose of them in a traditional manner.
This web page i wrote will show you how:
Laying own Tricks and Disposing of Ritual Remains
https://luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Good luck!
Welcome to the Lucky Mojo Forum.
You do not have to "destroy" spells that did not work, but you should dispose of them in a traditional manner.
This web page i wrote will show you how:
Laying own Tricks and Disposing of Ritual Remains
https://luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html
Good luck!
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Question about making a baby doll— my fiancé and I are not living together at the moment because he decided 3 months ago he “needed space” (completely random out of nowhere). Anyway, we slept together last night and he finished on my stomach. He got a towel to wipe it off and I kept it (i did not wipe myself with this towel), does this count as a personal concern? Do i just cut a piece of the towel where the semen is dried up? Will dried up semen even work?
He does not shed AT ALL so it’s impossible to get even one piece of his hair...doesn’t even come off on a brush
. The herbs I have for the doll baby are: cinnamon sticks, Quassia, licorice root (to make the skeleton like conjureman suggested), rose petals, catnip, southern John root, ginger root, deers tongue, lodestone. How do I put the oils in though? I have bewitching, domination, compelling, and marriage oil. My goal is to have my target be the infatuated, obsessed person he used to be so I can move back into my house.
FYI i have already done a honey jar and 2 skull candles (it’s helped some but not to the degree I need). All your feedback is greatly appreciated!
He does not shed AT ALL so it’s impossible to get even one piece of his hair...doesn’t even come off on a brush
FYI i have already done a honey jar and 2 skull candles (it’s helped some but not to the degree I need). All your feedback is greatly appreciated!
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Hello Jacqueline5787,
Yes, that is a fantastic personal concern! Just snip pieces of it to put in your doll.
For adding oils, I like to put a few drops on a cotton ball and put that into the doll.
Do be careful about petitioning for your target to be obsessed with you, as you don't want to create a stalker situation. Choose your words thoughtfully.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
Yes, that is a fantastic personal concern! Just snip pieces of it to put in your doll.
For adding oils, I like to put a few drops on a cotton ball and put that into the doll.
Do be careful about petitioning for your target to be obsessed with you, as you don't want to create a stalker situation. Choose your words thoughtfully.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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Hello everyone. I’m in need of advice on making something happen. Is it possible to draw someone you have never met to you? I do have a specific person in mind and I do plan on meeting this person in the near future, but I want to do it cautiously, step by step. All feedback is welcomed.
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Hello Reinaj,
Yes that is possible, so if you have a specific person in mind, state your petition to draw that individual to you.
You can read through the posts in the various love spell topics for more specific spell advice.
Good luck!
Yes that is possible, so if you have a specific person in mind, state your petition to draw that individual to you.
You can read through the posts in the various love spell topics for more specific spell advice.
Good luck!
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Hello Miss Athena, thank you so much!
Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Hello everyone
I met a girl 2 years ago, the moment I met her it was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced. I had to go to a convention, we were like 20 people, no one met before. We all enter the room, I'm the last, when everyone is already sat down I enter through the doorway and I feel like something is really not right, I still didn't know what it was but I looked around and then I saw her. I immediately felt like I just drank a whole bottle of absinthe and it hit me like a train, i think I kept staring at her for about 5 minute but I don't think she noticed. We stood at that convention for 2 days and i kept looking for a way to get closer to her/chat with her and I didn't have a lot of success but I managed to get her number, in those 2 days we talked for a total of abiut 15 quite awkward minutes (she seemed quite distant). Forward a couple of days,i write to her, she responds to be polite I guess, I ask her out and she says no and from then I had no contact at all with her again.
To this day I still think about her every day. When I was at that convention I made some friends and I recently found out one of them is her bf. I didnt hear from the guy for about one year and a half but then I asked him to grab a beer and he accepted so thats how I know it but he's not actually my friend.
I can't keep going on thinking about her every day saying to myself that it's just a crush and that it will go away with time.
I want them to break up and get her.
Now the tricky part is that I've never practiced anything so I don't know how to go on about this.
My plan is :
1)cleansing bath
2)tarot reading
3)fiery wall of protection
4)break up spell
5)another cleansing?
6)call me spell
7)love spell
My questions
1) Is this the right order?
2)Should I wait for different lunar phases/time of the day/days for each different ritual?
3)can I deploy of the call me spell and love me spell in a tree at a park? And deploying the break up spell in a graveyard?
4) what do you think are the best spells for each
Also ANY other advice will be greatly appreciated. THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH
I met a girl 2 years ago, the moment I met her it was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced. I had to go to a convention, we were like 20 people, no one met before. We all enter the room, I'm the last, when everyone is already sat down I enter through the doorway and I feel like something is really not right, I still didn't know what it was but I looked around and then I saw her. I immediately felt like I just drank a whole bottle of absinthe and it hit me like a train, i think I kept staring at her for about 5 minute but I don't think she noticed. We stood at that convention for 2 days and i kept looking for a way to get closer to her/chat with her and I didn't have a lot of success but I managed to get her number, in those 2 days we talked for a total of abiut 15 quite awkward minutes (she seemed quite distant). Forward a couple of days,i write to her, she responds to be polite I guess, I ask her out and she says no and from then I had no contact at all with her again.
To this day I still think about her every day. When I was at that convention I made some friends and I recently found out one of them is her bf. I didnt hear from the guy for about one year and a half but then I asked him to grab a beer and he accepted so thats how I know it but he's not actually my friend.
I can't keep going on thinking about her every day saying to myself that it's just a crush and that it will go away with time.
I want them to break up and get her.
Now the tricky part is that I've never practiced anything so I don't know how to go on about this.
My plan is :
1)cleansing bath
2)tarot reading
3)fiery wall of protection
4)break up spell
5)another cleansing?
6)call me spell
7)love spell
My questions
1) Is this the right order?
2)Should I wait for different lunar phases/time of the day/days for each different ritual?
3)can I deploy of the call me spell and love me spell in a tree at a park? And deploying the break up spell in a graveyard?
4) what do you think are the best spells for each
Also ANY other advice will be greatly appreciated. THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH

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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Hi Laky,
Sounds like you have a solid foundation to work from.
1) I generally recommend to start small, then add more work as needed. I'd start off with a reading to determine your best course of action.
2) Many people work by the lunar phases, but it's not always necessary. Fridays during the waxing moon phase is generally ideal for this kind of work.
3)Love spells and spells to draw/attract are usually buried somewhere near you, such as on your property. Failing that, bury it in a potted plant.
4) Come to Me and Attraction spell kits might be great for this. You might also want to check out Follow Me Girl products.
https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-follow-me-girl.html
Good luck!
Sounds like you have a solid foundation to work from.
1) I generally recommend to start small, then add more work as needed. I'd start off with a reading to determine your best course of action.
2) Many people work by the lunar phases, but it's not always necessary. Fridays during the waxing moon phase is generally ideal for this kind of work.
3)Love spells and spells to draw/attract are usually buried somewhere near you, such as on your property. Failing that, bury it in a potted plant.
4) Come to Me and Attraction spell kits might be great for this. You might also want to check out Follow Me Girl products.
https://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-follow-me-girl.html
Good luck!
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
The man I'm seeing has mentioned he is "scared" to be completely emotionally invested in me due to consequences. We get along great, have been dating for 4-5ish months now and have fought maybe twice ever. The sex is amazing for both of us. There is communication, acceptance, and trust. However, when things start going too great, he does pull back some, and says he is "afraid of me".
is there a GENTLE candle recommended to continue to push his love in the right direction (to me), for him to openly accept my love in return in a slow and steady pace?
I don't know what else could be needed. open to any and all suggestions.
is there a GENTLE candle recommended to continue to push his love in the right direction (to me), for him to openly accept my love in return in a slow and steady pace?
I don't know what else could be needed. open to any and all suggestions.
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
SpellsnSuch,
If there are consequences for him to be emotionally invested in the relationship, then that should be the focus. Some are just too big to overcome. If it's fear of commitment or settling down, then I would work on comforting him and helping him see the benefits of a committed relationship.
Since there isn't really levels of spells with one being more effective/powerful than the next, I don't really have a suggestion. I do recommend leaving out any coercive elements like skull candles, licorice, calamus and the like.
Please read over some love spells to find one you would like to perform.
Love spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Good Luck!
If there are consequences for him to be emotionally invested in the relationship, then that should be the focus. Some are just too big to overcome. If it's fear of commitment or settling down, then I would work on comforting him and helping him see the benefits of a committed relationship.
Since there isn't really levels of spells with one being more effective/powerful than the next, I don't really have a suggestion. I do recommend leaving out any coercive elements like skull candles, licorice, calamus and the like.
Please read over some love spells to find one you would like to perform.
Love spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Good Luck!
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
If a love spell calls for placement in your underwear drawer, and you don't in fact have an underwear drawer what would be the next best thing?
With your underwear regardless (say they are all in a basket?), Bedside drawer? Another place?
I apologise if this isnt the exact right place to ask but I couldn't find a thread on deploying and the one I'm looking at is the love packet spell on page 22 of the new bottle up and go book.
With your underwear regardless (say they are all in a basket?), Bedside drawer? Another place?
I apologise if this isnt the exact right place to ask but I couldn't find a thread on deploying and the one I'm looking at is the love packet spell on page 22 of the new bottle up and go book.
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Hello Graveyardhag,
Put it wherever you store your clean underwear.
Good luck.
Put it wherever you store your clean underwear.
Good luck.
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Perfect thank you Miss Athena
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Hi! Just read "Women's Work" by Aura Laforest (a must-read, btw) and had a question about a fidelity work she included in the book. She suggested burying a man's washcloth under the eaves of the roof. I rent a house w/no attic or easy access to the roof at all. I do, by chance, have the perfect washcloth to use for this work to keep my man at home. Since the eaves of the roof are not an option, do any of you know of a work where I can use this washcloth to keep my man from "wandering"?
Thank you in advance for your wisdom.
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Thank you in advance for your wisdom.
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Hi 24Kpink ,
There are many ways to hold a man down and prevent him from leaving, one of which you mentioned. Being you rent I think your best option would be to make a nation sack which is used by a women to keep a man. You can also use stay with me, follow me boy, oils on items he will touch, his bath soap, use the bath crystals yourself, then add them to his bath. Renting properties and moving is not new to Hoodoo, you could nail him to a strong limber of the house and when you move again take it with you. Both expressly show nailing him and taking him. I love your creativity and enthusiasm.
Dominate my man spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html
Using body fluids to control a man: https://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html
Follow me boy to make him follow you: https://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
Nation Sack, a women's hand: https://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
JayDee
There are many ways to hold a man down and prevent him from leaving, one of which you mentioned. Being you rent I think your best option would be to make a nation sack which is used by a women to keep a man. You can also use stay with me, follow me boy, oils on items he will touch, his bath soap, use the bath crystals yourself, then add them to his bath. Renting properties and moving is not new to Hoodoo, you could nail him to a strong limber of the house and when you move again take it with you. Both expressly show nailing him and taking him. I love your creativity and enthusiasm.
Dominate my man spells: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html
Using body fluids to control a man: https://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html
Follow me boy to make him follow you: https://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
Nation Sack, a women's hand: https://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Hi just wanted to direct me to the right forum or posting. I have a few things that have been working for me. But I wanted to kick it up a notch. I live in an apartment, I live in a city, I do not have a back or front yard and wanted to know how I could use my partners dirty underwear. Should I tie it in a knot and place it under a potted plant? I also have a red skull candle that I order. I’m trying to decide if I should use both the underwear and skull candle. If someone could direct me to right place that would be great.
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Armybratt525 ,
You can do both at the same time, it is common to use candle work along with other workings such as a mojo or tying a man down.
Here are some forum links you requested:
Skull Candles: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
Nation Sack: https://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
Female domination: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html
I did a forum search topic for "underwear" this is the list of options that come up and are available for you to read:search.php?keywords=underwear
Some ideas to use the clothing for is making a doll baby to control him or have him do what you want, using some in a nation sack, a form of mojo used by women to keep a man, put a piece in the bottom of the skull candle to attach the skull to him and work it to do what you want.
Hope that helps!
JayDee
You can do both at the same time, it is common to use candle work along with other workings such as a mojo or tying a man down.
Here are some forum links you requested:
Skull Candles: skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
Nation Sack: https://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html
Female domination: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html
I did a forum search topic for "underwear" this is the list of options that come up and are available for you to read:search.php?keywords=underwear
Some ideas to use the clothing for is making a doll baby to control him or have him do what you want, using some in a nation sack, a form of mojo used by women to keep a man, put a piece in the bottom of the skull candle to attach the skull to him and work it to do what you want.
Hope that helps!
JayDee
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JayDee,
Thanks for teaching folks how to use the site-wide search engine. Much appreciates.
Thanks for teaching folks how to use the site-wide search engine. Much appreciates.
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
JayDee...
Thanks for your response and the links! I'm actually in the process of putting a nation sack together using Miss Cat's instructions.
I'll try the plank idea. Thanks!!!
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Thanks for your response and the links! I'm actually in the process of putting a nation sack together using Miss Cat's instructions.
I'll try the plank idea. Thanks!!!
-24kPnk
Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Best advice is have meaningful hobbies that are unisex and talk about values early on in the relationship.
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Hello
Im Nancy and there is this guy at my job who I really like but he is stubborn and in his feelings too much.
What can I do that doesn't require me to burn, or bury any objects as I have no privacy where I am staying at.
Im thinking about the spell kits but they all come with candles to burn
Im Nancy and there is this guy at my job who I really like but he is stubborn and in his feelings too much.
What can I do that doesn't require me to burn, or bury any objects as I have no privacy where I am staying at.
Im thinking about the spell kits but they all come with candles to burn
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Hi imthefairestofthemall,
Sugar jars are great for this type of work, no candles needed https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html, you can find pictures online and print it out, put it in a jar with your picture taped the side, so he is always looking at you. Powders and oils also great, if you can put some on wrapped candy and offer him some. Come to me https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html, Follow me boy https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-follow-me-boy.html, Fast luck https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-fast-luck.html. You can also wear the oils as personal scents. You can also listen to the radio show for more ideas http://www.blogtalkradio.com/luckymojoh ... adia-21118
Sugar jars are great for this type of work, no candles needed https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html, you can find pictures online and print it out, put it in a jar with your picture taped the side, so he is always looking at you. Powders and oils also great, if you can put some on wrapped candy and offer him some. Come to me https://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html, Follow me boy https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-follow-me-boy.html, Fast luck https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-fast-luck.html. You can also wear the oils as personal scents. You can also listen to the radio show for more ideas http://www.blogtalkradio.com/luckymojoh ... adia-21118
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Re: General Love Spells Questions and Answers
Hi everyone!
I'd really appreciate if you could give me your insight in this situation with my ex boyfriend:
He and I love each other very much, however our issue was always communication and misunderstandings, which between our big egos, his immaturity and my pushiness, ended up exploding and damaging us really badly.
I've had several readings done about this during time, so what I know is: the love is genuine from both of us, but we both have a lot of personal issues, and we COULD be together if we learned to accept each other as we are and let go of our grudges and past pain.
So...
-I have a doll baby of his (with a picture, hair and a stud from his jacket).
-the doll baby is usually inside a box filled with roses, and a love note and a lighter he gave me, so he will always be surrounded with reminders of us.
-A sugar jar (with hair and a tag from his jacket) filled with sugar, some cinnamon, and rose petals (also from roses he gave me).
-And previously I did a white skull on him that worked amazingly and quickly! For reconciliation from a very bad time we had. I buried the remains in my backyard.
The thing is...I've come to notice that (since he's a punk man and a Virgo) he becomes VERY resistant to my more coercive work, whenever I use red candles on him he pushes me away, or comes to me acting erratically.
Last night I was so upset at him i did a red Adam candle and he FREAKED OUT just as the candle was lit. He called me and said he loves me very much but he can't deal with the emotions caused by his insecurity, so he blocked me from everything.
I just...I love this boy. I shouldn't have been so pushy. I'm thinking about modifying or cleansing my works on him and redoing them towards healing and sweet (not dominating) love, and then not touching them again for a while, letting him rest, so that someday in the future we can have the chance to meet again and be together properly.
If anyone of you lovely people has any advice for me I'd be really thankful. <3
I'd really appreciate if you could give me your insight in this situation with my ex boyfriend:
He and I love each other very much, however our issue was always communication and misunderstandings, which between our big egos, his immaturity and my pushiness, ended up exploding and damaging us really badly.
I've had several readings done about this during time, so what I know is: the love is genuine from both of us, but we both have a lot of personal issues, and we COULD be together if we learned to accept each other as we are and let go of our grudges and past pain.
So...
-I have a doll baby of his (with a picture, hair and a stud from his jacket).
-the doll baby is usually inside a box filled with roses, and a love note and a lighter he gave me, so he will always be surrounded with reminders of us.
-A sugar jar (with hair and a tag from his jacket) filled with sugar, some cinnamon, and rose petals (also from roses he gave me).
-And previously I did a white skull on him that worked amazingly and quickly! For reconciliation from a very bad time we had. I buried the remains in my backyard.
The thing is...I've come to notice that (since he's a punk man and a Virgo) he becomes VERY resistant to my more coercive work, whenever I use red candles on him he pushes me away, or comes to me acting erratically.
Last night I was so upset at him i did a red Adam candle and he FREAKED OUT just as the candle was lit. He called me and said he loves me very much but he can't deal with the emotions caused by his insecurity, so he blocked me from everything.
I just...I love this boy. I shouldn't have been so pushy. I'm thinking about modifying or cleansing my works on him and redoing them towards healing and sweet (not dominating) love, and then not touching them again for a while, letting him rest, so that someday in the future we can have the chance to meet again and be together properly.
If anyone of you lovely people has any advice for me I'd be really thankful. <3
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Hello cihienahualli,
I think your idea to focus on sweetening and to lay off the more coercive work is the right thing to do, You've seen that he, like many other targets, does not respond well to forceful energy so avoid thay strategy moving forward.
Proceed accordingly and you should have a better chance of success.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
I think your idea to focus on sweetening and to lay off the more coercive work is the right thing to do, You've seen that he, like many other targets, does not respond well to forceful energy so avoid thay strategy moving forward.
Proceed accordingly and you should have a better chance of success.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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