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babybaby · Unread post by **babybaby** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:53 am

Thank You so Much all for your advice and information!!!!

I have placed my order with LM today, so ill wait until this arrives to start.
I have cleaned the house also because there has been such a heavy feeling in this house.
Can i ask when i do the mojo bag do i put my son name in it?

Thank YOu all.

Love to all.x

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 6:38 am

You can....Obviously it's for your son lol. Good Luck BabyBaby, please keep us posted.

And qood luck in your successes as well,

-Stay Blessed,

-TBanks91

babybaby · Unread post by **babybaby** » Sun Nov 06, 2011 12:53 pm

Thank You!!
Every success to you too.

blessings Tbanks91

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Nov 06, 2011 8:17 pm

babybaby

Yes, and his hair too.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:41 am

Odd update regarding this story....the stepdad in the house just committed suicide this week. Wow.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:08 am

Now might be a good time to increase your efforts to help the little girl further then. Pray over some Majoram or Peaceful Home incense and burn in her name. Have LM set a candle on her behalf etc.

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:33 am

Very good idea...coincidentally, I have just gotten a LM order in the mail including some Peaceful Home products!

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:01 am

SHAKUR1971 · Unread post by **SHAKUR1971** » Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:42 pm

Hello Everyone,

I have a niece who is 6 years old, and this is her first time in school. She is in the kindergarten now. She has never gone to school or a daycare before, so this is all new to her. She is used to being around me, my mom, or her mom all of the time.

When she first went to school, she cried, but she got over it and she was doing well. Now, she cries again about not wanting to go to school because she says that her teacher is mean to her. She loves all of the other teachers (example...Art, Music, etc.) that she goes to, but not her kindergarten teacher.

My sister has gone to the school and talked with the teacher about this, but nothing has happened in regards to why my niece does not like going to school anymore. Ever since my sister went to the school, my niece teacher does not really have anything to do with her anymore. When she cries in the morning time, her teacher will not come over to make my niece feel welcome or anything.

I use to come to the school and bring her lunch because my niece is a very picky eater, but the assistant principal stopped me from doing this, so now my niece will either take an apple and a juice for lunch or she will not eat anything at all the entire day. My sister was fine with me not coming to the school on my niece lunch, because the assistant principal said that maybe the reason why my niece cries so much in school is because she is use to always being around us.

We have talked with other workers at the school, and they told us that it's the teacher. She treats the kids like they are 5th graders, and I have witnessed this myself when I use to go to the school every day. I mean this is a very nasty old lady because she will get into those kids face and yell at them for any little thing. I am telling you all the honest truth. She is just too mean to those kids.

Today the teacher sent home a brand new notebook with a page and a half letter saying what my niece did or did not do in school. My sister now feels that they will call social services on her now if she does not stop my niece from crying at school. My sister has tried several times to talk with the head principal, but he never has time for anyone.

There is a social worker that works at the school and she is aware that my niece cries every day, and my sister is really going crazy because she feel that social services will take her kids away. My sister said that she is going to change her school, but I told her that it will be hard on my niece because she has friends that she loves to play with, and this will be hard on her to change school, but I am not the mother, I was just giving her my opinion.

I know that the question that I am about to ask may sound crazy, but what do you all think my sister can do at this point to get my niece teacher to like her?

I told her about a honey jar spell, but my sister does not believe in rootwork.

Is there something that my mom or I can do to help out?

Everyone is welcome to give your input and or suggestions on this matter.

MINKBYAN

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:32 am

Hi MINKBRYAN,

to help the peace of mind of both your niece and her mother, repackaging a combination of ''Tranquility'', ''Protection'' and ''Clarity'' bath salts would be a nice sneaky trick. If you go to their houses, you can also bring a small bottle of the pre-dissolved bath crystals to add to their laundry detergent, body wash and/or shampoo. This will also help your sister reflect objectively on wether or not a change of school is the best decision.

If you have a good relationship with your niece (which I gather you do from the post), talking to her about the situation and anointing her head daily before school with Crown of Success and/or King Solomon Wisdom can help her better work through the daily difficulties her teacher brings. Although her being treated this way is doubtless unfair and unhelpful - life also has a fair share of a--holes each of us must learn to negotiate in our daily lives and those frictions make us better people ultimately. Even though she's very young (and not yet of philosophical age!) perhaps with the oils and some encouragement you can help place her feet on the road forward through life and foster her independence and self-reliance even now.

On the teacher front, the honey jar is still a viable alternative if your sister won't work it: you or your mother could do the work on her behalf - you just need the appropriate personal concerns. You could also burn Vigil lights that will help the situation, a series of Boss Fix lights comes to mind.

If the soft and sweet approach doesn't give any results after a reasonable amount of time, continue the protection and clarity work for your sister and then move on to Bend Over work on the teacher. At that point a doll baby with personal concerns from the teacher, alum at the head to shut her up, knotweed to restrain her movement and a licorice stick as a ''spine'' could be a starting point. Again, you or your mother can do the work.

Hopefully a couple of these ideas might be useful to you. If not, no doubt many of the more experienced workers on the forum will be able to help you in your situation.

Blessings and best of luck.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:35 am

Get the teacher's name or picture, put it in a plastic baggie that seals, fill it partially with water, and pray over it telling the teacher she's now going to chill out. Seal the baggie and put it in the freezer.

Get some Crucible of Courage and Crown of Success bath crystals and oils, and dissolve the crystals in some water, a pinch at a time. Pray that your niece will be strong in body/mind/spirit and have total success in school and with people. Put a bit of this crystal water into her bath products: shampoo, soap, etc. So when she washes herself, she is being dressed for success.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

annmartin · Unread post by **annmartin** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 5:17 am

Hello,

I am donating a lot of my children's clothes to charity. All the clothes have so many memories that I feel like I am giving away a piece of my kids, but of course I want to help those in need. I was wondering, since it feels to me that I am giving a part of my kids' essence away to strangers, is there a prayer I can say to both protect my kids and to ask that the clothes end up in the hands of those in need, with good hearts?

Thank you,
Ann

Unread post by **Lee Canipe** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 7:11 am

Hey Ann, if you wash them well that will take anything of your children off the clothes. When you use articles of clothing in conjure, they are just the vehicle for personal conerns (sweat, blood, semen, etc.) that might be on them. Unless the person is dead, in which case their spirit might be attached to an object, a good washing should do the trick.

Lee Canipe #398 (G)

LeChatNoir · Unread post by **LeChatNoir** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 4:13 pm

Hello there. I just wanted to chime in and add to what Lee said...add some Buffalo Amnonia to the wash and you should be good to go.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Mar 12, 2012 8:48 pm

You might put a splash of Buffalo Ammonia in with the soap -- and then in the rinse water a few drops of Van Van to bless the next wearer of the clothing. I've been using Psalm 40 and Psalm 139 in some work where someone's heart needs turning around, if you want to be sure that the recipients of the clothing are empowered to live right.

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Lee Canipe** » Tue Mar 13, 2012 7:29 am

Oh, that's a great idea Miss Michaele!

Lee Canipe #398 (G)

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Wed Mar 21, 2012 9:32 pm

Hi everyone about a month & half ago I switch my 3 kids to a private school it's a very good school but my kids feel a little out of place & I know they've made friends but no best friends yet n for an 8 year old not to have one that breaks my heart since my little girl is very sweet.

I don't think the kids are warming up to them maybe since they started in the middle of the school year.
And academically the other kids are a head what can I do to help them? Should I make a honey jar? For my so the teachers & kids will make them feel more welcome and if so how do I do it?

Thank any suggestions are welcome an appreciated.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:10 pm

I don't believe a honey jar is right in this situation. My understanding (limited though it is) is that honey jars are concentrated spells, intended for a particular person. You could use one to sweeten, for example, a particularly stern teacher, but not all the teachers and children with whom your children are interacting. You can read more about honey jars at:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

I'm sure a more educated worker will be along to offer better advice, but you might look at Crown of Success products:
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
and King Solomon Wisdom:
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

These could help with your children's academics and assist them in their interactions with their teachers and peers.

I hope this gives you somewhere to start looking. Be on watch for better advice to come.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:46 am

You can most certainly make a sweet jar for gaining children and people to more welcoming. You can use an attraction honey jar with attraction products along with clove for friendship

friend-attracting-spell-t15058.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/white/f ... pells.html

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:21 am

Thank you for correcting me. That's good to know.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:18 am

Thank you I will look into LM products for attraction products.
Would I make one for each of them and do I add crown of success in the jar? or just anoint my children with it?
Thank you all for your advice.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Wed Mar 28, 2012 9:17 pm

Hi everyone, I'm making a honey jar for my kids they started a new school and just trying to help them out they're having a rough time bonding with the other kids.

So my question is do I make a honey jar for each individual kid or all three together if do how do I do it exactly?

Thanks a lot to all who respond I will really appreciated.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 2:14 am

You can put all 3 into one jar.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:24 am

Hi Sashee78,

herbs you may want to consider for your work:

Blue cohosh: http://www.herb-magic.com/blue-cohosh-root.html
Cloves: http://www.herb-magic.com/cloves-whole.html
Deer's Tongue: http://www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html
Peach Tree: http://www.herb-magic.com/peach-tree-leaves.html (it won't help them with the other kids, but it will help them with their studies!)
Seneca Snake Root: http://www.herb-magic.com/seneca-snake-root.html

Blessings to you and your little ones.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 2:33 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:You can put all 3 into one jar.

I've never done a petition for all 3 how would I write that out? Just put all their names on there with petition in form of a circle.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:53 pm

Sashee78 wrote:I've never done a petition for all 3 how would I write that out? Just put all their names on there with petition in form of a circle.

How about writing a separate petition paper for each child? That way the get their share of the spirit's attention and nobody feels cramped or short-changed.

Miss Michaele

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:15 pm

I'm putting together an order and I'm looking for suggestions.

1) My son had a stroke at birth (which he is recovering beautifully from) and is expected to recover fully. He is a little bit 'unbalanced' due to the damage in the cerebellum and his speech is a little bit behind. We have been through a lot together, he and I. He has a lot of behavioral problems and there aren't any kids out here for him to play with besides his six month old brother, I am working on this because I know how important friends are for small children (he's six). He's very, very book smart. I am trying to figure out what I could order for him, if anything.

2) I also want to order something for attracting a new, unknown partner for our family -- should I try a mojo or a spell kit?

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:35 pm

Keep trying to post to you...
http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... el_Raphael
working-with-raphael-the-archangel-t5698.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/drhernandez.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Do a search for healing in the upper right hand corner, because I am going to run out of links (after 10) Go through the list please of roots and herbs here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatherbs.html
look through the list for herbs and roots that are relative to a health situation. You will find more than ten.

As for a gentleman, you could work with Lucky Mojo Come to Me:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
then Love Me, Dixie Love, Fire of Love.
Attraction is great always as a starter and a burner!
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
Fast Luck too!

Hope this helps and all the best for you and your son!

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 9:54 pm

Thank you for replying. I've never petitioned a saint before, I don't know where to start but I will read up on it as much as possible. Should I order anything in my order to begin working with them specifically?

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:09 pm

You build the relationships with the Archangels and the Saints. This is not a hard bridge to cross, especially with the two that I recommended.

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:13 pm

Thank you soooo much Miss Tammie, I really appreciate the work you all do, Blessings!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:24 pm

Oh my, I did not post the link for Healing:
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
This link is a must, and Healing products are "must haves".

Be Blessed!!!

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Fri Jun 29, 2012 10:48 pm

Got it! Just added the blessing kit and the herbs to my order, thank you so much Lady T!! I already have blessing oil for he and his brother so I think I'll be able to put something together for both of my boys until the kit comes, thank you!

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 1:06 pm

Miss Tammie, thank you. I did purchase and receive the Blessing kit and I also have healing oil and bath crystals. The Blessing Kit is going to be difficult since there is an infant here, a six year old and myself. From what I understand, I have to bath all three of us before daybreak. Is this necessary? Or are there variations I can use? Are there any variations that can be made for an infant and six year old?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 7:38 pm

I am trying to understand how this is difficult? Exactly what time do you think this work is to be done? I would not vary a spell such as blessings...its pretty detailed..but its your call Temont. Good Luck in your work.

Unread post by **kmj** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 11:59 am

Hello All,

I wanted to start a thread for those of us wishing to proactively help our children with conjure as they grow and hear of community members favorite Lucky Mojo products they currently use in relation to this topic.

Some examples for topics could be:

Attracting the right circumstances and friends into their lives.
Protecting them from negative influence and harm.
The eradication of bad habits and behaviors.
Mental health balance as they experience hormonal changes.

Currently I make weekly offerings to St. Michael to protect my children from physical and emotional harm (some of these kids are so nasty, as we've read from other forum members experiences with bullying) and anoint their backpacks with LM Protection oil.

I also use LM COS and Master oil for exams. I tell them what the oil is for so it has the added benefit of relieving stress knowing they have something to "help" them. As practicing Catholics, it's easy for me to include my children in the prayers I do for them.

I'd love to hear from other members about their successes and failures in using conjure to help the children in their lives.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 5:17 pm

You have a kind heart for children, and I have been meaning to do this:
Miss Tammie Lee,

I loved the thread on back to school supplies. As a single parent of two, I like to learn as much as I can on hoodoo for children. We've certainly covered blatant bullying and honey jars on teachers/students but I'd like to learn how to apply cast off evil for bad habits especially sassy and sarcastic language or binding/removing bad behavior, etc. How about a thread covering that subject and the appropriate LM products to achieve results?

Regards,

kmj
-----------------------------------------------------
Kmj asked me a couple of weeks back, and I just have not gotten around to it. I am tonight

Reply to come! Thank you KMJ for stepping up to the plate!

Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:16 pm

Lodestones are great for any age or goal!
http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html

I have searched and searched for Conjureman Ali's (my fav post of all time for Conjureman Ali) where he writes about sewing a protective button into a garment for bullying. If he does not see this by Sunday, and I am certain he will; he can repost the greatest advice about the button. I wish to quote him directly, and I cannot find it. There are three favorite posts to the Lucky Mojo Forum. They belong to Conjureman Ali, Miss Bri, and Miss Cat.

Recommendations:
Root worker's special for all children: Crown of Success, King Solomon Wisdom, Clarity and (Master Key).
I meant to do a Blog about this before this school year, next year-- or quarterly-- I will be blogging about these Lucky Mojo Products. This has been an idea of mine for a long time since my last post was very well liked and seen with many hits. It is known that I wish to take care of the “kids” posts. I am not the only one, but I care about this greatly.

All Saints Oil, you indicated that you were Catholic, great! But for those that read that are not Catholic All Saints Oil and Blessing products are the way to go!

Lucky Mojo Peace Water for the teens. "They know it all"!

Protection: Arch Angel Michael Products (FYI his Feast Day is this Saturday)
Angelica Root and Fiery Wall of Protection. (For bullies)

Hormones... good luck… they are teens here are two recommendations:

Saint Dymphna maybe and ALWAYS Saint Michael the Arch Angel.

And (writer's prose for entire post from me) here is a list of Saints from Lucky Mojo with thanks to our Miss Cat!

http://www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

I am going to add more to this thread. This is just a start.

Bless the Children Always,

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:54 pm

Tammie Lee is this it (protecting-bullied-children-t5510s150.html)

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 9:09 pm

JW when I can't find the links you can! Awsome!
Check this thread out y'all!

Tammie Lee

Unread post by **kmj** » Sat Sep 29, 2012 7:07 pm

Thanks for the suggestions Tammie Lee and to jwmcclin for the link. The buttons are a great idea. I've used thread anointed with LM protection oil, prayed over and inconspicuously sewn into the backpack. But since I'm always replacing buttons, I will definitely do this, great suggestion ConjureMan Ali.

I plan on getting dirt from the school and make a honey jar for sweetness and tolerance for all students and staff. I find the kids are getting meaner at a younger age. It's sad.

My daughter just told me today that one girl said her teeth were crooked and she'd like to punch her to make them even more crooked! Can you imagine? This girl is 9. I'm debating if I try to smoothe things over or put an end to it before anything starts. This girl was verbally abusive to many students last year, she did get in trouble at school but hasn't stopped. My issue is she's so young. Do I try to freeze her behavior before it escalates? Can I try cast off evil in combination with some healing? I care about all the kids being subjected, not just my own.

Looking forward to more suggestions!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Sep 29, 2012 9:25 pm

The solutions that you have regarding a honey jar are good. Lucky Mojo Cast off Evil is great!
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

I'll say this again about Devil's shoe strings--if I could pick any ONE product as my fav it would be a toss up between Devil's Shoe Strings and Lodestones. Both do so much! See and read this entire page.

http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Mercury dimes annointed with Van Van-- a must do and must have. Ok so, you have the mercury dimes, annoint with VanVan and put them in the shoes!
http://www.luckymojo.com/silverdime.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/vanvan.html

They (the tweens at 9) are old enough to carry a protective Mojo.

Don't forget all the baths, Crown of Success, (yellow) King Solomon Wisdom and Clarity, and maybe Master Key.

Order the Root worker's special oil for annonting and for candles (white, blue) white is universal.

You can dress the button of a jacket just as Conjureman Ali said. That is actually my favorite post of his to the Lucky Mojo Forum (again a reminder).

Fourth graders can be a nightmare. Do not hesitate to speak to the Principle.

Be Blessed!

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Tue Oct 09, 2012 10:21 am

Hi folks!

My little guy (3yrs) is doing really well during the day with his potty training, but is having trouble during the night. He has wood floors in his bedroom and I made a floor wash with Crown of Success salts...but any other ideas would be welcome to this mommy!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:21 pm

Crown of Success salts in the laundry -- so his pajamas, bedding and underwear (if he wears it at night) are also fixed. Maybe a little Cast Off Evil, too.

Also, years ago, my pediatrician finally gave me a simple, effective "real world" plan: No liquids for an hour before bedtime, and wake the tyke around midnight to use the bathroom. We didn't have to do that for more than a few weeks.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Spookyredhead** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 5:25 am

Thanks! I never thought about using Cast Off Evil!

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:42 pm

Cast Off Evil is a great idea because it is used for shrugging off bad habits and gain inner strength! Nice suggestion MissMichaele.

Ed Des Sar · Unread post by **Ed Des Sar** » Tue Oct 30, 2012 7:33 am

Hello everyone,

My son is being bullied in school by a lot of students. I was wondering if it is possible to put a whole yearbook of students excluding a few into a freezer spell.

I also thought about a sugar bowl spell including everyone in the yearbook.

I am not sure which spell would be more beneficial or how I would place the entire student body as well as the staff into a frrezer spell or sugar bowl.

I would really appreciate your advice. Thanking everyone in advance for all their continued help.

Unread post by **kmj** » Wed Oct 31, 2012 4:22 pm

@Ed+des+sar

The yearbook is your friend! If you have a scanner, reduce the pages as much as you can to make it more manageable. You can also burn them to ash and then place in sugar and/or freezer packet. I would also get dirt from school and start a honey jar on all the students/faculty and staff. Call on St. Michael to protect your son as well.

Unread post by **lovsotru** » Mon Dec 03, 2012 6:23 pm

Hello this is lovsotru,

I have been struggling with this situation for one and a half. I have done some spiritual work from him but it seems to backfire.

Last March 2011, my son got a referral for going awol from school. He was 16 yrs old. The referral states that he left school to buy a pregnancy test. He states that when he & the girl had relations and the condom broke, he went out to buy a pregnancy test. She took it & it came out inconclusive.

So, they agreed that he would ask again which he did. She told him that she got her period & that was in April.

So from, March to July 25, 2011, nothing. So on July 25, we received a phone call stating that she is pregnant & didn't know.

I let my son know that I wanted to stay with him during any meeting we did (the girl, her mom &me).

To make this story short, the girl & her mother both stated they didn't know she was pregnant and that the girl has only been in this country for less then 5 yrs. The girl is from Jamaica.

We live in the same community (block). During this time the girl & her mother assured me that they would inform us of anything that goes on with the girl/baby. The mother drives by my house & never stops.

They invited us to a doctor appointment on 10/11/11 (my sisters birthday) & we went. This is was the first time my son and the girl had been alone since their encounter. In the doctor office she tells my son that, "the baby will never come to his mothers (my) house."

The next time we met up again was for the baby birth. The baby was 1 year old on 11/29. This baby is a ploy to stay in this country.

What can I do for my son? He has tried to do right but the girl keeps the bullstuff going because she can. So far she been keeping her words. We went to court (males get no respect in GA). So no test to prove who the father is, and my son didn't sign the birth certificate.

My son states that he heard she got the baby calling someone else daddy.

What work can I do for him cause he's clueless when it comes to her & the baby? She's doing stuff to him, keeping him comfused, lost, unwanted, low self-esteem. He wanted to do right but at what expense?

Here in GA men have no value. Any woman who hates men or wants a man to pay for all negative choices in men they've chosen can do so.

Help cause I want to slam her so bad but shes still a teenager.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Dec 03, 2012 6:27 pm

Hello:

First of all, if you suspect your son is the father of this kid, you can I think get a court order for a DNA test. If this child is his, he has the right and the obligation to be involved in the child's life. Use Court Case products to get a good lawyer for your son and justice for him.

Since this sounds like a complicated case, you may want some professional rootwork help. Get a reading from a member of AIRR:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

and select someone like Marin Graves, who specializes in court case and legal work. Don't give up; I know it's frustrating, but this child has a right to know his real father.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **lovsotru** » Sat Dec 08, 2012 6:17 am

Thank you for your reply. I did do the paperwork for my son. The day of court the judge had us wait around for 5 hrs only to have her DA say " the judge only gives you two choices remove my name & put his or dismiss the case. We dismissed the case because like I stated the girl has done her things. Graduted high school got a trade with her green card. Meanwhile my son hasn't finished yet & he supported still by both parents. The law says they want the men to take part but how? 20% is all the law allows for visitions, these young men are left paying for all the older men before them sins. There is no room for grow, I vote in gwinnett but to get any legal help I need to go to fulton,dekalb, cobb. The law defends the women only. We request mediation she refused it cause its her right. So again, thank you.

Lovsotru
#1653

ellaava · Unread post by **ellaava** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 12:12 pm

Its a great help for poor people,,, i m inspired with your this effort.

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Sun Sep 08, 2013 8:21 pm

He has been dealing with a lot of self image issues, as well as a diagnosed mental illness. He has been assured by his father and I that he is loved and accepted regardless! And that God still loves him, too. I think that now that he's shared this with us and knows he's not alone he can start huge heal his self esteem. I am likely going to get a reading done concerning him and possibly something along the lines of a birth and/or natal chart, I'm not sure yet.... but for the moment I want to know what I can do for him to help him accept what an amazing young man he is. If you have been in his shoes or in mine, please share!

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 09, 2013 3:35 am

Hi cadiijoj,

There are many LBGT's on the site and many of us have gone through the sometimes painful, sometimes wonderful experience of coming out to their parents and negotiating that reality in our everyday lives. It's wonderful that you're supportive and helpful through that soul-searching and forging of identity that's so hard for any teenager - gay or straight.

A birth chart is a great plan since it can give great long-term work ideas and help understand strengths, weaknesses, trends and determine careers and activities best suited to his temperament.

On the Conjure side, John The Conqueror, Nature, Crucible of Courage and King Solomon Wisdom are a good combination to help him re-build his self-esteem and move into his own personal place of power. Power products are another good choice. Bath crystals combined, the oils combined in Rootworker's special and worn as a personal scent are all good ways to use the products. Another great one would be to have a jack-ball made for him. Luck Mojo makes great ones: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatmojo.html#jack

Blessings to you and your family.

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Mon Sep 09, 2013 12:51 pm

Hello,
I just want to say Thank you for being supportive of your son, and helping cross over the first of many obstacles in being young and gay in this day and age. Good for you! and Good for him for coming out to you, as that also indicates he loves you and wants you, his parents to continue being a part of his life.

As a gay man, I totally agree with everything Aura has given above as a good way to support him. I particularly think that John the Conqueror and Nature will be of assistance in helping him to conquer obstacles he will face as a gay teen, and in coming to understand his own inborn orientation and it's natural expression without being all knotted up from challenging and confusing experiences that often happen as a teenager. Power with King Solomon's Wisdom will also be a great boon along side those first two. The Rootworker's special is a great way to get all of those combined together for him, to use on a regular basis, either for himself, or for you to work with candles and other means.

You might also look into public support organizations for LGBT people. If you live in an area that has a LGBT center (many large cities do) you can check that out. You might also look into his school for a LGBT student Alliance (sometimes also has other names like Queer Alliance or Rainbow Alliance) and perhaps PFLAG, a group that is also the help support Parents and Friends of LGBT people.

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Mon Sep 09, 2013 4:05 pm

Thank you, both, so much! I will follow that rootwork advice for sure! I am so proud of my child....I know that finally telling his family what he's been having to go through all alone took tremendous courage. I'm so thankful that now he's no longer carrying the burden of secrecy. That's too much for one person to shoulder alone. I am also thankful for the mundane world advice, which I will also follow.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Thu Sep 12, 2013 2:39 pm

candiijojo: The world can only benefit from having more parents like you. Thank you for sharing this with us.

AprilRaine · Unread post by **AprilRaine** » Thu Sep 12, 2013 8:21 pm

Thank you, Joseph. I was fortunate enough to have been raised by a mother who didn't accept the bigotry and racism that is often seen where we're from (Oklahoma). It's true that peace begets peace. I am thankful to her that she taught me that people are people..... we're all deserving of love and personal freedom to live our own truths and that God's love is bigger than man's hate. I hope I pass the same lessons on to my children.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Fri Sep 13, 2013 1:47 pm

candiijojo: You are doing a great job so far! Best wishes and best of luck to you and your family.

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Tue Oct 01, 2013 7:36 am

Speaking as an LGBT adult, may I congratulate your son on having the courage to identify and come out at his age. That took a lot of bravery, and he will need to be braver still. While thankfully students today are a lot more tolerant, there will of course still be problems that go hand-in-glove with being in high school, especially if you are weird or different -- even in this geek/nerd OK day and age. Keep a very close eye on his behavior, grades, etc. particularly if there are sudden or noticeable changes. It sounds like you have a good dialogue open, it is so important to keep it particularly as he goes through not only his evolving life but also his physical changes. Being gay can also be unfortunately molded by movies, TV, magazines and celebrities now, just the same as women (and men) obsessing over weight, looks, fitting in, etc. I'd say definitely work with PFLAG and find a group that you can all go to (not just him, you don't want to make him feel even more isolated). PFLAG often has events, etc. Another organization that is so important is the Trevor Project, which is dedicated to prevent LGBT suicide and depression. They also have events and chapters. This will be both a worrisome and exciting time for you.

I came out to my mom in an airport restaurant, on my way to Alaska for 8 months so in case there was nuclear war I could but distance between us. There wasn't. In fact, she wasn't surprised. I asked her why she'd been so negatory about it, she remembered my first experience (see below) and just wanted to make sure I was happy. She cares about one thing: That I am not alone in my later life. I'm not.

My dad, that was something else. Our family is in no way uptight, but I wondered about what he would say. We were taking a walk, and I just told him, and he mulled it over, and said, "Well, that's not the way we did things when I was a young man, but if you're happy, that's fine." He loved my partner very much, and in fact the last time I saw him, in our in-home hospice setup, he squeezed my hand and said her name three times, and I knew he was telling me to say goodbye from him, to her. So, I am happy and know I have support. That makes all the difference.

And don't forget, while it is not a 'choice,' many young people go through phases of gay, straight, asexual, etc. while they are trying to define who they are. That is part of growing up. Remember, the young brain doesn't stop forming and growing until age 25 so you have a while to get through. Always remind him, if he has problems, It Gets Better. It does.

I hope it's OK to make a small plug -- George Takei (Star Trek and many many other projects) has a hugely popular facebook page for both fans and friends. He and his husband Brad are very outspoken and champion everyone looking for equality.

If he has a relationship, be careful here. Be sure to have the young man over for dinner. Listen to your intuition and gut. There are unfortunately those, just like with straight students, who are older, more experienced and will take advantage. My first relationship (at aged 20-22 years) was a disaster. My second (and THE ONE), has been running strong for almost 18 years now, and we were both in our early 30s when we met. As with most young people, every heartbreak is a planet-killer, every tribulation is the worst thing in the world. Ride it out, it gets better.

As far as LM products, I would not only perform Crown of Success anointings on him, I would encourage him to take hyssop or Cast Off Evil ritual baths regularly as part of his routine. A daily hit of Fear Not to Walk Over Evil will help protect him as well. Fiery Wall of Protection for EVERYONE, him, you and your husband, your cars, house, property, etc. I would use Clarity and Road Opener combined to keep his mind clear and his opportunities always before him. The most important things are to talk to him, to support him, to love him, and not to let worry get in the way too much -- unless something seems off. Then worry like a mama grizzly!

Good luck to him and all your family.

Mary Thomson
HRCC #1398G