Spells to Attract New Friend, New Lover, New Relationship, Marriage Prospect

pma · Unread post by **pma** » Sat Jun 02, 2012 5:44 pm

You need to take care not to lead yourself down a road of negative self fulfilling prophecy. Thoughts can become things. Try to cultivate mental discipline and overrule negative thoughts with positive ones. I know this is easier said than done when in the midst of fear and despair. Perhaps some healing and tranquility work are in order.

Sometimes looking into your astrological chart, perhaps a solar return chart (for the year from birthday to birthday) and/or the upcoming transits to your planets can be helpful. There are some energies that occur astrologically that cannot be avoided but armed with the knowledge of their existence, those energies can be put into better perspective.

I have a friend who consulted an astrologer each year well prior to her birthday to discuss her coming solar return chart. She would ask for advice on the "best possible outcome" and she would many times travel to a different location on her birthday in order to avoid a year's worth of mess (you need to study and learn about a solar return chart in order to understand this statement). If you ask her, she would say she has lead a blessed life...but she would also say it's because she has been an active architect in it.

SoulMate · Unread post by **SoulMate** » Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:04 pm

Just an update....I did post on the Crystal Silence League and had about a dozen people pray for me! *cheers* I haven't placed my order yet for the recommended spells because I already had an order in with luckymojo that I am still awaiting due to the backlog of orders and the painting of the shop. I don't want to spend only to wait a long time so I figure I will give them time to get caught up and then submit my order for the next spell. I'm still focused though and very excited! Thank you!

onyxorchid · Unread post by **onyxorchid** » Wed Jun 13, 2012 6:16 pm

I keep thinking I've seen a spell like this, but I can't remember which thread....

I'm looking for a spell for new love. I have a pretty detailed idea of what I want, so I'm looking for a spell to help me find the RIGHT guy, not just any guy,

Skindog · Unread post by **Skindog** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:06 am

I think this is what you're after..

drawing-my-unknown-lover-t18347s150.html

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:01 pm

I have Chupparrosa and Follow me Boy oil.... I was reading about these and it says that they are supposed to draw in a 'known' lover.... Can Chupparosa be used for a new lover? If not, what oil to order for new love?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:04 pm

When you mean new lover do you mean a new unknown lover? If so yes, you may also like using attraction oil with lodestones for this, works great. the attraction spell kit is also great for that, then when you meet this person make a mojo or honey jar to keep the love going.

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:21 pm

Okay.. thank you.. I was just ordering some more LM from the curio and candle shop on ebay... I ordered the magnet, cleo may, crown of success and come to me. I'm just trying to put together a HUGE collection of EVERYTHING for every occasion... thank you

Tone2 · Unread post by **Tone2** » Wed Jun 27, 2012 10:31 am

Chupparrosa & Come To Me & possibly Fast Luck as augmentation; are the appropriate ones for finding new positive & loyal Love.

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:18 am

@ Tone... Thank you, any suggestions on how I should use them? I dress in Follow Me Boy, Come to me and Chupparosa before I leave the house everyday and it works WONDERFULLY--- I am shocked! What kind of candle work could I do with them?

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jun 30, 2012 2:21 pm

Hi Temont,

there's some good ideas on using the product lines you have with candle-work in the product info here: http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html as well as in the HITAP pages here: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

Temont · Unread post by **Temont** » Sat Jun 30, 2012 2:58 pm

Thank you!

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Thu Jul 05, 2012 7:27 pm

Can a plain offertory candle be used to represent the male? I plan on writing ideal mate on it and using come to me oil with my petition list under.

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 3:26 am

Hi Rookiebinx,

you can use a plain offertory candle if that's all you have, but do try and get the figural candle as the shape will help add strength and form to your intention.

Blessings.

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:18 am

Thank you. Thats what I'll do. I did start a back up come to me vigil light and the flame split into twin flames.

nana664 · Unread post by **nana664** » Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:16 am

This question came to me while driving home from work yesterday. How does a love spell affect someone who is not interested in you, or for that matter, someone who doesn't know you?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:51 am

It kind of depends on the people

If you're casting a love spell on a celebrity or someone who's far away and doesn't know you at all (even in a casual way) you're very unlikely to have success. I mean, if you were casting a love spell on Brad Pitt and you tried to sprinkle powders around his home you'd probably not be successful ( or even get to jail!).

If you knew someone casually, like a guy at the office who you may see in the elevator, you have a better chance of success because you have access to him to lay down powders and oils and such. What you might see happening is this person who you don't know suddenly "bumping into you" and you two start getting to know each other and thus the effects of the love spells start to build.

If you're casting spells against someone who isn't interested or who is actually hostile towards you, the effect may end up being confusion in his part or temporary infatuation/obsession if your skills are strong enough. I prefer to only do love work on people who I know are interested in me or who have the potential to become interested.

Hope this helps,
Mary Bee

thatgirl · Unread post by **thatgirl** » Wed Aug 01, 2012 4:52 am

It depends on too many factors to really say the outcome. Yes, love work can be effective on someone who has never met you at all... not even over the internet or phone (including celebrities). It can be effective on someone who isn't particularly interested in you. But it depends on why the person isn't interested in you. As for the person you've never met at all, it seems to take affect when you do meet... and according to whatever natural attraction would already be there, availability of the person for romantic involvement, etc. At least in my experiences anyway. I've never had it happen in personal experiences that someone was made to be in love with a person they'd never met, experiencing those thoughts and feelings before even meeting. (i.e. via dreams or thoughts of the person before having contact) I've seen it unfold as things line up for the two to meet, and when they do there's an instant attraction or intrigue on the part of the target. (Or, they meet and the target starts having dreams about the petitioner, but not before the meeting. It might be possible, but I've never seen it in personal experiences.)

Love work even on interested parties may have varying effects. For instance, it can actually drive a person off if approached in the wrong way... especially if the person is sensitive. This is why divination is important. And, like MaryBee said, to only work on people who are already interested, and only as necessary. It's better to get someone who is already interested in you and compatible with you and use magic to supplement the relationship as necessary. Otherwise, you'll most likely ended up doing too much work just to keep the relationship (or simply the attraction) afloat. Even if it could work, it's usually not worth so much stress and strain. That's not really love, IMO.

If it's someone you don't know or someone who doesn't seem to be all that interested, you can do work to set off a spark. However, it's one of those situations in which the time limit should be used. I wasn't raised with putting time limits on things, but it's practical for something like this so you don't lose yourself in a hopeless cause. However, if you just wanted to see what if, simply draw the person to you... see if it's effective and if you click. The more things are in line with your cause, the more effective your work will be. Do the work and let it flow naturally from there. If it falls apart after a week or two, don't start putting more into it... just let it go.

nana664 · Unread post by **nana664** » Wed Aug 01, 2012 11:31 am

Thanks for the awesome answers. I have read so many posts on here that inspire me to do some thinking.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Aug 02, 2012 5:11 am

It also depends on how you define Love. Most Love products can be used to make people more inclined to treat you nicely in general and to take an interest in you. It does not need to be a passionate love geared towards sex that is awakened, empowered, suggested to them etc.

Dr. Johannes

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 02, 2012 9:24 am

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Captivating Clothing 30
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Herbal Aphrodisiacs 32
Amorous Amulets 38
Seductive Seasonings 42
Copulating Candles 47
Make-Out Mojos 53
Darling Dolls 59
Bewitching Bottles 60
Perfect Pairings 61
Erotic Energies 62
How to Hoodoo Your Lover’s Nature 64
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DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:02 pm

Hi,
Where I live there are two types of men, deadbeats and law enforcement officers. I want to attract a law man and I'm thinking of getting creative and making a little doll baby in officers uniform and doing a come to me ritual with it. I would love any suggestions! I dont have anyone particular in mind.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Aug 02, 2012 8:20 pm

If you are unsure of the herbs, oils needed, I recommend that you purchase a love doll from Lucky Mojo and you can make the little uniform for it. Their doll babies and mojo's are the bomb.

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:58 pm

Where are thedoll babies? I haven't seen them.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Aug 03, 2012 3:08 pm

You need to go the Complete Inventory page.

DreamCatcher · Unread post by **DreamCatcher** » Fri Aug 03, 2012 5:15 pm

Would I put my petition with the list of qualities I desire in the doll or tell it what I want him to be?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 2:43 am

You can do it either way; you can make a list of the qualities you want in a guy and put it inside the doll (make sure you can fold the list up so it fits

) or you can baptize the dolly and name it something like "My Perfect Man" and tell him exactly how you want him to be.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Wild at Heart · Unread post by **Wild at Heart** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 7:26 pm

Or you could make a mojo while performing the Come to Me spell kit.

star02 · Unread post by **star02** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 7:43 am

I had an honey jar done to bring in my life partner and a lot of my old guy friends with benefits are starting to show up one by one. Is this normal to happen when doing this kind of work and is it a good or bad sign?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 9:16 am

I've had it happen too. I call this "broadcasting on all frequencies." LOL!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 11:36 am

I have had it happen this week. Someone wanted to add me to his FB account. Broadcasting on all frequencies ... I "like" that Miss Cat!!!

bfly30 · Unread post by **bfly30** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 2:51 pm

@ miss Cat, I'm making my sugar jar this wknd I can't wait to see the outcome. My aunt made one for me years ago back in high school for my guidance counselor that lady was mean for no reason & I do mean she was MEAN! After that jar she did a total 360 did everything in her power to help me graduate & was so sweet. I was shocked, back then I was too young to understand but looking back I'm amazed at what my sugar jar did for me

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:42 pm

yes its common in my experience, iv done love drawing work for a new unknown lover or a list of qualities and those exs come back. I dont know if they somehow feel the energy, or what but I take it as a good sign its drawing ppl right? lol only confusing part for me was, is one of these ppl the person or not.. Just use common sense

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Aug 23, 2012 10:12 pm

Well holy moly! I have two ex's that owe me a nice piece of change (yes, I have been hoodwinked *and* bamboozled)... I was casually considering a honey jar for love before, but now I'm sold!

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Fri Aug 31, 2012 4:49 am

LOL I love the "broadcasting..." comment LOL

moneytakea · Unread post by **moneytakea** » Fri Aug 31, 2012 2:19 pm

It is true, many spirits can't grasp many of the concepts that we can. So when petitioning them not only are they going to bring in who you want, but its also going to bring it everyone else who it can bring along for the ride and Hey many times it won't stop until you inform that you are content with the one you have found. I mean if you ask me I wouldn't mind it, the more the merrier!

Good Luck with your search of new love.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Aug 31, 2012 7:16 pm

This is a super fun thread! I'm curious to see more replies...

summerlove · Unread post by **summerlove** » Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:49 pm

Greetings, I am not new to doing candles (by Moon phase), but I am new to this form of setting lights and I can just have LM do it for me, if possible.

I have delighted and exhausted myself by being on the links and forum trying to place a format for my work for the tricks. Please provide any suggestions since I dont know what to say, or how I should be dressing the targets car or just the door, banister (maybe), and the little aluminum door stoop, the doorknob and lock.

This is a guy who knows me and where I live. We are in close proximity. I am a little nervous b/c I don't want any of the scents to be to overpowering, and for him to figure out I dressed his car, etc.

Can anyone state if I am suppose to apply the chosen oil in combination with "personal concerns" before I do so?

I was recommended to use Follow me boy, but I thought maybe Come to me may be better, if the results aren't as overpowering. So I am looking for any information or combinations.

My concern is that the guy will actin to out of character and notice himself because, he is very laid back. After reading the forum, on other post the products seems it is "off the chain" and proven.

I wasn't sure if I should dress upward or downward on the banister?

Lastly, how do I use the Magnetic Sand? Does that go with the oil or powder dressing near the door? The suggestion was to sprinkle from his area to mine, but it is too openly noticeable until I could maybe get in good to put it in his car where he drives.

I was suggested to feed himtoo, but as an African American, he is like most who know this work and don't eat others food from people they dont know. Any suggestions are welcomed.

I plan to order and get my work started next week. I just need to order what I will need to 'keep the heat' on the homefront to work in conjunction with the candle work. Thank you

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:47 pm

You need to read the pages, but we in the Forum will be happy to answer any questions you may have. I can repost the links from this past Sunday if you like. You will want to read Hoodoo in Theory and Practice, Miss Cat's online book. You can go to the specific pages regarding oils, lodestones, Come to Me, Magnetic Sand, "dressing candles" oils and annointing, etc.
We will answer back. The product recommendations on The Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour were great, and Miss Cat's online book will help you.
"Teaching a man to fish".
We are here!

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Tue Sep 11, 2012 9:16 pm

I would really invite you to go back and listen to the Sept.9th, 2012 show. A lot of the questions you have asked have been answered during the show. There are many ways to Lay Down Tricks that you can do. One that was suggested on the show is mixing a little Sachet Powder with dirt (to blend it together so the Sachet is not noticeable) and sprinkling it for him to walk on. Magnetic Sand was another suggestion to sprinkle on the ground for him to walk in.

Don't over think it my dear. If you are going to dress the banister for example then anoint it with a little oil towards you (higher end to the lower end, because he needs to come down those steps to come to you right?

). Or you may put a little oil on your hands and walk past his car and "accidentally" drop something then use his car handle to "help you back up". To quote what Dr. E said on the show:

"One of the things that people often forget is that part of doing rootwork is the risk, and the risk is part of the energy you are puting into the work."

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Sep 11, 2012 10:17 pm

That was one of the most amazing things Dr.E. has ever said, and deserves to be framed and hung on the wall!

summerlove · Unread post by **summerlove** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 6:47 pm

hey thank you all for the refresher of what was clearly said. I am hearing impaired so sometimes its not easy to hear to well while on the phone or relistening.

For days, my hand has been empty riding by the area, lol. I glad I get to order on Friday. Can't wait just to see what happens and to report back my results. It looks like I will be reading the online theory/practice book, as I love history too. I finally get to learn about what my great grandmother would never let me know enough about at the age of 8 and 12. By the time, I was a teenager I quit asking and focused on other distractions.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 8:05 pm

Hi summerlove. Just wanted to let you know that Miss Cat's online book, Hoodoo in Theory and Practice is actually free. The book, Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic, is highly recommended book to purchase.

zibo · Unread post by **zibo** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:37 am

Hello ;

Iam 36years old single lady . Have been reading some of the articles in the forum . I want to purchase oils or sachet powder to help me find/attract UNKNOWN, my ideal man ,who will be marriage minded to start a family . I work as a health professional so I want to avoid to attract patients and bad people . I live in the middle of the city centre so it's hard to do a bath spell ; as mentioned in one of your spells come to me - to throw the water in crossroads that will be difficult . So which oils , candles , powders or sachets . Do you suggest please . Please help me.

Thank you

Zibo lee.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 7:29 am

You could get the ComeTo Me mojo bag individually and carry that with you. But throwing bath water at a crossroads in a city is not as hard as it sounds. I live in a big city and I do it

if I have to use a. Usually i I will put my used bathwater in a plastic container or coffee mug and pour it out as i drive through the intersection and say "in the name of the father son and holy spirit"

zibo · Unread post by **zibo** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 7:56 am

Thanks for that. What about oils ?Which ones will you recommend .?

Wild at Heart · Unread post by **Wild at Heart** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:31 pm

I also agree with Mary Bee about disposing of the bath water in the city. If you don't have a car, you can do the same thing with walking across an intersection- just toss the water as you go. People really don't think much of this, even in broad daylight.

And you don't have to do the bathing method if you don't want to, some elements work better for different people. As Mary Bee suggested, you can get a mojo hand. You can also burn candles, make a lamp, or make a container spell (with a bottle).

For your petition, focusing on this part of the post sounds good to me:
"my ideal man ,who will be marriage minded to start a family . I work as a health professional so I want to avoid to attract patients and bad people ."
So you want your ideal man (whatever those traits may be), who is marriage-minded, ready and able to start a family, and is outside of your line work as a patient.

You don't need to worry about stating that you don't want to attract bad people, because he'll be your ideal. Consider what traits go into your ideal man- how he treats you, how he makes you feel, what he wants to for you. Those are the good things that will weed out the unsuitable people.

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Side note: I accidentally posted this reply mixed in with another in a separate thread- whoops.

zibo · Unread post by **zibo** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:56 pm

Thank you wild heart . Any suggestions with regards to candles to light or oils ; I will do a list of qualities of my ideal man . Thank you

summerlove · Unread post by **summerlove** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 8:50 pm

Hey Papa Newt:

I don't mean to sound dumb
Does the personal concern go with the oil or the powder at the
door stoop? Or does it just always go with the candle work.
Also, is it a certain way to apply the product it on the door stoop.
Like Inward or outward? or to blow it on the door?

Like you said about the banister.... Meaning I should put in the
style of coming towards me, and not towards the door? Lastly,
do the vigil candles what does it mean for them to be fixed?
Is that with everything or all the elements (roots,etc) already
in it?

nowherelass · Unread post by **nowherelass** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 7:38 am

Papa Next, thanks for recommending blending the sachet powder with dirt! I was having trouble covering up the whiteness but the dirt is such an obvious fix, especially when laying it by a doorway or the place they'll cross over! XD

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Fri Sep 14, 2012 6:16 pm

Hi summerlove. I would really invite you to stay with what was suggested on the September 9th, 2012 show. It was suggested to add a little of your Personal Concerns to food and feed it to him or Miss Cat recommended rubbing a soda bottle on your privates before giving it to him. Focus on those uses of Personal Concerns that was recommended. You may think it would be difficult to do so but when there is a will, there is a way.

As for the Oils and/or Powders the idea is for him to touch an object that you placed a little oil on or walk in the Powder. When you are laying down a Trick you are stating your prayer for what you are wanting him to do. Dr. E gave a great suggestion using Attraction Powder to "walk somebody to your door" during your call.

When a candle is fixed, such as the ones Glass Encased Vigils, they are prepared with the proper oils, herbs and then prayed over. Miss Cat did make the suggestion that you could have a Vigil Candle burning to back up the physical work (talking to him, laying down tricks, etc.). Best of luck to you!
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Papa Next, thanks for recommending blending the sachet powder with dirt! I was having trouble covering up the whiteness but the dirt is such an obvious fix, especially when laying it by a doorway or the place they'll cross over! XD

I learned that from Miss Cat, she has mentioned it a few times on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour and in the forum. They don't call it Sneaky Tricks for nothing.

Attractingwealth7 · Unread post by **Attractingwealth7** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:27 am

Hello All

I'm new to posting, however I buy LM products often. So here's my question: I want to attract a wealthy attractive single man (pref pro athlete), and I want lots of sex and affection between the two of us. Which oils and candle spells would work best for this? How can I get my results the fastest? Can I work on two love spells for two different targets at once?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:38 am

Cleo May and Come to Me would be a good combo. I would also suggest thinking about what you really want. Instead of focusing on celebrities such as pro athletes, how about an attractive, physically active man of means who is not well known? If you focus on famous men, you will have a lot of competition. There are many wealthy men (and women) who lead quiet lives. Most have businesses; some have inherited money. There are probably some living near you.

Yes you can work on more than one man at a time, but I recommend that you work on meeting the right man for you instead.

Attractingwealth7 · Unread post by **Attractingwealth7** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:50 am

Thank you Mama Micki

Wild at Heart · Unread post by **Wild at Heart** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 5:33 pm

You can make a lamp, work with candles, and you can also make a mojo, or a bottle spell if you work better with those.

Lines I recommend combining:
Come to Me
Jezebel (and/or Cleo May)
Wealthy Way (name says it all!) and Money Drawing
Follow Me (you'd want "boy")
Bewitching
King Solomon's Wisdom (so both of you make wise decisions)

P.S. You said you'd like a baller/pro-athlete (rich), but why not go after the man who owns the team (beyond just rich, and more financially secure)? These baller men are so used to women throwing themselves at them; keep that in mind when wording your petition. Ask for someone who is humble and appreciative of what you have to offer. If you're just looking for a "right now" situation then yes, you most likely can snag a baller and hold onto him for a while (months, years) and just live your life. If you're looking for long lasting love: you can have it all (love, sex, money)- it just takes longer to come into fruition because it's so specific.

When you meet him, for the sex and love you can start out with Kiss Me Now, and as your relationship deepens, add Fire of Love. Also, keep Reconciliation Oil in your stock, it's great for soothing any possible miscommunications and fights (better to have it at your finger tips than have to wait a few days or weeks).

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 5:33 pm

You can work with Money Drawing & Look Me Over an Follow Me Boy as well. Some just target "wealthy men", which is a number far greater than just two single targets. If you have two then go for them as well.

The obvious things are often those we don´t see so making sure you set yourself up in locations where wealthy men socialize will increase your success rate faster than sitting at home waiting for them to come. Also making sure you are displaying lots of intitial value to offer them once they meet you - sexuality, stylish looks, interesting topics to discuss etc will also increase your chances of fast success.

koettingqueen · Unread post by **koettingqueen** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:46 pm

Pro-athletes typically blow their money and wind up relatively "poor" due to their inability to handle money. Most people are not born with the skills needed to manage money properly -- unless these people have an extremely competitive AND dominating wealth management consultant, they're bound to return to middle class life in no time.

I agree with Mama Micki -- find yourself a wealthy man who built his financial independence with his brain, not his 300 pound body. Plenty of these men exist! But don't forget to work on yourself! There are boat loads of attractive women in the world...being sexy only gets you so far. Make yourself intellectually attractive. Have interests, travel internationally, learn cultures and languages. Build yourself up to be the Ultimate Prize.

Chelle · Unread post by **Chelle** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:09 pm

I do not have family; my friends are busy with their spouses and kids. I do not have a man. I've never been married. I'm in my forties and people say I'm attractive. I sometimes catch men looking at me but that's as far as it gets. I have been alone my entire life. I have been involved in a few relationships that have fizzled to say the least. The words of a man I know ring in my ears: "what a waste". I do get broken hearted very easily. I may be afraid? Maybe I'm boring? Maybe I'm not a good person? (But I am), I just can't seem to find love. I've tried prayer, spells, psychics... Once a psychic did a spell for me and I was harrassed by the worst possible men and lesbians (I'm straight). It was like a night mare. I have never been man crazy, but I know who I am attracted to and who I can love, but if the feeling is not mutual what good is it? All my friends had boyfriend after boyfriend as teenagers and young women. All have been married and divorced. I'm always alone. Weekend after weekend after weekend after weekend after weekend...so alone. This has been going on for many years. I was born lonely. To whom do I turn? Any suggestions? Do I pray to St. Martha the dominator, perform a spell to her? Saint Rita? Saint Elena? Any suggestions? Thank you.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:12 pm

Hi Chelle, I am very sorry that you have been going through a rough patch and hope that we can make suggestions for you to work towards clearing out the connections to the past and move towards that which you do want.

Now, I cannot say one way or the other about the psychic(s) that you have gone to and would invite you to consider someone from The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (A.I.R.R.). This organization has a list of ethical and authentic practitioners who are here to help. Also, every Sunday starting 3:00PM Pacific/6:00pm Eastern is the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour with Miss Catherine Yronwode and Conjure Man Ali. To be on the show you will need to sign up on the thread that lists that weeks show, which you can find here.

When I read your post Chelle, my thought was for you to consider a Cut & Clear Spell This fantastic work helps remove any "cords" or connections to past negative experiences so you can focus on what it is that you do want. I cannot tell you how much Cut & Clear Work has helped me to cut away to that which I was holding on to and not moving forward.

Another consideration is using Uncrossing Bath Crystals and take a Spiritual Bath. Once done cleansing yourself you can anoint yourself with oils such as Adam and Eve Oil which has been known to help one find their perfect mate. Also Crucible of Courage Products wouldn't be a bad recommendation as well to work with.

When it comes to working with Saints you preform a spell to them per se, but you venerate them. Honor them. St. Rita may be a one to consider because if I remember correctly she helps heal wounds and can assist with love drawing. You can light a white candle and set out a small glass of water for her. Pray her prayer, spend time calling upon her and tell her what is you need help with.

I hope I was able to help out in some way and I know other amazing people on this forum may have other ideas to consider. Blessings to you.

thatgirl · Unread post by **thatgirl** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:01 pm

I agree with Papa Newt and would add something along the lines of cast off evil. You can use cut and clear for this but in addition to cutting any old ties you must considered shedding old attitudes/perspectives which may stand in your way. Also, the honey wash. There is at least one method of doing this mentioned in the forums, but it's basically smearing yourself upward with honey and rinsing off. State your intentions of not only attracting love but radiating it.

The honey baths are nice and something you can actually do in conjunction with cleansing/removal type work. I would say, after you're seeing improvement to work more specifically on attraction. You can set a red candle to Raphael, or even just with a sincere prayer to The Most High and your attending spirits. And... leave yourself open to signs. Explain the situation, how you feel, what you're looking for, and what you *need*.

When things are stagnant I think it's important to ask questions and leave yourself open to answers. In the mundane, make the effort to treat yourself. So, you're turning over a new leaf. Whether it's a new hair style, changing your make up, naughty undies lol, more dresses, change in manicures, something... mark it with a change in the mundane too. It doesn't have to be some major expense or wardrobe change, but a signifier of change and effort. It doesn't have to tell the world, it just has to tell you and your attending spirits.

Whichever things you choose to do, what you're radiating is just as important as the attracting/drawing work. Love, joy, peace, openness, and all that good stuff.

Chelle · Unread post by **Chelle** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:43 pm

Papa Newt, thank you so much. Thatgirl, thank you so much. I want you both to know how grateful I am that you reached out to me in my loneliness. I will try your suggestions. I wish you peace and many blessings.