Hi...New Here from California! NEED HELP NOW!

[marlikay]

Hello All,
I am brand new to ALL of this. I've been lurking for a couple days now and became very interested! I told myself a couple months ago, "I wish I could find a love spell" And then laughed. Yeah right I thought. I didn't start looking until a couple of days ago and went with the first site I found. I think I grew a little bit of an attachment to it.
I guess I should start with my urgent issue, in a nut shell. My marriage. I just found out about 3 months ago how unhappy my spouse is. And it hit me like a ton of bricks,a slap in the face and a punch in the stomach. I didn't know he felt that bad. Our communication has been very poor for years. I've been going through depression,anxiety,panic attacks. Drinking too much. And I was withdrawing myself from my family. But I didn't realize how bad it was. We weren't going anywhere together,I never talked about my problems and I wasn't feeling as "physical" as I use too. I love him so very much and don't want to lose him ever. I want our family to stay together. I want to get better and I want us to get better. I do not communicate well with the people that I should be communicating the best with.(does that make sense?)
I never realized until then how much I love him and I feel I love him more now than ever. I was taking things for granted. We've been together for 15 years and I'm am not ready to give up!!
I have so much more to say, but I did say a nutshell. That was kind of a big shell from a big nut!
So please any feedback for me to work with would be great a.s.a.p.! I'm willing to start with some red candle spells(?) today! I was reading about the saints(confused me though) I'm not sure what,where and how to start. Was also reading about rootworkers.

Thank you so much for listening(reading) and I hope to hear from someone soon!

[Doctor Hob]

It sounds like the problems with your marriage are a symptom of the problems you are having. You could do work to bolster up your marriage, but if you don't fix the root cause, you'll just be like the little boy with his finger in the dike. If you are completely new to this, I would suggest getting a reading from an ethical rootworker, and either hiring them to do work on your behalf, or getting them to coach you. You can learn to do this kind of work, with time, but if things have gotten close to the edge, that time could be more than you have to spare. Check out the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers for a list of reliable professional workers:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

While you're getting that set up, go to the Crystal Silence League, and post a free prayer request, so people can send you their help:

http://crystalsilenceleague.org

Good Luck.

[MissMichaele]

Definitely start with the Crystal Silence League, because dozens of people will start working for you as soon as they see your prayer. Many of CSL members leave prayer requests on their altar for weeks or longer, praying over them daily.

Also, you need to dig deeper to the underlying issues, as Dixie Flatline said. You've been neglecting and ignoring each other and making each other lonely -- so you need to learn new habits and re-learn to be alert to each other's needs and happiness.

King Solomon Wisdom and Chuparrosa are your friends here. Another possible combo is Peaceful Home and Fire of Love. Candles - whether in your house or on a rootworker's altar - can support work in your own house such as baths, the wearing of oils, dosing cleaning and grooming supplies, and adding edible magical herbs to food.

• King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
• Chuparrosa Spells and Supplies
  http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html
• Peaceful Home spells and supplies
  http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
• Fire of Love Spells and Supplies
  http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html
• Hoodoo Food: the Art of Magical Cookery
  http://www.luckymojo.com/conjurecookoff.html#booklet
• Cooking with Magical Herbs, Hoodoo Foods! Cookbook
  cooking-with-magial-herbs,-hoodoo-foods ... t4443.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

[marlikay]

Thank you so much with your replys/respones/advice and links!
I did send a prayer request to the Crystal Silence League last night and was surprised to hear back so soon! I had a problem sending them a picture at first but they sent me a different link and I'm pretty sure they received it. I HOPE. It was a pic of the both of us together, happy. I thought that would be a good one. It says they've prayed 3 times already(?) I wasn't sure how it was going to work because there are so so many requests. How do they pray for each person more than once?
I wanted to ask if someone knows a prayer I can say at home for my situation without the candles and kits(for now) I honestly do not have a religion but it doesn't mean I'm a disbeliever. I can be skeptical but I'd like to believe in miracles and prayer.

That's it for now....I'm still looking into everything. There is so much to take in. I don't know how well I'll be able to do this at home on my own. Maybe I do need a rootworker(?)

Thank you again!

[MissMichaele]

I did send a prayer request to the Crystal Silence League last night and was surprised to hear back so soon! ... It says they've prayed 3 times already(?) I wasn't sure how it was going to work because there are so so many requests. How do they pray for each person more than once?

The Crystal Silence League is a worldwide network of volunteers. I'm not sure how big it is -- certainly dozens, maybe hundreds - so those three "someone prayed for you" emails mean that three people prayed for you. Maybe more, because it's quite possible that some members pray for folks without clicking the "tell X you prayed" link.

I wanted to ask if someone knows a prayer I can say at home for my situation without the candles and kits(for now)

Yes, absolutely.

• How to use the Psalms in prayer and rootwork
  http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... _of_Psalms

Only a couple of Psalms are traditionally used for fixing an ailing marriage, but there are others used for wisdom, peace, and other qualities that will help you.

I honestly do not have a religion but it doesn't mean I'm a disbeliever. I can be skeptical but I'd like to believe in miracles and prayer.

As I like to tell clients, "These things believe in themselves." And as Jesus said, faith as small as a mustard seed can still move mountains. In my experience, skepticism isn't nearly as big a magic-killer as plain old WORRY.

I don't know how well I'll be able to do this at home on my own. Maybe I do need a rootworker(?)

There are plenty of good, honest and gifted ones at AIRR

• The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers
  http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

[Joseph Magnuson]

Welcome to the forums and good luck to you.