Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Kittyluver · Unread post by **Kittyluver** » Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:33 am

jwmcclin wrote:Post a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League (http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html) for support and strength during this work.

I agree the prayers really help. I did feel better when people were praying for me.

Also will you please let us know how the cut and clear works? I really need it as well. Good luck!

justbewitched · Unread post by **justbewitched** » Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:27 am

Hello! I need some guidelines and advice on a relationship problem. My boyfriend and I lived together for almost a year when we had a really bad night and he moved out. This was 6 months ago. It never should have happened, and even he says that he didn't want to move out and have things turn out this way but he has this huge fear issue now that he didn't have before.

We have talked, we still have a sexual relationship and he tells me that he loves me and he still has the pain that we have caused each other because of that fight. I broke his heart as much as he broke mine. I brought up a relationship again tonight and he tells me that he is afraid of a relationship because it might end up the same way as it is now except he won't have anything of me and we will lose whatever we have left, meaning our friendship and our connection. I have been through hell for this man. He says the fear is so great that it blocks him from trying.

I posted on my honey jar and I thought it was working but I'm not so sure, it's been almost two weeks and I have gotten signs of jealousy from him in the past and I'm almost positive that it's this huge fear standing in our way, along with some other issues that I believe can be solved. I have access to herbs and candles and need to know what I can conjure until my supplies from LM can be ordered, what things can I do to help him to overcome this?

First of all I'm wondering if I should redo my honey jar. I know it's a gentle, consistent nudge but maybe I just need to do it over. I also know that I need a reading from a worker here to see if our problems can be overcome or if I'm wasting my time, and hopefully they can tell me if a reconciliation, Come To Me or Stay With Me casting is good. I do plan on ordering a Nation Sack kit, candles and oils from here also, when money allows. Or a Cut and Clear kit for me, depending on the reading.

Sudden update: Since today is Sunday I decided to burn a pink candle on my old honey jar, said my chosen psalm, and today I believe I see him and I in the candle wax, he is sitting on something and I am sitting with my head on his chest, in his arms. So maybe I don't need to redo my honey jar after all?

Any advice welcome, appreciated and needed.

Edited to add: Would any of the controlling oils or herbs help me in this situation as I wish to gain control in our relationship before and after it is mended.

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:46 am

Hi justbewitched,

You're right on the money with the reading, it will give you the best and most thorough information on how to proceed. The situation needs to be assessed globally rather than single-spell specifically.

That said, you can add herbs to your existing honey jar rather than start over. If you don't already have balm of gilead buds in there, put them in since that's the herb supreme for reconciliation. It helps you both get over past hurt which seems to be the main issue.

If you have a sexual relationship still, the nation sack on him will definitely keep you the controlling partner in the relationship, but keep in mind that it's far more coercive than say, washing your sheets with a dixie john root. This may actually cause more waves in your reconciliation than you bargained for. It's time to be sweet, not strict.

You're ''romancing'' again, and it might be added that ''romancing'' should never end in a relationship since that usually will be the beginning of the end. Keeping him enthralled by feeding him your menstrual blood would be your a great way to go about this.

Blessings, love and success in your works.

justbewitched · Unread post by **justbewitched** » Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:58 am

Thank you so much for the reply and I'm happy to hear I am on the right track at least about some things! I will attempt to find gilead buds and maybe some sugar added to the old honey jar also?

On another note, I no longer menstruate so what else can I use to keep him enthralled for now? Also since I stated my intentions I have to be sweet again, you're right. He knows where I stand. Is there anything I can do just for a jolt at the moment?

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Jul 01, 2012 9:08 am

hi justbewitched,

although you could add sugar to the honey jar, honey is already a sweetener so it's a bit redundant. why don't you use some deer's tongue as the second ''extra'' to help you both speak to each other more easily? Alternatively, catnip can help him be more sexually interested and uttelry bewitched by you.

if you no longer menstruate, you can use your sexual fluids or a bit of urine, but if possible use the sexual fluids since urine is more controlling than it is romantic.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jul 01, 2012 1:54 pm

justbewitched wrote:I will attempt to find gilead buds

Lucky Mojo sells them:

Balm of Gilead buds
http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

lovinlife1976 · Unread post by **lovinlife1976** » Mon Jul 02, 2012 5:10 pm

I did it!!!

I did it Sunday...I made a mistake and threw the incense at the cross roads so I did it again today. I felt some difference today. It was like as soon as I finished he calls. I was so cold to him...I shocked myself..shocked him too.. lol...then today at work he texted me "are you okay".. you see.. texting at work is a no no for him..I was cordial..I didn't get the nervous tension like I usually do.. I'm sure it will only get better with time. I'm so ready to get on with my life. He has been horrible to me and I know I deserve better. Thnx to this wonderful site and all the advice I've read. I LOVE ME!!!!

OMG...as i'm writing this post he texted and asked if I was seeing someone else. lol!!!

affie · Unread post by **affie** » Mon Jul 02, 2012 5:12 pm

Hi all..........ill try not being too long but i would like some advice on my situation please. O.k so back in january, i made my boyfriend angry at me by spoiling his birthday weekend, and acting very silly. We were actually broken up fpr about 3 months, he wouldnt talk to me, and i was very hurt. I had two readings, one by a non AIRR and the most recent by an AIRR worker. To make a really story short, both readers pulled a ten of swords card when it came to our future and relationship ( i think it was this card if i remember correctly), and the AIRR worker even told me that our future looked good, but its just that my dude was unsure if he wanted to be with me, and if i wanted he could still do the spell work, or i can just wait to see if my boyfriend would make up with me on his own. I went ahead and had work done, one spell was so that my boyfriend could have the courage to open back up to me again, (i can feel sometimes that he has his gaurd VERY high up with me) and another to make him love me so that we could have the chance to fall in love. I was so amazed, about a month and a half i was unsure if the rootwork was done at that point but all these signs (positive) were popping out at me!!!!!!!

for eg, i was about to message his friend and i selected "R" to get the option "Reply" when an option that i had NEVER seen on my phone before popped up, it said "reconcile now". if any of you own a black berry you know that is just not an option on a blackberry phone. Anyway, that same day i saw and got quite a few more good signs, i even dreamed about the rootworker telling me i will have successful results from how the candle burned. Anyway, to date: My boyfriend and I have gone from him not talking to me, to us spending time together a couple times (we live 4 hours away) and now he actually makes the time and effort to message me at least twice a week, whereas before it was zero, he is now calling me babes again....whereas before he would just be like wassup or yo,lol, he has been telling me that he is going through some tough times financially, which i think is DEFINITE MOVEMENT because he does not open up about stuff like that to just anyone. i have been so patient and i still am in this whole situation and i know It has not yet been 3 months since the spell has been completed, so i know it hasnt fully "kicked in" yet. I just would like to know, i have some reconcilliation powders and oils i ordered and recieved, would it be too much if i wear them on me as a scent or dust my clothes with the powders when he's around, or does anyone think that it will be too much and i should just let the work take its course? I just want him to remember why he started dating me and soften him toward me more, just remember the better times we have had together.

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 03, 2012 6:58 am

Hi affie,

there's no reason you can't go ahead and use the oils.

saratoga · Unread post by **saratoga** » Tue Jul 03, 2012 7:55 am

lovinlife1976 wrote:I did it!!!

I did it Sunday...I made a mistake and threw the incense at the cross roads so I did it again today. I felt some difference today. It was like as soon as I finished he calls. I was so cold to him...I shocked myself..shocked him too.. lol...then today at work he texted me "are you okay".. you see.. texting at work is a no no for him..I was cordial..I didn't get the nervous tension like I usually do.. I'm sure it will only get better with time. I'm so ready to get on with my life. He has been horrible to me and I know I deserve better. Thnx to this wonderful site and all the advice I've read. I LOVE ME!!!!

OMG...as i'm writing this post he texted and asked if I was seeing someone else. lol!!!

Great! to me that means that your partner had no black magic on him or some other kind of bad spell so once you change your energy everything is changing. Happy for you, really. all the best

talismanpower · Unread post by **talismanpower** » Wed Jul 04, 2012 9:14 am

I am just curious about magical spells? I have heard that spells can be really powerful i was just thinking that are there any spells which can bring back the lost love or in some way bring the lost person back in ones life?
Please excuse me if i am wasting your time?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jul 04, 2012 11:16 am

Read this to answer your question on whether spells and magic are real:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html

You can work with Reconciliation and/or Return To Me to bring your lover back.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Jul 04, 2012 3:19 pm

Search the forum as you will find many people trying to get back their lost love one or lover. And yes there are specific products geared towards this such as Reconciliation and Return to me.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html

In addition, you seem pretty new to hoodoo, and have quite a few questions about how it works, if its real, etc.

You can start by reading through these pages to get an understanding of the tradition as well as browsing and searching the threads to many of your questions.

Good luck and hope you enjoy learning about hoodoo.

http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 10:08 am

This topic has been discussed extensively on this forum. Just do a search for "reconciliation" or "getting my ex back" or "return to me" -- and you'll learn not only traditional methods for this work, but also what to do when it doesn't work (in short: people break up because of underlying issues which are often not addressed before reconciliation work begins.)

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

dulcedeehem · Unread post by **dulcedeehem** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 2:40 am

hi well i was with this guy for a long time and out of nowhere he decided to break up with me. he is very well influenced by his parents that dont like me so i have an idea where the break up came from and well its only been a couple of days since the break up and he wont talk to me. hes starting to like a new girl that has a boyfriend. after all the years we were together im sure he cant forget me like that and id love to have him back, i dont want to harm him. are there any simple love spells i can do to get him back? something that will also make him think of me? something that will make him forget about that girl? the girl is not interested in him. and something to possibly make his parents like me or tell him to get back with me? id prefer something simple im new to this...thanks to everyone in advance.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 8:32 am

First you need a reading to see if what you think is really whats going on. Also to tell if reconcilation will work. Next id freeze the other girl out by writing her name, taking her pic and sticking it in the freezer to freeze her out of his life. For the parents id make a honey jar to sweeten them to you, and for him I would use the reconcilation spell kit from LM. It wont hurt him or force etc. It uses balm of gilead buds that help heal past hurts and make am ojo you carry.

dulcedeehem · Unread post by **dulcedeehem** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 9:15 am

Basically he left me for this other girl kind of. I need help with the honey jar. I'd like more info on this thank you so much!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 9:17 am

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nutter · Unread post by **nutter** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 10:26 am

So I just had coffee with the ex and had no problem sneaking the menstrual blood in. In a few days I'm gonna try for another dinner date. I was thinking about covering his knife and fork in oils when he's at the bathroom or something ( reconciliation, love me, follow me boy) and sneaking more blood into his tea (benefits of Chinese resturant!)

I have a ton of his socks though and I was thinking about laying a trick on them and giving them back. Suggestions??

Please feel free to critique anything else!!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 11:55 am

DON'T DRESS HIS SILVERWARE WITH OILS. HE'LL TASTE IT!. Take a bath before your date and have a cotton ball damp with the bathwater in your purse. Use that.

The socks sound great, though. Dress them with Reconciliation and Return to Me. Follow Me Boy is good too, but if he feels attracted to you against his better judgement, there'll be drama. Put some Tranquility in there too.

Tranquility would be better on his head, if you can get to his comb or hair products. If not, put some in that love bath.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

nutter · Unread post by **nutter** » Thu Jul 12, 2012 8:33 pm

Thanks!! What if I just put it on the handles of the silverware?

LaSirena · Unread post by **LaSirena** » Sat Jul 14, 2012 12:20 pm

Hi!
How can I get my daughter's father to enter my home and eat what I offer him? He is reluctant to come and when he has come with his mom to visit our daughter he refuses to eat or drink anything I offer him. I have consulted root workers and they are doing work for this case, however, if there is more I can do I will gladly do so!! Thank you!!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jul 15, 2012 7:50 pm

Are you in consult with a AIRR worker? If this is the case, I ask that you ask your worker to recommend additional work for you to draw him into your home.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jul 15, 2012 10:52 pm

He's coming with his mother and refusing food and drink? Sounds like mama trained him to beware of conjure.

Miss Michaele

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Tue Jul 17, 2012 9:34 pm

hello. so here's my update on things and some questions. I started a black skull candle for her. i named it, carved the thoughts and things i want her to say all over it. stuck pins in it dressed it w/ controlling, influence and a bit of break up oil on it (more for the thoughts of breaking up). I also added deers tongue as well. I took a pic of the two of them and ripped it in half. Wrote her name on back of pic and all the things i wanted her to do and stuck it under the candle. I took his pic and wrote all the things i want her to think of him and say to him all over his pic and placed in front of the skull candle. i had a cigar burning, and licorice chips, along w/ a purple candle burning as a backup light. I have done the candle for 7 days. it has burned a little above half way, only creating a hollow area in the skull, but not melting the outside shell of it. My questions: Do I continue to burn it until it burns all the way, or stop and discard as needed since i've burned thru to 7 days? I have also been doing my honey jar. I havent heard anything from him at all, not even a text to see how the baby's doing. I know i need to give it time to manifest. But I can say doing the spell took alot of energy out of me. I also have my figural candles to start the moving candle spell that includes a man for her as she leaves mine. I have not started yet bc i wanted to put things in her head 1st to start giving her that push to want to start walking away. Is it ok to start this one now if i need to continue working the skull candle, or should i finish the skull 1st completely, then start this one.

The only sign that ive seen so far is in my dreams, however i'm not sure if the dream should be interpreted exactly as its dreamt. Basically, ive had several dreams w/ the same idea and concept, just different scenes. He comes to me either to see me or the baby, says maybe we arent really to be, but then starts to change his tone and actions to come back. When i question him what he wants and ask him specifics on our relationship he leaves and from what i get, asks her abt everything. then comes back to me w/ answers like "well she has a point, or you know this is why this cant work". We go back and forth like this a cpl of times, him going to ask her about what i sd and coming back with whatever excuse she gives him. then i tell him things to suggest i give up and he needs to go...he leaves goes and says something to her and comes back to me, but not to say more excuses, but to really stay w/ me. Thats how it ends. i have had several dreams that way. idk if that means anything, but thats the only movement type ive seen.

So sorry that was a bit long. Does anyone have appropriate direction on this? Any suggestions and answers to my concerns? All those with the proper knowledge on this please, your imput is appreciated.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:28 pm

nutter wrote:Thanks!! What if I just put it on the handles of the silverware?

Well, then it'll be on his hands, and it might find its way into his mouth. I'd still use bathwater in preference to oils -- because it's got some of YOU in it, and because of the milder fragrance.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 20, 2012 9:49 pm

Rather then his silverware, does he get male at your house still? if so take a letter and dress it with the powders and give it to him, same result as you wanted with the silverware but it will go unnoticed or tasted.

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 8:08 am

Sorry. Don't want to seem pushy. But could someone respond to my post please. I'd really appreciate it.

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 8:57 am

Has there been a change since your last post? From what you are saying and taking account the content of your dreams, it would seem as if he is resistant to your work. Have you considered doing something differently as far as the work you are doing?

Angel_gabrielle · Unread post by **Angel_gabrielle** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 10:59 am

My ex partner, left me and my son 6 months ago. he has shown that he wants to come back on a number of occasions, twice when we first broke up and once more recently, and has asked me to go on weekends away with him and then changes his mind all of a sudden saying its not a good idea.

I think his mum (who he lives with now) is changing his mind and turning him against the idea. She had an angel card reading that said my ex would have another baby with me and we would get back together and her response was oh I hope that doesn't happen (I also had a reading that said the same thing) she has also told him that the psychic said I would trap him into having another baby, she did not say anything of the sort. Numerous readings have said we will be back together and that there are more children in our future how ever every thing seems to be at a stand still he doesnt reply to my messages even when they are about our son how ever he is still friendly and polite when he drops him off.

Is there a spell that can be cast to get him to come back that will be strong enough to block any influence from his mum or other forces also can anyone recommend a good spell caster as I know there are a few fakes out the. Any guidance will be appreciated

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:04 am

Hi Angel_gabrielle,

a good spell kit for your situation that comes with materials and instructions is LMs Reconciliation spell kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html

That said, the spell may bring you back together but his mother's influence will not be addressed. Some strong protection alongside work to sweeten you to her can help. That said, what protection is best, how strong a worker you're up against and the chances of mending a relationship with his Mother for the benefit of your relationship and your children's family environment is best looked at in the context of a reading.

Wonderful workers (both readers and spell casters) can be found within AIRR. Since AIRR has a code of conduct as well as recourse for you if you have difficulties with your worker - you can rest assured of the reliability and ethical nature of their members. Look through those fine folks here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

Angel_gabrielle · Unread post by **Angel_gabrielle** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:11 am

Thank you for the reply I will check out the links you sent. I am very confused by his mother as she is always lovely to me and says she looks on me as a daughter she always offers to help out with my son however I'm sure it is her influence changing his mind

blanksean · Unread post by **blanksean** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 2:46 pm

i dont know what to do. we are so wonderful together. i need her.
but though she says she wants to get back together she is cold and distant
and wont help me. it is my fault we are split her little brother got sick and i sent her home to take care of him. then my father got really sick i went to be with her but her parents wouldnt let me i got confused and hurt. and acted out in pain and caused her to leave me she says she wants to get back together. but i cant seem to get past the blocks i caused. i need help.
i want to do road opening a honey jar and reconiliation work. but im not sure how to go about this. my father has gotten much worst he is hospitalized.
i dont know what to do. i need her to get through this and i can see she wants to be there for me she is trying but i hurt her alot she is cold and distant even when she is here. she is the only person i have and she wont call me to let me cry to her. she is however texting me everyday. and even told me she loves me last night. but she wont open the door and wont help me restore out relationship she says she is trying but she cant see her methods are causing us both more pain. please help us.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 5:00 pm

They pulled the 10 of Swords?? That is not a good card for the future. It means death, destruction, betrayal...

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 5:02 pm

...lets hope that was a ten of cups or pentacles...

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 8:07 pm

you can wear the oil and powder and seems the work is working based on the positive signs and movement. Try not and obsess over it or worry about it and let it go naturally. I know thats like telling a kid not to eat candy but its truely worth your effort in making this work for you. Also if you worked with a worker, you can always contact them asking if its ok to do something, they did the work and the reading, they would know best for your situation. Hope the best for you and the ex!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 9:25 pm

1. Family over someone that is causing you more harm during this time. My concentration would be going towards helping my father during this time.

2. You should consider getting a reading because this just doenst make sense with how she is acting.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 9:58 pm

Psychic Mimi,

there has been no change. it's only been a cpl of days, but have not completely ended it yet bc not sure if i'm supposed to. I never got a reply back about burying my candle. (pls check previous posting) I havent even started a moving candle yet. And not sure if he's resistant or not per say bc i havent seen him to see if the work is manifesting and taking its root in the background. i can see where my dreams seem like hes resisting w/ his back and forth, but it always ends w/ him being w/ me. he is in my dreams alot. almost everynight. mainly this scenerio, but last night it was just him making room and straightening his house for me to come in w/ him and his buddies. no her this time. but i still havent seen him. still working the honey jar (but when we are together face to face, he is always sweet to me). trying to see how to finish the black skull and if ok to start moving candle w/o finishing the skull candle or to wait complete it. that's where i'm at

lol
and thank you for responding to my post. Oh, and the black candle is for "her" not him. but i do have a red one for him, just havent done anything w/ it yet.

Thanks

blanksean · Unread post by **blanksean** » Sun Jul 22, 2012 5:58 pm

thank you very much. i have an apointment with dr kioni tuesday.
i have also done a honey jar i have a few questions about.
i didnt have hair but i have a bandage with her blood on it i used that instead.
i didnt have real honey i used honey flavored syrup instead wich had honey in it and blue berry syrup. i also didnt have sugar so i used a heart shaped lolipop
is this okay? also i have real honey now and sugar and a photo of us. is it okay to open it to add these ingredients? or should i maybe do another?
i also put many love herbs in it. including basil and ginger.
and chicken seasoning with had nothing but love herbs.
is this okay?

swtdrmz1 · Unread post by **swtdrmz1** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 7:11 am

Good morning everyone. I hope this note finds everyone well.

My question is: I just broke up with my boyfriend this Saturday. He went from day to night ( positive to negative ). His reason for breaking up with me is that he does not have enough time to fit me in his life at this time.

I thought of using the Chuparrosa candle. I did not have one, but I did have a solid pink candle which I dressed with Fire of Love and Reconciliation. I thought there was psalm that was read to go along with it. Would someone know?

If not, would anyone know of a psalm that can be read to use along with the Chuparrosa prayer.
I was also thinking about using the Adam and Eve spell. I am just at a loss for the prayer/psalms.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Blessings to all.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 7:16 am

My suggestion to anyone doing love work is to read the entire Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) in the Bible, then select the passages that are best suited to the situation.

I also suggest that you get a reading: www.readersandrootworkers.org

swtdrmz1 · Unread post by **swtdrmz1** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 7:39 am

Thank you Mama Miki for your help.
I am looking into the Song of Solomon now.

Mama Micki wrote:My suggestion to anyone doing love work is to read the entire Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) in the Bible, then select the passages that are best suited to the situation.

I also suggest that you get a reading: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 10:02 pm

I'm Srry. Can some1 let me know Wat I'm supposed to Do w my skull candle? I haven't burnt it for several days waiting to see Wat I'm supposed to do w it. So was I supposed to continue it or.was stopping.it OK? Was stopping it the wrong thing.to do and did it interrupt the spell?

JackieLove · Unread post by **JackieLove** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 2:19 am

Cherry4 wrote:I'm Srry. Can some1 let me know Wat I'm supposed to Do w my skull candle? I haven't burnt it for several days waiting to see Wat I'm supposed to do w it. So was I supposed to continue it or.was stopping.it OK? Was stopping it the wrong thing.to do and did it interrupt the spell?

continue burning it for the full 7 days as long as you pinched the flame out and didnt blow it out. on the 7th day let it finish no matter how much is left.

spiritcandy · Unread post by **spiritcandy** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 10:07 pm

He's my friend again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

badkittyinsincity · Unread post by **badkittyinsincity** » Sat Jul 28, 2012 3:35 pm

I need advice on how to bring back the love of my life.

Our situation is kind of a tricky one. We got together almost 2 years ago. He was divorced (for finacial reasons) but still living with his ex-wife and two daughters. I was separated from my husband due to his physical abuse (finally divorced). We started to date and soon after we fell in love. We talked about marriage, having more children and our future together. And then one day he up and left and went back to his family. I was heart broken....most important I was pregnant and he didn't know yet. I was going to have his son.

Our contact ended and I had his son. It was difficult and stressful because his ex-wife began sending me threats via email, dropped letters off at my door step and soon after started stalking me on facebook and driving by my house. She became malicious and down right evil. She threaten my oldest son, who at the time was only two. Her emails critized me for being a single mother and told me that I needed to have an abortion. I endure so much stress from this woman that I believe she is the reason I had my son premature and on life support the first three weeks of his birth.

After our son became a year old he tried to get in touch with me for mediation to see his son. It hurt to see him. He apologized and explained he went back for his girls. He said if I had told him I was pregnant then things might have been so different. Eventually he left his exwife for a second time because he knew I would never allow our son around her. And his exwife started making demands to him and told him to never see his son. Him and I ended up back together. Briefly. He told me he could no longer be with me or his exwife because one of us would constantly suffer.

He told me last night that if he had met me before he had kids with his ex that he knows we would have been happy and together forever. I strongly believe this. In every tarot I have done for him he is my lovers, two of cups and ten of cups. My soulmate.

I want him back. I always have. Please tell me what I need to get and how to use it. I also know he has out side influence telling him he should not be with me because it would hurt his ex. I think that gave him alot of emotional confusion too. So, I also need to know how to shut them up so he can think for himself.

I would like to buy some stuff from LM and do it myself but would also like to enlist some reinforcements like Congure man Ali or a rootworker.....two heads are better than one right? I just don't know where to start..........PLEASE HELP ME GET MY FAMILY BACK and advice would be greatly appreciated!

MysteriousPisces3 · Unread post by **MysteriousPisces3** » Sun Jul 29, 2012 5:43 pm

Hello,

I am new to Lucky Mojo and I am overly stressed about a on-going situation that is occurring in my life and I am interested in how to bring about a reconciliation between the person I consider a soulmate and I.

Let me first start by saying that I have been working with someone who has been doing an energy cleanse for me and things don't seem to be working and after paying $150.00 over a month I think it's time to seek another source.

Here goes...

The person that I would like to reconcile with and I have been together for about 9 years now off and on. Within this 9 years we have been through a lot of ups and downs.

Recently I found out some intense information that caused me to lash out (with good reason) uncharacteristically and since that time he has had ill feelings towards me and I towards him.

He has moved on in another direction with another person that was unknowingly in the picture during our rough period and I'm at a point now (after a month of not being in contact with him) where I want the lines of communication to be opened between us so that we can have a conversation about the situation and past situations as well, but he seems to be content in this state of separation. In knowing him well, my intuition tells me he will contact me, because that is our pattern, but he's being stubborn.

I know that this is the person I want to spend forever with if only a few things could change. The number one things being a level of commitment (marriage), respect and honesty need to be established between us as I have always been the loyal partner that I am wanting him to be as well.

To sum up our relationship he is a classic Sagittarius and I a Pisces.

Just want to know how to go about reconciling, loving, and communicating with him.

NEEDING SOME HELP DESPERATELY.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jul 29, 2012 8:55 pm

Im really sorry about your situation. May of us have had similar experiences and trust me we all feel for you. Now first id stop with that other worker and contact an AIRR worker and have them do a reading and possibly work for you. A reading is to see what will happen and what work to do. we suggest AIRR because they are a sister site to LM and are held to ethical standards which other workers outside of AIRR are not. see link below. In a general sense the suggestion is to cleanse you and your home before starting any work. I would use uncrossing or 13 herb bath for you and chinese floor wash for the home. I would get a break up spell kit and start it right away on him and this other girl. I would start a honey jar using reconcilation oil on the candles for you and him and keep that up the whole time.. 3 weeks into it id use a reconcilation spell kit which has you write a letter and make a mojo. then id wait the 3 mo and see what happens. If wanted you can have LM or an AIRR set 7 day candles to help back up the work and keep up the pressure while waiting for manifestation of the work. With all reconcilation work, we suggest you set a time limit to work on the person and after that limit move on. Why you may ask? because its easy to get caught up in the work and next thing you know its 3yrs later and still lighting candles and hoping. From a personal experience with an ex who sounds just like yours, they always come back, mine always does but at what cost to me, and how long before enough is enough...meaning if they not willing to settle down and see you for the beautiful loving perfect individual that you are then find someone who will! I know its hard, and im not saying he wont be that person, rather dont get caught up in a cat and mouse. Lastly in hoodoo its oftenb discussed about a persons nature and you cant change it.. meaning if you are emotional then all the hoodoo in the world is not changing that.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 5:43 pm

j82 posted several very good recommendation! Starting with the reading is my preference also. There are several options for cleansing, you just find your niche...Good luck!

Unread post by **ProfessorAmes** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 6:17 pm

This is complex and you'd be wise to get a good divination to see who is at the core of this and what they are throwing at you. I certainly feel like there's some outside influence going on here, like you say.

Two suggestion for you to start researching. The first is a freezer spell. You literally fix up a packet with the target that you want to shut up and put them in the freezer to keep them from influencing your man any more. http://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

The second suggestion is to do some clarity work on him. He needs to get his mind around what he really wants and also to see how his ex-wife really operates - with threats and stalking. http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Okay, I"ll add a third. After you've eliminated these outside influences and he's got his mind cleared up, start building your relationship. I personally like the Love Me formula http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html and the Chuparrosa line. http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html

Good luck!

MysteriousPisces3 · Unread post by **MysteriousPisces3** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:37 pm

Thank you j82 and jwmcclin for your suggestions,

I'm definitely planning for the reading this week because I definitely want to know if it's worth even putting my energy into. In my mind I want us to work and I believe we can work because in my heart I know somewhere in the thick of things we are meant to be and but we just have to find our way. I just want to know if the work will be worth it. I know his ways are ingrained in him and that he's the person that he's going to be there are just little things that I hope to see change. I love him the way he is but of course there are nuances that could be worked on. Mainly I just want the lines of communication to open up between. I've been praying on it, analyzing over, and talking about it for a month now and he just seems so blocked and blinded that my faith in it is starting to waiver. I am excited about the reading though and then I'll go from there. I did my research online at the Lucky Mojo and have sort of decided where to start with the work as well. But you're suggestions are definitely what I was researching.

Thanks for being a "listening" ear.

Valjoy07 · Unread post by **Valjoy07** » Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:11 pm

I have a couple of different questions I was hoping someone could help me with.

First, last Friday night I worked the "white candle love spell" I thought this would be most appropriate in my situation because me and the guy are still in contact and still sleeping together but it just hit a rough spot a while back and so right now we are "just friends." However, this being my first spell it was very hard to concentrate the whole time. Should I or could I work the spell again with the same altar stuff in about a month?

Second, I have also created a honey jar for him. My problem has been the candles. I know my packet was done properly. But i haven't been able to let my candles burn all the way out! I've been putting them out by pinching the flam with my fingers. I bought some birthday candles in pink and red and I'm going to start using those tonight on the same jar - is that okay?

Also I don't currently have any dressing oils, and it's important that I work my jar pretty heavily this week cuz me and him are trying to "figure it out" are there any oils I can get at home or to start using tonight so I can amp up the power? I figure I can order some oil once we get past this week to keep it up. Any suggestions?

Any help is greatly appreciated!!! <3

arnoud · Unread post by **arnoud** » Tue Jul 31, 2012 10:18 pm

hello.

my girl broke up with me and i am so in love with her. i need advice to get her back.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:57 am

Hello:
I suggest first getting a reading from a good reader/rootworker to see what the chances are of getting her back. Go to http://readersandrootworkers.com to find a reader you like.

How long ago did you break up? The sooner it was, the more likely the emotional ties are still fresh and you have a better chance of success.
Do you two still see each other in town? Do you have access to her home? You can get a Reconciliation spell kit and use that to work towards your goal.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

mrbeac · Unread post by **mrbeac** » Sun Aug 05, 2012 5:41 pm

Please, someone help me, I need to bring Tyler(Bonnnie) back into my life, when she left that day I had no idea she wasn't coming back. She is 38 and a 65 year old doctor has lured with his money. Her dad called me and asked whats wrong with her she sounds brainwashed! She is my soulmate these are her words to me "you are my best freind forever my soul mate my lover I am going to take out of here with me the kitties annie and now a puppy no one is perfect forgive and let go we are soul mates and are soon to be married and have a child in a simple town" I don't know what happen I just want the woman who wrote that back in my arms. I am at my wits end, I know in my heart I love her and she still loves me. Please,Please, I need HELP!!!!!! Thank you for reading my post.

Kayrie · Unread post by **Kayrie** » Tue Aug 07, 2012 5:33 pm

Long story short: my boyfriend moved out and wants to end things. We are finally going to talk about our relationship sometime this week.

I’m pushing for one final chance with the relationship and if things don’t work out by the deadline, I plan to do a Cut and Clear.

Since him moving out, I have light a Reconciliation candle at MISC and received the report today. The reading was VERY favorable for my work.

I also started a picture box spell and petitioned him to think sweet things of me while burning a pink candle dressed with Dixie Love oil and Come to Me powder. I have also cleansed the apartment, myself, and car with Florida Water as per a reader’s recommendation.

In addition to this, I faithfully light my honey jar every M/W/F.

After the initial fallout, I doubled my efforts with the honey jar, with lighting a candle and praying over it once a day for a week. I have ALSO been sprinkling Come to Me powder on places we will be. When I was actually invited over to his parents, I put some powder on the car he is using and got a little bit on his cat (who he immediately started petting.)

I have the following products:
Cleo May oil
Crown of Success oil/powder
Attraction oil
Dixie Love oil
Fires of Love oil
Kiss Me Now oil
Look Me Over oil
Come to Me powder
Some Dixie John root

I also do still have a paper towel with some of his “stuff” on it. The only thing I can think of doing is continuing the sweet route and when I see and talk to him next (probably Friday,) to dress myself with Dixie Love and Attraction oil (to draw him back in) and possible sprinkle some more Come to Me powder in the doorway of the place we meet at. I am seriously kicking myself for not ordering some Reconciliation or Stay With Me products.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Tue Aug 07, 2012 10:43 pm

You seem to have good work underway, and a sunny outlook from the candle divination. Just keep the work you have going, and see what happens when you talk with him. It sounds like things are under control.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:31 am

Hi there:
You need to get a reading to see exactly what's going on with Bonnie and you, and if there is a chance you two could be brought back together.

Go to http://readersandrootworkers.org and select a reader; all of them are good and can give you an accurate, ethical reading.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Kayrie · Unread post by **Kayrie** » Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:34 pm

Excellent to hear!

To aid the work, I am thinking of burning two candles at MISC: Fires of Love and Stay With Me and then being on my best behavior this weekend. (Which means no alcohol because I become a huge bro when I have booze in me. No lie.)

The Source · Unread post by **The Source** » Sat Aug 11, 2012 5:03 pm

Ok as I stated in my last topic, my herb jar spell on my baby daddy is working. I am very happy. I got a text from him saying he has been having hot flashes and its when he thinks if me. He cant stop thinking of me. He needs me. OK ok ok Im glad for that but its at a stand still. I need advance to get him coming over and spending time and the eventually we are back together. So any advice..... I did get a reading and it said I was in control and my ending results would be in my favor. Even spoke of a union of either reconciliation, birth or marriage. I know its not birth because my tubes are tied.

This is what I have:
Cardamon Seeds
Corainder seeds
lavendar
cinnamon
rose buds
rosemary
damiana
alfafa
catnip
cubeb berries
cumin seeds
star anise
come to me oil
eve oil
magnet oil
queen of sheba oil
dixie love oil

I have to make due with this. Give me some ideas to get to the next level. Thanks in advance