Curious Kate, when we perform spells, we generally follow a time-honoured order of business. For instance to cast a curse or to jinx someone or cross them up, we prepare to perform the justified spell of vengeance, then cast it in a justified manner, then clean up after our work (not to remove the spell, as you thought -- but rather to get the mess out of your house, you know, like cleaning the dishes after you cook dinner!) and then bathe with Hyssop and recite Psalms 51 to remove any sin from possibly asking for something out of line, just from bad-temperedness instaead of from a position of justification.
If you cannot follow this sequence, perhaps because casting a justified curse is all too new to you, i suggest you hire one of the rootworkers at AIRR who does ten-minute readings for ten dollars to talk you through the work step by step until you get the picture.
As for offering you "substitutes" for Rue and Hyssop, well, in the first place, Hyssop is as popular as it is for ONE REASON -- because it is cited BY NAME in Psalms 51, the very Psalm recommended to you for taking off sin, so, no, there is no substitute for that.
The idea of substituting Lavender for Rue is ridiculous. too. Lavender is for friendship and love, especially gay love -- but Rue is used to protect against the evil eye and it is very popular in Mediterranean and Latin American countries.
The idea of substituting Red Pepper and Red Pepper for Rue makes what i call "half-sense," because Red Pepper and Red Pepper are employed for protection -- but the concept of protection associated with Red Pepper and Black Pepper comes from another culture (African and African-American) and the protection they offer is largely against foot track magic. So Red Pepper and Black Pepper are not a "substitute" for Rue but rather an entirely different protection herb combination from an entirely different area of the world for an entirely different condition. A better substitute for Rue in its role as an evil eye protector is Aspand (called "Syrian Rue") -- it is from the Middle East and South Asia and is also used against the evil eye.
HER-HYS-LEAF
Hyssop Leaf
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Then, in the second place, your question about "substitutes" is a kinda weird question to ask us, since this is the forum of a shop that sells Rue and Hyssop and almost 200 other magical herbs, roots, and minerals. We are here to serve our customers, and to teach them how to use the supplies and products.
So, here are the pictures of the packages, and you can click on the blue "Add to Cart" buttons and order them! Your IP address indicates that you are located in the state of Georgia -- so, if you wanted to, you could order those herbs at a mere $3.50 per packet plus shipping, and you would probably have them in a week. But, frankly, i would skip the Rue -- what you need is Hyssop and Uncrossing Bath Crystals, in my opinion.
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Rue Leaf (Ruda, Ruta)
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Best of luck to you!