Spells for Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Intersex Love

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Thu Dec 20, 2012 6:57 pm

newbie7890,

Thank you for the time limit idea it was mentioned before and I have set a time limit already. The question I would ask you now is do you think it is a bad idea of I texted him back on Christmas day to say something like merry Christmas? My friend insists if I want this to work out this has to be a 2 person communication and I cannot expect him to do all the work. However in my wish I made it very clear when doing my spell that I love him and I want him back and I want him and me to be able to work out our relationship together. However I made it clear I want him to text or contact me. Not once have I mentioned being the one to contact him. I am concerned if I do contact him that this could cause the spell to backfire or not work since I am the one who wished for him to contact me not the other way around. What do you think?

I know I obsess too much over this guy cause that is how much he means to me. I guess it is a case of relaxing and taking it easy. Hopefully things go well for us and something happens soon but I won't obsess over him I am trying to think more positive but relax. I also hope you get to hear from your guy soon too. I know waiting on him can be hard and trust me I am there now. Waiting for a spell to work is the hardest thing in the world but we are managing how we can. Hopefully he comes back to at least talking to you again soon I would hope.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Thu Dec 20, 2012 11:28 pm

Can I use follow me boy oil through online?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Dec 21, 2012 4:39 am

sailor5

You could wear it while chatting online with someone and burn a candle dressed with it. Put a drop at each corner of your computer (not on the screen!) and add it to a bath.

abracadabra88 · Unread post by **abracadabra88** » Fri Dec 21, 2012 2:31 pm

I need some help please..
I am transgender (i used to be a boy but i'm a girl now) but i was wondering with doing spells if i should use my name that i was born with (my boy name wich was Reginald) or my new name wich is Regina.
I've been this way for 11 years now and spells do well when i use my new name, though not exactly as i hope they would.. but it works!
when i use my birth given name nothing ever happens..
Is this because magic gets confused or something? Or is this just because it's also confusing myself? and using my new name works only because i made it my own? (eventhough it actually is not)
confusing right? haha
so please help me anyone.. should i use birth given name or new name?

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sat Dec 22, 2012 7:46 am

Hi abracadabra88,

You have gone through a powerful transformation 11 years ago to be in alignment with your spirit, so I say do use your new name!

Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Dec 22, 2012 12:23 pm

You've already answered your own question: spirit responds to your new name, not the one that you have walked away from. Like Papa Newt said,

Papa Newt wrote:You have gone through a powerful transformation

Now, you say

abracadabra88 wrote:using my new name works only because i made it my own? (eventhough it actually is not)

In what way is the name Regina "not yours"? Have you not been able to change it legally? (I hear some states are stuck in the 19th or 20th centuries and don't allow folks to change their names and genders on ID documents). The spirit knows it is yours -- you know it is yours. Don't concern yourself with the 3-D world sitting in the dark, not when you are at your altar.

You also say

spells do well when i use my new name, though not exactly as i hope they would

I'd like to hear more about this, if you don't mind. Although maybe you'd do better to contact one of the fine folks at AIRR to get some coaching. There may be underlying issues, maybe even unrelated to your transition, that you haven't dealt with or even seen.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Dec 22, 2012 12:44 pm

A lot of people legally change their names, for a variety of reasons. I did a long time ago; I merely had to include in the paperwork a statement that it was not for any fradulent purpose.

Use your new name in your work, Regina. Have a blessed holiday season.

abracadabra88 · Unread post by **abracadabra88** » Sat Dec 22, 2012 4:10 pm

Thank you all so much for answering my question.
This helps me very much!

MissMichaele wrote:In what way is the name Regina "not yours"? Have you not been able to change it legally?

No Missmichaele, i mean that the name is not mine because i was not born with that name.
But i'm starting to think that it's mine after all, otherwise the spirits wouldn't never have listend in the first place i think.

MissMichaele wrote:"spells do well when i use my new name, though not exactly as i hope they would"
I'd like to hear more about this, if you don't mind.

Well with this i mean that when i do spells and use my new name they work, but they're not perfect..
For example, when i do a love spell they don't always fall in love.. sometimes it's first only just some affection wich sometimes leads to love.
And when i try to get a lover back they do come back, but not with open arms.. The relation doesn't has that "inlove" feeling like before and you can definitely feel something is forcing them to come back, but when you're desperate enough because you can't let them go just yet it will do haha

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:51 am

when I go on a same sex date,would rubbing follow me boy oil on my self and HIS hand(while shaking his hand of course)make him want me more or just listen to my every command and want to be with me more?thanks.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Dec 23, 2012 10:39 am

salor5: You can wear Follow Me Boy Oil as a perfume AND you can anoint your hands (just a small amount!) before the date. Remember to pray your intent as you do this. Now that when you shake hands, the oil with your prayed intent will now be on him.

Be sure to read up on How to Work With Oils and Laying Down Tricks to get some ideas.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Mon Dec 24, 2012 9:32 pm

Apriciate your help.Thank you.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 11:50 am

abracadabra88 wrote: Well with this i mean that when i do spells and use my new name they work, but they're not perfect..
For example, when i do a love spell they don't always fall in love.. sometimes it's first only just some affection wich sometimes leads to love.
And when i try to get a lover back they do come back, but not with open arms.. The relation doesn't has that "inlove" feeling like before and you can definitely feel something is forcing them to come back,

I always say that when fixed for love, a person has three choices:

Resist by his own force of will,
Get help to resist or break the spell,
Relax and enjoy it! This is the kind of man who will say, "Baby, I'd drink your bathwater." Why should you settle for less?

but when you're desperate enough because you can't let them go just yet it will do haha

Yeah, I know what you mean

There's an old song called "Papa's Got Your Bathwater On," about a man who finds a bottle of his lady's bathwater in the fridge. Indignant, he puts the bottle in a pot on the stove to boil it and cause her pain, taking his revenge.

You want the lover who would laugh and leave it alone -- or pour it into the coffeepot his own self. Keep this in mind; it might make it easier to let go of "Mr. Right Now" when it's time.

But here I've been assuming it's men you want! I didn't mean to be so twentieth-century. If I was wrong, I do apologize.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 10:17 pm

I used follow me boy oil when talking to a guy online through my laptop.i dabs the corners of it and it worked") now were texting but how can I use it on my cell phone?Thanks.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 27, 2012 11:03 pm

Yes you can, but just dab a few drops around the edges, like you do with the computer. Avoid the screen and the keyboard on your phone.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 12:28 am

sailor5

Follow Me Boy is a beautiful thing.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:04 pm

he texts me but when i tell him do "do something" he thinks about it or sometimes unsure like if i tell him come over to my house he says can't or not right now.he textd me which was the whole point,now i want him to want me,but now how do i get him to listen to me?i read the psalms 23 before saying what i want him to do by the way.should i follow up with the rest of the kit?it's cuz i have roommates i don't want to do candles,i want to be descreet about it.thank you for your time

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:18 pm

It is not necessary to burn candles if you can't do so, although 4 inch candles burn down in two hours or less. Use the bath crystals, the oil, and the powder, and carry the mojo. Burn a little of incense when you are taking your bath.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 8:00 pm

sailor5

Yes, follow up with the whole kit if at all possible. If you got one of those mini-honey jars, the 4-inch candles that come with it only last a couple of hours -- and you could even burn those in sections if you have to (pinch them out, don't blow them out!).

You can also hide your work between prayer sessions by putting it in a bag or box in a private place -- that's an old tradition, too.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:31 pm

since i'm a guy,will anything happen if i rub follow me boy oil on my hands of this straight guy as i greet him?
also.if i rub q oil with follow me boy oil in a club,will gay men follow me AND want me?

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Mon Dec 31, 2012 5:34 pm

For your first question sailor5, I would invite you to read through this thread as the topic of Can a Gay Man Hoodoo a Straight Man has been discussed before.

As for your second question, it can help increase the probability of drawing more men to you when you're at the club. As always, make sure you pray your petition as you anoint yourself with oil. Being clear on exactly what you are wanting. Be it having a lot of one night stands or more of a long term relationship. Best of luck.

maduro01 · Unread post by **maduro01** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 1:24 pm

Just a thought, but if love/sex magic works on a man who claims to be straight...then maybe he isn't straight.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:03 pm

In his studies of human sexuality, Kinsey devised a scale of heterosexuality and homosexuality. It was from 0-6, zero indicating a person that was entirely heterosexual and six, a person who was entirely homosexual. Many people fall in between.

lepetit458 · Unread post by **lepetit458** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:04 pm

i want a spell to atract a guy who is flirting with me, and turn it into something more serious

P.s. i am a gay man

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:22 pm

Lavender Love Drops and Q oil are two products you can use. You can also try Follow Me Boy.

http://www.luckymojo.com/lavenderlove.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/q.html

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:24 pm

Here are the oils Mama Micki has recommended. You may want to check out How to use Conjure Oils to learn how to work with them. You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

OIL-HOO-LAVE
Lavender Love Drops Oil
$10.00

OIL-HOO-QQQQ
'Q' Oil
$10.00

OIL-HOO-FOLB
Follow Me Boy Oil
$10.00

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Sun Jan 13, 2013 6:47 pm

If there's a guy I shake hands with every time we meet at work then leave work,will this make him more interested in me?I think hes gay but not sure.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Jan 13, 2013 8:11 pm

sailor5- This has been answered before. You will need to fix your hands before you see him with the oil of your choice (Follow Me Boy, Lavender Love Drops, Attraction or whatever you choose). As you dress your hands with a small amount of the oil you pray your intention. When you shake his hand, that physical contact will get that energy on him and can start working him. I would invite you to do this for a set number of days and notice what you notice of any changes in how he interacts with you. Best of luck.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:48 pm

I have been using these oils (Bewitched, Come To Me, Dixie Love, Fire of Love, Follow Me Boy, High John, Kiss Me Now, Lavender, Love Me, Q, Queen Elizabeth & Saint Sebastian ) for a love spell.

I started working at my company since October 2012 and have a crush on a coworker. I used a pendulum and a coin-head for yes-to ask my spirit guides/angels and his spirit guides/angels if he likes guy because if he is totally straight, then I would leave him alone. The answer for both a pendulum and a coin was yes. So, I burn a white tea light candle with four drops of oil (I use only one oil a day) each day and said my intention over it. I also charge the candle with reiki energy.

But I didnt tell him that I love him until last week when we just started talking about virginity, then I admitted to him that I love him. He said sorry if he disappoints me but he is fully into girls and is totally straight.

Then last night, at 330am, all of the sudden, he texted me and wanted to have an intimacy with me all of blue. He said he lied to me that he said he is totally straight was because my confess to him that I love him was way too blunt and upfront, so he was very careful to say that he is fully into girls.

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Tue Jan 22, 2013 1:13 am

Grats Sun369 on getting your man.

Just a quick tip, now that you got him, you gotta keep him! Its a lesson i've had to learn the hard way
Keep up the rootwork on him to ensure that the relationship is smooth and sweet and the passion burns bright

Unread post by **Jibrael** » Tue Jan 22, 2013 2:12 pm

Just in case: I commit to buying St. Sebastian oil if a batch is ever made.

PatrickT · Unread post by **PatrickT** » Tue Jan 22, 2013 4:40 pm

This may be a little late - by about two years - but i would also buy St. Sebastian Oil. You have my word.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Sat Jan 26, 2013 5:49 pm

So I have been reading all the responses here and these have been great responses for everyone's specific problems and situations. Now what happens when the guy you were with left you and you both ended up in a big argument and he said he would never speak to you again? Seems this is my situation. I am a gay male. The love spell my friends mom had given me is showing me all sorts of signs.

But the spell has completely backfired because we got back together but a week later he dumps me and said he needed time to spend with his family. But this was only for me to find out in the week we had gotten back together he was thinking and obsessing over his ex. He left me so that he could go and get his ex back (he is bisexual) but when she found out he dumped me for her she said that was wrong and that he should have given me a chance so she said no. He came back and talked to me.

So we agreed to remain friends but he started this whole argument over something so stupid and one thing led to another and next thing I know he said he never wants anything to do with me. So my friends love spell that her mom gave me was at some point working but it backfired and for some strange reason even on the same night he dumped me I still saw the signs everywhere and to this very day if I do that love spell (very simple candle spell) I still see the signs but no results at all. It has been like 2 weeks now since he told me he will never speak to me again.

The last time he said he would never speak to me again was right when I started the candle love spell my friends mom gave me and even though he said he would never talk to me again he did end up coming back. I need this man to come back to me. The reading done has already stated there is still hope for this relationship. But he does not love me. He never said I love you and never called me his baby and always liked hiding stuff from me on facebook only for my friends to add him and find out he was hiding things from me like the status posts about him missing his ex and how he loves her.

I got the feeling he loves her more then me. But she told him to come back to me and she said go be with your man he needs you and he refused and that was when the argument happened he thinks it was my fault that she won't take him back when I did nothing about that. Any help is greatly appreciated thank you. Also please keep in mind that the argument was so bad he completely trashed me with his words and cussed me out. He said such words that I had no idea any human being was capable of saying or knowing that is how bad it was and out of anger and frustration I yelled at him and cussed him back but did not mean to. Even though it was not my fault I tried to say sorry but he did not buy anything. He just blamed it all on me.

Blueskee · Unread post by **Blueskee** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 12:37 am

Is there conjure that can be used to make a gay man, embrace himself? Can any fear he has be removed?

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 2:27 am

I'm sorry to hear that you had such a bad break up with your ex.

As far as practical rootwook advice i can give you, i would suggest a reading from a member of AIRR

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

They will be able to determine if the relationship is salvageable and if so what would be the proper course of rootwork.

Beyond that I suggest you set a time limit with this, give yourself a firm hard date to say if hes not back with me and in my bed then its over.

Practical advice aside, from what you described in your post, it seems that your ex is projecting his own issue onto the relationship

Johnnyr860, you deserve to be with someone who should be proud to call you his boyfriend.

hope everything turns out for the best.

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 2:38 am

I've always held the position that it is extremely person as to when a gay man comes to term with himself and decides to embrace it. I would warn against pushing anyone who isn't ready.

I would recommend using Crucible of Courage products

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

I would suggest using it with a doll baby that you would baptize in his name and pray over.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:19 am

Edwardyule,

As I stated before I already did a reading so I am not sure what doing another reading will accomplish when the link you provided me with is the exact link I used for my reading. My time limit was set a while back so I already have that. The relationship is fixable per the reading I was given. I just want to start working on this and now because the longer I wait I heard the harder it becomes to get the man back. They already gave me some spell work and products they think I should buy but because they are asking me to purchase so many products I came here in hopes that someone had results with using lesser products. The following is a list of products I was told to buy if I plan to make this work. I was just wondering if I have to buy them all as they seem to be adding up more and more and the more I talk to them the more products they keep adding to my list and I was not expecting to have to buy this many products when I have heard people have results with fewer products. I appreciate your time to answer my response. Thank you.

Reconciliation spell kit
Honey Jar
Stop Gossip Candle
Love me Candle
Come to me Candle
Follow me boy Bath
Come to me oil
Follow me boy oil.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:49 am

johnnyr860- I would invite you to consider the Reconciliation Spell Kit to help heal the past negative experiences and to fall back in love again. A Honey Jar is never a bad idea to work with to sweeten the relationship as it heals. Those two on your list would be the items to start with. The other items are great suggestions and you may consider them down the road. I mean, keeping Follow Me Boy and Come To Me oils are never a bad idea to keep on hand.

Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 8:11 am

Blueskee

Edwardyule has given a great recommendation with the use of Crucible of Courage Products to help which is great. I would also like to add Cast Off Evil Products as well. There are many who are closeted that do not have a resource/support to help them overcome the taught fear. And lastly, Clarity to keep them clear of their truth and acceptance of themselves.

As this work is being done be sure to be of support for this person. If you are lucky to live in an area that have organizations that offer support groups then encourage to take him. Best of luck.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 10:26 am

Papa Newt

Hi so my question is if I get the Reconciliation spell kit and the honey jar you are saying I should hhave some follow me boy oil and some come to me oil on hand so you mean like I would use them along with the honey jar and the reconciliation kit? Or how would that work? Thanks for your response I appreciate the help.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 10:41 am

No, what I'm hinting at is having love condition oils available to use while in a relationship or dating. Though, what is important now is to do the work to heal the relationship between you two.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 1:14 pm

Papa Newt

Ok sounds good. How are the oils used then for when I do need them? Do I just add them to my candles? Yea the worker told me that both of us need to shut it because it appears we talk to much about each other to our friends and whenever we do it is never something positive we have to say that is why she suggested the stop gossip. Well for now I get the honey jar and the reconcile spell kit.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 1:28 pm

To get a better understanding on working with oils I would invite you to check out the page How to Use Conjure Oils, Hoodoo Oils, Ritual Oils, Dressing Oils, and Anointing Oils in Hoodoo Rootwork Tradition. Though you can anoint them to candles but you can also dress yourself. The page will help.

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 11:07 pm

johnnyr860,

I agree with Papa Newt, the Reconciliation Spell Kit and Honey Jar would work great. I would also recommend adding Ginger Root to the honey jar to speed it up and also employ a technique that has been mentioned on the radio show (i believe by CM Ali) where you place tea candles around the honey jar and lights them, so that the tins of the tea lights are touching the glass of the jar. You could also dab some Reconciliation Oil on the tea lights if you have any. This will heat up the honey jar and get it working fast.

WIsh you all the best, do let us know how it goes.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 1:49 pm

Edwardyule

Thank you for the response but I have a question. Considering the fact that this relationship between me and this guy was rather long distance and considering the fact that I don't have a lock of his hair or anything that belongs to him then what would you say is the success rate for people like me? The only thing I have at this time is a picture of him but this is it. Your responses are greatly appreciated and I will use these kits then. I am just more skeptical that if I make the investment and spend the money I won't know if this will work or not but I want this to work more then anything in the world.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 3:30 pm

johnnyr860

How have your previous spell workings gone? It is hard to answer a question like this without knowing you at all. It is harder to bring someone back to you when the person is very far away, not in contact anymore, or you have no personal concerns...but not for every practitioner.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 3:39 pm

Joseph Magnuson

Spell casting for me is terrible I am just going to be honest because this person is very resistant and he is true to his word. Once his mind is set on something there is no way in the world to change him or what he thinks which is why this spell work is become so difficult. My friends mom practices pagan as her religion so she is the only one to give me a simple candle spell which started to work and the guy returned to me but only for him to dump me like a week to week and a half later.

Even when he did return to me the entire week he was thinking about this girl he used to date before me so it was as if the spell had not worked at all only it did since it returned him to me but he still never said an I love you or acted like he cared although he did say during that time that I was his boyfriend again and asked if I would take him back and I had said yes only to find out the entire week was spent by him thinking of this girl he used to date and how much he loves her and misses her.

When he said he is not coming back or ever saying a word to you ever again you better believe he is not fibbing he is a man of his word and to change him you could not pay this man a million dollars to change. That is just how he is- stubborn and very stuck on with what he has said. Other t hen the simple candle love spell my friends mom gave me I have not done any other work on love spells or spells period. In fact I had no idea what a love spell was or that different spells existed until her mom told me about them.

I always heard these things and thought they were a joke up until I did what she said and the man returned to me it made a believer out of me. Because of the fact that this man is so stubborn and hard to get his mind to change I am trying to get these spell kits with hopes that it can work on him however I get skeptical simply because he does live so far away from me (hours in fact) and also the fact that he is very hard person to change his mind.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Mon Jan 28, 2013 3:47 pm

Even though a picture is not as strong of a link as their hair or sexual fluids, but it is still a link and it can be worked. I have used pictures all the time in my own work or work with clients and have had some great results. They do help give you to focus in on the person as you are lighting your candles, your incense, and saying your prayers. Sometimes you just got to work with what you got.

johnnyr860, I can understand the feeling of uncertainty and that feeling of doubt creeping in. Some of the work suggested to you may be new to you and just like anything new there is a level of uncertainty and doubt. We all experience this, it is normal. In the spiritual side, bringing this into the work can actually trip up the work you are doing and work against you. There is a wonderful part of Psalms 46:10 that goes: He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;. Well, before doing the work, be still and connect with your higher power for it shall shed light on the shadows of fear revealing their illusions. Remember, doubt is the pour of salt on a garden you just planted.

Best of luck to you!

yellowstars · Unread post by **yellowstars** » Tue Jan 29, 2013 4:32 pm

If you really want this guy, I would keep at it. Sometimes this stuff can take a long time. And perhaps he needs some time? Aquarius's NEED space. I'm not sure how proactive you've been, but you could be damaging you own work by smothering him and constantly feeling like a failure when you don't see what you want.

If I were you and I was going to continue to pursue this man, I would keep up my work, take a step back, KEEP A POSITIVE MIND, and find some other things to occupy my time. Even another man! It'll help give you perspective and a twinge of jealousy in him could really bring out his true feelings. Give yourself at least a month before you try to approach him or talk to him again, and keep it simple and pleasant. ALWAYS be positive with him. You want positive energies resonating from you always, that's attractive to anyone! Give your spells some time to work, and just keep blind faith in them. They might show right up and smack you in the face once you do this!

I'm doing some tough break up/reconciliation work myself. I have this affirmation thing I do, because I'm one of these obsessive people and I have a hard time not watching him like a hawk for movement and that. This might sound totally immature and silly, but it really works for me and always has in any situation I was working at! When I start feeling itchy about what I'm doing or putting my hopes in, I say to myself:
I always get what I want. (so and so will come back to me/ so and so loves me/ I will get this job/ I will nail this presentation/ whatever it is I'm focusing on). I always get what I want.

haha like I said, it's silly, but it's true! I DO always get what I want when I put my mind to it! I really do! And I know this. So when I even begin feeling doubt I shut it out by reminding myself of my past accomplishments and affirming that I always get what I want when I put my mind to it. Good luck!

yellowstars · Unread post by **yellowstars** » Tue Jan 29, 2013 5:43 pm

Thanks for the tip! I just added them to my mixture I'm laying in her path

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:07 pm

There is an update in my story. The guy is in a relationship with someone else. Ok so your all probably going to disagree that I did this but I made a fake facebook account. I went on google images and got random pictures of a girl and added them to the profile. It was the only way I could figure he would add me back. He did. I found out that on the same night we had our very last argument with him saying he would never talk to me again he had gotten a girlfriend that very night. Does not surprise me. Look I just want the guy back.

My friends love spell is doing good by showing me all sorts of signs. I wanted to buy the reconcile love spell kit and all the other kits your saying but I had my doubts and sometimes you have to go with your gut feeling. Something in my heart just did not feel right and now I know why. He has a girlfriend. But look I would do anything to make this man my boyfriend again I mean ANYTHING. Please I am desperate.

Should I still go with the spell kits you guys have suggested? I am guessing now I need to do a breakup spell? I had not purchased the kits yet because I knew something did not feel right and I am glad I did not because now I know he is seeing someone else. In the meantime while I waited to find out what was really going on I kept doing my friends love spell that her mom had given me and I saw the signs just not the results even today I saw all the signs you could ever imagine just no results or anything. Any help is appreciated thanks.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Wed Jan 30, 2013 3:27 pm

How can i influence my boyfriend to move in with me?r for us to move in together and find an apartment?Thank you.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 7:16 am

johnnyr860: First thing that is important to mention is that desperation is one of the poisons of any relationship. This is an area I do invite you to take a step back from and honestly look at it. For yourself you may consider a Spiritual Bath such as using 13 Herb Bath. Get your spirit cleaned up.

Now, as for the spell your friend did it may of worked with what was already there but, from what you have described it, I feel that there was no healing element to the spell as something like Reconciliation would have. Hence the short lived getting back together. If you feel that you need to do work to remove her out of the picture before anything else then I would encourage you to check out Separation instead of Break Up. Separation is not as harsh as Break Up would be and you should really avoid causing any more wounds in the area of relationships for him. Best of luck.

johnnyr860 · Unread post by **johnnyr860** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 10:03 am

Papa Newt,

Hi papa here is my situation with the guy. A friend of mine came on and added him as a friend on facebook recently and they spoke for a while and she asked him how come you dumped john? What did he do to you to make you leave him? He loved you with all his heart and treated you like a prince and you dump him. Why do you do that? So my guy comes up and admits to her- I want to let you in on a secret- I am not really bisexual. I don't like men.

He said that what 2 men do behind closed doors is their business and that he supports same sex couples all the way but he is not bisexual or gay in the first place. This is interesting because with his ex girlfriend she had asked him why he left me and he told her he was not gay either but when they broke up he admitted to her that he is bisexual and said this is the truth. With some people he comes out and says he is bisexual. With others he swears on his life that he is a straight heterosexual man.

At this point he is taking me for a ride. Last night I spent an hour on facebook messaging him and he told me it was not good for us to be speaking because his current girlfriend would not like this. But I asked him then how come you told me you loved me if you were not bisexual in the first place? I do have ears you know and my friend told me what you said to her. So he said I am sorry your time was wasted. Then he stopped responding back. This is more then about a reconcile spell. At this point it is about breaking him and the girl up but before I do anything crazy like break them up I need to make sure that the man even likes men in the first place.

Because when he met me he told me I was hot and he called me sexy before I mentioned anything about me liking men in the first place. I always assumed he was straight until he told me he liked me and that he was bisexual. Some people think he is just not comfortable dating men and so he denies it but with him this is hit or miss. At this point I have no clue if the man even likes men or if he was just playing me along for the ride the whole time. As I said for some he swears he is straight but for other people he swears he is bisexual and for some people he says he is bisexual but then changes it to straight.

Not only am I confused but I am not even sure at this point if the situation can be fixed because from the title of this post if you read the very first few posts it states right there that you cannot turn a straight man gay or a gay man straight with a love spell so I know my time and money would not be used properly if he really is not bisexual in the first place. What do you suggest?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 11:47 am

Cut and Clear this guy and find a gay man who can be honest about who he is. He is obviously bisexual, but tells everyone a different story.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 12:05 pm

Yes, Cut and Clear and move forward.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Fri Feb 01, 2013 10:21 pm

sun369,

Can someone give me their opinions please ?

We spent the second night together for sex. He just texted me and said that he is totally straight and was just curious and wanted sex with me for fun and he did experience full orgasm. So, he doesnt want it anymore. What should I do ?

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Fri Feb 01, 2013 10:35 pm

sun369,

I just asked my spirit guides, angels, his spirit guides and angels using a pendulum to see how much he loves me right now. They said about 52%. I am not sure if I use the pendulum wrong or the guides/angels are wrong !!!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:53 pm

Sun, if by "love" you mean casual sex, sure. However, if you want an actual relationship, I suggest you look elsewhere.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:29 pm

Mama Micki

I think I meant casual sex more because I do love him, but not understand him well enough to be in a relationship. That takes longer like at least 6 months.

But if anyone has experience with using pendulum to contact spirit guides/angels. Can you please tell me what is the percentage of being right by communication with your spirit guides/angels this way ? Because I do not like to consult a psychic on everything and instead, asking my guides/angels for help.

sun369 · Unread post by **sun369** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:43 pm

Mama Micki

So you dont think I should continue burning those oils to make this guy loves me even I could befriend with him for more than 6 months and understand him more.