Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

SHAKUR1971 · Unread post by **SHAKUR1971** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 7:54 am

Hello Everyone,

I know that many of you are probably not going to believe me when I tell you this, but I need something to make my mom(yes, my mom) and my sister to pay their bills and like paying them. My mom and sister suppose to split the rent in half, so that $285 each x 2 = $570/mth total. Ok, I am responsible for paying the electric and Internet bill which for the past few months has been over the $285. Every month when its time to pay the rent, my mom and sister catches an attitude with me, so I have been giving them some money on the rent too. The always say how they are tired of paying this high rent. FYI: My mom works in the school system making a lot of money and my sister is permanent on her job. My mom is on a salary and my sister makes over $11 a hour, so $285 a month is nothing to them. They want to take their money and go shopping with it, and my sister has to get her hair and nails done all of the time. So my question is, is there something that I can do to make them pay their bills first and love to pay them? Every month they say that they are moving because they are tired of the high rent. I want to get my own crib but when I go a reading from an AIRR worker, she told me that she do not see me moving until April, and I really do not know if I am going to be able to make it here with them that long. They are always talking about me, but I have learned to ignore it. My main concern is doing something so that they will pay the bill on time and like it. Please help me.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 8:02 am

Pay Me is for getting people to pay what they owe. However, I would step up the effort to get my own place, even if you have to settle for a smaller place than you would like.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 2:13 pm

why dont you start looking for people who need/want a roomate or rent a room out of their home. Use your intentions and working to find that perfect roomate ( honey jar?) and get on leaving your mom and sister to ....move and find cheaper rent.. btw the only thing cheaper then what they pay is homelessness.

sweetniki · Unread post by **sweetniki** » Tue Oct 16, 2012 2:49 am

I do not get along with my brother-in-law. He is a taker and only says thank you when prompted by my sister. I went to their house this weekend (because they went away) to watch and care for their son and two other kids my sister is caring for. I bought food, drove them around and cleaned. While my sister did thank me, her husband never acknowledged anything that I did which is the norm for him and during the weekend, their son was rude, called me a name because I asked about his homework. Of course, I made the son apologize as this is not acceptable.

During the weekend, I sprayed peace water throughout their home but it doesn't appear to have done anything. They live in a state of constant chaos and disarray.

What could I do to bring about a better situation for myself with them and in their household? Thank you.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:53 am

To get along better with your inlaws and family, I'd do a sweetening jar. Get a picture of your sister with her husband and kids; if you're in the picture, even better, but it's OK to have your separate picture and theirs. In between the pictures put a drop of honey and some Lavender (to soothe and sweeten), and put the pictures face to face so you're looking into their eyes. The honey will glue the pics together. Then fold the pictures in half towards you, calling out their names and saying they will be sweet to you, and keep folding and turning the packet towards you till you can't fold it anymore. Get a small jar and fill it with confectioner's sugar and put the packet down into the picture and close the lid. Shake it up daily and pray your petition, then burn a blue or white candle on top. Do the shaking and burning daily till you see results.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

sweetniki · Unread post by **sweetniki** » Tue Oct 16, 2012 5:52 pm

Thank you so much Mary Bee!

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Mon Nov 12, 2012 7:26 am

I confided in my boyfriend's sister and mother about some things that my boyfriend did.
Well, now I regret telling them this info and have since learned to stay out of family politics, and stay loyal to my boyfriend because he is not the type that you want to cross.

My question is how can I keep them from opening their mouths about what I discussed with them?

I love my boyfriend and I don't want anything or anyone coming in between us and our relationship.

The mother likes me and I feel that she will not say anything. So far she thinks sweetly about me and that's the way I want to keep it. However, his sister and him are no longer talking, I miss her friendship but at the same time he's talking about ending his relationship with her due to some other issues and I want to make sure that she keeps her mouth shut about what I told her and not start gossiping about me. I know there's the stop gossiping spell but what else could I do? Any simple work to help this situation?

Unread post by **Lady Muse** » Mon Nov 12, 2012 8:35 am

Hello Celine_Celeste,
If you do not want to work the entire spell, the perhaps you may just want to purchase the Stop-Gossip vigil candle and Alum and write out your petition on piece of brown paper bag and burn the vigil on top of your petition. You can purchase this at Lucky Mojo http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#vigil, and if you like, they can dress your candle too.

Stay Encouraged and Many Blessings to you

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Nov 12, 2012 8:24 pm

How about Influence and Stop Gossip on a skull candle? A white one, for peace.

Skulls, their symbolism, and their magical uses
http://www.luckymojo.com/skull.html.html
Spiritual Candles and Candle Magic Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html
Stop Gossip spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Influence Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

oceanblue · Unread post by **oceanblue** » Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:57 pm

Thank you as always
Xx

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sun Nov 25, 2012 8:37 pm

"Oh there's no place like home for the holidays"

And if you are smart you will work with Lucky Mojo Peace Water this time of year.

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

because you can have what you want for the holidays, but peace is the place in grace we are.

Be Blessed,

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Nov 25, 2012 8:40 pm

I like burning Peaceful Home candles too! Good post Tammie Lee!

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Sun Dec 02, 2012 12:19 pm

Hello Lucky Mojo forum members,
I would like to know which Lucky Mojo products and rituals to use with the three following situations:
One is an extremely "hyper" relative who loves drama and constantly engages in it every time she comes to my home. Speaking to her about it only brings temporary change. I am considering using a Peaceful Home honey jar since she comes by regularly enough-at least every other week. I don't want to ban her from my home, so I'd like to know if anyone has suggestions other than the Peaceful Home honey jar. I just need something to work very effectively. She is a melodramatic type so she will need something very strong.
The second situation is a weird, nosy neighbor who makes mountains out of molehills. An incident occurred where I misplaced a plastic bowl which allegedly belonged to a friend of hers and months later, she is convinced that it is the biggest crisis in the world. She is the type who won't stop talking about it to anyone who will listen. I would like suggestions on how to keep her quiet and away from me permanently.
The third situation is a former classmate who has had a hard time in professional school and is trying to latch on to me because everyone else has either moved on and/or avoids her since she is extremely whiny and clingy. She honestly believes that the world revolves around her. I tried a Hot Foot candle and it worked well now but she's back again and I am avoiding her. I need her to stop calling me and concern herself with her own life.
Any and all suggestions will be helpful. Thanks.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Dec 02, 2012 3:57 pm

A blue or white figural candle dressed with Tranquility oil may help the relative calm down. A Stop Gossip candle for the neighbor to shut up.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Dec 03, 2012 5:59 am

Tranquility Supplies

Stop Gossip supplies

-Mary Bee

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:27 am

Thank you both for your input.

cccoralee · Unread post by **cccoralee** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 2:53 pm

I really want to get tattoos. I understand my parents hesitation since I am pre-law and body modifications and ink isn't smiled upon in my intended profession but I still really want tattoos.

I am willing to get the tattoos in a place I can cover up with clothing. I'm not planning on anything like a sleeve or anything on my neck of some that's hard to hide.

What can I do to get my parents to allow me to get some tattoos and the piercings I want (they're in my ear like my tragus or helix)?

Also I'm 21 so I'm legally old enough to get a tattoo but I really don't want to go behind my parents back to get them and I don't want to tick them off....my parents rules are enforced and "no tattoos" is a steadfast rule they have.

Thanks a bunch!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:20 pm

You are old enough to make your own decisions. If you have the money, you don't need your parents' permission. I would suggest holding off on the piercings and just getting a small tattoo you can easily cover with clothing, as you said. There is no need to mention it to your parents.

Start wearing some Power oil for mastery, power, and self-esteem. It sounds like your parents are trying to run your life. Their "rules are enforced"? How? Beat you? Kick you out? You might be better off finding other living arrangements.

Unread post by **preppieroots** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:23 pm

Kudos to you for wanting to be honest about this, but it seems like it will take a whole lot of effort to change your parents minds about tattoos, and your efforts may or may not even work. At 21, you can get tattoos without their permission, and unless your parents literally check your uncovered body, they'll never know.

That said, you could try out with something coercive but not too harsh, like Commanding products, or a slower process would be to make a honey jar to sweeten them up to the idea of tattoos.

Really though, I am not sure something this deeply entrenched can be changed.

cccoralee · Unread post by **cccoralee** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:38 pm

Thanks for the advice.

They bend sometimes, like when I got my nose pierced without permission. They were disapproving for a but but since I agreed to take it out after graduation they allowed it and aren't mentioning it anymore.
But I'm 100% positive that if I get a tattoo they'll freak to the extreme.
My parents pay for my school expenses and my apartment. If I get a tattoo they will cut me off. I could hide it but I wont be able to hide it for long and when they find out it'll be disastrous

I was hoping for a method of work I could do to somehow convince them, even if they have regulations about it (i.e. getting in places I can cover etc), to allow me to get them.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:41 pm

You could try Law Keep Away, which is not just used to keep legal authorities away. Some use it to keep parents, relatives, and neighbors from meddling in their business.

Additionally, Peaceful Home Herbs Mixture is a old-fashioned mix of 4 happy home herbs dressed with 2 peaceful family oils; use it to dress candles, burn with incense, scatter as floor or yard sprinkles, brew bath-teas and floor washes, carry in mojo hands and conjure bags, hide in bed-packets, or include within bottle, jar, bowl, box, or freezer spells.

HEZ-MIX-PEAC
Peaceful Home Herbs Mixture Packet
$6.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.htmlGood luck.

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 11:14 pm

If your parents are paying for everything, they do have a say - not legally ... but yes, you should respect their wishes while you depend on them financially. Why not work a spell on yourself to forget about the body modification, at least until you are on your own financially? If you put that energy into your school work, instead of longing for something that you know will cause you trouble, it would be more productive at this point. You would keep the peace with Mama & Daddy AND set yourself up for a better situation after you graduate. Once you are paying your own bills, you could get the body modification done ( if you still even want to ....) . I say this because I know a lot of people who regret getting tattoos and piercings when they are older. Especially in a field like LAW. Maybe some of the experienced folks on here could suggest a spell to help you focus on school more right now. You can always get the modifications done later.

yellowstars · Unread post by **yellowstars** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 11:40 pm

I agree with MoonBreath. If your parents are generous enough to pay for everything for their adult child to have the upper hand in life, I'd suggest respecting their wishes. My parents are very generous people and have helped me tremendously, I'd feel terribly guilty spending a bunch of money on spells to get them to change their minds on something like tattoos (which probably won't work anyhow) then go and spend more money on tattoos. And I have tattoo's, don't get me wrong. You got your whole life to get tattoos, focus your energy on your school work where your parents are putting their hard earned money for you, they obviously love you a lot, rather than trying to coerce them. When your a hot-shot attorney someday you can get all the tattoo's you want and not need spells to get them, as well as have many other things (I'm sure) that you'll be interested in using hoodoo for!

Mss · Unread post by **Mss** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:14 pm

My sister who is in her 30s now, has always had a prickly and short-tempered nature since she was a little girl. As an adult now, I fear her nature is distancing her from her family members including her parents, husband and in-laws. I am writing here to get feedback on some spells to sweeten her nature. Will a honey-jar spell with her and other family members in the honey jar work to sweeten her towards everyone and vice versa? Are there other ideas out there? My parents are visiting her right now and not having the best visit. I just want them all to get along!

Thank You all in advance!

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:37 pm

Hello Mss, check the earlier posts in this thread out.

I got some great advice a while back regarding a similar issue.

Mss · Unread post by **Mss** » Thu Feb 21, 2013 5:42 am

Thank you Believe 129. I enjoyed reading that. My sister is a Leo too. I assume this worked well for you! I can't wait to try out the suggestions provided to you.

Thank You again.

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Thu Feb 21, 2013 4:11 pm

The jar for my sister is on "hold".

HOWEVER, I did make the jar for my friend and that worked!!! Took over a year but we are now talking.

N1reht · Unread post by **N1reht** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:12 am

The instructions I received with the honey jar mentions using hair when it comes to love, but should you also use hair in a honey jar for a Peaceful Home?

I've been using one for weeks now and there doesn't seem to be much improvement when it comes to tempers flaring and arguments. I've also been using the Peaceful Home incense (adding basil, rosemary, and sandalwood to it), satchet powder, and Peace Water. I steeped basil for three days and sprinkled the water at the front door and porch. And still tempers flare.

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:07 pm

You may need to change your tatics, and attempt to bust up all that negative energy.

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Best of Luck to You!

N1reht · Unread post by **N1reht** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:30 pm

I have Blessing oil, Blessing powder, Van Van oil, Van Van incense, Hindu Grass incense, and Camphor incense.

I have a variety of herbs. Among them Angelica powder, Dill seeds, Hyssop, and Rue. I have some Money House Blessing products too.

Suggest anything with the above?

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Fri Mar 29, 2013 12:52 pm

N1reht wrote:I have Blessing oil, Blessing powder, Van Van oil, Van Van incense, Hindu Grass incense, and Camphor incense.

I have a variety of herbs. Among them Angelica powder, Dill seeds, Hyssop, and Rue. I have some Money House Blessing products too.

Suggest anything with the above?

What kind of altars do you have in your house? Do you have to keep Conjure secret from anyone?

Is the Camphor Incense powder or Resin? Do you have Charcoal?

I would suggest that you take an Incense Brazier or Cauldron, lit the Camphor incense with charcoal. Add Hyssop to this. Then carry it through the house starting in the back to the front, and upstairs first if you have multiple stories. Top to bottom, back to front. Do this while reciting the Psalm 23, just repeat it as you walk through the house. Alternatively you could voice the intention and pray for negative energies and emotions to be cleansed from the house. Or do both. After this, dust the walkway to your front door with Blessing Powder, and Light some Vanvan Incense inside the house.

Hope that helps!

Best of Luck to You!

N1reht · Unread post by **N1reht** » Fri Mar 29, 2013 3:11 pm

No, I do not have a dedicated altar. I try to do everything in our tiled bathroom or on the tiled kitchen counter. My mother, brother, and niece are aware of what I do.

The camphor incense is powder.

ozmalicious · Unread post by **ozmalicious** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 11:09 pm

So, basically, I lived with my Mother and Father in the same home my whole life, and ever since we lost my dad almost 4 years ago to prostate cancer, it's been a slippery slope downhill. My Mother lost her job before, and chose to stay home and take care of him, and has been unemployed ever since. I lost my job about a year after he passed, and had no luck finding another job. We were living on unemployment, and then that went away, and luckily my friend bought us some time with the house, but ultimately it has come time where the house is sold, and we have till june 30th to be out of the house totally.

Our only option is to go live with my grandparents in Riverside, Southern California (currently live in Norwalk, CA) and its gonna be a BIG change. For one, I have come accustomed to being able to practice my beliefs freely, and openly, including spells and charms, etc. Also, they are very Christian and may not be ok with my practicing things in their home.

I am greatful that I wont be on the streets, but at the same time very stressed and worried about living conditions in the home, including the random appearance of my cousin, who is a complete drug addict, been in and out of jail his whole life, and steals, especially from his own family.

My questions are what spells would one suggest to get my grandparents to be mor eopen to me, and my beliefs and practices, and also how to keep my cousin from comming in, and causing chaos?

Also, for any out there who have to live in the proverbial "broom closet" while living with others who might now be enclined to accept ones practices, do you have any tips on keeping the magick and such on the down low?

Oh, and anyone in that neck of the woods who would like to become pen pals or such? I'm prepared to deal with it until I can get a job and a place of my own, but I'd love a support net of like minded folks to vent to.

love and light,
Oz

MoonBreath · Unread post by **MoonBreath** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 6:41 pm

Well, lighting candles while praying is a common Catholic thing to do. Of course I know some folks who are "very Christian" and can't stand Catholics so ... it would depend on your grandparent's church. Would they get upset if you set up a small altar with a picture of Jesus and some candles and incense? That is a very accepted Christian thing to do. Saying Bible verses ( as in psalms ) is a very Christian thing to do. You could burn your candles without the labels for privacy. Since hoodoo is a Christian practice, perhaps they will be more accepting than you think. In the mean time, start a honey jar on them to sweeten them up.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Apr 01, 2013 6:17 am

In hoodoo, there is a tradition of "sneaky tricks," which you can do in secret. An example is carrying a mojo bag. Another is laying down powders or dressing doorknobs with oil. I'm sure your grandparents wouldn't mind if you cleaned the house with Chinese Wash.

Unread post by **charmingstew** » Wed Apr 03, 2013 7:41 pm

Hi,
Sorry this is a little long but I will do my best to keep it as condensed as possible. I have tried to find the answers to this but have had no luck.

I am getting married to a very gentle sweet man next week. So here are the issues,,,that need fixing.

1) ex wife is a parasite. Even though she basically has her child only 5 nights a year she takes cs and alimony causing soon to be hubby to struggle. She is a piece of work to say the least and she needs to go. Move, whatever but I want her out of his life. He is a very weak person and feels guilty about everything under the sun, along with being responsible for everyone's peace. However, as hard as he tries there is no peace because he won't get the mess out of his life basically.

2) his child has been totally raised by him for most of her life. She is in high school now and also learned from mom how to guilt dad into everything she wants, draining him of everything. In fact we are not moving in together till daughter has gone to college. I love the daughter as my own, however, I need a place in his life too and would like to see all of us become a strong family. How do I take my place as his wife and his daughter finally take hers of a child not a wife to my soon to be? She has a choke hold on him to the point of us barely being able to see each other. Maybe a love spell for her? I don't want to harm her in any way, only good things but I do want some relief from all these women.

3) As we are getting married, I planned a wedding blessing vigil candle, as well as washing in the bath...maybe doing a peaceful home spell kit also? Additionally, I have been doing two honey jars for him and the daughter...Is there anything else that I can do to totally bond us together forever? I am getting married the night of a new moon...as well as having it charted for time and date. I just really want a strong healthy marriage this time and don't want to leave anything to chance.

thanks for any advice my friends.
regards,
charming.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:03 pm

Why is the ex-wife getting child support if the daughter does not live with her? Your fiance needs to see an attorney. Maybe he can get the alimony reduced too. I recommend Court Case to get the judge on his side.

Unread post by **charmingstew** » Thu Apr 04, 2013 8:41 am

He would have no problem getting it reduced but because he is so beat down he doesn't even want to rock the boat. That is part of the problem, he need to have some clarity to what he is doing with all of this, how badly he is being used. He works extra hours to pay her,,,he is hoping that if we procrastinate long enough we can just move away and hide from her. I am not the hiding type...lol. I don't think we will ever be rid of her till boundaries are set.

Unread post by **charmingstew** » Sat Apr 06, 2013 8:54 am

Sadly my fiancee has some sort of spell cast on him by his ex which I haven't been able to figure out how to reverse. I worked in law for years and I know is has a completely grand slam case, however, it is paralized by the women in his life with the exception of me.

Indigovision · Unread post by **Indigovision** » Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:24 pm

Hey Oz,

The only thing I could think of when I had to decide where to keep my supplies was to use a large makeup case that locks. I have used birthday candles in place or others just to save space. You can also put the case in a cardboard box or large bag. This could help keep things tucked away. A little inconvieniant, but it can keep others out of your things.

gettotheroot · Unread post by **gettotheroot** » Wed Jun 12, 2013 11:18 pm

Hello All. Without boring you with the specifics, I just wanted to ask is there is a spell that I can put on a gift to give to my half sister.

To make a long story short, I don't really get along with my dad's side of the family for various reasons, and my stepmother has been trying to block my relationship with my half sister.

At first I was just going to wash my hands to everyone, but then I started thinking about my sister who is now pregnant (she is younger than me). I want to be there for her and the baby. I was going to mail her a baby gift, but then take an opportunity to slip a gift for her....is there any good gift I can send her so that we can get closer without the influence of outside people (particularly her mother) trying to break us apart? Maybe for the baby too so me and my nephew could be close in the future?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you all in advance.

2sweetgirls · Unread post by **2sweetgirls** » Wed Aug 14, 2013 12:03 pm

gettotheroot wrote:Hello All. Without boring you with the specifics, I just wanted to ask is there is a spell that I can put on a gift to give to my half sister.

To make a long story short, I don't really get along with my dad's side of the family for various reasons, and my stepmother has been trying to block my relationship with my half sister.

At first I was just going to wash my hands to everyone, but then I started thinking about my sister who is now pregnant (she is younger than me). I want to be there for her and the baby. I was going to mail her a baby gift, but then take an opportunity to slip a gift for her....is there any good gift I can send her so that we can get closer without the influence of outside people (particularly her mother) trying to break us apart? Maybe for the baby too so me and my nephew could be close in the future?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you all in advance.

Not sure if anyone answered you ghettotheroot, but some of the honey jar suggestions from the above posters are really good. The honey jar will sweeten your half sister to you without her mother's influence. Madame Pamita (member of AIRR) has a YouTube channel where she talks and shows you how to use sachet powders (sneaky). You could always buy your sister a gift, sprinkle with the corresponding sachet powder and mail it off to her. Check out the video. Its very informative. I have several sachet powders and didn't really know HOW to use them but this video explains allot.

financialsuccess2013 · Unread post by **financialsuccess2013** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 9:43 am

Greetings All

I want to do a honey jar for my boyfriend and my children. My boyfriend has an good relationship with my kids but I want it to be better, I want him to love them like they were his own children and I'd like for him to treat them better than he would his own children (he doesn't have any children of his own). I want him to put more of an effort forth to have a relationship with my children outside of me and his relationship. I really want him to think of them and do for them like they are his children.

What should I put in the honey jar to make this happen?

Is there any other spells, like candle spells to help this happen sooner?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Oct 26, 2013 7:48 pm

Good Evening, FinancialSuccess2013,
For the honey jar ideas, you might want to check out all the posts on this thread: honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html
For other spells, there's an array of wonderful spells on this page: www.luckymojo.com/spells.html
Check them out.
Then, if you have any questions, we are all here for you.
Hope this helps.
Take care

reynab10 · Unread post by **reynab10** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:34 am

My boyfriend got a promotion in Florida and we are expecting our first child together, due to his new promotion we have to move. My 14 year old daughter say's she doesn't want to move b/c her dad said "he doesn't think it's a good idea". She's a daddy's girl and listens to him, even thou I have primary custody of her and am able to move with her anywhere in the USA. She's at that age in which can decided to whom to live with and she knows it b/c her dad told her so.

My ex-husband is very liberal way of thinking; uses drugs in a daily basis and has gambling problem that's the reason why I got primary custody of my daughter.

I just can see myself with my new baby and not having my beautiful baby girl with me

. I would like to know if I should make a sugar jar or honey jar on her to sweeten and compel her to move (She's very stubborn and strong will) if so what items should I include in the jar? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 12:28 pm

I would in a honey jar include some Blood root (to strengthen blood ties and family ties) and some Calamus to influence her. You're her mother, you're the boss. Remember that. i would also get some Influence and Peaceful Home bath crytals and add them to your daughter's shampoo and/or body wash. Pray that she will be influenced to obey and come with you.

I'd also do some work on yourself to promote your confidence and authority. Use Power products and Crucible of Courage on yourself. Project that to your daughter and she will be more inclined to obey. Make sure you try and get your ex on your side; get a lawyer involved if you have to.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 27, 2013 8:59 pm

reynab10,

I agree with the above suggestion, sort of.

First, i would use a sugar jar, not a honey jar. Second, i would use the sugar from the sugar jar in cooking for the family, to sweeten her to you, her step-dad, and the baby-on-the-way. Replace the sugar and pray Psalms 133 over it as you do so. Remember, when you make a sugar jar like this, you can only put edible herbs in it. You don't need to put herbs in, unless you want to, and the herbs are generally kept in a paper packet wrapped up at the bottom of the jar, with the names and photos and any personal concerns, such as a baby tooth or fingernail clipping. These items are not loose or touching the sugar. They are wrapped in your petition paper, which is tucked shut or tied shut with thread, like a little package.

You can burn small candles on the sugar jar, dressed with Peaceful Hoe, Clarity, and House Blessing oils. Your original title for this thread spoke of "compelling" your daughter to follow you. That is NOT the function of a sweet jar. Its one and only function is to sweeten people's natures.

There are other ways to compel someone to follow and stay with you, but a sugar or honey jar is not among them.

I would start with the sweet jar and proceed from there to compelling only if you need to.

Seeking family mediation counselling may help too.

Finally, i suggest you read through the long thread on custody cases in the court and legal section of the forum. It is here:

Spells for Child Custody Child Support Court Case
spells-for-child-custody-child-support- ... 21932.html

Good luck.

reynab10 · Unread post by **reynab10** » Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:31 am

Thank you both for the wonderful insight.

Unread post by **yhall1964** » Thu Dec 05, 2013 5:50 pm

I need some help to mend a relationship. My boyfriend and son got into a terrible argument the other night. My boyfriend is well over it but my son is clearly not and now wants nothing to do with him. He says he has no use for him and now says he is not coming for christmas. This will be a first for me because my family has all been together every year. That means i dont get to be with my granddaughter for christmas. I am so so upset. What can i do to fix this and make them clear the air. All help is appteciated.

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:02 am

Hi yhall1964,

Peace water and a peaceful home honey jar spell kit might well help tip the scales combined with some Vigil lights for Healing set on your son and Peaceful Home for the whole family's interaction. Here are links to those:

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar: ''Peaceful Home & Family, CALM DOWN RELATIVES Honey Jar Mini Hoodoo Spell Kit''
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... racle.html
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... ation.html
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... -home.html

I've also merged your post into the existing thread on repairing family bonds where you may also find some other ideas to help with your situation.

Blessing and may you see your grand-daughter at Christmas.

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:26 pm

Ah, the holidays.

My partner of 17 years does not come up to my family's home (even though she has in the past, everyone knows each other and is usually on good terms) because a couple years ago when she was up for Christmas, my brother made a remark about her being an alcoholic, when she was going for another drink. she is not, but both she and her stepbrother have had to work exceptionally hard at it, due to the fact that their parents (in both families) are/were and she and her step-b had long difficult childhoods because of it. I don't believe my brother meant anything mean by it, he just didn't know better, since our family does NOT have alcoholism or other addiction running through it. So it's basically down to she's really insulted and hurt, and he doesn't think he owes her an apology to keep the peace because he wasn't serious. I have asked my mom for help on this (my mom and my partner get along very well) but she has taken my brother's side, since she thinks my partner shouldn't be so serious about it -- again, MY family has no idea what the turmoil of my partner's family has been.

So, here I am. I'm refereeing this and getting pissed off about it. I want my brother to understand that he DOES have to apologize, because it's the recipient's perception that drives the issue here. It's a simple thing, and the fact that he hasn't done it and doesn't even consider it something he has to think about, is really irritating me. My mom is getting older and soon my brother and I will have to trust and work together. I have always trusted him before, but I see things in a different light now that he simply doesn't apologize. I am going to be marrying my partner next year, and I am not willing to have this rift continue in an otherwise happy situation.

I am alternatively wanting to compel/command and/or do sweetening work. I am past the point of sweetening really, right now, since in two years trying to be nice and explain the situation has completely not worked. Now I want to command action more. This weekend I will be at my mom's and my brother will be there (and my partner will not). I need this rectified.

I am a graduate of of the HRCC. I have controlling, influence, do as I say, essence of bend-over, as well as lucky products (I can you can't, fast luck, master key, crown of success, etc.). I'm up in NorCal but doubt I'll be able to get to the LM store before our weekend. As I say I would do a sweetening spell but I really need sterner action and "I'm serious" feeling here.

I don't know if I'll be able to get a reading prior to the weekend, so any assistance would be gratefully appreciated!

Mary Thomson
Graduate #1398

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Dec 17, 2013 5:06 am

Hi Mary,

How about an Influence honey jar. It's right on the tight-rope between sterner work and sweetening work: http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... uence.html

In addition, working a white Skull candle on your brother can help your point of view sink into his thick skull (pardon the pun...). Dress the candle with influence and compelling oils and burn tobacco in your incense mixture: http://www.herb-magic.com/tobacco.html

To both spells you can add some blood-root which is really effective when working on family members, particularly for issues of respect: http://www.herb-magic.com/blood-root.html

For yourself, a mojo with Master root, master of the woods and deer's tongue dressed in a combination of Mercury and Power oils can help you have the charisma, words and arguments necessary to help your brother understand your case. (And hey, it's a great combination for your own personal power and eloquence regardless of the rest!)

Blessings and success.

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Wed Dec 18, 2013 12:11 am

Thank you so much Aura. I think I will let sleeping dogs lie this weekend since I don't have all those products and all of your suggestions are great. I want to do it right. Also I have had some money success this week so far and want to take a break and just get through Christmas. But I am going to be on the lookout for hair personal concerns while I have the opportunity!

Mary

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Tue Dec 24, 2013 1:26 am

Update: Actually things worked out great. I actually wore Influence oil as a perfume scent during our family gathering, and at an appropriate point when I was alone with my brother, I simply explained again the issue. He apologized to my partner on the phone right then an there. Sometimes the road is much easier than imagined!
Mary

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:53 am

That's amazing Mary! Congratulations on the good work - the Influence oil was a great choice

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Tue Dec 24, 2013 5:31 am

I am trying to rebuild my family. My family is latino with very head strong, stubborn, men. There mind set are men rule, woman are beneath them, woman are to be seen not heard just good enough to cook, clean etc- very old school thinking. I have a blended family- my daughter and I, my boyfriend and we have 4 boys so the Testosterone level in my house is very high. I have lost control of my house and of the men. I need to gain back control, power, respect, communication, healing, the bond, peace, and love in my house and family. Im going to set vigils, but figured honey jars long term would probally work best. But how many? Do I do one for control/respect, and one for peace, love,healing or can I blend it all into one? Oh, and kids range from 5 years old to 21 years old.

Herbs I have that can work are blood root, rosemary, angelica root, master root,calamus,licorice, master of the woods, basil, balm of gilead beads, borage flowers, goldenseal, flaxseed, devil shoe string, cloves, fennel seed, deers tongue, hyssop, lavender, marjoram, motherwart, mint, passion flower, pennyroyal, pine needles, sage, slippery elm, solomons seal, salt

sampson snake root and High john the conqueror root both seem to have more masculine energy to it, so is it ok to add or should i look for herbs with more feminine energy since I'm trying to cut down on the testoserone level at home?

I have a good variety of LM oils, but for what I'm trying to achieve above I'm missing some so Im going to order some if I can get some recommendations on what would work best. I do have command, compel, essence bend over, peaceful home, healing, reconcilation, domination, attraction oils at home

Need to order oils which should I get-
Crown of success, crucible of courage, king solomon, master oil, power, van van

Thank you so much for the help

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Dec 24, 2013 6:28 am

Hi Littlestar,

I would do a single honeyjar for respect and peace in the family, including all members within it. You pretty much have all the herbs that you need. Those best suited to your situation would be a combination of blood root, rosemary, angelica, borage, pennyroyal and basil. For the reasons you yourself have mentioned, I'd keep the samspson snake root and High John out of the honey jar although you could keep a High John and/or Master root on you as a pocket piece(s) to help increase your own personal power and mastery over the situation.

Peaceful Home oil would be a good one to use to anoint the candles right now. Also consider adding Influence and King Solomon Wisdom to the mix once you have a chance to order them.

Another trick you can work would be to make a tea from a few blood root chips, a handful of rosemary and a handful of motherwort. Add some of the tea (you don't need to add much) to the bathing water for the children as well as to the wash water for their bedrooms and bed-clothes.

anita2479 · Unread post by **anita2479** » Thu Jan 02, 2014 2:09 pm

Hello,

Please can someone help me, I have a brother who really was the life & soul of my family,he loved my parents & worshipped the ground I walked on as his older sister but last year he dramitically changed for the worse. He hasnt spoken to me for a year & fights with everyone, its almost like someone has done black magic on him & our family. Its like there is evil inside him & I just dont know what to do? The family are always arguing & we tip toe around him incase he looses his temper, we know something is seriously wrong.
How can I make him better & have that family that once use to laugh back again?

Thankyou

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Jan 02, 2014 4:58 pm

Hello anita:

I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. You should get a reading from a qualified rootworker to determine if someone has done work on your brother. He should also see a doctor to rule out anything physical or psychological.

Check out the rootworkers at http://readersandrootworkers.org. They are all ethical and reputable workers who can help you.

Peace,
Mary Bee

allthngsntrl · Unread post by **allthngsntrl** » Sun Feb 09, 2014 4:40 pm

I am looking for work that can resolve some issues that have arisen between my boyfriend and kids. I need to bring peace and friendship back between them. My boyfriend is much younger than me and had made some bad decisions in the last couple years. He has made a drastic turn around but there is a lot of anger and hatred brewed against him by my kids. I just want them to see him for the changes he has made and forgive him and move forward.